What Country has the Best Women for LTR?

[Cucumber]

I have been doing some research on the countries and ethnicities of South East Asia in order to work out which country to choose for my next mongering stint. I found these three websites, although quirky and not necessarily dedicated to p4p, informative:

http://asialove.org/southeastasia.htm

http://naughtynomad.com/2010/06/27/t...s-in-s-e-asia/

http://www.city-data.com/forum/asia/...-do-you-3.html

[Jon32]

Any opinions on best EU or FSU countries for LTR? Not looking for the 'feminist' countries, more like the woman will do what you tell her to do every day!

[Member #4351]

That was with an Indonesian. I have had various Filipina GFs. My impression has always been that a couple of hundred dollars a month to the parents for the Utang Na Lub would pretty much take care of family obligations. There is no social security in the Philippines, so this is the only hope for many parents. Ergo the positive attitude towards older foreigners marrying their daughters (compared by one forum poster to the family's fattened pigs). I have met dozens of really nice Filipinas who would do anything to marry a foreigner. The ones from the Provinces are probably the most faithful. Anyway, this has been discussed a great deal on the Philippine threads. Its also a lot cheaper living there than in the other countries you mentioned. And finally, English is almost universally spoken. IMHO you should consider taking a short trip to Cebu and see how things go.

Read what I posted.

I don't mind paying more than my share as I realize that money means less to me than it does to them. This is especially true for important things like health and education of the kids.

What I objected to was their attitude that I was their walking ATM machine and the complete lack of any show of appreciation for what I did for them.

[Kabul Guy]

No, that didn't work so I got a vasectomy.

I suggest you go and try to live in Uruguay or Panama with your cheap charlie attitude; making sure that not a cent goes to the girl's family, and see how it works out. Let us know.

Read what I posted.

I don't mind paying more than my share as I realize that money means less to me than it does to them. This is especially true for important things like health and education of the kids.

What I objected to was their attitude that I was their walking ATM machine and the complete lack of any show of appreciation for what I did for them.

[Member #4351]

Tell me, Still using your personality as your major means of birth control?

No, that didn't work so I got a vasectomy.

I suggest you go and try to live in Uruguay or Panama with your cheap charlie attitude; making sure that not a cent goes to the girl's family, and see how it works out. Let us know.

[Kabul Guy]

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So you expect to find a girl who will be with you for your good looks, charming personality and "generosity"? Good luck finding anyone anywhere.

So far works out quite well for me anywhere.

Tell me, Still using your personality as your major means of birth control?

[Member #4351]

These 3 places always show up on top retirement places in the Americas.

I doubt that availability of girls was one of the criteria used in that evaluation.

So you expect to find a girl who will be with you for your good looks, charming personality and "generosity"? Good luck finding anyone anywhere.

[Kabul Guy]

How in the world did you ever end up with Panama, Belize or Uruguay on your short list? Buy a book on Philippine culture and take a trip there. .

These 3 places always show up on top retirement places in the Americas.

I like Asian women, they are raised to satisfy their man however they are also raised to satisfy their man so that their man will support their families.

Have an Indonesian girlfriend who I just spent several months with. Had a hard time adjusting to the Asian culture on a lot of levels after the newness wore off a bit. The first several weeks were great.

Basically I had a serious issue with the expectation that I would be the main support for her family. She is one of 8 children and when we went to Jakarta for a few days to visit them all I ended up fully funding everything from amusement park visits to meals out.

I was even asked for money to pay for the gas to take everyone to the parks where I was expected to pay for entrance.

I was asked for money for cell phone credit for their kids.

I was asked for money so that they could go on vacation.

I was asked for money so that they could make house repairs.

I was asked for money for medical bills. (That one I helped with.)

Do not mind paying more than my share as what it cost me means a lot less to me than it did to them but it was the EXPECTATION that I would pay and the total lack of any show of real gratitude or acknowledgement that really pissed me off. That and the fact that it was every time. Even when we went to the low cost local restaurants where they would eat on their own, I was expected to pay for everyone and never an offer that someone else would pay.

Also when I read through the Philippine threads the common topic is how the women there are all drama queens. Never spend much time there but have worked and known many Philippine women and the tendency is there for them to become drama queens.

