Stupid shit in Medellin

[Elvis 2008]

Almost nobody on this board obsesses over whether their girls are 9's or 10's.

Yeah, there are very few guys who act like they are worthy of 9's and 10's here.

While many will throw out numbers, most write more about the service. For most, that's the final piece which determines their satisfaction. Almost everyone is limiting their experiences to women they find attractive. Based on their reports, given a choice of repeating with the more attractive girl with bad service, or the less attractive girl with exceptional service, they'll take the service.

So 9's and 10's cannot provide good service. And you would know that how?

The part that bothers me the most is where you repeat the same thing as a few others, like MB. You assume that everyone else, with few exceptions, is only seeing fat and ugly girls. However, also with few exceptions, you have no clue who everyone is fucking or what they look like.

Well, you said you are not going after 9's and 10's. You said no guys here can date Colombian elite. You were too dumb to pick out a Colombian beauty queen from a girl winning a wet t-shirt contest. Your crew has said that all the women in Colombian available to foreign guys are from a few neighborhoods, and you all brag about hanging around centro and we all know what is there, and very few of you produce any pics. The one time you did I said your gal was cute, but the rest of them? What are we supposed to think?

It's just one of those silly, unnecessary judgemental things which obliterates any worthwhile contributions.

Well then put up your pics and let us see. I am amazed at how many of the guys claiming other guys overpaid never show photos of their women. Hell, we got guys putting up pics of models and Miss Colombia and other guys are saying they are 5's and 7's. Again, where are their 10's?

I admit to being curious about the replacement you finally found in Mexico city, since you've reported finding the perfect replacement several times on here. Wasn't the most recent one in Cartagena?

It's not important. As long as you're happy.

And here you go again. In what world do you think you are the equal of everyone here? My gal got pregnant and pulled herself up by her boot straps. She got a government job, worked out 3 hours a day, and has been an amazing mother with a child with a bright future. She is in her early 30's and done more with her life than you have. Sad to say, but I think neither she nor her daughter wants an underachieving truck driver as her male role model, and that was what was important to her. Can you believe that? Yeah, she was not just straight up about cash or looks. I can see why dumb asses like you and your crew think a woman like that cannot exist.

And MB is right about better chemistry meaning better sex and kudos to him for thinking he can get a 9 or 10, but he is decades away from doing it. He complains too much, and those dumb comments about older men show me that he is not only clueless about older men but people in general including women. He is going to get his ass kicked by women but I am not sure he learns anything from it.

If you want a guy I admire, look at ricerocket. He ignores you and your crew, gives you all shit, and has a great time to boot. Hell, he even landed a 9-10 type as a GF because he went for it and thought he was worthy of it. He is like me in that he say fuck you to anyone who says he cannot date the elite or land a 9 or 10.

[GringoAdvent]

Hey All,

Will be in MDE for the first time from 1/2 - 1/13 and working remotely. Are there any groups here or on whatsup for fellow gringos in the city to get to know each other?

I did Cartagena completely solo and wish I had put the effort into getting to know some fellow members.

[JjBee62]

You guys sure like to act like smart asses don't you.

1. It was just a question out of curiosity.

2. Stating the obvious doesn't help.

As far as a girl talking dollars. Again I haven't even landed in Colombia, when I do land and I finally talk to her in person, than and only than if I decide to have fun with her, I will remind her that I am only carrying with me pesos. Which is obvious. Since you know. I wonder how many of you actually use your brain before commenting instead of just making assumptions.

I'm really here for point #2, but first, your closing paragraph.

If you're out with a girl you just met and she's constantly scratching at her crotch, like a dog with fleas, you might think that's not somewhere you want to stick your junk. It's an obvious sign. You end the date and go take a shower. If you're just chatting with a girl and she keeps asking questions like "do you carry around a lot of cash", or "will you wear all your jewelry and best watch when we meet", you might figure you're being set up to be robbed. Those are signals anyone would recognize. So crying after you get crabs and get ripped off for $20,000 won't get you much sympathy.

