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Yeah AV - why dontcha' post a pix of yourself?! Since you think its soooooooo..... OK for you to post another monger's!
SEAJOk here you go. Now STFU.
AV
Blackangst
06-12-08, 21:49
Ok here you go. Now STFU.
AV
Damn man you need sunblock!
;) I kid, I kid.
FunnyGoLucky
06-12-08, 22:13
If you want a good layer can I volunteer :D. I promise not to charge anywhere near the sum quoted!!Ok if I knew samebody need help i will recomend you.
Thanks man, I was needing a new dart board.
X
BTW, whose picture is this? I think I remember this picture in the National Geographic special about Australian sheep herders.
Ok here you go. Now STFU.
AV
Hello to all,
happy fathers day :D
Actually Im not a father yet but Im still exersizing...Funny story on the side or maybe not..Finally I screwed my long time GF who told me she was virgin. Well she wasnt..I found no eveidnce and she finally admit she lost her cherry with a pinoy guy one time lol....So after this I think its really funny what they think about virgin or not virgin..Maybe having sex with a pinoy guy doesnt count at all LOL...
So, here we go again, fact my GF lied to me, on the other hand she told me she was afraid to lose me very fast if she would have told me she aint no virgin no more...
Good for me, I wasnt the first and Im not really keen on being the first..so I can say any time bye bye once Im tired of her and she will now do her best to please me ...
Have some other cute gurl coming later, I will move this experience in the chat room section, cause she is now the first chat gurl I met..after being here for 4 months or so...
Life is good but I need some sleep and recharge my batteries....
About the weather..its HOT dam HOT...
Blink out zzzZZzzz
Blink157
I think we met at the Embassy last month.
Wizard
SE Asia Joe
06-16-08, 04:24
Ok here you go. Now STFU.
AV
Awwwww....... you didn't need to tell me to STFU -
but "Start The Festivities Up" I certainly will!!
But before anything else...... check out your original post and picture of Irish's new boy friend - that picture is now GONE, snaffu, out-a-here!! Jackson took it OFF - so there!!
Start The Festivities Up:
Top Ten why pictures cain't be trusted
1. Why would ANYONE post up their own picture on this board - exceptin' to get slings and arrows!
2. Cain't really be the real person - where is the humongous chip on the shoulder?
3.
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OK guys - your turn!!
SEAJ
Blink157
I think we met at the Embassy last month.
Wizard
Hi,
is that a new club? LOL, if you refer to the german embassy, I havent went there recently.....and as of now I dont need a visa to go back to my country :D
Seriously wasnt me....a guy like me can nowadays frequently seen at those spots where they show the Eurocup....
reminds me to get up at 2am tomorw morning, cause germany is playing against Austria....well, maybe I will have a massage before the game LOL...
Its gona be a long night again....ha ha ha
LG Life is good, but sometimes somebody needs to rest
Blink
Soapy Smith
06-17-08, 06:16
reminds me to get up at 2am tomorw morning, cause germany is playing against Austria....well, maybe I will have a massage before the game LOL... Its gona be a long night again....ha ha ha Blink
Congrats on the victory and advancing to the quarterfinals.
SE Asia Joe
06-17-08, 07:54
3. So pointy - does head butts qualify it as a lethal weapon ?
SEAJ
Awwwww....... you didn't need to tell me to STFU -
but "Start The Festivities Up" I certainly will!!
But before anything else...... check out your original post and picture of Irish's new boy friend - that picture is now GONE, snaffu, out-a-here!! Jackson took it OFF - so there!!
Start The Festivities Up:
Top Ten why pictures cain't be trusted
1. Why would ANYONE post up their own picture on this board - exceptin' to get slings and arrows!
2. Cain't really be the real person - where is the humongous chip on the shoulder?
3.
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OK guys - your turn!!
SEAJWhy do I get the creepy feeling Im conversing with a third grader?
BTW where's YOUR pic?
Oh that's right.. self righteous small minded people always are cowards
AV
SE Asia Joe
06-18-08, 03:41
Why do I get the creepy feeling Im conversing with a third grader?
BTW where's YOUR pic?
Oh that's right.. self righteous small minded people always are cowards
AV
Takes one to know one I say!!
My PIC????!!! You gotta be outa your mind.... oh yeah... I forgot.... YOU really are out of your....
Muahahaha!!!
SEAJ
ps. you really know how to feed the troll huh??!!
SE Asia Joe
06-18-08, 06:41
4. Brain got scalloped out. Result = pointy head.
SEAJ
Awwwww....... you didn't need to tell me to STFU -
but "Start The Festivities Up" I certainly will!!
But before anything else...... check out your original post and picture of Irish's new boy friend - that picture is now GONE, snaffu, out-a-here!! Jackson took it OFF - so there!!
Start The Festivities Up:
Top Ten why pictures cain't be trusted
1. Why would ANYONE post up their own picture on this board - exceptin' to get slings and arrows!
2. Cain't really be the real person - where is the humongous chip on the shoulder?
3.
.....
.....
OK guys - your turn!!
SEAJ
Congrats on the victory and advancing to the quarterfinals.
SE Asia Joe
06-18-08, 09:58
Congrats on the victory and advancing to the quarterfinals.
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!
Naaaahh..... actually I do "sort of' agree with you. Especially since I would think that AV should have by now realized that he has taken the Mickey out of himself! I only helped him along to show his ignorance.
On the other hand, it does seem that AV don't seem to ever know when he's wrong.
Had to actually ask Jackson to intervene to get the picture removed.
Something that I wish that AV would have had enough sense to have done so himself, especially after so many people had pointed it out to him that he was wrong to have posted up a picture of a third party.
And all that bleating by 50-50 - I don't know what's his problem - when its got nuthin to do w/him.
and then now.....all this weak suppossedly come backs by AV - like I said, he really knows how to feed the trolls!!
SEAJ
AussieOverboard
06-18-08, 11:11
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!
Naaaahh..... actually I do "sort of' agree with you. Especially since I would think that AV should have by now realized that he has taken the Mickey out of himself! I only helped him along to show his ignorance.
On the other hand, it does seem that AV don't seem to ever know when he's wrong.
Had to actually ask Jackson to intervene to get the picture removed.
Something that I wish that AV would have had enough sense to have done so himself, especially after so many people had pointed it out to him that he was wrong to have posted up a picture of a third party.
And all that bleating by 50-50 - I don't know what's his problem - when its got nuthin to do w/him.
and then now.....all this weak suppossedly come backs by AV - like I said, he really knows how to feed the trolls!!
SEAJIsn't this site about sex/girls/sex
I know I haven't been on this board or posted any near as much as a lot of people but I rally can't believe that this is topic continues.
Note to AV just ignore it, and go on with your excellent posts. They are really apreaciated.
SEA Joe, isn't there a rock somehwere you can crawl back under?
Puerto La Cruz
06-18-08, 13:33
Would you kindly stop pissing on AV??? OK you won!!!
Hello to all, Finally I screwed my long time GF who told me she was virgin. Well she wasnt..I found no eveidnce and she finally admit she lost her cherry with a pinoy guy one time lol....So after this I think its really funny what they think about virgin or not virgin..Maybe having sex with a pinoy guy doesnt count at all LOL...
Blink out zzzZZzzzG'day Blink, read your interesting & always entertaining post ;) Don't get too cut up about it hehehe ;)
Seems like there are two points I can think of in relation to this virgin thing.
First most every young girl succumbs to the fantasy dream of falling in love with a nice pinoy guy.. So many of them get screwed over & shatter their dreams. Its hard to understand how young women who have by necessity grown up mentally tough & resourceful can be so vulnerable to lothario's... maybe its the carpet bombing of txt messages that brainwashes them? ;)
After they have been traumatized they then go on to chase foreigners who they fantasize about as being richer/more reliable. Incidentally my straw poll of girls in my district tells me virtually ALL college girls here get on the net to a greater or lesser extent & most have already started messing with dating/chat sites. Its almost like they kinda know deep down inside that they are gonna get screwed over & are already working on 'Plan B'.
Second, even though premarital sex is much more prevalent these days, a brides purity is still traditionally pushed by family.
I think In her own way she was trying to show you respect by doing the 'good girl' thing for you. Forcing her to admit she has already been poked by a horny little pinoy guy just kinda spoils the illusion & destroys the romance a little. C'mon Blinky, she knows you have screwed others & you know she has also too. Don't give her a hard time about it.
On the other hand maybe she is just a lying little bleep bleep.. what do I know?
C'Ya
AV
G'day Blink, read your interesting & always entertaining post ;) Don't get too cut up about it hehehe ;)
Seems like there are two points I can think of in relation to this virgin thing.
First most every young girl succumbs to the fantasy dream of falling in love with a nice pinoy guy.. So many of them get screwed over & shatter their dreams. Its hard to understand how young women who have by necessity grown up mentally tough & resourceful can be so vulnerable to lothario's... maybe its the carpet bombing of txt messages that brainwashes them? ;)
After they have been traumatized they then go on to chase foreigners who they fantasize about as being richer/more reliable. Incidentally my straw poll of girls in my district tells me virtually ALL college girls here get on the net to a greater or lesser extent & most have already started messing with dating/chat sites. Its almost like they kinda know deep down inside that they are gonna get screwed over & are already working on 'Plan B'.
Second, even though premarital sex is much more prevalent these days, a brides purity is still traditionally pushed by family.
I think In her own way she was trying to show you respect by doing the 'good girl' thing for you. Forcing her to admit she has already been poked by a horny little pinoy guy just kinda spoils the illusion & destroys the romance a little. C'mon Blinky, she knows you have screwed others & you know she has also too. Don't give her a hard time about it.
On the other hand maybe she is just a lying little bleep bleep.. what do I know?
C'Ya
AV
I have not met a Filipina yet who was a virgin and if they told me they were I would not believe it. They act shy but they are some of the most sexually charged women I have every been around in my life. Most I have encountered and were told about their past I have found they gave up the virginity way to easy.
Fifty Fifty
06-19-08, 05:15
And all that bleating by 50-50 - I don't know what's his problem - when its got nuthin to do w/him.SEAJ
Could somebody please explain (if possible) why we are having to suffer this level of 'garbage posting' from SEAJ a Senior Member of this Forum.
As for ''its got nuthin to do with him''
Well as a Member of this Forum, everything posted here as something to do with me, that is how an Open Online Forum works.
In my opinion, and that of many others, SEAJ has shown himself to be a ''Serial Antagoniser'' displaying no regard to General Forum Rules protecting other members; which he has broken in every one of his recent posts and he needs to be ''rewarded'' for this.
It is time for the Senior Members here to act and ''Throw out the Trash''
For the time being, SEAJ is on my ''Ignore'' list. (Thanks Jackson)
Cheers, F/Fifty
On your ignore list? If you had done a little ignoring early on, this would never have gone on.
What a preposterous claim: "everything posted here has something to do with me".
Let me do something SEAJoe did a while back. Post a pic and suggest we move on.
X
Could somebody please explain (if possible) why we are having to suffer this level of 'garbage posting' from SEAJ a Senior Member of this Forum.
As for ''its got nuthin to do with him''
Well as a Member of this Forum, everything posted here as something to do with me, that is how an Open Online Forum works.
In my opinion, and that of many others, SEAJ has shown himself to be a ''Serial Antagoniser'' displaying no regard to General Forum Rules protecting other members; which he has broken in every one of his recent posts and he needs to be ''rewarded'' for this.
It is time for the Senior Members here to act and ''Throw out the Trash''
For the time being, SEAJ is on my ''Ignore'' list. (Thanks Jackson)
Cheers, F/Fifty
I have not met a Filipina yet who was a virgin and if they told me they were I would not believe it. They act shy but they are some of the most sexually charged women I have every been around in my life. Most I have encountered and were told about their past I have found they gave up the virginity way to easy.You're hangin' around with the wrong crowd D Etat! hehehe joke lang ;)
Asawa ko was a virgin when I married her, it was inconsequential to me but it was a matter of principle for her & I can respect that. My 18Yr old college girl in Manila was a virgin until we met. Yes they do exist.
AV
On your ignore list? If you had done a little ignoring early on, this would never have gone on.
What a preposterous claim: "everything posted here has something to do with me".
Let me do something SEAJoe did a while back. Post a pic and suggest we move on.
XShut up X Man, you give me the shits with your with these endless nit picking posts.
AV
Cunning Stunt
06-20-08, 09:14
Has this thread suddenly changed into the photo gallery whilst I wasn't looking ;).
Fifty - agree with your post although it is perhaps better not to feed the trolls, which may be why you have yet to respond to the next post.
AV - see advice above. Maybe best you utilise the ignore option too, although it could be that you secretly enjoy the Craic :D GH
You're hangin' around with the wrong crowd D Etat! hehehe joke lang ;)
Asawa ko was a virgin when I married her, it was inconsequential to me but it was a matter of principle for her & I can respect that. My 18Yr old college girl in Manila was a virgin until we met. Yes they do exist.
AV
Sorry AV but the Filipina virgin for me is like Bigfoot and the Loch Ness monster. Many have claimed they spotted one and had photographic proof but I am still not convinced.
I heard of a story from a bar girl friend of mine of a Filipina way below legal age fucking guys like crazy. About a month ago I was in a bar where after taking my seat and enjoying the festivities one girl on stage was fully nude was how can I put this… not of legal working age. I was informed of this by her two friends who sat at by my side.
Had one educated friend in Cebu highly intelligent. Everytime I said something sexual in nature she became a little shy and defensive. I thought she was a virgin. Nope turned out some jobless Pinoy whom she took care from Manila had already did the deed.
Believe it or not I have met more virgins in the damn US then I have in this country.
Cunning Stunt
06-20-08, 09:47
A very 'straight and honest' Pinay girl is going to Manila to meet her new foreign boyfriend met on DIA. Before she left, her mother gave her some advice: "Daughter, when you're in Manila and if you're looking for a match there, you must take note of the following the requirements mother set for you. You must make sure that your man is faithful', 'thrifty' and must be a 'virgin'.
A few days later she rings home.
"Mother, I've met the my match following your instructions. My future husband is faithful because when we went out for day trip one day, he took care of me specifically even though there were so many prettier girls around. Isn't that being faithful?"
Her mother said yes he must be faithful.
"Then, since the day was getting late in the night and rain was pouring, my boyfriend decided that we stay the night at Sogo Hotel. He also suggested that in order not to spend too much, they'll share one room only. Isn't he not thrifty guy?"
For the second time her mother agreed, but with a little concern.
"And finally mum..., I know he is a virgin"
"How did you know he is still a virgin?" the mother asked with trepidition. "MMM...his 'titi' is still new and hard.... All wrapped up in plastic, mum!"
[QUOTE=D Etat]Sorry AV but the Filipina virgin for me is like Bigfoot and the Loch Ness monster. Many have claimed they spotted one and had photographic proof but I am still not convinced.
Amavida is correct--there are plenty of virgins. Guys who know only mongering venues of the P.I. gross out regular girls, virgin or not, by approaching every filipina as a ***** or a ****. Stick to those you know to be bar girls.
No Gamahucher, it is currently the thread for those obsessed with virgins. Although I find the topic uninteresting, I would never be so churlish as to tell other people to "shut up".
BTW, there is no requirement that photos be posted only in the photo section, as far as I know. Sorry, if I'm mistaken about that.
X
Has this thread suddenly changed into the photo gallery whilst I wasn't looking ;).
Fifty - agree with your post although it is perhaps better not to feed the trolls, which may be why you have yet to respond to the next post.
AV - see advice above. Maybe best you utilise the ignore option too, although it could be that you secretly enjoy the Craic :D GH
Well, this is the Filipinas thread, so let me present one of my many quandries.
Like many people, I had some unhealthy Christian values drummed into my head. Easy girls were bad....oh, brother. What an oxymoron!
I never had a virgin fetish, but I certainly avoided tatoos and piercings, which seemed to be symbolic of easy women, or maybe independent / strong / aggressive women. Even when I started chasing p4p, I had no interest in ladies with tatoos+
One night at I found this dancer who said it was her first night. Her colleagues confirmed it. Well, it was her first night at that bar, but she had some mileage. I found that out when I got her to my room. I was so quick to barfine her, I never noticed the big tatoo on her back/ass. Nevertheless, she was sweet and sure knew how to do a lip massage of my Anaconda. I suddenly saw tatoos in a different light.
I still have a mental block about tatoos and piercings, but this is one case where the little head may make more sense than the big head.
So, what are your feelings about ladies with tattoes, piercings????
BTW, the girl in my earlier post had a vagina ring. Kind of weird having cold steel sensation while lapping at the Y.
AussieOverboard
06-20-08, 13:38
So, what are your feelings about ladies with tattoes, piercings????I like girls with a Tramp Stamp (Tattoo on Lower Back). To me it means F#$& me in the Ass.
Wicked Roger
06-20-08, 13:50
Well, this is the Filipinas thread, so let me present one of my many quandries.
So, what are your feelings about ladies with tattoes, piercings????
BTW, the girl in my earlier post had a vagina ring. Kind of weird having cold steel sensation while lapping at the Y.
X Man
I am not a fan of lots of tattoos, all over the body etc turns me off as do too many piercings. But...a nice tattoo is quite sexy (ie one) and a BBBJ from a girl with a toungue is lovely too.
Nipple rings and pussy pierce? Can take it or leave it.
Too many or either, instant limp todger - basically I don't take to my 'fucking room'
I'm involved with a Filipina OFW in my S. E. Asian country who is tied down to a sham marriage in the Phils. She is exploring the prospects of an annulment, and tells me she will need to be resident in Phils for an extended period to get it done as the process will require various court appearances.
Can anyone provide some specific background on this? Can she process the annulment while she remains overseas? She will be back in Phils for several weeks near year-end so can get stuff done then, but she doesn't need to be back in Phils 1-2 yrs just to get annulment does she?ThanksI am curious, have you visited the Philippines?
Robb
Member #4214
06-21-08, 01:41
I am curious, have you visited the Philippines?
RobbOnly a couple times, but stuck to pros and never bothered learning about the marriage regime there. My new girl has really opened my eyes. What a f*cked up mess.
Puerto La Cruz
06-21-08, 02:54
This is question better put to a Filipino lawyer. Pay the money for a consultation but get good references on an honest lawyer.
Trust me, I'm a lawyer.
Amavida is correct--there are plenty of virgins. Guys who know only mongering venues of the P.I. gross out regular girls, virgin or not, by approaching every filipina as a ***** or a ****. Stick to those you know to be bar girls.
Once again I think I to have run down my mother fucking resume. I have been around Filipinas in the States, Dubai and Japan. These girls’ lives revolve around sex. I have business women friends in Dubai who got high-paying square jobs. I had an accountant in Cebu young girl 22 tell me she loves sex. I know many in Japan and The States who are not working bars but casual sex is just something they don’t mind doing…Don’t believe that shy innocent demeanor in most cases its bullshit. I treat no women like a quote and quote “*****” hell not even *****s.
I remember the first Filipina I ever fucked she was not at all like that stereotype so falsely portrayed all over the internet. I was taking back by her aggressiveness and eagerness to fuck. Non-bar girl provincial girl now married in New York. Many have came after her and the story is the same.
Gross them out...You guys are sure not in PI for that mythical shy demeanor.
So, what are your feelings about ladies with tattoes, piercings????
I like the back tattoo, as long as it is not to high above or below their jeans/pants. It can look sexy if placed in the right place. It needs to be placed so you can not see all and want to know what is under her pants, and not too high where you can see all and have no interest in what is below the panty line. A small tattoo on the shoulder blade is ok too. Arms, legs and stomach is a turn off for me.
Cunning Stunt
06-21-08, 09:27
One night at I found this dancer who said it was her first night. Her colleagues confirmed it. Well, it was her first night at that bar, but she had some mileage. I found that out when I got her to my room. I was so quick to barfine her, I never noticed the big tatoo on her back/ass. Nevertheless, she was sweet and sure knew how to do a lip massage of my Anaconda. I suddenly saw tatoos in a different light.
The tattoo on her lower back looked OK but not so sure about the big black X on her ass cheek :D.
When I was in my youth, only sailors and squaddies had tattoo's and only pikeys and puffs (amongst men) had piercings. These days everyone seems to have them. You see daft old codgers with earrings trying to pretend they look hip when in fact they look like arseholes. And you see, otherwise attractive, girls covered in 'body art', which to my reactionary mindset, will always look cheap and nasty. I particularly hate them large lower back efforts which in UK (and in the US probably as well) usually sit above a displayed thong barely covering an amply padded ass. Like Aussieoverboard, I always feel they may as well have a downward pointing arrow and 'Fuck here' tattooed above it.
Another thing I always think, is although they think they look chic now, in thirty to forty years time when they are old and wrinkly grannies and granddads, their faded body art won't look so good then as age and gravity click in. Then it will be a boom time for expensive laser removal clinics.
I am pleased that 'body art' is still quite rare amongst Pinays, although it seems to have taken off big style amongst Thai girls. I guess that if they are small, discreet and tastefully done they can be attractive but as in many things in life, more is frequently seen as better, and then they are a big turn off as is finding ironmongery affixed to a girls intimate places. Although I must admit that a lingual stud, used properly, can be remarkably effective ;)
The tattoo on her lower back looked OK but not so sure about the big black X on her ass cheek :D.
When I was in my youth, only sailors and squaddies had tattoo's and only pikeys and puffs (amongst men) had piercings. These days everyone seems to have them. You see daft old codgers with earrings trying to pretend they look hip when in fact they look like arseholes. And you see, otherwise attractive, girls covered in 'body art', which to my reactionary mindset, will always look cheap and nasty. I particularly hate them large lower back efforts which in UK (and in the US probably as well) usually sit above a displayed thong barely covering an amply padded ass. Like Aussieoverboard, I always feel they may as well have a downward pointing arrow and 'Fuck here' tattooed above it.
Another thing I always think, is although they think they look chic now, in thirty to forty years time when they are old and wrinkly grannies and granddads, their faded body art won't look so good then as age and gravity click in. Then it will be a boom time for expensive laser removal clinics.
I am pleased that 'body art' is still quite rare amongst Pinays, although it seems to have taken off big style amongst Thai girls. I guess that if they are small, discreet and tastefully done they can be attractive but as in many things in life, more is frequently seen as better, and then they are a big turn off as is finding ironmongery affixed to a girls intimate places. Although I must admit that a lingual stud, used properly, can be remarkably effective ;)
I am on the fence I don't think a girl is a **** if she has one. I know plenty of girls who bodies are spotless and can suck a golf ball through a garden hose. But I would prefer a lady who didn't have one....
I still have a mental block about tatoos and piercings, but this is one case where the little head may make more sense than the big head.Sage advise!?
Mattrick, thanks for the pic. Did you spend any time with that one? You gotta wonder what that heck is/was going on in her mind....
X
Sage advise!?
Cunning Stunt
06-21-08, 13:16
Sage advise!?
Not a Pinay I would hazard. Thai?? Is the advice aimed as a mantra for herself (if so in the wrong place) or designed to be heeded by the reader? I wonder.
If the female body is a temple, she has scrawled obscenities on the walls :(
Member #4214
06-21-08, 13:56
Trust me, I'm a lawyer.Hahaha! Thanks for that laugh.
Tony Hoeprano
06-25-08, 00:48
"Only god can judge me! " or "If you are judgemental move on!"
Good grief, talk about being defensive! What's with some of these gals being so defensive about beind judged? The GF I met in manila had a friend who posted on DAI with those exact words (only god can judge me").
I mean, everyone's judgemental to one extent or another. Ironically, the psycho GF I met in Manila said I was too judgemental (I asked her how she got her money since she changed her story a few times from having saved up or her "grandparents" in the U. S. Sent her money)
FWIW, I've never had an American gal say anything like this, usually they'd be the ones judging me and toward the end of the relationship, their judgement deemed that I was an asshole.
"Only god can judge me! " or "If you are judgemental move on!"
Good grief, talk about being defensive! What's with some of these gals being so defensive about beind judged? The GF I met in manila had a friend who posted on DAI with those exact words (only god can judge me").
I mean, everyone's judgemental to one extent or another. Ironically, the psycho GF I met in Manila said I was too judgemental (I asked her how she got her money since she changed her story a few times from having saved up or her "grandparents" in the U. S. Sent her money)
FWIW, I've never had an American gal say anything like this, usually they'd be the ones judging me and toward the end of the relationship, their judgement deemed that I was an asshole.Very simple lives.. poor english.. Church is only source of vaguely intellectual stimulation... cargo cult mentality to foreigners.. anyone wanna keep adding to this list?
