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Cunning Stunt
04-12-08, 09:37
Gamahucher
Is there another reason....:D Suggest while in the dark room you use an ice cold towel as this may make wake you up from an obvious dream (nightmare by the sound of it..)Hahaha - will take your advice WR and maybe take a little poontang in there as well to wipe my fevered brow :D
Bilbo Baggins
04-12-08, 12:18
Yeah I was part in jest,
Anyway I hope you find the life you are looking for.
The cynics will say the easy availability of pussy is sufficient motivation but there has to be more to life than that
.Haha yeah and I was playing on the word facetious its hard to be subtle in the Philippines or the forums I guess. (smiles)
There is more to life than pussy! I come to the Philippines because there is some pussy compared to none so that is a strong motivator but the adventure, the easy life style and the simple life call. I can do my work anywhere but I prefer the soft warm breezes blowing in from the ocean oh damn its the pussy by a long shot. I just love asian women and their attributes. Yeah its the pussy I am a sick man!
What a coincidence, went to Vagabond bar last night in NishiShinjuku. You walk up the stairs under the piano. Varied artwork on the walls indicate an absolutely bacchanal lifestyle of the owner....who has unfortunately died.
Yes, Gamahucher....lie down in a dark room....for as long as you like.
X
The cynics will say the easy availability of pussy is sufficient motivation but there has to be more to life than that (did I really say that. I think I'll go lie down in a darkened room! ). Like you I want a simple, uncomplicated lifestyle and am willing to put up with some hardship and forgo lifes luxuries to get it. Also having a vagabond nature, I get jaded if I'm stuck in one place too long. .
GoodEnough
04-12-08, 15:38
I don't know if any of the rest of you have experienced this, but I find that having chosen this lifestyle, and having lived outside of the US for years, you really cannot go home again and fit in. For one thing, the only women available to you are (gasp!) your own age! For another, your old friends or even new friends are basically clueless about how you have lived your life and know nothing except their own rather narrow slice of regimented reality. To over simplify, you've changed but they basically haven't and there's no common ground on which you can meet any longer.
GE
I've met an attractive girl online and suggested a romantic getaway vacation, but she says:
yah sure i can be your tour guide here..maybe you can stay at the fancy hotel like parklane hotel, waterfront hotel, marriot hotel and shangrila hotel,...maybe when we get vacations can my friends come with us????...im so excited to see you!!..take care always.
I'm not inclined to stay in these expensive hotels or drag along her friends while I'm trying to romance her.
How would you handle a situation like this?
Cunning Stunt
04-12-08, 22:22
What a coincidence, went to Vagabond bar last night in NishiShinjuku. You walk up the stairs under the piano. Varied artwork on the walls indicate an absolutely bacchanal lifestyle of the owner....who has unfortunately died.
Yes, Gamahucher....lie down in a dark room....for as long as you like.
XWTF
Cryptic ..tick
Impenetable,,tick
Recondite ..tick
Incomprehensible ..tick
Oh I get it - your a froggy or a superannuated hippy. Keep taking the pills, it gets better with time!
GH
Soapy Smith
04-12-08, 23:53
I don't know if any of the rest of you have experienced this, but I find that having chosen this lifestyle, and having lived outside of the US for years, you really cannot go home again and fit in. For one thing, the only women available to you are (gasp!) your own age! For another, your old friends or even new friends are basically clueless about how you have lived your life and know nothing except their own rather narrow slice of regimented reality. To over simplify, you've changed but they basically haven't and there's no common ground on which you can meet any longer. GEMy period in RP was a mere five months, much less than the five years you’ve had, but even in that short period I experienced a fair amount of Philippine enculturation. I spoke only enough Filipino to get by in everyday interactions, and I worked with people who spoke Filipino among themselves but could easily switch to English to communicate with me. Still, I found myself adjusting and getting with the rhythm of the culture around me in ways I was almost unaware of until I returned to the U.S. I think I actually found the transition back into my own culture more difficult than the initial move to the Philippine setting, and eleven months later I am still not “back” in my own culture. Unlike for GE, however, who reports a sense that he can’t go back, my circumstances – having to try to be back – have led me to invest considerable time reflecting on the transition, the cultural differences, and the general lack of awareness of anything outside the U.S. for most people around me, including many with a great deal of formal education.
Post Philippine Depression (PPD) is frequently tossed about as a common ailment among the participants in forums like this, and although I still experience a longing for petite, brown young women as sex partners, I think that is not the same as what GE describes, nor is it the main point of my experiences. What is at the center of the cultural conflict I experience has to do with the pace of life and the American preoccupation in what I will call “instrumentality.” That is, it’s the “hurry, hurry” mentality and the expectation that we ought always to be creating change around us (always referred to as “progress,” even when in some regards the changes may be a step backward) – and being able to prove that it was in fact our actions that caused the change.
We often forget that the same internet that makes this forum possible and makes us capable of outsourcing our accounting or executive powerpoint presentations to be done overnight in India while we sleep, also permits our bosses to control and direct hundreds of their subordinates in a single email. Amazingly, we all rave over the benefits of lightning fast communications that allow us to post longwinded editorials like this one, while simultaneously we overlook how the same technology holds us captive to others’ wishes, penis enhancement advertisements, Nigerian get-rich quick schemes, and so on.
One refreshing difference about the Philippines is all rolled up in the merienda mentality: not only are they not particularly in a hurry (except in Manila traffic, where the cultural resistance to “falling in line” causes everybody to prevent themselves and all others from getting anywhere fast other than into traffic jams), they don’t take themselves or anybody else too seriously. (Although even that is paradoxical, when you consider the communist rebels in some parts of Luzon or Moro liberation fighters in Mindanao.) Unfortunately, I find, most Americans with whom I interact on a daily basis are largely unaware of their entrapment in what GE has called a “narrow slice of regimented reality.” I think there are some peculiarly American explanations for our narrowly regimented reality, but won’t describe them because I’ve already carried on too long with this.
I do think there are several juicy ironies in the dynamic GE has presented. One is that the world’s economic system, and especially its disparate distribution of benefits, is a large component of what creates both the advantageous buying power and the attractiveness to Filipinas of men our age, while it simultaneously is both a cause and a resultant of the laid back merienda mentality that I, and presumably others, find attractive in the Philippines' culture. So please be careful next time you find yourself complaining about Filipinos’ complacency and seeming lack of ambition, empowerment, and instrumentality: These are precisely the ingredients that make your earnings go so far in the Philippines and that constitute the laid back lifestyle that allows you to grow old comfortably and lustfully.
Feedback and rebuttals welcome. Skip
i don't know if any of the rest of you have experienced this, but i find that having chosen this lifestyle, and having lived outside of the us for years, you really cannot go home again and fit in. for one thing, the only women available to you are (gasp!) your own age! for another, your old friends or even new friends are basically clueless about how you have lived your life and know nothing except their own rather narrow slice of regimented reality. to over simplify, you've changed but they basically haven't and there's no common ground on which you can meet any longer.
ge
i have been overseas the last 4 years. i am bored as hell when i am in the states. as for women in the states they come because of the money i display but i am just not interested. back in 06 a caucasian lady at a dennys in cali paid for my breakfast she was a waiter there. now there is a college educated young black lady with a great career interested in why i being black only date asians born and raised in asia. she heard all about my globe trotting exploits through the grapevine and is now interested to meet me on my impending return to the states. only thing on my mind is my up coming trip to cebu. family and friends will never understand.
beware of dog
(the dog in you that wants to attack weaker dogs and screw all female dogs) :)
Haha yeah and I was playing on the word facetious its hard to be subtle in the Philippines or the forums I guess. (smiles)
.... Yeah its the pussy I am a sick man!Well, since the pinays are so accepting of older white men, maybe I can convince my espousa to retire there with me! Maybe the best of both worlds!
LOL
Cheers Amavida. Wish I'd had your advice yesterday when I installed a lite version of XP. Got it working OK but it has slowed the machine quite appreciably. I just could'nt get along with this Linux Xandros with it assumption that you were familiar with gobbledegook computer codes and peculiar software installation methods (from suppositories or something). Them eee's are tidy little fuckers though. I am quite inordinately pleased with it. It is literally pocket size and provided your not trying to do any advanced graphics on it, can cope with most applications. And at the price they are nearly giving them away.Hey GH!
Xandros [a Linux distribution with a very Windows like GUI] as far as I know has a simple GUI software installer. I dunno why you needed to use the command line..?
The ONLY program I cant get for Linux is Yahoo Messenger (an Instant Message client). Since all my family & 'friends' here in Phils rely exclusively on YM I cant use Linux soooo... Mac's it is. If you need some help with Linux software package management give me a holler. Maybe I could help?
BTW my wife & I use iChat on the Mac's to video conference. It runs over the AIM network (AOL Instant Messenger). Until you have seen it you Windoze guys don't know what you have been missing.. superb software.
Christ your pilot mate must have had a ball if he blew a pilots retirement gratuities in a couple of years. No wonder he is now depressed but I bet he has many wonderful deposits in his memory banks. Oh man you have NO idea! This guy partied like a rock star! I think there must be buildings with his name on in Cavite where he lived. :)
Cheers!
AV
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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I don't know if any of the rest of you have experienced this, but I find that having chosen this lifestyle, and having lived outside of the US for years, you really cannot go home again and fit in. For one thing, the only women available to you are (gasp!) your own age! For another, your old friends or even new friends are basically clueless about how you have lived your life and know nothing except their own rather narrow slice of regimented reality. To over simplify, you've changed but they basically haven't and there's no common ground on which you can meet any longer.
GE
Its very true what you say GE.
They say 'travel broadens the mind'. A lot my family & friends seem very narrow minded to me these day's. My 'stay at home' family & friends just can't understand me & I no longer feel the need to explain to them.
I think it comes down to personality types. If you have an adventurous & adaptable personality it makes a difference how you see things.
Returning home to live? Oh my god! I'd hate the thought of having to go back to living in Australia. Too many rules! FWC's with bad attitudes! high prices!.. Yuck!
AV
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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I've met an attractive girl online and suggested a romantic getaway vacation, but she says:
"yah sure i can be your tour guide here..maybe you can stay at the fancy hotel like parklane hotel, waterfront hotel, marriot hotel and shangrila hotel,...maybe when we get vacations can my friends come with us????...im so excited to see you!!..take care always."
I'm not inclined to stay in these expensive hotels or drag along her friends while I'm trying to romance her.
How would you handle a situation like this?
Hey Laser!
Firstly if you have never met her you can't really go making plans like this but you can leave the door open. She may turn out to be great!
Philippinas have exuberant vivacious personalities. Even the poorest will come out with outrageous requests initially. Its all part of their nature & their perception of Foreigner = Disneyland. Dont be offeneded by it at first. Make it fun & yuk it up with them. They love to laugh!
Keep in mind that you are in a position of strength. You are the man, you make the rules. There are few of you & many of her. Its a buyers market. If the thought of taking her off to a resort & shagging yourselves legless appeals think about what you can afford/like & then tell her your plan. Most pinay's you deal with on line are from humble circumstances (internet cafes FULL of chicks abound) so anything is a big treat to them & you should see that in her reaction to your suggestion.
If not make a counter proposal of what you would like/afford to do. Remember its second nature to haggle here. A little to & fro discussion about this would be normal but ultimately she will probably agree to whatever you propose.
If she baulks at a cheaper proposal then it may mean she is either from the upper class & expects to you to part from a lot of money for her entertainment or she is high mileage unit looking for big spenders.
I'll give you an example, a BG GF from Makati asks me to take her to Boracy for her Birthday together with her BG cousin for a week. I tell them no but I'll take you both to Subic for a shag^^^ err vacation, for a couple of days. Result : ecstatically happy girls. (Must remember to stock up on Cialis)
Hope my humble opinion helps
AV
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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Cunning Stunt
04-13-08, 10:16
Hey GH!
Xandros [a Linux distribution with a very Windows like GUI] as far as I know has a simple GUI software installer. I dunno why you needed to use the command line..?
Cheers!
AVHey back AV, Why do technical bods such as you obviously are, think us non tecky bozos have a fucking clue when you talk about GUI's and the like? I took one look at the Xandros procedure for software installation which went something like.
"It's all done through a software interface, called Synaptic, that downloads and installs directly from online databases of programs called Repositories. You don't find, download or open installation files yourself, blah, blah"
And had to use that darkened room again. So its back to the good old, slow workhorse that you rightly call windoze. XP for me like that old bargirl who you know has seen much better days, is a bit raddled and physically suspect, but you know where you are with her and she give relatively good service. Better the devil you know.
I still experience a longing for petite, brown young women as sex partners, I think that is not the same as what GE describes, nor is it the main point of my experiences. What is at the center of the cultural conflict I experience has to do with the pace of life and the American preoccupation in what I will call “instrumentality.” That is, it’s the “hurry, hurry” mentality and the expectation that we ought always to be creating change around us (always referred to as “progress,” even when in some regards the changes may be a step backward) – and being able to prove that it was in fact our actions that caused the change.
Skip
Hi Skip!
Great Post!
Im making a list here :
- Access to practically limitless resource of attractive sex partners.
- Slower Pace of life.
- Low living costs.
- Little regulation & rules.
anything else we can torture our non expat friends with?
:)
AV
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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Fifty Fifty
04-13-08, 12:30
Hi Skip!
Great Post!
Im making a list here :
- Access to practically limitless resource of attractive sex partners.
- Slower Pace of life.
- Low living costs.
- Little regulation & rules.
anything else we can torture our non expat friends with?
:)
AV
Yep, lets add :
Abundant, Effective and Inexpensive Public Transport (including Taxis ;) )
Good Weather (Warm Rain etc...????)
Cheers, F/Fifty
Wicked Roger
04-13-08, 13:23
Yep, lets add :
Abundant, Effective and Inexpensive Public Transport (including Taxis ;) )
Good Weather (Warm Rain etc...????)
Cheers, F/Fifty
FF
Just stick to abundance of young shaved willing sex partners...weather, warm rain who cares...they like older fat guys am happy :D
FWC's with bad attitudes! Hi AV,
Hey man, nothing wrong with FWCS with attitudinal problems. I see them regularly and it makes me very much appreciative of those lovely, slim Filipinas. I would like to remind you, in a most respectful way, that the FWCS aka as BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN (BBW) (ROTFLMFAO) reinforces my motivation to go to P. I. If the western countries had women like those wonderful, slender, attractive Filipinas, would you leave home?
In order that you don't get homesick, I have taken the liberty to post some photos for your perusal. Please PM me when the check is in the mail. LOL.
Ingat palagi, Wazza.
Soapy Smith
04-14-08, 00:54
Hi Skip!
Great Post!
Im making a list here :
- Access to practically limitless resource of attractive sex partners.
- Slower Pace of life.
- Low living costs.
- Little regulation & rules.
anything else we can torture our non expat friends with?
:)
AVI'd pretty much agree with FF and these other guys, although my personal taste goes to unshaven or limitedly shaven. So perhaps there's an irony in that it's necessary to spend a bunch of years in a fast-paced society grabbing up opportunities and money ahead of other guys in order then to qualify for this wonderful set of circumstances in RP. The Jihadist thing, so we hear in the popular press, is supposed to lead the suicide bomber into heaven to be greeted there by 40 or some similar number of virgins. Entering RP, on the other hand, is real, and whether or not these women are virgins is a non-issue. (And for some of us the question of pubic hair is a non-issue.) So this beats the Jihadist dying thing all to hell -- no pun intended. It's more like doing time in the dog-eat-dog rat race is akin to purgatory, and landing in RP is heaven on earth.
And so on the surface it appears that Muslim men have it all wrong, since some of those 9/11 planners actually spent time in RP, and some reports say that Muhammed Atta, one of the pilots, actually took flying lessons at Clark. Boy did they get this heaven and hell thing screwed up.
I'm sure that meant something when you wrote it.
WTF
Cryptic ..tick
Impenetable,,tick
Recondite ..tick
Incomprehensible ..tick
Oh I get it - your a froggy or a superannuated hippy. Keep taking the pills, it gets better with time!
GH
When I was 25 (a long time ago) and one of the boys from the neighborhood asked how many gals you've fkd....I thought about my military expereinces in Europe and Asia...and modeslty calculated 50. They just laughed at me - full of shit.... One of them claimed to have four or five. I stood there, in my modest way, remembering the three I had in one 24 hr period. I've been laughing at them ever since. I wouldn't trade my lifestyle with any of them.
Yes, their narrow lifesltyle....let's talk endlessly about the local football, baseball team.
X
I don't know if any of the rest of you have experienced this, but I find that having chosen this lifestyle, and having lived outside of the US for years, you really cannot go home again and fit in. For one thing, the only women available to you are (gasp!) your own age! For another, your old friends or even new friends are basically clueless about how you have lived your life and know nothing except their own rather narrow slice of regimented reality. To over simplify, you've changed but they basically haven't and there's no common ground on which you can meet any longer.
GE
Hi AV,
Hey man, nothing wrong with FWCS with attitudinal problems. I see them regularly and it makes me very much appreciative of those lovely, slim Filipinas. I would like to remind you, in a most respectful way, that the FWCS aka as BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN (BBW) (ROTFLMFAO) reinforces my motivation to go to P. I. If the western countries had women like those wonderful, slender, attractive Filipinas, would you leave home?
In order that you don't get homesick, I have taken the liberty to post some photos for your perusal. Please PM me when the check is in the mail. LOL.
Ingat palagi, Wazza.
ROTFLMFAO Wazza! :)
BTW Im sending you a bill for a new keyboard (I just spewed on mine)
C'Ya!
AV
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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Hi AV,
Hey man, nothing wrong with FWCS with attitudinal problems. I see them regularly and it makes me very much appreciative of those lovely, slim Filipinas. I would like to remind you, in a most respectful way, that the FWCS aka as BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN (BBW) (ROTFLMFAO) reinforces my motivation to go to P. I. If the western countries had women like those wonderful, slender, attractive Filipinas, would you leave home?
Ingat palagi, Wazza.
A little warning next time, almost blew my breakfast on the keyboard.
Slim
Cunning Stunt
04-14-08, 18:28
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The foregoing post remains my personal opinion.
It is not intended to offend any person either living or dead.
It is not a statement of fact and is for discussion purposes only.
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Are you expecting to get sued or something?
Chuckle.
Fifty Fifty
04-15-08, 07:46
FF
weather, warm rain who cares...
Ah well, imagination is the key - Warm Rain + Nice Girls could amount to Wet Tshirts in the odd twisted mind that passes through here !!!
Added to our liking for the odd Big Racked Exhibitionist we have both recently had the pleasure of and the thought of having some Warm Rain whilst out and about with one of them becomes interesting.
Anyway IMHO the weather is good :)
Cheers, F/Fifty
Whats with the footer A?
Are you expecting to get sued or something?
Chuckle.One guy kept sending me long angst riddance PM's about his perceived deep offense at something i posted allegedly about him. I got so sick of it I started adding disclaimers to every post to shut him up hehehe :)
Maybe I'll give it a rest now.
AV
For the record, I've sent AV only one PM and it wasn't anything like he described. So, I assume he isn't referring to me. But it is interesting to hear AV admit that someone besides myself has been troubled by his style of posting.
BTW, AV, are you the one who suggested tricking a woman into giving you her password so that you could secretly read her email?
I don't recommend anyone really do this but I'd love to hear more details from the original poster.
X
One guy kept sending me long angst riddance PM's about his perceived deep offense at something i posted allegedly about him. I got so sick of it I started adding disclaimers to every post to shut him up hehehe :)
Maybe I'll give it a rest now.
AV
For the record, I've sent AV only one PM and it wasn't anything like he described. So, I assume he isn't referring to me. But it is interesting to hear AV admit that someone besides myself has been troubled by his style of postingOccasionally somebody gets their knickers in a knot over a contrary view to their own. Thought I'd try a disclaimer as a tongue in cheek way of coping with wounded ego's. I don't care if you don't like my "style of posting". :D
BTW, AV, are you the one who suggested tricking a woman into giving you her password so that you could secretly read her email? I don't recommend anyone really do this but I'd love to hear more details from the original poster. X You must be a big fan of my "style of posting" if you are reading my posts so far back in time to recall this. What I said was "these girls are so unsophisticated that if you ask a girl for her email account password she will often give it". Not the same thing at all is it X?
Thanks for the blatant troll, I needed a laugh.
AV
Ok feeding time for the trolls is over now...
I have a nice filippina in Singapore who is my 'stopover girl'. When I first started seeing her Miss E was extremely conservative & a bit of a starfish in bed although she frequently sent me long XXX rated txt messages about what she wanted to do with me.
I tried to nudge things up a notch but she always went shy on me & things were a little disappointing but not enough to stop me - I never knock back free pussy ;)
I backed off & she has surprised me by becoming more adventurous on her own. Recently she called & asked out of the blue if I liked shaved... after wiping the spilled coffee off my business shirt with my brain screaming OH! YES! I shly agreed this would be 'nice'. She has come up with all sorts of naughty things to try which Im sure Wicked Roger would approve of :D
The last barrier seems to be to get her to allowing pics... god I'm itching to get some pics of the action if I can!
I seem to find time & again that with non P4P pinays, the patience is rewarded with all sorts of delights. Unlike their western sisters once they decide to try something they seem to be quite trusting about giving it a go.
What are your experiences guys?
AV
Soapy Smith
04-16-08, 06:05
One guy kept sending me long angst riddance PM's about his perceived deep offense at something i posted allegedly about him. I got so sick of it I started adding disclaimers to every post to shut him up hehehe :)AVSo do you think the disclaimers actually shut him up? Hehehe. :) Skip
Cunning Stunt
04-16-08, 10:12
So do you think the disclaimers actually shut him up? Hehehe. :) SkipOh no. Thats not going to kick off again. X. These days you only seem to pop up when someone or something rattles your cage; kind of a like a Pavlovian reaction. Amavida posts, you start growling etc etc ad nauseum. Its seems like D'Etat hit the mark when he questioned your maturity.
On a completely different topic I was idly thinking recently of the many unintentionally amusing traits that Filipina's have. One of my favourites, which always starts me off, is the measuring thing. Now I'm not going to start boasting that I am particularly well endowed yet the way some girls react you would think I was the reincarnation of John Holmes. 'Oooh, malaking titi mo' they would exclaim (whether in delight or horror depends on the girl) and then they do the measuring trick. This is not an isolated case, it has happened many times with different girls. They then proceed to measure your tool between thumb and forefinger (unless they have a tape measure in their bag, don't laugh it happened once) and then lay their measurement against their belly to gauge how far up them you are going to penetrate. If it reaches their belly button they are in trouble (only jesting). If I had a peso for the number of times this has happened I would be able to afford to stand you a beer in LA Cafe. Anyone else noticed this thing which has only happened to me with Filipinas. I love it. Anyone else have any favourite amusing traits of our Pinay lovelies?
Wish I had a photo to illustrate the measuring thing. This is the nearest I could find. I have blacked out the offending item as I don't want X getting an inferiority complex (only kidding mate. Lighten up)
GH
Okay, so you didn't really do this? Were you advising other people to do this? Ask an "unsophisticated" woman her password (just in conversation I assume) but the real intent is to secretly read her email?
Instead of calling me names, try to answer the questions.
X
Occasionally somebody gets their knickers in a knot over a contrary view to their own. Thought I'd try a disclaimer as a tongue in cheek way of coping with wounded ego's. I don't care if you don't like my "style of posting". :D You must be a big fan of my "style of posting" if you are reading my posts so far back in time to recall this. What I said was "these girls are so unsophisticated that if you ask a girl for her email account password she will often give it". Not the same thing at all is it X?
Thanks for the blatant troll, I needed a laugh.
AV
Anyone else noticed this thing which has only happened to me with Filipinas. I love it. Anyone else have any favourite amusing traits of our Pinay lovelies? GHYeah GH they do it in such a cute light hearted way, gotta smile about it, although I've never had a tape measure pulled on me.. hehehehe :) the mental image of this is hilarious mate!
They're always on about noses also.."ooh you have big nose, i wish i have your nose" Im always think ooohh yeah your gonna get it real soon.. hehehe :)
Okay Im naughty, Cya!
AV
Well, I guess GH has been reviewing some of my pictures in the Photo forum. Most guys here pay attention to the girl, so I'm kind of surprised to hear GH has been checking out my crank size.
Maybe I should buy one of those enlarging machines.
X
Wish I had a photo to illustrate the measuring thing. This is the nearest I could find. I have blacked out the offending item as I don't want X getting an inferiority complex (only kidding mate. Lighten up)
GH
Jason, you make a good point, but please don't call names. I've had a few lapses myself, but I think it's best to focus on what is written rather than the person.
