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10-06-20 06:16 #3510
Posts: 12Thanks Grown Man
I was leaning to Boca Chica and you guys convinced me and its a lot less hassle for flights for me than Sosua and I like the easy trip from the airport. I decided on the hotel lodging because it just seems easy and I love the generator comment. Seems like a hotel will point me in the right direction if I need something or assist if I have a problem. Given that I do not have any specific plans I decided to eliminate as many variables as possible for my home base. Thanks again.
Originally Posted by GrownMan1 [View Original Post]
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10-06-20 06:06 #3509
Posts: 12Thanks Eddie
This is exactly the info I was looking for and the tips I needed. Got the reservation at Frio. The sports bar sounds great and will definitely hit the piano bar, I will tell them you sent me, LOL. Looking forward to meeting all the other travelers also and to telling all the "helpers" to get lost. Thanks again.
Originally Posted by EddieLima [View Original Post]
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10-04-20 03:16 #3508
Posts: 3700Playa Maximo (Boca Chica)
I've always been a regular at the "Boat house" in Boca chica and hated the dirty west end with all its trash but not anymore. The west end is now called playa Maximo and it is nice and completely remodeled. Not many tourists wonder down that end because of its previous dirty reputation but its still mostly locals now and plenty of delicious eye candy. I wouldn't suggest going on Sunday because the Dominicans really come out and it's no self distancing. Only connection with the other side is the touts selling everything.
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10-04-20 01:21 #3507
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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10-04-20 01:16 #3506
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by Oakie [View Original Post]
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10-04-20 00:07 #3505
Posts: 3103Good points Oakie
I focus my activities in the DR because I like brown women and can pull attractive ladies with little effort. I am older and fine sport fucking tiring. Never the less Sosua provies a venue where even sport fucking can be done with ease. I have a high opinion of most of the girls I deal with. We all have our own requirements and standards. I have been coming for close to 10 years. The things that entertained me 10 years ago are nolonger my desires. I enjoy the ancillary things in Sosua as well as the women. The women are losing their luster because the quick and dirty action is not as thrilling as it use to be. So I use my Whatapp to fill the gaps. I am in my 60's but still having huge fun.
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10-03-20 12:19 #3504
Posts: 1908Originally Posted by OldKool [View Original Post]
They are not just the hustlers and motoconcho drivers we see in Sosua or Boca, they are fathers, brothers, cousins and sons.
In 99% of the country, they are a chica's network of support, long after the monger moves on or goes home. They get her kids to school, to hospital, to fix the roof, get the water, and generally protect the family unit. And when the mongers ain't around in the middle of summer, who you going to call?
I have experience with families in barrios, and campos up in the hills of PP and Mocha. Without the guys around to organize the barbeques, cumpleanos fiestas, it doesn't happen. Wherever you see a Dominican family out enjoying themselves, you'll see always lots of young guys around in support.
I remember going from a rowdy bar in Cab, home with a local chica late at night, but I was hungry and out of cigarettes. Posted about it here. She called her friend and he whisked us through this gadawful (as I thought then) neighborhood.
Dropped us off in a tiny 3rd floor flat, and came back 20 minutes later, with beer, pizza and cigarettes. He waited outside to take me back to town, but I decided to stay over, because I felt safe.
Dominicans keep the puta economy relatively safe for the monger and putas, to keep the monger dinero flowing in. Simple economics. An informal "business plan", like a mob run casino.
Even the ex pat businesses, need a connection to the locals, their silent partners, to stay in business.
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10-03-20 03:41 #3503
Posts: 2490Originally Posted by OldKool [View Original Post]
How many of us have had girls called us RFM? They are persistent and have no off button. Of course I'm generalizing there are exceptions to the rule. But you may hardly even know the chica. I silently study them in their own culture. They don't treat or expect that out of there men. They have a relationship between each other that's based on family and culture. Family is the glue of there Survival. Anything connected to that is how they live with pride. (Klk) Yes the men are chauvinistic. I agree many Dominican men Abandoned their responsibility as fathers based on our social standards. But at the end of the day; it's the Dominican man that is going to be there with her and not the gringo. He understands her and she respects him.
She knows the relationship she has with a foreigner has a short lifespan. The majority of Dominican women are not trying to be with gringos. But some will deal with a gringo if it's financially beneficial. It takes a special type of Chica to specialize and or seek in dealing with gringos. Prostitution is legal. However, the general society looks down upon women seeking prostitutional relationships.
That's why Sosua is what it is today. There's no other place in the DR where you can see such a huge concentration of foreigners and Dominicanas in one area. Only the delusional ones go there looking for a serious relationship. I don't know any designated place in the DR; where chica that prefer gringos can meet for serious relationships.
IMHO The reality is they know what we are therefore and we know what we are therefore. To take advantage of the legal system. Some of us are having sex with Chicas young enough to be our granddaughters. With the mentality of a 20-year-old. I can't even relate with 30-year-olds in my own country. I don't think they're on my level. With money we doing things that most of us couldn't do in the states. From ST with young 18 yr olds; to taking gorgeous dime pieces on a five day mock date. It's not a honest physical mental and cultural connection that the chicas are seeking us for. It's all about the Benjamins.