AV
... honest lawyer...
Can these two words even go together? :D
MeLuvULongTime
06-26-08, 15:49
Can these two words even go together? :DGentlemen,
I know I will be napalmed for my defense of lawyers but. Being one, I have found lawyers, in general, are as honest as the general population, which is not saying much. LOL. I do civil lititagation and see witnesses, plaintiffs, and defendants lie like rugs. IMHO.
Meluvulogtime
Continued from Angeles Thread.... http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?p=759570&posted=1#post759570
There it is again. Some guys think they are the only ones who know non-bar girl type in PI or other places. I have been around Filipinas in Dubai, Japan and in PI. The scenery changes but the game remains the same.
I had one friend in Dubai an admin specialist who was married and would still ask me to buy her stuff. One time I said don’t you think your husband will be upset by this? she goes oh “My husband is very happy with me.” One of my ole lady friends in Japan was married and was still milking Japanese guys out of Yen. Another friend of mine in Japan was single had two jobs clocking about $4000 a month and still was bleeding Japanese guys showing me her $3000 Cartier watch. It’s a dirty game.
The first Filipina I experienced about 4 years ago when I was green as a football field grass, when I did not know the P4P scene existed was a provincial girl. Early in the relationship she never asked for anything but then she started and it got to the point where she started lying to achieve her goal… it was not her I might add but family pressure till I finally told her to take a hike then she tried to commit suicide. It’s a fucked up world She now resides in New York with her newly wed husband.
There is one Nurse from Cebu I have been chatting with for last few months who I spent time with two months ago. She never asks for money but the consistent whining about financial problems really burns a hole in your ears.
I would like to add I don’t fit the monger stereotype. Late 20s, excellent shape. My eyes are open and I see PI for what it really is I just moved her 6 months ago. It amazes me how some guys live here for years on end and still live in a dream world. What ever they are smoking please pass that shit….
I truly don't know where this comes from! For me, the gold diggers have been the exception rather than the rule -- and that goes for both p4p and regular women. I've been dating Filipinas for 25 years now.
Is it possible you are chasing the wrong king of women? Do you find yourself attracted to women wearing flashy clothes and jewelry? Or maybe you are the one dressed like Mr. Moneybags?
Of course you already know that many of the Filipinas in Japan came over to work in the mizu shobai business. I have a Filipina friend in Tokyo -- seems like a great lady and she is. Her Japanese ex-husband is in prison.... These ladies often came from background not unlike those you meet in AC or Burgos.
D'etat, I would think you of all people would be the one to avoid overly negative stereotypes of an entire race of people.
D'etat's warning are valid, I'm not disagreeing with the advice not to send money. Nevertheless, I'm curious about why his experiences are so different than my own.
X
Continued from Angeles Thread.... http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?p=759570&posted=1#post759570
There it is again. Some guys think they are the only ones who know non-bar girl type in PI or other places. I have been around Filipinas in Dubai, Japan and in PI. The scenery changes but the game remains the same.
I had one friend in Dubai who was married and would still ask me to buy her stuff. One time I said don’t you think your husband will be upset by this? she goes oh “My husband is very happy with me.” One of my ole lady friends in Japan was married and was still milking Japanese guys out of Yen. Another friend of mine in Japan was single had two jobs clocking about $4000 a month and still was bleeding Japanese guys showing me her $3000 Cartier watch. It’s a dirty game.
The first Filipina I experienced about 4 years ago when I was green as a football field grass, when I did not know the P4P scene existed was a provincial girl. Early in the relationship she never asked for anything but then she started and it got to the point where she started lying to achieve her goal… it was not her I might add but family pressure till I finally told her to take a hike then she tried to commit suicide. It’s a fucked up world She now resides in New York with her newly wed husband.
There is one Nurse from Cebu I have been chatting with for last few months who I spent time with two months ago. She never asks for money but the consistent whining about financial problems really burns a hole in your ears.
I would like to add I don’t fit the monger stereotype. Late 20s, excellent shape. My eyes are open and I see PI for what it really is I just moved her 6 months ago. It amazes me how some guys live here for years on end and still live in a dream world. What ever they are smoking please pass that shit….
I truly don't know where this comes from! For me, the gold diggers have been the exception rather than the rule -- and that goes for both p4p and regular women. I've been dating Filipinas for 25 years now.
Is it possible you are chasing the wrong king of women? Do you find yourself attracted to women wearing flashy clothes and jewelry? Or maybe you are the one dressed like Mr. Moneybags?
Of course you already know that many of the Filipinas in Japan came over to work in the mizu shobai business. I have a Filipina friend in Tokyo -- seems like a great lady and she is. Her Japanese ex-husband is in prison.... These ladies often came from background not unlike those you meet in AC or Burgos.
D'etat, I would think you of all people would be the one to avoid overly negative stereotypes of an entire race of people.
D'etat's warning are valid, I'm not disagreeing with the advice not to send money. Nevertheless, I'm curious about why his experiences are so different than my own.
X
X I said I was going to ignore you and have been for the last few months but now you are ultimately calling me a racist and being Black that gets under my skin like a dirty syringe.
I have been in a relationship with a Japanese bred Filipina for the last two years. She is great woman that’s why I stick around. Her family is great also. She has a real estate mogul cousin based in Japan who got her start in those Hostess Clubs in Japan (You seem to know a lot about) who I get financial advice from and who helps me with my investment interest in PI. Every time I am in town a party is thrown at their expense for me.
Those girls and clubs in Japan are nothing like the bars in Manila and AC. The girls working in Japan earn a decent salary and they don’t have to fuck their customers. They do have to create an illusion of attraction which they are very skilled at for the most part.
There is no wrong type of women. The lines are blurred X especially in Asia. There simple those who work in the bar and those who don’t. At some point that financial burden of the family always pops up. I find it exceptionally hard to believe that you have not experienced any of this. In your opinion what makes a women a gold digger? If she allows you to fuck her for free and run off who is the winner and who is the loser in that situation?
I am simple stating to others and guys be warned. If you are looking for love its best to find it in a women with a career and her own money and not in a third world country where a women getting involved with you is the equivalent of her hitting the lottery.
X lets be respectful and not make innuendo comments about others being a racist until you got the facts. I am not painting with a wide brush.
I remember when I first started working Dubai all my Indian co-workers proclaimed all Filipina were *****s I debated against this profusely. I now know this not to be true but I realize that is what they experienced simple as that.
GoodEnough
06-27-08, 09:45
I once had a Dutch friend in Jakarta, married to an Indonesian, who, when I was still a naive and idealistic young man explained to me that the Asian and Western concepts of "love" had very little in common. While in the West it's all about a romantic ideal, and finding one's "soul mate," in Asia it's a hell of a lot more pragmatic and relates to financial security and perhaps furthering family or clan interests. I think that this may be one of the issues that D Etat is getting at here.
For many girls in the Philippines, particularly poor women, relationships are inextricably related to satisfying the utang na loob (the debt of the heart) imposed or precipitated by their families. Because of their circumstances--both economic and emotional--this obligation is paramount and satisfying the obligation takes money above all else. These women cannot afford to be overly romantic. They need to be practical.
This is not said in the way of judgment, but merely to comment on the existence of two very different value systems. Though it's possible, it's not very helpful to judge one in terms of the other. The westerner expects a woman to "love me for myself," whereas a Filipina, or a Thai, or an Indonesian knows that there are always other factors--often more important factors--to consider. Those westerners who cannot accept this basic, essential difference in perspective are probably not going to find many totally satisfying relationships here.
GE
Thank you for the thoughtful post.
I realize there is a grey area between stereotyping and racism, but I never accused you of being racist. I suggested that you were writing negative stereotypes.
Yes, I know that you are ethnically black -- I've known that since we first exchanged pm -- just as YOU know that I currently live in Japan. Why the innuendo?
So, the "(Filipina) girls in Japan are nothing like those in the Philippines". Okay, sorry, but I thought you were making the exact opposite assertion -- that they are all going to ask you for money. Once again we have a failure to communicate.
"gets under my skin like a dirty syringe". Are you quoting a rap song, or is that an original?
X
X I said I was going to ignore you and have been for the last few months but now you are ultimately calling me a racist and being Black that gets under my skin like a dirty syringe.
I have been in a relationship with a Japanese bred Filipina for the last two years. She is great woman that’s why I stick around. Her family is great also. She has a real estate mogul cousin based in Japan who got her start in those Hostess Clubs in Japan (You seem to know a lot about) who I get financial advice from and who helps me with my investment interest in PI. Every time I am in town a party is thrown at their expense for me.
Those girls and clubs in Japan are nothing like the bars in Manila and AC. The girls working in Japan earn a decent salary and they don’t have to fuck their customers. They do have to create an illusion of attraction which they are very skilled at for the most part.
There is no wrong type of women. The lines are blurred X especially in Asia. There simple those who work in the bar and those who don’t. At some point that financial burden of the family always pops up. I find it exceptionally hard to believe that you have not experienced any of this. In your opinion what makes a women a gold digger? If she allows you to fuck her for free and run off who is the winner and who is the loser in that situation?
I am simple stating to others and guys be warned. If you are looking for love its best to find it in a women with a career and her own money and not in a third world country where a women getting involved with you is the equivalent of her hitting the lottery.
X lets be respectful and not make innuendo comments about others being a racist until you got the facts. I am not painting with a wide brush.
I remember when I first started working Dubai all my Indian co-workers proclaimed all Filipina were *****s I debated against this profusely. I now know this not to be true but I realize that is what they experienced simple as that.
Thank you for your insight GE -- I hadn't interpreted D'etat's post this way, but your angle seems to fit nicely with what he's said.
You didn't mention Japanese, but since I was married to one, I can confirm that even there the family unit, the "clan", does often take precedence -- especially when a spouse is a foreigner. As soon as the baby is born, many husbands calll their wives "momma" and wives call their husbands "papa". Yuck!
I've heard the term "utang na loob" before, but wanted to read up on the subject. I found the web site below -- which is good, but very basic. If anyone has any other web sites or books to recommend about Filipino behavior / society / culture, please share.
http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/philculture/filipino_society_culture.html
X
I once had a Dutch friend in Jakarta, married to an Indonesian, who, when I was still a naive and idealistic young man explained to me that the Asian and Western concepts of "love" had very little in common. While in the West it's all about a romantic ideal, and finding one's "soul mate," but in Asia it's a hell of a lot more pragmatic and relates to financial security and perhaps furthering family or clan interests. I think that this may be one of the issues that D Etat is getting at here.
For many girls in the Philippines, particularly poor women, relationships are inextricably related to satisfying the utang na loob (the debt of the heart) imposed or precipitated by their families. Because of their circumstances--both economic and emotional--this obligation is paramount and satisfying the obligation takes money above all else. These women cannot afford to be overly romantic. They need to be practical.
This is not said in the way of judgment, but merely to comment on the existence of two very different value systems. Though it's possible, it's not very helpful to judge one in terms of the other. The westerner expects a woman to "love me for myself," whereas a Filipina, or a Thai, or an Indonesian knows that there are always other factors--often more important factors--to consider. Those westerners who cannot accept this basic, essential difference in perspective are probably not going to find many totally satisfying relationships here.
GE
GoodEnough
06-27-08, 14:44
I know that group well as I've belonged to it for a while. It's okay. The best explanation I found on the subject was written by a Philippine Sociologist from Ateneo de Manila, but I forget the title. I may still have it and I will try to find it and cite it.
I think that literally translated the term means something like "debt of the heart," or perhaps of the soul. It's a feeling of almost absolute obligation that a child owes to his or her parents the the privilege of being born. Somehow or another, the "utang" extends to the entire family. That's the concept as I understand it but I'm sure my understanding is imperfect as it is of so many aspects of this culture.
Thank you for the thoughtful post.
I realize there is a grey area between stereotyping and racism, but I never accused you of being racist. I suggested that you were writing negative stereotypes.
Yes, I know that you are ethnically black -- I've known that since we first exchanged pm -- just as YOU know that I currently live in Japan. Why the innuendo?
So, the "(Filipina) girls in Japan are nothing like those in the Philippines". Okay, sorry, but I thought you were making the exact opposite assertion -- that they are all going to ask you for money. Once again we have a failure to communicate.
"gets under my skin like a dirty syringe". Are you quoting a rap song, or is that an original?
X
Yes I am saying the Filipinos I have met in various locations solicit money from would be individuals. In Japan and Dubai the Filipinas are brash and in most cases sophisticated. They will on the other hand fleece you if you are green for much more then the girls in PI.
Now how they differ is that to get their pussies it requires more then just being a damn foreigner, cell phone and a trip to SM which is what I am finding to be all that is required in PI. So tell me X if not the money that’s attracting the girls in PI to you what is it? You live in Japan so did I. There over 500,000 Filipinas in Japan. So why do you waste the airfare? Come on man be straight with the board.
You caught me red-handed..quoting a rap song bruh...
D'etat
My original post suggested that you were making negative stereotypes. You don't seem to have addressed the topic, but somehow are asking me to prove myself in some way that I don't understand. In good faith, I'll try to answer...
I have my plate full with Japanese women at the moment, so why do I spend money on going to the Philippines? That wasn't your exact question, but close enough. And a good question it is....I've often asked it myself. This money could be put in the bank or used for other purposes!!! Maybe I'm one of those guys to belong in the sexaholic therapy groups! I might be having great sex with a stunning woman, but the excitement of another woman the next night is rather compelling.
Okay, why do I go to the Philippines. Well, the women in the Philppines are a bit younger, cuter, than the ones I date in Japan. I have to admit I like the wham, bam, thanku mam scenario that comes so easy in the Philippines with the p4p. Some of the guys here on this list have wives and they go to the Philippines for some R&R. What is there to explain.....the grass is always greener....
I also love going to the Philippines because I can get around a bit very cheaply, take some pictures, I can speak English to most everyone... I even meet a few blokes that I've met here at ISG. I can honestly say that of the top 10 Philippine posters at ISG, I've met four. I'm not counting CebuLocal, who I only talked to on the phone, and has sadly disappeared from the ISG boards.
I've also enjoy meeting regular Filipina women ...a bit of cultural exchange...sometimes things more intimate. I seduced a dentist in Japan and I did it in Philippines too. The Filipina was a lot cuter though.
Basically, it's holiday with some damn good sex involved. Why am I answering this question? What is the question?
Yes I know my 1st world income gives me some advantages in the 3rd world. That wasn't the topic. I think your original assertion was that Filipinas anywhere and everywhere will be hitting you up for money. That is not my experience.
Anyway, looking forward to your posts in the future.
X
So tell me X if not the money that’s attracting the girls in PI to you what is it? You live in Japan so did I. There over 500,000 Filipinas in Japan. So why do you waste the airfare? Come on man be straight with the board.
You caught me red-handed..quoting a rap song bruh...
This is question better put to a Filipino lawyer. Pay the money for a consultation but get good references on an honest lawyer.
Trust me, I'm a lawyer.
I seems like every post of yours has you stating what you do for a living. I am the president of the United States and do you hear me bragging?
Just post your comments and rid of your status buddy!
Puerto La Cruz
06-30-08, 10:26
I seems like every post of yours has you stating what you do for a living. I am the president of the United States and do you hear me bragging?
Just post your comments and rid of your status buddy!
Duhhhhh, ever heard anybody joke?
There over 500,000 Filipinas in Japan. So why do you waste the airfare? Come on man be straight with the board.Having spent 5 years living in Japan and now living in the Philippines, Filipina's living abroad are very much different then those who have never left. If you want a Filipina in Japan, you have to be willing to pay and I am not talking about a BF, I am talking about spending big money and you have to compete with the rich Japanese. If it was the same here as in Japan, why would there be so many Japanese men here? When I was in Japan, I dated Japanese ladies, but IMHO nothing compares to Filipina’s in the Philippines.
Stay safe
Robb
Ace of Spades
06-30-08, 12:06
I have rrecently asked a Filipina to leave the bar. I will keep the name of the bar and the girl confidential.
This is my second trip to AC - I met the girl on my first trip about year ago. I am presently in AC. The girl in question has been working in the bar for 7 years -- she is not the best looking girl, but her heart makes up for lack of good looks.
The plan was that I would give her 8000 pesos a month to stay home and care for her mother and daughter. Meanwhile, she would provide me unlimited sexual services at any time--- In addition, we briefly discussed having her come to my country Canada, she is a US citizen because her father was in the US army and is in the process of getting her passport.
On Saturday 28th of June, the girl was supposed to see her Mammasun to collect her final pay and give the Mammasun an excuse to leave the bar. So far the girl has been no show. 3 days and counting. I have not go back to the girl in search of her. I sent a text message to her, but not reply.
The girl has always been consistent to this point, but a no show for several days is a bad sign. I am going to drop her and move on.
Need some advice.
I have rrecently asked a Filipina to leave the bar. I will keep the name of the bar and the girl confidential.
This is my second trip to AC - I met the girl on my first trip about year ago. I am presently in AC. The girl in question has been working in the bar for 7 years -- she is not the best looking girl, but her heart makes up for lack of good looks.
The plan was that I would give her 8000 pesos a month to stay home and care for her mother and daughter. Meanwhile, she would provide me unlimited sexual services at any time--- In addition, we briefly discussed having her come to my country Canada, she is a US citizen because her father was in the US army and is in the process of getting her passport.
On Saturday 28th of June, the girl was supposed to see her Mammasun to collect her final pay and give the Mammasun an excuse to leave the bar. So far the girl has been no show. 3 days and counting. I have not go back to the girl in search of her. I sent a text message to her, but not reply.
The girl has always been consistent to this point, but a no show for several days is a bad sign. I am going to drop her and move on.
Need some advice.
Take your own advice. It's over. Move on.
8000 pesos monthly for unlimited sexual services? She might be realizing that is not so good for her.
I have rrecently asked a Filipina to leave the bar. Need some advice.
As the long time member of ISG, 'Spam Hog' always proclaimed: "You can take the girl out of the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl".
Not a Pinay I would hazard. Thai??
Did you spend any time with that one?
Actually she is a door girl at a bar in AC. Last month I was into bar fining door girls but when I spotted this one, I had to laugh! She was very cool but not my type.
[QUOTE=Mattrick]As the long time member of ISG, 'Spam Hog' always proclaimed: "You can take the girl out of the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl".
There is truth to this truism, but it's too flippant. After a few months working in a bar, the habit of hustling becomes ingrained. Seven years, as mentioned below, is much too long. If you get her within her first few months of bar work, she can be re-trained to respect you.
Having spent 5 years living in Japan and now living in the Philippines, Filipina's living abroad are very much different then those who have never left. If you want a Filipina in Japan, you have to be willing to pay and I am not talking about a BF, I am talking about spending big money and you have to compete with the rich Japanese. If it was the same here as in Japan, why would there be so many Japanese men here? When I was in Japan, I dated Japanese ladies, but IMHO nothing compares to Filipina’s in the Philippines.
Stay safe
Robb
Man I know this already perhaps someone should convince the great X who only meets ladies of non-soliciting repute.
Anyone who regularly reads PI ISG and has more than a 3rd grade reading level knows that I never suggested anything of the sort.
X
Man I know this already perhaps someone should convince the great X who only meets ladies of non-soliciting repute.
D'etat,
I've included your earlier post below since you seem to have forgotten your original assertion. In response to that earlier post I expressed my surprise that a man of color would be so quick and easy with negative stereotypes of an entire race of people. GE then posted an interesting piece, which would have been a good place to move the topic. Instead...look at you!
Debating with you is pretty easy since you so obviously contradict yourself. But please try to restrain yourself from creating fiction that tries to make me look bad. You've done it several times, now.
Since you take any kind of disagreement or debate so personally, maybe you should go back to ignoring me.
X
I have been around Filipinas in Dubai, Japan and in PI. The scenery changes but the game remains the same.
I had one friend in Dubai an admin specialist who was married and would still ask me to buy her stuff. ***SNIP***
One of my ole lady friends in Japan was married and was still milking Japanese guys out of Yen. Another friend of mine in Japan was single had two jobs clocking about $4000 a month and still was bleeding Japanese guys showing me her $3000 Cartier watch. It’s a dirty game..
Fifty Fifty
07-01-08, 05:23
D'etat,
I've included your earlier post below since you seem to have forgotten your original assertion. In response to that earlier post I expressed my surprise that a man of color would be so quick and easy with negative stereotypes of an entire race of people. GE then posted an interesting piece, which would have been a good place to move the topic. Instead...look at you!
Debating with you is pretty easy since you so obviously contradict yourself. But please try to restrain yourself from creating fiction that tries to make me look bad. You've done it several times, now.
Since you take any kind of disagreement or debate so personally, maybe you should go back to ignoring me.
X
Yawn, Yawn, Fucking Yawn
Hi to all,
I guess its not about who has the biggest balls, the coolest lines or the most fancy outfit..its bout opinions and advice for filipinas...So lets get back to the topic guys and share good info ;-)
I havent seen my regular GF in AC for a while, cause I was busy with my other GF (yeah thats stress) now she txt me she is back to work today in Atlantis...So what can I do and say?? I dont want to support her, on the other hand I have to admit that I do care for her a bit...What Im trying to say, you have only 2 choices if you would like to have a GF from the bar...YOu take her out of the bar and support her, if not, she be back, cause thats the only thing she can do, spread her legs, bola2 and f..ckn guys..She wont start working in a factory if guys pay her 3k barfine and given her also 3k as a tip (yeah right, she just go with asian guys cause those id..ts pay that much and think it would be cool and keep the gurls staying and sticking to them/with them...au the contrary they will just f..ck some other guys when they back in their country..get real fellow asian mongers..get real!!!
So, one of the superstars is back in Atlantis, evrytime she is on stage, she get laserd to sit down with the customer....anyway...Im there at the weekend, lets see...as long as I have the cash I can f..ck whoever I want and like :)
Blink
Robbaf,
I've only dated one Filipina in Japan, and friends with two others. Only one had a background in the mizushobai business -- but even she doesn't seem to be especially fixated on money. I have heard some stories about the p4p Filipinas in Roppongi that seem to be after "big money" as Robbaf suggests.
I did meet a Filipina on the plane from MNL to Tokyo in the past year and we seemed to get on well and exchanged contact info. Unfortunately, she then pestered me to have dinner with her and then go with her to her "hostess" club. I declined.
Of course we then have the question about Filipinas in the Philippines who used to live in Japan. I've met a few of them -- one who was dancing in AC and another at Harry's in Ermita. They were a bit more worldlier than their colleagues, and could chat in Japanese, but not really so different considering their occupations.
DISCLAIMER: I am simply providing ancedotal info here, I am not trying to disagree with Robbaf. Nor is this post in any way meant to entertain the eternally "bored" 50/50 who of course has many interesting posts in the Filipinas sections -- NOT.
X
Having spent 5 years living in Japan and now living in the Philippines, Filipina's living abroad are very much different then those who have never left. If you want a Filipina in Japan, you have to be willing to pay and I am not talking about a BF, I am talking about spending big money and you have to compete with the rich Japanese. If it was the same here as in Japan, why would there be so many Japanese men here? When I was in Japan, I dated Japanese ladies, but IMHO nothing compares to Filipina’s in the Philippines.
Stay safe
Robb
Blackangst
07-02-08, 20:11
Hi to all,
I guess its not about who has the biggest balls, the coolest lines or the most fancy outfit..its bout opinions and advice for filipinas...So lets get back to the topic guys and share good info ;-)
I havent seen my regular GF in AC for a while, cause I was busy with my other GF (yeah thats stress) now she txt me she is back to work today in Atlantis...So what can I do and say?? I dont want to support her, on the other hand I have to admit that I do care for her a bit...What Im trying to say, you have only 2 choices if you would like to have a GF from the bar...YOu take her out of the bar and support her, if not, she be back, cause thats the only thing she can do, spread her legs, bola2 and f..ckn guys..She wont start working in a factory if guys pay her 3k barfine and given her also 3k as a tip (yeah right, she just go with asian guys cause those id..ts pay that much and think it would be cool and keep the gurls staying and sticking to them/with them...au the contrary they will just f..ck some other guys when they back in their country..get real fellow asian mongers..get real!!!
So, one of the superstars is back in Atlantis, evrytime she is on stage, she get laserd to sit down with the customer....anyway...Im there at the weekend, lets see...as long as I have the cash I can f..ck whoever I want and like :)
Blink
Depending on how serious you guys are (which doesnt sound like you are) girls can be pulled from the BF list. In other words, they LD only, and wont BF. This would have to be worked out with mamasan of course, but it has been done.
