Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[PedroMorales]

Guys,The best I can suggest to anyone with concerns that they may be blacklisted would be to befriend one of the PL, FC etc heavy users and ask her to find out.

1. Any such groups would use a lot of tagalog and skank slang. I couldn't see them having a dedicated and active group like this. Word of mouth would be the way to go. Once, in an internet cafe in Pattaya (where I picked up one of the staff), I listened to two of them fill in their profiles. Say student as profession said one hooker to the other. In a casino of working girls,. There is no need to go further than that to get the appropriate advice. Many of them would be chatting away in cafes all day long and getting advice there. That said, the pointers were good as a general overview of hooker strategy.

2. I am chatting with a dominatrix or at least she dresses and acts as one. I figure she could be a mama san or some such but she gives very little away. I have arranged to meet her in an open venue but I am unsure about being chained down or whatever so her pals can rob / blackmail me. She is different from the others I chat with who pretend to be up for anything. This one dictates the pace and is hard to read.

Assuming she is a skank / mamasan, she could be playing the long game, aiming for quality over quantity. She is ever only online from about 2 am to 4.30 am Manila time.

[Goferring]

Same here, can you publish those fb pages, one of the girls who broke with me, because I didn't send her enough told me she will make sure I don't have other pinay GF in the future.

I wonder who started the group?

Guys,

No go. She's not giving me names or access to the groups, only saying that there are multiple Groups across the various apps.

Sounds like access is fairly heavily restricted.

The best I can suggest to anyone with concerns that they may be blacklisted would be to befriend one of the PL, FC etc heavy users and ask her to find out.

[Mr Enternational]

But another likely scenario here is that the younger woman is not her daughter.

Exactly. Let's not lose sight of how loosely these terms are used in SE Asia. In PI if you are relatively the same age then you are known as kuya (brother). The flower girls in AC are always running up calling guys brother when they are trying to sell to them. If you are an older gentleman then you are known as tatay (father). That is not to say you are the persons actual blood relative.

[Soapy Smith]

36-18=18. Very even that. So she pimps her own daughter at the drop of a hat,.

Two generations giving birth 18 years apart are not at all uncommon in the Phils. When a woman gives birth at age 18, or younger, it sends a message to her daughters about what is acceptable. The children of poor families have a lot of spare time, parents often away from home trying to earn money, and no money to spend on entertainment that costs money. Sex, especially when no adults are around to supervise, is free entertainment (but only in the short term), feels good for a few seconds, and makes young women feel appreciated from the short-term attention they get from male partners. Teenage pregnancies in Philippine slums are very, very common.

But another likely scenario here is that the younger woman is not her daughter. A 36-year old woman who sells herself for sex would be at least equally as willing to get a commission for pimping another younger woman. If she says the "daughter" is 18, it is just as likely that the younger woman is more than 18, but that this woman knows that "18" is a very tempting prompt for us older lechers. Women in this mindset quickly pick up on signs that young women give off and rumors about which ones are sexually active, and they have time on their hands to recruit a stable of pimpable neighbors. Internet access and a cellphone are all the basic technology that is needed. Sometimes the cellphone is enough, as for example, in the case of mamasans who camped out in the past on the second floor of Harrison Plaza in Manila.

[Mr Enternational]

I'd be very interested in getting access to those FB pages if possible. It would be interesting to see if I am mentioned there.

I am sure they are private/secret groups. No administrator is going let someone unknown into it. Or at least that is how the ones that I am a part of work.

[Member #1088]

I'd be very interested in getting access to those FB pages if possible. It would be interesting to see if I am mentioned there.

Same here, can you publish those fb pages, one of the girls who broke with me, because I didn't send her enough told me she will make sure I don't have other pinay GF in the future.

I wonder who started the group?

[Member #1088]

As long as she is 18+ all is OK and that is not surprising to me. Has happened to me a few times and I have had some lovely mother daughter threesomes as a result. Well that is my kind of entertainment LOL and I am always a gentleman so I never refuse a mothers request (as long as the daughter is cute and the mother not a fugly).

