I always tell tinder woman my low paying job, if they want to see me again and I'm not interested. They go away instantly. Even a girl I dated 2 years broke up with me before I quit my good job because I told her ibhad to quit soon. Even the HK girls don't bother begging for sex when they hear what I do during our drink. As far as this guy goes, I would tell her "this isn't working for me anymore good luck". Ghosting is rude.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
One must agree to settle without the services of a lawyer. That's the only amicable way of ending male / female relationships.
I'm in the club right now. Thought there would be more people. Seems like a typical Monday. At least they have a decent selection of chicks. I'll be here for a while, in the area anyway if anyone else is around.
As far as not talking to a chick anymore you got to do it cold turkey with a bar girl. She'll be mad at you for a bit but she'll get over it. Just got to pass the first couple times of awkwardness when you see her working.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
She is a hk girl. Stop there. She is prostitute, which means leave her if you are not interested anymore. You owe her nothing.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
This is a monger board, not Loveline with Dr. Drew Pinsky.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
The deeper question is why does she think that? What actions on your part contributed to this? How can you change so as not to wind up in a similar situation in the future?
Next time you go in and she expects to sit with you tell her you'd like to sit alone for a while. Find another girl to sit with you for a few drinks. Make sure girl 1 sees you go upstairs with girl 2. Done, easy, works everytime. I'm so picky that when I find one I stick with her for a while but when I get bored with them it's never an issue past the first night. Longest was a girl on day shift when they used to wear the edecan sashes. I saw her for probably a year exclusively.
I'm not a fan of ghosting, I think it's chicken shit so I'll either tell them up front or show them through actions; depends on how much I like (d) them. These are still people regardless of where they work and if I know there's a mental connection it's the least I can do. I wouldn't want to be ghosted so I don't do it to anybody.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
You are a grown man (I hope) and you just answered your own question. Do not take what I'm about to say the wrong way. Just block her and move on. It's only about money. Your not special. Your giving this situation too much thought and value.
I have this HK girl that is seriously getting too needy and thinks I'm going to be her lifelong family provider and step dad to her kids for some reason. What's the best way to end it with this chica. Just block her # and go ice cold ghost on her or risk an awkard separation text conversation by saying you want to end it via text messages (obviously won't go well). What is everyone's thoughts.
Why do you think no girl asked you for sex? I'm genuinely curious and interested. My experience has been so different in that I get pretty much non-stop accosted by chicas and your money is the same color as mine.
They probably don't ask me for sex because I'm in hk so much I don't look like the other guys. Especially on Friday or sat night. Those nights the LOS Angeles guys are in town, and have that super thrilled party hard smiling, throwing singles at everyone look. While I basically sit there and watch tip a little, and give it 35 minutes to see if I can find a girl that convinces me I need to buy her a ficha. I don't even have the $ on me most of the time to pay the $130 for upstairs. When the girls would go for 60,70 I was ok with having the hotel, but I don't use the hotel anymore since I'm never gonna pay the going rate anyway.
I have lots of photos I could post from back in the day when HKTJ used to have that midget photographer. And more pics from from Chicago club. I have lost their IG accounts and phone numbers because there were far too many, some were written on napkins (old school) and some I was too stupid / spoiled to be paying attention I am going to visit HKTJ in 2 weeks and I am promising myself to be wiser about saving this info. Which I am still working on. LOL.
Do you remember the name of the Cazzie girl and where she was from? I did a chica who looks like that named Sarah from Guadalajara a week ago ago.
I'm kicking myself for not remembering her name but it was something simple / common, much like Sarah but it wasn’t Sarah. I would have remembered that because of the Sarah’s I already know. She wasn't from Guadalajara though, she said she was a Tijuana native, so don't think it was the same girl. If I end up going tonight I will talk to her again.
Late report, made a trip down to the zona Thursday night. The place was packed. My newest HK favorite had worked the day shift so I was on the hunt for something new. Was looking for a couple girls in particular but never ended up finding them on this night unfortunately. Early on a new girl stuck out to me because she was a dead ringer for Cazzie David (picture attached). On top of that she was having a drink with a middle aged Mexican guy and she was being super affectionate, practically all over him. Tried to also remember what she had on so I could talk to her later. Made my rounds to scope out the talent. Also made quick visits to Chicago and Adelitas. Saw one of my recent favorites was working at Adelitas but since I was in the mood for new pussy I tried to avoid her hoping she didn't notice I was in the area without letting her know. Went back to HK and the Cazzie girl was with another guy. He looked kind of Arabic about mid 20's and he wouldn't let her go. He was buying her ficha after ficha, using google translate to communicate. Decided to check out the street scene, didn't see anything interesting. Ate a couple tacos and went back to HK. Spotted the girl solo finally. I approached her and she was very warm and sweet. She asked if I would buy her a drink so said sure why not. She said she was 20 years old and working in Tropical for a couple weeks doing very well and then they basically forced her to go work at Hong Kong instead. She started grinding on me and making out a little bit. Quoted me 100 for arriba. I countered with 80 but she would not budge. I told her since they jacked up the price to 30 bucks for the room I don't pay 100 anymore. She made a sad face and said she would get in trouble if she accepted anything less than 100. I call BS but whatever, wasn't going to argue with her. I told her that was too bad and that I would catch her next time and she said ok.
Texted my Adelitas girl and told her I "thought" I had seen her earlier but wasn't sure and asked if she was there. She said yes and to come over so I did. Figured I would go the safe route with a sure shot great session rather than something new instead.
Might head back Sunday night depending on how my day goes.
Do you remember the name of the Cazzie girl and where she was from? I did a chica who looks like that named Sarah from Guadalajara a week ago ago.