Stupid shit in Medellin

[MarquisdeSade1]

The obvious pitfall for using numbers to rank a girl's beauty is I have literally seen one guy call a girl and 9 and another guy the same girl a 3. That won't change anyone's mind here.

The instant a person begins to rely on what other people believe is attractive for themselves, by definition they are practicing ego gratification. That in and of itself is not a bad thing but it is unnecessary and off-track. Psychologically, the root of this is self-insecurity and low self-esteem, often but not always compensated with over-confidence and braggadocio. There is no other explanation that covers all the situations.

In my experience, a lot of guys who play this ratings game do not discern between the illusion of a girl with make-up and dressed a certain way compared to chicas who don't. In fact, take away the make-up and a lot of these so called nines look very different. Experienced mongers know it's not what they look like when you take them home, but what they look like when you wake up next to them in the morning.

I agree with most of this post.

I think the 1-10 rating system is so subjective it is almost meaningless when talking with others.

That said.

If you put a gun to my head, I will say I have seen and done a few 10's.

Blonde haired blued eyed 18 yo absolutely perfect goddesses (xero physical flaws), no ink no babies no implants but unfortunately too much attitude for my liking (I can get more pleasure from pornhub for free sans the bitchiness).

When I monger I hunt for what in my mind would be an 8 on my internal 1-10 scale.

I will settle for some PSE with 7's, (but I typically try to avoid the divas that I would consider 9's or 10's).

But really don't want to go below that.

So in closing I think this scale should be used for "internal purposes only".

[Mr Enternational]

My friends saw my gal's pics and called her a 10. I think she would be fetching $2000 a night easy in NYC

And what would she be getting in Botero Plaza? Probably the same 30 or 40K that everyone else gets around there.

[Mr Enternational]

A more enlightened conversation could go something like this. Mongerer Joe says, "I love my new girlfriend, she's just what I have been looking for. " Mongerer Bob, "What do you find so attractive about her"? Joe replies, "She weighs 400 pounds, and I love fat chics".

You said something in that post brother. Never have I been out mongering with friends and one of us picked a chick and another said ewww, are you sure you want her. She is just a 4. Go over there and grab one of those 8s. We have no competition going. Get what you want and have fun.

Online there seems to be a big competition among strangers though. The girl that I am paying is better than yours. You girl is not good because you only have to pay her 30,000 pesos. Chicks that want more money are better. Chicks that sell pussy in this neighborhood are better than the chicks in the neighborhood you are buying pussy in.

[Mr Enternational]

In my experience, a lot of guys who play this ratings game do not discern between the illusion of a girl with make-up and dressed a certain way compared to chicas who don't. In fact, take away the make-up and a lot of these so called nines look very different. Experienced mongers know it's not what they look like when you take them home, but what they look like when you wake up next to them in the morning.

I was thinking about starting a dating site where chicks could only post 3 pictures. All would have to be against a white wall and 1 would have to be with no makeup, like a drivers license picture or mugshot, so guys would really know what they are bargaining for. I do not think it would work though because there are too many guys that are deep into the fantasy or illusion as you put it. They think if the chick has a picture on a boat or wearing special shoes then she is automatically better than another chick and worth more.

[Mr Enternational]

She told me she had a job offer that paid $500 a month and she would see me less often if she took it. I covered that amount so I could see her more often.

I pay the rent on her place,

And you fell for that bullshit? What skills does she posses and what was she going to be doing to be paid 2 million pesos per month? I was at an old flame's house last night here in Barranquilla. For 1,100,000 pesos she works from Monday through Saturday, 6:30am to 8pm with an hour and a half for lunch.

Seems there would have been a line straight into the next city if they were giving out a job paying 2 million to someone with no skills (assuming your girl has no special skills because if she did you would have already mentioned them.)

How could she have known you two would see each other less? You may have even adjusted your schedule and it turned out you could see each other more. Me thinks you got played my man.

See a player like myself would have said okay go ahead and take the job and we will see how things work out. There would probably end up not even being a job at that point. Something would have happened and the offer would have fell through. And if it really was a real job offer, she could have always quit later with you then deciding to pay the rent if you had not continued to see each other to your satisfaction. But you put the cart before the damn horse. You need to stay 3 steps ahead of these women instead of running behind them playing catch up.