Some of AV's posts lack logic or accuracy, others are contradictory. When I point this out, there doesn't seem to be any fair debate of the points i make. I think that is obvious to most readers.
Someone sent me a PM a while back and told me to stop wasting my time with AV. I tried, but when I see something that doesn't jive with what I know, then I feel compelled to question or disagree that point.
Recently 50/50 made a post about Jools that didn't make sense to me. After my challenge I learned that Jools had changed it's format -- so I learned something new. Maybe one of these days, we'll learn something from AV.
X
How ironic, heh? If someone disagree with you, you get all bent out of shape. A little hippocritical, don't you think? Instead of blaming others if they find your postings offensive and condescending, maybe you should look at yourself and ask yourself why you behave like a little baby? Insecurity issues? Mommy didn't give you a cookie today?
Soapy Smith
04-17-08, 06:13
Now I'm not going to start boasting that I am particularly well endowed yet the way some girls react you would think I was the reincarnation of John Holmes. 'Oooh, malaking titi mo' they would exclaim (whether in delight or horror depends on the girl) and then they do the measuring trick. This is not an isolated case, it has happened many times with different girls. They then proceed to measure your tool between thumb and forefinger (unless they have a tape measure in their bag, don't laugh it happened once) and then lay their measurement against their belly to gauge how far up them you are going to penetrate. If it reaches their belly button they are in trouble (only jesting). If I had a peso for the number of times this has happened I would be able to afford to stand you a beer in LA Cafe. Anyone else noticed this thing which has only happened to me with Filipinas. I love it. Anyone else have any favourite amusing traits of our Pinay lovelies?
Wish I had a photo to illustrate the measuring thing. This is the nearest I could find. I have blacked out the offending item as I don't want X getting an inferiority complex (only kidding mate. Lighten up) GHWhat a great way to change the topic, GH. Problem is, how do we know the equipment in these photos actually belongs to you, or that you're not retouching the photos? For that matter, there's a trick anglers use in which they have their fish on a stringer and extend the fish way out toward the camera. This gets the fish much closer to the camera, and when seen in perspective against their bodies, which are much further away, the fish look gigantic. I'd make a point of checking whether you do this in future photos, except that would mean I'd really gone weird about what in the photo is really important. Just kidding. :)
Okay, so in this latest photo with what you claim to have blacked out as part of your body, maybe the Pinay's fingers being spread out this way has nothing to do with measuring. I'd sooner believe maybe she thinks she's looking at an eel, and it's squirming all around to avoid capture, so her fingers are spread out to increase the contact area for grabbing the eel's head. Now you've got to admit, watching a Pinay try to grab an eel by the head is a hell of a lot funnier than having her try to measure some guy's genitalia.
Fifty Fifty
04-17-08, 06:52
......... I tried, but when I see something that doesn't jive with what I know, then I feel compelled to question or disagree that point.
Recently 50/50 made a post about Jools that didn't make sense to me. After my challenge I learned that Jools had changed it's format -- so I learned something new. Maybe one of these days, we'll learn something from AV.
The important word in your statement is ''know''
As I see it the Root of the Problem, if there is one, Mr X, is that you often appear to challenge a members post before you actually know the true facts.
As in my case you repeatedly challenged my Report/Info on Joules Bar, based upon your last visit 6 yrs ago, compared with my most recent first hand information, then you back-peddle when proven wrong.
If you don't really know then don't say.
It's a Forum, read the reports, digest the info, take it or leave it, plain and simple. (You could learn that from AV)
So now can we stop the Handbag Swinging and get on with being informative and positive here please.
Cheers, F/Fifty
Cunning Stunt
04-17-08, 09:16
Well, I guess GH has been reviewing some of my pictures in the Photo forum. Most guys here pay attention to the girl, so I'm kind of surprised to hear GH has been checking out my crank size.
Maybe I should buy one of those enlarging machines.
XWhat photo's in the PF?
Yeah I see what you mean (check out http://www.allabout-penis-enlargement.com/)
But suggest it would be better if you looked up http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall193.htm
GH:D
fifty, i don't remember the exchange the same way you do. is this just an oversight, or are you deliberately distorting the facts? or am i mistaken?
this was your quote: "rleatively speeaking, the 500 pesos she has asked for, is less than a lady drink in joules on burgos - now that bar is a scam !!"
you didn't give any other info -- no field report, so i had no way of knowing the bar format changed, nor did i know at what time you had been there, or even if you had been there. twice you've criticized me for giving a six year old report, but there had been isg posts on jools that were far more recent -- i recall none that gave the info you did. and i do appreciate getting that info.
my first post was simply about vocabulary -- (scam / rip off). later i explained my memories of jools at which point you gave me more details. i based my comments on what i knew (key word) and i clearly mentioned it was a six-yr old report. i don't think you can say i "repeatedly" challenged your report ....especially since the first post could hardly be called a report. come to think of it i gave my "outdated" report before you had explained anything -- certainly before you mentioned that you had been there recently. sorry, i'm not a mind reader.
what do you mean back peddle? i gave an ancedote about a real experience i had. i appreciate you informing me about the changes, but it was simply an exchange of information. maybe you and av should give more real reports instead of getting all indignant when someone has different experiences and opinions than yourself.
you're quick to criticize me, yet there you are complimenting av for his visa post which must have taken 10 seconds to cut and paste out of the philippinges govt web site.
i've tried to take your earlier advice and be less confrontational, swing my handbag less, and look how much good it's done. av, who has consistently failed to back up his assertions with field reports, or even ancedotes, is now taking anonymous snipes at me every chance he gets. congratulations on giving him some cajones. (last paragraph was meant to me humorous rather than insulting to anyone.)
x
the important word in your statement is ''know''
as i see it the root of the problem, if there is one, mr x, is that you often appear to challenge a members post before you actually know the true facts.
as in my case you repeatedly challenged my report/info on joules bar, based upon your last visit 6 yrs ago, compared with my most recent first hand information, then you back-peddle when proven wrong.
if you don't really know then don't say.
it's a forum, read the reports, digest the info, take it or leave it, plain and simple. (you could learn that from av)
so now can we stop the handbag swinging and get on with being informative and positive here please.
cheers, f/fifty
Fifty Fifty
04-17-08, 10:42
fifty, i don't remember the exchange the same way you do. is this just an oversight, or are you deliberately distorting the facts? or am i mistaken?
this was your quote: "rleatively speeaking, the 500 pesos she has asked for, is less than a lady drink in joules on burgos - now that bar is a scam !!"
you didn't give any other info -- no field report, so i had no way of knowing the bar format changed, nor did i know at what time you had been there, or even if you had been there. twice you've criticized me for giving a six year old report, but there had been isg posts on jools that were far more recent -- i recall none that gave the info you did. and i do appreciate getting that info.
my first post was simply about vocabulary -- (scam / rip off). later i explained my memories of jools at which point you gave me more details. i based my comments on what i knew (key word) and i clearly mentioned it was a six-yr old report. i don't think you can say i "repeatedly" challenged your report ....especially since the first post could hardly be called a report. come to think of it i gave my "outdated" report before you had explained anything -- certainly before you mentioned that you had been there recently. sorry, i'm not a mind reader.
from my makati 2 report posted 2nd week of march 2008!!!
we went further up the street as far as joules/davino bar which was described as an exclusive gentleman’s club. it is certainly the best looking place, superbly fitted out, nice music with an excellent standard of girls. actually it is a total rip off with beers at php 250 and ladydrinks at 750 for a single baileys !!! there are no barfines possible either, but the girls are very keen to pass fone numbers and do sneak-outs on the side, basically cos there are hardly any customers and those who do go in, like us they find out the price and only stay for one drink. a great place if you want to sit and throw lots of money away, otherwise, give it a miss.
no field report, no info - my arse
what do you mean back peddle? i gave an ancedote about a real experience i had. i appreciate you informing me about the changes, but it was simply an exchange of information. maybe you and av should give more real reports instead of getting all indignant when someone has different experiences and opinions than yourself.
to quote you - sorry if i am mistaken, maybe i am wrong, perhaps it was an oversight etc etc
in my book = peddling backwards
you're quick to criticize me, yet there you are complimenting av for his visa post which must have taken 10 seconds to cut and paste out of the philippinges govt web site.
yes maybe, but at least av's visa info post was informative and i am not the only one to comment upon it having validity here.
wake up and smell the coffee x, we are fed up with the constant picking at av and others that is being practised here.
you are an informative guy, get on with it please.
f/fifty
Wicked Roger
04-17-08, 14:07
Ok feeding time for the trolls is over now...
I backed off & she has surprised me by becoming more adventurous on her own. Recently she called & asked out of the blue if I liked shaved... after wiping the spilled coffee off my business shirt with my brain screaming OH! YES! I shly agreed this would be 'nice'. She has come up with all sorts of naughty things to try which Im sure Wicked Roger would approve of :D
What are your experiences guys?
AV
I likely not as patient as you Amavida...excpet for Greek and there my patience always pays off :D Chat, persuasion etc.
Had to devirginise many Filipina backside and most come back for more or take it further for a double penetration/sandwich experince.
Am such a gent (and parient) when Greek is on menu, that they love me more and more.
I never saw that post, so I apologize for suggesting that you didn't do a field report on Jools. I appreciate you taking the time to argue your point -- it seems much more productive than ignoring / dismissing the points as is common with responses given by AV. (He has a right to his style, and he has already told me he doesn't care what I think)
Of course your ending comment "constant picking...of AV and others" seems off the mark since it is only AV that has come to my attention as a serial misinformer. I guess it could be perceived as picking, but my intent is not to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) anyone off, but to get to the truth....as we have done here!
As for AV's visa post, I did not mean to imply that it wasn't informative. It was informative and it answered the original question. You complimented him and went so far as to suggest he had inside info at PI immigration. This piqued my interest so I searched for Phillipines + visa and found the same info - verbatim - in the top URL in my Google search. Maybe AV is an English proofreader at the Justice Ministry. Which probably means I'll have trouble next time I try to get in country!
There was a lot of other info there so I posted the URL. It really hurt me that no one complimented me. :-)
Once again, sorry for not doing my homework and missing your original Makati / Jools field report.
X
FROM MY MAKATI 2 REPORT POSTED 2nd WEEK OF MARCH 2008!!!
We went further up the street as far as Joules/Davino Bar which was described as an Exclusive Gentleman’s Club. It is certainly the best looking place, superbly fitted out, nice music with an excellent standard of girls. Actually it is a total RIP OFF with beers at PHP 250 and ladydrinks at 750 for a single Baileys !!! There are no barfines possible either, but the girls are very keen to pass fone numbers and do sneak-outs on the side, basically cos there are hardly any customers and those who do go in, like us they find out the price and only stay for one drink. A great place if you want to sit and throw lots of money away, otherwise, give it a miss.
No Field Report, No info - MY ARSE
To quote you - Sorry if I am mistaken, maybe i am wrong, perhaps it was an oversight etc etc
In my book = Peddling Backwards
Yes maybe, but at least AV's Visa Info Post was informative and I am not the only one to comment upon it having validity here.
Wake up and smell the coffee X, we are fed up with the constant picking at AV and others that is being practised here.
You are an informative guy, get on with it please.
F/Fifty
I just realized that I posted quite a long message (an apology to 50) that was off topic here at Filipinas thread. Let me do penance by trying to change the topic.
Any contact with Philippines culture and you will come across the word "ate", which I think can be translated as Auntie or older sis, but has a lot of nuances. You'll find similar things elsewhere in Asia, and I assume it's Confucian influence. Hmm, I know there are a lot of Chinese in Philippines (and the rest of SE Asia), but I don't know the history. I'll have to study that a bit.
You may have read posts here at ISG that implied the oldest daughter has to support the parents in their old age and sometimes the younger siblings as they make their way through the education system. That is "ate"...a position of power and respect and heavy responsibility.
In most of East Asia, that responsibility falls on the eldest male. (***see foot note).
In Phil. it falls on the eldest female.
Filipinas will also refer to senior status women as "ate". It is a word of respect...and respecting seniority and class is important in most of Asia.
I don't live in the Philippines and I won't pretend to be an expert...hope someone will pick up the thread from here....
***: enjoy the Philippines now, as there will soon be approx. 30million surplus men in China and other Chinese influenced cultures in SE ASIA, not to mention Korea. Modern tech, old fashioned ingenuity, and one -child policy means that families who favor boys, have boys. I just had dinner with a Malaysian/C guy who was the third sibling....two older sisters. He assured me that he would not have been born if one of his siblings had been a male. BTW, Japan seems to be the only sensible one in this respect. Most have no prediliction for males.
X
Cunning Stunt
04-17-08, 19:32
Any contact with Philippines culture and you will come across the word "ate", which I think can be translated as Auntie or older sis, but has a lot of nuances. You'll find similar things elsewhere in Asia, and I assume it's Confucian influence. Hmm, I know there are a lot of Chinese in Philippines (and the rest of SE Asia), but I don't know the history. I'll have to study that a bit.
XThanks for that X.
Lovers of the Philippine culture (or maybe just lovers of Filipinas) might also like to be aware of the use of the word Kuya as the word will often be applied to them (as in Kuya X Man). It is a term of respect which means older brother in the same way that Ate means older sister and is in frequent use. It is used by younger Filipino's of both sexes to an older and respected relative but is often heard outside the family group when a younger person is addressing you in a respectful and deferential manner.
Don't be alarmed if a Filipino call you Kuya (pronounced Queer), they are not imputing that you are a turd burgler but are been very polite and would be most put out if you punched their lights out
GH
Cunning Stunt
04-17-08, 20:16
What a great way to change the topic, GH. Problem is, how do we know the equipment in these photos actually belongs to you, or that you're not retouching the photos? For that matter, there's a trick anglers use in which they have their fish on a stringer and extend the fish way out toward the camera. This gets the fish much closer to the camera, and when seen in perspective against their bodies, which are much further away, the fish look gigantic. I'd make a point of checking whether you do this in future photos, except that would mean I'd really gone weird about what in the photo is really important. Just kidding. :)
Okay, so in this latest photo with what you claim to have blacked out as part of your body, maybe the Pinay's fingers being spread out this way has nothing to do with measuring. I'd sooner believe maybe she thinks she's looking at an eel, and it's squirming all around to avoid capture, so her fingers are spread out to increase the contact area for grabbing the eel's head. Now you've got to admit, watching a Pinay try to grab an eel by the head is a hell of a lot funnier than having her try to measure some guy's genitalia.HAHAHEHE Bugger me - you must live in an interesting world Slip. Either that or you have been sniffing your typex fluid.
I did say that it was the best photo example of the phenomenom I was describing but not perfect. You can almost see the expression of shock and wonderment on her face as she contemplated the near future certainty that said object would soon be buried to its hilt up her tight little snatch.
As to squirming eels and slippery fish, I think you must definately be a monger - a fishmonger:) Admittedly I do go overboard on the KY sometimes -the girls insist on it you know - erm its a size thing :D
Yours in jest GH
Proudpinoy
04-17-08, 20:58
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<snip>...As for AV's visa post, I did not mean to imply that it wasn't informative. It was informative and it answered the original question. You complimented him and went so far as to suggest he had inside info at PI immigration. This piqued my interest so I searched for Phillipines + visa and found the same info - verbatim - in the top URL in my Google search. Maybe AV is an English proofreader at the Justice Ministry. Which probably means I'll have trouble next time I try to get in country!
There was a lot of other info there so I posted the URL. It really hurt me that no one complimented me. :-) <snip>
XX Man this is refering to a converation in another PI forum.
I ask that you delete it & at least repost in the relevant forum.
Any further flaming or trolling & I get Jackson to start deleting again.
Have a nice day.
AV
* member is now on my ignore list
Don't be alarmed if a Filipino call you Kuya (pronounced Queer), they are not imputing that you are a turd burgler but are been very polite and would be most put out if you punched their lights out
GH
Hi GH, just a small point, Tagalog speakers are actually pronouncing the word kuya as coo'-yah.
Its easy to misunderstand I guess for ears used to different accents.
In everyday taglish you will often hear people address men as 'Boss', 'Kuya' or just add the suffix 'Pa' at the end of a sentence or prepend 'Pare' at the beginiing of a sentence . There is a whole subculture of Taglish slang as well.
Quick reference http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/kuya
Tagalog speakers are pronouncing the word ate as ar'-tay.
In colloquial usage is often shortened to 'Te (Pronouned as 'Tay)
Careful with this, the Tagalog word for shit is Tae.. ;)
The vowels are soft in Tagalog unlike our anglicised hard pronunciation of vowels.
Are your eyes glazed yet?
Lots of info about all the languages of this diverse country here
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Languages_of_the_Philippines
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tagalog_language
http://pinoyslang.com/
Cheers mate
AV
This is over the top -- we suddenly have a few NEW members who immediately compliment AV or name-call him. If an ISG member is using multiple personalities to increase PI thread antagonism, then he should be ashamed of himself.
After several trip to the PI, I was told about this website by my some fellas I met in Cebu. It's a small world but I met Armavida before. Talk about an ugly foreigner. Loud, obnoxious, and rubs everyone the wrong way. Just ignore him.
Cunning Stunt
04-18-08, 07:34
Hi GH, just a small point, Tagalog speakers are actually pronouncing the word kuya as coo'-yah.
Its easy to misunderstand I guess for ears used to different accents.Tell you what AV, like yourself probably, I get called Kuya a lot (by younger family members) and I can assure you that, to the untrained ear, and in that singular Pinoy accent, it sounds just like queer.
It was quite disconcerting until I became used to it.
GH
Fifty Fifty
04-18-08, 10:39
This is over the top -- we suddenly have a few NEW members who immediately compliment AV or name-call him. If an ISG member is using multiple personalities to increase PI thread antagonism, then he should be ashamed of himself.
Hmmmm, Smoke and Mirrors comes to mind here ;)
Snipe Snipe Snipe, Gripe Gripe Gripe, give it a rest please.
Chees F/Fifty
Sorry fifty, but that wasn't very helpful.
I don't like to see new faces come on and immediately start name calling or giving personal attacks. I'm not sure what is going on, but it should be discouraged.
X
Looking at the recent topics and posts I forgot :)
Bilbo Baggins
04-19-08, 00:13
Tell you what AV, like yourself probably, I get called Kuya a lot (by younger family members) and I can assure you that, to the untrained ear, and in that singular Pinoy accent, it sounds just like queer.
It was quite disconcerting until I became used to it.
GH
To my ear it sounds like coo ya, always clear to me, in some parts I only got called by my name it was only the young ones called me kuya. I also got called manong. I haven't been everywhere or heard everything.
Maybe you are referring to the Jools discussion. Sorry, I am 50% to blame for that. I was trying to make sense of what someone was saying in the "Filipina" thread, and he apparently assumed I had read his post in the "Makati" thread -- a thread I rarely read.
My bad.
X
Looking at the recent topics and posts I forgot :)
I heard a Filipina friend use the expression "kuya" when calling a waiter. I think he was about her age or older. I asked her if I could use the term to call the waiter and she gave an ambigious answer (which probably meant "no").
I think "ate" and "kuya" are used in both Luzon and Visayans. How about Mindanao?
BB, do you remember where you were when you were called manong.
Back to "ate", you hear this a lot in the bars, sometimes to Mamasan, but also to other girls. Is it purely an age thing or does seniority at the place of employment also create the senior / junior status and the accompanying use of honorifics?
X
To my ear it sounds like coo ya, always clear to me, in some parts I only got called by my name it was only the young ones called me kuya. I also got called manong. I haven't been everywhere or heard everything.
I also got called manong.I asked my wife what's 'manong' she told me its a visaya word same as kuya. I've studied Tagalog so I can converse in the business world. Cebuano has many simillar words but its too hard for my poor brain to learn dialects.
AV
Soapy Smith
04-19-08, 04:29
HAHAHEHE Bugger me - you must live in an interesting world Slip. Either that or you have been sniffing your typex fluid. I did say that it was the best photo example of the phenomenom I was describing but not perfect. You can almost see the expression of shock and wonderment on her face as she contemplated the near future certainty that said object would soon be buried to its hilt up her tight little snatch.
As to squirming eels and slippery fish, I think you must definately be a monger - a fishmonger:) Admittedly I do go overboard on the KY sometimes -the girls insist on it you know - erm its a size thing :D Yours in jest GHIt was a slip of sorts, but no typex fluid here, just a little red wine. So now let me Skip ahead toward the punchline. Think of the eel thing as sort of a compliment. Remember that the ladies often insist that it's not the size of the ship in the slip, but the motion of the boat on the ocean that matters to them. I figure an eel, squirming the way it does, puts up a hell of a motion. So maybe this little lady is giving you a compliment.
As to fish mongering, as long as the smell is fresh, I have no problem using my nose and mouth to check it out. I'm particularly fond of fresh clam. But it pays to try to do something to mask the scent on the moustache if you're going into polite company after this sort of clam diving. Peanut butter works well, lemon juice a little less well. Somebody in an earlier post told me to just tell people that I've come from a particularly good sushi bar, but Pinoys are not total idiots. After all, they eat fish all the time, and they damn sure can tell the difference in smell between fish and clam. Secondly, they're likely to ask for the name of the sushi bar, and then I'd turn to Elmer Fudd stuttering.
As to K-Y, I've had a number of the ladies not know what it was when I brought it out. They needed to be convinced. We may be talking about a difference of mileage on the chassis.
Soapy Smith
04-19-08, 05:03
To my ear it sounds like coo ya, always clear to me, in some parts I only got called by my name it was only the young ones called me kuya. I also got called manong. I haven't been everywhere or heard everything.Manong also means older brother. I'm not positive, but I think it implies a much older, perhaps even eldest brother. Kuya may imply older but not necessarily eldest. Maybe one of our married guys can ask a Filipina wife?? All of these terms, as well as Ate, are used with friends as an expression of closeness. For those of us who are old farts, it's not appropriate for us to refer to younger men or women as kuya, manong, or Ate.
Ate usually means eldest sister, so it's used with somebody who would be the age of a much older sister. For somebody still older, like the age of your parents, tiya (aunt) or tiyo (uncle) is sometimes used.
Pare means buddy or partner. The deposed former President, Joseph Estrada, is known to the "masa" (masses) as Erap. He was given the name by another former actor, his buddy Fernando Po. It's pare backwards.
Bilbo Baggins
04-20-08, 07:04
BB, do you remember where you were when you were called manong.
X
I was in a beach resort in Negros discussing with the waitresses language issues. I find it fun if i know some phrases to flirt with like "dont touch me please" "I want to touch you" "or you're ugly but I like your personality" This is in the Illongo language. I think some waitresses were Visayan and didnt speak Illongo so it seemed everthing was a mix of Cebuano Tagalog and Illongo I know some tagalog words but in the end I found it all too confusing with traveling from place to place.
Their TV shows are mostly in Tagalog so I thought that if I learnt that language it would be useful everywhere. I went into a computer store in Davao City to get some technical help with reading a DVD and spoke to the salesman in the little tagalog I knew he looked at me and shrugged his shoulders and said in English I dont speak tagalog. arrrggghhh !!!
I know some Ilocanos who use the words manong and manang like the Illongo the Illongo people with me all called me by my first name which was unusual in itself as nearly everyone else wherever I went called me sir or kuya. I think, I'm guessing here, that people who felt some sort of friendship with me called me kuya instead of sir.
I knew from my Ilocano people that you could call young women ading but when I tried it in different places like Negros they would look at me and say who is ading? With the variety of different languages in the country they must be confused too?
The Philippines a tropical land of shifting sands.
The basic premise is to show respect to their elders that is why they do it and my opinion is to do what ever the custom is in the area you are in. Unfortunately most of us are older than our companions and the majority of the population so I have no idea of how to address these young'uns with respect.
They do have trouble understanding each other too so take heart.
BB, thanks for that. Hope you can give us some more Negros reports soon.
I had the same experience when I first visited Olongapo. I'd learn a few things with a few girls in one bar, and in the next bar they'd tell me that it was different than their dialect.
Took a Manila girl to Bohol, and she could communicate with most people, but the boatmen were a different matter. I presume the boatmen had less education -- or maybe they just didn't want to talk to her since they were too busy staring. She had weird swimming style which cause her ass to pop up above the waterline in a rather prominent way...and too shy to wear a bathing suit, she had white shorts over black panties. HA, HA......
I was in a beach resort in Negros discussing with the waitresses language issues. I find it fun if i know some phrases to flirt with like "dont touch me please" "I want to touch you" "or you're ugly but I like your personality" This is in the Illongo language. I think some waitresses were Visayan and didnt speak Illongo so it seemed everthing was a mix of Cebuano Tagalog and Illongo I know some tagalog words but in the end I found it all too confusing with traveling from place to place.
