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10-01-20 01:34 #3496
Posts: 340Originally Posted by MaddTraveler [View Original Post]
One way to gauge if a girl is non pro is to hint you may go to a resort in beávaro for a weekend. The amount of normal girls that will say "invítame" is high. Many have never or rarely been. If you know her and get along, if you take her to a place where she can drink and eat all day for free and where she will be half naked all day? Almost a sure thing. I have a weekend booked in November with an amiga I took last year. Still, last night a sister of an old amiga called to chat. Never dated her. She asked if I am officially single again. Hinted at me needing a novia etc. I said with stay at home, I can't go out and meet women etc. Told her I may go to punta cana for weekend and she said "Invítame". Did not tell her I had date lined up. Wanted to feel her out for future reference. I am going to resort using airline miles and even if paying cash, the difference for bringing a date is minimal. Maybe 50 bucks more per night.
By the end of the call she was saying I need to invite her dancing once the discos open. Invited me to her house for dinner. 100% non pro. Owns small business that she runs out of her modest house.
I had a very cute waitress tell me "invítame" when I was planning a business trip to Cartagena. She had saved up money and said she would pay flight since she always wanted to go there. My job would have been paying hotels anyway so she saw an opportunity. No doubt she would show her appreciation.
The ammount of non pros down here who hardly ever go out is astounding. I have taken women from harina and San Cristobal to zona colonial and they had never been. A few beers in "romantic" setting like plaza Espana or sega zona, and they are happy. Also appreciative.
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10-01-20 01:10 #3495
Posts: 340Originally Posted by GrownMan1 [View Original Post]
One of my "tricks" from over the years is first date not banging them. Maybe some affection, making out, getting them off and not trying to do her. Worked every frigging time. Second date they would literally rape me. They never met a guy that put her needs first. . . . . Or did he?
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10-01-20 00:59 #3494
Posts: 340Originally Posted by MaddTraveler [View Original Post]
One way to gauge if a girl is non pro is to hint you may go to a resort in beávaro for a weekend. The amount of normal girls that will say "invítame" is high. Many have never or rarely been. If you know her and get along, if you take her to a place where she can drink and eat all day for free and where she will be half naked all day? Almost a sure thing. I have a weekend booked in November with an amiga I took last year. Still, last night a sister of an old amiga called to chat. Never dated her. She asked if I am officially single again. Hinted at me needing a novia etc. I said with stay at home, I can't go out and meet women etc. Told her I may go to punta cana for weekend and she said "Invítame". Did not tell her I had date lined up. Wanted to feel her out for future reference. I am going to resort using airline miles and even if paying cash, the difference for bringing a date is minimal. Maybe 50 bucks more per night.
By the end of the call she was saying I need to invite her dancing once the discos open. Invited me to her house for dinner. 100% non pro. Owns small business that she runs out of her modest house.
I had a very cute waitress tell me "invítame" when I was planning a business trip to Cartagena. She had saved up money and said she would pay flight since she always wanted to go there. My job would have been paying hotels anyway so she saw an opportunity. No doubt she would show her appreciation.
The ammount of non pros down here who hardly ever go out is astounding. I have taken women from harina and San Cristobal to zona colonial and they had never been. A few beers in "romantic" setting like plaza Espana or sega zona, and they are happy. Also appreciative.
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09-30-20 21:45 #3493
Posts: 2490Originally Posted by DoubleDouble [View Original Post]
Hotels.
Pros: Traveling accommodations are met. (Hot water, safe, bed, and air condition). Most hotels have a front desk, cleaning staff, and security personnel to assist you during your time. Most hotels have backup generators because power outages are frequent. Someone will be there to address your problems.
Cons: less private, less space, usually more expensive but not much.
Airbnb.
Pros: more private, you're not renting a room, you're renting someone's apartment or home. You usually have a patio or balcony. You usually have a dining room and living room separate from your bedroom.
Cons: no one's there to address your problems. Most don't have backup generators.
Personally I think as an experience traveler you will do fine in an Airbnb. I recommend hotels for people less familiar with the area, culture, and language.
I definitely would suggest Boca Chica for you. It’s easier to get the hang of.
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09-30-20 19:15 #3492
Posts: 61You'll be fine
Welcome bro!
Based on the information on the post, you know Spanish and know what's up cause your not really "new". I recommend Boca Chica if you don't want all the hoopla of Sosua super pros and the noisy, young crowds showing each other up over there. Boca is way smaller, quieter and simpler.
For a feeler, stay at FrioHot Hotel for at least 3 days. There's also a good sports bar across the street there but I forgot the name. But FH is a hotel restaurant and the food is very good just a smidge pricey-but when you see how clean and well kept the place is you'll see why!!
