Tips and techniques for sexually arousing women and making them orgasm

[Dan7373]

Pick the channel?

I don't understand Thai language. So, the TV channel doesn't matter to me. I let the lady pick the channel, and I just focus on enjoying her with my dick.

I think it can be hot to be balls-deep inside the lady, while she is watching TV. Because this is like in a gang-bang porn-movie, where the hot lady is preoccupied and distracted by other guys in her face. So, you just enter her from behind and enjoy it with her, without feeling any pressure to perform with her.

When you feel that the lady is watching you and is paying attention to how you do it with her, then you feel like you need to put on a good show with your plow, so that you will impress her and look good in front of her. And that's how you often cum prematurely, before you really get to enjoy it with her.

Some people would say that it's a turn-off to have the lady tune out and let you do it with her the way you like. But those guys in a gang-bang porn-movie don't get turned off, when their lady tunes out so much that she doesn't even react, when they penetrate her from behind. It's actually a bit of a turn-on to see the hot lady do it like that. Because you can be totally shy and still be the cocky guy from behind with a distracted hot lady like that. She doesn't watch you at all, and she doesn't even know if it's you or some other guy doing the ball.

This is an attraction of the gang-bang action. And you get to feel a similar effect with the lady, when she starts watching TV and stops paying attention to you.

[Dan7373]

I found a pornhub video, where the guy is really good at taking the chick with his dick. Because he does it in a way that sexologists say is pleasing for a woman.

It looks almost like he is brutal with his cock inside the lady's pussy. So, his debauch isn't for the faint-hearted to watch. But the lady moans and at the end she looks like she is pleased.

Here is what a well-known sexologist says how you should thrust with your cock inside the lady's pussy:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...key=1303659729

And here is the pornhub video, where the guy really takes his lady's pussy with his cock. He varies his thrusting a lot, much more than you would see in any professional porn movie. And he bends his cock inside the lady's pussy too. Which probably stimulates her so-called G-spot. He doesn't last for long with her. Which is a bit disappointing. But there is nothing wrong with his technique, when he takes the hot lady with his dick:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5aff8c4939003

[PedroMorales]

I've had ladies who wanted to turn on the TV and watch, during my hardly any banging debauch. And I was okay with that, as long as I got to.

Pick the channel?

[Dan7373]

Excellent advice! Thanks bro Dan7373.

I've had a chance to try this soaking my dick inside the chick with several ladies now. And now I understand why this kind of stuff is also called 'Dock and Talk' in the article below.

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/...-sex-virginity

When you enter the chick and just stay inside her with your dick, then it usually doesn't take long for her to start asking you why aren't you banging her? So, I try to explain that I like being inside her, and I want to stay like this for a long time with her. I tell her that I can't last for long, when I bang a lady with my big dong. We end up talking about stuff to pass the time. And I move my cock inside her pussy once in a while to make it pleasant for myself and to make sure I have full erection with her.

But I found from my experience that it's best to be on top of your lady in a decisive kind of way, when you want to dock and talk with her. The prone bone position works pretty good, and so does the missionary. Because when your weight isn't on top of the lady, and she is a baddie, then she might quickly bang you to orgasm with her own hips.

This has happened to me the first couple of times I've tried it. And it wasn't because the lady didn't agree. She just said that this was too hot for her, and she went on a fucking spree. I only managed to say, "Please! Please! Not so fast! I can't last. " But the lady didn't stop, and she made me pop. I suppose this was okay. I enjoyed doing it with her. But I didn't last nearly as long with her as I wanted.

So, I've learned my lesson and next time I put my weight on the lady's ass in the doggy position as soon as I entered her pussy. She slid forward into a face-down prone position with me. I was totally on top with her, with my cock balls-deep inside her pussy. Her legs were straight out, and she had no leverage with me. So, she couldn't bang me much from below, when I put my weight on her nice ass. She tried to do it anyway. But she only succeeded in making it pleasant for me, without making me cum.

I've had ladies who wanted to turn on the TV and watch, during my hardly any banging debauch. And I was okay with that, as long as I got to stay on top of her sexy butt, with my cock balls deep inside her pussy. But I haven't yet had any lady yell at me and tell me to get off. Because without much porking, there isn't much working. It's not like I'm banging the lady raw. She has it easy with me. I just end up stretching her pussy a lot with my cock. Because I don't just stay still inside her. I keep moving it from side to side and up and down, without much in and out motion. I just stay balls-deep inside her and keep stretching her, while holding her tits or something like that. Which is a very intimate experience to have with a lady you like.