If I am ever paying rent then it is on MY place. Maybe I would allow a broad to stay in MY place (which I would not actually do) but I am not handing over money recurringly for some broad to have a place to lay her head. That shit is out of the question. Even if I was sending a chick money for any reason, I would have a key to her place. I am not helping out on bills at a place I do not have a key to and can not pop up anytime I damn well please.

Funny how this woman is so great that no other suitors and their money were good enough for her. Only Elvis and his magic $500 per month held the key to her heart. What is your secret? What did you do to crack this nut that everyone else did not?

[Osteoknot]

The obvious pitfall for using numbers to rank a girl's beauty is I have literally seen one guy call a girl and 9 and another guy the same girl a 3. That won't change anyone's mind here.

The instant a person begins to rely on what other people believe is attractive for themselves, by definition they are practicing ego gratification. That in and of itself is not a bad thing but it is unnecessary and off-track. Psychologically, the root of this is self-insecurity and low self-esteem, often but not always compensated with over-confidence and braggadocio. There is no other explanation that covers all the situations.

In my experience, a lot of guys who play this ratings game do not discern between the illusion of a girl with make-up and dressed a certain way compared to chicas who don't. In fact, take away the make-up and a lot of these so called nines look very different. Experienced mongers know it's not what they look like when you take them home, but what they look like when you wake up next to them in the morning.

If I had to apply a ranking system, (gun to my head) I would say all my girls are nines to me, and it is irrelevant what another monger thinks. Looks might grab my attention initially, but then I immediately start factoring in all the other things that make a girl a pleasure to be around. Personality can be the attraction without a primary consideration of appearance. Basically, the girls who I end up with look the way they look, another guys 9 or a 3, I don't care.

Guys who say there girls have to be a certain number will cop-out and say they still want a girl with personality and all the intangibles but that she has to be a nine or whatever number, first. I got a newsflash for you. That is code for "I can only get it up if a girl looks a certain way". We are right back where we started. Self-doubt and insecurity.

The other cop-out is saying, "I use a number, but it only matters to me. " Newsflash #2: then you don't need a number which only has utility for comparisons with other hunters. Even if a monger believes he is using the system with like-minded mongers, for example, all their "nines" have blonde hair, blue eyes and big tits, then at least in theory you could be creating competition for yourself, which would counter-productive. Every experienced monger knows the best wingman's "nine" should be very different from your "nine", another fatal flaw of this ranking system, jajaja.

Finally, the absurdity within the absurd is a ranking of ten. If the scale is 1-10, then ten represents perfection, and no girl in the history of the world is perfect. Show me any female, any person, and my trained eye will call out an imperfection within seconds.

We will always be saddled with the common, the base, in this case using numbers to rank beauty. That is a less enlightened, less advanced viewpoint that creates unnecessary obstacles and restrictions designed to relieve the internal psychological conflicts of the mongers who use the system. They pay artificially inflated prices they themselves have created. Since all participants appear willing, I don't see the harm.

There are venues designed to attract guys who partake in this system, such as high end bars and clubs, where not surprisingly the prices are the highest for everything from the girls to the drinks.

A more enlightened conversation could go something like this. Mongerer Joe says, "I love my new girlfriend, she's just what I have been looking for. " Mongerer Bob, "What do you find so attractive about her"? Joe replies, "She weighs 400 pounds, and I love fat chics". Jaajajajaja Ostee Out.

[Villainy]

LOL. And now you are going through what I am. You pay a decent price for USA pussy and everyone on this forum says you overpaid. What I have learned the guys do on the Medellin forum is compare their 5's and 6's to 9's and 10's and say you are wasting your money.

Yeah, paying her to fuck never happened. I gave her no cash the first six months or so we we were together. She told me she had a job offer that paid $500 a month and she would see me less often if she took it. I covered that amount so I could see her more often.

I pay the rent on her place, but I would have to be for a hotel if I did not get the place.