Their TV shows are mostly in Tagalog so I thought that if I learnt that language it would be useful everywhere. I went into a computer store in Davao City to get some technical help with reading a DVD and spoke to the salesman in the little tagalog I knew he looked at me and shrugged his shoulders and said in English I dont speak tagalog. arrrggghhh !!!
I know some Ilocanos who use the words manong and manang like the Illongo the Illongo people with me all called me by my first name which was unusual in itself as nearly everyone else wherever I went called me sir or kuya. I think, I'm guessing here, that people who felt some sort of friendship with me called me kuya instead of sir.
I knew from my Ilocano people that you could call young women ading but when I tried it in different places like Negros they would look at me and say who is ading? With the variety of different languages in the country they must be confused too?
The Philippines a tropical land of shifting sands.
The basic premise is to show respect to their elders that is why they do it and my opinion is to do what ever the custom is in the area you are in. Unfortunately most of us are older than our companions and the majority of the population so I have no idea of how to address these young'uns with respect.
They do have trouble understanding each other too so take heart.
Only Looking
04-24-08, 07:18
Ok feeding time for the trolls is over now...
I have a nice filippina in Singapore who is my 'stopover girl'. When I first started seeing her Miss E was extremely conservative & a bit of a starfish in bed although she frequently sent me long XXX rated txt messages about what she wanted to do with me.
I tried to nudge things up a notch but she always went shy on me & things were a little disappointing but not enough to stop me - I never knock back free pussy ;)
I backed off & she has surprised me by becoming more adventurous on her own. Recently she called & asked out of the blue if I liked shaved... after wiping the spilled coffee off my business shirt with my brain screaming OH! YES! I shly agreed this would be 'nice'. She has come up with all sorts of naughty things to try which Im sure Wicked Roger would approve of :D
The last barrier seems to be to get her to allowing pics... god I'm itching to get some pics of the action if I can!
I seem to find time & again that with non P4P pinays, the patience is rewarded with all sorts of delights. Unlike their western sisters once they decide to try something they seem to be quite trusting about giving it a go.
What are your experiences guys?
AV
I also recently found a Filipina in Sing. Quite conservative but still managed to get her to spend the night the first date. She had her period but eventually volunteered several nice blowjobs. Then she was ashamed of her self for a day or two. But last night she was voluntarily flashing her tits at me on the cam. Now this is not one of those uneducated village girls. She has a college degree and a good job in Sing. Still, she is a Filipina and ready and horny.
Cunning Stunt
04-24-08, 20:08
Ok you know it. Right next to where they are the pinkest. But the recent post of pictures of a lovely brown Filipina had me wondering which area of the Philippines produces the most dusky beauties.
OK I know that barangay girls who labour in the paddies are obviously going to be browner than city girls but in some areas native blood flows stronger and is less adulterated by Spanish/Mestizo influences. I seem to remember that girls from North Luzon in the Cagayan Valley area fit this category and are much darker skinned than average.
Any ideas for although they hate their dark colour, I am confident in saying that the majority of us western punters (but not Asians mongers) prefer them the duskier the better.
Cheers GH
After my first day back home in the US spent the first day cursing around in my rented 08 Lac settled down in front of the pc. Was looking for an old friend on Friendster. While I didn’t find her I did find my ex’s account. To my dismay I saw her new husband for the first time. The guy is a certified troll not the forum type. Was she really that damn desperate to leave the PI? Damn where the hell do I rank compared to this guy? I believe it was AV who wrote about the desperation of Filipinas and how they chat with old the young, fair the dark, the skinny the fat the ugly the handsome. Unbelievable
So you judge people just by their appearance? That's interesting.
X
After my first day back home in the US spent the first day cursing around in my rented 08 Lac settled down in front of the pc. Was looking for an old friend on Friendster. While I didn’t find her I did find my ex’s account. To my dismay I saw her new husband for the first time. The guy is a certified troll not the forum type. Was she really that damn desperate to leave the PI? Damn where the hell do I rank compared to this guy? I believe it was AV who wrote about the desperation of Filipinas and how they chat with old the young, fair the dark, the skinny the fat the ugly the handsome. Unbelievable
So you judge people just by their appearance? That's interesting.
X
I bet you go to PI and look for the most physically ugly girl you can find you golden heart boy :)
...was looking for an old friend on friendster. while i didn’t find her i did find my ex’s account. to my dismay i saw her new husband for the first time. the guy is a certified troll not the forum type. was she really that damn desperate to leave the pi? damn where the hell do i rank compared to this guy?...i know exactly how you feel d etat, the sense of shock & disappointment when you see what an otherwise attractive woman has settled for is hard to put into words.
i think i mentioned recently about taking a peek inside girls email & friendster accounts, wow what a shock!
these women are nothing if not pragmatic! its seen at higher levels of western world though also. every pinay has her own aganda. some are nasty pieces of work who set out to con their way into another country just to get financial benefit alone. but most are motivated by a sense of obligation to their family. (the tagalog phrase 'utang na loob' meaning something like 'debt of gratitude' is often used)
most girls here grow up with family obligations ingrained into them. they are force fed a diet of syrupy romantic soap operas on tv. they dream of having a beautiful handsome young middle class pinoy bf who will marry them & live happily forever. the reality of her life will be a 6 day a week grind of a low paying job (if she can get one) the family is poor & needs her to find a 'supportive' husband.
av
Cunning Stunt
04-26-08, 09:40
Most girls here grow up with family obligations ingrained into them. They are force fed a diet of syrupy romantic soap operas on TV. They dream of having a beautiful handsome young middle class pinoy BF who will marry them & live happily forever. The reality of her life will be a 6 day a week grind of a low paying job (if she can get one) the family is poor & needs her to find a 'supportive' husband.
AVDead on AV. You only have to look at the cloyingly syrupy shit (phrases lke 'Looking for my Prince Charming' 'Undying love'spring to mind) that they pile on in their pp's at DIA. It fair breaks my heart but not before I've upchucked my lunch. If only they knew that their audience comprises a fair percentage of world weary, cynical old farts like us (if you do not fall into this category, my apologies but I'll bet your getting their).
MInd you, like you say, can you blame them living unremittingly dreary lives in a bubblegum culture such as exists in the Philippines. Everyone needs a dream and theirs is to escape their poor lives on the arm of a knight in shining armour from the first world' preferably with a healthy bank balance. Sadly for most of them it aint gonna happen.
After my first day back home in the US spent the first day cursing around in my rented 08 Lac settled down in front of the pc. Was looking for an old friend on Friendster. While I didn’t find her I did find my ex’s account. To my dismay I saw her new husband for the first time. The guy is a certified troll not the forum type. Was she really that damn desperate to leave the PI? Damn where the hell do I rank compared to this guy? I believe it was AV who wrote about the desperation of Filipinas and how they chat with old the young, fair the dark, the skinny the fat the ugly the handsome. UnbelievableD Etat, similar story. One year ago I met a gal from online, claimed 23 y.o. We met in manila and took the whole family out for shopping and dinner (on me). Mama then left her daughter with me for a few days, and she whined for money several times. The second day I checked her ID, she was 20. Very pretty, and I was doing her twice daily for 3 days (killing her, claiming she was SORE). She kept asking for 10K pisos to pay for family debts, so to shut her up I told her OK. Each day would ask me for 5K of the 10. I'm pretty sure that if I'd handed her 5K on any given day she would have bolted. Only said I LOVE YOU during discussion of money (way too obvious).
When I got back to the states we spoke lovingly online for about 2 weeks, then she asked for me to send 5K for her birthday party (that would be my present to her, a nice party for her family). I balked and ended the relationship. Money, money, money. 1 week after that there she was online, picture of herself sitting in a man's lap, wedding dress on and a big smile. He was 55-60, fat troll. The pic had a date stamp from 3 days prior. When I enquired she said that she had gotten married to an american and was quite happy and would be coming to the USA. This 3 weeks after I left her. I was stunned. Not that I liked her whiny butt that much, but 3 weeks? Yap it worked like this: the entire time she was lovey with him online, and possibly also while he was there in Manila with her, she was either boffing me or asking me for funds after I left. I'm sure he has no idea. Who knows how many others she was milking for money, all the while engaged? That pretty little pinay married a fat guy 35 years her senior to get out off the pig farm, why? Because she really was.... THAT desperate. Im guessing that in phils you have to apply a week (or more) ahead of your marriage for a marriage license, like here. So, she was applying for that while still asking me for money (and how many others?). I'm sure her husband had no idea.
As an aside, I've talked online with her since. Apparently getting married in phils has disrupted the normal visa process. Her hubby tells her it will be some time before she gets to come over. Shame.
... That pretty little pinay married a fat guy 35 years her senior to get out off the pig farm, why? Because she really was.... THAT desperate.Simple test of a girls honest intentions.
1) Tell her you want to get married in the Phils (Takes YEARS to get a divorce). if she says no, [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off, she's likely got no intention of staying married to you.
2) Tell her you want to live there in the Phils with her. If she makes it clear that staying here is not on her agenda, [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off.
BTW have you noticed that the happy couples pictured on the dating sites like CB are always a really unattractive (old) man with a pretty young woman? Sends the message loud & clear...
AV
"Apparently getting married in phils has disrupted the normal visa process. Her hubby tells her it will be some time before she gets to come over. Shame"
That is a rather funny story. I have known many people from the Philippines. All of them know about the visa process. If you get married in her country, it takes longer to get a visa than the fiance visa. Duh! I am sure that she must know 500 people who could have told her that in her own country. The Phils. is notorious for marriage scams. You have to be extremely careful with them. RTFF. Many guys married a girl from the Phils only to end up supporting 10 to 15 people in a large, extended family. You know that there are rich peole in the Phils. The girls NEVER ask those guys for money. They assume all Americans are rich and CARELESS with their money. Careless is the main thing.
Having said all of that, there are thousands of diamonds in the Phils. as well. Pretty and caring ladies who would do anything to please her man. Hard for the basic gringo to find them while he is in Ermita most of his nights. I work here with some Phil. ladies and they are all very sweet.
Member #2718
04-27-08, 10:46
I asked my wife what's 'manong' she told me its a visaya word same as kuya. I've studied Tagalog so I can converse in the business world. Cebuano has many simillar words but its too hard for my poor brain to learn dialects.
AV
its also a common word used for "driver" around Manila
its also a common word used for "driver" around ManilaAh a little light bulb just went off in my head! All the Cebuano speakers Im around are always adding 'man' the end of their sentences. A contraction of manong I assume?
AV
Blackangst
04-27-08, 20:02
Dead on AV. You only have to look at the cloyingly syrupy shit (phrases lke 'Looking for my Prince Charming' 'Undying love'spring to mind) that they pile on in their pp's at DIA. It fair breaks my heart but not before I've upchucked my lunch. If only they knew that their audience comprises a fair percentage of world weary, cynical old farts like us (if you do not fall into this category, my apologies but I'll bet your getting their).
MInd you, like you say, can you blame them living unremittingly dreary lives in a bubblegum culture such as exists in the Philippines. Everyone needs a dream and theirs is to escape their poor lives on the arm of a knight in shining armour from the first world' preferably with a healthy bank balance. Sadly for most of them it aint gonna happen.Having dated/flirted/fucked many pinays before my wife I can, of course, say this is true; however...let me bring to mind American ads. They say the same things, although to a lesser extent. Also, can anyone tell me a country where a woman doesnt strive to ''move up''? Its universal. I think many times we're too hard on these girls when in reality they want the same thing every girl wants. Diba?
I would also like to comment on the 'syrupy' comment. Filipinas really ARE different than most of their counterparts, especially in USA. IMHO its not brainwashing by soap operas so much as their trained and ingrained dedication to commitment of marriage. I know my wife still amazes me sometimes with her love and respect for our marriage...and of me. Weve been married 6 years and sometimes its like a first date. I think alot of guys feel this way. Again, just my opinion.
Off topic I know. But I'm seeking help. I have a phone and if I go to another country and its on roaming. Well if I get a call but can't answer it in time the caller gets a message as in Phils. " subscriber can't be reached " etc.
Well I'm planning a trip but don't want someone to know where I am. How can I handle this. (no not taking the phone is not an option.)
Any techies out there can help. All I can think to do is pretend phone is broken and not take it to said country, tho I realy need it with me.G'day FF, We'd love to help but need to request clarification of your question.
- You're a foreigner going TO Phils
- You're an expat going FROM Phils
Which is it?
Your question seems to be how do I avoid the country specific "subscriber can't be reached" message of where you are at the time?
The simple answer is turn your cp _OFF_ when not making/receiving calls.
Even when making/receiving calls its quite likely callers may see your caller ID different to usual & quickly conclude you are not where you say you are.
Low tech solution : Lie, say your normal cp is broken & being repaired (or stolen) for how ever many days is convenient. Turn your cp off & Just go 'off the air'.
You can start your cover story now by complaining a lot every day about your cp not working correctly & mention you may need to put it in for repair... Careful with this, I once did this & a GF bought me a new cp as a 'surprise'. It was very hard to have a 'problem' with my cp after that hehe :)
If you give honey ko different number to use while you're away, you still have the problem of strange subscriber messages on unanswered calls.
Hi tech solution : Buy a 3G cell phone & get a skype account. You can create a skype ID that appears to be a cell phone number (anything you like). Honey ko may be suspicious because caller id may still be a lttle weird but she can't prove it. (Caveat : in some countries, eg China etc, even this will not hide your true location)
Best solution is both the Low tech & Hi tech combined.
AV
* its probably better to post this question in the 'Help & Advice' thread.
Ok you know it. Right next to where they are the pinkest. But the recent post of pictures of a lovely brown Filipina had me wondering which area of the Philippines produces the most dusky beauties.
OK I know that barangay girls who labour in the paddies are obviously going to be browner than city girls but in some areas native blood flows stronger and is less adulterated by Spanish/Mestizo influences. I seem to remember that girls from North Luzon in the Cagayan Valley area fit this category and are much darker skinned than average.
Any ideas for although they hate their dark colour, I am confident in saying that the majority of us western punters (but not Asians mongers) prefer them the duskier the better.
Cheers GH
Gamhucher.....I LOVE THAT MONIKER, mainly as a certain disc Jockey in Washington DC (The greasman) used to use that phrase when refering to
picking up girls and screwing them (As in that little honey you're Gamhooching might have a leak in her plumbing) Translation...that girl you're screwing might have the clap...he would talk this way on the air as the FCC
couldn't fine the radio station for indeceny, I'm Kinda curious if you ever heard of the guy in OZ and thats how you got the name???
Anyhow to answer your question:
Being a conoseurre of Brown skinned honeys (I like 'em dark) I've noticed that different regions in the Phils have differing "Pink places" and brown places, probably an ethnic trait, those with Chinese blood have less pink and brown BTW. Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.
IMHO Thai women have darker Pink places than Filipina, especially the nips.
P.S.
Hairiness seems to be a second hereditary trait in accordance with pinker
pink places.
Geez I better stop babbling
Spamhog
Fifty Fifty
05-07-08, 11:30
Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.
Ha ha, nice term, but I have always known the described part as her "Cozif"'
As in " Cos if it wasnt there, her guts would fall out"
Agree with all about the LBFMs, and the lil brownies are some of the best :)
Cheers, F/Fifty
Hello to all,
Im not sure if somebody reads my extreme thrilling report from what have last happen to me in AC and about my so called GF.
I should say that I go AC evry weekend to party and then meet my GF. I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....
Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.
Thats what I thought....WRONG...Last time I havent told my GF that I will come another day to AC, but I was there allready. Happends to me I got a bit stomach sick from the day before and just sleep all day, woke up around midnight and decide to go to some bars. Went back at Orchid Inn around 3 am and Voila, who shows up after some minutes. My Atlantis spotlight dancer GF with her friend and 2 asian guys. They like asian for some special reasons.
Now she walks in, looked up and oh shock, saw me, turning into LOts Wife immedtly..
But that was all, they sit, while I was standing over them (they were full so at that night I had to sleep in those standard rooms in the front desk area)and look like a dumbshit. From what I saw, she immdediatly moved away some inches from the guy..
I txt her and called her and ask her if she stays in the hotel with the guy and she says yes..I have to say we had some quarel before I had to find some excuses not to see her..
Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..
Now, knowing me as a nice guy, she could have come over to me and I would pay the sucker his barfine back and he could bunr his money with somebody else, cause my GF is pretty but a starfish to those she not attracted, specially her "barfines"..I know that from before..
So, why put this little story in the filipina thread...actually I want to share my experience and happy for some input from you guys..
Should she have come to me after I saw her?? SHould she go back to the bar and gave the guy his barfine back? She did nothing like that, her escuse was the guy allready paid her barfine and thats why she have to went with him, well I can say that I also pay her sometimes her barfine but nothing happn during the night, cause we both were drunk and I wanted to sleep as well she does, but then the next night no sleep at all. What Im telling is, how should she act..
I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??
Thanks for you value time to read this..
Happy hunting
Blink
Morepoonhound
05-08-08, 09:01
I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....
Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.
Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..
I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??
Thanks for you value time to read this..
Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus
I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.
And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work . . . you do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her . . . and especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.
She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do . . . especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.
If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off a customer who has paid for her services already.
My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize - take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.
On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings - which is a totally valid choice - then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.
No offense meant, Blink - I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before - only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.
Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is - bad news - and suppress it (grin) - well, at least most of the time.
Hope that helps.
Blackangst
05-08-08, 09:18
Hello to all,
Im not sure if somebody reads my extreme thrilling report from what have last happen to me in AC and about my so called GF.
I should say that I go AC evry weekend to party and then meet my GF. I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....
Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.
Thats what I thought....WRONG...Last time I havent told my GF that I will come another day to AC, but I was there allready. Happends to me I got a bit stomach sick from the day before and just sleep all day, woke up around midnight and decide to go to some bars. Went back at Orchid Inn around 3 am and Voila, who shows up after some minutes. My Atlantis spotlight dancer GF with her friend and 2 asian guys. They like asian for some special reasons.
Now she walks in, looked up and oh shock, saw me, turning into LOts Wife immedtly..
But that was all, they sit, while I was standing over them (they were full so at that night I had to sleep in those standard rooms in the front desk area)and look like a dumbshit. From what I saw, she immdediatly moved away some inches from the guy..
I txt her and called her and ask her if she stays in the hotel with the guy and she says yes..I have to say we had some quarel before I had to find some excuses not to see her..
Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..
Now, knowing me as a nice guy, she could have come over to me and I would pay the sucker his barfine back and he could bunr his money with somebody else, cause my GF is pretty but a starfish to those she not attracted, specially her "barfines"..I know that from before..
So, why put this little story in the filipina thread...actually I want to share my experience and happy for some input from you guys..
Should she have come to me after I saw her?? SHould she go back to the bar and gave the guy his barfine back? She did nothing like that, her escuse was the guy allready paid her barfine and thats why she have to went with him, well I can say that I also pay her sometimes her barfine but nothing happn during the night, cause we both were drunk and I wanted to sleep as well she does, but then the next night no sleep at all. What Im telling is, how should she act..
I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??
Thanks for you value time to read this..
Happy hunting
BlinkOK. A few things. First off. When you say "Voila, who shows up after some minutes". Did the two of you share a steady room or something? How is it she came to the room you were in, when from the sounds of it you werent supposed to be there? The guy takes the girl to HIS room, not hers. I'm confused about this.
Second. It doesnt sound like you two are steady. So, sorry man but she's open season on whomever she wants to go BF with. Now, if you were serious, you, her, and mamasan would sit down mand make an arrangement about permanently BF her, or taking her off the market. It isn't terribly uncommon. Or, if you're REALLY serious, you would pay for her to go back home and you would support her. It doesnt sound like you're at that point.
Filipinas are a dichotomy. They are FIERCLY loyal, and FULL of temper and revenge. Just because a girl works in a bar doesnt mean she doesnt either want a normal life, or a normal relationship. But, from the sounds of it, you two arent that serious.
Sorry bro. She's open game. Hell. Post a pic and a name maybe I'll BF her when I come in August: p
(caveat: the above are statements of a general nature, and do not apply to every circumstance. But, exceptions make the rule true).
Blackangst
05-08-08, 09:20
Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus
I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.
And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work. You do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her. And especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.
She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do. Especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.
If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off a customer who has paid for her services already.
My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize. Take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.
On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings. Which is a totally valid choice. Then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.
No offense meant, Blink. I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before. Only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.
Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is. Bad news. And suppress it (grin). Well, at least most of the time.
Hope that helps. Shit. We posted the same thing LOL. I guess blink there's your answer: D
Cunning Stunt
05-08-08, 10:36
Gamhucher.....I LOVE THAT MONIKER, mainly as a certain disc Jockey in Washington DC (The greasman) used to use that phrase when refering to
picking up girls and screwing them (As in that little honey you're Gamhooching might have a leak in her plumbing) Translation...that girl you're screwing might have the clap...he would talk this way on the air as the FCC
couldn't fine the radio station for indeceny, I'm Kinda curious if you ever heard of the guy in OZ and thats how you got the name???
Anyhow to answer your question:
Being a conoseurre of Brown skinned honeys (I like 'em dark) I've noticed that different regions in the Phils have differing "Pink places" and brown places, probably an ethnic trait, those with Chinese blood have less pink and brown BTW. Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.
IMHO Thai women have darker Pink places than Filipina, especially the nips.
P.S.
Hairiness seems to be a second hereditary trait in accordance with pinker
pink places.
Geez I better stop babbling
Spamhog
Hi Spam, Nice to see you back (not that I knew you had been away, I'm a bit of a nublet hereabouts). First response to my facetious query, which was a bit disappointing as I was hoping for a bit more banter and repartee. However I sense from your posts that you are a bit of a kidder yourself so there is hope for us all yet.
I'm not a Foo Rucker (couldn't catch one so guess I'll leave that to Amavida). I'm from the old country so concentrate my efforts on sheep and LBFM’s:o
Fantastic to hear about the Greaseman’s smooching and gamahuching when few of his listeners had a clue what the fuck he was talking about. Its actually an old French word for muff diving which I guess implies that his advice was to take care they don’t [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) in your mouth whilst your tucking in at the Y!
Well still think the brownest girls are from the Cagayan Valley in North Luzon. I used to live in Tuguegarao City and never failed to be amazed at the numbers of very dusky beauties strolling the streets. However yet to get to Mindanao (although I’ve screwed plenty them cute Mindanaoan lasses) so maybe they are darker there.
Love the ‘taint’ reference. So I guess ‘painting the taint’ involves a little bit of lingual erogenous stimulation?
Cheers GH
Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus
I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.
And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work . . . you do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her . . . and especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.
She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do . . . especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.
If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off a customer who has paid for her services already.
My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize - take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.
On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings - which is a totally valid choice - then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.
No offense meant, Blink - I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before - only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.
Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is - bad news - and suppress it (grin) - well, at least most of the time.
Hope that helps.
thanks for ur comments, also from the guys who PM me..
Yes, I like my freedom, but jelousy caught me in the act, I dont mind what she do if Im not around, I know it but I dont see it. But When I get confronted with that I got jellous. Guess I feel like one of those locals, who got supported from their workin bargirl friends, try to ignore the fact but get pissed on us when they see us with their so called GF s :D
Well , tomrow IM back, we txt allready, she called me and told me when M there tomrow she wont work and on saturday we going to watch Iron man :D
LG, life is good
Blink
I'm not a Foo Rucker (couldn't catch one so guess I'll leave that to Amavida)He he he! :) What the hell is that?? Sounds weird!
AV
Cunning Stunt
05-08-08, 18:27
He he he! :) What the hell is that?? Sounds weird!
AV
You've heard of sheep shaggers? Well transpose 2 letters and what have you got? Don't guess its theoretically possible unless you got the fucker on its back and was able to avoid those lethal big feet. Do that and I guess you'd be in furry paradise and what is more would have a handy pouch to put your KY and stuff ;)
For people who don't speak aussie how about this?
Addendum - Don't mind me, I was a squaddie in a former life so naturally have a rather peculiar sense of humour.
...I guess you'd be in furry paradise and what is more would have a handy pouch to put your KY and stuff ;):D hehehe! Ya think of everything mate!
You've heard of sheep shaggers? Well transpose 2 letters and what have you got?
There was an old joke about a husband and wife missionaries traveling in the outback. When they returned to their hotel, they complained to the clerk about seeing a native foo rucking and a one legged man leaning against a tree masturbating.
