Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[PilotPaul]

The messages are only showing one tick which means that the system has received my message but that her phone has not received it. Her phone receiving it would be two ticks. If she actually opens the message the two ticks will turn blue. She could have blocked me, but we were not at a point in the conservation where she would have. That is what is so strange about this.

I am with KG on this. Although there are other possibilities he's very experienced in the way conversations progress.

It's obvious from his comments that this girl was a little bit different and a bit unique which is why he's been more interested in her outcome.

On the other probability she will turn up again in a few months.

PP.

[Kabul Guy]

Sorry KG but no visible online status (online xx hours ago), no second tick for message received, and no reads or replies are pretty good indications that you have been blocked or the number you have is no longer in use. Otherwise, she would receive your message when ever she opened her WA, even if she elected not to read or reply.
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The messages are only showing one tick which means that the system has received my message but that her phone has not received it. Her phone receiving it would be two ticks. If she actually opens the message the two ticks will turn blue. She could have blocked me, but we were not at a point in the conservation where she would have. That is what is so strange about this.

She could have lost or pawned her phone, lost her connection, not have any load to connect or any of a number of reasons.

I have no idea what the real reason is. I have said that the virus is a possibility and that is based on where in the conservation we were when she ghosted me.

I often get ghosted when I say I never send money to someone I have not met yet. That is not the case here.

She had complained of not feeling well, she said that she was fatigued, sore and coughing all classic virus symptoms. If she was trying a scam on getting money for medical treatments, why did she set the stage then go silent?

I have been doing this on line long enough. I name my contacts with their user name followed by SA, PL Tinder DIA etc. I counted and there are over 2 thousand contacts over the years with these suffixes so I have chatted a few girls on line. I can easily recognize the usual patterns when the girl is going for asking for money, while she had started down this path, by complaining of being sick, she never took it to the point where she actually asked for money. That she cut off contact points me in the direction that she was sick and her symptoms point to her having the virus.

I don't know what it was. I believe the highest probability is that she was actually sick and that the virus is the most likely cause of her sickness.

I acknowledge that there are many other possible explanations but I believe that these are lower probability reasons due to the point that we were at in the conservation. Another likely possibility is that she lost / pawned her phone and does not have access to the internet. Even with a lost phone she could log back on to tinder and send me a message there so I think that her being sick is the higher possibility answer. If she pawned it she could have taken out the SIM and borrowed another phone.

I really do not care enough to go looking any more. Yes I could use a second phone and see what is happening that way, I could open a second account on the site and see if she responds there. Etc.

I usually have a dozen or so chatting at any one time so losing one is no big deal, I can add several a day if I want but try to keep the numbers to something manageable.

[Sammon]

If you are visiting now is not the time to contact and line up conquests. As everyone known girls loose interest quickly if there is no immediate compensation. Very few girls will wait for you to show up And shower her with love and money. Most of these girls will play with many gents in chat rooms and will settle with few. All the rest will be sidelined and more likely forgotten. I have experience with many who inform me that they do not open some chat forms at all in order to avoid contacts. It is very much possible they were sent money by people hoping to get them into bed when they visit. Time and again I have advised people here not to send money for the sole purpose of keeping them loyal.

Only time you want to send money is if you are feeling like philanthropy with no expectations.

We all have experienced the girl in bed with you answering calls from some love struck guy who is supporting her. And some do call like clockwork checking up on the girl. It is pathetic.

[Goferring]

KG do you mean one tick or tow ticks as 1 = not even delivered in my view and could have changed the SIM.

Sorry KG but no visible online status (online xx hours ago), no second tick for message received, and no reads or replies are pretty good indications that you have been blocked or the number you have is no longer in use. Otherwise, she would receive your message when ever she opened her WA, even if she elected not to read or reply.

https://faq.whatsapp.com/21092978

Cheers. G.

PS. If you wanted to go full stalker mode you could just try to message her from a different number/phone and see if that one is at least received. 😎

[Wicked Roger]

Still no answers or read receipts on WhatsApp, she is not on line as I am not getting delivery receipts.

I considered some of the more common reasons. This is not the first time a girl has ghosted on me nor will it the last. Even in normal times I have had them disappear for weeks or months then start chatting as if nothing has happened..