People with experience in Medellin recognize signs that others won't see. For example, if you're talking to a girl and you think you've agreed on a date the next day, she's not going to show, because she gave you a Colombian "no. " Colombians have a strong aversion to direct contradiction. When asked a question, they will seldom tell you "no. " Instead they'll give an ambiguous "yes", like "okay, message me in the morning. " Guess who won't be responding to your messages for a few days (when she'll have an excuse)?

That one is across everything. If you're negotiating a huge contract for a multinational corporation, you can spend months trying to get the meetings that you thought had already been agreed upon.

One which is limited to mongering is when a girl asks for payment in dollars. Colombians don't think in dollars. Very few of the girls will know the exchange rate, or do the math. You can easily prove that by asking her how much in pesos. She'll likely come back with a number 20-35% off of the exchange rate (either way).

So they aren't being "smart", or recognizing their own value. They're following a script. You would immediately recognize the script if you had encountered it before, or if she mentioned "your vehicle's extended warranty. " However, you're trying to apply your logic to Colombians, which is like trying to put gloves on a snake.

Now to #2, Stating the obvious. Stating the obvious is quite important, because what you think is obvious doesn't necessarily apply in other countries or other situations.

Here's an obvious example. If a girl tells you she wants to bring a friend, so you can enjoy both, many people believe they're going to have a threesome. However, whereas a threesome is a battle Royale free for all, with everyone involved with everyone, that's not what will happen. What will usually happen is you'll have a 2 on 1 tag team match. While 1 girl is with you, the other will be out of reach, completely uninvolved and uninterested. Then they'll switch. Usually the result is you'll have a session which wasn't worth the price you paid for 1 girl, and you had to pay double.

Don't assume you know the obvious. Ask questions and pay attention to the answers, especially the answers which you think are wrong.

[The Cane]

I recently stumbled onto this interesting piece. Thought I would post it since there was some discussion here about this very topic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2J3Y1PBcxD4

But take note of the one and only comment. The translation is, "While I agree with the message, I bet 99% of the customers in any brothel at anytime here in Colombia are Colombians. Sexual tourism is bad, but the sex industry existed before, and it doesn't exist today based on tourists". Now isn't that word? Prostitution is deeply embedded within Colombian society, it was there long before sexual tourism became a "thing", and it's not going anywhere. Sexual tourism or not. So they can try to block the sex tourists from partaking, but then what are the going to do? Pray tell will things really be any better since the principle clients (that would be Colombian men) will keep right on engaging in prostitution with Colombian tutes just like they always have? I don't think so. Not at all! Just more useless hypocrisy.

[Anthony2023]

LOL. Only time that I use pesos is when I am paying a hooker, taxi, or Indriver. Everything else I use a credit card.

So I'm guessing you haven't had any issues with paying with card.

I'm not sure about using a card at any restaurants or bars in Colombia. I always heard not to use cards in mexico.

I don't even like using cards at bars in the states.

[Anthony2023]

You are kind of broadcasting your ignorance. Sure there are girls who have photos on FaceBook fanning their US currency. Does that contradict what several people with real world experience have been telling you? Not in the slightest.

Maybe she works at Gusto's. There, the girls eagerly seek out new know-it-all vacationers who pay them in $US dollars (more precisely, overpay them dramatically in US dollars). Or perhaps they just got back from a working vacation in Panama or Ecuador. You are aware (silly me. You know everything) that the US Dollar is the fiat currency in Panama and Ecuador. Or perhaps they just got back from a working vacation in Cancun, Mexico or Cartagena and were paid by their American companion in US Dollars.

I'm sure there are other possibilities too. But when all is said and done. Girls in Medellin will expect payment in Colombian Pesos. That is what they use to pay their bills. If you are having conversations with girls and the payment discussion is in US dollars. Look out. An experienced hombre here, would know something is very strange. And to borrow a phrase used a lot in poker.

"If you don't know who the sucker is at the table, it's probably you.

You guys sure like to act like smart asses don't you.

1. It was just a question out of curiosity.

2. Stating the obvious doesn't help.

As far as a girl talking dollars. Again I haven't even landed in Colombia, when I do land and I finally talk to her in person, than and only than if I decide to have fun with her, I will remind her that I am only carrying with me pesos. Which is obvious. Since you know. I wonder how many of you actually use your brain before commenting instead of just making assumptions.