The hotel clerk simply replied "How can the poor booger catch a roo with only one leg."
Slim
Why do women love oral sex performed on themselves but regard oral sex on their man with disgust?
Here in the phils I have had the privilege several times of pretty young virgin ask me to introduce her to adult sex life. These girls, genuine virgins, ALL enthusiastically accepted DATY. But getting them to suck YOUR dick? Oh no! (Of course in time with patience they have all learned to please a man)
Seems to be a universal trait amongst women all over the world.
AV
Why do women love oral sex performed on themselves but regard oral sex on their man with disgust?
Here in the phils I have had the privilege several times of pretty young virgin ask me to introduce her to adult sex life. These girls, genuine virgins, ALL enthusiastically accepted DATY. But getting them to suck YOUR dick? Oh no! (Of course in time with patience they have all learned to please a man)
Seems to be a universal trait amongst women all over the world.
AV
Hmm this is strange... most Filipinas I have met could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. :)
Member #4647
05-10-08, 02:14
the Filipina's I've met could suckstart a leafblower.
Blackangst
05-10-08, 02:55
Hmm this is strange... most Filipinas I have met could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. :)
Most filipinas you've had mustnt have been cherries. Even though some of the cherry girls in AC will do "anything but", they werent born with head knowledge :D
They gotta be taught hehe
Most filipinas you've had mustnt have been cherries. Even though some of the cherry girls in AC will do "anything but", they werent born with head knowledge :D
They gotta be taught hehe
Nah none of the Filipinas I have had have been virgins. I also don't want one. When If not my girl I don't like all that sweet time... The girl I bar friend in Cebu was close to a virgin as I have seen. Her snatch also felt like one. The fear in her face, the thumping heart and her inexperience but she performed once I showed her the ropes.
Cunning Stunt
05-11-08, 10:31
the Filipina's I've met could suckstart a leafblower.
Best BJ I ever had was in the Philippines (and I've had some knee tremblers over the years in various parts of the world). She was a young 'butter wouldn't melt' shopgirl type which made it all the more astonishing. Whoever had been coaching her had done a world class job. I won't go into the gory details but suffice to say she must love her protein shakes. Everything else was red hot as well. I was so into it that I forgot to get my camera out even though she had agreed to a few pix. I also didn't get her cf no which was more inexcuseable and never saw her again. The following day the whole scenario seemed so unreal to me that I seriously thought that I had dreamed the whole thing. Except that I had the hickey (good job the missus was away) and was still as sore as hell :D
Ain't the Philippines great!!
How did you show her the ropes? Did you tie her up?
x
The fear in her face, the thumping heart and her inexperience but she performed once I showed her the ropes.
OK. A few things. First off. When you say "Voila, who shows up after some minutes". Did the two of you share a steady room or something? How is it she came to the room you were in, when from the sounds of it you werent supposed to be there? The guy takes the girl to HIS room, not hers. I'm confused about this.
Second. It doesnt sound like you two are steady. So, sorry man but she's open season on whomever she wants to go BF with. Now, if you were serious, you, her, and mamasan would sit down mand make an arrangement about permanently BF her, or taking her off the market. It isn't terribly uncommon. Or, if you're REALLY serious, you would pay for her to go back home and you would support her. It doesnt sound like you're at that point.
Filipinas are a dichotomy. They are FIERCLY loyal, and FULL of temper and revenge. Just because a girl works in a bar doesnt mean she doesnt either want a normal life, or a normal relationship. But, from the sounds of it, you two arent that serious.
Sorry bro. She's open game. Hell. Post a pic and a name maybe I'll BF her when I come in August: p
(caveat: the above are statements of a general nature, and do not apply to every circumstance. But, exceptions make the rule true).
Hi,
just been a bit sick and there were no connection in the place where I stayed last night,(Apartele Royale, AC, 2800p , jacuzzi room)so here my reply..
She showed up in Orchid Inn at frontdesk with her friend and 2 asian guys. I was in the standard room near the frontdesk so I could see who is coming or going out..Thats not my hobby, but bfore I went to my room alone, I saw her coming in with her customer. Well , of course she wanted to leave the bar and be with me all the time, but I havent plan that yet, cause I also have another GF who wanted the same, non working collegue student from the province, so called good gurl. Well , Im living here and I know, soon or later if you want to be serious with a gurl, she wanted a kid, she wanted to live with you,etc etc etc....doesnt matter if she work in a bar, not all bar gurls are bad and of course they all woman who wanted a normal life and normal relation..on the other hand Im just started to live her again and I guess I need some time to be with one GF..as of now..Im not ready for that, on the other other side I also dont wana see her going with another guy..well lets see..I know when Im in manila and she work in the bar she likely go with a guy if she dont make enough money on drinks. If Im in ac its also hard for her to skip the bar, cause the mama san knows Im her steady so called BF and when Im in town and she is absent, then she is with me....as of now its complicated..
anyway hope my reply helps a bit, sorry for my english, I could do much better, but Im dizzy with all the medication I took to overcome this f..in cold, its not fun to have a flue in ac, evrybody is drinkin and having fun (see fotosection I also had :D) and me , just sippin on calamansi juice and sleeping all day, sweating, drinkin water and pills and syrup...well, hopefully next week I can barhop again :D
Happy hunting
Blink
PS see fotosection, sorry only my GF butt on the picture, but she is pretty, I have a good taste :D
PPS Blackangst if you not asian guy with big money waving around, she wont go barfine with you.at least since Im in town and she aint what you called hot in bed, only when she is ur steady one she changed and give it all to you
Cunning Stunt
05-11-08, 19:38
How did you show her the ropes? Did you tie her up?
x
Blimey mate, was that a joke you made? Feeling dizzy? Need a seat? Stiff drink?
Blackangst
05-12-08, 01:44
Hey blink...sucks youre sick hope u feel better soon!
I dont know man ur in a bad place and you really only have two choices in my opinion. First, let her go. If Youre paying a steady b/f that usually means when ur in town she doesnt barfine except with you. Is this the arrangement you had? It sounds like she doesnt want to quit partying yet.
Second, as a couple people have said you need to firm up arrangements with her and her mamasan. Set some rules. Otherwise she might not really honor your request.
I agree that most BG are decent human beings and want nothing more than to have a loving normal family. If you cant give it to her thats fine, but you have to find a way to deal with your own jealousy. Which brings me back to my first point. Either sponsor her, and get her back to the province, or perma BF her with the understanding she wont BF except you when youre in town. I know of several girls with this arrangement and a couple who dont BF anyone- ladies drinks only. Again you gotta work it out with mamasan.
Good luck bro
Try to find a book titled "the manipulated man". It's rather old so likely out of print. It's great stuff. In one section the author explains why women look down on prostitutes. The reason is that they are giving it away too cheaply / easily, making their entrapment more difficult.
Strangely enough, the book was written by a woman.
XEster Vella.
Then she also did another book called the polygamus sex.
Great book read them both.
Wizard
Cowboy Mike
05-12-08, 03:05
Through my keylogger I've learned that my live in GF has gone back to her ways and started chatting with other men... again :(
I sent Honi ko back to Phil's for Christmas Holidays end of 2007. After her arrival to MNL, I emailed her that it be better she find another to support her and she can look for a job there or try her luck as a DH in other country. I can manage myself and dont need her coming back to give me more stress.
I also explained that she make me tired of her excuses. All day chat, email and Friendster. Enough is enough.
I went silent after that for 5 days. She sent 3 emails a day trying to make sorry and telling me she will not chat or Friendster anymore if I allow her back. I told her she has the same BS story each time I scold her and she will test me again to see if I will catch her.
About the only thing I could do to salvage the situation is to "Password" protect the notebook. but I worry cuase she have a bad temper.
In closing, it wouldn't be sooooo bad about the chatting but it's with a member of the Board (no names but I know).
Not being jealous but I feel cheated!
Hey Blink,
Here is my 2 cents, until you know what you want. Let her earn a living doing what she does. Don't barfine her, let her work, let her get her ladies drinks while you are in town and arrange to meet after she finishes work. That way she knows you are in town and won't barfine on that night, and mamasan can't do much once she has finished her shift.( unless you stand at the front door waiting for her to knock off).
You already know that once you are away from AC she is more than likely to barfine, but you find it hard to accept it when you not tell her you are in town and see her doing her job. If she knew you were in town she would not have barfined in the frist place.
Hope you work out what you want before things get too complicated.
Through my keylogger I've learned that my live in GF has gone back to her ways and started chatting with other men... again :(
I sent Honi ko back to Phil's for Christmas Holidays end of 2007. After her arrival to MNL, I emailed her that it be better she find another to support her and she can look for a job there or try her luck as a DH in other country. I can manage myself and dont need her coming back to give me more stress.
I also explained that she make me tired of her excuses. All day chat, email and Friendster. Enough is enough.
I went silent after that for 5 days. She sent 3 emails a day trying to make sorry and telling me she will not chat or Friendster anymore if I allow her back. I told her she has the same BS story each time I scold her and she will test me again to see if I will catch her.
About the only thing I could do to salvage the situation is to "Password" protect the notebook. but I worry cuase she have a bad temper.
In closing, it wouldn't be sooooo bad about the chatting but it's with a member of the Board (no names but I know).
Not being jealous but I feel cheated!
Wanna really [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off and catch her red handed? Take a Tip from the Spamhog with this trick I used so effectively in my PI days to "Out" cheating GF who troll online.
Just set yourself up with a totally new Yahoo or whatever ID, fake name, fake US (Or where ever) address and borrow a picture from one of your friends to send her...of course you dont have a web cam you're new to chatting blah blah blah. Chat with her and get her to add you to the address book. Then you can spot check her by signing in invisible to see if she is online playing her all the while until the day you get a web cam and BLAMMM! Its you awww shit hehehehehehe
Spamhog
Spamhog
Through my keylogger I've learned that my live in GF has gone back to her ways and started chatting with other men... again :(
I sent Honi ko back to Phil's for Christmas Holidays end of 2007. After her arrival to MNL, I emailed her that it be better she find another to support her and she can look for a job there or try her luck as a DH in other country. I can manage myself and dont need her coming back to give me more stress.
I also explained that she make me tired of her excuses. All day chat, email and Friendster. Enough is enough.
I went silent after that for 5 days. She sent 3 emails a day trying to make sorry and telling me she will not chat or Friendster anymore if I allow her back. I told her she has the same BS story each time I scold her and she will test me again to see if I will catch her.
About the only thing I could do to salvage the situation is to "Password" protect the notebook. but I worry cuase she have a bad temper.
In closing, it wouldn't be sooooo bad about the chatting but it's with a member of the Board (no names but I know).
Not being jealous but I feel cheated! Hi Mike, I've noticed that the younger they are the more likely they will be hooked on the the ego stroking of friendster & chat. My youngest GF is 18 1/2, she & i have had some wonderful times. For reasons of hygiene I don't want her sleeping around so i told her be loyal to me or forget it. She wanted to hang on to her friendster & CB accounts. I said to her 'hey if your happy with me you don't need those anymore, lose the accounts or lose me'.
You call the shots not her. Mike, the Phils is filled with great girls who will be loyal to you. [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off & find a good one.
AV
Blackangst
05-12-08, 20:34
Hi Mike, I've noticed that the younger they are the more likely they will be hooked on the the ego stroking of friendster & chat. My youngest GF is 18 1/2, she & i have had some wonderful times. For reasons of hygiene I don't want her sleeping around so i told her be loyal to me or forget it. She wanted to hang on to her friendster & CB accounts. I said to her 'hey if your happy with me you don't need those anymore, lose the accounts or lose me'.
You call the shots not her. Mike, the Phils is filled with great girls who will be loyal to you. [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off & find a good one.
AV
AV...I enjoy your posts and you do have some good knowledge; however...to expect your gf of 18 1/2 years of age to *cough* remain faithful while 1. youre married, and 2. are fucking around is complete bullshit. Sorry bro but if I was her I wouldnt be able to contain my laughter...
To each their own I guess.
Cowboy Mike
05-13-08, 06:40
For reasons of hygiene I don't want her sleeping around so i told her be loyal to me or forget it. She wanted to hang on to her friendster & CB accounts. I said to her 'hey if your happy with me you don't need those anymore, lose the accounts or lose me'.
You call the shots not her. Mike, the Phils is filled with great girls who will be loyal to you. [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off & find a good one.
AVGood call on your part. Keeping her "Fresh" is most important. My live in GF is 22 and 1 child of 3 years old. The child lives with the Grand mother in Phil's.
I DATY and BB my GF almost nightly and have done so for 18 months on end. Cant count how many withdraws I've made but she has a good time milking my snake on her tummy.
Getting back to the issue. I don't need to [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) her off and then she take it out on my laptop or cut me off from the poon and BBBJ. Been fantastic thus far.
She has a terrible temper and has been known to throw things and do so without worrying if things get damaged or not.
I dont fear for my safety. She knows I will send her packing on a 1 way plane ticket. I worry about my stuff more than her.
I will keep your advise in mind.
AV...I enjoy your posts and you do have some good knowledge; however...to expect your gf of 18 1/2 years of age to *cough* remain faithful while 1. youre married, and 2. are fucking around is complete bullshit. Sorry bro but if I was her I wouldnt be able to contain my laughter...
To each their own I guess.Its not a matter of morals, its a matter of hygiene ok?.
As far as my GF's are concerned it's "my way or the highway".
You know what, most women here know when they are on to a good thing and stay loyal.
No offense taken B. I live in pussy paradise & thoroughly enjoy it. If you or anyone else has a problem with that, it's your problem not mine.
AV
I just got scammed. I am meeting different ladies here in the Phillippines. I have one that I have chatted to for over a year, but not very often. I learned from someone on the board in the past, never to send a girl money, make them pay or borrow the money for their trip from the province to visit you. this has worked in the past, I just paid for their return flight/ferry and gave them 1k (or whatever the cost was, plus a little interest).
So this girl says she could not borrow the money she tried ever thing and could I just send her the money Western Union (Western Union is the second and third words a Pinay learns after "load" Anyway, my dick gets the best of me, so I buy a ticket yesterday at a travel agent with cash. I send her the Link for the eticket. Last night she mentions she would like to visit her cousin (another Pinay favorite slogan) I am agitated but say ok, thinking she can visit during the day, and be free for the nights with me. Luckily I did not buy the round trip ticket yet, because I was going to see how many days before I got bored with her.(we have nothing in common, but my dick is thinking it is worth the boredome for a few nights of pleasure)
Anyway, I show up at the airport to pick her up, and she is already with 2 well worn cousins. I can tell she is like a puppet for the older one who moved to Manila 15 years ago. So basically she starts telling me she is going to stay with the cousins at night. At this time I realized I just payed $80 for the one way flight here, and she could care less about me. So the worn/expericed scammer cousin asked if I am hungry, aka buy me food.I say no, but I can drop them of at the mall so they can eat, while I run an important errond. I said I will call them on the cell when I am done and pick them up. Off I go!
Now my dilemaa, I promised her I would pay for her transprotation back to her province. I know she can get back, her cousins can help her.They have everthing she need, remember she had planned to stay with them at night. She just found out my real frist name last week, and only knows my last name from went I just sent her load via Chika. She has no Idea were I am staying in Manila.
I figure I can cut my losses now at $80, only her and one girl know my cell phone number, I can just toss the phone/sim. I figure that nothing good can become of me talking to her again, especially with the puppet master cousin of hers. Is there anything legal she can do to me? or make my time here miseerable? Am I libale for her transprotation back home?
I figure I can send her an email ":Ï have to fly home, my grandfather is very ill on his farm, I will email you next week if I can get the internet in his city, God bless" Or morally should I fly the ***** home on my dime.
Asawa ko & I got asked to officiate at a Miss Philippines beauty pageant in the province last nite. Was this married man salivating over these honeys? You betch your ass he was!
Asawa ko & all the women made great sport of teasing me. It was very nice having gorgeous young women playfully hanging all over me I can tell you.
Anybody got a problem with that? Tough!
AV
p.s. sorry about the quality of the pic, taken at night with a phone, hands shaking with lecherous anticipation hehehe :D
Blackangst
05-13-08, 13:38
Its not a matter of morals, its a matter of hygiene ok?.
As far as my GF's are concerned it's "my way or the highway".
You know what, most women here know when they are on to a good thing and stay loyal.
No offense taken B. I live in pussy paradise & thoroughly enjoy it. If you or anyone else has a problem with that, it's your problem not mine.
AV
No need to get defensive :) I dont have a problem with it, I just think its kinda funny is all. Like I said, I enjoy your posts and to each their own :) I do think its funny when you say "for safety reasons"...how about HER safety? Or is that irrelevant?
Cunning Stunt
05-13-08, 19:15
I chuckle when a fellow member, married and living with a Pinay and in the Philippines, claims to be drowning in pussy. I know them, been there, got the t-shirt (but dare not wear it) and can tell you that the truth is usually very different. Filipina's are jealous, possessive animals who like to keep their men (particularly if that mans a Kano) on a shortish leash. So pursuit of a 'bit of skirt' is possible but a devious and furtive undertaking worthy of a CIA field operative. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either a dreamer or very fortunate.
So A, I believe you must be one lucky muther but don't make me take a polygraph :)
I chuckle when a fellow member, married and living with a Pinay and in the Philippines, claims to be drowning in pussy. I know them, been there, got the t-shirt (but dare not wear it) and can tell you that the truth is usually very different. Filipina's are jealous, possessive animals who like to keep their men (particularly if that mans a Kano) on a shortish leash. So pursuit of a 'bit of skirt' is possible but a devious and furtive undertaking worthy of a CIA field operative. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either a dreamer or very fortunate.
So A, I believe you must be one lucky muther but don't make me take a polygraph :)
G you know your shit...I don't believe it either what the subject matter was I am not even married to my ole lady but she got a lot of time invested in my zany behavior. I have to plead with my ole lady just to take a strole to the mall alone. Man my ole lady didn't watch me as much as when we was in Japan but since we moved here she gets jealous when I just walk to the store alone. She knows the hunt is on and I am the prey. Two days ago I walked to the store and these girls were just yelling and cat calling. I know what American women felt like when they use to walk past my posse when I was younger.
Through my keylogger I've learned that my live in GF has gone back to her ways and started chatting with other men... again :(
I sent Honi ko back to Phil's for Christmas Holidays end of 2007. After her arrival to MNL, I emailed her that it be better she find another to support her and she can look for a job there or try her luck as a DH in other country. I can manage myself and dont need her coming back to give me more stress.
I also explained that she make me tired of her excuses. All day chat, email and Friendster. Enough is enough.
I went silent after that for 5 days. She sent 3 emails a day trying to make sorry and telling me she will not chat or Friendster anymore if I allow her back. I told her she has the same BS story each time I scold her and she will test me again to see if I will catch her.
About the only thing I could do to salvage the situation is to "Password" protect the notebook. but I worry cuase she have a bad temper.
In closing, it wouldn't be sooooo bad about the chatting but it's with a member of the Board (no names but I know).
Not being jealous but I feel cheated!
Too many women in PI to put up with bullshit like that.
I just got scammed....
And you will continue to get scammed as long as you stay here. PI is filled with wolves and you are sheep.
MeLuvULongTime
05-13-08, 23:39
And you will continue to get scammed as long as you stay here. PI is filled with wolves and you are sheep.Being an american born meztiso visiting the PI for first time, I asked my uncle, the mayor, to give me advice for visiting the P. I. He said "trust no one, and the girls just want your money. " I took that advice to heart and have only been scammed by cousin who I "loaned" money to. I have learned that loan means gift. LOL.
Melluvulongtime
I just got scammed. I am meeting different ladies here in the Phillippines. I have one that I have chatted to for over a year, but not very often. I learned from someone on the board in the past, never to send a girl money, make them pay or borrow the money for their trip from the province to visit you. this has worked in the past, I just paid for their return flight/ferry and gave them 1k (or whatever the cost was, plus a little interest).
So this girl says she could not borrow the money she tried ever thing and could I just send her the money Western Union (Western Union is the second and third words a Pinay learns after "load" Anyway, my dick gets the best of me, so I buy a ticket yesterday at a travel agent with cash. I send her the Link for the eticket. Last night she mentions she would like to visit her cousin (another Pinay favorite slogan) I am agitated but say ok, thinking she can visit during the day, and be free for the nights with me. Luckily I did not buy the round trip ticket yet, because I was going to see how many days before I got bored with her.(we have nothing in common, but my dick is thinking it is worth the boredome for a few nights of pleasure)
Anyway, I show up at the airport to pick her up, and she is already with 2 well worn cousins. I can tell she is like a puppet for the older one who moved to Manila 15 years ago. So basically she starts telling me she is going to stay with the cousins at night. At this time I realized I just payed $80 for the one way flight here, and she could care less about me. So the worn/expericed scammer cousin asked if I am hungry, aka buy me food.I say no, but I can drop them of at the mall so they can eat, while I run an important errond. I said I will call them on the cell when I am done and pick them up. Off I go!
Now my dilemaa, I promised her I would pay for her transprotation back to her province. I know she can get back, her cousins can help her.They have everthing she need, remember she had planned to stay with them at night. She just found out my real frist name last week, and only knows my last name from went I just sent her load via Chika. She has no Idea were I am staying in Manila.
I figure I can cut my losses now at $80, only her and one girl know my cell phone number, I can just toss the phone/sim. I figure that nothing good can become of me talking to her again, especially with the puppet master cousin of hers. Is there anything legal she can do to me? or make my time here miseerable? Am I libale for her transprotation back home?
I figure I can send her an email ":Ï have to fly home, my grandfather is very ill on his farm, I will email you next week if I can get the internet in his city, God bless" Or morally should I fly the ***** home on my dime.
well,
those things can happen and its typical for the scam online ladys..things can turn out different, but in this case I think ur instincts told you she is a trouble maker, so next time dont waste r time with those ladys.She can allways make u a trouble, but I guess in that case it will be ok, she might txt or call you a bit but that will be all....lesson learned, move on, if I would be on a holiday trip I wouldnt waste muich time with them..plenty of gurls around, go to a mall and ask them for a date ....or visit bars and collect cp numbers and meet the ladys after work..actually I should do this now...Im alone at home, but still taking medicine to come over my flue..dam...and my cp allways full of txt ...hehehhe....I think i go now starbucks and have a breakfast...play safe and avoid scammers..also a bargurl can be fresh and pretty..u just need to search for it...
happy hunting
Blink
well,
those things can happen and its typical for the scam online ladys..things can turn out different, but in this case I think ur instincts told you she is a trouble maker, so next time dont waste r time with those ladys.She can allways make u a trouble, but I guess in that case it will be ok, she might txt or call you a bit but that will be all....lesson learned, move on, if I would be on a holiday trip I wouldnt waste muich time with them..plenty of gurls around, go to a mall and ask them for a date ....or visit bars and collect cp numbers and meet the ladys after work..actually I should do this now...Im alone at home, but still taking medicine to come over my flue..dam...and my cp allways full of txt ...hehehhe....I think i go now starbucks and have a breakfast...play safe and avoid scammers..also a bargurl can be fresh and pretty..u just need to search for it...
happy hunting
BlinkI should have seen it coming, she kept asking if she could bring a sister or cousin on the ferry to meet me in Cebu. I figured I had a few open days to spend with her in Manila and I would only have to pay for her airfare.
She now has to pay for her way back and her cousin that flew in with her is paying her own way.
There is Harrison mall just a few blocks away, I think I will grab something to eat and check out the offerings.
Cowboy Mike
05-14-08, 05:22
...I figure I can cut my losses now at $80, only her and one girl know my cell phone number, I can just toss the phone/sim.
Am I libale for her transprotation back home? I have sent/spent more than that and learned from the mistakes.
1) buy her a ferry ticket home. You have held up your end. Or at least give her the P1000 for the ferry ticket and part ways... never to look back or answer calls.
2) Toss the SIM. She and her cousins will harass you till you get annoyed.
3) Ignore the emails, text and calls. Eventually she will stop.
Any wise words on this one, your having a conversation earlier in the afternoon all is great and laughing etc. Call them in the evening great still laughing. They go to a birthday party have a few drinks and text you so I call and the conversation just keeps going down hill and it finishes with I dont want to talk to you.
The next day well I will tell you later today.
Wizard
Fifty Fifty
05-14-08, 07:16
Any wise words on this one, your having a conversation earlier in the afternoon all is great and laughing etc. Call them in the evening great still laughing. They go to a birthday party have a few drinks and text you so I call and the conversation just keeps going down hill and it finishes with I dont want to talk to you.
The next day well I will tell you later today.
Wizard
Quote - The Female of the species is deadlier than the Male
There may be many reasons for the way she acted, e.g.