Maybe she changed her SIM (again!) as many pinays I know change it faster than you change a bay's diaper! And then forget your number of forget to message unless they need cash from moneyko. Had that recently. One disappeared now suddenly back.

KG do you mean one tick or tow ticks as 1 = not even delivered in my view and could have changed the SIM.

[Kabul Guy]

She must have made a good impression on you.

It is interesting how their are amazing girls out there. Some just have mush higher IQ and inquisitiveness and are thus more engaging.

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Even so for the interesting one, these travel restrictions are going to be too long for me to maintain contact without the chance of seeing them. Wasted effort on my part.

PP.

It was not that much of a good impression, just the sudden ghosting at the stage of our conservation. Usually if I get ghosted it is early in the discussion or after it has run its course. Seldom in an interesting part. I am tracking it more because I am wondering if it is the virus or not. She had the symptoms and was not obviously using it as a cash request play so I think that she may be sick.

I agree there are some fantastic girls coming out of the ether and going on line. I also am chatting with one, educated, property owner, business minded and an OFW from the UAE stuck here by travel restrictions while on vacation. Her degree is in business and she is an office manager for a property firm there. Not your run of the mill LBFM.

When I say business minded, I don't mean "wants to start a small business of some kind, will you give me the cash to get started?" I mean she has concrete plans to turn her large family home into a student dormitory to the point she has done actual market research, costing, capital investment estimates, ROI calculations etc. All the stuff that goes into an actual business plan.

We are talking through her plans, she has sent me the spreadsheet and it was actually very well done, I made only a few minor suggestions, mainly on doing some sensitivity analysis on the input assumptions to see where the risk factors were and how exposed she is to them.

[Engine Driver]

Even so for the interesting one, these travel restrictions are going to be too long for me to maintain contact without the chance of seeing them. Wasted effort on my part.

PP.

Exactly. I don't think mongers are going to get on any airplanes bound for the Philippines to screw LBFMs for another 18 months at least. Banal chit chat with LBFMs is utterly pointless.

Mongers are better off focusing on other more rewarding ventures in RWML at this point in time. They have a fabulous opportunity for long term wealth generation and consolidation when the stock markets and property markets are down as they are. They can also spend time studying and learning. They can get fit, loose weight and get a nutrition plan done. Solitude is also good for reflection and mind control. These pursuits are going to be more interesting and beneficial than thinking about how many braindead nincompoops they can BBFSCIP with.

[PilotPaul]

Still no answers or read receipts on WhatsApp, she is not on line as I am not getting delivery receipts.

She must have made a good impression on you.

It is interesting how their are amazing girls out there. Some just have mush higher IQ and inquisitiveness and are thus more engaging.

Chatting to one girl, turning 21 in December this year, I hope travel restrictions are lifted by then. She seems nice, an actual graduate, has some goals, career and a job.

Others follow the boring path, Where you from? What's your work? Those conversations finish quickly.

Even so for the interesting one, these travel restrictions are going to be too long for me to maintain contact without the chance of seeing them. Wasted effort on my part.

PP.

[Kabul Guy]

Hi KG please consider the other more likely possibilities. It could be as simple as sister now has her phone and won't return it. Or caught in a lock down but had left her phone somewhere or even the good old pawned her phone for food.

I've also got a FB friend that seems to have disappeared, provincial girl, Hep be pos from birth, no word for weeks. I feel she'll be back.

Still no answers or read receipts on WhatsApp, she is not on line as I am not getting delivery receipts.

I considered some of the more common reasons. This is not the first time a girl has ghosted on me nor will it the last. Even in normal times I have had them disappear for weeks or months then start chatting as if nothing has happened.

Hell she might just have found someone with deeper or at least looser pockets than mine.

Whatever it is I wish her luck and just posted this as a warning to others that the virus is out there.

[PilotPaul]

Had too much time in isolation over the weekend so I re-activated my PL account.

I was content just to look at the Pampanga area and see the number of familiar faces on there.

Over the days I was on there received quite a few messages from new girls wanting to chat and talk, Certainly more messages than my face deserves.

Many of the girls purport to be newbies, office girls etc. For sure many will be seeking support and it easy to say that many may be bola bola. A few were out of work bargirls offering camshow for P200.

