Dating Regular Girls

[Dizaster]

True, but the hooker doesn't want access to your phone or threaten to commit harm to herself if you want to break up. Plus interestingly hookers don't have as many dads / moms / gramps / kids / aunts / brothers / sisters / nephews / nieces / dogs / houses / neighbors / schools / horses in "big problem" all the time.

Asking for money from time to time is in their DNA, can't argue with that, its part of the whole relationship maintenance thing. I've had the "our house flooded I need to send 1000 aed ASAP" numerous times. I don't fall for it I just dump them and keep searching for the ones who wouldn't finesse me that much. I had a super genuine one and still she would ask for low amounts of 200 or 300 every 90 days or so, I didn't mind it and kept her around for some time cause pussy was worth it. A regular pinay sends home half of her salary the very same day they withdraw the money and they got to survive on the rest so its understandable at some level, the trick is to find one who is in it for the companionship and intimacy more than anything else, its hard but they are definitely out there, anyone who tells me no way you can find such girls I immediately know they haven't been around that much. I hate categorizing but my advice is to keep away from the ones who are low class / peasants aka the ones with low-wage jobs. A highly paid pinay such as nurses / radiologists / call center agents / accountants will be highly educated and would make more sense because they have different approach / perspective of what a relationship should be. Of course their standards will be higher but how high a pinay standard can go? There is around 800 k of them in this country you got to do the work. Low-upkeep promiscuous bubbly butt silky hair submissive attitude and over the top hygiene sign me up anytime LOL.

[Mdacoltpk100]

As long as they fall in the right place on the hot crazy matrix its fine. Women are very irritating creatures and its in their nature you can do nothing about that. Now what makes it fun with the pinays is their easy- to-crack collective culture / mindset and how predictable they are plus they are easy maintenance. P2P is fine with me but to be honest a pinay on the side makes life a tad easier, because they are after all genuine fucks; makes you feel less of a looser who has to pay escorts to get his dicc wet on Thursday nights.

True, but the hooker doesn't want access to your phone or threaten to commit harm to herself if you want to break up. Plus interestingly hookers don't have as many dads / moms / gramps / kids / aunts / brothers / sisters / nephews / nieces / dogs / houses / neighbors / schools / horses in "big problem" all the time.

[Plush Tiger]

Need some Guild.

I am Booking a Girl online through a Escort Agency and I don't know why they where asking a Lots of Personal Stuff. Just want to Ask if it's Normal?

Some of them avoid certain nationalities or tailor their prices according to their perceived wealth of your country. Others want to get a bit assured about whom they are talking to for their safety and avoid LE. Just as we like to make sure we are not falling in a gang of Nigerians they try to avoid robbers, I have heard that at times some folks say they are LE and try to get the cash. Some also ask you to go to a building and prove you are there by snapping it to make sure it's not going to turn into a no show. It's an asymmetric information game and both sides try to get as much as they can. But I do find it weird too.

[JeffThorsen777]

To meet a girl today is not a problem. The main desire and goal.

Once I was browsing dating sites and found a live sexy chat where I had the opportunity not only to correspond, but also to watch girls through webcams. What can I say. Life has improved. All that remains is to choose the time for dating.

[LazyAss69]

Need some Guild.

I am Booking a Girl online through a Escort Agency and I don't know why they where asking a Lots of Personal Stuff. Just want to Ask if it's Normal?

[JeffThorsen777]

To meet a girl today is not a problem. The main desire and goal.

I was in the area one night and found it was quite a lively place. There are a few pinoy restaurant and therefore quite a few pinays. There are two problems though: covid and they tend to come in group. But if you like pinays and know how to approach them, I am sure it can be a good pick up place especially on Thursday nights.

[Dizaster]

It really is not that difficult to pick up Pinays from social media. I did perfectly fine as an overweight middle aged brown guy. If you're firang and not completely dilapidated, its ridiculously easy.

The drama tho. Every single freaking one of them. From jealousy to the constant craving for attention plus some excuse to hit you up for money.

I decided it was just easier to P2P. Means a lot less anal (the one plus of a compliant Pinay) but man I don't miss the verbal diarrhea.

