Pattaya Reports

[Nixonbd]

At the risk of proving I am hopeless, I would like to pose a question. * I think I know most of what the responses will be, but who knows, maybe something different will come up that I had not thought of.

I have made 5 trips to Patts this year, so have a reasonable idea of the lay of the land. * By no means an "expert". * At this point in my existence I am well passed how many ST's can I accomplish in a single day. * My desire is to find a "girlfriend" for a few hours. * I am interested is something that would include her getting reasonably dressed up, out for drinks / dinner maybe finding a place for some music or an upscale lounge afterwards, then finish the evening with an hour or two of adult playtime in my hotel. * I prefer not to have overnights since I get up early and also do not intend to stay out late (1:00-2:00 am).

Yes, I understand this is a "dream arrangement" and not likely to come to fruition, but IMHO it is worth a bit of effort to pursue. * I will give my ideas of how to maximize the chances of a non-resident achieving the goal and anyone is encouraged to offer opinions or something I had not thought of to increase the odds of success..

That's a kind of relationship you need to cultivate over time. Undoubtedly, you'll not find it from a bargirl. The difficulty is that you risk finding what you want on a TF response, but the girl turns out to be a total dud. For most Pattaya girls, it's all about the money. My advice is to just stick to ST and keep your losses to a minimum.

[Explorer8939]

You wonder why I rant about sponsors?

I posted about a bargirl who sponsor had a moment of lucidity and realized that she only loved him for his money. So, he cut her off. The first thing she did was to ask me for a "date".

But then, he sunk back into loneliness and sent her some money. So, she was a no-show for our "date". No message with an excuse, she just ghosted me.

Of course, that takes her out of my rotation, so the next time he cuts her off, she is out of luck.

[Expat American]

At the risk of proving I am hopeless, I would like to pose a question. * I think I know most of what the responses will be, but who knows, maybe something different will come up that I had not thought of.



Sky.

What you are seeking used to be very easy to find. I have had it happen several times in Bangkok and Pattaya where I met a girl and clicked and spent lots of time together with amazing sex on top. But now the whole scene is too commercial. Short time, quick money. The girls are not looking for a foreign knight in shining armor any more. I think Pattaya is too much of a sex destination and every visitor is labeled (rightly so) as a sex tourist. You are likely to have better luck in Bangkok. But overall lack of English will continue to be an issue. In that regards Philippines is a better bet.

[MartinFlevo]

Sorry about the asterisks, no idea why they appeared.

Short version. You look for a real GFE experience. Would probably qualify as longtime because you want to spend more hours.

This is possible however a bit hard and nobody would be able to give you a straight answer (visit girl x) because it seems chemistry between you and the lady is ALSO important.

Your best bets are TF (but as you said a lot just look for ST) or a working chick. My advise would be to ignore massage ladies (probably most are too old for you) and I would also avoid soi6.

Because you want someone who can holds a conversation it means she needs to speak English at a decent level. Well. That probably means she's working in Pattaya long time or have some higher education?

Maybe try a normal shop if you see someone who you like there?

[SubCmdr]

I use TF a LOT when in town, usually starting a few days before I arrive. * I have found that many if not most ladies are really focused on ST only and are not really interested in an arrangement for the evening. * Also, not sure that a lot of them have the conversation skills to make it worth the effort, no matter how hot they may be. * I usually target 23-32 yr olds in my search, but am open to suggestions. * I tend to enjoy the 28-35 age range as I have found they have a bit more appreciation when a gentleman treats them well, and are better skilled in the art of pleasing a man.

Brother just ask for what you want on TF. I have no problem finding girls that want to go out. But I ask them if they are interested in more than just a ST customer. To achieve what you want you may need to have a meet and greet to check compatibility before. You can make it strictly platonic and pay for their taxi and coffee, tea or drinks. Or you can do like I do and tell them they are going to have to talk with me an hour and check chemistry before we do our ST session. Never been a problem.