As someone who has been fishing on PL for the past 8 years I can say that there is an injection of new talent. It's a waste that we are all stuck in our countries of residence.

For sure many of these girls will get burned off by the dick pics and abuse but for someone it could be the time to find a special Filipina.

PP.

[Pinaypounder]

I had been chatting with a girl from Cebu. She was all ready to come down to where I am to spend the lockdown with me but got stopped and prevented from leaving Cebu City. We kept chatting and soon after that she started to complain of feeling sick. At first it thought that it would be followed by a plea for money to see the doctor, but she never asked for any help, even with the transportation to my place in the first place. I tried talking her into going to the doctor but she refused saying it was not that bad.

Her symptoms were classic coronovirus, fever, body ache and dry rasping cough. It has now been 3 days since she has responded or even opened my WhatsApp messages. I have sent her regular SMS messages and put 100 p on her phone just in case she ran out of load. I tried talking her into going to the doctor, but she refused saying it was not that bad. She also has not been on FC since we started chatting. Unless I hear from her, I am assuming the worst. She is healthy, nonsmoker and young so her odds if it is the virus are pretty good but not 100%.

I have no idea what it is but am strongly suspicious that she does have the virus. It definitely is not a scam as she has never even hinted about me sending money to her. I am hoping that she just has a regular illness or some other reason for being off line but I just don't know right now.

Be careful breaking the social distancing and quarantine precautions, even with healthy appearing long term regulars. This is real and it is dangerous.

This woman's response to NOT go to the DR is odd. Most of them head to the DR often and for very minor symptoms. I always found it odd that poor people (who have to pay for Healthcare) ran to the DR so often, it struck me that they were proud of being hospitalized. Never ever encountered one who refused the DR.

I am guessing she is busy with another!

PP.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

Will wonders never cease. A totally free, rather new dating site, no gimmicks or catches. Seems geared mostly to older women looking for partners. Moslty women based in Western countries, which is a bummer. Lots of fuglies mixed in with about 10% still attractive women who are not fat, or ugly enough to scare a horse, but plenty of those too. Practically no detectable fake profiles. I have overcome their fake profile firewalls and made an account. But I have not put a photo up yet and if I do, it won't be me. For details see my recently updated blog easily found on usenet newsgroups on the Philippines and on p4 p, as well as on Reddit (corrupt company that censors) and other travel sites that do not censor. Cannot post it here because the mods here love to censor and probably would just delete it. This is the only totally free dating site that, after extensive searching is really free, except for DIA and S. A. (which I do not count since I have yet been able to defeat their blocks, but will eventually).

May be a honeypot for microsuck or messages sent are being sent to dev / nul.

[Chocha Monger]

Hi KG please consider the other more likely possibilities. It could be as simple as sister now has her phone and won't return it. Or caught in a lock down but had left her phone somewhere or even the good old pawned her phone for food.

I've also got a FB friend that seems to have disappeared, provincial girl, Hep be pos from birth, no word for weeks. I feel she'll be back.

Many LBFMs have preexisting health conditions and will succumb to a fatal dose of the Wuhan bat virus. Do not expect to see all of your regulars in 2021 or 2022. Many will have fallen off their perches during the pandemic. Do not get your hopes up of seeing any particular LBFM again.

[PilotPaul]

I have no idea what it is but am strongly suspicious that she does have the virus. It definitely is not a scam as she has never even hinted about me sending money to her. I am hoping that she just has a regular illness or some other reason for being off line but I just don't know right now.

Hi KG please consider the other more likely possibilities. It could be as simple as sister now has her phone and won't return it. Or caught in a lock down but had left her phone somewhere or even the good old pawned her phone for food.

I've also got a FB friend that seems to have disappeared, provincial girl, Hep be pos from birth, no word for weeks. I feel she'll be back.

[Run Mann]

But in that case you would have to select that you are paying for services when you send the money and they charge a fee for that.

That is exactly what one is doing when one sends money and the fee is nominal so no big loss. Here is that ISG professor's ex wife supplementing her income web her version of a cam show.

https://www.pornhubpremium.com/view_...h5b7306081db7b