Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[GoodEnough]

95% correct GE. You have to discount because some of these guys would not be able to fit into the necessary social class to attract the ageless beauty. Nor do they have the social skills let alone the physical looks to compete for the beauties.

Thanks, you're likely correct.

[Pinaypounder]

My thought is why not get a 9 that fucks you like her life depended on it rather than a 6 who is there to collect the cash? Seems like you are making an excuse for having a 6 instead of a 9.

I would rather have a Big Mac in a paper box than have a shit sandwich on a diamond encrusted gold plate. Why can't the Big Mac be on the plate instead of the shit sandwich?

Of course BUT how often does that happen?

PP.

[Engine Driver]

95% correct GE. You have to discount because some of these guys would not be able to fit into the necessary social class to attract the ageless beauty. Nor do they have the social skills let alone the physical looks to compete for the beauties.

You are very correct sir. There are not too many Idris Elba or Don Draper clones wandering around the Philippines looking to root illiterate Filipinas in the slums of Cebu. They can get as much white pussy as they want for free in their home countries. It is only the twice divorced, overweight, aging mongers with two-inch limp marshmallows that go looking for desperate Filipinas. It is not a sport to be proud of not discuss in polite circles. Prove me wrong.

Ho ho ho Merry Christmas.

[Mr Enternational]

Now I offer another perspective and invite your comments.

I would rather have a 6 that fucks me like her very life depended upon her having multiple orgasms rather than a nine who is there to collect the cash.

My thought is why not get a 9 that fucks you like her life depended on it rather than a 6 who is there to collect the cash? Seems like you are making an excuse for having a 6 instead of a 9.

I would rather have a Big Mac in a paper box than have a shit sandwich on a diamond encrusted gold plate. Why can't the Big Mac be on the plate instead of the shit sandwich?

[Dg8787]

I suspect that the "not aging well" hypothesis derives from the sub sample of Filipinas who are largely from rural areas, for the most part not well educated and who have spent much of their lives in hard, manual labor. A life of subsistence farming, toiling in all weather year after year, is not particularly conducive to maintaining one's looks, let alone top physical health. There is, as Mr. Smith points out, a strong correlation between the devastating effects of poverty and the maintenance of physical attractiveness. As Mr. Smith accurately states, it's not attributable to island life per se, but to socio-economic circumstances. For those capable of and willing to lift their eyes and expectations a bit beyond the bar girl / tinder / prostitution scene, there is a broad vista of alternative possibilities. But, exploring that world takes a bit of work, some persistence, and the commitment to broadening one's horizons a bit. I understand that those here for only a limited time and dedicated to two or three weeks of pure hedonism may not be willing to make the effort and that's understandable. But it is illuminating perhaps to realize that this country offers a plethora of other opportunities unavailable in normal monger venues.

GE.

95% correct GE. You have to discount because some of these guys would not be able to fit into the necessary social class to attract the ageless beauty. Nor do they have the social skills let alone the physical looks to compete for the beauties.

[Drbombay]

When I was in the Navy in San Diego and the ship left, nobody ran to the club where all the white chicks hangout. Everybody made a bee line to the Trophy Lounge to pick up some of those saintly Filipinas whose husbands left earlier that day.

Most of the time you did not even have to wait until he left town. Chick took me to her house one night; I did not even know she was married. Turns out her husband is a drill instructor on the Marine base and he is across town at work because it was his night to stay with the recruits. I was fucking his woman and drinking his beer and playing his Nintendo. I was like this is a perfect setup for a guy. She was like yeah I have a husband.

Then you had other chicks whose husbands were cucks and you could just be sitting in his living room with his wife when he came home. One thing about those broads though, if you were not following their script they would always threaten to run to your commanding officer. That is why you did not want to get too attached to them. Hit them a couple of times and move on.

I had similar experiences from 1990-98 while in San Diego, and lest not forget the same type of things of the "WESTPAC Widows" in Hawaii running to Gussie L'amours or the 19th Puka over on Pearl Harbor. I know of one lady that had to change her cell phone number when her husband's ship was coming back from deployment because she was out there too fast and too long. Funny how they would get jealous if you left them to make a claim somewhere else all the while they are married with boyfriends.

[Pinaypounder]

I am glad we are having a decent chat about the older girls.

Now I offer another perspective and invite your comments.

I would rather have a 6 that fucks me like her very life depended upon her having multiple orgasms rather than a nine who is there to collect the cash. I think I already know the thoughts of a few of you trophy collectors.

Now there are physical limits I have to find the person attractive but that can take many forms and many a non beauty has overcome their physichal limitations with a sexual hunger that is simply wonderful. And abnormal I have even had great sex with what I would call 2 fat women, they just needed cock so badly.

