Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Sammon]

What are the scams, exactly?

There are scams. Transportation scam. Everything has to do with money. Apart from ladyboys there are girls who promise everything and want money for transportation. Even a girl who says she lives a mile away wants 500 pesos for a cab and would not agree me paying the cab on arrival. I do not send money before meeting. They need to borrow from somebody And I will gladly take care of it.

Family or friends scam. Some insist to bring her family or friends to meet. You will be stuck with lunch or dinner tab if you allow with no guarantee she will come with you. Philippine people are always hungry if somebody is picking up the tab.

Bait and switch scam. Some have very nice pics on profile only to show real ugly themselves in person. I prefer real cam chatting few times and arrange and agree on everything before meeting.

Compensation scam. Some girls demand more money than agreed amount. If she gives good service it is up to you. Otherwise just give agreed amount. I always stay at hotels rather than apartment rental so I have added security.

Apart from ugly girls and smelly pussy I have not had any bad experiences.

[Chocha Monger]

Prostitutes sometimes tend to be like that. They sometimes expect their customers / clients to pay.

I have just been on kik with a stunner. She wants $200. She can FKK off because, as I "explained" to her, once non PHP currencies are mentioned, discussion is over. I bonk a US Asian air line attendant for $100 when she is in town but that is apples and less expensive but reliable oranges.

I tried baddoo but gave it up after 15 minutes.

Fortunately I only have a few years of poon chasing left before Little Pedro packs it in.

Interestingly, many elderly mongers express a sense of relief when their boner is finally and irretrievably broken. It is not what many would expect. However, it is understandable that many old fellas are happy to escape from the constant drive to satisfy the curiosity of their penises at the expense of their financial, physical, and mental well-being. In the end, men are only victims of testosterone.

[X Man]

Here are a few things I learned the hard way.

Making the date may seem like a done deal, but I recommend followup texts or even a call. Make them feel like you are eager to meet them. I've had a few no shows who said, "I didn't think you were serious, because you didn't text me."

Some gals might not have any spare cash. In other words, you need to be on hand to pay the taxi. Sometimes they won't even mention this to you. Very frustrating if you are in the mall and just sat down with a cup of coffee. Also, if they are not in a central location, there might not be any taxis. Always assume they will be late.

I had one gal text me that she was wearing, "black dress". I could not find her. Turns out she meant clothing when she said "dress". She was wearing a black blouse with blue jeans. I must have walked by her several times and she never thought to say something. Communication snafus do happen.

Murphy's Law: The best looking, the best GFE, the most interesting gal is usually the one you meet the day before your flight. Have fun. X.

A.

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

[Pwrmnd]

The fact of the matter is that you have nothing in common. .... Even when I try to converse and get to know them it goes over their heads. Every little question, what is your favorite color, what do you like to eat, etc. garners a response of why.

I remember being in Cuba with a chick that another board member's girl hooked me up with. I was asking her normal get to know you questions and she thought I was crazy for asking such things. She ended up calling the rest of the day that she was supposed to accompany me to the beach off.

So unless you are up on Filipino soap operas and are ready to discuss that. These are simple people you are talking to. The most intriguing question you are probably going to get from them is did you eat already. Maybe you will find some type of chemistry when you are together in the same room. If not, then just be grateful that you are traveling and fucking.

Haha. Some great points there and very amusing anecdotes.

[Mr Enternational]

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

No need to wrap your head around anything. Just go with the flow. If it ends up they want money, then surely you will have 1,000 or 2,000 pesos laying around. Simple.

What's funny is that they don't seem to keen on chatting much, except to stay in daily contact and make arrangements to meet. Hmm. They are much less curious about me than I'd expect from someone looking for a partner.

The fact of the matter is that you have nothing in common. It is the same thing with probably 9 of 10 chicks that I meet online around the world. I am a 47 year old single grandfather that speaks 5 languages, has a masters in business, and has been to over 100 countries. What do you think I have in common with most 3rd world chicks on dating sites? Even when I try to converse and get to know them it goes over their heads. Every little question, what is your favorite color, what do you like to eat, etc. garners a response of why.

I remember being in Cuba with a chick that another board member's girl hooked me up with. I was asking her normal get to know you questions and she thought I was crazy for asking such things. She ended up calling the rest of the day that she was supposed to accompany me to the beach off.

So unless you are up on Filipino soap operas and are ready to discuss that. These are simple people you are talking to. The most intriguing question you are probably going to get from them is did you eat already. Maybe you will find some type of chemistry when you are together in the same room. If not, then just be grateful that you are traveling and fucking.

[Albert9989]

May be not scams but when they ask for money upfront, just forget, and go to the next one, that's all.

[Pwrmnd]

What are the scams, exactly?

I'm aware of the ladyboys who lie about being real girls (even using real girl's pictures and directly denying that they are ladyboys) and then say "I'm shy, can I come directly to your room? They either hope you won't mind, or they just want easy "go away" money.