Odd, I know you haven't met me and my dates. And the same for several other people. So what makes you think our girls would be 5's or 6's? As usual you don't know what you are talking about. Nobody cares about Ram's night of debauchery, I don't get along with Ram but I'm glad he had a good time. But notice this. Ram isn't saying he bedded the hottest woman who ever lived, he doesn't think he found the Mount Everest of mongering.

My friends saw my gal's pics and called her a 10. I think she would be fetching $2000 a night easy in NYC if she went that route, but she never would.

Sofia Vergara is five foot seven, 140 lbs. Her measurements are 38-28-39. My gal is five feet 10,125 lbs. Measurements are around 34-24-37, and she worked from age 13 to the day she got pregnant as a model. I am biased, but I think my girl is prettier than SV.

Your friends? You have friends? Maybe your friends lied so as not to get into a never-ending argument. Or maybe your friends think you are koo-koo for coco puffs and just tried to keep you sedated.

Oh and as too Sofia Vergara. Seriously you think you have bragging rights? How old is your dependent call-girl? 30? 28? Sofia is 49 going on 50 and she looks slamming to everyone who doesn't have eyesight impairment. Maybe you'll save a few SV photos and compare your girl after a few more years. And we'll see what your "friends" say then.

Thing with these dummies is they keep trying to throw out these rules based on the centro chick low lifes and do not get that their rules will not work to get a gal like the one I have

Seriously? You met your girl how? Through SA? How many ways are there to meet girls in Medellin. "Let me count the ways" .

1. El Centro streetwalkers.

2. Casas- throughout the city and 75% of them you won't find without local help.

3. Parque Lleras and Gustos and that area. Higher-end tourist traps.

4. Strip Clubs (Fase2, La Isla, Luna Lunera, Club Ejectivo and on and on).

5. Internet agencies (Photoprepagos, Mileroticos, Skokka).

6. Face-Book girls & Tinder.

7. Seeking Arrangement, Colombia Cupid, Latina America Cupid.

And then we reach a different plateau where the girls are amenable to an intimate tryst but they either have a job or are enrolled in university and this is just a side thing.

I'm sure I didn't get anywhere listing every possibility. So why is it you think people criticizing you are picking up the El Centro streetwalkers? And not any of the other myriad possible meeting methods?

I was trying to tell them how to fish for what I got, and all these bullshit artists insist what they have is as good as what I do and that I am overpaying for a ho.

The real truth is that you came on claiming you had the prettiest working-girl ever and you were committed to her. And none of the rest of us could ever hope to do as well as you.

Sorry Elvie, as is almost always the case you don't know what you are talking about. Just because some working girl fell in love with your wallet, don't get too swollen a head.

You may not know this Elvis but there are an incredible number of gorgeous women in Colombia, and Medellin in particular. Many of them are already in love with your wallet (or mine or JjBee62's or.) it's what they do to make money. You're just another guy who fell in love with his hooker. Maybe you'll be wiser the next time.

[MarquisdeSade1]

https://nypost.com/2022/04/29/jeff-b...-amazon-tanks/

He's so butt fugly he can't even buy a hot puta, so he gets a fugly one like him LOL.

But I'm guessing she's still not as bad as Elvis' mythical 10 LMAO.

FUK amazon buy from anywhere but there!!

[Elvis 2008]

A decent price for pussy, anywhere in the world, is however much the buyer is comfortable paying.

LOL. So if you pay $20 for a Big Mac, that is okay as long as you feel like you got a good deal.

Regardless of how hard you try to insist that every woman you're with is a 10

I just gave her dimensions and told you what my friends said.

It doesn't matter what your friends say, or what my friends say, when you or I are the ones saying what they are saying. However, almost everyone is comfortable with their own opinion and they don't need to bring in imaginary support.

Like I said, a 10 for you is a girl on your arm.

You could not even give a link to your $200 hookers in the USA. I am seeing the same prices as Ram is and Mr. E is saying he can get gals for free and you can get them for $200 an hour.

How is that possible? Oh right, you two are completely full of shit. Do you have any fucking clue what today's rates are in the USA?

Oh right, I forgot. Whatever your rate you pay is fair; the market does not matter.