But, it sounds like you have a case of puppy love ;) So dont worry about it.
Depending on how serious you guys are (which doesnt sound like you are) girls can be pulled from the BF list. In other words, they LD only, and wont BF. This would have to be worked out with mamasan of course, but it has been done.
But, it sounds like you have a case of puppy love ;) So dont worry about it.
yes,
Its callled steady barfine or something like that..but who knows if she follow this one and I dont like that the bars are getting more money from me..in fact they got enough allready hahahaha..
To many gurls here to chose from...yes I think Im kinda sex sick...Im bored after 2 or 3 days....need then some time for my own and then Im intersted again or maybe into something new....
Best thing if you work in Manila or Metro Manila are the lunchs breaks...I just sit there and enjoy the view and mostly chose those places to eat where I can flirt with the wettress..if they have male waiters I run :D
Blink
Blackangst
07-03-08, 10:41
yes,
Its callled steady barfine or something like that..but who knows if she follow this one and I dont like that the bars are getting more money from me..in fact they got enough allready hahahaha..
To many gurls here to chose from...yes I think Im kinda sex sick...Im bored after 2 or 3 days....need then some time for my own and then Im intersted again or maybe into something new....
Best thing if you work in Manila or Metro Manila are the lunchs breaks...I just sit there and enjoy the view and mostly chose those places to eat where I can flirt with the wettress..if they have male waiters I run :D
Blink
Just remember not every guy is there to BF and fuck. There are days I just want to hang out with a pretty girl and chit chat. :) Most people think the idea of laying 2+ LD is crazy and youre getting ripped off...it aint so.
And BTW. As many here I read this board alot and I will preface my statement with two comments. First, obviously I dont know you, whether you work or not (you say you live in the PI), or retired; also, it very well could be your memory is shot to shit. That said, I am starting to think youre full of shit. After reading for a few weeks I notice a pattern: youre in two places at once. You'll make a post in the AC section about some great time you had the night before, then in the Makati or Manila thread you'll post about how you had a great time there. Your dates dont match up. Whether or not you realize it, you do it often.
Now, I couldnt care less. Like I said we dont know each other, and I admit having no beef with you. But I think youre full of shit. *shrug*
Carry on.
......And BTW. As many here I read this board alot and I will preface my statement with two comments. First, obviously I dont know you, whether you work or not (you say you live in the PI), or retired; also, it very well could be your memory is shot to shit. That said, I am starting to think youre full of shit. After reading for a few weeks I notice a pattern: youre in two places at once. You'll make a post in the AC section about some great time you had the night before, then in the Makati or Manila thread you'll post about how you had a great time there. Your dates dont match up. Whether or not you realize it, you do it often.
Now, I couldnt care less. Like I said we dont know each other, and I admit having no beef with you. But I think youre full of shit. *shrug*
Carry on.
Man you guys crack me up.....:)
Blackangst
07-03-08, 19:10
Man you guys crack me up.....:)
hahahahah *grin*
Just remember not every guy is there to BF and fuck. There are days I just want to hang out with a pretty girl and chit chat. :) Most people think the idea of laying 2+ LD is crazy and youre getting ripped off...it aint so.
And BTW. As many here I read this board alot and I will preface my statement with two comments. First, obviously I dont know you, whether you work or not (you say you live in the PI), or retired; also, it very well could be your memory is shot to shit. That said, I am starting to think youre full of shit. After reading for a few weeks I notice a pattern: youre in two places at once. You'll make a post in the AC section about some great time you had the night before, then in the Makati or Manila thread you'll post about how you had a great time there. Your dates dont match up. Whether or not you realize it, you do it often.
Now, I couldnt care less. Like I said we dont know each other, and I admit having no beef with you. But I think youre full of shit. *shrug*
Carry on.
oh well,
you bored today??
Me too :D, thats why I reply to this now..
First of all I dont party and post at the same time, Im not superman. I post when I have the time to do that..mostly during the week.
Yes, I live and work in the Philippines..so I can go to makati or manila whenever I like... I go to AC evry weekend..
Chit chat with gurls? Yes I do that before I ask them if they like to go barfine :D
Needless to say that if your in the Phils and youhave some cash, pussy aint much problem...However when in ac I rather talk to some of my "expatfriends" or "papasanfriends" then chit chat with some uneducated hooker....I go out and dine with gurls I find interesting , I have some regulars, one of them is working tonight again in Atlantis...but she wont go with you :D
if you say im full of shit, then just put me on ignore list or just skip my reports. It seems to me you know it all, so no problem for you to take any advise from me...
Today is friday, Im up to some lunch now and later I go to manila explore La cafe and edsa and Im sure I will have a helluvatime...even Im full of shit...
So, enuff of this pissing contest...back to the topic....filipina opinion and advise...dont get married, fuck around and have fun :)
Blink out
Blackangst
07-05-08, 04:05
oh well,
you bored today??
Me too :D, thats why I reply to this now..
First of all I dont party and post at the same time, Im not superman. I post when I have the time to do that..mostly during the week.
Yes, I live and work in the Philippines..so I can go to makati or manila whenever I like... I go to AC evry weekend..
Chit chat with gurls? Yes I do that before I ask them if they like to go barfine :D
Needless to say that if your in the Phils and youhave some cash, pussy aint much problem...However when in ac I rather talk to some of my "expatfriends" or "papasanfriends" then chit chat with some uneducated hooker....I go out and dine with gurls I find interesting , I have some regulars, one of them is working tonight again in Atlantis...but she wont go with you :D
if you say im full of shit, then just put me on ignore list or just skip my reports. It seems to me you know it all, so no problem for you to take any advise from me...
Today is friday, Im up to some lunch now and later I go to manila explore La cafe and edsa and Im sure I will have a helluvatime...even Im full of shit...
So, enuff of this pissing contest...back to the topic....filipina opinion and advise...dont get married, fuck around and have fun :)
Blink out
*shrug* doesnt matter to me man. I enjoy alot of your reports. I wouldnt go so far as to ignore you...I mean, why would I? You havent insulted me and I dont get emotional over a message board. I was simply pointing out your dates dont match up, and you are often in AC and Manila on the same day. Thats all.
Peace
Member #4647
07-05-08, 06:27
I'm in Manila and AC the same day all the time, its only a 2 hour bus ride.
[QUOTE=Mattrick]As the long time member of ISG, 'Spam Hog' always proclaimed: "You can take the girl out of the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl".
There is truth to this truism, but it's too flippant. After a few months working in a bar, the habit of hustling becomes ingrained. Seven years, as mentioned below, is much too long. If you get her within her first few months of bar work, she can be re-trained to respect you.Yes, I maintain such then as I do now. My first experience with bar girls began in 1970 in Vietnam, then in BKK on leave. That quote was from a crusty old first Sgt who had been in Vietnam for so many years he forgot all the guys who got sucked in (as opposed to off) by bar girls.
Yeah you can find a few good ones in the herd, MAYBE if you get one not too experienced YOU MIGHT be able to turn her around, but remember she has had 18 years or so of preconditioning and learning by example so IMHO the odds are against it. Also, recall that for a while I did PI work in the Phils and Thailand doing integrity checks, 100% fool around factor for BGs. And just because she is brand "new' at Fat ass Charlies go go shak in Angeles or wherever doesn''t mean she didn't work some little videoke in her home town, this is likely where and how she was recruited for the big city
Once they see how easy it is to make money, THEY NEVER STOP, remember they are human and that means they are subject ot the same foibles as other humans, greed etc and they are women, born with more intuition than we can muster in a life time.
Good luck
Billy
TrickyRick
07-10-08, 21:52
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bit
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bit
Hi,
I can only say one thing to you, or to evrybody in here..Once you started something its very hard to stop. Once you give money , she will expect it , cause she get used to it and yes...its NEVER be enough..
If you can afford it send her, make sure its the last, if not , just see what she do when you back, if she will cheat on you, she gonna do it , wether you going to send her money or not :D....needless to say that so many gurls around here bla bla bla....
Blink
Blink has already give you some good advice and I agree with the ornery bstrd.
You have a lot of strategies available to you...
hint that you have other women..."My firends invited me to abc island so I will have only a few days to visit you at xyz island".
Just stop sending messages and eventually state that you've been busy at work.
Claim that your busines failed and can she send you 1000 pesos from WU.
Goood luck.
x
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bit
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bitI've being a long time reader of this board I must say y would you send a girl you are not interested in money my wife is from the filippines thats the only girl I sent money cus I knew I would marry her and I did but to test her then I had her send me money and she she did anyway were happly married for 2 yrs now and so far so good.
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bit
Once you start giving some Filipinas money it’s like a turning on a faucet that becomes a mighty river :) Don't send money man some of them act like they need it and they can't do without it. Most of the time it’s a scam. Ask yourself this one question how were they getting "along" before you came into the picture?
GoodEnough
07-12-08, 04:40
If you really like this girl, and you really want to help her, you can continue to send her money, but you have to establish the rules and stick to them. First, decide if you want to continue to help her. If the answer is in the affirmative, then you decide how much and when. Explain to her then that you will send her x amount on a given day each month, or whatever you decide the period should be and then explain that this is all she will get. Stick rigidly and without exception to the rules that you've established.
This may or may not be a scam. The simple fact is that, at least in my experience, Filipinas in general are awful at managing money. They're impulse buyers; they do not plan, and as long as they have money in their pockets, they will spend it, on "stuff," on their families or whatever. Don't reinforce their poor financial management habits by indulging any requests and stick to your own rules. She will eventually adjust, once she realizes that you're serious and that she ain't getting any additional funds other than what you promised her.
GE
...................Ask yourself this one question how were they getting "along" before you came in the picture?Good one, I like it.
Whatever you start out with, they will up the ante. Don't forget, all us gringo's have to do is walk out the back yard every morning, look to the skies and the money starts pouring down into our open hands, LOL. You know that, I know that, they know that, LOL.
Start very low and stay there.
On arrival in Phils you can lash out and buy big items for them. Clothes, pay back bill, whatever rocks your boat. Buy the items, do not hand over bundles of cash, there is always cock fighting, casino, cards, blah blah, blah for them to blow your hard earned cash on, LOL. No clue in managing money, most probably cause they never have it, LOL.
I have meet a Filipina on cb 2 yrs ago. In those 2 yrs we have emailed each other countless times. I have seen her in person 4 times as friends only and taken her and her child to enchated kingdom. Starting in Jan 08 I have become more serious with her. In the yrs I have chatted I sent her money for christmas in dec 06 4000 peso. She has never asked or bugged me for money. In March 08 I gave her 10, 000 peso for her birthday and then the next month 7, 000 for her child for school supplies. Then again I gave her 9, 0000 peso on jul 08 and told her thats all till oct. 2 weeks after I gave the 9, 000 she says it won't last till oct. Now 9, 000 may not be all that much but she has lived without my help this long why now she wanting more. My guess cause I now her bf and I call her weekly and chat with her on webcam. I think I should not give her anymore till I come to see her in October. What is all your guys opinon?
1) Did not meet her in a bar
2) Didn't bug me for money and now hints a bit
Go for what you know. Or as they say in PI "Up to you." No concerns at all its only money. Thats really not important.
Flying Saucer
07-12-08, 12:50
I guess reading TrickyRick‘s post made me want to tell my story. I support a family in Quezon City. Why? I mean I understand the rules of the Philippines quite well and have spent a lot of time there. Yes, I have had lots of friends there and still make a lot of nice new friends there.
But. A couple years ago I met a girl on P. Burgos and now I support her folks and sisters. Wait? You are already to reply and call me countless unspeakable names.
So I had to camp out for ten hours in the 88, the Internet Café on Burgos. I came out all bleary eyed and tired. It was maybe nine at night. I camped out at Makati Palace. I like standing here because I can see the girls who congregate at Makati Palace and those who hang just south of the 7-11. A good view of the street (and not too close to the lady boys).
Two girls walk over and camp out near me in front of Makati Palace. Along comes a third girl and grabs half of original too and drags her off. So now there is on girl in front of Makati Palace. Guy 1 comes up to talk to her. She shakes her head. Guy 2, same thing, Guy 3, same thing, Guy 4, same thing. She seems to be upset. I don’t mean cornball Filipina over the top with drama upset. I mean scared.
So I ask what’s wrong. She says (drum roll please), "All these guys keep asking me how much for sex. " Okay right now most of you have fallen off your chairs with laughter. I point out, "You are standing in front a well know pick up spot for prostitutes. " She looks me dead in the eye and say, "I did not know. This is my first time to Makati. " So I figure she is a province girl. I ask where she is from. She say, "Quezon City". Okay. For those of you who do not know Metro Manila well. QC (Quezon City) is a long town just a couple miles North of Makati. This basically means she is a poor girl likely from the north of QC (yeah, I guessed this right).
So the conversation fades. Another guy approaches. Another guy. She stressed. So finally I say, "Look if you stand next to me they won’t talk to you. " We chat and I invite her to 7-11 (the one on the north end of the street) for soda. I figure it would be better to get her towards the Korean end of things.
Her story. Her moth is sick. She needs $200 and her friend took her to Burgos to be a prostitute. It’s her first time. Okay, so I DO NOT believe it. But she was really scared. So I ask her to McDonald’s. She comes with me back to down to Jupiter and Makati Ave. And we eat. We talk. I get a bit more of the story. She is young. Her friend was pulled away to be with an guy in a hotel. She panicked and couldn’t go through with it. She was standing there waiting for her friend to finish in the hotel because she did not want to go home alone at night.
She has not asked me for money. She just told me how she got to Burgos and why.
So we talk and she asks to go back to my hotel. We make love. Very sweet. Very loving. In the morning. She wakes up before me, showers and leaves. I have to chase her down the hall to give her 500 Pesos. She asks what it is for. I say cab fare. She is hesitant and takes the money. So I see her ever day. Every day I gave her 500 pesos for cab fare (cab fare is about 150 each way to it is only 200 extra over the cost of a cab). She never once asks for money.
I am about to go back home. I invite her to Makati. I give her the $200. Yes, I believe her story. A big part of me doesn’t trust her. But I don’t think she was acting. She was scared on Burgos and had no reason to think up this elaborate game to get the money.
On my next trip her parents wanted to meet me. They are poor. I mean 7 people in an 8 by 8 foot sleeping area. Dad makes 5000 a month. They give me whisky. They give me soda. The uncles and cousins all stop by (there are like 40 people) and I am "the big news. " They all live on the same block.
So we made a contract. She finishes school and does not get pregnant (hey – it’s not the greatest contract but I wanted to be fair to her). I check her grades, etc. So I pay for things like dentist, etc. (her parents are mid-30’s and have no teeth) because when she graduates. Good teeth means a job. I send her sisters to a private school (yes, I get receipts). Etc. I have a company admin who pays the school directly.
I think she is exclusive to me. I don’t think she works as a hooker. Her story has too many truths in it. Heck, I’ve even helped her with homework, etc. Because she has to do homework when she stays over now.
So I think I kept a girl of Burgos. She claims to love me, wants to marry, me, etc. I told her to graduate and we’d talk. I’m 25 years older than she is. So maybe I can save her and her sisters from being Burgos girls – then again. Maybe I am an idiot.
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Ok guys,
So I have been so confused about the filipina that I went all the way back to the first post of this thread and started reading from the beginning. Where I once was full of optimism, I am now down. It is a bummer to read about all the negative things that happened to guys when they married a filipina.
I have only been to Philippines twice now. One thing I know, these chicks make my dick hard. I was married when I was 21, and she was 20. Hawaiian/filipina, raised in Hawaii. I am a white guy, very good looking, and in good shape. It did not work out, but I think mainly because we were both very young and changed over time, but not together. We were only married 3 years. One of the things I regret is not having any children. I wanted to wait until I was out of college and we were better off before having kids. She did not think so, and eventually we grew apart.
Now I am 39, still good looking by many standards, still in shape, bald, and very well off by American standards. I am going to retire in a few years, and will probably not retire in America. I have several properties in Hawaii and was going to settle there, but now am thinking about the PI. I like to surf and play golf, and like the summer weather. Any suggestions about PI?
Can anyone provide me with any positive reasons for marrying a filipina? Seems like many on this site are jaded. Like I said, now I am kinda down. Also, for the first time my honey ko asked me for money last night, and I said I could not get the money to her in time. Her response, "Have you heard of WU there? " Also, her brother just got shot and is in the hospital. Yea. Haven't heard that one before. So, looks like she is finished. Haven't heard from her since I said no to the money (last night).
I just want to find a nice girl to take care of the house and me and provide me with some kids. Is this at all possible? Or am I living in a dream world? Why do all the expats live in PI? Is it just to fuck girls or are some really comfortable?
I am on FH, and finally turned off my profile due to all the crazy emails I get.
Guys, weigh in on the subject, I look forward to reading the responses.
Aloha,
Carmex
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Carmex, you have to remember that people using a web site like this are less likely to be happily married -- more likely happily divorced like myself. And I think it is natural for guys to share the horror stories so that people like you (and me -- I'm still learning) go into a relationship with some smarts. It's like a newspaper -- they sensationalize bad news. Good news..., well, that's not news!
Since you've read way back, you've probably come across posts by GoodEnough and SpamHog -- both are in long term relationships and seem happy. Get your advice from these guys, if possible. I remember a great piece of advice from SH. A 22 year old girl still doesn't know what she will do with her life. Better off to chase the 29 yr old. She's been around the block, knows what she wants, knows her limitations, etc,. (my apologies to SH for my liberal use of paraphrasing).
It seems the odds are much more in your favor if you keep a Filipina spouse in the Philippines.
My own experience is that Men and women are different enough, hooking up with someone of a different culture may be fun in the beginning, but can cause problems down the road. Try to learn more about Phil culture. And when you get into a spat with a significant other, don't assign blame to the cultural/nationality differences. Miscommunications and misunderstandings can
be corrected. Your culture and nationality cannot be changed.
I think you can find a keeper in the Philippines, but follow the good advice you find her at ISG. Bar girls/ cam girls are probably good for fun, but not marriage. There are many exceptions though. Don't be overly generous, especially if you haven't met the person. And whatever you do, don't tell Filipinos that you're "well off" as you have done here at ISG.
X
Ok guys,
So I have been so confused about the filipina that I went all the way back to the first post of this thread and started reading from the beginning. Where I once was full of optimism, I am now down. It is a bummer to read about all the negative things that happened to guys when they married a filipina.
I have only been to Philippines twice now. One thing I know, these chicks make my dick hard. I was married when I was 21, and she was 20. Hawaiian/filipina, raised in Hawaii. I am a white guy, very good looking, and in good shape. It did not work out, but I think mainly because we were both very young and changed over time, but not together. We were only married 3 years. One of the things I regret is not having any children. I wanted to wait until I was out of college and we were better off before having kids. She did not think so, and eventually we grew apart.
Now I am 39, still good looking by many standards, still in shape, bald, and very well off by American standards. I am going to retire in a few years, and will probably not retire in America. I have several properties in Hawaii and was going to settle there, but now am thinking about the PI. I like to surf and play golf, and like the summer weather. Any suggestions about PI?
Can anyone provide me with any positive reasons for marrying a filipina? Seems like many on this site are jaded. Like I said, now I am kinda down. Also, for the first time my honey ko asked me for money last night, and I said I could not get the money to her in time. Her response, "Have you heard of WU there? " Also, her brother just got shot and is in the hospital. Yea. Haven't heard that one before. So, looks like she is finished. Haven't heard from her since I said no to the money (last night).
I just want to find a nice girl to take care of the house and me and provide me with some kids. Is this at all possible? Or am I living in a dream world? Why do all the expats live in PI? Is it just to fuck girls or are some really comfortable?
I am on FH, and finally turned off my profile due to all the crazy emails I get.
Guys, weigh in on the subject, I look forward to reading the responses.
Aloha,
Carmex
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So we talk and she asks to go back to my hotel. We make love. Very sweet. Very loving. In the morning. Because she has to do homework when she stays over now.
So I think I kept a girl of Burgos. She claims to love me, wants to marry, me, etc. I told her to graduate and we’d talk. I’m 25 years older than she is. So maybe I can save her and her sisters from being Burgos girls – then again. Maybe I am an idiot.
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Not trying to sound condescending but dude she met you on a street corner talked to you for a couple of minutes then went back to your hotel room alone and fucked you? This is not typical “good girl” Filipina behavior bruh. Most Filipina I have met would not even spend one day with me alone until they got to know me. Man you sound happy so I don't want to rain on your parade. As long as you are happy that is all that is important.
Ok guys,
So I have been so confused about the filipina that I went all the way back to the first post of this thread and started reading from the beginning. Where I once was full of optimism, I am now down. It is a bummer to read about all the negative things that happened to guys when they married a filipina.
I have only been to Philippines twice now. One thing I know, these chicks make my dick hard. I was married when I was 21, and she was 20. Hawaiian/filipina, raised in Hawaii. I am a white guy, very good looking, and in good shape. It did not work out, but I think mainly because we were both very young and changed over time, but not together. We were only married 3 years. One of the things I regret is not having any children. I wanted to wait until I was out of college and we were better off before having kids. She did not think so, and eventually we grew apart.
Now I am 39, still good looking by many standards, still in shape, bald, and very well off by American standards. I am going to retire in a few years, and will probably not retire in America. I have several properties in Hawaii and was going to settle there, but now am thinking about the PI. I like to surf and play golf, and like the summer weather. Any suggestions about PI?
Can anyone provide me with any positive reasons for marrying a filipina? Seems like many on this site are jaded. Like I said, now I am kinda down. Also, for the first time my honey ko asked me for money last night, and I said I could not get the money to her in time. Her response, "Have you heard of WU there? " Also, her brother just got shot and is in the hospital. Yea. Haven't heard that one before. So, looks like she is finished. Haven't heard from her since I said no to the money (last night).
I just want to find a nice girl to take care of the house and me and provide me with some kids. Is this at all possible? Or am I living in a dream world? Why do all the expats live in PI? Is it just to fuck girls or are some really comfortable?
I am on FH, and finally turned off my profile due to all the crazy emails I get.
Guys, weigh in on the subject, I look forward to reading the responses.
Aloha,
Carmex
EDITOR'S NOTE: I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?) for more information.
Marriage is a crap shoot with Filipinas or any other woman from any where in the world. If those two involved don’t work at it every single day it just isn’t going to work.
I am not marriage material at this point in my life though I have been in a steady relationship for the last two years... I can’t stay away from the Go-Gos.
If you think you are still going to want to hit the clubs and bars from time to time I would say don’t waste your time. Marriage in my opinion is an archaic institution and is not required to father a child and most Filipinas would jump at the chance to have a child by a foreigner especially an American.
If Filipinas are your thing for the long haul search out one with a college education who has other things on her mind other then the latest fashions and cars. When the lust stops the only thing left is her mind.
Pocket Sushi
07-13-08, 07:39
Carmex, just like anywhere else there are both good and bad girls in the Philippines. I know a couple of guys that are happily married to Filipinas. I also know quite a few more that have had horrible relationships with them. The difference is the 2 that had success both married educated women with a career (one is a pediatrician, the other a Realtor) while the others all hooked up with bargirls.
So many guys make the mistake of going to the PI and falling for these girls they meet in the bars, online or even in FL places like LA Cafe. And why not? They are sexy, sweet and treat you like gold. They blow the women back home away and make you feel like a King. Well, these women are prostitutes and make their living having sex for money. They do everything in their power to make you feel euphoric because that is their best shot at reeling you in. They know Western men are conditioned to be chivalric and sympathetic towards women and they fully exploit this. Requests for money start along with the sob stories why they need the cash. The Westerner thinks, "It's only a little bit of money to me but it will help her so much" and stupidly starts sending money. Or he thinks sending her money will enable her to quit working in a bar.
Dumb, dumb, dumb. These women might not have went to a university but that doesn't make them ignorant. THIS is how they make their living and it always ends badly for the guy who gets caught up in this cycle. Bargilrs, cam girls & FL's are all prostitutes. Would you pay for sex in your home country and then start sending the girl you just met money? Would you want to make a prostitute in your home country your girlfriend? Probably not but so many guys lose all their common sense after going to th PI and falling for these girls and their charms.
If you are going to retire in the Phils someday you will have the time to find a good educated girl that doesn't work in the sex industry. Someone that can be your partner in life and not a sponge that you will always have to financially support for the rest of your life. I love bargirls for what they are. Instant bliss and gratification. They are not the kind of person I want to make a life partner with no more than I would seek out a crack ho back home.