Perhaps this kind of thing is more enjoyable for me, than it would be for other guys. Because one big reason why I can't last, when I do a lady hard and fast is because all the ladies are too tight for me. My cock is big and wide, which makes all the ladies too tight during my ride. I haven't yet met a lady who was too loose for me, or even just right. All the ladies I've done with before have been too tight during my ride.

I suppose having a big cock is also a kind of limitation that you need to adjust to. I found my way to enjoy it anyway. And this might be the thing for you to do too, if you can't last for long with your ladies too. The lady's tightness makes it enjoyable for you, even when you move only a little inside her. And you get to last with her for a long time too.

I'd say that both the prone position and the missionary position have their own advantages for this kind of thing. In the prone position, you get to feel the lady's ass on your hips, and you can grope and play around with her tits and nipples. But you usually can't suck on the lady's nipples in the prone position, unless she has long, saggy tits that you can slide from under her and suck on her. Some white and black women have this kind of tits. And you can suck them even in the prone for them position. But a Thai lady you need to take in the missionary position, if you want to suck on her tits. Almost no Thai ladies have tits long and saggy enough to let you suck them from behind.

[Naked Desires3]

Excellent advice! Thanks bro Dan7373.

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

This is something I've done with a lady before, but not for long. The lady thought something was wrong. So, I started banging her to put her fears to rest.

But I've recently come across and article which describes this kind of practice and says that some women actually enjoy doing this with a guy:

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/...-her-virginity

I think it can be very enjoyable for a guy to penetrate a hot lady with his cock and enjoy his intimacy with her for a while, without banging her. This can also be a way to try out many different sex positions, without cumming and cutting it short. And you don't need to be strict about it. You can bang the lady to orgasm at the end.

[Syzygies]

Some ladies have such sensitive nipples and tits that they don't like any tit-sucking at all. I've met such a girl. But when I masturbated her clit, while sucking her tit, then she really liked it, and she let me suck her tits as much as I wanted.

I also met a Czech hooker with very large tits, F cup. She normally did not allow guys to mess with her sensitive nipples. DATY failed to make her cum, and she admitted to never cum from DATY. When she wanted to cum, she had me very gently lick her nipples (not suck) while she diddled her click (only she knows exactly how to do it perfect). In general, a girl will mostly know how to diddle herself best, and therefore not always appreciate being diddled unless the technique is near perfect. I don't normally like to receive a hand job myself, because such a high percentage are not right for me.

Girls mostly cum from DATY, and mostly they can't do it for themselves of course. However there are exceptions.

[H Pilot]

Thanks.

And they sell that without a need for a prescription?

Try the one directly opposite to Nana, they have everything.

[Metso]

Try the one directly opposite to Nana, they have everything.

Hey.

I need to get some generic Cialis and Viagra on my trip to BKK at the end of the month.

Appreciate some current advise on a trustworthy pharmacy on Sukhumvit that sells real stuff and not fake stuff as on the street.

Thanks.

[H Pilot]

Hey.

I need to get some generic Cialis and Viagra on my trip to BKK at the end of the month.

Appreciate some current advise on a trustworthy pharmacy on Sukhumvit that sells real stuff and not fake stuff as on the street.

Thanks.

[Dan7373]

I found from my experience that tit-sucking works best for ladies, when you play her clit, while you are sucking her tit. The link below shows an example:

https://www.porntrex.com/get_file/0/...enshots/3.jpg/

Some ladies have such sensitive nipples and tits that they don't like any tit-sucking at all. I've met such a girl. But when I masturbated her clit, while sucking her tit, then she really liked it, and she let me suck her tits as much as I wanted.

[Dan7373]

.... Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.

I agree about having the woman on top. The woman usually has her own rhythm and her own way of doing it that's different from yours. And this in itself makes you last longer with her.

I also found that just laying back and having the lady do all the work makes it easier to control your feelings with your attention and your mind. You can use your mind to stop yourself from coming close to orgasm. You just need to keep thinking, "No, I'm not cumming. I'm going to last for a long time with her. "

I once used this technique to totally exhaust a lady, who was giving me a hand-job. I just lay back an focused my attention on controlling my feeling and lasting for a long time with her. She couldn't make me cum, no matter what she did, for close to 40 minutes. At the end, I stopped controlling my feelings. And she finally managed to make me cum to her great relief.

I was able to control my feelings, because I didn't have anything else to do. She was doing all the work.

But controlling your feelings is a lot harder to do, when you are banging the lady. Because this is multi-tasking. And multi-tasking is switching your attention between two or more tasks. Which means that some of the time you aren't paying attention to controlling your feelings. You are focused on banging her. And in these moments of inattention, you can lose your control and go beyond the point of no return.