The worst sex I have had in the Phils is with barely 20's girls that can't take a larger cock and one time I bedded the most physically perfect woman of my dreams and it was just so bad I still whimper in the night. My #1 girl there is an aging 7 soon to be in the 40 plus crowd but the sweet thing is very bi and can not spell the word NO lest alone say it.

Your thoughts?

[Drbombay]

I suspect that the "not aging well" hypothesis derives from the sub sample of Filipinas who are largely from rural areas, for the most part not well educated and who have spent much of their lives in hard, manual labor. A life of subsistence farming, toiling in all weather year after year, is not particularly conducive to maintaining one's looks, let alone top physical health. There is, as Mr. Smith points out, a strong correlation between the devastating effects of poverty and the maintenance of physical attractiveness. As Mr. Smith accurately states, it's not attributable to island life per se, but to socio-economic circumstances. For those capable of and willing to lift their eyes and expectations a bit beyond the bar girl / tinder / prostitution scene, there is a broad vista of alternative possibilities. But, exploring that world takes a bit of work, some persistence, and the commitment to broadening one's horizons a bit. I understand that those here for only a limited time and dedicated to two or three weeks of pure hedonism may not be willing to make the effort and that's understandable. But it is illuminating perhaps to realize that this country offers a plethora of other opportunities unavailable in normal monger venues.

GE.

In regards to "not aging well" a lot of it has to do with the lifestyle the woman lives. I've seen many women (and men) who if they go out every night drinking, and don't forget eating at all hours of the night, and then spending the better part of the next day in bed to do it all over again that will age the body more than your ethnicity or where you come from. I've seen great changes in the "new girl" showing up at the old Trophy Lounge club (home of the ex-Pinay bar girls who married Sailors and moved to San Diego) and in a matter of just two years the constant going out just about every night, working and then going back out drinking and late nights at Denny's will add pounds and wrinkles to the point where they look liked seasoned pros by the end of two years.

And I have seen and dated one who was 14 years older than me (at the time in my early 30's and now in my 50's) and she still looks better and more attractive then women half her age and she is in her late 60's. It's all about how they take care of themselves and what the do that has a lot to determine how they may look later in life.

[Mr Enternational]

I'd say you're angry. You got caught with your dick out, somebody pointed it out to you, and you don't like it. Your posts have a pattern that seems like needing to be one-up on others. That and needing to brag about your accomplishments strike me as signs of insecurity. By the way, there's no money in anthropology. If money, travel, and women are what's most important to you, you did the right thing by staying in business. I have nothing else to say about this.

Sorry brother. I have never done things soley because of money. I do things mostly because I enjoy them and then money usually falls into place. And because I am explaining how there is no way I could be racist means that I am bragging and trying to one up? Make that make sense. If I was bragging, then I have EARNED that right! You say it like it is a bad thing. Why shouldn't the Patriots brag that they have won so many Superbowls? Why shouldn't the Lakers brag that they have won so many championships? They did put in the work to earn them.

[Chocha Monger]

Maybe there is a thin line between racism and the truth. If I said Danish women are tall would that be racist or a fact? It is the truth that islanders are not known to age well. It is the same in Dominican Republic. A chick tells you she is 40 but she looks 60. Once most of them turn 30 then their bodies go downhill. That is just the consequences of island life and nothing to do with being against someone due to their race. Maybe it is more ageism?

I went to Hong Kong looking to fuck an old dragon lady so I have nothing against it, but you are not going to catch me saying how attractive an old ass dragon lady is.

The phenomenon of Filipinas turning into monsters at the age of 40 years is not just limited to the Philippines. Pinays who live relatively easy lives in the USA also blow up and turn into hideous hags at 40. Filipina crones fishing for foreign cocks online tend to be very high mileage and experienced in separating mongers from their money. They are online in the hopes of landing some doltish monger with enough cash to support them and their large extended family.

There is plenty of old pussy available in the USA, Canada, UK, and Europe. Unless it is just a peculiar fetish for fucking geriatric dragon ladies, there is really no need for mongers to be flying halfway around the world to engage in such. If Western geriatric mongers want to travel to the Philippines to fuck geriatric dragon ladies and call them attractive, that is their privilege. It does not make sense but that is what they want to do in their twilight years. They are entitled to have their shriveled marshmallows sucked by as many hideous hags as they can handle.

[GoodEnough]

It took me five minutes to find these two photos on the internet. I don't know who they are and don't know their ages, but I'd bet they're both at least well into their 40's. I suspect one of the reasons Western mongers don't see the more attractive older Filipinas is that those women are living better lives. Lives of poverty, as is typical for Filipinas in prostitution, is what ages some Filipinas. It's not island life per se.