Try the fried calamari and the green bread spread-O M G!! They even got a money exchange right outside, or a bank up behind the hotel. It's chica friendly with free breakfast! Only thing is they don't have a pool, just a jacuzzi on the rooftop overlooking the ocean! But its a modern looking place and you have a chance to meet a few travelers there as well to point you to some other spots. One 4 block strip in town closed to traffic at night and VERY safe. Go to the Piano Bar!! If you like Spanish mamis they got them. If you like Haitian mamis (I do) you'll see some nice ones there and all over.
Stay away from fast talking dudes during the day-all of them!! Never let them take you to eat on the beach-EVER. They will triple charge you. The Chinese food spot is good and they got a supermarket by the park. More to list but I won't kill your fun. It's great for the older, wiser, slower guys--like us!! Enjoy bro!! P.S. --walk the entire beach down to the shacks at the end--nice walk, plenty to see. Just not at night, sir.
Originally Posted by DoubleDouble [View Original Post]
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09-30-20 03:22 #3491
Posts: 15965Originally Posted by Xiomega [View Original Post]
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09-30-20 02:03 #3490
Posts: 111Originally Posted by Xiomega [View Original Post]
If you are confused about girls who say they don't want money. Just tell them upfront that you are looking to meet and spend time getting to know a nice girl and let destiny decide. And that you aren't interested in a professional sex worker. And see if she is still interested in coming.
My own personal take, for those GF types I never pay her for sex in the states. Our economy is different.
However when traveling to a second or third world country I gauge the girls professional career. If I feel she is just getting by and she is making her own way to see me; AND SHE IS GOING TO MEET MY NEEDS WITHOUT BS, I typically prefer to give her a "buy yourself a nice little gift (monies)" AS SHE LEAVES. It is her (walking away money) because I'm still going to play around with other chicks and I more than likely may choose not to see her again. I am PAYING HER TO LEAVE and not show back up creating a crazy situation unexpectedly at my door.
If she is a professional career woman with good income I don't give her money. And it works for me.
You will have to figure out your own style based on how and what you are hunting. Nothing is written in stone. Just ensure you RTFF for others experiences, and 1 don't overpay or 2 let these chicas ruin your trip!
Have a f*ing blast and Enjoy!!
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09-30-20 00:00 #3489
Posts: 12Drop me some Knowledge
Maybe this will help some of the new travelers to DR.
New member of ISG, been on USA guide for a long time. Did a lot of traveling all over Central and South America and the Caribbean years ago. Many, many, many, adventures but it has been a while. I am ready to start traveling again so I joined up, been reading the site for a while. I need some help. I am deciding whether to go the hotel or Airbnb route. You guys have made me nervous about the Airbnb, that was my initial plan. I have been exposed to many situations in my travels and never had issues. I always felt that if I did, I could talk my way out, or run like hell. But, I am now older, wiser, and slower. I talk a good game, am not shy or scared and speak Spanish so I am comfortable and confident being out and about no matter where I am. So what do you think, which way should I go?
Also, PP, Sosua, or BC? I do not need unlimited choices, as long as there are some opportunities I will be fine, I am confident that I can find a friend without any problems. Not being cocky, just basing it on what I have read about DR. I am there 10/12 to 10/22 and would enjoy hooking up with one of you for some drinks, especially some of the real pros on here. I am a great wingman, can add to the conversations, and shut up and listen at the right times. Most importantly I am not a dick or a pain in the ass. So what do you guys think, pros and cons of each based on the above?
Thanks guys, be safe.
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09-29-20 07:15 #3488
Posts: 6I admit I AM totally green and a bit late to the game as well: I really appreciate the forums like ISG where I can find what to avoid and what to expect, also allowing me to say "Right! I remember reading about that, should have been more careful" after getting into one of those situation. I don't have any illusion that I will be able to navigate everything perfectly but at least I had been forewarned.
I'm going there to relax and not "power monger". Girls are the added bonus beside diving / going to the beach / sailing (or at least that is the plan). I have used Badoo to get to know a few girls beforehand (mostly because it's free and you can easily change the location to DR with a GPS simulator) and found a few that were point blank asking for money for their time, and 1-2 who said they didn't want any (thought I am still not sure I trust them when they say that).
Current plan is 1 week in Sosua and 1 week in Boca Chica, the rest is ***.
Originally Posted by EddieLima [View Original Post]
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09-29-20 03:50 #3487
Posts: 2490Pass him to Rock he's in the zone.
Originally Posted by EddieLima [View Original Post]
You're right most of us vets will agree to come out and be straight up. It's kind of a very direct but we are just trying to save you time and energy. When I first started coming to the DR I met a girl I labeled superwoman. She was all of that and a bag of chips. She gave me her number and I was trying my best to make things happen. I befriended some vets who took me under their wing. They liked talking to me because I like listening. I told them I was trying to score with this Chica and I ask for their assistance. After 30 seconds the conversation the vet looked at me and said she's full of bullshit. Continue talking to her if you want but she's full of bullshit. As bad as I wanted her! I would've easily fell victim to her bullshit. I took there advice and deleted her from my phone.