Plus these girls in the bars and online have so many suitors and guys chasing them all the time. The attention they get is like a drug and they become addicted to it. Do you think a girl thats been having sex with 5 guys a week is suddenly going to become the perfect monogamous Mrs. And stay home to bake cookies and clean the house? Here's a perfect example of how that will work out for you: I met a girl in Subic back in April working in a bar. I kept in contact with her via email just in case I decided to BF her again on my trip this month. If a girl is exceptional in bed I sometimes BF them again on subsequent trips if they are still around. I sent her an email a couple days ago telling her I'll be there next week and might drop by to have some drinks and barfine her. She emails me back saying she has a boyfriend now who is supporting her and no longer works in the bar. I email back telling her good luck and I'm happy for her but sad we'll never meet again. Her response back: "Its ok honey. He not here now I still want meet you. I come your hotel. Tell me where you stay. "
I knew another girl in AC that had 6 different guys sending her money every month. All of them thought she had quit working in the bar but she kept fucking guys for money. Myself included. LOL. She had enough cash from her 6 boyfriends to quit the bar but she told me she simply liked working as a bargirl.
Marriage is still a crapshoot even if you find a good educated girl from a nice family. But your chances for success increase exponentially if you marry someone who wasn't a prostitute. The old saying goes, You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl. Wise words. And yes I do know there might be exceptions, but do you want to start romancing a bargirl hoping that you might be the exception? The odds are low Bro.
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GoodEnough
07-13-08, 07:47
I cannot disagree with anything D Etat has said. Marriage is archaic and perhaps never made much sense and any long-term relationship, with a Filipina or with anyone else is pretty much of a crap shoot. However, I would add that you will increase the odds substantially if you forget about the internet sites, come over here, take a few weeks, and try to meet some women who meet whatever your criteria are. The best bet (my opinion only) is to meet some expats with more or less the same socio-economic background as yours, and have their wives/partners introduce you to friends. Filipinas are natural match makers, and you're more likely this way to find a women who is consistent with what you need. At least the search will be less random and better focused and in the process, you'll probably meet a range of fairly interesting and good looking women.
I met a 18 year old from Mindanao on DIA. After chatting for couple of months
she said she will meet me in Manila if I send her the ticket.
I sent her the the money to buy a ticket $120 U.S. round trip on Cebu Pacific.
My hopes were not there that she will come. Anyway I would have chalked it to bad experience.
Lo and behold she sends me the confirmation of the ticket. I met her at the airport and brought her to my hotel.
She said she is a virgin and she was not lying. We had a great time together with lots of sex day and night. It is as if the dam is opened. she wanted it all the time.
Lovely girl. did not ask me for money. But I bought her a new cell phone and
some clothes . Total damages about $400, not including food. She do not drink so no going to the bars. Pretty much a stay at home type.
As usual she wanted long time relationship. But I had told her right from the begining I am not the marrying kind. Now she is insisting on me to stay with her whenever I am in PHI. Future will tell.
Yea, I agree, marriage is an old institution. The wanting to get married is probably just my parents talking before having a baby. Don't get me wrong fellas, my last 8 days in Manila, Subic, and AC were a blur of fucking different girls. I picked up three from LA Cafe only 8 hours before my flight back home. All looked great, but only one was really any good at fucking.
My other issue is the marriage material ones I met were not that hot. The ones with real jobs, college education, no kids, good family, etc. But the hot chicks I met at Robinsons, LA Cafe, and Havana Club in Makati, were all p4p type. I think I will head down to Cebu next for a few weeks and hang out like X recommended.
Umm, about the "well off" thing, these chicks can just smell money. I don't know how they do it. Like guys being desperate to get laid in the US. I am originally from Hawaii, so everything is surf shorts, t shirt, and flip flops. Guess I won't stay at the Hyatt Casino anymore. Sure do like it though. Anyway, thanks for the responses and I will check out SH and other posts.
Aloha,
Carmex
If your into marriage, then yes, best keep away from Internet, better bet is meet through regular Filipino people.
Better chance of meeting a regular girl, who will become most irregular in bed, in time.
The ready made sex machines are a higher risk marriage wise. Most, if not all Philippine girls are red hot sex machines awaiting to be awoken. Anyway, my experience over many years.
Marriage? You must be daft, lol.
YES! Pros in the country where I make my home make a helluva lot more money than I do.
Great post Sushi.
X
Would you want to make a prostitute in your home country your girlfriend?
I know, I know, who wants to get married when there is just so much pussy out there. I pretty much planned on still mongering, for at least another 20 years or so. I was under the impression that you had to be married to a filipina, born in Philippines, to own property in PH. And if you can build a pretty nice home for little money, and cost of living is cheap, then why not retire there? Continously fucking 18-20 yo chicks and living good on little money sounds pretty good to me. Now all I got to do is find a place with a surf break and golf course and the plan will start.
I guess the other part is the jealousy factor. My buddy from Thailand says fooling around is more tolerable in Thai, but not in PH. As he put it, "A filipina is going to cut your ass! "
Still just gathering information to be able to make an informed decision. This site is awesome! Wish I could access at work.
Carmex
I think she is exclusive to me. I don’t think she works as a hooker. Her story has too many truths in it. Heck, I’ve even helped her with homework, etc. Because she has to do homework when she stays over now.
So I think I kept a girl of Burgos. She claims to love me, wants to marry, me, etc. I told her to graduate and we’d talk. I’m 25 years older than she is. So maybe I can save her and her sisters from being Burgos girls – then again. Maybe I am an idiot.
That is a great story man. I think you are right, she is not a working girl and she sounds like a keeper.
I would like to help you out. Could I get her number so I can go by and "check" on her for you! Just kidding, if someone doesnt bust your balls you will think we are laughing at you.
Hi to all,
FS,read your post...some things allready said..and you wont hear much more news from me...the only thing I can tell you is, seeing is believing...thats what I learned..and the other thing is , while you not around its natural she will look for some other guys, pinoy guys are allways around..you not..:D
Finding a wife, dont go to burgos and look for that..go there for fun..even all the gurl wana marry you..same like the wana marry me or anyone else from the western world..If it makes you happy, dont listen to the guys here, I mean what do they know ....some of them livn here like me, but DONT LISTEN TO THEM!!! joke...
IN other words, you have to learn your lesson , hope you wont spend that much money on her..and I hope you realize if you not be around you dont knw whats going on..
Carmex, you far away from getting married..so enjoy the Philippines, If you psycho that all gurls wants your money I can assure you ..YES!! they all do, with that said you know why IM single and NOT getting MArried in the nearest future :D
The only problem Im facing now, is where to meet my mistress...I think its ok to meet them in a nice hotel, keep your place as a refugium and let only those people in, you feel comfortable with :) Maybe that answers some of your questions...as for finding a wife, make contacts with expats and let them introduce you to some Girls, mostly gurls with a job...As Im sitting here in my office and typing this I found myself amount 30 filipinas or so..all with university degree and some from wealthy familys, some not, some hot, some not..but thats the place where you should get started..Like I mentioned in my earlier posts..start with mall gurls , office gurls and then move up to the management :D
Its raining again and I didnt had lunch, Guess I have to go to my favoured place..Burger king..2 hot gurls there, 2 who broke up with their boyfriend :D and all the other male staff from BK are mostly Baklas what a nice wolrd we live in
LG Life is good
Blink
I know, I know, who wants to get married when there is just so much pussy out there. I pretty much planned on still mongering, for at least another 20 years or so. I was under the impression that you had to be married to a filipina, born in Philippines, to own property in PH. And if you can build a pretty nice home for little money, and cost of living is cheap, then why not retire there? Continously fucking 18-20 yo chicks and living good on little money sounds pretty good to me. Now all I got to do is find a place with a surf break and golf course and the plan will start.....Carmex
PI has some of the most draconian real-estate laws I have ever seen. Even if you are married you still can’t own property besides a condo and you can never get citizenship it’s ironic since most Filipinos try like hell to go another country and get citizenship. How about that? No need to get married to fullfill your dreams...
Cunning Stunt
07-16-08, 04:27
PI has some of the most draconian real-estate laws I have ever seen. Even if you are married you still can’t own property besides a condo and you can never get citizenship it’s ironic since most Filipinos try like hell to go another country and get citizenship. How about that? No need to get married to fullfill your dreams...
Your right D, but this applies to most SE Asian countries (i.e Thailand for one). Guess its a throwback to colonial times (?Thailand?) which has induced a fear of post imperialist empire building (or something).
You can have your name inserted on the title deeds but this is probably just a cosmetic exercise and is of little worth in legal terms. GH
hi,
told you guys..why you wana married when living here?
Give me a good reason..just one :D
Blink
hi,
told you guys..why you wana married when living here?
Give me a good reason..just one :D
Blink
Blink some men don't like to ***** around. Some can’t see themselves sleeping with prostitutes. It’s that simple. I slid down that slippery slope in Tashkent three years ago. As they say the rest is history :)
PI has some of the most draconian real-estate laws I have ever seen. Even if you are married you still can’t own property besides a condo and you can never get citizenship it’s ironic since most Filipinos try like hell to go another country and get citizenship. How about that? No need to get married to fullfill your dreams...
Carmex, I second D'Etat's statement. You might buy that house and live in it with her, but if the marriage goes bad and you separate, you will lose the house with no compensation because it was hers all along. If she happens to die first, you still can't inherit the house, her family can take it away from you. Again with no compensation. You cannot even form a corporation with your wife to own the house, they have that covered too. You may hear about that and other schemes to circumvent this law; all of them are losers in the end if a local wants to make a challenge.
So the deck is stacked against you. If you really trust your filipina, then sure go ahead. But if you cannot afford the possibility of losing the money that you put into the house, then you shouldn't buy it. If you still insist on buying property, buy a condo. Not much of an alternative, but at least it is in your name.
PI has some of the most draconian real-estate laws I have ever seen. Even if you are married you still can’t own property besides a condo and you can never get citizenship it’s ironic since most Filipinos try like hell to go another country and get citizenship. How about that? No need to get married to fullfill your dreams...
Actually, PH citizenship is formally attainable (after 5 or 10 yrs depending on circumstances).
As for owning property I'm sure the seasoned vets in this forum already know that property can be put in a PH corporation, which there are ways to de facto fully "own".
Flying Saucer
07-16-08, 21:21
I guess this is more of a warning than advice or opinion.
I need to share my worst experience in the Philippines. So I landed and setup up a lunch date with a DIA girl. Well. She took the photo at an odd angle. Didn’t think much of it until I saw her get out of the cab. Big girl. Really big. So I had been feeling sick (before I saw her).
I’m a nice guy. I took her to lunch. I could tell the staff was looking at us – like man this guy has odd taste. I can feel my fever kick in. I’m sick. She’s a nurse. So she says "Let me go back to your hotel. I’ll take care of you. Get you food, medicine, etc. "
Seemed like a reasonable idea. I get back to the hotel. I get in shorts and tee shirt and get in bed. She’s watching TV lying next to me (no biggie). She had already picked up some meds for me.
So I am half falling asleep. She asks if she can take a photo with her cell. I don’t care. She takes my photo. Then like hugs me and takes a joint photo. Then a kiss and a joint photo. The a web sloppy kiss and a joint photo. I’m just woozy with fever. She must have taken about six photos before I dawned on me – I’m going up on a MySpace page.
I’m lying there. Too sick to do anything.
Flying Saucer
07-16-08, 21:29
Yes, I posted a long winded report about my #1 girl in the Philippines. I am not delusion or under a spell. What I like about her is her honesty… case in point.
I ask, “Are there a lot of guys in school who like you?”
She laughs and says, “Too many.”
I have been around a lot of Filipina. The standard answer is “no, guys… I’d never noticed guys at school” or “No, none”. It is always some dodge or non-truth.
What I like about my #1 is she just says reality. Or this one:
I asked, “What do we have in common? I mean I’m 25 years older than you?”
She says, “Sex.”
I ask, “Anything else.”
She says, “No, just sex.”
Well, for all you guys that like to utter the phrase, " I told you so". Yup, have been home for about 1. 5 weeks now, and the money requests have been flowing like a river. Once I said no the first time, boom, no more emails, video chats, phone txt msg, etc. I called my sweet, innocent, non bar girl honey ko student last night and asked her if we got married how much money would I have to send her family every month? Answer-25, 000 pesos! Wow baby, (I said), big number. Do these people think we are drug king pins that can bribe the local DEA with cash payments every month? Because that is what it seems like to me.
So, ok. You guys were right. Everything I read on this site has come to fruition. Oh, and the girl I fell for down there, that I saw on my second trip, the one I was going to start supporting, (I figured it was like giving to UNICEF every month), yea, does the phrase "no money no honey" ring any bells to you? I feel like I just found out there is no Santa Claus. So, does this new realization take all the fun out of fucking *****s? Or does being better informed make it more fun? Going to CEBU next month so, will report on that later.
Oh, and to say it one more time, "you guys were right".
Carmex
Blink some men don't like to ***** around. Some can’t see themselves sleeping with prostitutes. It’s that simple. I slid down that slippery slope in Tashkent three years ago. As they say the rest is history :)
yes,
tired of them too, thats why I f..ck semi pros, students, working gurls..and if the hooker looks really good, why not I f..ck her too....:D
but still no reason mentioned why getting married to a filipina gurl...
So, I guess I keep on f..cking them and you guys keep on f..ing them in motels, or short time hotels, while you married, hehehehe....so, anybody can give a reason while getting married to a filipina while living here..
Shoot ur posts...
Blink
yes,
tired of them too, thats why I f..ck semi pros, students, working gurls..and if the hooker looks really good, why not I f..ck her too....:D
but still no reason mentioned why getting married to a filipina gurl...
So, I guess I keep on f..cking them and you guys keep on f..ing them in motels, or short time hotels, while you married, hehehehe....so, anybody can give a reason while getting married to a filipina while living here..
Shoot ur posts...
Blink
Blink ok you are not the marrying type. At this point in my life neither am I. But decent Filipinas for the most part make excellent wives if you can but up with the issues surrounding their families and the financial burden they tend to heap upon individuals. Some guys don't fuck around Blink it’s that simple. You are painting with a wide brush. A killer thinks everyone is a killer, a thief thinks everyone else is a thief. You should be able to understand the reason why guys marry Filipinas if you have experienced the "good girls" like you said. Me I love money first and foremost so relationships in this country which more then likely are parasitic in nature are just not my cup of tea…..
Hi,
Met a guy in swagman last weekend, he is married to a filipina and he is thinking about moving over here..Afer his wife left us guys alone, we talked about cialis, viagra and where to get the stuff when in Ac and if he wasnt married he would join me going to LA cafe bla bla bla...So , I still wonder, why getting married in the Philippines??
YOu can have a steady GF and maybe 3 or 4 mistress.Im also not fuc..ing around, just like to be alone when I want to and as of now I didnt meet any gurl I would consider to move together or getting married..Even a "10" is just a body, nothing else and after sex..what you do? what you talk?and even she is educacted...so many other around..so why getting married? :D
Traffic is a bi..ch, gouvernemtn is corrupt, I deal evry day on my work with idiots, but its ok, cause so many black pussycats here..Am I psychic? I think whats the point of getting married and then screw around behind her back?? I rather be totally frank, specially here...until now I dont see any point getting married here..
Blink
Hi,
Met a guy in swagman last weekend, he is married to a filipina and he is thinking about moving over here..Afer his wife left us guys alone, we talked about cialis, viagra and where to get the stuff when in Ac and if he wasnt married he would join me going to LA cafe bla bla bla...So , I still wonder, why getting married in the Philippines??
YOu can have a steady GF and maybe 3 or 4 mistress.Im also not fuc..ing around, just like to be alone when I want to and as of now I didnt meet any gurl I would consider to move together or getting married..Even a "10" is just a body, nothing else and after sex..what you do? what you talk?and even she is educacted...so many other around..so why getting married? :D
Traffic is a bi..ch, gouvernemtn is corrupt, I deal evry day on my work with idiots, but its ok, cause so many black pussycats here..Am I psychic? I think whats the point of getting married and then screw around behind her back?? I rather be totally frank, specially here...until now I dont see any point getting married here..
Blink
Blink I hear you talking or I see what you writing (that’s slang for I understand what you are saying and agree with 100) Why get married if you are just going to cheat? Great question. What I am saying though all cats don’t cheat. Some cats like being true and bare backing clean pussy now if those women are fucking around that’s another story. Some guys have a latent desire to be emotional attached and dominated by the opposite sex it’s that simple. Some guys are afraid to go at alone without a female dominating aspects of their life. Sounds like something to be considered for future study?
Hi,
yes agree with you D`etat..I guess I m the guy who doesnt want to get dominate by a women and like to do what he likes...on the other side, safer sex is also an aspect for me..Like said before, I screw hookers with condom and non bargurls, working gurls, etc without, after i know them better...my steady GF is a student, for her its bare back also. My steady hooker , now non working GF from AC, bare blowjobs and pussy eating, but condom for intercourse.Im now targeting two females from Burgos :D..one is a billboard dancer, just started...and one is a Bronx dancer (some disco on burgos) just started also...both are slim and tall and I like them both very much..
Maybe one day the right one walks in, but until now...Im still searching and Im on a experimental stage of my life...
Blink :)
Asian Western
07-22-08, 11:15
Well It took me 25 years to learn this but this is now my golden rule. Every filipina will hit on you for money for every emergency under the sun. So the way to get a good relationship is set the ground rules at the start. I say I will pay you for every time you spend with me. Like last night she came late (10pm) left early (6am) and we couldn't fuck because of her mens. So I gave her 1000 instead of usual 2500. But still it was nice for both of us. If she asks me for money I say come and see me and earn that money first then you can spend it on what you like. If you want a cell phone fine. Earn it first. Then don't get suckered when you go back home and have many requests for money. Make the ground rules straight before you leave. "If you want me back in your arms next time I am here then don't ask me for money". Also if you see a girl just once overnight then you should pay her 3000 but if the same girl comes 3 or 4 times a week then maybe only 2000 each time. Hope this helps. Its sure hard to resist sometimes but once they know the rules then there is no more hassle.
FreebieFan
07-22-08, 12:58
Earlier report about a DIA gurl whos a nurse and whos big with a pic htat was at an odd angle rang a bell.
I had one but can't remember her name, deleted some time back. But exactly that. Nurse, big etc. She had looked cute in the pic on DIA.
Arranged a meet in Burgos. She whined htat she lived in Manila. But I said take it or leave it. I had plan b. C, and d. And in fact had been to Sogo before I was going to meet her.
She said she was by 7. 11. Saw a ladyboy and a large gal there. Hmm. I phoned and she said thats where she was. Walked near. Got a look. Thought. Fuck, I can't do THAT. And carried on walking.
Pride myself as being a gentleman but hell no. That wasnt for me.
So if ts same one. Poor girl attracts the guys with her pics. But not with her figure. Hahah
Ok guys, been reading the last pages of this forum like a book I can't put down. I think now I am on page 68 or something around year 05. Very interesting to see the transformation all those on the board go through.
So, with talking with my buddy today about these chicks in PH. Basically, I have come to the conclusion that all women are *****s. Now, now, hear me out before I get flamed to extinction. I came to this conclusion very early in life, around 25 or so, and I just now remembered it clearly.
I was 25, just freshly divorced and with a wounded heart. I got married at 20 to my sweetheart, beautiful filipina/hawaiian who could not stand that I was gone so much in the Army. So, I get back to my hometown and it was like someone put out a billboard, "**** is back in town". Because all of a sudden I had girls calling me out of the blue I hadn't heard from in years. So, I pick up the phone and it is a girl Laurana, hot blond with a blond bush. I had to think to remember her, as I guess I f***ked her on a bathroom sink in some guys house at a kegger. (She reminded me). So we make a date and I go to pick her up and my old high school good friend answers the door! Hey! Buddy, how you been, so good to see you, etc. Then he asks what am I doing there, "pick up Laurana" I said. "What are you doing here? " I ask. "Laurana is my wife. " What? Just then Laurana walks down the stairs and says lets go. So in the car, I am like, "WTF? " And she tells me that my buddy was having sex with her 15yo sister (who was smokin hot) and she walked in on them. He was also doing the counter girl at work. But since Laurana's parents owned a chain of health food stores and my buddy managed the biggest one, that was doing very well, they were staying together for a while. Ok, so most guys would have stopped the car and got out of there but I stuck it out. No pussy for two weeks, and then came her birthday. Expensive dinner, expensive gifts from me, and viola, some pussy that night. Turns out, my little 30 minute stand from a kegger in high school was a bisexual dynamo, who would always bring chicks home to share, who loved asians also. Anyway, my thought at the time was, all chicks are *****s.
So think about it. If you have money, house, nice car, etc. You get pussy in the US. Doesn't matter your age, how you look. Old, bald, fat, you still get pussy. So, what is the difference in PI? Women are women are women, and a rose by any other name is still a rose. My doctor buddy in Hawaii had a big problem with this theory. He told me his wife (also a doctor and super hot blond with natural big tits) was not a *****! I told him, "I understand, but do you think she would have married you if you had no job, lived on welfare, sat around the house all day". He told me "of course she would". I still laugh at that.
Today my conclusion is that all women flock to the guy that provides them with a better life. You can't blame filipina's for wanting security and a better life. The hot ones get the best pick, and the others fall into a natural pecking order. They are doing what they have to do, and we are doing what we have to do, which is nail as many as we can before one grabs our heart. This is just life. So, it seems to me, if you get one, then keep her in PI and live down there. Bring her to the states and the pecking order changes. This is just my latest thoughts.
Carmex
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Flying Saucer
07-22-08, 19:14
I was sad. I told a wonderful story. I poured my heart out to you guys. I was booked on Dr. Phil b. See no one replied until now.
Now I met some smoking girls and some normal girls on DIA and some normal girls on CL.
My next fiasco on DIA. Girls shows up at my hotel from Manila. This is great b/c my last 3 DIA girls were "hotel room only dates. " No dinner or a movie. Just hotel room. I was on a roll. 3 hot freebies in a row. Yes I tossed them money for cab fair.- that is another story.
So I go to the lobby. There is my DIA girl, hour cousin (not the girl-on-girl hot 3 some cousin.- the other kind.- the ugly speaks no English cousin) and my date's 3 year old daughter.
So I just say.- well. I had 3 great ones in a row. I guess this is "my turn" to give back. I took them to McDonalds. I bought them dinner and got the kid a toy. I gave them 200 for cab fair (it was 100 each way from where they were in Manila which made sense given where they lived). I just could not bring myself to walk away b/c kids are kids. I figure this one will have a pretty rough life. Like a lof of kids there. So I spent my 45 minutes to an hour of "be nice" time at McDonalds.
Then I rewarded myself by calling my favorite girls for a three-some.
Earlier report about a DIA gurl whos a nurse and whos big with a pic htat was at an odd angle rang a bell.
I had one but can't remember her name, deleted some time back. But exactly that. Nurse, big etc. She had looked cute in the pic on DIA.
Arranged a meet in Burgos. She whined htat she lived in Manila. But I said take it or leave it. I had plan b. C, and d. And in fact had been to Sogo before I was going to meet her.
She said she was by 7. 11. Saw a ladyboy and a large gal there. Hmm. I phoned and she said thats where she was. Walked near. Got a look. Thought. Fuck, I can't do THAT. And carried on walking.
Pride myself as being a gentleman but hell no. That wasnt for me.
So if ts same one. Poor girl attracts the guys with her pics. But not with her figure. Hahah
Carmex not all women are *****s,
just the one Im dating hahahaha...your lets say 50% right..I think its like this..young gurls tend to hang out and date young men, thats normal..if they attracted to each other..Means screwing is ok, once they get older and wiser they looking for financial stability and thats where the money thing comes in.
Women, I think , are generelly attracted to successfull guys, guys who know their way and what they doing, so they feel safe. Filipinas also like this, cause they women. Its just that they see us foreigners as a steady income for them and their family...but like I said its not allways like that..When I was a bit younger I got an offer to get married to a filipina from a rich home, her daddy runs a company and he doesnt want a pinoy as his son in law..made sense to me :D..
What makes me smiling all the time is, when I see quite attractive younger guys with "dogs" :D...either in AC or Manila...I dont wana be boastfull, but my GF`s are allways headturners..but thats another story...
Your question, why go to the Philippines? Easily answer is, more f..ck for ur bucks :D and more fun. IM not much attracted to european or even american women...I love asian gurls, most of them filipinas, cause they come in many shapes..
Now a bit from my story....