[Villainy]

That's interesting, I thought maybe it was a hint to let others know she does play for pay. $1 is good luck huh, I've seen a couple with $5 and at least a few with $100 bill. Guess she doesn't care about the risks.

You are kind of broadcasting your ignorance. Sure there are girls who have photos on FaceBook fanning their US currency. Does that contradict what several people with real world experience have been telling you? Not in the slightest.

Maybe she works at Gusto's. There, the girls eagerly seek out new know-it-all vacationers who pay them in $US dollars (more precisely, overpay them dramatically in US dollars). Or perhaps they just got back from a working vacation in Panama or Ecuador. You are aware (silly me. You know everything) that the US Dollar is the fiat currency in Panama and Ecuador. Or perhaps they just got back from a working vacation in Cancun, Mexico or Cartagena and were paid by their American companion in US Dollars.

I'm sure there are other possibilities too. But when all is said and done. Girls in Medellin will expect payment in Colombian Pesos. That is what they use to pay their bills. If you are having conversations with girls and the payment discussion is in US dollars. Look out. An experienced hombre here, would know something is very strange. And to borrow a phrase used a lot in poker.

"If you don't know who the sucker is at the table, it's probably you.

[Mr Enternational]

You got that half right. I tell them I have pesos. What's a credit card?

LOL. Only time that I use pesos is when I am paying a hooker, taxi, or Indriver. Everything else I use a credit card.

[JjBee62]

That's interesting, I thought maybe it was a hint to let others know she does play for pay. $1 is good luck huh, I've seen a couple with $5 and at least a few with $100 bill. Guess she doesn't care about the risks.

You can buy the cases for a few thousand pesos all over El Centro. Or maybe girls, who have almost all had at least one phone stolen, are willing to risk losing most of their monthly rent by putting it in the most likely thing to be stolen.

[Huacho]

I tell them the same thing you should be telling those chicks I am in Colombia. Why would I have dollars? I have pesos and a credit card.

You got that half right. I tell them I have pesos. What's a credit card?

[Anthony2023]

Because having a $1 bill in the phone case is supposed to be good luck. Several of my normal chicks have asked me for one when we have been together. And I tell them the same thing you should be telling those chicks I am in Colombia. Why would I have dollars? I have pesos and a credit card.

That's interesting, I thought maybe it was a hint to let others know she does play for pay. $1 is good luck huh, I've seen a couple with $5 and at least a few with $100 bill. Guess she doesn't care about the risks.

[Mr Enternational]

I have a question for you, since we have some experts here. I've come across a couple girls who have selfies with US currency inside their see thru phone covers. Can you tell me if there's any meaning behind that?

Because having a $1 bill in the phone case is supposed to be good luck. Several of my normal chicks have asked me for one when we have been together. And I tell them the same thing you should be telling those chicks I am in Colombia. Why would I have dollars? I have pesos and a credit card.

[LoveItHere69]

Why is your superior skills at working this magical chemistry of yours not working at all on this site?

You have not figured out yet that many of these guys started 10,20, 30 years ago when they were 40,30, and some 20 years old and thus know what it was like in Colombia during the drug years, then before the Venies came over the border, and now with Venies everywhere?

[JustTK]

So they can't go to a currency exchange. Ok got it Smh.

BTW. There are some exceptions. These are girls who can use USD. For example, some Venezuelans will want or accept USD bcos that is now the most accepted stable currency in Venezuela. They prefer USD if they are going home bcos then they can buy the bus ticket at the border, they can use the money in the own country, knowing that it won't lose value within one week. But this is not the case for Colombians living in Colombia.

[JustTK]

I have a question for you, since we have some experts here. I've come across a couple girls who have selfies with US currency inside their see thru phone covers. Can you tell me if there's any meaning behind that? .

Sometimes a gringo toursit will give them a tip, but they don't have enough pesos, or for whatever reason they want to give them a souvenir of the US. The girl will save the USA bcos they generally have no use for them and they don't want to give their value away in exch centres. Thats my experience of the situation.