I suppose, breathing and focusing on that is also a way to control your feeling of pleasure and stop yourself from cumming prematurely. For myself I can say that I've learned to be aware of my feeling of pleasure directly and have control over it with my mind, just by thinking about it.

But I can do this only when I lay back and let the lady do all the work. I don't have any such mind control, when I'm banging the girl. She is the one who needs to be banging me.

[HappyShiva]

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

I do agree and the sex lasts longer. Especially, when a woman is riding you. Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.

[Dan7373]

Body-to-body massage in Thailand is one of the most enjoyable experiences you can have with a lady. And it's something you can continue to do, even after you take the chick with your dick. Here are a couple of examples:

https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/18673675.gif

https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/19304850.gif

When you and the lady don't yet know each other well, then you often end up holding back from her and having sex with her like strangers do in porn.

In porn, the guy and the lady often avoid intimate body-to-body contact with each other and have only genital contact for their intercourse, as shown at the link below:
https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/15620768.gif

But I think this kind of thing can be disappointing, especially after you've had an intimate body-to-body massage from the lady. After such a massage, it's only natural to continue the same kind of contact with her, while you are banging each other.

[Dan7373]

One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

This is something I've done with a lady before, but not for long. The lady thought something was wrong. So, I started banging her to put her fears to rest.

But I've recently come across and article which describes this kind of practice and says that some women actually enjoy doing this with a guy:

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/...-her-virginity

I think it can be very enjoyable for a guy to penetrate a hot lady with his cock and enjoy his intimacy with her for a while, without banging her. This can also be a way to try out many different sex positions, without cumming and cutting it short. And you don't need to be strict about it. You can bang the lady to orgasm at the end.

I've been a little shy to give this kind of thing a try, after my Thai lady thought that this was strange. But apparently, this is a legitimate sex-practice that some people know about and do.

Perhaps you just need to talk your lady through it and assure her that nothing is wrong, you just want to keep your big dong inside her pussy for a while.

[Syzygies]

I don't think anybody knows how much of a taboo this is for ordinary guys. Because ordinary people do it in private.

But I would be surprised if ordinary guys are more open and bold about not having a good enough erection for their lady, than even porn-guys, who do it all the time in public.

Perhaps the taboo isn't so much about masturbation, as it is about not having a good enough erection. This is the reason why a lot of guys might not want to do it in front of their lady. It's like this reflects badly on their manhood.

You try to make conclusions from porn? Crazy! Porn star guys have special "get it up" girls who are expert in BBBJ to get them up for the scene.

You just think too much on this issue. How would you have any clue what guys other than yourself might want to do? Gross assumptions. There is no taboo for me about a lady playing with herself while I am watching. I encourage that.

Now if the dick is not yet hard enough and the lady is doing nothing adequate about it, a bit of self massage of the cock can help while fingering her pussy. Taboo? Rubbish. Normally good tongue kissing gets me up, but what if that is not present, or girl is dick scared, stiff legged, and dick started to droop again? What if the girl's hand on your dick is painful? You have to do it yourself. What if she cannot do a good blow job or just did not do it. I generally dislike a girl to give me a HJ because it simply is not the right feel, so does not help me. She is better off to tickle my balls if she can do that without fingernails. I think less than 10% of girls do a good skilled HJ.

The dick has already been seen to be not totally hard, so milk spilt already so to speak, so any type of assistance that works is good. BBFS is much easier because dick does not need to be totally hard. It can grow inside the right pussy. If girl is skilled at BJ, I certainly don't need to massage the dick, but if she isn't, I can do better with no shyness.

If I massaged my open dick in front of a girl, I was not that shy or self conscious as to be ashamed by it, I never had any comments about it, other than some stupid girls asked why it wasn't that hard. Mostly that would be the girl's fault, as she did nothing to help or did something to spoil it, or dick just could not go in due to sponge obstruction, etc.

The need to wank up the dick is a reflection on the girl being not that good, in most cases, or just difficult in some way. Guys dose themselves up on Vitamin V as another remedy to difficult girls or girls that are not great. In nature, non assisted, the dick can drop quickly in adversity. The other point is guys are very different. I have a rather insensitive dick. It is much harder for me to cum than average. Others are so sensitive they can pop on the slightest touch by a girl. Then there are more normal guys in between.

When you have a really great receptive horny girl, with wonderful pussy, and doing BBFS, all these problems tend to go away, Vitamin V is not needed, the dick does its thing automatically, unless you are really fucked out.