Happens to me that I feel a bit sorry for my GF mistres from AC, she stop working now in a bar and I told her when Im around at the weekend and you drop by to meet me I will support you. Last weekend I bought her a new cp, not a cheap one..Nokia express music :D, and I gues I gave her 3k or so, not sure..aside from the fact when her friend drop by I invite them to dinner..We didnt had much sex, which disapointed me a bit...
This weekend I gave her 5k, gave her another 5k for buying her a dvd player which we saw in sm clark....
Tuesday, she txt me if she can go back to work in bar, cause they (her relatives) asking more money to her..
I txt her back, if they ask more money from you, they should go and work for it....and I guess I txt her some other things which she doesnt reply to me..
All in all I can say, if you have a GF from AC, once she turn ur back on you she fucks with another guy for money, cause she need it , or her family needs it. SHe knows I dont like her to go work in a bar, I wouldnt mind she make her money with LD only, but I know if she got a good offer from a guy and she got this allways , cause she aint a "dog" she will go for it..cause money talks in AC..
SO , here goes the warning, dont get to much close with those gurls..the more you give the more they ask..
Blink out for a beer :D
Ok guys, been reading the last pages of this forum like a book I can't put down. I think now I am on page 68 or something around year 05. Very interesting to see the transformation all those on the board go through.
So, with talking with my buddy today about these chicks in PH. Basically, I have come to the conclusion that all women are *****s. Now, now, hear me out before I get flamed to extinction. I came to this conclusion very early in life, around 25 or so, and I just now remembered it clearly.
I was 25, just freshly divorced and with a wounded heart. I got married at 20 to my sweetheart, beautiful filipina/hawaiian who could not stand that I was gone so much in the Army. So, I get back to my hometown and it was like someone put out a billboard, "**** is back in town". Because all of a sudden I had girls calling me out of the blue I hadn't heard from in years. So, I pick up the phone and it is a girl Laurana, hot blond with a blond bush. I had to think to remember her, as I guess I f***ked her on a bathroom sink in some guys house at a kegger. (She reminded me). So we make a date and I go to pick her up and my old high school good friend answers the door! Hey! Buddy, how you been, so good to see you, etc. Then he asks what am I doing there, "pick up Laurana" I said. "What are you doing here? " I ask. "Laurana is my wife. " What? Just then Laurana walks down the stairs and says lets go. So in the car, I am like, "WTF? " And she tells me that my buddy was having sex with her 15yo sister (who was smokin hot) and she walked in on them. He was also doing the counter girl at work. But since Laurana's parents owned a chain of health food stores and my buddy managed the biggest one, that was doing very well, they were staying together for a while. Ok, so most guys would have stopped the car and got out of there but I stuck it out. No pussy for two weeks, and then came her birthday. Expensive dinner, expensive gifts from me, and viola, some pussy that night. Turns out, my little 30 minute stand from a kegger in high school was a bisexual dynamo, who would always bring chicks home to share, who loved asians also. Anyway, my thought at the time was, all chicks are *****s.
So think about it. If you have money, house, nice car, etc. You get pussy in the US. Doesn't matter your age, how you look. Old, bald, fat, you still get pussy. So, what is the difference in PI? Women are women are women, and a rose by any other name is still a rose. My doctor buddy in Hawaii had a big problem with this theory. He told me his wife (also a doctor and super hot blond with natural big tits) was not a *****! I told him, "I understand, but do you think she would have married you if you had no job, lived on welfare, sat around the house all day". He told me "of course she would". I still laugh at that.
Today my conclusion is that all women flock to the guy that provides them with a better life. You can't blame filipina's for wanting security and a better life. The hot ones get the best pick, and the others fall into a natural pecking order. They are doing what they have to do, and we are doing what we have to do, which is nail as many as we can before one grabs our heart. This is just life. So, it seems to me, if you get one, then keep her in PI and live down there. Bring her to the states and the pecking order changes. This is just my latest thoughts.
Carmex
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Yes most women do like security so do most men. Yes a lot of women will use their pussy to get it. Also a lot of women will use their mind and hard work to get it also.
C I married my military sweet heart Latin American at the age of 21. Now I am in my late 20s and divorced I feel your pain. We just grew up apart. I was flashy with money, diamonds nice clothes, nice cars she shopped at Wal-Mart. She was family orientated... I only thought about the night life; in short things just didn’t work. I know all about that wounded heart.
I am now in another LTR, Japanese bred Filipina. But my eyes are open I am jaded and pessimistic. I don’t believe in love anymore but I believe in what’s practical and what is not. In hip hop circles we say ("I got love for her but I am not in love with her") I stick with my ole lady because I can trust her and she is a good person. Her moral compass is pointing north; those are qualities I find hard to locate in people in general.
The relationship is on my terms. I go where I want when I want to. I made it clear to her no other person could run my life and she would have to deal with it or leave. We do have our “family time” together it is what it is…. On marriage I probably won’t do it ever again. It’s an out of date institution especially for a contemporary man as myself.
I was sad. I told a wonderful story. I poured my heart out to you guys. I was booked on Dr. Phil b. See no one replied until now.
Now I met some smoking girls and some normal girls on DIA and some normal girls on CL.
My next fiasco on DIA. Girls shows up at my hotel from Manila. This is great b/c my last 3 DIA girls were "hotel room only dates. " No dinner or a movie. Just hotel room. I was on a roll. 3 hot freebies in a row. Yes I tossed them money for cab fair.- that is another story.
So I go to the lobby. There is my DIA girl, hour cousin (not the girl-on-girl hot 3 some cousin.- the other kind.- the ugly speaks no English cousin) and my date's 3 year old daughter.
So I just say.- well. I had 3 great ones in a row. I guess this is "my turn" to give back. I took them to McDonalds. I bought them dinner and got the kid a toy. I gave them 200 for cab fair (it was 100 each way from where they were in Manila which made sense given where they lived). I just could not bring myself to walk away b/c kids are kids. I figure this one will have a pretty rough life. Like a lof of kids there. So I spent my 45 minutes to an hour of "be nice" time at McDonalds.
Then I rewarded myself by calling my favorite girls for a three-some.Title of your post : "I was feeling lonely (no one read my post)"
Well I have read it , and I am now feeling lonely. What with your threesomes etc , lol.
After years of chatting with hundreds of Filipinas on Yahoo,( I could write a long report about some of the real winnners I have chatted with and met in person, and I think I shall soon), and meeting a number of pretty nice girls on my 3 trips to phils, I got bored and just started this week with Camfrog.
Seems to be a whole different type of chat. The few I have talked with only ask for my paypal account :)
Has anyone here met any of the pinays there or are these girls only out fun?
Just like to report that I have now read every post on the "opionions and advice" forum. Whew! Was a long book, but well written and interesting in some parts. I don't feel like I am an expert now by any means, however, I do feel more informed. I have ordered some books from Amazon to complete the quest of understanding the monster known as "pinay". The Tagalog CD and instuction manual will also arrive with the Amazon shipment.
Simple conclusions:
Don't get married if you still monger, unless your gal is OK with this.
Family is everything, you are 2nd or 3rd.
Pinays are great long term partners if you find the right one.
Don't meet the parents unless you are serious.
Don't bring your heart to AC, Manila, Makati, Cebu, etc...
Don't bring her to the US.
Pay the local market rate.
Treat them as you wish to be treated.
Wear condoms, or be ready for the pregnant scam.
Use the head on your shoulders.
Be ever vigilant, in reguards to your health, heart, and wallet.
Be upfront, have fun, and you will get the same.
Some guys get taken, some guys don't. That is life and natural selection.
So, that is it. My conclusions for the day. It will be good to finally get some sleep and back to work on time for my lunch hour. Good thing I could not access this site at work! I would have got nothing done!
much aloha to everyone, love these pinay girls. (even if I don't understand a where they are coming from)
I would like to meet some of the legends on this board next time I visit. Usually about every 2 months or so.
Carmex
Just like to report that I have now read every post on the "opionions and advice" forum. Whew! Was a long book, but well written and interesting in some parts. I don't feel like I am an expert now by any means, however, I do feel more informed. I have ordered some books from Amazon to complete the quest of understanding the monster known as "pinay". The Tagalog CD and instuction manual will also arrive with the Amazon shipment.
Simple conclusions:
Don't get married if you still monger, unless your gal is OK with this.
Family is everything, you are 2nd or 3rd.
Pinays are great long term partners if you find the right one.
Don't meet the parents unless you are serious.
Don't bring your heart to AC, Manila, Makati, Cebu, etc...
Don't bring her to the US.
Pay the local market rate.
Treat them as you wish to be treated.
Wear condoms, or be ready for the pregnant scam.
Use the head on your shoulders.
Be ever vigilant, in reguards to your health, heart, and wallet.
Be upfront, have fun, and you will get the same.
Some guys get taken, some guys don't. That is life and natural selection.
So, that is it. My conclusions for the day. It will be good to finally get some sleep and back to work on time for my lunch hour. Good thing I could not access this site at work! I would have got nothing done!
much aloha to everyone, love these pinay girls. (even if I don't understand a where they are coming from)
I would like to meet some of the legends on this board next time I visit. Usually about every 2 months or so.
Carmex
Great way to sum it up. I am not a legend but I am interested in meeting some other members of the board. I have been a member since Al Qaeda put together their first explosive and have never met another member. Last time I went mongering across Asia with co-workers it was pathetic. Guys talking shit behind other guys back. Whining about this and that. Some not sure they want to pay for pussy saying they should be getting for free simply ludicrous.
Fastpiston
07-29-08, 03:56
Well It took me 25 years to learn this but this is now my golden rule. Every filipina will hit on you for money for every emergency under the sun. So the way to get a good relationship is set the ground rules at the start. I say I will pay you for every time you spend with me. Like last night she came late (10pm) left early (6am) and we couldn't fuck because of her mens. So I gave her 1000 instead of usual 2500. But still it was nice for both of us. If she asks me for money I say come and see me and earn that money first then you can spend it on what you like. If you want a cell phone fine. Earn it first. Then don't get suckered when you go back home and have many requests for money. Make the ground rules straight before you leave. "If you want me back in your arms next time I am here then don't ask me for money". Also if you see a girl just once overnight then you should pay her 3000 but if the same girl comes 3 or 4 times a week then maybe only 2000 each time. Hope this helps. Its sure hard to resist sometimes but once they know the rules then there is no more hassle.
You payments are far too generous. If these are bar girls who are bar-fined, then you are ruining the market for yourself and others. Bar-fine plus trike money is the standard for overnight.
Fastpiston
07-29-08, 03:59
Well It took me 25 years to learn this but this is now my golden rule. Every filipina will hit on you for money for every emergency under the sun. So the way to get a good relationship is set the ground rules at the start. I say I will pay you for every time you spend with me. Like last night she came late (10pm) left early (6am) and we couldn't fuck because of her mens. So I gave her 1000 instead of usual 2500. But still it was nice for both of us. If she asks me for money I say come and see me and earn that money first then you can spend it on what you like. If you want a cell phone fine. Earn it first. Then don't get suckered when you go back home and have many requests for money. Make the ground rules straight before you leave. "If you want me back in your arms next time I am here then don't ask me for money". Also if you see a girl just once overnight then you should pay her 3000 but if the same girl comes 3 or 4 times a week then maybe only 2000 each time. Hope this helps. Its sure hard to resist sometimes but once they know the rules then there is no more hassle.
Women want security, and money provides the highway to that security. Add to that the Catholic indoctrination about rich (translates to Foreigner) giving to poor and you have the Filipina cocktail.
Starchild2012
07-29-08, 20:14
Carmex,
Great conclutions...It needs to be pinned in every mongers chest who intends to come to PH or even TH
Every scam will happen so subtly that we would be drawn into it....
Its better to follow the RULES STRICTLY...there is no escape from it..
D etat,
Its always better to monger alone...There will be compromises on the negative when mongering in groups..its never better...but the idea looks cool....
Its better to chat with a fellow monger in coffae shops about the hunt then hunt in pairs..
I want to be my own...when im in the zone...this is what i live for :D
Cunning Stunt
07-30-08, 07:08
Carmex,
Its always better to monger alone...There will be compromises on the negative when mongering in groups..its never better...but the idea looks cool....
Its better to chat with a fellow monger in coffae shops about the hunt then hunt in pairs..
I want to be my own...when im in the zone...this is what i live for :D
Agreed BL - I too like to hunt alone, especially when after FLs. In fact I'd say that having company along when out on the prowl is an unnecessary distraction in that you end up spending too much time chewing the fat and not enough time concentrating on the main business of the evening. So opportunities can be lost/missed. Another thing is that FL's often go in pairs, so if there are two mongers, a choice has to be made as to who gets who (and I often end up with the dog :D). If you are alone you get the choice of either/both.
The only exception to this is when visiting a new locale for the first time. Then company is preferable and optimally a local who knows the area. This is particularly necessary in a dodgy local mongering area.
Of course some guys get lonely/need the reassurance of having a buddy along so would never dream of mongering alone. I can understand this but think that they will miss out on opportunities that will pass them by if accompanied. Each to his own depending on his comfort zone. GH
Ok guys, so I know this story belongs in S. Korea forum but I had to share.
So I am in the Reggae Bar in Seoul last weekend with two of my buddies. A filipina comes to the table to ask our drink order and then comes back with the beers. Nice club, good music, and the waitress was about 5'4", with B cups and a pretty face. A little chubby, but that made for a nice fat ass. Anyway, she comes back with the beers and asks if we want to buy raffle tickets. So I ask what for? And she says because she lost her house in a mudslide on Leyete and she needs money to rebuild! I asked what caused the mudslide and she said "Typhoon". Hehehehe I asked which Typhoon? What was the name of it? She didn't know. My buddy asked, "What do we get if we win the raffle? " And she said, "huh? " heheheh So, he asked again, "What is the prize if you win the raffle? " And she said, "oh, I don't know". By this time, I am cracking up. I honestly cannot contain my laughter. She looks at us, and says, "Forget it! " Kinda pissed off like. We all laughed about that for a good 10 minutes.
Just goes to show, you can take the girl out of the PI, but you can't take the PI out of the girl.
Thought I might share a funny story with you guys.
Carmex
Blackangst
07-30-08, 20:05
Today my conclusion is that all women flock to the guy that provides them with a better life. You can't blame filipina's for wanting security and a better life. The hot ones get the best pick, and the others fall into a natural pecking order. They are doing what they have to do, and we are doing what we have to do, which is nail as many as we can before one grabs our heart. This is just life. So, it seems to me, if you get one, then keep her in PI and live down there. Bring her to the states and the pecking order changes. This is just my latest thoughts.
Carmex
Nice reflections Carm. And I would stress this last point in your use of the word "all". So many times guys on this and every other board I visit complain about a girl wanting to "step up". This is just natural womanhood. EVERY woman wants to find the most secure man they can. Most of the time secure = money. I dont look at it as a bad thing at all. It makes sense. Sure there are the few who go from tumultuous relationships to another, but most of the time they want better.
Dont we also?
I'm a Pinoy living here in Manila. My suggestions for those who wants to marry a filipina is stay away from the hookers. Thats all. Of course they are you're easy target and because they, re sweet and everything but you must be carefull. These girls have too may boyfriends like previously said, they just want your money to spend with their pinoy bf. Of course there are exeptions. Look for the one which is not a sex worker. Btw its my first post. If you need to ask anything feel free to ask but I'm not an expert in mongering in manila but perhaps I could help. I'm going to Thailand in September. I wish I could get a tip in the BKK forum.
I'm a Pinoy living here in Manila. My suggestions for those who wants to marry a filipina is stay away from the hookers. Thats all. Of course they are you're easy target and because they, re sweet and everything but you must be carefull. These girls have too may boyfriends like previously said, they just want your money to spend with their pinoy bf. Of course there are exeptions. Look for the one which is not a sex worker. Btw its my first post. If you need to ask anything feel free to ask but I'm not an expert in mongering in manila but perhaps I could help. I'm going to Thailand in September. I wish I could get a tip in the BKK forum.
hi,
check out Giottos forum in BKK reports, he has his own thread. I stayed in his lodge before and I found it good value for money. He wisely spend his money on things like gud bed/matress, silent aircon, breakfast al the day, gud coffe, excellent western and thai food and he even have his own sports bar with gurls in the hotel, hahahaha, what more you can ask for. Easy access to the red light areas, walking distance...
as for pinays, I prefer the semi pros :D
Blink
Thanks for the summary. The only one I would disagree with is the one I've quoted. I've never had anything bad come from meeting friends and family of ladies and in fact got to experience some intersting things by doing so.
Of course I'm also honest and up front with the ladies. Now for those who play "snake in the grass" and use the "love" word and make false promises, or pop cherries --- well they probably should avoid meeting the family.
X
Don't meet the parents unless you are serious.
Carmex
Wicked Roger
08-06-08, 16:10
Of course I'm also honest and up front with the ladies. Now for those who play "snake in the grass" and use the "love" word and make false promises, or pop cherries --- well they probably should avoid meeting the family.
X
True XM - that last comment would cover many a monger ;)
Thanks for the summary. The only one I would disagree with is the one I've quoted. I've never had anything bad come from meeting friends and family of ladies and in fact got to experience some intersting things by doing so.
Of course I'm also honest and up front with the ladies. Now for those who play "snake in the grass" and use the "love" word and make false promises, or pop cherries --- well they probably should avoid meeting the family.
X
I wonder what that must be like? “Hi I am the American foreigner who is orally, anally and vaginally fucking your daughter or sister. Once she starts to bore me or I get tired of her or if she asks for a "loan" I am off for greener pasteurs oh and past me another San Miguel why don’t you.”
Are you trying to be funny or what?
Did Daddy Warbucks go to the high school prom. Did he meet papa and ask if he could butt fuck his date in the back seat? I don't think so.
x ( who does not butt fuck with anyone, so have no idea where *****bucks is coming from)
I wonder what that must be like? “Hi I am the American foreigner who is orally, anally and vaginally fucking your daughter or sister. Once she starts to bore me or I get tired of her or if she asks for a "loan" I am off for greener pasteurs oh and past me another San Miguel why don’t you.”
Are you trying to be funny or what?
Did Daddy Warbucks go to the high school prom. Did he meet papa and ask if he could butt fuck his date in the back seat? I don't think so.
x ( who does not butt fuck with anyone, so have no idea where *****bucks is coming from)
I don’t know what Philippines some of you guys go to. But the one I live in most of the women are unsophisticated by western standards. Most of the country is in dire poverty so when a local woman meets a foreigner the lady and her family most of the time is wishing this guy be the one that rescues them from poverty.
In the states a prom date is nothing like this. The “Prom” I am surprised you can remember back that far Grandpa. You do tend to keep the company of young unintelligent girls though so it adds up :) Also in the west women tend to be economically stable and have a first world education so you telling them what the "deal" is more understood.
Also there is no “face” or respect issues so when the foreigner fucks her sides ways then rides off into the sunset she don’t have to hear “I told you so from her family members.” I heard from many of pinay stories about the philandering foreigner and how families have been fucked up by it.
Daddy “*****” bucks? I like it! Oh how I wish my substantial paycheck came from “*****s” instead of Bush's wars…..Might be more job security with the pending administration change :)
Flying Saucer
08-08-08, 09:31
No harm in any posts. I get the point. I mean I have a girlfriend in QC. I have no right dating her. Let's just leave it at that.
She wants me to meet her dad/mom. I'm like. If I were your dad. I'd get together with 10 guys and beat me up (okay get it.- I think dad should be smacking me instead of.). Offering me a soda when I know he makes 5000 pesos a month. Offering me a shot of whisky. Calling me sir.
Change topic: I mean I have been stunned at the times when I have slept with an aunt and her niece, best friends, cousins, 3 coworkers from the day shift at 7-11 (thank heaven for 7-11).
By American standards I'm surprised noone has taken me out and told me off. It is like a strange dream.
As far as I know, I'm not a grandpa. And that is the problem with your posts, you are making some assumptions about me and my motives which are not true and I find that offensive.
I met one ladies family only because she needed to go home to pick up a swimsuit for our trip to the beach. Nice people. A neighbor climbed a tree so that I could have fresh coconut. And then off to the beach we went. It was a good experience, there were no negative feelings, no deceit, nothing abnormal.
I'll assume you've had some negative experience with meeting family, so go ahead and give us the details.
X
I am surprised you can remember back that far Grandpa. You do tend to keep the company of young unintelligent girls though so it adds up :) )
hi,
told you guys..why you wana married when living here?
Give me a good reason..just one :D
Blink
What’s good Blink my man we living the good life eh? I am currently away on business but when I get home (8 weeks) bar girls grab your umbrella because it’s going to be raining fucking pesos.
Anyway I recently asked your question but more in depth in the Dubai thread when “members” was worried about another member getting busted by his wife I just asked why the hell they marry in the first place. I got one sarcastic response. One straight but short response from Master Monger Piper 1 and that was it. It seems guys can’t or won’t answer the question well life is good.
What’s good Blink my man we living the good life eh? I am currently on away on business but when I get home (8 weeks) bar girls grab your fucking umbrella because it’s going to be raining fucking pesos.
Anyway I recently asked your question but more in depth in the Dubai thread when “members” was worried about another member getting busted by his wife I just asked why the hell they marry in the first place. I got one sarcastic response. One straight but short response from Master Monger Piper 1 and that was it. It seems guys can’t or won’t answer the question well life is good.
" I still havent found what Im looking for.." maybe that explains all...and until Im gona found that special gurl...I keep on f..in around...
8am now and if I look behind me whats in my bed....oh guys...ehehehe...
Life is gud
Blink
Of course I'm also honest and up front with the ladies. Now for those who play "snake in the grass" and use the "love" word and make false promises, or pop cherries --- well they probably should avoid meeting the family.X
I was in Manila last weekend and this happened to me. Two months ago I met a cute waitress in the "Cafe", 22 yrs old and no kids, and over 5 or 6 visits she asked me why I don't take anyone out. She didn't realize that I do sometimes take someone out, but I always have them meet me at another place (7-11) to ensure no crooked cops are waiting for a shake down. So, she wanted to meet me outside the "Cafe". Finally, last Sunday I had time and I met her in Robinson's. We were having coffee and I asked her if she wanted to eat first, or go to the hotel. She acted like "What" and I said okay what do you want to do. She told me that if we go to the hotel, we are dating and it is only me and her. I laughed and told her that I don’t live in Manila and I travel there sometimes and I am not looking for a gf, but if she wanted to go to the hotel and have a couple hours of fun, and we would be friends, then I was her man. It took her 5 minutes to think and then she replied okay. Down side to this, after the Sogo she had to go to work and I met her in the “Café” and just my luck I met two really sweet diamonds and I couldn’t pry her off me to get them out:(
So I haven't written in a while and have been away from the board. Had to go back to the USA to visit my father who had a heart attack. He is fine, but made me realize how short life is and can end at any moment.
Heading to Cebu in two days and will be there for nine days. Just being back in Hawaii and Mainland made me realize a few things. First of all, most American chicks are fat and bitchy. Took some nice ones home from some bars on the mainland (not pros or p4p, just civilian), but they could not even fuck that well. And one had a big pussy! Had to pretend she was pinay just to finish. Now back in Hawaii and fucking my old gf. Ask me what I am doing now? Writing on the board because she has a headache.
So, the pinay are tight little fuck machines, with good bodies who love to please. Yea, we put up with some bullshit, but overall, they treat us good. Nothing wrong with that IMHO.
The internet dating thing is such a scam. I think the FH girls are either prostitues, bar girls, or boys pretending to be girls. Was supposed to meet some "nice" girls this trip, but eventually all turned out to be p4p girls. Figured it out over time. So, the trip is like this: fly into Manila and meet a former Ms. Philippines (15 years and 15 lbs ago). Met her before and we should fuck this time. Then to Cebu for some internet FH p4p types. Then down to CDO for the one college girl. I am sure I will nail many and will take a camera down there this time.
I would go down to Waikiki and do some mongering tonite while my girl is asleep, but I fucked her three times yesterday and once this morning and I am tired. Maybe I will just watch TV.
Looking forward to the PI
Carmex
Khun Larry
09-04-08, 02:00
Down side to this, after the Sogo she had to go to work and I met her in the “Café” and just my luck I met two really sweet diamonds and I couldn’t pry her off me to get them out:(
You lucky HANSUM MAN
I've been a member of this board since before the 'split'. And now frequent both boards. I just finished reading the posts on USASexGuide. And I came here to lurk in your little world. I must say, I really hate you guys
While you guys are picking up 20 somethings, we are scampering around for a good AMP providers that's 40+ that won't charge us over $50 for a HJ. Whereas when I was in the Phils, $50 would get me an overnight with a princess.