I visited one of our expat members in the Phils a couple years ago. He's quite a bit older than his wife, and she is an attractive woman in her mid 40's. A friend in the states married a Filipina waitress he met in Hong Kong. She's about 20 years younger than him and now in her late 40's. She is gorgeous.

Some of our well-established expats remind us all the time that the slice of women most mongers are exposed to are poor women with hard lives. They are not representative of all Filipinas. The Philippines is a whole lot bigger than bars in Angeles, Cebu, Ermita, and Burgos.

I suspect that the "not aging well" hypothesis derives from the sub sample of Filipinas who are largely from rural areas, for the most part not well educated and who have spent much of their lives in hard, manual labor. A life of subsistence farming, toiling in all weather year after year, is not particularly conducive to maintaining one's looks, let alone top physical health. There is, as Mr. Smith points out, a strong correlation between the devastating effects of poverty and the maintenance of physical attractiveness. As Mr. Smith accurately states, it's not attributable to island life per se, but to socio-economic circumstances. For those capable of and willing to lift their eyes and expectations a bit beyond the bar girl / tinder / prostitution scene, there is a broad vista of alternative possibilities. But, exploring that world takes a bit of work, some persistence, and the commitment to broadening one's horizons a bit. I understand that those here for only a limited time and dedicated to two or three weeks of pure hedonism may not be willing to make the effort and that's understandable. But it is illuminating perhaps to realize that this country offers a plethora of other opportunities unavailable in normal monger venues.

GE.

[PedroMorales]

I am a Black dude from the ghetto.

And an ability to be in Colombia and Thailand in the same week. I looked in on the Peru thread and there he was, spouting away. No wonder civilised people avoid them.

[Soapy Smith]

I am a Black dude from the ghetto that speaks 5 languages and has a Masters in International Business simply because I like different cultures. I have lived in Brazil, France, South Africa, Thailand. I have been to over 100 countries and have had girlfriends in more countries than I care to take the time to count. So yes, maybe I fit the profile of being a tad bit racist. And since you bring it up, I was headed for a PhD in that very thing, but the Anthropology program at Emory University was only going to give me $19,000 per year so I decided against it.

I'd say you're angry. You got caught with your dick out, somebody pointed it out to you, and you don't like it. Your posts have a pattern that seems like needing to be one-up on others. That and needing to brag about your accomplishments strike me as signs of insecurity. By the way, there's no money in anthropology. If money, travel, and women are what's most important to you, you did the right thing by staying in business. I have nothing else to say about this.

[Mr Enternational]

Are you familiar with the expression, "if you can't dazzle them with brilliance, try baffling them with bullshit"? Basically you got caught with your dick hanging out. It's not ageism and it's not "truth," it's straight-up racism. And here you are laying out more of it: "it is the truth that islanders" don't age well. Really, are you now a physical anthropologist?

I am a Black dude from the ghetto that speaks 5 languages and has a Masters in International Business simply because I like different cultures. I have lived in Brazil, France, South Africa, Thailand. I have been to over 100 countries and have had girlfriends in more countries than I care to take the time to count. So yes, maybe I fit the profile of being a tad bit racist. And since you bring it up, I was headed for a PhD in that very thing, but the Anthropology program at Emory University was only going to give me $19,000 per year so I decided against it.

Unlike some of our photographically-inclined brethren, I don't take photos of the women I've been with. And, unable to get to the Philippines, I'm damn sure not going to do it now. But I have an informed hunch that a few older women have actually adorned the Phils photo gallery. Notice that the photographers rarely report on the women's ages.

So it was so easy to pull up pictures of Halle Berry and whoever else, but going on a dating site and setting the search age to 45 to find examples was a heavy workload. Nevermind. I have taken 30 seconds to do it for you. Now everyone can judge for themselves what they think of 45 year old Filipinas.

[Soapy Smith]

It took me five minutes to find these two photos on the internet. I don't know who they are and don't know their ages, but I'd bet they're both at least well into their 40's. I suspect one of the reasons Western mongers don't see the more attractive older Filipinas is that those women are living better lives. Lives of poverty, as is typical for Filipinas in prostitution, is what ages some Filipinas. It's not island life per se.

I visited one of our expat members in the Phils a couple years ago. He's quite a bit older than his wife, and she is an attractive woman in her mid 40's. A friend in the states married a Filipina waitress he met in Hong Kong. She's about 20 years younger than him and now in her late 40's. She is gorgeous.

Some of our well-established expats remind us all the time that the slice of women most mongers are exposed to are poor women with hard lives. They are not representative of all Filipinas. The Philippines is a whole lot bigger than bars in Angeles, Cebu, Ermita, and Burgos.