As long as they fall in the right place on the hot crazy matrix its fine. Women are very irritating creatures and its in their nature you can do nothing about that. Now what makes it fun with the pinays is their easy- to-crack collective culture / mindset and how predictable they are plus they are easy maintenance. P2P is fine with me but to be honest a pinay on the side makes life a tad easier, because they are after all genuine fucks; makes you feel less of a looser who has to pay escorts to get his dicc wet on Thursday nights.

[Mdacoltpk100]

We call it 'little manila', and its definitely a great place for approaching pinays. However since the Dubai dating app game is miraculously easy when it comes to Filipinas; I find the street approach game not worth it tbh.

It really is not that difficult to pick up Pinays from social media. I did perfectly fine as an overweight middle aged brown guy. If you're firang and not completely dilapidated, its ridiculously easy.

The drama tho. Every single freaking one of them. From jealousy to the constant craving for attention plus some excuse to hit you up for money.

I decided it was just easier to P2P. Means a lot less anal (the one plus of a compliant Pinay) but man I don't miss the verbal diarrhea.

[Dizaster]

We call it 'little manila', and its definitely a great place for approaching pinays. However since the Dubai dating app game is miraculously easy when it comes to Filipinas; I find the street approach game not worth it tbh.

I was in the area one night and found it was quite a lively place. There are a few pinoy restaurant and therefore quite a few pinays. There are two problems though: covid and they tend to come in group. But if you like pinays and know how to approach them, I am sure it can be a good pick up place especially on Thursday nights.

[Plush Tiger]

I was in the area one night and found it was quite a lively place. There are a few pinoy restaurant and therefore quite a few pinays. There are two problems though: covid and they tend to come in group. But if you like pinays and know how to approach them, I am sure it can be a good pick up place especially on Thursday nights.

[Dizaster]

Just out of curiosity, anybody got lucky dating a regular EE girl before? Specifically the ones from Montenegro, Slovakia, Bulgaria, Romania. Etc, there is quite a lot of them in Dubai working regular 9-5 jobs, lower-middle-income and actually open to dating and mingling.

What they are like in dating? How is their demeanor like? Are they high maintenance? Is it possible to find one who is genuine and not 100% gold digger? Are they all smooth down there? How promiscuous are they? Do they express a desire to date outside of their race? Is it true they have a thing for middle eastern?

I've been doing the side-Pinay game for quite a while and I'm actually bored if it, they all think the same, smell the same and even moan the same; nothing challenging or exciting about dating a pinay anymore for me. And quite frankly, its embarrassing to be seen in public with them, because everyone is thinking of you as the desperate Dubai bachelor who is soliciting a pinay for cheap sex.

If anybody care to share their experience that would be helpful.

[AmRev2017]

She's been flirting with you because she sees you as a good prospect. She is not your report and true you could get her fired but you would be asked why? In this country the burden is on men to behave correctly:

https://www.khaleejtimes.com/nation/...omments-in-uae

An even more interesting story is here:

https://www.khaleejtimes.com/legalvi...n-uae-12---11-

So the power is in her favor be careful to keep your messages proving that she initiated the flirting then the table will be reversed in case should a complaint arrive.

That being said you may consult with WickedRoger who is a specialist in Filipino I think that all they want is some fun and maybe why not sex. I did get involved in a similar situation. She was from another company staffed in our building. She started throwing me some kinky looks and left her phone. I fell for it and we took ti to an hotel apartment. I treated her and even paid for her son's birthday back in Manila. Then she started to be jealous and crazy as she got moved to anther office. She would tell me not to go to the gym cause there was a yoga class with plenty of chicks in the same facility or even crazier, not to go to meetings with some of my female colleagues she knew. I cut it short as she was obviously crazy and she ended up finding a tourist that fell in love with her. So yes you have to be careful, but the main issue for me is not about ethics. The main point I disagree with Sedan Devil is that if we should relationship with a woman cause we have more power and can cause them trouble, then we should old become monks. The ill willing will always find a way to gain power over his victim in order to gain power. In my case I would avoid subordinates and the workplace in general. But contractors etc. Would be fair unless you; re the hiring manager. Most of all, don; t think of her as a defense less weak creature, actually she has less to lose than you and can extract more from you than you think. You need to gauge her intent and personality and be clear that it is a for of pay for play.