You still don't get it and never will. Nobody, especially me, gives a fuck about the quality of women anyone else is getting and almost nobody gives a shit about how much they paid. What you say is the best sex ever might just be average to someone else.

And the hits keep coming. The market does not matter, and the reviews of others do not matter either.

Now I know where you are getting your $200. You go to the erotic review and scope out girls rated a 1 in looks and a 1 in performance.

I do not know what you are arguing with JJBee. My girl has the dimensions of a Victoria Secret model, and you could have a girl who is 5 foot tall and 300 lbs, and you would say as long as she is a 10 in your eyes, she is a 10. You just agreed with what I said about you.

[RamDavidson84]

What makes these chicks high end besides the fact they say they are and they want to charge $2000? Were they high end the first day they started fucking, or did they not get to be high end until they had been around the block a few times and earned enough to buy a fancy purse and fake hair?

You could have found the same type chicks for free, for $100, or for $5,000. For that reason I do not think it is saying much trying to compare prices of some random chicks your buddy chose for who knows what reason. You could just as well talk about the free chicks you and you buddy hooked up with from local facebook groups, as me and my buddies do in our group chat.

We also need to figure if someone is traveling to another country solely to get their dick wet or if they want to get away for R&R. Personally, I would much rather jump on a plane for $300 or $400 to some place I like for a few days, pay $50 per day for a room, and hang out with and fuck several local GFE chicks from $20 to $100, than simply pay $1250 to be with 1 chick where I live for 1 night. But that is just me.

The point of my post simply put is this: Paying for pussy in Medellin- girls will be hotter in Medellin, girls will be significantly cheaper in Medellin, GFE is much more likely in Medellin. In USA, you can still have a good time, but its going to cost you and is definitely not my area of expertise as it doesn't make any sense for a guy like me to shell out that kind of money on a regular basis to fuck and party. Nor can my body handle it anymore LOL, felt hung over for days afterward LOL. Its also much harder to find the type of talent you want to chill with in the USA compared to walking down the street in Parque Lleras.

[RamDavidson84]

LOL. And now you are going through what I am. You pay a decent price for USA pussy and everyone on this forum says you overpaid. What I have learned the guys do on the Medellin forum is compare their 5's and 6's to 9's and 10's and say you are wasting your money.

Yeah, paying her to fuck never happened. I gave her no cash the first six months or so we we were together. She told me she had a job offer that paid $500 a month and she would see me less often if she took it. I covered that amount so I could see her more often.

I pay the rent on her place, but I would have to be for a hotel if I did not get the place.

My friends saw my gal's pics and called her a 10. I think she would be fetching $2000 a night easy in NYC if she went that route, but she never would.

Sofia Vergara is five foot seven, 140 lbs. Her measurements are 38-28-39. My gal is five feet 10,125 lbs. Measurements are around 34-24-37, and she worked from age 13 to the day she got pregnant as a model. I am biased, but I think my girl is prettier than SV.

Thing with these dummies is they keep trying to throw out these rules based on the centro chick low lifes and do not get that their rules will not work to get a gal like the one I have..

If you got a dime who rivals Sofia Vergara in looks and personality and treats you right, even if your shelling out a fortune for her, then god bless you, its your money and I would probably do the same if I had the money and I am in my 50's or 60's.

[RamDavidson84]

Why pay $1250, even if that's the best possible deal available, for all night GFE? They're getting paid to drink and party, and spending maybe 45 minutes actually doing what they get paid for. Why compare them to Parque Lleras girls? In what fantasy world are Parque Lleras girls doing all night GFE from 300-400 k? If you find a desperate one after the bars close, you might get her to agree to 400 K, but chances are slim you're getting either all out GFE or all night. I have no problem paying to eat, drink and party, but not at 2-3 times over the going rate.

The time to complain about the price of something is before the deal, not the next day.

Nah, these chicks spent much more time than 45 minutes doing what they were supposed to do. I don't like to get into too dirty of details, but they did everything we wanted with enthusiasm and they were compensated quite fairly. As I have said for the millionth time now, its not my style to spend money like that, but these chicks def earned their doe and did not pull any shady shit.