Look I have chatted up a girl I liked on the Bath Bus. She is a non. Pro. There are some dumb mother fuckers up in here that challenged me. Thinking only with their dick and lack of imagination. But I know what she is. Not pressed at all to get with me. Goes to class everyday. And has made almost zero effort to meet me. Yet, we still talk. Maybe someday we will meet. But it is not high on her list priorities. Now to the dumb ass who said: "She could be selling it every night" well she could be. But she is not trying to sell it to me. LOL!.

As for the critics, simply do not pay attention to them. If they don't have anything to constructively add as I have done simply ignore them. There are those that talk and those that do. Be a man in the arena brother. Like I am!

[Sky Ryder]

At the risk of proving I am hopeless, I would like to pose a question. * I think I know most of what the responses will be, but who knows, maybe something different will come up that I had not thought of.

TIA.

Sky.

Sorry about the asterisks, no idea why they appeared.

[Sky Ryder]

At the risk of proving I am hopeless, I would like to pose a question. * I think I know most of what the responses will be, but who knows, maybe something different will come up that I had not thought of.

I have made 5 trips to Patts this year, so have a reasonable idea of the lay of the land. * By no means an "expert". * At this point in my existence I am well passed how many ST's can I accomplish in a single day. * My desire is to find a "girlfriend" for a few hours. * I am interested is something that would include her getting reasonably dressed up, out for drinks / dinner maybe finding a place for some music or an upscale lounge afterwards, then finish the evening with an hour or two of adult playtime in my hotel. * I prefer not to have overnights since I get up early and also do not intend to stay out late (1:00-2:00 am).

Yes, I understand this is a "dream arrangement" and not likely to come to fruition, but IMHO it is worth a bit of effort to pursue. * I will give my ideas of how to maximize the chances of a non-resident achieving the goal and anyone is encouraged to offer opinions or something I had not thought of to increase the odds of success.

I use TF a LOT when in town, usually starting a few days before I arrive. * I have found that many if not most ladies are really focused on ST only and are not really interested in an arrangement for the evening. * Also, not sure that a lot of them have the conversation skills to make it worth the effort, no matter how hot they may be. * I usually target 23-32 yr olds in my search, but am open to suggestions. * I tend to enjoy the 28-35 age range as I have found they have a bit more appreciation when a gentleman treats them well, and are better skilled in the art of pleasing a man.

I have thought about cruising the massage shops in the early afternoon, finding something that suits my eye, having her do a foot massage to get a feel for compatibility, then bar fining her out of the shop for the rest of her shift and go from there. She could go home and get dressed and we could meet and some rooftop bar for cocktails and continue from that. **.

Bar fine one of the gals from a GClub for the evening, as they are accustomed to entertaining a customer to elicit LD's and those clubs tend to open early in the afternoon to be able to make arrangements.

This one is a bit "out there", but chatting up some nice lass at a retail location and see if she has interest in supplementing her income. * A lot could go wrong with this approach and not sure how it would be received. * Don't want to be labeled and as a perv.

See if I can find a "tour guide" to show me the "nightlife" which would include dinner / drinks. * Again, this may lead to a handshake after dinner, but has potential. * The problem is where to advertise for the guide or find them on there own. * I am not really good with FB, and am not sure if that is a good source.

Find a "service" that curates ladies just for this type of event. * I am sure the prices would be eye watering, but for a single evening might be worth an investment.

That is my list, and any suggestions are encouraged.

I am well aware that I am opening the door to ridicule and all sorts of "slings and arrows", while it may not appear to be the case I am fairly adept at navigating the P4 P scene, but as I said, always open to opportunities I may have not considered.

TIA.

Sky.

[LittleBigMan]

Damn, that's typically the kind of horror stories I've been reading in the Cambodian news these last years, but it's the first time I read these stuffs about Thailand.

The stories are there, this story isn't going to be out there for tourists to see the majority of the time it is going to be on the 7 pm Thai news that is why it is " Land of Smile "

[SubCmdr]

I'm quite picky and all the girls I've asked on this trip from Soi 6, bar one, asked for 2 k ST, the other asked for 1. 5 k, all of them immediately accepted 1. 5 k and I didn't buy any of them a drink.