Agreed, just be careful about the age. I never have 3 some mom / daughter, but I did have a niece being offered by her auntie when I told her I was looking for younger.

Very nice cam action, couldn't follow up in person due to schedule conflicts this year.

[Ccu2401]

I've had this desire for quite sometime. To setup a group fun - 4 guys and 4 girls. Find 4 cute girls that love and do about anything. Then have a week of fun, clubbing, beach, pool and of course a lot of sex.

Well I've got the girls lined up. And I know the location. The date is somewhat flexible. April or May.

Now I need a couple of guys that want to participate. I'm going to be very selective. Because I've set this up with the girls that we are all old friends. With an age range of 38-42 - just need to appear to be that old. I'm older than 42 but I look younger.

About the girls (they will all be on birth control. Still working on a way to confirm this! Hahaha).

1. 2 sisters from CDO - 4'8 that love to fuck, suck and swallow, 3 somes (ages 26 and 20 years old).

2. 4'11 girl from manila. Loves big dicks, swallows, likes 3 somes and toys (24 years old).

3. 5'3 girl from Makati loves sex. Has a fantasy for first 3 some (23 years old).

4. I have some backup girls in case some drop out. But I want at least 4 girls there.

Guys:

Any of the gents that get selected will have to help defray some of the costs. But I'm trying to keep the expenses manageable.

I'll go over the responsibilities for the guys individually with each guy that wants to participate.

I have already setup a skype site for the ladies and the men that get selected. And I will conduct on camera interviews.

If you respond. All my contacts with you will be private and confidential.

Ok let the fun begin!

There will be no drugs! No videos or pictures of others unless they consent. This is not a porn Movie!

[Goferring]

Interesting FR G. But the bit about being honest in PI is new to me LOL. We are not tempted they tempt us as we are old boring men with no clue what is being done to us LOL.

Is why many pinays want to be overseas so the hubby can't be tempted. I know a few living in the Visayas and are regularly tempted or distracted by cuties. But of course they never indulge as good married men LOL.

Roger,

All her words rather than mine. So take it all with some scepticism.

I'd expect the tables to turn 180 degrees once she got to suburbia and word got out what her particular skill set is. Hubby may be under control but there would be no way of keeping her honest. LOL.

Keep an eye out for my final FR once I finish in Subic. She features prominently and accepts training well. Let me know if you get to Subic and would like to continue her educational experience. LOL.

[Wicked Roger]

I'm currently in Subic having a lot of good fortune with PinaLove and FilippinoCupid.

Her ultimate aim is to marry a Caucasian and relocate overseas. She finds it impossible to keep a foreign BF honest in PI due to the ready availability of temptation.

G.

Interesting FR G. But the bit about being honest in PI is new to me LOL. We are not tempted they tempt us as we are old boring men with no clue what is being done to us LOL.

Is why many pinays want to be overseas so the hubby can't be tempted. I know a few living in the Visayas and are regularly tempted or distracted by cuties. But of course they never indulge as good married men LOL.

[Kabul Guy]

I'm currently in Subic having a lot of good fortune with PinaLove and FilippinoCupid.....


She is a member of several WA / FB groups of girls who compare notes on guys in the Apps and idiots are regularly blackballed by these groups.

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I'd be very interested in getting access to those FB pages if possible. It would be interesting to see if I am mentioned there.

[Goferring]

I'm currently in Subic having a lot of good fortune with PinaLove and FilippinoCupid.

I questioned a PL girl about how she uses the dating software, her impressions of the guys she comes across and what she found as a turn off / attractive when replying to messages.

For reference, she is 23, never married, no kids, nice profile pics without being a stunner, not on any "most popular" lists.

Her comments:

Receives 20 to 30 messages from new guys per day.

Currently corresponding with about 100 guys on a daily to monthly frequency.

I was the second guy she actually met (and presumably slept with) from PL this month. A third made plans to meet her while he was in Subic but stood her up and was a no show. (Her words, not mine.).

She refuses to respond to Indians and Middle Easterners due to their reputation for misrepresentations and violence / disrespect respectively.