I was a good grasshopper. I hate someone telling me I told you so. I always tell my son your dad is your cheat code. Use your freaking cheat code; Especially when you’re playing with your money.
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09-29-20 01:13 #3486
Posts: 111Whats your take on Videochat?
Originally Posted by StrawHat [View Original Post]
I mainly use it for gaming regular girls. As far as their looks, I typically depend on lots of Pics of her. If their are not enough pics I ask for more while chatting her up via text.
I've never personally video chatted upfront. For me It may be awkward due to the potential language barrier. And honestly I've been successful with not saying much and allowing her own mind to do all the legwork of building the best romantic image / version of me that she wants to bang. (That's what girls do unless the dude talks too much!) That is why I shoot for meeting at my place, I need to go for the lay while her self hypnosis is at its peak. LOL After that I am golden!
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09-28-20 23:21 #3485
Posts: 2490Originally Posted by MaddTraveler [View Original Post]
As vets we can disagree because we have different strategies. I pay attention to what people say and sometimes some thing I give two cents.
1. What I said about normal girls I standby. She may be a typical Chica but I understand the culture enough to know that looking for romance through social networks it's not the norm in the DR. Looking for financial support No matter the profession is. I haven't traveled as with many years as you have. Maybe you have a higher insight than I do, you definitely have more years experience.
2. I'll say you have more experience in negotiations than me. Sometimes I said "you" I really wouldn't mean you individually I meant "you" in general. I apologize if you thought I was directing it all to you. I was under the influence. But just to playfully jab at you. There's only one type of chica that I know that you ask how much for her time. No matter how you articulate it. That Language is the norm for people of our hobby and chicas who break the norm to get down with us.
3. My man I disagree with you. I don't think they try to escape- but try to survive. Doing whatever they have to do to live in the county they love very much. IMO The Dominicans are nationalist. They have a Family, cultural, and spiritual bond with each other. (Klk) They will always be down for each other. Honestly, I haven't met too many Dominicans trying get me to get them to the US. But I haven't been around as long as you. I understand where you coming from, I have heard a few stories. Not only that; I've been to Cuba. Where I will agree, what you say I can see applies. I am just telling you what I observed seeing the culture.
My man, I don't want to throw insults or play tit for tat. I just disagreed. I feel we both have good intention sharing our experiences and trying to help others. I'll concentrate on that.
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09-28-20 21:06 #3484
Posts: 61Newbie rules
You sound very green. LOL. Nothing wrong with that! But off jump, why E S. It is a bad idea to to bring a chica to your room before the price is set. WHY? Because she might say you should have known it was $200 USA For and hour and then the cops arrive. No bueno! And BTW, being that you are new, do not use an Air BnB. They might just give you the key for the week and leave you at the mercy of hardened pros. They can smell you, bro. And you're not going to be able to fend off a "Hoe-Spazz" by yourself yet. Use a chica friendly hotel your first few times out. They know the scene, they know the problem chicas and most importantly will not allow you to bring in a minor!
How to ask how much?. This is the easiest and hardest thing to do isn't it? The Vets on here will say to just ask. And they're right, IF, you're in a place like Sosua, Boca or the red light districts in the Cap.
But I know, somewhere in the back of your mind you're asking yourself what if she isn't a "working girl" and how do I avoid getting slapped in the face or totally ruining something that might be special? Hey, you never know! Especially if you are NOT in those cities I mentioned and in a regular locals bar. The great beauty about the DR. The women are plentiful and aggressive and sex is good fun and no big deal. Say that you want her to go back to your room and what can you give her? DR men are just as aggressive so they are used to getting asked for some ass. Just be nicer and suave about it. Dassit bro! Remember, you can tip. Just don't overpay. And RTFF. Haaaaa.
Originally Posted by Xiomega [View Original Post]
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09-28-20 19:02 #3483
Posts: 118Both have good points
MaddTraveler, you bring up good points for the traveler that is there for a short period of time and the tools (dating apps, or references) to utilize while there. SubCmdr viewpoints are clear for someone that is there for a long period or permanently. He can just relax and he is not under the clock to try and meet non pros because your trip will end in soon. You can build an organic relationship without the same tools as the short time traveler. I am not saying that it can't be done in a short vacation time frame but you will need some stars aligned, right place at the right time for it to happen.
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09-28-20 18:19 #3482
Posts: 62Video Chat
I agree 100% on the video interview regardless of how you source your Chicas. I interviewed 10 before my last trip and locked in two. I'm repeating with one and interviewing now for number 2. L on my next trip in October. I actually did 3 separate video chats with the ones I picked just to be sure. Nothing is 100% but for me, I need to see & talk to the woman.
Strawhat.
Originally Posted by Sawassdee [View Original Post]