KG

[Member #4351]

How in the world did you ever end up with Panama, Belize or Uruguay on your short list? Buy a book on Philippine culture and take a trip there. Plenty of good advice on the Philippine threads here. I live in Latin America and fly all the way there twice a year. I must have a good reason. If for some reason you are convinced that latin america is the place for you, I suggest you scrub those three countries and look elsewhere. Belize was the last stop for the slave ships and all the least attractive dregs that no one else wanted ended up there. Not the best looking population in the Caribbean or Central America.

[Kabul Guy]

Right now I am looking to pick a retirement place.

One major factor is the availability and quality of a woman to share my retirement.

I like Asian women but fear that the culture shock between a North American / Western culture and an Asian one will be too much to take for long term. A few months or a year is OK but not forever.

My possible locations are Panama, Belize or Uruguay.

Any comments about the quality and availability of nice younger (less than 40 preferable less than 30) for a long term relationship would be appreciated.

Thanks and Happy Humping.

KG

[DJ FourMoney]

If you want blessed marriage with a foreign beautiful unspoiled by American pop culture girl, KEEP her in her country and move in with her.

If you say you can't or you prefer your country or any other lame excuse including finding a well paying job, guess what; You are already spoiled by the same infectious brainwashing culture you complained about initially and you really deserve that spoiled American Big, rough, selfish, ignorant, complaining, low self esteemed, masculine. Etc woman.

I agree and that's why I am finally going to Brazil, the land of plenty. America is on the slow train to oblivion and its time to get out if your concerned about the ever encroaching security / police state we find ourselves in. When both parties agree on anything that's generally bad news for you. There's a 2-3% chance I will go to Central America instead but I like Brazilian women too much and find other countries lacking overall.

So the penalty is the narrowing exchange rate. 19% inflation since 2007 banking crisis, items we take for granted in the states are either not available or very expensive and having to learn Portuguese.

Small price to pay.

[BrasilSoccer0]

If you want blessed marriage with a foreign beautiful unspoiled by American pop culture girl, KEEP her in her country and move in with her.

If you say you can't or you prefer your country or any other lame excuse including finding a well paying job, guess what; You are already spoiled by the same enfectious brainwashing culture you complained about initially and you really deserve that spoiled American Big, rough, selfish, ignorant, complaining, low self esteemed, masculine. Etc woman.

[Eboniman]

A man never really worries about the future until he gets a wife. A woman always worries about the future until she gets a husband.

Its no coincidence that when you meet a woman (hot or otherwise) one of the first five questions she will ask is,"what kind of work do you do?" (or some variant of). IMHO, I definitely think that money matters. Lets be real, we do roll out our toys to impress the ladies. The ones without means we want to show, look at the life you could have if you rolled with me. The ladies with means you're showing, look I'm no bum I can get on your level too.

[DJ FourMoney]

I don't share pix on this forum even by PM and I really don't care whether you think the girls I have been with are sexy or not. What matters is that they're sexy TO ME.

I don't even judge women by physical appearance anymore. I mainly care about how good they are in bed!

What sort of logic is that? You might not care how they look cause all you want to do is fuck. If that's the case how come you didn't stay in America? Plenty of low self-esteem White BBW's and dark-skinned Black women that are glad to give it up for free.

I judge the entire package. If you're going to be staring at the same person for 20-30-40 years, when you both look like raisins it doesn't matter but until then looks do matter and is calculated in the overall package.

I don't attract stupid women, so that part is covered.

We can agree to disagree I suppose but I do find some of your self-deprecation in some post troubling but then again that's is a meme around here anyway isn't it?

[Bango Cheito]

Prove it! This post is worthless without pictures and I have YET to see dude from the States with an attractive Colombian women, by Colombian standards (look at the TV.). If you like dark skinned women and women from the poor areas of town, there's plenty to choose from.

Nobody is forcing you to be involved long term with women. But you can't tell others its wack / sucks because that is not always true and because YOU failed doesn't make it a fact others will fail.

Besides what men do in America are problematic on several levels. All the pussy, no sacrifice. Living in Machismo Latin America doesn't mean your suited for such a lifestyle. If you can bag the same women the locals can, then you might be doing okay.

If your conquest are hot, let's see them. You can PM me, I don't share with others.

I don't share pix on this forum even by PM and I really don't care whether you think the girls I have been with are sexy or not. What matters is that they're sexy TO ME.

I don't even judge women by physical appearance anymore. I mainly care about how good they are in bed!