Almost every time I take a chick out of Parque Lleras I get all night GFE, usually I kick them out and head out for rounds 2 or 3 late night at Faizon though. I also don't agree on prices or time until after I have chilled with a chick for awhile dancing or drinking and usually end up making out with them before we come to an agreement. I have paid anywhere from 250 k to 150 USD for a chick out of Gusto, Gusto chick was not all night, but she would have done all night for 200 USD. I was in Medellin for 10 days over summer and for a long weekend in the fall. I have been to Medellin several times pre pandemic as well. Those are the prices I paid and yes I get all night GFE if I want. Its not uncommon at all. I have had girls who do the fuck and run on me a few times, but most of the time they want to stay the night.

[RamDavidson84]

What makes these chicks high end besides the fact they say they are and they want to charge $2000? Were they high end the first day they started fucking, or did they not get to be high end until they had been around the block a few times and earned enough to buy a fancy purse and fake hair?

You could have found the same type chicks for free, for $100, or for $5,000. For that reason I do not think it is saying much trying to compare prices of some random chicks your buddy chose for who knows what reason. You could just as well talk about the free chicks you and you buddy hooked up with from local facebook groups, as me and my buddies do in our group chat.

We also need to figure if someone is traveling to another country solely to get their dick wet or if they want to get away for R&R. Personally, I would much rather jump on a plane for $300 or $400 to some place I like for a few days, pay $50 per day for a room, and hang out with and fuck several local GFE chicks from $20 to $100, than simply pay $1250 to be with 1 chick where I live for 1 night. But that is just me.

I wouldn't say they were super high end in looks and personality, but they were the exact type of chicks me and my boy wanted. Clean, young, pretty, and pretty much did what ever we wanted all night, dancing, hot tub, partying, chillen naked, etc. Like I said they were solid 7's and they hung tight until I had to kick them out the next afternoon LOL. They know my boy gave them a good deal. The thing about this night was much more about meeting up with a long time good friend and making the most of the night to our style of partying when we see each other. The girls were solid 7's and I have fucked plenty of girls in my day on or above their level. I am getting older and its unlikely me and my boy are going to roll up to the club and just pull two girls like these and party all night with them and they treat us like kings. Trust me, I am not about the lifestyle of paying 1250 for all night GFE, but my boy is a very successful Wallstreet type guy, he owns his own finance company, and he was covering the cost for the night. Its def not my style in the USA as I have said before. He's married, so flying off for the weekend to Medellin isn't so easy for him.

I agree 1000% with you. If its just about fucking for myself and not meeting up with an old friend and I have the time, all fucking day long would I choose a long weekend in Medellin over paying these girls 1250 a piece.

[JjBee62]

LOL. And now you are going through what I am. You pay a decent price for USA pussy and everyone on this forum says you overpaid. What I have learned the guys do on the Medellin forum is compare their 5's and 6's to 9's and 10's and say you are wasting your money.

A decent price for pussy, anywhere in the world, is however much the buyer is comfortable paying. Regardless of how hard you try to insist that every woman you're with is a 10 and every woman anyone else has ever been with is a 5-7, it's all just bullshit. You haven't learned shit, because you're not seeing who everyone is fucking and more importantly you're not seeing the girls from the other person's eyes.

Yeah, paying her to fuck never happened. I gave her no cash the first six months or so we we were together. She told me she had a job offer that paid $500 a month and she would see me less often if she took it. I covered that amount so I could see her more often.

I pay the rent on her place, but I would have to be for a hotel if I did not get the place.

You sure about that? It would appear, within about 3 weeks you'll have been with her for 2 years. At the rate your clock is moving you'll have been with her for 8 years by July.

I'm not sure if you're aware of this or not. Hotels rent rooms by the night. You don't have to pay for the month, if you're only staying 5 days.

My friends saw my gal's pics and called her a 10. I think she would be fetching $2000 a night easy in NYC if she went that route, but she never would.

Sofia Vergara is five foot seven, 140 lbs. Her measurements are 38-28-39. My gal is five feet 10,125 lbs. Measurements are around 34-24-37, and she worked from age 13 to the day she got pregnant as a model. I am biased, but I think my girl is prettier than SV.

My friends saw my gals pics and said she was a 12.

