General Reports

[Wicked Roger]

On the girls mind she is married. I double dated a previous GF from Leyte with her friend and a foreigner I would not name. Initially introduced as her husband. But the guy admitted to me that he is just a casual visitor when he can. Support? He said yes sometimes he sends money when he can. My girl said to me later that this girl has a local BF.

Moral is unless you live in Philippines with the girl it is impossible to say she is devoted to you. C.

Many I know married to pinays living ion the country sort of know the husband has a wandering eye and / or girls will at least look at the man (some being sisters, cousins etc). Not uncommon IMHO. Issue whether wife stays devoted is another matter as that can be seen as working both ways. Foreign husbands could be using Sogos to see other women so she can play away also.

Some on the the hand stick very closely to their man like a limpet as they known they will wander or to scare off potential younger girls who may want the moneypot.

[Sammon]

Yes sir. Pinays understand that.

All girls know in their heart most foreigners are butterflies with money as being the motivation. I do not believe in not compensating girls for their service with a cab fare. They may not come out and say so but they need money. Definitely they are into having a good time in association with money compensation.

But in Cebu I have met many girls who say their friend, aunt, cousin are married to a foreigner. But { marriage) is a relative word. It is very much possible the (husbands) visit them once in a while and kind of support the girl. On the girls mind she is married. I double dated a previous GF from Leyte with her friend and a foreigner I would not name. Initially introduced as her husband. But the guy admitted to me that he is just a casual visitor when he can. Support? He said yes sometimes he sends money when he can. My girl said to me later that this girl has a local BF.

Moral is unless you live in Philippines with the girl it is impossible to say she is devoted to you. Culture is there is always a party in the barangay for one reason or another. Everybody pitches in for food and drinks. No restrictions on girls and boys mingling and doing whatever. This is how most girls loose their virginity at the house because everybody is outside. Unlike in USA they have no money for the motel or back seat of the car.

I admit Philippine girls more so than any other country make you feel special and good enough to fall in love. But what they say and what they do are two different things.

[ForkTruck]

I'd agree with getting everything on the table early. It's surprising how little a difference it makes and for those that it will affect, you will find out before investing any time, money etc.

Some times you don't have to say anything eg wearing a wedding ring makes things pretty clear.

To update, my 6 pm showed up at 8:30, yes she told me ahead of time so it was OK. Great sex over 3 hours for 200 php cab fare. I told her upfront that I was checking out of my room in the morning so all was cool at the departure.

[Albert9989]

Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".

Sure, always be crystal clear on what you want and what you don't want, fo rme I say I have been married long time, divorced now and don't plan at all to marry again, simply, some says bye, mots says ok, then its clear that its just for a moment.

Now you can tell if th emoment is 1 HR or if its one night or more, just be clear, most will accept.

I never speak about money, usually there are girls not going very often with foreigners, or I think so, just let some money at the end and always ok. Up to now. And I must agree that my exp in Phil is limited up to now, but its how I will continue to proceed. I can see that many of these girls looking to marry a foreigner, are also very open to have some time spent with one, fo rmoney may be, but more for good time, not sure they can easily have sex in other ways so they like and when they start this way. They are very good at it, sex being their goal more than money.

[Goferring]

Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".

I'd agree with getting everything on the table early. It's surprising how little a difference it makes and for those that it will affect, you will find out before investing any time, money etc.

Some times you don't have to say anything eg wearing a wedding ring makes things pretty clear.

[Dg8787]

What is a butterfly? Flying from flower to flower I guess. I do like a variety of flowers.

Yes sir. Pinays understand that.

[ForkTruck]

Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".

What is a butterfly? Flying from flower to flower I guess. I do like a variety of flowers.

[Dg8787]

I made a date with a 26 year old from DIA. Her picture was Wow. I made the mistake during chatting and texting of over promising a BF GF experience and she is looking for serious so I was playing into what she wanted. She came to my hotel in the morning in mandaue city and unfortunately was about 15 kgs heavier than her pics but still very attractive. After talking a bit and slowly getting her clothes off be see she was shy she gave me a very good BJ and was a wild woman in bed, no condom cip. I have had vasectomy so no preg worries although she was concerned but not enough to insist on condom. After sex we had lunch in hotel I slipped her 1200 php and I told her she could not stay any longer. I had a 6 pm date with another girl lined up but of course did not tell her that, Just told her she had to leave be see I was tired. Well, she took the news very badly be see she was planning to sleep in the hotel with me. She was honestly distraught saying she had no place to stay be see she had a run in at cousins house that morning with landlord. So I broke down and gave her 1000 more, that did not make everything Ok but helped some I guess, she took it and said thanks. At least I felt less of a heel. She hung around the room for 2 more hours before I finally crow-bared her out of there. Moral of the story for me is to not over sell a serious relationship when I had no intention of keeping her. I am not sure how to walk the line between hiring a girl knowing upfront it's a business deal and finding a nice dating site girl but not insulting her by offering money up front but at the same time making sure she knows its just for fun. Guess I will have to work on that.

Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".

[ForkTruck]

I made a date with a 26 year old from DIA. Her picture was Wow. I made the mistake during chatting and texting of over promising a BF GF experience and she is looking for serious so I was playing into what she wanted. She came to my hotel in the morning in mandaue city and unfortunately was about 15 kgs heavier than her pics but still very attractive. After talking a bit and slowly getting her clothes off be see she was shy she gave me a very good BJ and was a wild woman in bed, no condom cip. I have had vasectomy so no preg worries although she was concerned but not enough to insist on condom. After sex we had lunch in hotel I slipped her 1200 php and I told her she could not stay any longer. I had a 6 pm date with another girl lined up but of course did not tell her that, Just told her she had to leave be see I was tired. Well, she took the news very badly be see she was planning to sleep in the hotel with me. She was honestly distraught saying she had no place to stay be see she had a run in at cousins house that morning with landlord. So I broke down and gave her 1000 more, that did not make everything Ok but helped some I guess, she took it and said thanks. At least I felt less of a heel. She hung around the room for 2 more hours before I finally crow-bared her out of there. Moral of the story for me is to not over sell a serious relationship when I had no intention of keeping her. I am not sure how to walk the line between hiring a girl knowing upfront it's a business deal and finding a nice dating site girl but not insulting her by offering money up front but at the same time making sure she knows its just for fun. Guess I will have to work on that.

[Wicked Roger]

Hey Goferring,

Me too! I am an old member.

DG you member is old also LOL Next in Cebu PM me my friend this is the type you like I know.

[Goferring]

Hey Goferring,

Me too! I am an old member.

Gator, no problems but you can't receive PMs (messages) until you have a subscription and I can't post contact details in the open forum.

DG and Gator.

She is very unsophisticated so does not plan ahead for next week or month. No offence intended but it's best to make contact when you are physically in cebu, then she can discuss what to do tomorrow.

Send me a PM when you are in Cebu and I'm sure we can work something out.

Cheers, G.

[Dg8787]

Hey Goferring,

I'm new to this site and not familiar with all of the rule, I will probably get a membership here a little closer to my trip. I'm visiting the Philippines closer to summer time and this girl sounds like someone I'd want to connect with.

Hey Goferring,

Me too! I am an old member.

[GatorGator]

Ok, so I made contact with Ms 19 as referred by another member. Yesterday, we agreed that I would send her the fare and she would ferry / van in from San Carlos. Note I was happy to do this based on the recommendation of a trusted member. Normally I would never send cash to an unknown girl. She confirmed that ferries departed pretty much every hour but were quite full.

On the day of departure, the 5 pm ferry was full so she left an hour late which was no concern. During this whole process she was sending numerous messages and photos to show that she was actually buying tickets and getting on board so I wasn't at all concerned that my money had disappeared. She was new to the big city, got lost at the cebu bus terminal but finally made it to my condo shortly before 11 pm..

Hey Goferring,

I'm new to this site and not familiar with all of the rule, I will probably get a membership here a little closer to my trip. I'm visiting the Philippines closer to summer time and this girl sounds like someone I'd want to connect with.

[Wicked Roger]

I know already that being in a hotel out on the island is a very long way from Mango area. So what might I find? Where might I look? There are seaport terminals so sailors must find something! Thanks!

Plenty hotels there depends on budget. Mactan to Cebu is messy and I would not bother to do it less you have to. Plenty girl in Mactan so search for that or Lapu Lapu. If you want to play Mango stay Ayala or Mango not MActan IMHO. I have driven from Ayala (Luzon Ave) to Crimson Resort on a Friday afternoon. 2 hours later I got there! The way back was faster as late at night. Same for Shangri La.

Best stick to one area and party as you can spend hours stuck in traffic or the girl can.

[Mr More]

I know already that being in a hotel out on the island is a very long way from Mango area. So what might I find? Where might I look? There are seaport terminals so sailors must find something! Thanks!