Just been quoted 4 k for ST by a girl on Thai Friendly, unfortunately some idiot will probably pay but it won't be this idiot.

They absolute pay it. Found a hot one off of TF with the body type the I like. Laughed at my 1000 THB. Said I was a "cheap brother". Told me that the "Brothers" pay her 3000 - 5000 THB and sometimes not even to have sex. Bragged that she was eating lunch at that very moment with someone who gave her 3000 just to hang out.

[Explorer8939]

Everyone is complaining about the rain in Pattaya, which keeps customers away from the bars. Rainy season should be over by now.

[Raj Patela]

Across Central there is a new Beer Bar complex. Quite big. I think it's name is Beer Bar Complex. Hahaha.

Nana Plaza School Girl might be a Star here. Hahaha.

Only thing I can imagine is every Bar is backed by Farang BF money. Nothing else makes sense.

Buzzin Bar wasn't Buzzin outside.

I wanted to sit down before going to Soi 6 so I had a seat in Crystal Club.

Nana Plaza School Girl could be top Bargirl here. Hahaha.

Strolled Lengkee and Chaiyapoon.

Nana School Girl could give lessons to these workers, they look lazy. Hahaha. Can't blame them I was only customer in sight.

[Allover]

When you get a girl that shows up that is not the girl in the photos on the Thai Friendly (TF) account you were looking at. The chance exists that it is a pimp working the page and when they get a live one they just send out a girl that looks similar to the photos and hope she does not get rejected. I have no proof of this.

What information have you presented to prove there are no pimps in Pattaya?

You are asking for proof yet you comment without proof.

[Mr Enternational]

Not a realistic story.

If a young girl in the village has a baby, she leaves it with her family, or the family of the father.

Except I am not talking about the village. I am talking about Pattaya. Definitely a realistic story because I have heard it several times. Even a chick that I used to mess with hard when I first moved to Pattaya did it. I did not even know she had a kid. Then years later I met some other chick and showed her May's picture. She told me that before I even knew her she had a kid and left it with a chick that worked at a salon and never came back to get it. She then married some doctor and moved to Germany. When I met her she had come back from Germany for holiday in Pattaya and was talking about breaking up with the guy. I ran into May a couple of years after the chick told me about the situation and asked her about it and she brushed it off and did not want to talk about it. She did not say that is a lie and not a realistic story.

[Paolo99]

Years ago next Soi my village 7 year old. Girl the mother left to go to work felt the neighbor next door and others were trusted enough to watch basically leaving her 20 baht instruction if hungry dinner ask my wife to make her a dish my wife would keep a tap end of week square up. This is very common from my experience. One day she went missing the look high and low dredged the pond in the neighborhood day later a sidecarts vendor remember spotting her with the neighbor after questioning she confused to wanting the girl cheap phone neighbor needed money to but drugs told her a lie mother want me to take you to her work instead took her to this isolated reservoir strangled the kid took phone and sold it for 500 Hundred baht.

Damn, that's typically the kind of horror stories I've been reading in the Cambodian news these last years, but it's the first time I read these stuffs about Thailand.

[Paolo99]

Finally figured out a very probable reason why there has been a heavy Korean vlogger presence on / around Soi 6.

At least one of the bars on the Soi (panda bar) is Korean owned. They're trying to bring in the clientele they want (possibly by paying the vloggers for more exposure).

I know only of two K-streamers doing the soi consistantly and never saw them stopping by Panda bar.

Why? Easy, Panda has only old or unattractive girls.

The only guy I've seen going there is the guy distributing candies to the fatties of the soi.

It's funny a few days after your post was edited K-streamer went there and did a live stream for quite some time.

You might be right that he's been paid for by the bar owner because the girl he streamed is really not the kind he would spend time with normally (a camera friendly girl again, these guys are recycling the same girls from one to another streamer).

On a side note I'll adjust my statement that all the girls are unattractive.

I went there a few days ago and found one that suited me very well (except she had some baby damage when she undressed), but I spent quite some time inside the bar and the immense majority looked really not impressive.

To my surprise the place was really packed inside, with lots of Asian customers (looked like K-men and J-men).