She met someone else at the party.
She was a bad girl at the party.
Someone told her something about you.
Then again there could be no rational reason whatsoever, who knows??
The only wise words I can offer are -
Do not take any notice.
Do not take it to heart.
Do not take any crap.
Do not stop looking for a better one.
Cheers, F/Fifty
AussieOverboard
05-14-08, 07:46
Any wise words on this one, your having a conversation earlier in the afternoon all is great and laughing etc. Call them in the evening great still laughing. They go to a birthday party have a few drinks and text you so I call and the conversation just keeps going down hill and it finishes with I dont want to talk to you.
The next day well I will tell you later today.
WizardSounds Like Tampo to me
Tampo is usually manifested in the withdrawal of affectionate or cheerful behavior, and its expression is almost entirely nonverbal. These manifestations include:
-resisting expressions of affection
-not talking to the person concerned, or to people in general
-being unusually quiet
-locking one's self in his or her room.
-refusing to eat
-not joining friends in group activities
-withdrawing from the group
-simply keeping to one's self
These are usually efforts to get the offending party to make amends, and if these behaviors do not work, one might choose to escalate them - foot stomping, door slamming, and muttering, for example.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tampo
Quote - The Female of the species is deadlier than the Male
There may be many reasons for the way she acted, e.g.
She met someone else at the party.
She was a bad girl at the party.
Someone told her something about you.
Then again there could be no rational reason whatsoever, who knows??
The only wise words I can offer are -
Do not take any notice.
Do not take it to heart.
Do not take any crap.
Do not stop looking for a better one.
Cheers, F/FiftyYes I know the female of the spicies is deadlier.
The looking for a better one has started. LOL
Thanks for the advice.
Wizard
I should have seen it coming, she kept asking if she could bring a sister or cousin on the ferry to meet me in Cebu. I figured I had a few open days to spend with her in Manila and I would only have to pay for her airfare.
She now has to pay for her way back and her cousin that flew in with her is paying her own way.
There is Harrison mall just a few blocks away, I think I will grab something to eat and check out the offerings.
you should check out Edsa, its near your place..go there around 7pm and shop shop :D
Hmmm...raining here....hope Im soon well and can go shopping again..:D
Happy trip
Blink
Any wise words on this one, your having a conversation earlier in the afternoon all is great and laughing etc. Call them in the evening great still laughing. They go to a birthday party have a few drinks and text you so I call and the conversation just keeps going down hill and it finishes with I dont want to talk to you.
The next day well I will tell you later today.
Wizard
Like 50/50 says, ignore it, that happens all the time, also the so called nobody-loves-me-huhuhuhuhuuhu-txt once or twice a month, thats also normal...Pinays like to talk about feelings, send her a txt about ur inner deep feelings, how ur heart hurts etc etc like this shit , you will be suprised bout the feedback...They response to this shit :D...all the other locals do the same bs and the gurls go for it, well, I should say all the male locals have all the time in the world, cause no job :D and nothing to domthen txting bullshit :D
Happy txting
Blink
Asawa ko & I got asked to officiate at a Miss Philippines beauty pageant in the province last nite. Was this married man salivating over these honeys? You betch your ass he was!
Asawa ko & all the women made great sport of teasing me. It was very nice having gorgeous young women playfully hanging all over me I can tell you.:D
Like a kid in a candy store with diabetes.
Slim
Being an american born meztiso visiting the PI for first time, I asked my uncle, the mayor, to give me advice for visiting the P. I. He said "trust no one, and the girls just want your money. " I took that advice to heart and have only been scammed by cousin who I "loaned" money to. I have learned that loan means gift. LOL.
Melluvulongtime
Dude I have been here only 5 months and I am already becoming the angry bitter expat. The cheating, double pricing always worried about thieves. The 1000 tales of woe and in most times its bullshit. Then I deal with something daily that a lot of you don't. I am black. Daily there is a stupid comment made about skin.
One girl told my ole lady while we were getting our hair did oh he is not that black some of the black guys look scary. I use to love Filipinos and their culture when I came on short visits but now I don't know what the fuck I feel.
Went to bathroom while in a Cebu mall and behold no toliet tissue lucky I checked before I did the deed or I would have been "Assed Out" as we say in the hood. In a western establishment that would have been unacceptable. The guy said there is none because they steal it. What the fuck?
Dubai where I earn my pesos plenty of Filipinos here also but they don't smile to you. It’s rare when I see them with a foreign guy. I feel a lot of them are fake ass hell in their actions and thoughts. Guys Asia is not heaven. Western nations and people worked their asses off to build those technological and societal marvels let not walk away from them for pussy. I would probably leave never to return if it wasn't for my girl damn I hate their visa restrictions bull.
GoodEnough
05-14-08, 15:22
D'Etat struck a real chord with me. It's easy, if you live here, to walk around with a molten core of anger inside all the time. It's not only the scamming, though there is that. There's also the constant, grinding poverty. The filth. The utter stupidity with which some things are organized. The endless corruption at every level of society. The futility of the place. The lack of hope. All of that and more. If those feelings aren't at least evenly balanced by other factors, be it pussy availability, friends, the lifestyle you can maintain here for far less than in the West, then there's not much reason--in my opinion--to stay.
GE
MeLuvULongTime
05-14-08, 19:40
Dude I have been here only 5 months and I am already becoming the angry bitter expat. The cheating, double pricing always worried about thieves. The 1000 tales of woe and in most times its bullshit. Then I deal with something daily that a lot of you don't. I am black. Daily there is a stupid comment made about skin.D. T.
I have to agree about the racism towards blacks in PI. My cousins believe that all blacks are in jail or should be. I think it is the western media where all they see is black stereotypes. I have had to explain to my cousins that I know black doctors and the vice president of our local college is black and that blacks are like anyone else, there are good and bad guys, but they do not looked convinced when I tell them. I love visiting for the poon tang, but there is no way I would want to live there with the hassles and ignorance. I think I have a love/hate attitude with the PI, but for me, all the young girls who are willing to bonk a middle aged man like myslelf makes it worth it.
Meluvulongtime
Starchild2012
05-14-08, 19:57
Wow..So much anger and frustation ..Detat...I'm in the same league..from India.and when i first came here..people used to call me just 5-6, 5-6...
I just couldn't figure out what that means..untill after a week in Paseo..a good filipino dude.told me that most indians here do money lending business and they lend with 5-6% interest rate and its considered bad in their culture.
I was descriminated for a week based on my nationality, one girl after seeing me in SM mall for a meet up after yahoo chat, just ran away saying i was dark. :)
But persistance pays...as the days went..i became more familier and mostly i went to bars and malls..so the second time...it became all cool.
I was never descriminated or treated badly the second time where ever i went...I guess it is the vibe of the place...that has to get you..once you get familer with the area..you are just one of them.
I never had any issues with any place and felt like a king, the second time i went there.
Filipinos are really very friendly people...we just have to break the first meeting barrier..
As far as cheating and thugging around..well, all i can say is...its everywhere...the government in every country cheat 30 to 40 % in tax money Plus other taxes...
I never paid my taxes to those political thugs ..which are bigger than getting short changed by taxi drivers and mamasans...I never cared if they overcharged me...cos ..by calculation it is still only 10 to 15% of all the money they could top up than the tax i had to pay..
and the interesting thing is...the more you become familier with the place and people, the lesser you get cheated.
I don't thing i was ever cheated in the philiphines by that degree...cos i got a lot more more more than what i would ever ever get back home in India :D
Sounds Like Tampo to me
Tampo is usually manifested in the withdrawal of affectionate or cheerful behavior, and its expression is almost entirely nonverbal. These manifestations include:
-resisting expressions of affection
-not talking to the person concerned, or to people in general
-being unusually quiet
-locking one's self in his or her room.
-refusing to eat
-not joining friends in group activities
-withdrawing from the group
-simply keeping to one's self
These are usually efforts to get the offending party to make amends, and if these behaviors do not work, one might choose to escalate them - foot stomping, door slamming, and muttering, for example.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/TampoI will remember Tampo, sounds like a painful process.
Well update spoke to her again told her to look through her old texts come back in about 5 minutes apologising profusely,
Women dont get them at all, but my fun and searching for a replacement is going great on DiA.
Thanks for the answers guys.
Wizard
Member #4647
05-15-08, 05:28
If you can't be happy here in the philippines there is something seriously wrong with you. You are more than welcome to go back to the fat assed western women. It just means more filipina pussy for me.
Hi to all,
reading your recent post and all I can say is, Im happy towork in the Philippines, so I have something to do during the day. I live in a nice area, with good security on the 21st floor and quite noise free. After work IM so tired I just drink sm light or red whine or both and that was it..if Im tired I cant be angry. So I suggest drink more and then PI aint that bad any more :D, try to take things with humor. Buy ear plugs so you safe about the noise buses, jeeps, etc..Try to get back at the lifestyle you had at home, sleep long, work, weekends go out and have fun. Im allmost evry weekend out in the province, like Angeles city or some beach, but more in Angeles city I have to confess :D..I know how it is to be angry, dealing with idiots evry day hehehehehe....shit now I need a SM light to calm down and later a nice massage with happening, which reminds me on my question in Makati thread. anybody out therer who can give an update about makati massage parlours?? thanks..
Take it easy, drink more, fxxck more!!
Blink
If you can't be happy here in the philippines there is something seriously wrong with you. You are more than welcome to go back to the fat assed western women. It just means more filipina pussy for me.
What makes you happy? Everyone has or knows something that makes them happy. A country where probably millions of young women strapped for cash sale themselves to highest bidder most likely ignorant of the dangers(stds crazy partners) in her mist as most Filipinas are nah that doesn't make me happy.
A country where people view you only as walking atm and not as a damn human being. Country so corrupt from top to bottom you avoid the police like the plague when you see them. Look I don't like to shit on no country and I don't like to praise no country 100 percent either. No country is perfect but as I said the Philippines is not paradise.
Its simply a place of extreme financial desperation that people from wealthy countries including ME exploit. I first came to the PI at 22 2004 I was [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) poor then. I couldn't believe the amount of attention I was getting but it wasn't me it was my wallet. I thought Filipinas just loved foreigners. 2005 brought new found wealth and Dubai. Plenty of filipinas and plenty foreigners but they are with their own the difference? They have employment oppertunities.
Are all the women in the west fat? I just came from USA didn't notice. :)
It is interesting to see the flip side of the coin from guys like Etat and Born Loser. Yeah, we all know about the dark skin aversion, most of this is on themselves. Why these gorgeous brown skinned honeys like to lighten up is beyond me.
Just an aside though, most of the Black guys I have seen here, including a few full time expats say they opposite, yeah the skin color thing is a factor, but not much of one, most I know and see do quite well. The Phils can "read" your attitude, if you got one...beleive me, they will smell it on you. Same thing for the "Bumbai" (our Indian friends) Most of the girls Don't like them when they see them, think they are Arabs (the kiss of death) when they find out your are a Bumbai they soften, seen a few dudes(student age) here who do quite well.
Ugly Batards like myself are considered "handsome' (The SH is ANYTHING BUT)
mostly coz of my white skin and green eyes. Wife Brags im "White like a pig" all over...go figure.
Spam hog
Cunning Stunt
05-15-08, 10:37
What does it tell you about a country when most of the natives can't wait to get away? Last person to leave please turn out the lights.
The place is really an anarchic, disorganised, corrupt, third world shithole but if you stay here a reasonably, long period of time, you sure learn patience, tolerance and self control. I have. Its either that or go barmy.
When things get too much retreat to your deluxe air con flat/house, open a beer, play some gentle, relaxing music on your top of the line stereo system and think of the lovely, sweet young spinner you spent quality time with the previous day and the equally lovely brown beauties you will be seeing in the not too distant future. It will bring a smile to your face and improve your mood inordinately. GH
Fifty Fifty
05-15-08, 13:45
Are all the women in the west fat? I just came from USA didn't notice. :)
The USA ?? Used to be the Land of Opportunity, now commonly known as the Land of Obesity.
Look at the movie ""Supersize me'' and think again about going to McDs for another 1/4 Pounder :)
Cheers, F/Fifty
No need to get defensive :) I dont have a problem with it, I just think its kinda funny is all. Like I said, I enjoy your posts and to each their own :) I do think its funny when you say "for safety reasons"...how about HER safety? Or is that irrelevant?Its cool B. Yes a girls safety is very important to me. I'd be mortified to give a woman a disease.
Never had a social disease & hopefully never will.
In the same way if I accidently get a girl pregnant I make sure that the 'problem' is taken care of. Costs around P25,000 - P30,000 all in all so there is a financial incentive not to get them prego as well as the health & moral questions.
AV
Like a kid in a candy store with diabetes.
SlimHehehehe :D love that turn of phrase slim!
AV
I chuckle when a fellow member, married and living with a Pinay and in the Philippines, claims to be drowning in pussy. I know them, been there, got the t-shirt (but dare not wear it) and can tell you that the truth is usually very different. Filipina's are jealous, possessive animals who like to keep their men (particularly if that mans a Kano) on a shortish leash. So pursuit of a 'bit of skirt' is possible but a devious and furtive undertaking worthy of a CIA field operative. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either a dreamer or very fortunate.
So A, I believe you must be one lucky muther but don't make me take a polygraph :)G'day G, just catching up on posts. Yes I agree with you fully, I am one lucky muther. Pinay's wives know the score & they are not stupid!!
I travel about the Phils & Internationally on business & so I have the opportunity/temptation to get amongst the pussy a fair bit. Living & owning business's here means I go along with local customs. Its common here for better off married business men to have GF's. Asawa ko would never sanction it outright but she knows the score. She does'nt like it but what can she do?
Yes, as you say I must conduct myself with forethought & make use of every trick I can think of to avoid problems. I keep my activities simple & safe to make sure things go smooth & by the numbers. That includes avoiding lying eg. when Im in Angeles or Cebu or whatever It's part of my known travel itinerary. Much better to keep it simple & be upfront than tripping yourself up in ever more complicated lies.
In my business life I must spend time 'relationship building' with married asian/filipino clients, being dragged to KTV's with them to watch them debauch themselves with girls. I act like a saint always so that the bamboo telegraph sends back reassuring signals to listening ears. When Im with GF's I make sure Im alone & I can do what I like.
I can't see my self doing this forever as it requires much more stealth than the local businessmen because no matter how long I live here I will always be a 'foreigner' and not subject to exactly the same rules.
AV
Sounds Like Tampo to me
Tampo is usually manifested in the withdrawal of affectionate or cheerful behavior, and its expression is almost entirely nonverbal. These are usually efforts to get the offending party to make amends, and if these behaviors do not work, one might choose to escalate them - foot stomping, door slamming, and muttering, for example.In northern Australia this is called 'going troppo'. Just a little trivia... One of the attributes I look for in m spouse/GF's is happy even temperament, histrionic bitches get the flick by me instantly!
AV
Any of you married guys out there use Apple laptop's?
Do you realise that if you video chat with iChat that you can superimpose any background you like behind your image with the click of a button? Comes in VERY handy when video chatting to asawa ko from places you are not supposed to be ;)
Did you know you can create a Skype account using a telephone number as the username? Very handy for sending txt messages from a country you are not supposed to be in. When sending a txt or making a call through Skype the Skype username shows up as the the caller ID ;)
Here's another tip, get your asawa out of using direct txt messaging & switch over to sending Yahoo IM's via txt on your CP. You tell asawa ko the rationale is its much cheaper (it is), the payoff is the txt's are not location traceable. ;)
AV
In northern Australia this is called 'going troppo'. Just a little trivia... One of the attributes I look for in m spouse/GF's is happy even temperament, histrionic bitches get the flick by me instantly!
AVAV, trust me "going troppo" is different and not gender specific, however it seems that banana benders are slightly different just like taswegians.
Thanks for the advice.
Wizard
Blackangst
05-16-08, 10:31
Wow..So much anger and frustation ..Detat...I'm in the same league..from India.and when i first came here..people used to call me just 5-6, 5-6...
I just couldn't figure out what that means..untill after a week in Paseo..a good filipino dude.told me that most indians here do money lending business and they lend with 5-6% interest rate and its considered bad in their culture.
I was descriminated for a week based on my nationality, one girl after seeing me in SM mall for a meet up after yahoo chat, just ran away saying i was dark. :)
But persistance pays...as the days went..i became more familier and mostly i went to bars and malls..so the second time...it became all cool.
I was never descriminated or treated badly the second time where ever i went...I guess it is the vibe of the place...that has to get you..once you get familer with the area..you are just one of them.
I never had any issues with any place and felt like a king, the second time i went there.
Filipinos are really very friendly people...we just have to break the first meeting barrier..
As far as cheating and thugging around..well, all i can say is...its everywhere...the government in every country cheat 30 to 40 % in tax money Plus other taxes...
I never paid my taxes to those political thugs ..which are bigger than getting short changed by taxi drivers and mamasans...I never cared if they overcharged me...cos ..by calculation it is still only 10 to 15% of all the money they could top up than the tax i had to pay..
and the interesting thing is...the more you become familier with the place and people, the lesser you get cheated.
I don't thing i was ever cheated in the philiphines by that degree...cos i got a lot more more more than what i would ever ever get back home in India :D
5-6% interest? erm ....I've talked to my wife about this (she's pinay), and have actually looked into starting a 5-6 business via brother in law...5-6 means you borrow 5 pay back 6. So 500/600, 5000/6000, etc. It's like a payday loan...not sure where your friend got the 5-6% thing from.
5-6% interest? erm ....I've talked to my wife about this (she's pinay), and have actually looked into starting a 5-6 business via brother in law...5-6 means you borrow 5 pay back 6. So 500/600, 5000/6000, etc. It's like a payday loan...not sure where your friend got the 5-6% thing from.
The use of the % sign might have thrown some confusion in there. At any rate, it sounds like a good business on the surface, but there's a reason for the high interest: the loans are risky, these are people who have no other way to borrow the money they need so the lender may need to get serious (possible understatement there) with some borrowers in order to enforce repayment. Not to mention possible conflict with competing lenders. So naturally the lenders are disliked, if not hated. This isn't limited to the Phils by the way, shark lenders have been around in various forms around the world.
Puerto La Cruz
05-17-08, 02:22
That's the second oldest profession in the world
Cowboy Mike
05-17-08, 05:06
Too many women in PI to put up with bullshit like that.I agree. Far too many in PI but it will take a long time to train another.
If I put password protect on the laptop, she might turn violent and destroy my laptop and other goodies.
I've seen their chats and also he has mentioned the board.
I might try to hide my video cam and tape her reaction if I put a password to limit her activity on my Laptop. At least the tape will hold up as evidence.
GoodEnough
05-17-08, 06:52
G'day G, just catching up on posts. Yes I agree with you fully, I am one lucky muther. Pinay's wives know the score & they are not stupid!!
I travel about the Phils & Internationally on business & so I have the opportunity/temptation to get amongst the pussy a fair bit. Living & owning business's here means I go along with local customs. Its common here for better off married business men to have GF's. Asawa ko would never sanction it outright but she knows the score. She does'nt like it but what can she do?
Yes, as you say I must conduct myself with forethought & make use of every trick I can think of to avoid problems. I keep my activities simple & safe to make sure things go smooth & by the numbers. That includes avoiding lying eg. when Im in Angeles or Cebu or whatever It's part of my known travel itinerary. Much better to keep it simple & be upfront than tripping yourself up in ever more complicated lies.
In my business life I must spend time 'relationship building' with married asian/filipino clients, being dragged to KTV's with them to watch them debauch themselves with girls. I act like a saint always so that the bamboo telegraph sends back reassuring signals to listening ears. When Im with GF's I make sure Im alone & I can do what I like.
I can't see my self doing this forever as it requires much more stealth than the local businessmen because no matter how long I live here I will always be a 'foreigner' and not subject to exactly the same rules.
AV
My position is similar, at least in terms of travel and living here. My cardinal rule, and one that's served me well over the years is never to mess around in your own zip code. So simple that it's elegant, and it works. The sequel to this rule is, when outside of your zip code, go alone on your forays for pussy. If you're in a town where few know who you are, and you're by yourself when hunting, the chances of the bamboo telegraph registering your presence are almost nil. The corollary to the sequel is indulge only in P4P, where there's no possibility of any sort of emotional entanglement as it's a straight commercial transaction with zero real personal information exchanged.
My position is similar, at least in terms of travel and living here. My cardinal rule, and one that's served me well over the years is never to mess around in your own zip code.
GE you hit the nail on the head. When I was in Uncle Sam's Royal Army I work for an old colonel who was a really cool guy. I got caught with a lady in my BOQ room and he told me, "If you are going to fuck around, get 50 miles from the flag pole".
I took it to heart and still do that.
ES
Fifty Fifty
05-17-08, 09:36
.....I've seen their chats and also he has mentioned the board.....
Nice Screenshots of what looks like a pair of old c*nts to me ;)
One suggestion - Dump her, as soon as you can.
Cheers, F/Fifty
Bilbo Baggins
05-17-08, 12:56
I agree. Far too many in PI but it will take a long time to train another.
If I put password protect on the laptop, she might turn violent and destroy my laptop and other goodies.
I've seen their chats and also he has mentioned the board.
I might try to hide my video cam and tape her reaction if I put a password to limit her activity on my Laptop. At least the tape will hold up as evidence.
I'm confused how did you manage to capture screen shots unless you were there to do it? How is it possible?
My position is similar, at least in terms of travel and living here. My cardinal rule, and one that's served me well over the years is never to mess around in your own zip code. So simple that it's elegant, and it works. The sequel to this rule is, when outside of your zip code, go alone on your forays for pussy. If you're in a town where few know who you are, and you're by yourself when hunting, the chances of the bamboo telegraph registering your presence are almost nil. The corollary to the sequel is indulge only in P4P, where there's no possibility of any sort of emotional entanglement as it's a straight commercial transaction with zero real personal information exchanged.
Great advice GE. One thing that I would add that I don't do..."Dip my pen into company ink!".
Robb
I agree. Far too many in PI but it will take a long time to train another. If I put password protect on the laptop, she might turn violent and destroy my laptop and other goodies. I've seen their chats and also he has mentioned the board. I might try to hide my video cam and tape her reaction if I put a password to limit her activity on my Laptop. At least the tape will hold up as evidence.I would just ask her if she is doing it and if she denies it, show her what you have shown us. Good luck!
Robb
Cowboy Mike
05-18-08, 03:29
I'm confused how did you manage to capture screen shots unless you were there to do it? How is it possible?I installed a keylogger program 2 years ago and it will take a screen shot every minute that the computer is active. If heavy usage, it will take 25MB of pictures in a 8 hour day.
I installed a keylogger program 2 years ago and it will take a screen shot every minute that the computer is active. If heavy usage, it will take 25MB of pictures in a 8 hour day.
Find another one, then dump her, or better, move to the Philippines for a while, look around and then get to know a better gurl, stay away from those yahoo scam chatter or frienster plastic friends collector..
Many fishs in the sea....
Happy hunting
Blink
FireWalker
05-19-08, 11:30
Yea, great advice.
But remember the internet does not have ZIP codes. I don't know how these girls do it, but they find out if you talk to other girls on the net. Its amazing.
Great advice GE. One thing that I would add that I don't do..."Dip my pen into company ink!".
Robb
FireWalker
05-19-08, 11:33
The use of the % sign might have thrown some confusion in there. At any rate, it sounds like a good business on the surface, but there's a reason for the high interest: the loans are risky, these are people who have no other way to borrow the money they need so the lender may need to get serious (possible understatement there) with some borrowers in order to enforce repayment. Not to mention possible conflict with competing lenders. So naturally the lenders are disliked, if not hated. This isn't limited to the Phils by the way, shark lenders have been around in various forms around the world.
You ever wonder where the mamasans make their money?
It is working the 5/6 on their stables.
GoodEnough
05-19-08, 12:39
Yea, great advice.
But remember the internet does not have ZIP codes. I don't know how these girls do it, but they find out if you talk to other girls on the net. Its amazing.
No they don't. They just assume, given that all men are players, that you're talking to other girls. They're making an assumption and it's usually correct.
I know this has been thrashed out before but having been in LOS for three years I am trying a 24 year old Philli girl. Bringing her to LOS by getting her a ticket via Cebu Pacific. I've doubled checked her story. She says she will do anything from domestic to bedroom services and she seems level headed,and sensible, working voluntary for a childrens special care unit. I know the Thai girl mentality but could someone tell me what the main bad traits of the Philli are to watch out for?