I long for the time when I can go back and spend some quality time there.
FH.com is a hit and miss. Here's my take on it:
95% are going to ask you for money for their sick [insert relative] or to take their 'exam' at school.
4% are really looking for someone, but they're ugly.
1% are looking for someone AND pretty.
Any other site you guys can recommend?
Enjoy yourselves... I envy you... until I get a couple of business up and running in the Phils ;)
Dave
Wicked Roger
09-11-08, 13:41
I've been a member of this board since before the 'split'. And now frequent both boards. I just finished reading the posts on USASexGuide. And I came here to lurk in your little world. I must say, I really hate you guys
While you guys are picking up 20 somethings, we are scampering around for a good AMP providers that's 40+ that won't charge us over $50 for a HJ. Whereas when I was in the Phils, $50 would get me an overnight with a princess.
I long for the time when I can go back and spend some quality time there.
FH.com is a hit and miss. Here's my take on it:
95% are going to ask you for money for their sick [insert relative] or to take their 'exam' at school.
4% are really looking for someone, but they're ugly.
1% are looking for someone AND pretty.
Any other site you guys can recommend?
Enjoy yourselves... I envy you... until I get a couple of business up and running in the Phils ;)
Dave
Dave
Am not based there but ,much closera dn have plenty nice 20 something here in UAE :) But I do return there and get some of same.....;)
Try DIA (Date in Asia) and Cherry Blossoms - there is plenty written on these on the board, but you will find that many will ask the same questions.
Have fun and continue staying in the USA so it leaves more lovely 20 somethings for me and other guys :)
Yellow Fever #2
09-13-08, 06:31
Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this post...
A few months ago I met a Filipina in Shanghai. We have an awesome relationship together. I am very impressed with her.
I have asked her to retire from the 'entertainment' industry and never be a WG again. We have had a very difficult heart to heart talk about this, it was really an ultimatum - if you ever go to Shanghai - I will never see/speak/think about you again. It had to be black and white - no gray.
I think in general PI girls would rather not work at home and I believe her when she tells me that she would not consider to 'work' at home.
In return I will take care of ALL your expenses and give her a chance to make a better future for herself and potentially for the two of us, if we are lucky together.
She is working to take care of her son and 3 nieces. To give them an education so that they will never have to work this way. I respect her for doing this and I love her. She has a home in Manila, where basically the whole family lives, perhaps 14 people in 90m2.
She has listed her expenses as:
Water ~2500pesos/month (every day 170pesos)
Mineral? every 3 days 60 total 600pesos a month (is this gas)
School fees/allowance: 3000pesos per week (all 4 students?)
Electricity: 2000pesos/month
Landline Telephone/DSL Internet: 2000pesos/month
Food (whole house) between 6000 and 8000 per month
My question to the forum is are these reasonable expenses? I will have no problem to cover her costs, she is wonderful but I want to be sure that these are reasonable. They SEEM reasonable and fair to me.
Do you think that it is possible for her to really retire from this work? Or is the adage "you can take the girl from the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl" necessarily true? If we are together, we plan to stay in the PI so the same adage (substitute PI for Bar) is not applicable at this time.
Thanks for you help. You can write me a PM or reply to the forum.
Cunning Stunt
09-13-08, 09:03
YF2 - Think you have already placed this post on the 'Living in the Philippines' thread and have a few replies.
Proudpinoy
09-19-08, 20:42
You say that you are ready to pay for the expenses below. They seem reasonable to me. However, don't be naive to think it will be the only expenses.
You can't being to imagine how many other things that will "come up". Cousin's tuition, business loan for a "can't miss opportunity" for an uncle, father's emergency hospital bills, etc. Remember, Filipinos have families all over. Or simply, they may just think you're rich to ask you money for a new cell phone.
I've been here for two years now. Every day, even from people I just met, will ask me for money. (Especially in high school and college, I grew up really poor) and I still had a hard time asking people for money. Maybe it's my pride, but to this day, I still think it's one of the hardest things to do. I get text messages from people I don't even know asking if they can borrow money for a medical emergency. Sometimes, I feel like a walking ATM machine.
Maybe I'm wrong. I guess it depends on if you really love her and want to give it a try. It seems like you are just about ready to make the decision to support her.
Good luck
You say that you are ready to pay for the expenses below. They seem reasonable to me. However, don't be naive to think it will be the only expenses.
You can't being to imagine how many other things that will "come up". Cousin's tuition, business loan for a "can't miss opportunity" for an uncle, father's emergency hospital bills, etc. Remember, Filipinos have families all over. Or simply, they may just think you're rich to ask you money for a new cell phone.
I've been here for two years now. Every day, even from people I just met, will ask me for money. (Especially in high school and college, I grew up really poor) and I still had a hard time asking people for money. Maybe it's my pride, but to this day, I still think it's one of the hardest things to do. I get text messages from people I don't even know asking if they can borrow money for a medical emergency. Sometimes, I feel like a walking ATM machine.
Maybe I'm wrong. I guess it depends on if you really love her and want to give it a try. It seems like you are just about ready to make the decision to support her.
Good luck
Damn bruh your post hit home with me. I have experienced that everywhere I have been around Filipinos the same what you describe but hell also have seen the same from my family back in the states that’s why I don’t call home much :) I had not been to the states in two years before I took the plunge back in April for those same reasons. The Filipinos I come in contact with well it’s easy to say no them but now the biological family that’s hard. They seem to not understand yeah I do have money but not for them. As for the asking for money…I think it’s a shameful act especially if you are asking for bullshit reasons, cell phone/jewelry you smell what I am cooking?
Hairy Wonder
09-21-08, 05:23
It seems to me that these cute little Filipinas are raised and trained to use their looks and charm to get as much money as they can from us unsuspecting foreigners. I live and work in Korea, where many Filipinos come to work in the factories or bars. Some of the areas around the US military bases seem more Filipino than Korean these days. So I have had quite a few encounters with them. I have even traveled to the Phils to meet a few that I have met through the chat sites. Without exception, the idea of me giving them some money for various "needs" has come up. Just like YF2, I bought into the idea of "supporting" one that I thought I was in love with at the time. However, what started out as needing no more than $500/month, quickly turned into $1000/month is not enough. I'll admit, I was pretty damn stupid to continue at that point. But I blame it on my smaller head. Anyhow, I eventually did come to my senses and decided to cut her off before I had to hawk everything I owned and take up a park bench as my residence. I'm not saying that all Filipinas want us foreigners only for our money. But it sure seems that the large majority are experts at sucking everything out of our wallets and bank accounts.
IMHO
HW
Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this post...
A few months ago I met a Filipina in Shanghai. We have an awesome relationship together. I am very impressed with her.
I have asked her to retire from the 'entertainment' industry and never be a WG again. We have had a very difficult heart to heart talk about this, it was really an ultimatum - if you ever go to Shanghai - I will never see/speak/think about you again. It had to be black and white - no gray.
I think in general PI girls would rather not work at home and I believe her when she tells me that she would not consider to 'work' at home.
In return I will take care of ALL your expenses and give her a chance to make a better future for herself and potentially for the two of us, if we are lucky together.
She is working to take care of her son and 3 nieces. To give them an education so that they will never have to work this way. I respect her for doing this and I love her. She has a home in Manila, where basically the whole family lives, perhaps 14 people in 90m2.
She has listed her expenses as:
Water ~2500pesos/month (every day 170pesos)
Mineral? every 3 days 60 total 600pesos a month (is this gas)
School fees/allowance: 3000pesos per week (all 4 students?)
Electricity: 2000pesos/month
Landline Telephone/DSL Internet: 2000pesos/month
Food (whole house) between 6000 and 8000 per month
My question to the forum is are these reasonable expenses? I will have no problem to cover her costs, she is wonderful but I want to be sure that these are reasonable. They SEEM reasonable and fair to me.
Do you think that it is possible for her to really retire from this work? Or is the adage "you can take the girl from the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl" necessarily true? If we are together, we plan to stay in the PI so the same adage (substitute PI for Bar) is not applicable at this time.
Thanks for you help. You can write me a PM or reply to the forum.
Sounds like a lot to me.
A graduate from university gets around 10kPeso a month, a managing director 50k.
.... so many of those have kids and send them for education.
Maybe she is a nice girl, but not only maybe she tries to milk you for your money.
.... sorry to tell you.
Happened to me before as well, but I got cured.
Rgds,
Mike
I have to agree with Michi,
She has given you a salesperson estimate. Did YOU ask her for the breakdown on costs, or is that something she did on her own? What she makes in Singapore is a King's ransom by Phil. standards, there is not reason you have to equal that.
If you're still willing to move ahead, make up some bullshit about your budget and offer her something less. Maybe it's too late for that.
I can offer a sample of one, so it is meaningless.... Met a MNL bargirl. WOW, super GFE experience. I had to leave in three days and she stayed for three days. No barfine! I have to tell you, I'd swallowed the hook, line and sinker. Six months later we meet when she is back in her hometown, a large city in Visayans, she has a fiance. She complains about how little he sends her. We fuck. I discreetly give her 2000 pesos (one hour commute costs included), no complaints. She never asked for a penny the whole time I've known her -- bless her heart.
Six months after that, I'm in Visayans and send her a courtesy call. She's in Manila, "with an Indian friend", but has a flight back home the next day. We fuck. We go to abc disco to drink, dance and supposedly to meet her friend and her Korean "customer". Friend turns up with three Filipino "cousins" (two girls and a bakla), but no Korean friends. Ooops, now the entire party is on my wallet. Surprise! Friend is obviously a *****e, and gives me bad vibes immediately. I whisper to my date that I'll buy the first round, no more.
Ex, go, go girl Damn she could dance. Later at my hotel, we fk. I'm a small tit man, but her's are large and pendoulous and just so sweet to hold. I'm smitten, once again. Next morning, she declines an invitation to visit an island resort. Says her mother would be angry. I can't help but think it's my lack of generosity. She doesn't seem like the same girl I met a year earlier. Well, I gues she isn't ....she's someone's fiance.
Last I heard, she's unhappily married in a 1st world country.
I hope there is a happy ending to this story. But, I doubt it.
The original poster has a great story and I hope it works out for him. She sounds like someone you could take a chance on.
X
sidenotes:
Good sex for money support is very appealing to a man. My ex got the money part right, but was pretty stingy with her holes. She wasn't bg, btw.
But a bar girl is trading away a life of big money, multiple sex partners, freedom, fun, high falutin hotels and resorts, etc.
Sounds like a lot to me.
A graduate from university gets around 10kPeso a month, a managing director 50k.
.... so many of those have kids and send them for education.
Maybe she is a nice girl, but not only maybe she tries to milk you for your money.
.... sorry to tell you.
Happened to me before as well, but I got cured.
Rgds,
Mike
Hi all,
Sorry haven't been reading the board for a while. The question of will a girl leave the bar if if she is offered support? This is a question I have always wondered about, and from what I have seen and heard about it is a hit and miss as to will she or won't she.
Too many stories out there, some girls will go back to the province and get fat on the money they get. Others with go back to high school or even study at college. Then there are the ones that stay in the bars and lie to their boyfriends about what they are really doing.
In the last three months I have started chating online to a bargirl, since we started chatting she has told me she was single and she has stopped working in the bar and is looking for a real job. Thanks to my friend who introduced us in the first place and also happens to be jealous of the fact that I am chatting to this girl. I have now found out that this girl did have a boyfriend and was still working in the bar. Last time I spoke to this girl she was going back to her province for a while. Turns out her boyfriend was coming back to town and did not know she was still working.
I myself had a Thai bargirl as a girlfriend, lasted about 5 months I think. In that time she stopped working without me telling her to, started taking english classes and a basic computer course. I did send her small amounts of money in that time. But she dumped me after I refused to give her $10,000 to open a shop.
I still talk to her and she says she has her shop but lets her sister run it while she is part timing in the bar( still says she hates working in the bar, but the way I see it she had her chance to leave but she has choosen to stay).
One thing I don't get is now she still believes we are together, we just had a fight. I don't see it that way but I haven't actually told her we are not together. Best thing is she no longer asks or receives any money from me.
Guys why do you go to Asia to date and have relationships with hookers? Would you date a hooker in your own country?
Guys why do you go to Asia to date and have relationships with hookers? Would you date a hooker in your own country?
Nope, the great, make that GREAT thing about the PI is average 40 year old white guys can score with hot college girls. I don't see the point of dating a hooker in the PI, but they do a good job of filling in on those few nights when you don't have a normal girl.
The first question is rather complicated. As for the second question, "Hell yes I would."
I'm just hopn for some friction on my piston
X
Guys why do you go to Asia to date and have relationships with hookers? Would you date a hooker in your own country?
Guys why do you go to Asia to date and have relationships with hookers? Would you date a hooker in your own country?Can you really ever have a real relationship with a BG, who is still working in the bar? I have 5 or 6 BG's who consider me their BF. What that means to me and their friends is, if I come into their bar I belong to them. I have meet some FL/BG's who were hookers, but I have also met more ladies in bars that really are only trying to support someone...i.e. kids, parents, or find a husband.
Would I date a hooker in my own country? Maybe, if she is a LBFM and I didn't have to pay anymore:D
Robb
AussieOverboard
09-25-08, 01:24
Guys why do you go to Asia to date and have relationships with hookers? Would you date a hooker in your own country?
I dated a "High Class" call girl for a couple of years. I didnt care, I got it for free and helped spend the proceeds. Besides what has sex got to do with love anyway?
I agree with AOB. About 15 yrs ago I dated a stipper from Deja Vu strip club. Beautiful girl, did not meet her in the club, and we dated for 1 1/2 yrs. I was a bit nieve back then, but figured out you could get a BJ in those clubs for $50 USD. You could also have sex in the VIP room. Bothered me for a while, but she was so hot in bed, bi-sexual, and had loads of money all the time. I loved being with her, and she always brought home other girls for us to play with.
The end came when I made the big decision for her to move with me. Her response was, "I wonder if they have any clubs in ______? " Well, that sealed it for me. "Are you always going to be a *****? " I broke it off with her after that.
Saw her about 5 yrs ago when back in USA. She had quit the business and went to Med school. Still hot, but plus about 15 lbs. She lived with a girl, but not sure of the relationship. She gave me a BJ on the back porch of my grandparents house while her friend waited in the car.
Not sure of the point here, I guess it is sometimes they do change? You decide for yourself.
One thing I love about bargirls is talking dirty to them, they love to talk dirty too. I guess that is their way of baiting the hook and then reeling you in. I talk dirty to a College girl in Manila online, but she is always telling me to SHUT UP, and why do you always talk like that. College girl is nice but bargirls are more fun.
With all do respect gents, any guy whose sending a girl money when he's over here and she over there. Should go back and read some of the sage advice about filipina's either that or have his d*ck cut off, because apparently you are thinking with the wrong head. If I hear another guy says "oh I sent her money small amount," I'm going to scream. Whatever, the small amount to you is, please send it to me, I will make better use of it than you will. You my dear friend, is where they got the term a " sucker is born every minute" and you are giving the rest of us a hard time with filipina, because they think they can scam us because some stupid guy sent them money before.
GoodEnough
10-01-08, 09:49
I've never really understood these guys who send money to girls, and are seemingly convinced that the girls are at home pining away in loneliness for the return of their true loves. Are they on some sort of medication that renders them delusional? Are they mentally ill? What drug or state of mind is it that allows presumably otherwise normal people to fixate on women they may have known for a few days in person at best, or at worst have met only through the Internet? Fixate to the point that they lose the ability of rational thought.
If I were a more compassionate sort, I guess I'd feel some twinge of guilt at boinking their "fiancees." As it is, I just shake my head and wonder how "mature" men can be so ridiculously naive.
I've never really understood these guys who send money to girls, and are seemingly convinced that the girls are at home pining away in loneliness for the return of their true loves. Are they on some sort of medication that renders them delusional? Are they mentally ill? What drug or state of mind is it that allows presumably otherwise normal people to fixate on women they may have known for a few days in person at best, or at worst have met only through the Internet? Fixate to the point that they lose the ability of rational thought.
If I were a more compassionate sort, I guess I'd feel some twinge of guilt at boinking their "fiancees." As it is, I just shake my head and wonder how "mature" men can be so ridiculously naive.
Ok. What about the western businessman who leaves his wife at home in the west while traveling all over the world? I agree with the not trusting the lady you just met. But I also agree you shouldn't trust a soul not even your damn mother 100 percent. Every situation is different.
Rubberyman
10-01-08, 12:34
Yup, on my last trip, I had a girl do a runner on me. :( Bummer, I thought.
She left at about 1am. :(
Then at about 2.30am, she comes back :) and spends the rest of the night and the morning with me after explaining that she had to 'check in' with this guy who was paying her not to work in the bar.
Must have been someone stateside on his lunch break.
LOLOLOLOL!!!
My mom is the most pliable women i ever met, and my lame ass, currently celibate, scared to fly airplanes, never-married brother is milking it for all he can get. Doing well - i might add.
D'etat, you never fail to amaze me with your unique, and brutely honest description of your/our reality.
Ok. What about the western businessman who leaves his wife at home in the west while traveling all over the world? I agree with the not trusting the lady you just met. But I also agree you shouldn't trust a soul not even your damn mother 100 percent. Every situation is different.
Ok. What about the western businessman who leaves his wife at home in the west while traveling all over the world? I agree with the not trusting the lady you just met. But I also agree you shouldn't trust a soul not even your damn mother 100 percent. Every situation is different.
Agreed but i would trust a PI gurl as far as I can throw her. Only way you can remotely come and trust a PI girl there is if you shacking up with her and living there. She knows where her bread and butter is coming from. "Most of the time"
With all do respect gents, any guy whose sending a girl money when he's over here and she over there. Should go back and read some of the sage advice about filipina's either that or have his d*ck cut off, because apparently you are thinking with the wrong head. If I hear another guy says "oh I sent her money small amount," I'm going to scream. Whatever, the small amount to you is, please send it to me, I will make better use of it than you will. You my dear friend, is where they got the term a " sucker is born every minute" and you are giving the rest of us a hard time with filipina, because they think they can scam us because some stupid guy sent them money before.Hey Pimpster, Please do tell us how many trips you have had to the PI and some of your war stories. I read all of your post and you really haven't added a thing to this board, but your opinion. That is okay to me, but also tell us your stories while visiting, if you have been here or how you got burnt sending money to a girl.
Thanks
Robb
Hey Pimpster, Please do tell us how many trips you have had to the PI and some of your war stories. I read all of your post and you really haven't added a thing to this board, but your opinion. That is okay to me, but also tell us your stories while visiting, if you have been here or how you got burnt sending money to a girl.
Thanks
Robb
My wars? I've been a seasoned members, and really feel no need to share my so call bedroom adventures, its a question of kiss there are plenty on the boards who would be more than happy to share those adventures. Nor do I need to pump up my ego like others do if. I don't have a problem with it, if you someone believes that he took some bar girls to new heights in the bedroom, or how the girl he banged was so hot even if I disagree with it. "Not here to start flame war." I never comment about those things. My "opinions" as you call it is from experiencing dealing with PI girls, Thai, and Vietnam, everyone here has opinions so you do you I've read your posting as well don't have a problem with them, but you are not saying anything new on here that we don't already know. Unless you found something new club or area than everything about PI is basically rehash . I give advice to those who are newbie and if you bothered to read my newest posting it was in response to best places to pick up PI milf. Yeah its my opinion that you can pick them up in malls but i guess I have to go into it and she was so hot in bed for it to be a war story. But anyways not hear to start flame war, Just trying to really strongly point out to guys on here that they shouldn't believe Pi chicks especially if you are over here and they are over there. Which other members seem not to have made that point strong enough because guys on here still doing stupid things as such. I did my research on PI and thanks to those who have gone before me laid down the groundwork for a non drama trip. I 'm sure that some of your ideas and opinions were very helpful when on my cherry trip. But really is there anything new that's happening in PI? Minus DIA which I'm currently on but not have enough experience to add anything to it to make it worth anyone wild , even that is pretty old stuff because like i said its pretty much rehash. If i said anything on here to offend you, or if you were one of those guys that sent money to a gal over there I'm sorry. My point is simply to make sure us guys don't get used and use the money for our mongering not for some girl in front of a computer whose milking 10 guys saying sucker!
Yes I have sent money before and I'll do it again, why? No not because my little head told me to. I am not a member of any dating sites. I don't send money to girls I have never meet, and I don't send girls a monthly salary to live off. These are girls I have met a number of times over a number of years.
I have read opinions about sending money, and I do take that into consideration when deciding to send money or not. Everyone has a different story, and reading sites like this gives one the the pro's and cons to their actions.
So! am I "Stupid" maybe, maybe not. But only the one telling the story can really decide if he has been stupid or not.
As it has been said a number of times before, each to their own.
Yes I have sent money before and I'll do it again, why? No not because my little head told me to. I am not a member of any dating sites. I don't send money to girls I have never meet, and I don't send girls a monthly salary to live off. These are girls I have met a number of times over a number of years.
I have read opinions about sending money, and I do take that into consideration when deciding to send money or not. Everyone has a different story, and reading sites like this gives one the the pro's and cons to their actions.
So! am I "Stupid" maybe, maybe not. But only the one telling the story can really decide if he has been stupid or not.
As it has been said a number of times before, each to their own.
A BD "Do You". In hip hop circles that means do what makes you feel happy. As for sending money to the girls. I have done it at various points in my dealings with Filipinas. I will say this though I am not a fan. When people ask me for money whether family or run of the mill Filipinas I need to hear something pretty convincing to make me go in my wallet.
Candelaria
10-03-08, 18:49
Yes, these expenses are correct. I could not fathom why the utility bills are so high there, and the groceries are expensive. I mean these expenses are higher than where I live now in UAE. Almost the same as in the States. I still think you are better off finding a single, never been-married gal with a small family. I. E. Less mouth to feed.
Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this post...
She has listed her expenses as:
Water ~2500pesos/month (every day 170pesos)
Mineral? every 3 days 60 total 600pesos a month (is this gas)
School fees/allowance: 3000pesos per week (all 4 students?)
Electricity: 2000pesos/month
Landline Telephone/DSL Internet: 2000pesos/month
Food (whole house) between 6000 and 8000 per month
My question to the forum is are these reasonable expenses? I will have no problem to cover her costs, she is wonderful but I want to be sure that these are reasonable. They SEEM reasonable and fair to me.
Do you think that it is possible for her to really retire from this work? Or is the adage "you can take the girl from the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl" necessarily true? If we are together, we plan to stay in the PI so the same adage (substitute PI for Bar) is not applicable at this time.
Thanks for you help. You can write me a PM or reply to the forum.
Yes I have sent money before and I'll do it again, why? No not because my little head told me to. I am not a member of any dating sites. I don't send money to girls I have never meet, and I don't send girls a monthly salary to live off. These are girls I have met a number of times over a number of years.
I have read opinions about sending money, and I do take that into consideration when deciding to send money or not. Everyone has a different story, and reading sites like this gives one the the pro's and cons to their actions.
So! am I "Stupid" maybe, maybe not. But only the one telling the story can really decide if he has been stupid or not.
As it has been said a number of times before, each to their own.
So, let me get this straight you give them money once in a blue moon when they hit you up for it, are we talking about amounts in the hundreds of dollars every couple of quarters? I've got a few ladies that are non pro that I basically treat them well when I'm there and will buy them stuff and kick them back a bill or 2 before i leave. I figure they aren't charging me what a bar girl is charging me, so it's my way of saying thanks for a good time. But I never make it a point to send money it becomes habbit forming.
So, let me get this straight you give them money once in a blue moon when they hit you up for it, are we talking about amounts in the hundreds of dollars every couple of quarters? I've got a few ladies that are non pro that I basically treat them well when I'm there and will buy them stuff and kick them back a bill or 2 before i leave. I figure they aren't charging me what a bar girl is charging me, so it's my way of saying thanks for a good time. But I never make it a point to send money it becomes habbit forming.
Yeah I feel you 100 percent. I have a friend in Cebu whom I help out from time to time. It's never more then a $100 and it's not often which for me that is pocket change. That's the nature of living or visiting PI the majority of the people need financial assistance from time to time it's that simple.
About that habit forming soliciting. Of course it is. What I have learned when dealing with Filipinas if you they want money from you make them work for it whether in the sack or out of it.