Then I suppose there are scammers from Africa or whatever who will try to get you to pay money online. What else?

P.S. To not waste time on ladyboys from the start, I ignore "girls" who look like guys, who have only blurry or highly filtered photos, or are always covering up their face, or always deliberately put their chin down, or who won't send real pictures in chat. Many come right out and say they are ladyboys, but obviously a large % don't.

[Albert9989]

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

I've moved from DIA to Whatsapp with 5 of the most promising that responded. 21 to 29 years old and good looking. I check them out on webcam to make sure they are the real deal, though it's not super easy because most are using cell phones with terrible internet or bad cameras (grainy). None gave much sign of being pros (like swimsuit pictures or provocative wording). At the same time, I don't promise them marriage or long-term relationships, or bring that up at all.

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Last trip I failed miserably, but maybe I'm smarter this time around. Anyway, any advice would be appreciated.

When you arrive in Manila, just contact in DIA those who you like, saying just I am in manila now, can we meet?

You will get a lot of answers, then you can chat as usual to arrange meeting and all conditions, or do all check you want before commiting to meet, but I was really suprised by all answers received. Many are scams, but in the middle there are some gems, very good surprises.

[PedroMorales]

It's also possible that for some of these girls, or all, its just a business of sorts. .

Prostitutes sometimes tend to be like that. They sometimes expect their customers / clients to pay.

I have just been on kik with a stunner. She wants $200. She can FKK off because, as I "explained" to her, once non PHP currencies are mentioned, discussion is over. I bonk a US Asian air line attendant for $100 when she is in town but that is apples and less expensive but reliable oranges.

I tried baddoo but gave it up after 15 minutes.

Fortunately I only have a few years of poon chasing left before Little Pedro packs it in.

[Pwrmnd]

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

I've moved from DIA to Whatsapp with 5 of the most promising that responded. 21 to 29 years old and good looking. I check them out on webcam to make sure they are the real deal, though it's not super easy because most are using cell phones with terrible internet or bad cameras (grainy). None gave much sign of being pros (like swimsuit pictures or provocative wording). At the same time, I don't promise them marriage or long-term relationships, or bring that up at all.

I also tried badoo, which now seems like a total waste of time. Only one decent prospect.

I've been making plans to meet them, and all are surprisingly quick to say "yes", sometimes after webcam or asking for more pics. Sometimes I'll say "meet" other times I'll say "stay with me" just to test the reaction. They've even agreed to come straight to my hotel, even at late hours (after school or work). I gather from this thread, though, that there's a big difference between agreeing to meet and actually showing up.

What's funny is that they don't seem to keen on chatting much, except to stay in daily contact and make arrangements to meet. Hmm. They are much less curious about me than I'd expect from someone looking for a partner. Maybe they've learned to not invest too much too soon because many guys don't show up (maybe they just want free webcam shows, or end up meeting other prospects). It's also possible that for some of these girls, or all, its just a business of sorts. None have explicitly indicated that they wanted money, though. Several have indicated how poor they are and how they'll be needing to pay for this or that soon. I suppose that's true of most Filipino women. I certainly don't mind helping them out if they help me out, so to speak.

I leave the USA In two days. We'll see how it goes when I meet them in person. I'm curious what percent will (a) never show up and leaving me hanging, (b) be shy daters or virgins or and I never get anywhere, (c) will jump into the sack right away, hoping for sponsorship (best case scenario), (d) same as see but become clingy, (e) will turn out to be pros or semi-pros and negotiate for money before arrival.

Last trip I failed miserably, but maybe I'm smarter this time around. Anyway, any advice would be appreciated.

[GDreams]

Looks like you open both entrances.

She likes a finger in the butt but reluctant to try anal.

[Member #1088]

Another PL girl. Seen her a few times. She is tiny, 20, rare in can actually give me a BJ that I can enjoy and has a nice tight pussy. Cost is 2500ST.

Looks like you open both entrances.

[GDreams]

Another PL girl. Seen her a few times. She is tiny, 20, rare in can actually give me a BJ that I can enjoy and has a nice tight pussy. Cost is 2500ST.

[Sammon]

I looked this info up, I think, when I made my first trip a few years ago. I am curious what your gifts amounts are for the dating site girls, for overnight, 5 days, etc.

Thanks in advance.

I give 2000 a day. Plus dinner, some gifts etc. I am generous if the girl is to my liking. My ST rates are 1500. Pitfalls of importing girls from provinces are you are stuck with them at least for a day. Luckily all the girls have performed well to keep them on the agreed days. Love the province girls because they are not jaded by city life. For them even 20 pesos means something. Even I take them to mall to buy gifts they look at the price tag and will find something on the clearance rack.

[George03]

I looked this info up, I think, when I made my first trip a few years ago. I am curious what your gifts amounts are for the dating site girls, for overnight, 5 days, etc.

Thanks in advance.