No they don't. They just assume, given that all men are players, that you're talking to other girls. They're making an assumption and it's usually correct.You're dead right GE. By the time a woman reaches 18 here her attitudes/beliefs have been formed by :
1) Exposure to bahavior of working class Pinoy males eg. totally untrustworthy
and
2) Pinay folklore eg. all foreigners have big Titi's (penis's) that hurt etc, all foreigners are rich, any foreigner already travelled to asia has been in Thailand with prostitutes.
AV
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
Nightrider1
05-22-08, 19:54
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
Well she gets a rich farang to live with and escapes the grinding poverty of the Philippines and he gets a hot young sexy girl to fulfill all his fantasies for the few good years he has left. Sounds like a win win situation for both of them.
My hat is off to the guy. Congratulations. I hope when I am his age, I can score a cute little thing too.
At least in a situation like that, there are no false promises, and you know she won't be getting her head slammed against the headboard 5 times a day. Good choice for both of them.
Cunning Stunt
05-23-08, 08:08
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
Probably saddest for you as you will no longer have the pleasure of her company. I reckon a fairly high percentage of Pinay maids are actively looking for an 'Amerikano' Prince Charming to take them away from it all. Odd that her rescuer lives in Thailand. Call me a cynical old twat but I'd have thought there would have been enough eligible totty in LOS without importing from PI. Sort of like taking coal to Newcastle.
'Irish' - what sort of name is that for a dusky beauty. The Philippines is the world centre of daft names. Met a Tawny the other day and I've lost count of the number of 'Bongs' and 'Boys' I've encountered. GH
P.S AV - Couldn't you make your pictures a bit smaller - they are overwhelming! Don't you know that many mongers suffer from eye strain :D
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
AV remember I posted something like this a about a month ago. Same thing happened to me. My ex found a older guy who took her to New York where she now resides as a child day care worker. Looking at this guy I see why he came to PI. It saddens me sometimes that economic desperation drives these girls to this. Last I talked her she say the guy was treating her bad. Only calls her when he wants food and pussy she said she had ran away from him two times but had no where to go. She wasn't sending money back to her family in PI because her brother would pop up on yahoo messenger asking me for pesos remembering my gentle heart four years ago :) (Heart Black as Coal Now).
I have been to real crazy countries in my short life Three years In Afghanistan (Islamic Country) to name one and PI is the only one I have seen with that amount of economic desperation. I started to ask myself is PI that damn bad? I live here and I complain about the short comings but I lived in First world countries my whole life (In Afghanistan inside American Compounds) it seem that a local with a little bit of cash would be alright but hell even the girls with a little dough want to flee the scene.
The *****s and the quote and quote good girls all need a loan (a non repayable one) at some point in knowing them in my experiences. I wish the guy and the girl the best but damn....The economic factor in this country really scars my mental its like capitalism on Shabu.
Probably saddest for you as you will no longer have the pleasure of her company. I reckon a fairly high percentage of Pinay maids are actively looking for an 'Amerikano' Prince Charming to take them away from it all. Odd that her rescuer lives in Thailand. Call me a cynical old twat but I'd have thought there would have been enough eligible totty in LOS without importing from PI. Sort of like taking coal to Newcastle.
'Irish' - what sort of name is that for a dusky beauty. The Philippines is the world centre of daft names. Met a Tawny the other day and I've lost count of the number of 'Bongs' and 'Boys' I've encountered. GH
P.S AV - Couldn't you make your pictures a bit smaller - they are overwhelming! Don't you know that many mongers suffer from eye strain :D
They say Filipinos have two dreams one to go Boracay the other to America. I can't believe the amount of them who ask me to get them pregnant. I think they are smoking shabu or something?
A guy who lives in LOS goes to PI to look for love and ass? Is it just me or something just doesn't add up?
I took sand to the beach when I moved here with my ole lady but her visa ran out from Japan and I plan on "thugging" with her to the end but...what the fuck do you call taking a girl from PI to Thailand we need a new saying?
Kill (pussy) at will
Call me a cynical old twat but I'd have thought there would have been enough eligible totty in LOS without importing from PI. Sort of like taking coal to Newcastle.Yeah Im worried for her, she is so trusting & like you say it is very suss that this ancient old geezer is living in LOS.. very suss indeed. Oh well I will never know because I made it clear to her that i wished her well but don't come knocking with a sad story later.
AV
MeLuvULongTime
05-23-08, 17:00
These girls never fail to surprise.
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned.
AVWow. Young hottie goes for old geezer is surprising? . You mean when the young hotties tell me my middle-aged self is so guapo they are trying to con me? (Actually I am considered somewhat handsome by some because I am a tall light skinned meztiso and in great shape for my ancient 49 years) Come on gentlemen, we go to the PI precisely because of the young tang available to us "old" guys. After 6 visits to maledisneyland nothing surprises me. Actually I like the craziness, it is very entertaining.
Meluvulongtime
FreebieFan
05-24-08, 03:28
Ok continuing this weird thread I have a chat friend (who I know a few readers have pronged). Anyways she told me other day she was off on a trip to BKK. To see an English chatmate. She was a little wary of going as she thought he was looking for a Thai/Pinay threesome but she still went as shes bored in Phils. Normal girl who doesnt work.
Asked her how it was when she got back. Said was boring. Guy was sleeping. Guy only wanted sex when lights were off and curtain closed.
Begs the question. Whats the point of paying for Pinay when Thai is so readily availalble. And if your going to pay to take it there. Why not enjoy it!
Didn't you say she was a banker or something? Maybe I'm mixing up Tagbiliran and Tacliban. Did you ever do a field report on either place?
Anyway, thanks for the nude picture of someone's fiance ...as well as the fiance.
Wow, hope AV didn't gather too much bad karma on this one.
X
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
One is a nurse who complains constantly about her financial problems everytime she meets me online. In a subtle way asked her whats up with a liitle bit of romance she went round the bush and over that mutha fucker.
Prositute I met in Cebu looks for me online sends little messages never asks about money or talks about her finanical situation. Always tells how grateful she is that I helped her get back to Manila and promises to let me have her way with her when I return....
In Asia the lines are blurred....
Prositute I met in Cebu looks for me online sends little messages never asks about money or talks about her finanical situation. Always tells how grateful she is that I helped her get back to Manila and promises to let me have her way with her when I return....
In Asia the lines are blurred....
I think your a marked man now, she is not after your money, she is after your heart. I have had my own troubles with bargirls falling inlove with me, just because she does not ask you for money doesn't mean she doesn't want something from you.
Cunning Stunt
05-25-08, 09:15
... a liitle bit of romance she went round the bush and over that mutha fucker.
Hi D'Etat .. know its probably just all street talk (don't speak that lingo) and all but sometimes I would like to know WTF your talking about?
Perhaps an appended glosssary might be useful - google doesn't provide a translator from street jive/English :D GH
Hi D'Etat .. know its probably just all street talk (don't speak that lingo) and all but sometimes I would like to know WTF your talking about?
Perhaps an appended glosssary might be useful - google doesn't provide a translator from street jive/English :D GH
I asked in a polite exquisite manner would she be inclined to let me sample her oral and vaginal area since she is always looking for financial assistance as I don’t believe in a free meal and she became shocked and tried to change the topic of discussion immediately.
Is that better?
Cunning Stunt
05-25-08, 10:35
I asked in a polite exquisite manner would she be inclined to let me sample her oral and vaginal area since she is always looking for financial assistance as I don’t believe in a free meal and she became shocked and tried to change the topic of discussion immediately.
Is that better?
Right I think that I got it. You wanted to fuck her, but she didn't want you to fuck her but instead wanted to fuck you (over). Is that it?
Cheers Numbskull
Right I think that I got it. You wanted to fuck her, but she didn't want you to fuck her but instead wanted to fuck you (over). Is that it?
Cheers Numbskull
You got it covered...:) Wasn't calling you a NS GH even though it’s a term of endearment in hip hop circles (etymology is a person that doesn't understand a term or style). I said she went around the bush you know "Beating around the Bush" Back to the task most of the so call good girls have came off this way; don't know?
Her latest and Greatest :Taken From Yahoo
hi my name
hope your good in there
im planning to sell my fon to the pawnshop coz i really dont know where to get money to pay for my rent
before i went home
but i guess it is still not enough
even if ill sell it to the pawnshop
ill just get a couple of hundred peso
i understand why my parents cant send because they send my sister to college
a lot of payments to pay for for my sis college
Still no word yet on is her top and bottom is available.
For GH: Top and Bottom = Mouth and Pussy
:)
I know this has been thrashed out before but having been in LOS for three years I am trying a 24 year old Philli girl. Bringing her to LOS by getting her a ticket via Cebu Pacific. I've doubled checked her story. She says she will do anything from domestic to bedroom services and she seems level headed,and sensible, working voluntary for a childrens special care unit. I know the Thai girl mentality but could someone tell me what the main bad traits of the Philli are to watch out for?
Unstableness. If she shows a temper get rid of her pronto. Jealousy. Neat freak. Most will feed you until you burst. Wasteful with your money and theirs loves bareback and insist on it if they really like you :) All can think of right now.
Cunning Stunt
05-25-08, 23:14
Don't they just make your steely old heart bleed ? Guess its just a matter of time before she offers you top and bottom, maybe even front and back as well.
Is 'Beating about the Bush' a subliminal desire to beat the fuck out of your glorious 43rd. I imagine some Brits would like to join you in that endeavor:) GH
Tony Hoeprano
05-27-08, 02:33
Unstableness. If she shows a temper get rid of her pronto. Jealousy. Neat freak. Cripes, I was a day late and a dollar short in reading this bit of advice! I had a gal contact me from DAI, 23 a nurse, staying in Pasig City. Her hometown was Davao City. VERY exotic, cute, and sexy. (I'm a bit younger, 35, caught a case of yellow fever, fed up with the plethora of cows here in the U. S). She was staying in a studio-apartment, with her own laptop and was online ALL the time. (she was the breadwinner of her family yet she had no job) She would email me 2-3 times a day, sometimes she would send me sexy pics of her wearing bra and panties, send me I'm's while I was at work, and confess she has strong feeling and love for me. One time she caught my profile was online on DAI and got so angry she told me she hated me and hoped I believed in karma LOL
Against my better judgement, I said what the heck I'll go down and see her. I booked a room at the Hyatt Casino. Everything was great the first night (I arrived late), we had sex the first 30 minutes I was there. She was hot but this gal. Kept talking and looking at me during sex! Kept saying, "cum inside me! " or "you're gonna cum huh? " or "you're getting tired! ". She was tighter than heck, but her behavior was odd to say the least.
The next day everything was great, we shopped, had sex, goofed around, slept. Then she dropped the hammer. She started working her two cell phones (is this common? ) and then asked me if I would fly with her back to her hometown in Davao, she said she HAD to go to her good friend's B-day party. Gee thanks for telling me before I came out. I told her I was tired from flying and declined. She stayed with me, but I could tell her mood was slowly turning 180 degrees in the wrong direction.
More reasons why I didn't want to go to Davao right away (although I would have visited for a few days toward the end of my trip) 1. She had MANY gay friends on her friendster (one dude on her friendster profile had a caption- my defender, my manager, my true fren) 2. Very few pics of her family, apparently her parents both did not work. 3. I just didn't know what I would have gotten myself into if I was there for a long time (I was to be there for a week and a half)
The next night was a disaster, she was texting on her cell nonstop and acting like I did not exist and all the while many beautiful girls were amongst me! (we ate in the Greenbelt area)
Then her behavior really soured, some examples:
Was extremely irritable, snapped at the slightest "infraction".
1. Insulted me over silly things. Then later on asked me if she was mean to me, LOL.
2. Immediately after sex, she demanded to see my cell phone-she wanted to see texts and contact lists, looked at them and got angry.
3. After sex, she told me she felt like she hated me. Then as she laid there would ask for me to hug her
4. Went to get some food with her still sleeping, she then snooped and looked at all my emails on my laptop. Then got angry. Finally left to her friend's house
When she left I was relieved, yet somewhat bummed out that the whole thing didn't work. It was MY mistake for not having other gals lined up. I did hook up with a male friend and he showed me a fishbowl place near Greenbelt (I highly reccomend this place! It's on the top floor of Roman Suites hotel). I decided to leave a few days early. She came back, but the damage was done. We had some decent times, but it was pretty much marred by her unstable moodswings.
Three weeks later, I get an email from her saying she is pregnant. I replied back asking her how does she know, but in her response she did not answer my questions, I'm inclined to think she was lying. Anyone have idea why she would lie about being pregnant?
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Yep, you just met a scammer. Lemme guess, she doesn't have a job but she
has a lap top and "work" the net in bra and panties.
Sounds to me like that cell phone was real busy...two of 'em? Wow, she got the boys backed up asking where she is online while she's bonking you.
Wanted you to give her a free ride to Davao...yep.
Why would she lie about being pregnant? Man this is so easy, she wants money from you...lemme guess, the kid is yours coz you the only guy she ever bonked right? Yep.
So go ahead and give her money to take care of her pregnant self. Guarentee you in a few months she is gonna say she lost the baby, after all you didn't send her enough money for proper pre natal or something.
Spamhog
Fifty Fifty
05-27-08, 12:38
Cripes, I was a day late and a dollar short in reading this bit of advice! ........
Then her behavior really soured, some examples:
Was extremely irritable, snapped at the slightest "infraction".
Time to show her where the door is, after giving her the bus fare of course.
1. Insulted me over silly things. Then later on asked me if she was mean to me, LOL.
Insulted you??? Ok throw her the bus fare then.
2. Immediately after sex, she demanded to see my cell phone-she wanted to see texts and contact lists, looked at them and got angry.
Ok just forget the bus fare, show her the door.
3. After sex, she told me she felt like she hated me. Then as she laid there would ask for me to hug her
I wouldn't have bothered to fuck her, just kick her out.
4. Went to get some food with her still sleeping, she then snooped and looked at all my emails on my laptop. Then got angry. Finally left to her friend's house
Well eventually you could have saved the energy and the bus fare by kicking her out earlier then.
One question - Why bother, after all there are plenty more fish???
Cheers, F/Fifty
Chocha Monger
05-27-08, 18:10
"Cum inside me!" That should have made you wilt like a flower. Hope you didn't grant her request! :eek:
Fast Buck Artist
05-27-08, 19:08
2) Pinay folklore eg. all foreigners have big Titi's (penis's) that hurt etc, all foreigners are rich, any foreigner already travelled to asia has been in Thailand with prostitutes.
AVI was kinda offended at first, then I just realised I totally fit into the stereotype, LOL
Big dick - check
Rich foreigner - check
Been to thailand with hookers - check
I guess the folklore is correct.
Fast Buck Artist
05-28-08, 14:38
D'Etat struck a real chord with me. It's easy, if you live here, to walk around with a molten core of anger inside all the time. It's not only the scamming, though there is that. There's also the constant, grinding poverty. The filth. The utter stupidity with which some things are organized. The endless corruption at every level of society. The futility of the place. The lack of hope. All of that and more. If those feelings aren't at least evenly balanced by other factors, be it pussy availability, friends, the lifestyle you can maintain here for far less than in the West, then there's not much reason--in my opinion--to stay.
GECould you guys who chose to live in a 3rd world craphole clear something up for me.- why? Is cheap pussy that important that you'd give up everything else?
I mean, you are giving up quite a lot when you leave the civilized world. I visit south east asia for biz and holiday trips, and it's fun for a few weeks, but living there permanently? With the polluted air and water, overcrowded filthy slums, useless and corrupt government, non-existant social services, crap healthcare, mafia-like police, petty crime, nepotism, laziness and incompetence. And what shits me the most. If you have a white face, you are viewed by everybody as a walking moneybag sucker, to be scammed and taken advantage of at every available opportunity.
I had the impression life is cheap in 3rd world, but actually you usually get what you pay for. It's cheap to live in filth. To get same quality of goods and services as I am used to back home, the cost is almost the same. Maybe 30% cheaper, no more than that.
Could you guys who chose to live in a 3rd world craphole clear something up for me.- why? Is cheap pussy that important that you'd give up everything else?
I mean, you are giving up quite a lot when you leave the civilized world. I visit south east asia for biz and holiday trips, and it's fun for a few weeks, but living there permanently? With the polluted air and water, overcrowded filthy slums, useless and corrupt government, non-existant social services, crap healthcare, mafia-like police, petty crime, nepotism, laziness and incompetence. And what shits me the most. If you have a white face, you are viewed by everybody as a walking moneybag sucker, to be scammed and taken advantage of at every available opportunity.
I had the impression life is cheap in 3rd world, but actually you usually get what you pay for. It's cheap to live in filth. To get same quality of goods and services as I am used to back home, the cost is almost the same. Maybe 30% cheaper, no more than that.
Yep you said what I said but better...
Fred C Dobbs
05-29-08, 10:00
to get away from a government/country/culture they no longer if ever liked.
I would rather be free to do what I want then have good infrastructure. I am going to escape America and can hardly wait.
SE Asia Joe
05-29-08, 10:05
Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
AV
I've waited a few days to write this..... thinking that - "surely someone will point it out. Telling myselt to MYOB."
But up-to-date - nothing...zilch.. nada!
What am I going on about? Well, its the posting of someone else's picture; someone who most likely donot know that he's being posted and certainly would mind a helluva lot if he ever finds out - as he's being put to really bad ridicule here.
How would you llike it if someone posts YOUR picture without your expressed permission. Especially in this context - and by someone who does have an axe to grind - i.e. he's lost his Irish to someone else.
I don';t know much about the law - but I would think that there may be a case for slander or ....????
Perhaps you should consider asking Jackson to remove the offending picture?
Just IMHO.
Peace and Salutations
SEAJ
to get away from a government/country/culture they no longer if ever liked.
I would rather be free to do what I want then have good infrastructure. I am going to escape America and can hardly wait.
Happy to see you go Fred.
Interesting to read the post by Fred C Dobbs - rather have freedom than infrastructure.
I am leaving Australia to live in the Phiols for the same reason.
Let's see who gets there first.
Fast Buck Artist
05-29-08, 18:17
to get away from a government/country/culture they no longer if ever liked. I would rather be free to do what I want then have good infrastructure. What exactly are you free to do in the Phils that is illegit in USA? The majority of the locals has the freedom to trudge on mud roads to slums with no electricity, indoor plumbing, clean water or basic appliances. There is a reason why they are so desperate to escape and work abroad. Anywhere.
Fred C Dobbs
05-29-08, 21:11
Interesting to read the post by Fred C Dobbs - rather have freedom than infrastructure.
I am leaving Australia to live in the Phiols for the same reason.
Let's see who gets there first.
Mr. Gangles you will probably get there first. I have to wait at leat 3 years and 2 months but it will probably be closer to 5.
Not meaning to upset other members but I hardly think I am the only one in the states. I have read on other forums hundreds of thousands if not millions have had the same thoughts. Most of these are just to survive since they have saved little to no money. Hopefully their US dollars don't turn into Pesos.
Fred C Dobbs
05-29-08, 21:45
What exactly are you free to do in the Phils that is illegit in USA? The majority of the locals has the freedom to trudge on mud roads to slums with no electricity, indoor plumbing, clean water or basic appliances. There is a reason why they are so desperate to escape and work abroad. Anywhere.
Yes Filipinos want to leave to make money and then they want to come back and buy the home that I already can afford. If they had money they would not want to leave. It seems everything I want to do here I could be arrested for. I remember traveling entirely all across Romania and seeing less polizia then I see on one night here in downtown Long Beach, California who insist on teaching me on how to cross the street.
I don't like the guvment investigating everything about me. I even had to have a homeland security investigation to keep the job I've had for over 14 years in a business I have been in for almost 30 years. Plus they are taking 40 per cent of my money for their war machine against our new enemy Terrorists hiding in caves somewhere in the Khyper Pass that are out to get me very similar to the Commies that use to be after me.
I have been free everywhere I have been as long as I've had money. Here in the states I have the freedom to vote for a bought and paid for republican or a bought and paid for democrat or vote for someone who can't win. That freedom and the right to complain about it, not to loudly I might add, is the only freedoms I see. America is all about conformity not freedom. Others can have it, I don't want it because I have saved money. I can leave and will do so.
As for the poor infrastructure you mention, I could always live in Makati or Cebu. I can hack that.
Poverty and freedom are two different subjects and can be but not always mutually exclusivie.
Not to mention the culture. What culture? It seems to follow me everywhere anyhow.
I can understand if you like the states, almost everyone I know does.
MeLuvULongTime
05-29-08, 23:36
Yes Filipinos want to leave to make money and then they want to come back and buy the home that I already can afford.I find it funny that all my Filipino cousins are begging me bring them to the good ol U. S. Of A, but many on this site want to live there. Such irony. Well I enjoy both worlds, living and working in the states and visiting and bonking the young pinays.
Meluvulongtime
GoodEnough
05-30-08, 00:11
I haven't lived in the States for quite a while, but I get what Fred is saying. First, there's a certain freedom that comes with just leaving the country and living elsewhere. There's no room here to list all of the reasons why I'm freer here than there, and this is not the appropriate forum for a discussion on the massive cultural/societal differences, but the fact is I'm free from the cultural norms and expectations of the US.
No rational person would argue that he would choose to live here if living here meant living like the average Filipino. The fact is though, that with a US salary, or with a decent income paid in Euros or dollars, you can live here at a far better scale than you can in the US/Europe and you can have a lifestyle that, even if you could establish it in the West, would not be affordable.
Unless you're going to choose to live deep in the provincial bush here, which some guys choose to do, the physical infrastructure is not much of a problem. The roads/bridges/buildings in most of major cities are acceptable if not outstanding, and in many areas (Davao being a perfect example) things are getting better quickly. Given that the US as utterly failed to invest massively in its own physical infrastructure for the past 20 years, I would not take any bets on how long the infrastructure there will last either.
GE
I mean, you are giving up quite a lot when you leave the civilized world. I visit south east asia for biz and holiday trips, and it's fun for a few weeks, but living there permanently? With the polluted air and water, overcrowded filthy slums, useless and corrupt government, non-existant social services, crap healthcare, mafia-like police, petty crime, nepotism, laziness and incompetence. And what shits me the most. If you have a white face, you are viewed by everybody as a walking moneybag sucker, to be scammed and taken advantage of at every available opportunity.
Polluted air and water: You live in a nation that contributes the majority of the world's CO2
Corrupt government: you pay 30% of your income to the Sam and it pays to Halliburton which was one headed by the Dick head.
Non-existence social services: Have you tried to go to your DMV and stand in line?
Crappy health-care: Are you covered by HMO? If not, try it
Mafia-like police: Ask them what they do with your traffic fines, not going to charity that's for sure.
Nepotism: Have you ever heard of networking? Are they different?
Laziness: Same thing there but you want high pay that's why all the jobs are headed overseas and that's why your dollar is now worth the paper it's printed on.
I have to conclude that it's worse than the average 3rd world country and minus all the pussies. Don't feel bad, I am sharing your suffering.
Puerto La Cruz
05-30-08, 03:34
what exactly are you free to do in the phils that is illegit in usa? the majority of the locals has the freedom to trudge on mud roads to slums with no electricity, indoor plumbing, clean water or basic appliances. there is a reason why they are so desperate to escape and work abroad. anywhere.
in the phils i can:
1. not have to put my vehicles through soooooooooo many stupid
emissions tests.
2. not have the water police shake me down for "safety checks"
3. not have the police follow me out of a bar/restaurant and stop
me even though i have not consumed any alcohol,
4. not having them pull me over on a pretext to learn whether indeed
i have consumed alcohol.
5. not having to put up with the generally fat, pig, sexist sex nazis
in the usa
6. fewer tatoos on fat chicks and fewer fat chicks in general,
7. not have to fuck another fat chick for the rest of my life.
8. no such thing as an order of protection.
9. go to lunch, two people $2.00
10. go to a nice dinner, two people $10.00
11. amongst civilized filipinos, being treated with respect
because i am "older" (57)
12. most people speak english there. try finding that in cartagena,
colombia, which is another place that i have thought about
retiring in.
13. most streets are not muddy
14. house rental for decent and very safe place in qc 7,000 pesos
monthly
15. no heating bills
16. never seeing snow again unless i go to winter world at star city
17. not breaking a hip, ankle, leg, elbow or my butt slipping on
ice and/or snow
18. never ever having to scrape the snow and ice off of my vehicle
when the cold wet wind is coming down 400 miles of lake
michigan from dead nuts north
19. cheap and good dental care
20. women lined up wanting to live with me when i move there
i can come up with another 20. its all where your happiness can be found.
and you paint a very pessimistic picure fba. there are some really great places in the philippines so i must respectfully disagree.