A BD "Do You". In hip hop circles that means do what makes you feel happy. As for sending money to the girls. I have done it at various points in my dealings with Filipinas. I will say this though I am not a fan. When people ask me for money whether family or run of the mill Filipinas I need to hear something pretty convincing to make me go in my wallet.
I agree I am not a fan too, I have never had the "need money for family" or the "sick buffalo" line before. I too need a good story before I go into my wallet.
Pimpster.
Hundreds of dollars, No.
Once and a blue moon, Yes.
Every couple of quarters, No.
I agree I am not a fan too, I have never had the "need money for family" or the "sick buffalo" line before. I too need a good story before I go into my wallet.
Pimpster.
Hundreds of dollars, No.
Once and a blue moon, Yes.
Every couple of quarters, No.
Glad to hear that, I don't think anyone who visits the PI or talks to PI girls should have the word sucker written on their chest, but at the same time I think we should do right by them if they do right by us. It helps me sleep better at night when I feel that I'm just not using non pro for purely sex. Its more of friends with benefits sort of arrangements.
I was wondering where you would rank filipinas if you had to get married, if looks wasn't a factor, beautiful women in every single culture. I personally don't think that filipna makes good wives the moment you bring them to the states. They tend to become very Americanize and over the top and start to compete with the jones attitude. No offense meant to anyone who is happily married to a filipina, this is just my observation from the filipinas I've met in california. I personally feel that Japanese women make bomb ass wives. One of the major advantage of filipina have over other asians is that they speak english. Love to hear feedback from all of you guys out there.
I was wondering where you would rank filipinas if you had to get married, if looks wasn't a factor, beautiful women in every single culture. I personally don't think that filipna makes good wives the moment you bring them to the states. They tend to become very Americanize and over the top and start to compete with the jones attitude. No offense meant to anyone who is happily married to a filipina, this is just my observation from the filipinas I've met in california. I personally feel that Japanese women make bomb ass wives. One of the major advantage of filipina have over other asians is that they speak english. Love to hear feedback from all of you guys out there.
I think Filipinas make excellent wives using what women I have experienced as a measure. They have no problem doing stuff around the house and will back you and support you 100 percent. They seem to always be in a cheerful mood and can really give you a boost after shitty day at the office. Now that I have said the good it is time for the bad.
I live with a Filipina in Manila. She already try’s that keeping up with the Jones shit in terms of wanting jewelry, cars etc….I have seen this behavior from other Filipinas and Filipina friends as well. Second thing is they are very clingy you can’t go take a shit without them running behind you. That becomes nerve wrecking after a while.
The other thing is the families coming around asking for “assistance.” I have been lucky in this department as my ole lady is not close with them but for the majority of other Filipinas sadly this is not the case.
I think Filipinas make excellant wives.
I think Filipinas make excellent wives they have no problem doing stuff around the house and will back you and support you 100 percent. They seem to always be in a cheerful mood and can really give you a boost after shitty day at the office. Now that I have said the good it is time for the bad.
I live with a Filipina in Manila. She already try’s that keeping up with the Jones shit in terms of wanting jewelry, cars etc….I have seen this behavior from other Filipinas and Filipina friends as well. Second thing is they are very clingy. You can’t go take a shit without them running behind you. That becomes nerve wrecking after a while.
The other thing is the families coming around asking for “assistance.” I have been lucky in this department as my ole lady is not close with them but for the majority of other Filipinas sadly this is not the case.
I agree with you, I'm thinking of living in Pi part time when I retire, but I guess I should have asked which ones make excellent wives when you take them back to the states?
My experience is much like Daddy Warbucks. They don't have to leave the Phils to get into the "keeping up with the Jones" mindset. They are very, very jealous and their families often treat you like a walking ATM. If I were to marry one, I would never bring her to the US to live. There are sufficient cultural differences to make that a rather difficult proposition. At their core, filipinas are women just like women everywhere else with all the drama that goes with it. Don't get me wrong, when they're fun, they're a lot of fun which is why we like them. Just have to be careful who you get into a relationship with.
My experience is much like Daddy Warbucks. They don't have to leave the Phils to get into the "keeping up with the Jones" mindset. They are very, very jealous and their families often treat you like a walking ATM. If I were to marry one, I would never bring her to the US to live. There are sufficient cultural differences to make that a rather difficult proposition. At their core, filipinas are women just like women everywhere else with all the drama that goes with it. Don't get me wrong, when they're fun, they're a lot of fun which is why we like them. Just have to be careful who you get into a relationship with.
So you would pick filipina over women from other cultures if you had a choice? I've rarely have any problems Japanese , vietnamese, or thailand girls with do the keeping up with the jones. Most of my problems have been with chinese and PI One of the main reason thats i really like PI girls is because they speak decent english. While they are catholic and all the moment PI girls come to the states i think they change over night compared to other girls, in many instances that older guy they married will be on his way out the moment she gets a greencard. That white shinning armor turns out to be broke white guy driving a clunker if the age difference is 30 plus years old. Unless you have the means to live well, I've always felt that marry a hot young little thing and bringing her back to the states is just asking for divorce. They just become another american woman.
So you would pick filipina over women from other cultures if you had a choice? I've rarely have any problems Japanese , vietnamese, or thailand girls with do the keeping up with the jones. Most of my problems have been with chinese and PI One of the main reason thats i really like PI girls is because they speak decent english. While they are catholic and all the moment PI girls come to the states i think they change over night compared to other girls, in many instances that older guy they married will be on his way out the moment she gets a greencard. That white shinning armor turns out to be broke white guy driving a clunker if the age difference is 30 plus years old. Unless you have the means to live well, I've always felt that marry a hot young little thing and bringing her back to the states is just asking for divorce. They just become another american woman.
I have heard of this from a lot of different places about them bailing on the guys once they arrive in the States. My questions to you is why you want to get married? Also why you want to marry a women from a different social/racial background then yourself?
I have been there and done that and I don't think no women on this earth is good enough or worth enough to make me commit to fully. Also the whole marrying then mongering thing man whats the point?
Hairy Wonder
10-05-08, 12:09
I have heard of this from a lot of different places about them bailing on the guys once they arrive in the States. My questions to you is why you want to get married? Also why you want to marry a women from a different social/racial background then yourself?
I have been there and done that and I don't think no women on this earth is good enough or worth enough to make me commit to fully. Also the whole marrying then mongering thing man whats the point?
I think I agree with DW on this also. I heard all the same things over 20 years ago, about Koreans marrying only for the purpose of getting the green card and then dumping the guy for someone better. I guess I was lucky. It took about 13 years before I noticed the "keep up with the Joneses" attitude kick in. But when it did kick, it kicked damned hard! As for the dumping thing, I'm wishing that would hurry up and kick in. I've been separated from her for almost 3 years now, and I can't get her to agree to doing an uncontested divorce, or anything that would make the divorce go smoothly. Anyone know of a good lawyer in TX (or an assassin in Korea)? :D
I have had a couple of Filipina girlfriends. Both lived with me for a while (at different time periods, of course). The first got into the "keep up with Jones" thing immediately. The kuripot (cheap) aproach was absolutely not for her. We split after she returned to PI and started demanding that if I did not send her more than $1000/month, visit her at least every 2 months with expensive gifts (and not so much as looking at other girls), then I obviously didn't love her. She was correct!
The second one, I thought was the greatest woman I could ever find, at least when I first got involved with her. She told me that she had no problem with me playing around with other girls, as long as I returned home to sleep with her. She refused to let me buy her expensive things. She even resisted when I wanted to buy things she needed, like a winter coat in the middle of a Korean December. She would insist that she was warm enough with her thin sweatshirt on, while standing there visibly shaking. The problem came when I took what she had told me literally. I continued chatting with various girls online. I would not hide from her when I was admiring a nice ass walking down the street. I did many things that I would never had done in front of a girl that was obviously jealous. But she had said it was alright. Right? ... Very WRONG! She never let me forget what I did to make her feel like I didn't care about her.
I guess my point is that you will never be able to tell what a woman from any culture will be like as a wife, until she is your wife. ... And then, it's to late to do anything about it.
I have heard stories of guys living in PI, Thailand, or some other 3rd world country, like a king with their herum (not sure about my spelling there). They hire all kinds of cuties to do various jobs around their house (probably to include bedroom duties) and take them out on the town every now and then. I envy those guys (if they really do exist). Personally, I think (getting and) staying single is the best option in a great mongering area like PI.
Happy Mongering!
HW
I have heard of this from a lot of different places about them bailing on the guys once they arrive in the States. My questions to you is why you want to get married? Also why you want to marry a women from a different social/racial background then yourself?
I have been there and done that and I don't think no women on this earth is good enough or worth enough to make me commit to fully. Also the whole marrying then mongering thing man whats the point?
Well, I have no plan on marrying any filipina, and bringing her back to the states I don't think is a culture shock for them versus other ethnic groups for whatever they tend to become very Americanize which can be a really bad thing if you ask me. My original posting was asking men who have mongered in various different countries and experience different types of fruits to see which one would be the best if they had to marry. I do have a friend who is retired in Cebu, and lives like a king in every sense of the word. He would be considered very well off here, but in PI he can party like a rockstar! I remember when he first started living in PI. I just couldn't believe how he was living he had two cute maids from the province which he took to bed, bars girls all the time it was amazing site! After my first visit there I was hooked. I hope to semi retire in PI when I'm old marry some cute young thing so I can bed her without condom and have my fun on the side.
DW1,
My wife is Korean also. We have been legally separated since 2005 but are still living together. She told me she wouldn't divorce me because it would make me too happy. The woman is crazy!
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
Puerto La Cruz
10-06-08, 18:44
DW1,
My wife is Korean also. We have been legally separated since 2005 but are still living together. She told me she wouldn't divorce me because it would make me too happy. The woman is crazy!
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
Any judge in the USA won't keep two people married if one of them wants out. Where did your wife go to law school?
Any judge in the USA won't keep two people married if one of them wants out. Where did your wife go to law school?
I thought it wasn't quite simple as that especially when there is financial matters involved? Not that I'm even close to a lawyer, you always see in the movies where he or she is refusing to sign papers to finalize the divorce etc...
Met a guy who is an american pinoy, told me that don't go to the bars you want to hit up nice young girls for cheap prices. Go to the colleges many of the girls there need money but don't want to be seen in the bars. He stated all I would have to do is go to security officier and give him some change and he could point out which ones are doing what. any truth to that?
Met a guy who is an american pinoy, told me that don't go to the bars you want to hit up nice young girls for cheap prices. Go to the colleges many of the girls there need money but don't want to be seen in the bars. He stated all I would have to do is go to security officier and give him some change and he could point out which ones are doing what. any truth to that?
Any Place in PI is a nice place to meet Filipinas if you are a foreigner. You should get out to Dubai to see the real Filipina attitude it's an eye opener.
Any Place in PI is a nice place to meet Filipinas if you are a foreigner. You should get out to Dubai to see the real Filipina attitude it's an eye opener.
I'm not a newbie to PI, I have my regular girls in Pi and pick them up at the malls and what not. But the thought of young college girls lining up there and you can essentially" bar fine them" because they need money for school is just so appealing. Fresh girls that you don't even have to work at and play the I'm looking for a gf sort of game, that I play at the malls etc. Pay as you go with true non pro girls who need a bit of pocket money.
Love to hear your experience with girls in dubai. I plan to hook up with a single mom who just got back from dubai.
I'm not a newbie to PI, I have my regular girls in Pi and pick them up at the malls and what not. But the thought of young college girls lining up there and you can essentially" bar fine them" because they need money for school is just so appealing. Fresh girls that you don't even have to work at and play the I'm looking for a gf sort of game, that I play at the malls etc. Pay as you go with true non pro girls who need a bit of pocket money.
Love to hear your experience with girls in dubai. I plan to hook up with a single mom who just got back from dubai.
Pimpster. Guys get disillusioned and think Filipinas are nice and sweet. You come out to Dubai see them when they have a little money in their pockets see how they act towards you....I am late 20s. Have the body of fucking football star and the pockets of a American Judge. I have seen them even display racism in Dubai. I like Dubai. It helps clear up the bullshit. It's like contact lens solution for Philippine Goggles. What are Philippines Goggles?
I am a handsome man. These 20 something Filipinas really like me for me.
Yeah if you believe that I have beach front property in Antarctica for sale. :D
Pimpster. Guys get disillusioned and think Filipinas are nice and sweet. You come out to Dubai see them when they have a little money in their pockets see how they act towards you....I am late 20s. Have the body of fucking football star and the pockets of a American Judge. I have seen them even display racism in Dubai. I like Dubai. It helps clear up the bullshit. It's like contact lens solution for Philippine Goggles. What are Philippines Goggles?
I am a handsome man. These 20 something Filipinas really like me for me.
Yeah if you believe that I have beach front property in Antarctica for sale. :D
Wow that bad? I never ranked filipina very high once you taken them out of Pi, as potential mates or whatever. I just didn't realize that it was that bad. I've seen filpinas that have lived in the states awhile and I must say they aren't even close to something that I would consider dating long term, that has nothing to do with whether I find them attractive or not, its just an attitude thing. I know a gal who worked in dubai, and I'm meeting her in january got massive attitude . She cute and I just plan to tap that and go on.
GoodEnough
10-07-08, 11:47
I'm surprised too at DW's conclusions, though I do not doubt his experience for a second. I've only been to Dubai once, and I've only met a couple of Filipinas who work there, and I didn't get that impression. Then again, our meetings were short and I wanted nothing from these women, nor they from me, so my impressions are probably not worth much.
I'm somewhat surprised too by the racism, as I've never seen it displayed here. I've been out on the town in Manila with black friends from Africa, and I didn't notice that they were treated any differently than I was. Is my sample too small, or are Filipinas normally racist?
GE
I'm surprised too at DW's conclusions, though I do not doubt his experience for a second. I've only been to Dubai once, and I've only met a couple of Filipinas who work there, and I didn't get that impression. Then again, our meetings were short and I wanted nothing from these women, nor they from me, so my impressions are probably not worth much.
I'm somewhat surprised too by the racism, as I've never seen it displayed here. I've been out on the town in Manila with black friends from Africa, and I didn't notice that they were treated any differently than I was. Is my sample too small, or are Filipinas normally racist?
GE
I have been traveling to Dubai for the last 3 1/2 years every 3-4 months for business. I went with a Filipina friend to one her friends house to pick up a young Cebuana. They were angry with her when she brought me in the house. They said they thought I was an African but being an American I was OK. Met A Filipina on-line who was living there. We chatted for days on end. Never traded photos. I told hey I forgot tell you I am black. Right after she pulled a Bin Laden I never got another message.
Some time I look at them in the club you can see the disdain in their eyes. I have bagged a couple of them in Dubai but these are the type that will go with a damn martian if he had Dirhim in his pocket. Guys don't get the wrong outlook Dubai/Filipinas is a great place but there as I said you see the real them not the Peso/Visa seeking ones you find in PI who will go home with Papa Shango from WWF if given the chance.
With respect to discrimination, filipina often discriminate on the same line that Indian people do if not more so. Here what I've notice about filipina living in america, not all but the ones that still speak english with the accent. They will discriminate against their own people if you are from the province and you don't speak tagalag. If you are filipino and you are dark they don't like that they say its dirty. Actually, I've been corresponding with a light skin filipina on DIA and she refers to this a lot "you know the dark people who work outside they look dirty". If you are filipino and you speak english at work instead of tagalag, they don't like you. If you are black forget about it. If you are asian they are somewhat ok with that but you have to be really good looking americanize and have $$$. If you old white guy forget about it no matter how much money you have. Even if they are old they want someone looking younger than they are, preferably blond and blue eyes pale skin but will settle for cute hispanic guy. Many will only date whites though. Its almost an inferiority complex issue. Of course this is just what I've seen in the hospitals that I've worked for. Keep in mind that we are talking about filipina that haven't been living in the u.s. for decades upon decades and there always exception to the rule, but in general they are like this.
GoodEnough
10-07-08, 23:47
Thanks to Daddy Warbucks and Pimpster. I guess you're never too old to learn, and I learned something, no matter how unpleasant.
As an old white guy I guess I better stay here where attracting younger Filipinas is never a problem, rather than going back to the states to face rejection. I have more the body of the football than the football player, and though I might get taken for 50ish, I'll sure never be able to pretend I'm younger than that. I guess here in the Philippines the expectation that you have money and may be able to offer them a visa more than compensates for the age and physical stature. Think I'll stay here.
GE
Thanks to Daddy Warbucks and Pimpster. I guess you're never too old to learn, and I learned something, no matter how unpleasant.
As an old white guy I guess I better stay here where attracting younger Filipinas is never a problem, rather than going back to the states to face rejection. I have more the body of the football than the football player, and though I might get taken for 50ish, I'll sure never be able to pretend I'm younger than that. I guess here in the Philippines the expectation that you have money and may be able to offer them a visa more than compensates for the age and physical stature. Think I'll stay here.
GE
One day I want to be where you are at right now living like a rockstar. i assume you have young cute maids the whole works.
Any judge in the USA won't keep two people married if one of them wants out. Where did your wife go to law school?
I could easily get a divorce PLC, but not without loosing part of my pension, giving up a large chunk of my income per month for alimony, and continuing to pay for her health insurance. It's really a lifestyle issue for me. Do I want to live like a pauper just to be rid of her ass? I don't think so! I just tolerate her and continue to do my own thing.
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
GoodEnough
10-08-08, 23:37
One day I want to be where you are at right now living like a rockstar. i assume you have young cute maids the whole works.
I do have cute young maids actually, but I don't touch them, since the lady I live with would probably get pissed off and I'd lose some perfectly good maids. I do not live like a rock star though I did when I first came here. Actually, while here in Davao, I have a pretty normal life and I do not fool around. However, I travel often, both around Mindanao, and in Manila, and that's when the urge to sample whatever is out there kicks in and I indulge myself.
I know this is going to sound bizarre, but when you actually live here, grabbing a different woman every night month after month gets old in a hurry. I did that for the first six months or so that I was here and got tired of it. So now I've found a modus vivendi that works well for me.
GE
I've been in Dubai 7 years and I know many Filipinas - I've had a few Filipina GFs in that time (and a couple of them on the side now). I don't think they are any more racist than other nationalities. But they are into fun with anyone, just like any other girl who is overseas and away from the constraints of family and friends.
PS - Goodenough - agreed. I have a cute Filipina maid, but I don't touch her, for obvious reasons. Some of her friends have flirted with me, but I play straight. No need for the hassle.
DW1,
My wife is Korean also. We have been legally separated since 2005 but are still living together. She told me she wouldn't divorce me because it would make me too happy. The woman is crazy! ...
I could easily get a divorce, but not without loosing part of my pension, giving up a large chunk of my income per month for alimony, and continuing to pay for her health insurance. It's really a lifestyle issue for me. Do I want to live like a pauper just to be rid of her ass? I don't think so! I just tolerate her and continue to do my own thing.
Man, that would be a living hell. Tied to an ex-wife who doesn't want you, but you have to tolerate her because you don't want to lose part of your pension. Sorry to hear that. Makes you wonder what all the years of hard work were for.
Man, that would be a living hell. Tied to an ex-wife who doesn't want you, but you have to tolerate her because you don't want to lose part of your pension. Sorry to hear that. Makes you wonder what all the years of hard work were for.
Whatever you think about Donald Trump doesn't really matter, what matters it the man was right about marriage and prenup!
I do have cute young maids actually, but I don't touch them, since the lady I live with would probably get pissed off and I'd lose some perfectly good maids. I do not live like a rock star though I did when I first came here. Actually, while here in Davao, I have a pretty normal life and I do not fool around. However, I travel often, both around Mindanao, and in Manila, and that's when the urge to sample whatever is out there kicks in and I indulge myself.
I know this is going to sound bizarre, but when you actually live here, grabbing a different woman every night month after month gets old in a hurry. I did that for the first six months or so that I was here and got tired of it. So now I've found a modus vivendi that works well for me.
GE
GE, you suppose to at least give a guy a few days to of hope etc.. before you burst my bubble like that man. If I was living in PI or any other country where my dollar goes a long way and the girls are hot and easy. I just couldn't resist too many women and the hormones raging. I hope the gal you with is like just the salt of the earth and she super hot and great in bed. For me thats the only way thing that would prevent me from tapping everything in sight. Otherwise I would be I'll hook up with a stead and she can stay with me, but i would mess around on the side on a regular basis.
I've been in Dubai 7 years and I know many Filipinas - I've had a few Filipina GFs in that time (and a couple of them on the side now). I don't think they are any more racist than other nationalities. But they are into fun with anyone, just like any other girl who is overseas and away from the constraints of family and friends.
PS - Goodenough - agreed. I have a cute Filipina maid, but I don't touch her, for obvious reasons. Some of her friends have flirted with me, but I play straight. No need for the hassle.
Have to disagree with you on this one filipina are more racist in this sense, if you are black and go to lets say vietnam or china. The chances of you getting any play, even if you have money with something young and hot is slim to nill even with pro girls, and just foreget about it with non pro girls. Filipina will hook up with you regardless of what you look like etc.. as long as you got money and a ticket out of there. When they get to u.s. their hatred becomes apparent,, thats two face. With respect to families etc.. I think its easier to get into the knickers of filipina and thai girls that are non working girls than just about any other asian girls. Its a cultural aspect, most filipina family will offer you their daughter cherry if they think its her ticket out of PI, not so with many other cultures.
Unless I read you wrong, I think you're agreeing with me.
No matter. I'm not black, so I can only go by what my black friends tell me, and what Filipinas say (and do).
Cunning Stunt
10-09-08, 10:02
I do have cute young maids actually, but I don't touch them, since the lady I live with would probably get pissed off and I'd lose some perfectly good maids.
Lucky GE - her indoors handpicks the maids and I can assure you they are not cute and young, and certainly not sexy unless you find the feminine equivalent of Uncle Fester a turn on :D.
Hairy Wonder
10-09-08, 10:16
DW1,
My wife is Korean also. We have been legally separated since 2005 but are still living together. She told me she wouldn't divorce me because it would make me too happy. The woman is crazy!
Still Skinning Them Up!
Yella Man
I'm in the same boat as you are YM! Married to, but separated (wishing it was legally) from, a Korean. I've been trying to get her to do a separation agreement since I moved out in 2005, so I can avoid all the expenses of a full blown fight in court. The problem is the crazy b*tch won't make up her mind about things, and put it on paper. She keeps e-mailing to say she wants to do it the quick and easy way, but refuses to go to the FREE legal service on the military base!
I don't have a lot to loose. We are joint owners of a house in Texas. But that is really the only thing of value that we have. I just don't want to be ordered to be paying her half (or more) of my paycheck. However, I am getting more and more irritated with the idea that she won't cooperate on the separation agreement/uncontested divorce idea. I'm ready to contact the lawyers and just file and accept what happens.
Anyone know a good lawyer in Texas (or a good hit man in Korea)?
Happy Mongering!
HW
Lucky GE - her indoors handpicks the maids and I can assure you they are not cute and young, and certainly not sexy unless you find the feminine equivalent of Uncle Fester a turn on :D.
Friend stationed at Clark AB back when had the problem of messing with the maid so his Pinay wife hired an old ugly cousin to keep house.
Slim
Cunning Stunt
10-09-08, 10:29
Pimpster. Guys get disillusioned and think Filipinas are nice and sweet. You come out to Dubai see them when they have a little money in their pockets see how they act towards you....I am late 20s. Have the body of fucking football star and the pockets of a American Judge. I have seen them even display racism in Dubai. I like Dubai. It helps clear up the bullshit. It's like contact lens solution for Philippine Goggles. What are Philippines Goggles?
Wonder if your findings are location specific to Dubai, Daddy? My anecdotal evidence taken from years spent living in Hong Kong contradicts your observations. There is an large Filipina ex-pat community working there as Maids and Nannies, who are, if anything, easier to date than if in the Philippines. Guess because they are lonely for guys, and there are comparitively few Filipino's working there. Central on a Sunday, was atwitter with thousands of Pinays on their day off, and it was a rare event for me to go there and not leave with a Filipina on my arm. Had a mate who played a mean guitar and all we had to do was sit in Chater or Cenotaph Gardens, strum a few tunes, and we were surrounded by young Pinays, like magic or the fucking pied piper, or something. If that failed, it was to the Neptune Disco, in Wanchai, which is a bit like the LA Cafe but with more amateurs and a sure fire pick-up joint. Ahhh ...happy days :).
Friend stationed at Clark AB back when had the problem of messing with the maid so his Pinay wife hired an old ugly cousin to keep house.
