Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Goferring]

Am I the only one who is being bombarded by spam invitations from DR girls on the Philippine hook up aps?

Many, many DR girls on FilCupid for some reason. Even their location is shown as the DR??

[Mr Enternational]

At the 5 month point of her pregnancy she took 4 x day after pills and forced herself to have a mis-carriage. Family delivered the dead foetus at home. She sent me a pic of that little person.

Whether she did that or made up the story for some kind of angle on me I will never know.

Maybe some of that shit is true, except I still can not see them announcing something they are supposed to be ashamed of.

"6 Filipina women a day die from complications following unsafe abortions, it is estimated."

https://www.theguardian.com/global-d...en-philippines

[AsianPursuits]

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ALS-board.html

Look at this American clown, air dropping an entire plane a video of himself getting a blow job. Though this American idiot obviously does not care about rules and laws, why do so many men send pictures of their dicks? Check out pinaylove etc, so many women say: don't send dick pics, as they are inundated with spammers and potential rapists flooding them with same.

What is it with perverts?

How is this really relevant to Philippines thread?

[PedroMorales]

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ALS-board.html

Look at this American clown, air dropping an entire plane a video of himself getting a blow job. Though this American idiot obviously does not care about rules and laws, why do so many men send pictures of their dicks? Check out pinaylove etc, so many women say: don't send dick pics, as they are inundated with spammers and potential rapists flooding them with same.

What is it with perverts?

[Expat American]

Some of the stories that we get from the girls can be quite heart breaking. I'm really not sure if this is a story for money or sympathy or in fact a true event.

At the 5 month point of her pregnancy she took 4 x day after pills and forced herself to have a mis-carriage. Family delivered the dead foetus at home. She sent me a pic of that little person.

Whether she did that or made up the story for some kind of angle on me I will never know.

It does however remind us of what a tough life it can be in Ph when we scratch further than we need.

Thats why I usually break up with and block the girl once I leave the PI. Don't want to deal with any stories later.

[SarasotaJoe]

She sent me a pic of that little person.

I've been sent a pic of a fetus before. It's been awhile and I cannot remember the details of the story, but they were probably similar.

Other memorable pleas for "budget" include the picture of blood in a toilet (bloody stools. Talk about a turn off! Deceased relatives of all types, and the all-too-common no formula for baby (which of course now also happens to be a very American story as well!

One time a girl sent me a picture of what she said was her house on fire, it having supposedly burned down a few days earlier. Using details from the picture, I tracked down the location and then did a Google search with "fire" and "-place name-" and sure enough found the same picture on the front page of a local newspaper. From several years earlier! And of course a local newspaper not anywhere close to where my friend actually lived.

A girl from Davao contacted me a couple weeks after our romantic rendezvous and claimed she was preggy with my baby.

I can one up you on that preggy story. 11 months after shagging a girl a few times over the course of a weekend, I get a call from her (and then her father!) saying that she has just given birth to my child. After clarifying to make sure I wasn't misunderstanding something (such is common in the PI) it was clear that baby was four days old and that they really believed it was mine. Now I don't know about you guys, but eleven months of gestation, even in the Phils, seems a bit much to me! Later I saw baby on FB and confirmed it looked nothing like me (it was "pure Filipino", as they say).

"What the fuck does that have to do with me?"

Finally, let me just say that while I may not be as credulous as AsianPursuits, I'm also not as callous as Mr Enternational. I enjoy pipelining. In fact it's one of my primary forms of entertainment outside of work, especially when I have a trip on the books. In doing so I truly am trying to develop meaningful friendships with the ladies that I ultimately hope to bed. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't (develop true friendships, or bed them), but I don't find it that hard to afford them a modicum of sympathy (and even respect for their entrepreneurial nerve), even when I don't believe their stories for a second.

My standard response: "I'm so sorry to hear that. I hear similar stories from so many of my friends there in the Philippines. I wish I could help everyone. Maybe when I see you next I will be able to help just a little so that things can be better. " Almost always such a response is met with understanding and respect and it preserves the possibility of both of us accomplishing our desired ends down the line in a way that "What the fuck does that have to do with me?" might not. Being kind doesn't really cost me anything. Pinays are good women and I for one don't want bitterness to harden them into the monstrosities that are many Western women.

[AsianPursuits]

Not believable. She would know right away if she is pregnant not wait for 5 months unless the guy suddenly abandoned her. As much I know about Philippine girls, very few go for abortion. There are plenty of single girls with babies.

Yep I agree. The country is littered with unfathered babies so one more would not be too much to worry. Maybe the story works on someone whom is already sending her some money and she was just trying it on me.

[Mr Enternational]

Some of the stories that we get from the girls can be quite heart breaking. I'm really not sure if this is a story for money or sympathy or in fact a true event.

Whether she did that or made up the story for some kind of angle on me I will never know. It does however remind us of what a tough life it can be in Ph when we scratch further than we need.

Tough life? Compared to what? Your life? They live it just fine. You can't miss what you never had. My car is a 1998. It gets me around fine, I keep it up, and have no problems with it. Yet there are probably people driving a 2022 Tesla having pity on me because I have to buy gas instead of plug my car in and my car does not drive itself. To tell the truth I do not even have a desire for a car as such and if someone gave me the money to buy one, I would spend it in other ways instead.