Could you guys who chose to live in a 3rd world craphole clear something up for me.- why? Is cheap pussy that important that you'd give up everything else?
I mean, you are giving up quite a lot when you leave the civilized world. I visit south east asia for biz and holiday trips, and it's fun for a few weeks, but living there permanently? With the polluted air and water, overcrowded filthy slums, useless and corrupt government, non-existant social services, crap healthcare, mafia-like police, petty crime, nepotism, laziness and incompetence. And what shits me the most. If you have a white face, you are viewed by everybody as a walking moneybag sucker, to be scammed and taken advantage of at every available opportunity.
I had the impression life is cheap in 3rd world, but actually you usually get what you pay for. It's cheap to live in filth. To get same quality of goods and services as I am used to back home, the cost is almost the same. Maybe 30% cheaper, no more than that.
I have lived and worked in Asia for 10 years now, live here long enough and you won't want to go "back".
1. Just because I can.
2, Financial freedom, I can live anywhere I want in the world due to my pension and savings. If you didn't have to work where would you live?
3. Taxes, my property taxes are less than $100 a year.
4. Respect, I treat people kindly, beggars, workmen and waitresses alike and they respond. Treat people kindly in the US and what happens?
5. Non conflict, no one bothers me here. Walk down the street in the US and
half the young hip hops wanna mess with you coz you're an older white guy. Walk into the wrong country western bar and a dozen idiot young red necks wanna throw you out.
6. Lack of social engineering, Asia is a man's world. Each sex knows it's place.
7. Corruption, the US is far more corrupt. In the Phils they nick you for a few pesos...big fizz. In the US they get your 401 K (Enron).
8. The US is NOT the US anymore. I don't know what kind of politically correct
socialist State we have created but you can't look at a woman sideways without getting a sexual harrassment suit slapped on you. The US is becoming more polarized and antagonistic as society crumbles. Soon we will have armed conflict and seperatist movements. Wait until this election is over if you don't beleive me.
I prefer not to be around for it.
Spamhog
AV I think me and you are having some sort of race of ex-girlfriends getting married. :) An accountant in Cebu found about my ole lady in Manila (don't ask how) at any rate we continued to talk then she went quiet. Today I see her on friendster married to an American. She had a strong desire to get married and leave PI. She got her wish. They had to only know each other for about 3-4 months at my estimate.. incredible. I wonder has he seen her temper yet maybe not....
I wish them the best...
Fast Buck Artist
05-30-08, 09:47
Thanks for the replies guys, this is an interesting discussion.
I get the impression that most of you are:
- 50+ and at the age of retirement or nearby
- Dont have to work for a living anymore (have savings/pension)
I am 25 so I guess that gives me a different set of priorities.
Given that the US as utterly failed to invest massively in its own physical infrastructure for the past 20 years, I would not take any bets on how long the infrastructure there will last either.That is true, US has probably the worst air transportation system of the developed countries, airports have been built to handle half of the traffic they are processing today, energy network, land transport, water network, have been neglected for 20 years due to the BANANA policies (Build Absolutely Nothing Anywhere Near Anybody). However, even after decades of decay, infrastructure is vastly superior to the Philippines, in every state and province.
GoodEnough
05-30-08, 10:25
Can't add much to what Mr. Spam Hog said, except that if you've never lived overseas, then you have no idea what the hell you're talking about. Visiting for a couple of weeks just ain't the same thing. Only those of us who have actually lived in both places can make legitimate comparisons.
GE
Thanks for the replies guys, this is an interesting discussion.
I get the impression that most of you are:
- 50+ and at the age of retirement or nearby
- Dont have to work for a living anymore (have savings/pension)
I am 25 so I guess that gives me a different set of priorities.
That is true, US has probably the worst air transportation system of the developed countries, airports have been built to handle half of the traffic they are processing today, energy network, land transport, water network, have been neglected for 20 years due to the BANANA policies (Build Absolutely Nothing Anywhere Near Anybody). However, even after decades of decay, infrastructure is vastly superior to the Philippines, in every state and province.
This is an endless debate and should be in the "living in PI thread." That said FBA I am 26 and while I am not rich I would be considered upper middle class by my yearly earnings so thats why we see things different bruh then the those who are either retired or are approaching it. My house in PI would have maybe been more then three times in the US what I paid for it in PI. Yes your money does stretch a little longer. As for the ladies problem in US a nice car and little jewerly could cure that. Here being a foriegner is pretty much all that is required with a great deal of ladies though I have found the educated ones are more selective of their mates. All countries have infrastructure and social ills thats just a fact but some have more then others....The Philippines in my opinion is a great retirement option.......
Take It Sleazy....
Ace of Spades
05-30-08, 15:50
Sorry if this is in the wrong secton, but it is worth a shot.
Gentlemen, are there any cheap places left in the Phillipines to live comfortably (without too many Koreans or Japanese) ? I have been to the Philippines twice -- but only as a tourist.
I would love to stay for long periods of time, but I am discouraged from moving to the Philippines long term because of concerns about the harm that the Koreans and Japanese tourists/residents are doing to the country by jacking up prices. Take for example, rentals and hotels costs in Angeles city, Manila, Cebu, Davao -- too high.
My feeling is that the decades of cheap living in the Philippines is quickly coming to an end, unless you buy a place now. I am open to any ideas on where to go outside the cities mentioned and also the remote provinces, where I might die of boredom ---
Worse comes to worse, I might have to resort to bring a plane load full of filipina to China. I am based in South China where the cost of everything except for pussy is lower than that of the Philippines. There are simply few tourists.
Comments welcome.
Yours truly,
ACE
Cunning Stunt
05-30-08, 16:17
Some of you may remeber my mention of a GF from Tagbiliran whom i had visited a few times called "Irish'. Really lovely girl, never asked for a dime & never appeared to be desperate husband hunter. Today she suddenly tells me she is in love & moving to Thailand to be with here 'fiance'.
This is totally out of left field but when i get a look at her 'fiance' i going into mild shock & think 'oh god irish how could you..'
These girls never fail to surprise..
I wonder which one of the two is getting more conned..
AV
AV - are you keeping a low profile. It appears that your 'oh my god' photo posting of a monger (or maybe not) with your former GF has received attention on the China Photo board, of all places. Your fame knows no bounds.
Anybody know what is the law on slander or putting somebody to ridicule publicly?
I just posted on the Filipino Women and opinion thread where someone posted a picture of his "occassional GF" together with a picture of the guy she is about to now marry; commenting about how old he was etc The amazing thing is that the board then went on to keep on slagging the gal and the guy in the picture with her.
For sure the poster do NOT have the expressed permission of the guy pictured and I'm pretty sure that this guy would be outraged looking at his face AND reading some of the disparaging remarks these posters - who've never even met the guy - were making.
Just wondering.
SEAJ
It even enticed Prof Doff, that old anti-mongering, pseudo-intellectual fool from the Thai threads to leave his comfort zones and turn into barrack room lawyer for the day. Your privileged indeed.
So I guess your gone into online hiding as you anticipate a man with a lawsuit
(or an irate former GF) to come knocking at your door. Is it cold in an Afghan cave this time of year? :D GH
Cunning Stunt
05-30-08, 16:56
Hi Ace, You might have been better posting on the 'Living in Philippine' thread but it is of little import.
Your concerns are interesting but I can assure you that they have little grounding in fact. Although Japanese and to a lesser extent Koreans have a reputation as 'big spenders', this is mainly the tourist element, same as vacationing westerners are more extravagent in their spending than those who live in situ. The expat Koreans community (which is much bigger than the Japanese expat community anyway) like the Philippines because the cost of living is so much cheaper than in Korea particularly with regards to education (and classes are in English, another big plus). Other things such as rent, food etc are a bargain compared to home and so they have a vested interest in maintaining the status quo.
The Philippines does not receive anywhere as much foreign investment as other countries in the region, notably Thailand. Therefore the economic and material infrastructure is much less well developed. This along with the renowned governmental inefficiency and the old demons of corruption and nepotism mean that we are stuck with the chaotic state of the country as it is and things are not going to change anytime soon. So I don't visualise a boom in the economy anytime soon.
So although things are steadily getting more expensive here, this is reflected everywhere in the world due to high demand for commodities and crazy oil prices, rather than a localised phenomenom. GH
Sorry if this is in the wrong secton, but it is worth a shot.
Gentlemen, are there any cheap places left in the Phillipines to live comfortably (without too many Koreans or Japanese) ? I have been to the Philippines twice -- but only as a tourist.
I would love to stay for long periods of time, but I am discouraged from moving to the Philippines long term because of concerns about the harm that the Koreans and Japanese tourists/residents are doing to the country by jacking up prices. Take for example, rentals and hotels costs in Angeles city, Manila, Cebu, Davao -- too high.
My feeling is that the decades of cheap living in the Philippines is quickly coming to an end, unless you buy a place now. I am open to any ideas on where to go outside the cities mentioned and also the remote provinces, where I might die of boredom ---
Worse comes to worse, I might have to resort to bring a plane load full of filipina to China. I am based in South China where the cost of everything except for pussy is lower than that of the Philippines. There are simply few tourists.
Comments welcome.
Yours truly,
ACE
I would't worry too much about Koreans and J Boys "jacking up" the prices.
Most of each group have their own system of information (especially the Japanese) network and such as well as bars, girls and what have you. I really don't see them adding to the rise in prices here in Cebu despite the
fact there are ever growing communities of each. They tend to stay within their own. If anything, they help improve certain aspects of living in the phils
as they usually demand a certain standard, of course one must pay for it.
I would say that tourists from SEA impact more on Boracay/Palawan than the cities.
Check some of the places "Just out of town" in Cebu, Davao or Cagayan De Oro, all places I have lived and worked. There are places where "foreigners" seem to gather, said communities and subdivsions seem to have a better standard. More expensive than a tumbled down apartment in Downtown Lahug but in the long run worth it.
Spamhog
Tony Hoeprano
06-01-08, 02:43
I'll concede that more likely she was working scams on the net with help from her "manager" in Davao.
One thing that threw me off was that her female friends on her Friendster page were, for the most part, square-bears (these gals can be narcisstic though, having 500 pics of themeslves striking redundant poses- how much of an artistic effect is it when you've seen them sticking out their tongue for the 10the time?). I've always, at least in the States, partially judged a gal by who she hangs with. Usually strippers and hoes hang with other strippers and hoes. Conversely, conservative gals generally hang out with other conservative gals.
In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??
fwiw, the other day she told me she thought she was pregnant, and is indeed, not.
Yep, you just met a scammer. Lemme guess, she doesn't have a job but she has a lap top and "work" the net in bra and panties.
Sounds to me like that cell phone was real busy...two of 'em? Wow, she got the boys backed up asking where she is online while she's bonking you.
Wanted you to give her a free ride to Davao...yep.
Why would she lie about being pregnant? Man this is so easy, she wants money from you...lemme guess, the kid is yours coz you the only guy she ever bonked right? Yep.
So go ahead and give her money to take care of her pregnant self. Guarentee you in a few months she is gonna say she lost the baby, after all you didn't send her enough money for proper pre natal or something.
Spamhog
In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??In my 14 years of experience visting to and living in (off and on) the PI:
Being a working girl is merely another form of work and they will all hang out and intermingle (except for those that realy do have alot of money as they feel themselves to be better). Good girls accept that some of their friends may be working a bar and thats that - it is no biggie to them.
I'll concede that more likely she was working scams on the net with help from her "manager" in Davao.
One thing that threw me off was that her female friends on her Friendster page were, for the most part, square-bears (these gals can be narcisstic though, having 500 pics of themeslves striking redundant poses- how much of an artistic effect is it when you've seen them sticking out their tongue for the 10the time?). I've always, at least in the States, partially judged a gal by who she hangs with. Usually strippers and hoes hang with other strippers and hoes. Conversely, conservative gals generally hang out with other conservative gals.
In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??
fwiw, the other day she told me she thought she was pregnant, and is indeed, not.
All the girls I have met in PI hang with the same crowd... If she is hooking more then likely all her friends are also. If she is a professional more then likely her friends are also....my two
Take It Sleazy
SE Asia Joe
06-02-08, 10:00
AV - are you keeping a low profile. It appears that your 'oh my god' photo posting of a monger (or maybe not) with your former GF has received attention on the China Photo board, of all places. Your fame knows no bounds.
It even enticed Prof Doff, that old anti-mongering, pseudo-intellectual fool from the Thai threads to leave his comfort zones and turn into barrack room lawyer for the day. Your privileged indeed.
So I guess your gone into online hiding as you anticipate a man with a lawsuit
(or an irate former GF) to come knocking at your door. Is it cold in an Afghan cave this time of year? :D GH
Hey GH - thanks for at least acknowledging!
Did you.... and anybody else .... read what I wrote earlier on this thread?
I've waited a few days to write this..... thinking that - "surely someone will point it out. mEANWHILE telling myselt to MYOB."
But up-to-date - nothing...zilch.. nada!
What am I going on about? Well, its the posting of someone else's picture; someone who most likely donot know that he's being posted and certainly would mind a helluva lot if he ever finds out - as he's being put to really bad ridicule here.
How would you llike it if someone posts YOUR picture without your expressed permission. Especially in this context - and by someone who does have an axe to grind - i.e. he's lost his Irish to someone else.
I don';t know much about the law - but I would think that there may be a case for slander or ....????
Perhaps you should consider asking Jackson to remove the offending picture?
Just IMHO.
Peace and Salutations
SEAJ
I'll concede that more likely she was working scams on the net with help from her "manager" in Davao.
One thing that threw me off was that her female friends on her Friendster page were, for the most part, square-bears (these gals can be narcisstic though, having 500 pics of themeslves striking redundant poses- how much of an artistic effect is it when you've seen them sticking out their tongue for the 10the time?). I've always, at least in the States, partially judged a gal by who she hangs with. Usually strippers and hoes hang with other strippers and hoes. Conversely, conservative gals generally hang out with other conservative gals.
In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??
fwiw, the other day she told me she thought she was pregnant, and is indeed, not.
The key points here are income, she has a lap top, cell phones (yeah...all of 'em do) but she has two...lemme guess, they are not P900 specials she got at the pawn shop. Question is where does she get all this money to get those things which is likely beyond the reach of your average barrio kitty.
Girls here tend to associate with each other on all diffferent strata. Yeah, she likely has a few square friends. Remember, people develop associations and friendships based on region. Same language, I know so and so your from such and such. Girls also usually dont condem another out there putting it on the block, people have to do what they have to do n order to get by. They all know some Japiyuki, somebody working in a bar or somebody who was a mistress to a rich Chinese, or even more likely her sister who had a baby out of wedlock to a married man.
Now when they get catty is when one of looser morals comes buzzing around HER guy.
Spamhog
Girls here tend to associate with each other on all diffferent strata. Yeah, she likely has a few square friends. Remember, people develop associations and friendships based on region. Same language, I know so and so your from such and such. Girls also usually dont condem another out there putting it on the block, people have to do what they have to do n order to get by. They all know some Japiyuki,
Spamhog
I knew a lot of Japiyuki in my days in Japan and a lot of them wasn't fucking the customers. They fleeced them out thier yen... rub their bald ass head and tell them how much they like them but that was about it. I seen it with my own eyes to many times...I have a homeboy who wife was Filipina and he knowing let his wife fleece Japanese dudes out of money but at night her ass was right at home by his side. Strong guy I couldn't put up with that shit...
Go For What You Know
AV - are you keeping a low profile. It appears that your 'oh my god' photo posting of a monger (or maybe not) with your former GF has received attention on the China Photo board, of all places. Your fame knows no bounds.
It even enticed Prof Doff, that old anti-mongering, pseudo-intellectual fool from the Thai threads to leave his comfort zones and turn into barrack room lawyer for the day. Your privileged indeed.
So I guess your gone into online hiding as you anticipate a man with a lawsuit
(or an irate former GF) to come knocking at your door. Is it cold in an Afghan cave this time of year? :D GHG'day GH! No not hiding, just busy doing rather than talking ;) I guess its always touchy posting pics of old GF's and there new meal tickets. I deliberately posted a only a small pic precisely to minimise potential misuse. I doubt that Irish would ever find the pics but Im very suspicious of her old farang. Would'nt be at all surprised if he is a 'serial offender'. I doubt he would risk exposing himself by being so rash as to contemplate anything remotely like litigation.
Cheers mate!
AV
I've waited a few days to write this..... thinking that - "surely someone will point it out. mEANWHILE telling myselt to MYOB."
But up-to-date - nothing...zilch.. nada!
What am I going on about? Well, its the posting of someone else's picture; someone who most likely donot know that he's being posted and certainly would mind a helluva lot if he ever finds out - as he's being put to really bad ridicule here.
How would you llike it if someone posts YOUR picture without your expressed permission. Especially in this context - and by someone who does have an axe to grind - i.e. he's lost his Irish to someone else.
I don';t know much about the law - but I would think that there may be a case for slander or ....????
Perhaps you should consider asking Jackson to remove the offending picture?
Just IMHO.
Peace and Salutations
SEAJ
I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)
Puerto La Cruz
06-04-08, 04:11
In the English speaking world there is law about posting somebody's image in that context. Problem is that its on this board and this board is generated in Argentina. So Jackson remains pretty judgment proof and it will be very difficult to sustain a viable lawsuit in the domicile country of AV or whoever the poster is.
If you don't want to be put in the position of the guy whose image is posted, I would advise to error on the side of discretion. So as not to take this subject to a pissing match, I doubt whether I will respond to any replys to this, however, I applaud the guy in th epic for getting such a doll. I hope Cialis is cheap in Bangkok.
That'll be $500.00 for my opinon guys.
SE Asia Joe
06-04-08, 06:24
I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)
Thanks - at least it's acknowledged that there MAY be problems with the posting of third parties without their knowledge/prior approval.
Even when posting up picture of gals who I've done, I always try to safeguard their actual identity by blotting/cutting out some of the features - as to me, there really is no over-riding/redeeming factors to show them 100%.
In this case, AV has actually posted a picture of a third party who totally has nothing to do with him. OK, I can go along with posting Irish's picture up to warn others/ her potential suitors about her "proclivities" - but what does posting this poor guy's picture serve? - except to put/set him up for public ridicule etc. (and indeed Av actually started this process in the accompanying post).
OK I can feel for AV and what he's going thru - but really, I would strongly suggest that he take down that picture.
The above of course only IMHO. Peace!
SEAJ
SE Asia Joe
06-04-08, 06:29
.............Im very suspicious of her old farang. Would'nt be at all surprised if he is a 'serial offender'. AV
errrrr......here you go again AV.
Ok, like I said, I feel for you - but you're really slagging a guy who you don't know and who you really should not have an axe to grind with. OK, Irish, I can understand.... but what has this guy done KNOWINGLY against you? Shouldn't you instead feel "sorry" for him - that he's probably also going to be "taken" by Irish?
Just IMHO please, no offense meant at all - just a reminder to direct your anger at the correct target. peace
SEAJ
Fifty Fifty
06-04-08, 06:39
errrrr......here you go again AV....
Just IMHO please, no offense meant at all - just a reminder to direct your anger at the correct target. peace
SEAJ
Two posts, same subject, itch itch ?? Looks like somebody else is doing the grinding to me, give it a rest mate.
We all have a right to post here, words, pics etc and IMHO with Jackson who is the God of Moderators, we have a very well run Forum.
If you truly mean ''peace'' then let this one RIP.
Cheers, F/Fifty
I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)You nailed it exactly D Etat. All the other responses seriously misunderstood what I was getting at.
AV
Wicked Roger
06-04-08, 15:45
I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)
Three times - at least you are in the land of pussy so you can find a replacement(s) quite easily I trust :)
SE Asia Joe
06-05-08, 05:11
Two posts, same subject, itch itch ?? Looks like somebody else is doing the grinding to me, give it a rest mate.
We all have a right to post here, words, pics etc and IMHO with Jackson who is the God of Moderators, we have a very well run Forum.
If you truly mean ''peace'' then let this one RIP.
Cheers, F/Fifty
I truly cannot believe that no one here seems to think that posting up the picture of an unsuspecting third party and then getting into a slagging feast at his expense is OK.
And I'd let it rest if the offending (to me anyways) photo WAS removed. and NO I am NOT the guy (and NO I don't know the guy!) - but I just think this whole thing is wrong. OK, up to now, it seems that no one agrees with me. But does anybody actually DISagree?
Come on guys - surely at least one of you agree with me????!!
Even you 50-50 - do you really think it is ethically, morally, legally correct to have posted up the picture of the guy? And even the fact that AV has such a picture - I have my reservations as to how he had obtained it.
Yes, every one has the right to post - but does it give any one the right to put an innocent third party up to ridicule?
SEAJ
ps. AV and D'etat - "...just fucks with your mental....." is this perhaps, just maybe.. what's happening....so much so that you cannot see what I see??
Blackangst
06-05-08, 08:16
I truly cannot believe that no one here seems to think that posting up the picture of an unsuspecting third party and then getting into a slagging feast at his expense is OK.
And I'd let it rest if the offending (to me anyways) photo WAS removed. and NO I am NOT the guy (and NO I don't know the guy!) - but I just think this whole thing is wrong. OK, up to now, it seems that no one agrees with me. But does anybody actually DISagree?
Come on guys - surely at least one of you agree with me????!!
Even you 50-50 - do you really think it is ethically, morally, legally correct to have posted up the picture of the guy? And even the fact that AV has such a picture - I have my reservations as to how he had obtained it.
Yes, every one has the right to post - but does it give any one the right to put an innocent third party up to ridicule?
SEAJ
ps. AV and D'etat - "...just fucks with your mental....." is this perhaps, just maybe.. what's happening....so much so that you cannot see what I see??
Youre exactly right. It's SO disrespectful no matter what the motive. Not to mention vindictive.
I guess some people are like that though. Lesson? Dont get your pic taken ;)
SE Asia Joe
06-05-08, 08:22
Youre exactly right. It's SO disrespectful no matter what the motive. Not to mention vindictive.
I guess some people are like that though. Lesson? Dont get your pic taken ;)
Thank you, Thank you, Thank YOU!!
I really thought that I was going bonkers - that I may have been the only one to.....!
Thanks!! Anybody else?
SEAJ
Cunning Stunt
06-05-08, 09:26
Thanks!! Anybody else?
SEAJ
Why not put it to a vote?
Seriously though, AV's lovely colleen Irish of the daft name, either sent the pic to him to crow in which case it is understandable if not justifiable that he should post them. Alternatively he snatched them from a contact site such as DIA (where, I notice when girls find a guy, they often post a joint pic as some sort of oneupmanship/not available anymore thing), in which case it would be a decided no no.
In either case it is a faux pais on AV's part which I am sure that he now realises. GH
Thank you, Thank you, Thank YOU!!
I really thought that I was going bonkers - that I may have been the only one to.....!
Thanks!! Anybody else?
SEAJ
I am with you on this Joe....Disrespectful, inconsiderate, thoughtless and in a more blunt word friggin' stupid. Wonder if he would like to have his image posted on the net?
ES
Why not put it to a vote?
Seriously though, AV's lovely colleen Irish of the daft name, either sent the pic to him to crow in which case it is understandable if not justifiable that he should post them. Alternatively he snatched them from a contact site such as DIA (where, I notice when girls find a guy, they often post a joint pic as some sort of oneupmanship/not available anymore thing), in which case it would be a decided no no.Yes SHE sent me the pics.
In either case it is a faux pais on AV's part which I am sure that he now realises. GHI agree it could be seen as a bit cheeky.
AV
SE Asia Joe
06-06-08, 05:57
Yes SHE sent me the pics.
I agree it could be seen as a bit cheeky.
AV
Soooooo....howzabout you removing the picture??
Thanks
Joe
Fifty Fifty
06-06-08, 06:16
Even you 50-50 - do you really think it is ethically, morally, legally correct to have posted up the picture of the guy?
Ok I dont agree that any of this is correct and I would definitley not be happy if my Mug was posted here either, however I do not generally pose for pics anyway.
As far as Ethics, Morals and Correctness go, we are all guilty for being the Mongers that we are. (Exploitation...blah blah blah)
I have to say all this ''axe-grinding'' about a posted pic is only highlighting the issue and I also have to ask the question:
What is so wrong with posting a pic of a guy without permission, compared with the thousands of pics posted of girls here, most without permission?
After all the lovely smiling naked Pilipina you just posted could be some fine upstanding ISG Member's wife now, just think how that would go down at the dinner party back home !!
Give it a rest chaps, F/Fifty
SE Asia Joe
06-06-08, 07:48
Ok I dont agree that any of this is correct and I would definitley not be happy if my Mug was posted here either, however I do not generally pose for pics anyway.