It doesn't matter what your friends say, or what my friends say, when you or I are the ones saying what they are saying. However, almost everyone is comfortable with their own opinion and they don't need to bring in imaginary support. Literally nobody except you does that.

Thing with these dummies is they keep trying to throw out these rules based on the centro chick low lifes and do not get that their rules will not work to get a gal like the one I have.

If you are honest about pricing with the fools on this forum, you get slaughtered. JJBee's comments about $200 hos in the USA said it all. He said he can get good looking women for $200 and did not one list one link to any woman.

You said your girl was a 10 and didn't post a single picture. That says it all.

Why would I post links to girls who are local for me? I'm not getting paid to get them exposure and it's not going to be much use to someone in Philadelphia.

Mr. E really thinks his average looking women are as good as the ones you paid four figures for, and JJBee knows he could get the same quality women as you got for half what you paid.

You still don't get it and never will. Nobody, especially me, gives a fuck about the quality of women anyone else is getting and almost nobody gives a shit about how much they paid. What you say is the best sex ever might just be average to someone else. And no matter what the woman looks like there are plenty of guys who wouldn't fuck her for free, and there are guys who would pay top dollar for women who you wouldn't look at. Everyone has their own standards. You're the only person insisting everyone use your standards, without providing a single example of what your standards are.

The last time I checked, the only people who feel the experience when I fuck, are me and whoever I'm fucking. And so far I've never asked someone else to pay for my hookers. Until you can feel it when I'm getting laid, or until you're paying for it, it shouldn't matter. But for some unknown reason it does and always will.

I was trying to tell them how to fish for what I got, and all these bullshit artists insist what they have is as good as what I do and that I am overpaying for a ho.

No and no.

No you weren't trying to teach anyone how to fish. You were doing what you've always done, claiming to have caught the best fish ever and tell everyone they will never equal your accomplishments.

Nobody has insisted what they have is as good as what you have, because nobody knows what you have and you have a long history of making shit up. What everyone has told you is they don't want what you have and they're happy with what they are getting.

[Elvis 2008]

They wanted 2000 $ a piece USD for a night of all out GFE, Champagne, Tequila, hot tub, and partying fun. We countered 1000 $ a piece, they settled at 1250 a piece.

LOL. And now you are going through what I am. You pay a decent price for USA pussy and everyone on this forum says you overpaid. What I have learned the guys do on the Medellin forum is compare their 5's and 6's to 9's and 10's and say you are wasting your money.

Personally I could never have feelings of love for a girl I am paying to fuck, even a sugar baby type scenario.

Yeah, paying her to fuck never happened. I gave her no cash the first six months or so we we were together. She told me she had a job offer that paid $500 a month and she would see me less often if she took it. I covered that amount so I could see her more often.

I pay the rent on her place, but I would have to be for a hotel if I did not get the place.

My friends saw my gal's pics and called her a 10. I think she would be fetching $2000 a night easy in NYC if she went that route, but she never would.

If that's how the dude wants to run his show, you ain't walking in that man's show, who gives a fuck what he does. I get it, he brags about it a bit much, but cmon we all do that, dudes like to flaunt their shit a bit. If anyone who has seen the TV show "Modern Family", I would absolutely be thrilled with my life if I got a chick like Sofia Vergara in my 60's whether I am paying her or not LOL.

Sofia Vergara is five foot seven, 140 lbs. Her measurements are 38-28-39. My gal is five feet 10,125 lbs. Measurements are around 34-24-37, and she worked from age 13 to the day she got pregnant as a model. I am biased, but I think my girl is prettier than SV.

Thing with these dummies is they keep trying to throw out these rules based on the centro chick low lifes and do not get that their rules will not work to get a gal like the one I have.

If you are honest about pricing with the fools on this forum, you get slaughtered. JJBee's comments about $200 hos in the USA said it all. He said he can get good looking women for $200 and did not one list one link to any woman.

Mr. E really thinks his average looking women are as good as the ones you paid four figures for, and JJBee knows he could get the same quality women as you got for half what you paid.

I was trying to tell them how to fish for what I got, and all these bullshit artists insist what they have is as good as what I do and that I am overpaying for a ho.