She drops guys that will only voice chat as these are typically one of the above pretending to be from Europe or USA. She has had several voice chats with supposedly Caucasian guys with strong accents or wierd background sounds. These were all dropped immediately.

She is a member of several WA / FB groups of girls who compare notes on guys in the Apps and idiots are regularly blackballed by these groups.

She rarely initiates contact but replies to guys messages.

She is likely to respond to smartly / professionally dressed profile pics.

Guys having multiple pics is a positive.

She is unlikely to respond to overtly crude introductory messages.

She has no age preference.

She is open to hookups, incountry BF or LTR / marriage. She instantly drops one pretending to be another.

Short introductory messages indicate someone just looking for fun. She is happy to reply as everyone is aware of intentions.

Long introductory messages can be either someone looking for a LTR but not coming to PI for a long time or someone pretending to be sincere but will quickly request camsex or nude pics.

Being in country or even better in town virtually guarantees a response and contact details.

Her ultimate aim is to marry a Caucasian and relocate overseas. She finds it impossible to keep a foreign BF honest in PI due to the ready availability of temptation.

Girls keep chats going for months / years as it has no cost but has a slim possibility that the guy may come and marry them.

Girls may request some funds from long distance relationships. This is seen as an indication that the guy is serious and not just stringing her along.

Girls may operate a cash for service based model, charging for camsex or nudes. This is seen as purely commercial rather than an extension of dating.

The lifecycle of a contact is very predictable. One of:

1/ meet, exchange contacts possibly including 3rd party WA / FB etc, "call me when you arrive next week" within a few messages and all the same day.

2/ meet, straight to Viber / FB etc, plesentries for a few days, meaningless promises to meet when the foreigner arrives in six months. Chat continues just in case money or visit may follow.

3/ meet, straight to Viber / FB etc, being nice for 2 days, "show me your pussy" on cam or nude photos.

[BrainDrain]

Good advice. Insist the youngster bring a valid ID (Voter's ID, Social Security, Postal ID). Period. If she or the mother says she doesn't have one, tell them to get one before meeting, or fish elsewhere.

Elsewhere in the Cebu forum I took a girl from Alaya Mall and she did look young.

I decided to take her to a resto for a feed and an interview. In the end she had her 21 years of stories which was enough to convince me she was 21 not the 16 years she looked. Back at hotel I also checked her ID which matched her other stories.

In reflection I realised that that ID meant nothing. It could have been fake. Additionally I had no proof that I had actually seen her ID. If it had been a setup then the ID would never have been seen again. I would have needed to photograph the ID.

It really is more fun in the Philippines.

BD.

[Wicked Roger]

Yesterday I was on DIA, and this 36 years old women sent me few messages. I politely said, I am not looking for someone this older (even though I am 58 years old).

So to my surprise she tried to introduce me her 18 years old daughter, me and her daughter Skyped for Good 1 hour, and I might have her come to Makati. Has anyone experienced this before?

As long as she is 18+ all is OK and that is not surprising to me. Has happened to me a few times and I have had some lovely mother daughter threesomes as a result. Well that is my kind of entertainment LOL and I am always a gentleman so I never refuse a mothers request (as long as the daughter is cute and the mother not a fugly).

[PedroMorales]

Yesterday I was on DIA, and this 36 years old women sent me few messages. I politely said, I am not looking for someone this older (even though I am 58 years old).

So to my surprise she tried to introduce me her 18 years old daughter, me and her daughter Skyped for Good 1 hour, and I might have her come to Makati. Has anyone experienced this before?

36-18=18. Very even that. So she pimps her own daughter at the drop of a hat,. In a country where women are a dime a dozen. In England, there is a big sport trapping chappies looking for [CodeWord903] meat, posting catching them on FB and youtube and getting the cops to arrest them. There are hundreds of videos uploaded. One guy was caught by two different firms. It is quite incredible how people walk themselves into that or Nigerian scammers or whatever.

In your suggestion, I would make all sorts of lurid suggestions like 3 some and so on but I would have zero intention of meeting her of giving her or her mates a bead on me.