Okskool what I have learned the most from you is Learning to Establish and have a respectful understanding with your chicas. That's how I see you operating. I study my ex pat friends. As well as Gogo, WRX 2005, Sir Charles, Mr E, TomJ, The OG BQRIBS (rip). The best thing you can have with a Dominicana is a respectful understanding of dealing with each other. Enjoy the fantasy but understand it's an illusion.
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10-03-20 00:39 #3502
Posts: 3103We will never know But!
We preferr Dominican women because they do things we like. TRUE Why is it hard to believe that they would preferr a man who can fullfill all their financial needs and not slap them around. We are way more gentle with them. Money Trumps culture all day long. I have heard many Dominican chicas express dislike for thier men. They get the pregnant and then disappear. How many girls do you know who have kids to feed with no help from dads.
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10-02-20 05:53 #3501
Posts: 15918Originally Posted by GrownMan1 [View Original Post]
I get it though. It works both ways. I am American and I don't like American women. (Before that I was Georgian and did not like Georgian ladies and preferred Californian, Texan, or Washingtonian ladies.) That is not to say that I will not fuck one should one be available. But I have been in Thailand for the last 7 months and right now I am tired of Thai Lady bullshit and am ready for a break, so I will go back to Dominican, Brazil, Colombia, or Peru Lady bullshit. I like to mix my bullshit up so that I do not get frustrated.
P.S. I would not say Dominicans chicks prefer Dominican men. I would say they are most comfortable with Dominican men since they share the same language and same culture.
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10-02-20 01:34 #3500
Posts: 2490Originally Posted by Prtyr2 [View Original Post]
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10-01-20 23:48 #3499
Posts: 340Originally Posted by GrownMan1 [View Original Post]
I have had tons of every type. Good girls, live in novias, ex wives, friends with benefits, semi pros. All good but can't say they are all the same.
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10-01-20 16:52 #3498
Posts: 2490Originally Posted by Prtyr2 [View Original Post]
I'll agree to disagree about your assessment of Dominicans. I'm writing a report about a recent incident that bolsters my point. I believe that you feel what you believe. I to have met some dominicanas that say they don't like Dominicanos. The Dominicanas made valid points for their reasoning of dislike. Can they be telling the truth? Possibly. Are they sincerely looking for a serious relationship. Could be. After studying their culture and observing them; do I believe them? Nah. Do I think some Dominicana is laying somewhere horny with her body marinating until I return to her country for sex. BS. I think they just want financial support in the end. But hey, I also think that most of us guys just want some pussy in the end. Of course there are exceptions to the rules.
IMHO Foreigners are nothing new to the DR. There are people like you who do well in what you feel is an honest relationship. The reality is there are more short term ending relationships than successful long ones. The Dominicans know this. Foreigners come and they go. As time passes you'll become less desirable to him. They move on to the next younger Chica. He was not going to take you back to American with him. And you know you were not going to just leave your family. It's best to get what you can while you can, however you can is there philosophy. Many of them burn their bridges fast.
Every year the country produces thousands of new young 18-year-olds to put in the competition pot. We are under the illusion if we think they are just physically attracted to us. We are under an illusion if we think they're just looking for an honest serious relationship. If we are not under an illusion; then we need to get it clear with them what is the definition of an honest relationship. For most of them it means financial support.
WRX 2005 said a while back they only view us as walking ATM machines. They are not looking for emotional support. They don't need you to tell them how to budget their money. They are not concerned with having a family with someone that doesn't know their culture. They are known to get to the US and abandon their sponsor; to go be with other family members that's also in the US.
I have friends that deal with Dominican chicas in Serious relationships. Most of the time it's a Constant tug of war game. You pay more money in the long run, but some people feel it's worth it. Kool. It may well be for them but not for me. That's why I say the most we can have is a clear understanding.
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10-01-20 14:21 #3497
Posts: 35Frio
Originally Posted by EddieLima [View Original Post]
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10-01-20 01:34 #3496
Posts: 340Originally Posted by MaddTraveler [View Original Post]
One way to gauge if a girl is non pro is to hint you may go to a resort in beávaro for a weekend. The amount of normal girls that will say "invítame" is high. Many have never or rarely been. If you know her and get along, if you take her to a place where she can drink and eat all day for free and where she will be half naked all day? Almost a sure thing. I have a weekend booked in November with an amiga I took last year. Still, last night a sister of an old amiga called to chat. Never dated her. She asked if I am officially single again. Hinted at me needing a novia etc. I said with stay at home, I can't go out and meet women etc. Told her I may go to punta cana for weekend and she said "Invítame". Did not tell her I had date lined up. Wanted to feel her out for future reference. I am going to resort using airline miles and even if paying cash, the difference for bringing a date is minimal. Maybe 50 bucks more per night.
By the end of the call she was saying I need to invite her dancing once the discos open. Invited me to her house for dinner. 100% non pro. Owns small business that she runs out of her modest house.
I had a very cute waitress tell me "invítame" when I was planning a business trip to Cartagena. She had saved up money and said she would pay flight since she always wanted to go there. My job would have been paying hotels anyway so she saw an opportunity. No doubt she would show her appreciation.
The ammount of non pros down here who hardly ever go out is astounding. I have taken women from harina and San Cristobal to zona colonial and they had never been. A few beers in "romantic" setting like plaza Espana or sega zona, and they are happy. Also appreciative.