The point is not to pity someone that does not have what you have, especially when you do not see them out dying in the street and have no idea whether they even want what you have. And learn to think, "What the fuck does that have to do with me?

The most simple solution if you do not want to get pregnant is do not fuck. If you were fucking and got pregnant you knew the risks and whether or not you could afford to have a baby. I have no sympathy. Once again the old adage applies, "What the fuck that got to do with me?

[Pute Nut]

Everything they say should be taken in with a grain of salt.

Or maybe several.

A girl from Davao contacted me a couple weeks after our romantic rendezvous and claimed she was preggy with my baby. I always make notes of my conquests, and also I remembered having used condoms with her. I simply replied "no you're NOT preggy with my baby, remember I used condoms", to which she just replied "Oh OK!" and tried to casually continue the convo. Needless to say she was off my contact list.

This preggy thing is something they may try if they think they smell weakness. It's just a test. Better girls will not try to pull this shit on you, at least not knowingly.

[Sammon]

Some of the stories that we get from the girls can be quite heart breaking. I'm really not sure if this is a story for money or sympathy or in fact a true event.

At the 5 month point of her pregnancy she took 4 x day after pills and forced herself to have a mis-carriage. Family delivered the dead foetus at home. She sent me a pic of that little person.

Whether she did that or made up the story for some kind of angle on me I will never know.

It does however remind us of what a tough life it can be in Ph when we scratch further than we need.

Not believable. She would know right away if she is pregnant not wait for 5 months unless the guy suddenly abandoned her. As much I know about Philippine girls, very few go for abortion. There are plenty of single girls with babies. Families also do not mind taking care of the baby. Photos can be done many ways. One time a girl sent me picture of supposedly dying father on bed. After few months she contacted me to see if I am in Philippines. Asked how her father is she said he was never sick. She has completely forgotten she sent me the picture. Another time a girl sent me a dead picture of her sister. But forgot about it later.

Everything they say should be taken in with a grain of salt.

Just stick to chat, meet and have fun. If you start sending money before meeting there will be more demands. After meeting if you like her you can support her from time to time.

[AsianPursuits]

Some of the stories that we get from the girls can be quite heart breaking. I'm really not sure if this is a story for money or sympathy or in fact a true event.

At the 5 month point of her pregnancy she took 4 x day after pills and forced herself to have a mis-carriage. Family delivered the dead foetus at home. She sent me a pic of that little person.

Whether she did that or made up the story for some kind of angle on me I will never know.

It does however remind us of what a tough life it can be in Ph when we scratch further than we need.

[Goferring]

I would put it on Tinder or Badoo on a fresh dedicated account for this purpose. Those two seem to have more location features which will help you with your filtering. Put what you want in the description. Obviously use some discretion but certainly list the pregnancy requirement.

Filipino Cupid also has pretty good filtering options and I've come across a few pregos. Might be worth a try to develop a profile saying your looking to support an expectant mother.

I'd agree that word will spread quickly amongst friends of friends especially if you are intown now.

Good luck. G.

[AsianPursuits]

Do any of you gentlemen know of or recommend a site to post an ad looking for P4P encounter?

I'm looking for a pregnant women. I know it is weird but it is a fantasy of mine. I'm not able to find any pregnant at the clubs, or escort sites so I was thinking about posting an ad searching for one.

If you have any recommendations for where to post in the NCR area I would love to know.

I would put it on Tinder or Badoo on a fresh dedicated account for this purpose. Those two seem to have more location features which will help you with your filtering. Put what you want in the description. Obviously use some discretion but certainly list the pregnancy requirement.

If it's well worded, then you could also expect that a friend of a friend would pass on the details to the pregnant ones.

You might want to also express the number of months that you want.

I had one pregnant girl in Angeles but she was a call back to a previous meeting pre-pandemic. She is now 7 months pregnant which gave me the look and feeling I wanted.

[Kitty Doctor]

Do any of you gentlemen know of or recommend a site to post an ad looking for P4P encounter?

I'm looking for a pregnant women. I know it is weird but it is a fantasy of mine. I'm not able to find any pregnant at the clubs, or escort sites so I was thinking about posting an ad searching for one.

If you have any recommendations for where to post in the NCR area I would love to know.

[AsianPursuits]

There is some reason to start some dating profile action in the days prior to arrival. It does provide a window to filter out the true professionals and get a feel for whom will be reliable.

In another observation after using these sites for 10+ years there are some high quality regular girls on there at the moment. I think COVID and lockdowns has pushed some girls to not wasting their romance life any more.

One 40 year old engineer, unmarried, no kids, tongue piercing, bolt-on boobs. The 40 yo is on now on my standby list as she's a little too 'pinay' nosey into my affairs.

One 28 year old medical grad, no kids, no pinoy BF. Interesting woman but she's going to be inexperienced in bedroom.

I have been winding down the filters to 21-26 yo which for me is the sweet spot for this trip. Any girl outside of an immediate travel zone of 10-20 kms is also ruled out.

After two years of western dating sites in my own country it is all such a nice relief.