Stay safe.

Well like I said, I dropped the idea altogether. Maybe with some other Filipina I'll try my chances.

Cheers!

[AmRev2017]

I agree with SedanDevil here. Regardless she is a third party vendor or not. The situation is too close for comfort. Filipinos are a tight bunch (which is great), but they are also very chatty. She might speak about you to other colleagues in your office, which might compromise your professional credibility. I would say stay clear and cordial from now and avoid communications over WhatsApp.

I really appreciate your concerned comments about this situation.

It was back in Aug 2019, and after giving it a second thought I chose not to pursue and since then have maintained my distance.

Like you all said, it's not worth the risk.

Cheers!!

[Plush Tiger]

So, I have this Filipino girl who comes to my office every day with her food kart to sell sandwiches and juice.

She must be in the late 20's. Over the past few months, she has become quite comfortable chatting with me about things going on in her life. Long work hours, stupid and useless husband etc.

Last week, when I told her that I will be travelling to Jordan for a week, she said she wished she could come along with me. And asked me to get her a gift from my Jordan trip. All the while she addresses me as Sir. The other day, I was telling her something about her uniform (the restaurant shirt) and she said she will try to look "sexier" for me. I was a little surprised, on such a mixed-signal comment.

Later on, she sent me her pics on WhatsApp.

She's been flirting with you because she sees you as a good prospect. She is not your report and true you could get her fired but you would be asked why? In this country the burden is on men to behave correctly:

https://www.khaleejtimes.com/nation/...omments-in-uae

An even more interesting story is here:

https://www.khaleejtimes.com/legalvi...n-uae-12---11-

So the power is in her favor be careful to keep your messages proving that she initiated the flirting then the table will be reversed in case should a complaint arrive.

That being said you may consult with WickedRoger who is a specialist in Filipino I think that all they want is some fun and maybe why not sex. I did get involved in a similar situation. She was from another company staffed in our building. She started throwing me some kinky looks and left her phone. I fell for it and we took ti to an hotel apartment. I treated her and even paid for her son's birthday back in Manila. Then she started to be jealous and crazy as she got moved to anther office. She would tell me not to go to the gym cause there was a yoga class with plenty of chicks in the same facility or even crazier, not to go to meetings with some of my female colleagues she knew. I cut it short as she was obviously crazy and she ended up finding a tourist that fell in love with her. So yes you have to be careful, but the main issue for me is not about ethics. The main point I disagree with Sedan Devil is that if we should relationship with a woman cause we have more power and can cause them trouble, then we should old become monks. The ill willing will always find a way to gain power over his victim in order to gain power. In my case I would avoid subordinates and the workplace in general. But contractors etc. Would be fair unless you; re the hiring manager. Most of all, don; t think of her as a defense less weak creature, actually she has less to lose than you and can extract more from you than you think. You need to gauge her intent and personality and be clear that it is a for of pay for play.

Stay safe.

[FunTimez]

First of all let me say, Thank you for your kind advice.

I see what you are trying to say here, and I truly appreciate it. That's why we are a Band of Brothers, looking after each other.

I will tread very carefully on this piece. Just wanted to make one thing clear, she does not work in my company. She is a third party vendor who goes to different offices in my building to sell her stuff. So she is not under any "threat or force" to behave the way she does with me. I cannot influence her job in any way. And I completely agree, that would be absolutely unethical.

In my previous company, I had this Moroccan girl who wanted to make me happy by taking me out for a ride in her car (I didn't have my DL then). I went once or twice, but after that, I maintained my distance, simply because the guy she used to report to, used to report to me. So I didn't want to use my position unfairly.

Thank you once again, brother.

Cheers!!

I agree with SedanDevil here. Regardless she is a third party vendor or not. The situation is too close for comfort. Filipinos are a tight bunch (which is great), but they are also very chatty. She might speak about you to other colleagues in your office, which might compromise your professional credibility. I would say stay clear and cordial from now and avoid communications over WhatsApp.