As far as Ethics, Morals and Correctness go, we are all guilty for being the Mongers that we are. (Exploitation...blah blah blah)
I have to say all this ''axe-grinding'' about a posted pic is only highlighting the issue and I also have to ask the question:
What is so wrong with posting a pic of a guy without permission, compared with the thousands of pics posted of girls here, most without permission?
After all the lovely smiling naked Pilipina you just posted could be some fine upstanding ISG Member's wife now, just think how that would go down at the dinner party back home !!
Give it a rest chaps, F/Fifty
Aaaaaahhh...... yes, posting of girl's pictures etc. I make it a practice to ONLY post pictures which will NOT clearly identify any girl - by cropping, blurring and covering of facial features etc.(for all the obvious reasons etc) And I of course know that there are those who do NOT do so - my choice, their choice. But the purpose of ISG IS the exchange of information on paid sex. And please note, its for PAID sex with WG's - and not to slag off or post the picture of other mongers.
And what is so wrong with.....?? Come on man - like I said, could you and AV perhaps be so distraught with loosing someone (in your own words ""...just fucks with your mental....." ) that you are not able to see what is wrong? You and AV can slag off your ex-GF, post her picture, warn others etc - I wouldn't say nuthin' - but what has the poor sap posted by AV got anything to do with ANYTHING?
OK - if you think it's so right - how come you yourself have not posted pictures of your ex-girl's present boyfirend and start off a slagging contest. Yes, it's quite noble of you to try to defend AV - but you yourself should know that you're defending the indefensible.
Paix
SEAJ
Fifty Fifty
06-06-08, 10:23
...... Yes, it's quite noble of you to try to defend AV - but you yourself should know that you're defending the indefensible.
Paix
SEAJ
As I said ""I do not agree with any of this"
I have the same view of you on pics and always 'blur or disguise' etc out of respect.
Therefore I am not defending anyone at all.
However, as I also said ''each to his own'' we all have a right to post what we wish here and basically the only recognised and valid ''Policeman'' is Jackson - so be it.
Cheers, F/Fifty
... Come on man - like I said, could you and AV perhaps be so distraught with loosing someone (in your own words ""...just fucks with your mental....." ) that you are not able to see what is wrong? You and AV can slag off your ex-GF, post her picture, warn others etc
SEAJExcuse me but I don't recall slagging off Irish in my post. I recall her as a genuinely nice person but I am in no way distraught at the passing of her friendship. In fact she sent me several long wistful 'goodbye' emails. I responded by wishing her & him the very best & making it subtly but firmly clear that I am not a lifeline.
I'll thank you not to put words in my mouth or ascribe motivations to me based on your own prejudices.
I posted a very small pic (of a freely given pic) purely as an illustration. More than likely she has posted it herself on whatever dating site she used to meet him. The point of my original post was to illustrate the tendency for pinay's to grab anything that offers a wedding ring regardless of age/looks.
I have had my opportunity to respond to your many criticisms & will say nothing further now. Thanks
AV
The point of my original post was to illustrate the tendency for pinay's to grab anything that offers a wedding ring regardless of age/looks.
I have had my opportunity to respond to your many criticisms & will say nothing further now. Thanks
AVI agree with this point. It is true, and very sad at what women are willing to do to increase their standard of living. Why do we not see men, in large numbers, marrying anything that comes along in order to increase a financial standard of living. It has always baffled me why and even how women can do this. To me, its just another form of prostitution.
MeLuvULongTime
06-06-08, 20:35
I agree with this point. It is true, and very sad at what women are willing to do to increase their standard of living. Why do we not see men, in large numbers, marrying anything that comes along in order to increase a financial standard of living. It has always baffled me why and even how women can do this. To me, its just another form of prostitution.All this hand wringing over the fact a young pinay will marry an old fart is hilarious. LOL. It is "very sad" what pinays will do for money? Thank god what they do for me for a little filthy cash.come on, what the hell you think the spinners are screwing us for our charm and goodlooks? (But I have to admit I do also get freebies because I am chaming and guapo since I am in great shape for 49 But some pinays just bone me for $$$. I see nothing wrong in a fine yourg pinay marrying a fossil. Congratulations! They both get what they want. No harm, no foul. What the hell do I care. Live and let live.
Meluvulongtime
GoodEnough
06-07-08, 00:01
I agree with this point. It is true, and very sad at what women are willing to do to increase their standard of living. Why do we not see men, in large numbers, marrying anything that comes along in order to increase a financial standard of living. It has always baffled me why and even how women can do this. To me, its just another form of prostitution.
This is a country where more than 50% of the people live on less than $2 a day, with inflation at close to 10% and with an economy that produces few decent jobs. It's totally corrupt and offers almost zero opportunity for economic advancement. It has an education system that's on the bottom rung of every ranking for countries in SE Asia. And you wonder why women will do anything to get the hell out of here in the hopes of a better life? The more appropriate question is why anyone chooses to stay.
Excuse me but I don't recall slagging off Irish in my post. I recall her as a genuinely nice person but I am in no way distraught at the passing of her friendship. In fact she sent me several long wistful 'goodbye' emails. I responded by wishing her & him the very best & making it subtly but firmly clear that I am not a lifeline.
I'll thank you not to put words in my mouth or ascribe motivations to me based on your own prejudices.
I posted a very small pic (of a freely given pic) purely as an illustration. More than likely she has posted it herself on whatever dating site she used to meet him. The point of my original post was to illustrate the tendency for pinay's to grab anything that offers a wedding ring regardless of age/looks.
I have had my opportunity to respond to your many criticisms & will say nothing further now. Thanks
AV
I swear some of these cats got to be the most crusading mother fuckers to shit between two shoes.
AV I brought this up a couple of post back how they will settle for just about whatever comes along with a wallet and pulse and all you were doing was just pointing it out. Does it mean you have an axe to grind hell no.
I agree with this point. It is true, and very sad at what women are willing to do to increase their standard of living. Why do we not see men, in large numbers, marrying anything that comes along in order to increase a financial standard of living. It has always baffled me why and even how women can do this. To me, its just another form of prostitution.
What do you do with a prostitute? You pay her money or other goods to have sex with you. What do you do with a more then likely uneducated girl who has no job or no hope or finding one and no money who you financially provide for? What is she providing you with? Not another form of prostitution its institutionalized.
Member #4214
06-07-08, 07:17
I'm involved with a Filipina OFW in my S. E. Asian country who is tied down to a sham marriage in the Phils. She is exploring the prospects of an annulment, and tells me she will need to be resident in Phils for an extended period to get it done as the process will require various court appearances.
Can anyone provide some specific background on this? Can she process the annulment while she remains overseas? She will be back in Phils for several weeks near year-end so can get stuff done then, but she doesn't need to be back in Phils 1-2 yrs just to get annulment does she?
Thanks
Blackangst
06-08-08, 00:38
I'm involved with a Filipina OFW in my S. E. Asian country who is tied down to a sham marriage in the Phils. She is exploring the prospects of an annulment, and tells me she will need to be resident in Phils for an extended period to get it done as the process will require various court appearances.
Can anyone provide some specific background on this? Can she process the annulment while she remains overseas? She will be back in Phils for several weeks near year-end so can get stuff done then, but she doesn't need to be back in Phils 1-2 yrs just to get annulment does she?
Thanks
Friend-no offense, but although some of us can probably give you SOME information, this is not the place to look for annulment advice. Seriously. Spend some time on Google. The problem is twofold: First, there is the legal issue. Second, and most important, is the bullshit factor. That is, we all know everything is for sale in PI, and one person's experience getting annulment will be different than another. This really is a serious issue that needs to be explored somewhere else.
Now, I know Im not a mod or anything, but there are forums just for this type of thing, and I would suggest you start there. And the journey of annulment is NOT for the weak of heart. Be forewarned :)
Blackangst
06-08-08, 00:45
I swear some of these cats got to be the most crusading mother fuckers to shit between two shoes.
AV I brought this up a couple of post back how they will settle for just about whatever comes along with a wallet and pulse and all you were doing was just pointing it out. Does it mean you have an axe to grind hell no.
What do you do with a prostitute? You pay her money or other goods to have sex with you. What do you do with a more then likely uneducated girl who has no job or no hope or finding one and no money who you financially provide for? What is she providing you with? Not another form of prostitution its institutionalized.
Maybe YOU do, but I dont pay the girls to have sex. I pay them TO LEAVE.
GoodEnough
06-08-08, 01:39
The cost of the annulment, depending on where you get it done and whom you select as an attorney will likely run you $2,000-$3,000 and will likely take about a year, though I have heard of cases that went faster. Like everything else here. it's mostly a pay off--in this case to the catholic church. It's not a difficult process, but it's expensive, corrupt, and time consuming like any other "official" act here. I'm not sure about the residency requirement, but again, like everything else here, even if it's true it can probably be circumvented by stuffing enough pesos in enough "connected" pockets.
GE
Member #4214
06-08-08, 03:31
1. I'm not your friend.
2. Yes, you do offend.
3. You haven't told me anything.
Friend-no offense, but although some of us can probably give you SOME information, this is not the place to look for annulment advice. Seriously. Spend some time on Google. The problem is twofold: First, there is the legal issue. Second, and most important, is the bullshit factor. That is, we all know everything is for sale in PI, and one person's experience getting annulment will be different than another. This really is a serious issue that needs to be explored somewhere else.
Now, I know Im not a mod or anything, but there are forums just for this type of thing, and I would suggest you start there. And the journey of annulment is NOT for the weak of heart. Be forewarned :)
SE Asia Joe
06-09-08, 08:12
Excuse me but I don't recall slagging off Irish in my post. I recall her as a genuinely nice person but I am in no way distraught at the passing of her friendship. In fact she sent me several long wistful 'goodbye' emails. I responded by wishing her & him the very best & making it subtly but firmly clear that I am not a lifeline.
I'll thank you not to put words in my mouth or ascribe motivations to me based on your own prejudices.
I posted a very small pic (of a freely given pic) purely as an illustration. More than likely she has posted it herself on whatever dating site she used to meet him. The point of my original post was to illustrate the tendency for pinay's to grab anything that offers a wedding ring regardless of age/looks.
I have had my opportunity to respond to your many criticisms & will say nothing further now. Thanks
AV
AV - now YOU're the one putting words into my writing!! Or at least doing a bit of creative editing!!
Please re-read what I wrote - which is .".........You and AV can slag off your ex-GF, post her picture, warn others etc - I wouldn't say nuthin' - but what has the poor sap posted by AV got anything to do with ANYTHING?......." PLEASE note the word "can"
As for your statement ".......The point of my original post was to illustrate the tendency for pinay's to grab anything that offers a wedding ring regardless of age/looks..." OK - great, good - but it still does not explain/give excuse to your posting of the guy's picture. Zilch, nada!
The posting of the guy's picture is ALL that I am writing about. Please do tell what.... if any... reason for such posting?!
Now 50-50, what you posted
However, as I also said ''each to his own'' we all have a right to post what we wish here and basically the only recognised and valid ''Policeman'' is Jackson - so be it.
of course I agree with this statement - but doesn't mean that we should just go ahead and act like ruffians and go as far as we can get away with and only stop only when Jackson stops us. I've got a lot of respect for Jackson's judgement and for the amount of time he puts into these pages we all enjoy - but if we were to all act the way that you suggest we do, Jackson would do nothing but act like a "Policeman!"
Come on 50-50, you know that we are NOT ruffians and thus we should not act like Ruffians. There are certain code of conduct amongst Gentlemen - and I do believe that Jackson would agree that he would prefer that we do act accordingly - NON?
O Jeez - now you're gonna come back and challenge my statement about gentlemen - how can we even pretend to be gentlemen when we're all mongers etc etc etc.
Jeez - cain;t win here - so perhaps I'll just let it drop like AV seems to want to do. Leave you guys to be whatever you wanna be.
Peace and OUT!!!!
SEAJ
Fifty Fifty
06-09-08, 08:33
...............Jeez - cain;t win here - so perhaps I'll just let it drop like AV seems to want to do. Leave you guys to be whatever you wanna be.
Peace and OUT!!!!
SEAJ
Ok then, let the freedom of the Forum prevail and stop the Axe-Grinding.
This topic is so old, if you hadn't dragged it up, once again, I am sure most of us would have forgotten by now.
Cheers, F/Fifty
SE Asia Joe
06-10-08, 07:11
Ok then, let the freedom of the Forum prevail and stop the Axe-Grinding.
This topic is so old, if you hadn't dragged it up, once again, I am sure most of us would have forgotten by now.
Cheers, F/Fifty
"Let the freedom of the Forum prevail" you write...
and what is this you are trying to do, by trying to stifle what I say - things which you yourself agree with? And things which still has not been corrected as AV has NOT taken down the offensive (to me and I'm usre to some others here) picture?
As far as axe grinding is concerned - what is it that you are doing by asking me stop every time I bring up the subject. To me THAT is old - especially since its not you but AV who posted the offending picture. What has it got to do with you?
1. Are you so enamored of AV that you've got to be his protector
2. Do you hate AV so much that you've just gotta get me all riled up and continue on the subject and thus bring AV up to more??
What IS it with you?
SEAJ
Puerto La Cruz
06-10-08, 09:30
OK SEAJ. to You're right. Now, would you please stop? You're making me want to put a bullet in my head!!
SE Asia Joe
06-10-08, 10:02
OK SEAJ. to You're right. Now, would you please stop? You're making me want to put a bullet in my head!!
Naaaahh... don't go and do that. Wouldn't it be a waste of bullets..... for lawyers. OUCH..... sorrry ,.... just gotta get THAT in.....!!
Anyway, to make it up, howzabout me offering a peace offering....of the tasty morsel from the ChangAn naked KTV last week-end? OK??
Better??
SEAJ
AussieOverboard
06-10-08, 11:12
Anyway, to make it up, howzabout me offering a peace offering....of the tasty morsel from the ChangAn naked KTV last week-end? OK??
Better??
SEAJHey Joe
How about a few pics of her Boyfriend? LOL.
Cunning Stunt
06-10-08, 18:51
Hey Joe
How about a few pics of her Boyfriend? LOL.
Hahaha like it - also noticed nobody complained when I posted a picture of AV some time ago. Wonder why? :D GH
SE Asia Joe
06-11-08, 06:36
Hahaha like it - also noticed nobody complained when I posted a picture of AV some time ago. Wonder why? :D GH
NOW....THAT....is a helluva good idea!!
Yeah AV - why dontcha' post a pix of yourself?! Since you think its soooooooo..... OK for you to post another monger's!
Yeah yeah yeah!!
And no 50-50, I ain't goin' anywhere - so don't you worry your pretty little head off - I'll keep your nemesis AV on the front page!! WHAT is it that he's done against you to make you want us to keep this barrage against him???!!!
Oooooooohhh.... now the quandry - how to answer this latest.... or just keep quiet.....very quiet???!!
Muahahahah!!!
SEAJ
Fifty Fifty
06-11-08, 09:01
NOW....THAT....is a helluva good idea!!
Yeah AV - why dontcha' post a pix of yourself?! Since you think its soooooooo..... OK for you to post another monger's!
Yeah yeah yeah!!
And no 50-50, I ain't goin' anywhere - so don't you worry your pretty little head off - I'll keep your nemesis AV on the front page!! WHAT is it that he's done against you to make you want us to keep this barrage against him???!!!
Oooooooohhh.... now the quandry - how to answer this latest.... or just keep quiet.....very quiet???!!
Muahahahah!!!
SEAJ
Nice to see some real good value added posting from you and well up to your normal standard too.
WTF use is any of this to the Forum?
I would ask you to refrain from the abuse, unless of course you do actually think I am pretty. Then it could be time to worry.
Until then I would rate your post as contrary to Forum Guidelines i.e.
No Flaming: Please do not post any messages that harrass, insult, belittle, threaten or flame another member.
Jackson - Please Remove accordingly.
Cheers, F/Fifty
SE Asia Joe
06-11-08, 09:30
Nice to see some real good value added posting from you and well up to your normal standard too.
WTF use is any of this to the Forum?
I would ask you to refrain from the abuse, unless of course you do actually think I am pretty. Then it could be time to worry.
Until then I would rate your post as contrary to Forum Guidelines i.e.
No Flaming: Please do not post any messages that harrass, insult, belittle, threaten or flame another member.
Jackson - Please Remove accordingly.
Cheers, F/Fifty
OK - that's a good come back - respects!
It prompted me to actually read the forum rules and guidelines - and dang if you ain't right - there is NO rule against posting up anybody - even guys you don't know - just like Amavida don't know Irish's new BF.
So.... since we're all sticklers for rules and guidelines......... and whatever... I have actually written to Jackson about the whole thing. Let's see what comes about.
Cheers- yes Cheers and Tally ho!!
SEAJ
Fifty, there you go again. Claiming to have everyone's best interest in mind when actually you are part of the problem.
SEA Joe, thanks for the picture. You've made some good points, but it's probably best to let this one go and let karma take care of the rest.
X
Nice to see some real good value added posting from you and well up to your normal standard too.
WTF use is any of this to the Forum?
I would ask you to refrain from the abuse, unless of course you do actually think I am pretty. Then it could be time to worry.
Until then I would rate your post as contrary to Forum Guidelines i.e.
No Flaming: Please do not post any messages that harrass, insult, belittle, threaten or flame another member.
Jackson - Please Remove accordingly.
Cheers, F/Fifty
FunnyGoLucky
06-11-08, 22:08
I'm involved with a Filipina OFW in my S. E. Asian country who is tied down to a sham marriage in the Phils. She is exploring the prospects of an annulment, and tells me she will need to be resident in Phils for an extended period to get it done as the process will require various court appearances.
Can anyone provide some specific background on this? Can she process the annulment while she remains overseas? She will be back in Phils for several weeks near year-end so can get stuff done then, but she doesn't need to be back in Phils 1-2 yrs just to get annulment does she?
ThanksShe can do it by a layer. You will spend around 100 - 150 000 peso to make it legal.
Just like dog behaviour I think there are 4 phases to a sex relationship. We have:
1. The sniffing phase
2. The play phase
3. The fuck phase
4. The fuck off phase!
And depending upon the relationship it may be a few minutes to complete all phases to a life-time. Let me develop my theory, with particular emphasis on internet dating.
The sniffing phase, like a couple of dogs circling and appraising each other’s nether regions, involves a simple assessment of could this one be for me? On dating sites it may simply mean responding to some promising profiles, sending emails and expressing interest. It often involves answering or asking a few basic relationship questions about age, marital status, family, location and “why me” questions. It’s the phase you go through that determines whether you are onto a potential winner or not.
The play phase, phase 2, is the one that is the thrill of the hunt, the chase. Is she interested and available? When, where and how far might she go? On the internet I am doing this not so much on the dating site but by moving to Yahoo with cam. Most Filipinas have a Yahoo address and can soon access a cam in the internet café. A live interactive discussion I find the best. And sex-wise I keep it fairly neutral but prepared throw in the double meaning or respond to a sexy comment from the girl. I am definitely not into “show me your tits” but I have frequently asked “what is it that tee shirt of yours says” and she is often willing to get up and do a twirl. At the same time I’m prepared at that point to do a screen capture and save her picture by cutting and pasting to my file notes. As I proceed on chat over the weeks, sometimes months, I am building up my file notes in a word document: pen name, profile number (if applicable), actual name, age, location, job, email address, phone number. I’m also cutting and pasting relevant chat information about interests, birthday, name of any offspring, and in particular, the proclivity to any sex encounter! Generally within a chat or three I know whether they are starters for an encounter or not, but it takes a little further time to build the confidence. I am pretty honest with my approach in that I say I am at the early stage of finding a new relationship and (if asked) that I am contacting and dating others, and that I am willing to visit but I will be moving on. My chat sessions are, if I can work it, a lot of fun and “hehehehehes”. I enjoy phase 2; it is the thrill of the chase.
The fuck phase, phase 3, is the ultimate goal of one’s dick. But there are a couple of anatomical parts that can get in the way, or affect the dick performance. Those body parts are the head and the heart. Of course in a P4P relationship the objective is to quickly pass through phases 1 and 2 to reach phase 3, with the head and heart having little to do with it (except for the contribution from the wallet). But in a married relationship the fuck phase can be a lifetime of varying, often reducing vigour.
Phase 4, the fuck off phase, can be quick and painless for the P4P “hit em and leave ‘em” pursuants. And it can be a lifetime of pleasure, or anguish, in a committed marriage or partnership. I am in between the both. I like to fuck off, but with the prospect I would be welcomed on my return, and often I am.
I am airing my thoughts on this important topic here, but I am still learning and refining my approach. This is my third visit to the Philippines and by far the most successful. I have posted my day by day Davao experiences, mostly achieved through prior internet chat, on the Davao thread. (see April to June postings) For this 66 year old, the Filipina, is a beauty to treasure and behold.
Blackangst
06-12-08, 10:07
Just like dog behaviour I think there are 4 phases to a sex relationship. We have:
1. The sniffing phase
2. The play phase
3. The fuck phase
4. The fuck off phase!
And depending upon the relationship it may be a few minutes to complete all phases to a life-time. Let me develop my theory, with particular emphasis on internet dating.
The sniffing phase, like a couple of dogs circling and appraising each other’s nether regions, involves a simple assessment of could this one be for me? On dating sites it may simply mean responding to some promising profiles, sending emails and expressing interest. It often involves answering or asking a few basic relationship questions about age, marital status, family, location and “why me” questions. It’s the phase you go through that determines whether you are onto a potential winner or not.
The play phase, phase 2, is the one that is the thrill of the hunt, the chase. Is she interested and available? When, where and how far might she go? On the internet I am doing this not so much on the dating site but by moving to Yahoo with cam. Most Filipinas have a Yahoo address and can soon access a cam in the internet café. A live interactive discussion I find the best. And sex-wise I keep it fairly neutral but prepared throw in the double meaning or respond to a sexy comment from the girl. I am definitely not into “show me your tits” but I have frequently asked “what is it that tee shirt of yours says” and she is often willing to get up and do a twirl. At the same time I’m prepared at that point to do a screen capture and save her picture by cutting and pasting to my file notes. As I proceed on chat over the weeks, sometimes months, I am building up my file notes in a word document: pen name, profile number (if applicable), actual name, age, location, job, email address, phone number. I’m also cutting and pasting relevant chat information about interests, birthday, name of any offspring, and in particular, the proclivity to any sex encounter! Generally within a chat or three I know whether they are starters for an encounter or not, but it takes a little further time to build the confidence. I am pretty honest with my approach in that I say I am at the early stage of finding a new relationship and (if asked) that I am contacting and dating others, and that I am willing to visit but I will be moving on. My chat sessions are, if I can work it, a lot of fun and “hehehehehes”. I enjoy phase 2; it is the thrill of the chase.
The fuck phase, phase 3, is the ultimate goal of one’s dick. But there are a couple of anatomical parts that can get in the way, or affect the dick performance. Those body parts are the head and the heart. Of course in a P4P relationship the objective is to quickly pass through phases 1 and 2 to reach phase 3, with the head and heart having little to do with it (except for the contribution from the wallet). But in a married relationship the fuck phase can be a lifetime of varying, often reducing vigour.
Phase 4, the fuck off phase, can be quick and painless for the P4P “hit em and leave ‘em” pursuants. And it can be a lifetime of pleasure, or anguish, in a committed marriage or partnership. I am in between the both. I like to fuck off, but with the prospect I would be welcomed on my return, and often I am.
I am airing my thoughts on this important topic here, but I am still learning and refining my approach. This is my third visit to the Philippines and by far the most successful. I have posted my day by day Davao experiences, mostly achieved through prior internet chat, on the Davao thread. (see April to June postings) For this 66 year old, the Filipina, is a beauty to treasure and behold.
Very descript definition of FFFF ;)
Cunning Stunt
06-12-08, 11:10
She can do it by a layer. You will spend around 100 - 150 000 peso to make it legal.
If you want a good layer can I volunteer :D. I promise not to charge anywhere near the sum quoted!!
Cunning Stunt
06-12-08, 11:28
I am airing my thoughts on this important topic here, but I am still learning and refining my approach. This is my third visit to the Philippines and by far the most successful. I have posted my day by day Davao experiences, mostly achieved through prior internet chat, on the Davao thread. (see April to June postings) For this 66 year old, the Filipina, is a beauty to treasure and behold.
Bloody hell Kong - you have really put some time and thought into your 'scientific' approach to fornication. I'm pleased to see its working for you. For simpler souls such as myself, I prefer Blackangst's dictum of the 4F's which I guess amount to the same thing.
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