Slim
So, let me get this straight guy living in PI married someone in PI and letting her make the calls? Why is he even living in PI than he might as well be living here
Ok off topic here, but some of you guys go barebacks whether it be with gf or bargirls. I'm sure at some point one of these girls gets knocked up. If she wants to keep the babies, can she go after you for child support in PI or pursue you for child support in the U.S. courts?
Tell her you moved to Korea. That will send some electricity up her as.
I'm in the same boat as you are YM! Married to, but separated (wishing it was legally) from, a Korean. I've been trying to get her to do a separation agreement since I moved out in 2005, so I can avoid all the expenses of a full blown fight in court. The problem is the crazy b*tch won't make up her mind about things, and put it on paper. She keeps e-mailing to say she wants to do it the quick and easy way, but refuses to go to the FREE legal service on the military base!
I don't have a lot to loose. We are joint owners of a house in Texas. But that is really the only thing of value that we have. I just don't want to be ordered to be paying her half (or more) of my paycheck. However, I am getting more and more irritated with the idea that she won't cooperate on the separation agreement/uncontested divorce idea. I'm ready to contact the lawyers and just file and accept what happens.
Anyone know a good lawyer in Texas (or a good hit man in Korea)?
Happy Mongering!
HW
1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics
2) ...on belly - goodenough.
3) ask if she is using brth control.
4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?Not good for the mother, not good for the environment.
5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.
X
Ok off topic here, but some of you guys go barebacks whether it be with gf or bargirls. I'm sure at some point one of these girls gets knocked up. If she wants to keep the babies, can she go after you for child support in PI or pursue you for child support in the U.S. courts?
Ok off topic here, but some of you guys go barebacks whether it be with gf or bargirls. I'm sure at some point one of these girls gets knocked up. If she wants to keep the babies, can she go after you for child support in PI or pursue you for child support in the U.S. courts?
I have only had 1 girl insist that I use a condom, she was 20 and did not want to get Prego. All the others, we never tallked about it.
Afterwards, I did not have one try to claim prego or that she was missing her period and was scared.
FreebieFan
10-10-08, 04:50
Chatting with a gal I know rom Manila.. 20 and just got knocked up.
The guy who did the knocking even wrote an official declaration at Australian Embassy that he had sex with her and would be the father of her child if there was a child ( he doesnt know how many others shes been with at same time but thats something esle)
Anyways now the guy has done a runner and girl will soon go to Aussie Embassy to ask for their help in locating him. Wil be interesting to see what they do and how they accept her story.
Wicked Roger
10-10-08, 04:51
1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics
2) ...on belly - goodenough.
3) ask if she is using brth control.
4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?Not good for the mother, not good for the environment.
5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.
X
Good advice X but I like to deposit in her mouth as lots of proteins. On the face is good also for the pictures and the health benefits to her skin :)
I have had one tell she was pregnant so I went with point 5 - once I said lets get DNA she admitted she was lying
Yellow Fever #2
10-10-08, 09:55
Back in September I wrote to this forum http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=788618&postcount=1648 and was grateful for all the member input.
Since that time, I have continued with this relationship.
My GF is awesome and totally supportive of our relationship. We have progressed quite far in the month.
There was a single 'irregularity' that caused me tremendous grief. However we dealt with it in a good way together, I am sure it will never happen again. She considers it a test of our 'love', if it was, I passed very well (even if I was hurt) and she failed (miserably). We have moved on from this time. Although she tried to 'protect' me from the truth, it came out and she had to end her relationship in front of me (on the speakerphone) which she did and gladly it ended.
In fact we have moved on very quickly and very far from our meager beginnings.
To rid her of her past, we destroyed the 'social' networking site she was a member of. We also ended all of her Yahoo accounts reversibly as both of us have part of the password. Should our relationship ever end, she can have my part of the password to continue with her old life. I am certain she will not want to go back. Also her old phone numbers were cancelled and all numbers were deleted from her phone. The SIM cards wre destroyed too.
We cannot erase the past, but we can live with it. (The way I see it is that a monger is really now better than a BG, except we pay for what we want and get to choose the BG, where as they have to take what they can get...) I really don't care about the past, I want to enjoy our future together.
After a week in Thailand together, we are now living in an newly rented apartment in Shenzhen China. I continue to work at my old job. I am divorcing my Chinese wife in Hong Kong. We are looking forward to a nice future together.
I support her family, however we will pare down their expenses to the absolute minimum. Nobody will go without, and all of her nieces in school will be able to continue.
I can see a wonderful change in her attitude and life. She is alot more positive now, more passionate, totally supportive of me of us, our relationship is great. We have been through some really hard times, together and in both of our pasts, but we are hopeful of our future together. Even if we have to live a sinmple life together, we can always be happy. What more can you want? maybe I am lucky, but I think that 'right' PI girls can be really great. A large majority of the PI BGs I met, I would not consider for a LT relationship but some were very nice.
We will come to PI in November. Looking forward to the trip.
Sure it is still early days, we are barely more than 3 months together but I am very positive in this relationship.
My girl is awesome, we have a great time together. I never had a GF before in my life that was a supportive as she is. Interestingly she is alot more domesticated than I could ever imagine. She is very organized and knows how to take care a home, my and actually all people in general. The more I learn about her, the more I like.
She is not perfect, noone is, when we took our new apartment together, she became mad at me when I asked my Chinese wife (separated-->divorce) for help with a contract. Really!! I could not believe it but she wants me to take care of things myself, even if I have no chance of understanding a Chinese contract! maybe part jealousy, part stubborness. I will try to do things without help. What other problems does she have? Really none as far I can tell. She is a nice woman, very open to learning and new experiences. Even yesterday I learned that she has NEVER been on a bicycle. Something I will enjoy teaching her to do. I am very happy.
If you can find the right girl, even a BG with great talent, take a chance. You may find great happiness.
Yellow Fever
So, let me get this straight guy living in PI married someone in PI and letting her make the calls? Why is he even living in PI than he might as well be living hereSometimes when you are in the U.S. military, you go where you are told. Not sure how long they were married, but she spoke with no noticeable accent and Clark was not their first assignment. They may have been married stateside and then assigned to the P.I. Evidently she was good enough to put up with the B.S.
Slim
Good luck.
Give us updates see how this plays out for you.
Hairy Wonder
10-10-08, 11:39
1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics
2) ...on belly - goodenough.
3) ask if she is using brth control.
4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?not good for the mother, not good for the environment.
5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.
x
you forgot about the vasectomy option! :d
tell her you moved to korea. that will send some electricity up her as.
thanks for the suggestion x! but she moved with me to korea over 4 years ago and we both still live here. i moved to another city, within driving distance to work, but it's not enough. what we used to call the korean grapevine (and i beleive there is a pinay version as well) is still very active. i can't fart without someone telling her how loud and smelly it was!
if you can find the right girl, even a bg with great talent, take a chance. you may find great happiness.
tried it a few times. always seems to end up that they find some info on my previous mongering activities, and decide that i can't be trusted anymore. then it just turns into constant nagging until i can get rid of her. not trying to discourage anyone. just passing on my limited experience.
actually, i'm debating about what to do with the current gf. she knows about all of my past activities, because i thought she was one of those girls that would allow me to continue the hobby when we first met. after all, she told me it was ok with her if i wanted to "play with other girls." now she tells me that she was a virgin when she said that, and she didn't mean that it was alright for me to fuck around. she gets pissed at me often, just thinking about all the girls i've been with before her. i'm thinking i would be best to cut my losses and go back to more active mongering.
hw
Back in September I wrote to this forum http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=788618&postcount=1648 and was grateful for all the member input.
Since that time, I have continued with this relationship.
My GF is awesome and totally supportive of our relationship. We have progressed quite far in the month.
There was a single 'irregularity' that caused me tremendous grief. However we dealt with it in a good way together, I am sure it will never happen again. She considers it a test of our 'love', if it was, I passed very well (even if I was hurt) and she failed (miserably). We have moved on from this time. Although she tried to 'protect' me from the truth, it came out and she had to end her relationship in front of me (on the speakerphone) which she did and gladly it ended.
In fact we have moved on very quickly and very far from our meager beginnings.
To rid her of her past, we destroyed the 'social' networking site she was a member of. We also ended all of her Yahoo accounts reversibly as both of us have part of the password. Should our relationship ever end, she can have my part of the password to continue with her old life. I am certain she will not want to go back. Also her old phone numbers were cancelled and all numbers were deleted from her phone. The SIM cards wre destroyed too.
We cannot erase the past, but we can live with it. (The way I see it is that a monger is really now better than a BG, except we pay for what we want and get to choose the BG, where as they have to take what they can get...) I really don't care about the past, I want to enjoy our future together.
After a week in Thailand together, we are now living in an newly rented apartment in Shenzhen China. I continue to work at my old job. I am divorcing my Chinese wife in Hong Kong. We are looking forward to a nice future together.
I support her family, however we will pare down their expenses to the absolute minimum. Nobody will go without, and all of her nieces in school will be able to continue.
I can see a wonderful change in her attitude and life. She is alot more positive now, more passionate, totally supportive of me of us, our relationship is great. We have been through some really hard times, together and in both of our pasts, but we are hopeful of our future together. Even if we have to live a sinmple life together, we can always be happy. What more can you want? maybe I am lucky, but I think that 'right' PI girls can be really great. A large majority of the PI BGs I met, I would not consider for a LT relationship but some were very nice.
We will come to PI in November. Looking forward to the trip.
Sure it is still early days, we are barely more than 3 months together but I am very positive in this relationship.
My girl is awesome, we have a great time together. I never had a GF before in my life that was a supportive as she is. Interestingly she is alot more domesticated than I could ever imagine. She is very organized and knows how to take care a home, my and actually all people in general. The more I learn about her, the more I like.
She is not perfect, noone is, when we took our new apartment together, she became mad at me when I asked my Chinese wife (separated-->divorce) for help with a contract. Really!! I could not believe it but she wants me to take care of things myself, even if I have no chance of understanding a Chinese contract! maybe part jealousy, part stubborness. I will try to do things without help. What other problems does she have? Really none as far I can tell. She is a nice woman, very open to learning and new experiences. Even yesterday I learned that she has NEVER been on a bicycle. Something I will enjoy teaching her to do. I am very happy.
If you can find the right girl, even a BG with great talent, take a chance. You may find great happiness.
Yellow Fever
Yellow Fever, this is the same girl that was milking you for water bill of 2500 a month, which is really really over the top as far as water bill is concerened in PI. I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill. I personally think that bargirlls can be good gf, and they can have nice attitudes as long as they know that you are not a sucker, that you take care of them well. They are like cats, the moment you stop taking care of them extremely well they will go somewhere else. You want to find a dog like girl for a gf. Dogs will starve with you, cats will find a new place soon as food runs out.
Chatting with a gal I know rom Manila.. 20 and just got knocked up.
The guy who did the knocking even wrote an official declaration at Australian Embassy that he had sex with her and would be the father of her child if there was a child ( he doesnt know how many others shes been with at same time but thats something esle)
Anyways now the guy has done a runner and girl will soon go to Aussie Embassy to ask for their help in locating him. Wil be interesting to see what they do and how they accept her story.
i don't know why the guy would write anything down in the first place. If I was the guy I head out of town. I guess I was really curious about if the girl did end up pregnant, because that withdrawl come on tummy isn't always a sure thing sometimes there are swimmers in the pre cum especially if you have sex on a regular basis. I wanted to know if the u.s. could force you to pay child support and all that crap " I highly doubt this, but not sure" I don't think the filipino government even has child support given the number of single mothers out there just getting by.
I'm preparing for my trip this january, last time i was in PI been a little over ayears ago. i was wondering if any of you guys have been staked when you got back to the u.s. With girls tracking you down etc...
FreebieFan
10-11-08, 04:40
I think the guy wrote the report (and I saw a copy of it, properly attested) was so that if there was a kid, the kid could get an Ausssie passport.
I guess he then got cold feet and did a runner. So now said Filipina is 22 pregnant and not sure whether to chase him or let him run.
Damn glad everything I got was cut long time ago so no danger of this happening to me.
Yellow Fever #2
10-11-08, 08:01
Yellow Fever, this is the same girl that was milking you for water bill of 2500 a month, which is really really over the top as far as water bill is concerened in PI. I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill. I personally think that bargirlls can be good gf, and they can have nice attitudes as long as they know that you are not a sucker, that you take care of them well. They are like cats, the moment you stop taking care of them extremely well they will go somewhere else. You want to find a dog like girl for a gf. Dogs will starve with you, cats will find a new place soon as food runs out.
Pimpster,
I *may* be a sucker but at least I am a happy sucker. Honestly I don't know what things cost in PI so that is why I asked the question in the first place. I am satisfied and comfortable with the answer and very happy with my present result.
I believe the water bill may be high because she has to have the water trucked in daily to the house. Apparently the house is not hooked to the municipal water supply. Also remember there are lots of people in the house and it seems at least from my GF that they like to take long showers.
In any case I cannot fault my gf, she bought the land herself (Paranaque) and had the house built for herself and her family. In fact the house is not even completely finished as I just learned yesterday. She funded the complete enterprise by herself too and did it to help her family. I can only appreciate the efforts she did to get where they are now.
Perhaps in November I will have a clearer picture of where the funds are going. Certainly it would not be good for her (and us) if she was abusing my generosity - so I think now (at least) it is unlikely to happen.
She is very aware of my situation here in China and she could not be any more supportive of me than she is. I am very lucky to have her in my life.
HW,
I am sure my gf is aware of my mongering activities, just as I am aware of her previous BG self-employment. We are just very open and honest with each other. If we both give up the 'nightlife' (as we have promised), what do we really lose ? I think we can only gain.
I am completely happy with the life we share together, the sex is the best I ever had (and I have sampled hundreds of BGs around the world) and the relationship we have is wonderful. Both of us made sacrifices to be together, I hope we can only make our relationship stronger and that we can survive the test of time.
The way I see it: we cannot change the past, we can only take care of the present time and plan (or hope) for the future. I also think that there is not really much difference between being a monger and being a BG. The biggest difference is in the 'power' of the relationship, as the monger holds all the cards. I have seen a tremendous change in her attitude since we became 'equal' partners.
YF
Anyone know a good lawyer in Texas (or a good hit man in Korea)?Happy Mongering!HW
I don't know a good lawyer in Texas, but I do know that if you go to Guam and stay for 7 days, you can file a no contest divorce. In 6 months, if she don't respond, you get the divorce.
Pimpster,
I *may* be a sucker but at least I am a happy sucker. Honestly I don't know what things cost in PI so that is why I asked the question in the first place. I am satisfied and comfortable with the answer and very happy with my present result.
I believe the water bill may be high because she has to have the water trucked in daily to the house. Apparently the house is not hooked to the municipal water supply. Also remember there are lots of people in the house and it seems at least from my GF that they like to take long showers.
In any case I cannot fault my gf, she bought the land herself (Paranaque) and had the house built for herself and her family. In fact the house is not even completely finished as I just learned yesterday. She funded the complete enterprise by herself too and did it to help her family. I can only appreciate the efforts she did to get where they are now.
Perhaps in November I will have a clearer picture of where the funds are going. Certainly it would not be good for her (and us) if she was abusing my generosity - so I think now (at least) it is unlikely to happen.
She is very aware of my situation here in China and she could not be any more supportive of me than she is. I am very lucky to have her in my life.
HW,
I am sure my gf is aware of my mongering activities, just as I am aware of her previous BG self-employment. We are just very open and honest with each other. If we both give up the 'nightlife' (as we have promised), what do we really lose ? I think we can only gain.
I am completely happy with the life we share together, the sex is the best I ever had (and I have sampled hundreds of BGs around the world) and the relationship we have is wonderful. Both of us made sacrifices to be together, I hope we can only make our relationship stronger and that we can survive the test of time.
The way I see it: we cannot change the past, we can only take care of the present time and plan (or hope) for the future. I also think that there is not really much difference between being a monger and being a BG. The biggest difference is in the 'power' of the relationship, as the monger holds all the cards. I have seen a tremendous change in her attitude since we became 'equal' partners.
YF
If you are happy than, thats all the matter, but be always be prepared to pay for the choices you make. That way if sh*t hits the fan, your not going to be all [CodeWord140] (http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140) off and everything. With regards to water truck etc.. I can assure you its not going to cost that much. I've personally paid for the type of water bill for one of my part time gf who was sick and couldn't work at the time when I was in PI. Keep in mind that a waitress working in a bar only makes 136 php a day and we are not talking about 8 hour shifts here. With the expenses you mention how in the hell were they getting by given the fact that the average filipino makes less than 100 dollars a month.
As I mention the supportive aspect or equal or whatever yo uwant to phrase often last only as long as the money does with bar girls, but to each his own good luck to yo umy friend.
I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill.I live in Nevada, with a 18,000 gallon swimming pool.
During this past summer, my water bill was $35.00 a month.
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 09:24
With regards to water truck etc.. I can assure you its not going to cost that much. I've personally paid for the type of water bill for one of my part time gf who was sick and couldn't work at the time when I was in PI.
200 pesos to fill up a 50 gallon overhead tank. With a few living in a house, washing clothes, showers etc, this would last about 2 days. So you are talking of approx 3000 pesos (?65 dollars) a month. I know this because, where I live, we occasionally lose our mains supply, so have to get it trucked in. G
200 pesos to fill up a 50 gallon overhead tank. With a few living in a house, washing clothes, showers etc, this would last about 2 days. So you are talking of approx 3000 pesos (?65 dollars) a month. I know this because, where I live, we occasionally lose our mains supply, so have to get it trucked in. G
I'm not exactly sure where you are living but I paid for an entire month supply of water for 5 people in the house cost me 1000 php. I personally paid the bill, my whole thing is ok if you want to be generous and pay for it thats your call, but have the wits to ask for the bill. Its always amazes me how grown men can not ask for a bill, something that we do everyday in the u.s. but the moment we go overseas that common sense goes out the door. If you read his link, I think various people indicated it the amounts were excessive
Hairy Wonder
10-11-08, 10:42
I don't know a good lawyer in Texas, but I do know that if you go to Guam and stay for 7 days, you can file a no contest divorce. In 6 months, if she don't respond, you get the divorce.
Thanks for the input Rabbaf! I have heard of the Guam no-contest divorces, and tried to find as much information as I can on the Internet. However, the basic understanding I got from what I found, is that the no-contest divorce means that both the husband and the wife have agreed to settle things before asking the judge to sign the divorce decree. If you, or any fellow members, have different information about it, please provide it to me! A PM might be best for this, as we are getting a little off of the PI board topic here. :) If it can work the way you suggest, I might take my next vacation in Guam! I have to check out that board for mongering possibilities! :D
Happy Mongering!
HW
Hairy Wonder
10-11-08, 10:45
YF
My post was not meant to discourage you from marrying the girl. If that is what you want to do, and you feel it will make you happy, by all means do it. Don't let my, or anyone else's, opinion get in your way. I wish you and your new bride to be all the happiness in the world!
HW
Cunning Stunt
10-11-08, 12:11
I'm not exactly sure where you are living but I paid for an entire month supply of water for 5 people in the house cost me 1000 php. I personally paid the bill, my whole thing is ok if you want to be generous and pay for it thats your call, but have the wits to ask for the bill. Its always amazes me how grown men can not ask for a bill, something that we do everyday in the u.s. but the moment we go overseas that common sense goes out the door. If you read his link, I think various people indicated it the amounts were excessive
Paranaque - 200p per delivery is the going rate for a truck to come to your house and fill your overhead tank, the only option many have. Perhaps your 1000p per month was for a piped water supply. My bill for this averages 400p a month but the supply is intermittent. G
I'm preparing for my trip this january, last time i was in PI been a little over ayears ago. i was wondering if any of you guys have been staked when you got back to the u.s. With girls tracking you down etc...
I got a PO. box a block away from my home, best $50 I ever spent. Especailly now days, just for fun I put my address in the Google Street View.
The GSV is a stalkers paradise, it shows a very clear shot of my front house and my car in the driveway.
I found out the hard way, even if you use a calling card from a blocked home phone or work phone in the USA, they see your number on their cell phone caller id. It is a PI law that you can not block you phone number.
Paranaque - 200p per delivery is the going rate for a truck to come to your house and fill your overhead tank, the only option many have. Perhaps your 1000p per month was for a piped water supply. My bill for this averages 400p a month but the supply is intermittent. G
Actually mate, it was by truck so essentially its 1/3 of what your truck bill is. Maybe its the quality of the water maybe the company, or maybe the location wasn't as hard to get to as your own.
I got a PO. box a block away from my home, best $50 I ever spent. Especailly now days, just for fun I put my address in the Google Street View.
The GSV is a stalkers paradise, it shows a very clear shot of my front house and my car in the driveway.
I found out the hard way, even if you use a calling card from a blocked home phone or work phone in the USA, they see your number on their cell phone caller id. It is a PI law that you can not block you phone number.
Wow, thats what I was afraid of a bunch of girls calling you up your home even if you use a calling card! Or worst yet they find out where you work via internet some employers will have your name on their company website as my hospital does. I never give the name of the hospital that I work at, but I'm sure that some resourceful could track me down if they know what city I live in. One would assume that you don't work like 200 miles from the place you work at. I had a girl admit she googled me that I met on DIA and it freaked me out.
I know for many its a crown jewel to get to pop some girls cherry, a lot of mongers from Asia, pay huge sums of money in order to do that. I don't know if any pro girl really has a real cherry. I would assume that cherry girls aren't really good in bed because of lack of experience. I have always shy away from cherry girls in the past, because most are naive and are expecting true love with bf. Recently, I've met several DIA girls that are cherry girls while we don't talk about sleeping together etc.. there is an assumption there. Just wondering who the rest of you more experience members feel about this subject? I personally have always felt that cherry girls should be left to those who have deep emotional affection for them or pretend to and are willing to invest time after the fact so she doesn't feel that she is only being used for sex.
Cunning Stunt
10-12-08, 02:25
Actually mate, it was by truck so essentially its 1/3 of what your truck bill is. Maybe its the quality of the water maybe the company, or maybe the location wasn't as hard to get to as your own.
Wow man, this sounds an incredible deal! Can I have the name of the water trucking company? - I must use them myself. Now let me get this right. They will truck in an entire months supply for 1T pesos? How many deliveries will they make or is this unlimited? Can't be just 1 as it would take a fucking big truck and where would you put all that water? So if you use the standard 50 gallons every two days, that is 15 deliveries working out at (wait ...not very good at sums) 66 pesos per delivery. That is an incredible deal. This must be a hyper efficient company to cover water, fuel, labor costs etc etc at about a dollar and a half a pop and still make a profit. Are you sure its not just the local fire tender doing a bit of moonlighting on the side?
Wow man, this sounds an incredible deal! Can I have the name of the water trucking company? - I must use them myself. Now let me get this right. They will truck in an entire months supply for 1T pesos? How many deliveries will they make or is this unlimited? Can't be just 1 as it would take a fucking big truck and where would you put all that water? So if you use the standard 50 gallons every two days, that is 15 deliveries working out at (wait ...not very good at sums) 66 pesos per delivery. That is an incredible deal. This must be a hyper efficient company to cover water, fuel, labor costs etc etc at about a dollar and a half a pop and still make a profit. Are you sure its not just the local fire tender doing a bit of moonlighting on the side?
Unsure about the amount of deliveries mate, my temp lady provided me with the bill. I'm going to PI this january and will give you the info when i get it from my part time lady. We are not talking about like sparklet water truck with bottle wter right? The water truck is huge and pumps water into all the houses in the area. It seems to be 1/3 of what you are paying. I assume that your water habits are more western usage than typical asian. Keep in mind I'm not exactly how much water people use. I don't keep track of those matters. Anyways will pm you with info in late january, hope it helps yo umate. If you paying that much for water, you may want to drill. I'm sure you may be able to get ground water if you live in the sticks tropics
Hairy Wonder
10-12-08, 03:02
I know for many its a crown jewel to get to pop some girls cherry, a lot of mongers from Asia, pay huge sums of money in order to do that. I don't know if any pro girl really has a real cherry. I would assume that cherry girls aren't really good in bed because of lack of experience. I have always shy away from cherry girls in the past, because most are naive and are expecting true love with bf. Recently, I've met several DIA girls that are cherry girls while we don't talk about sleeping together etc.. there is an assumption there. Just wondering who the rest of you more experience members feel about this subject? I personally have always felt that cherry girls should be left to those who have deep emotional affection for them or pretend to and are willing to invest time after the fact so she doesn't feel that she is only being used for sex.
Pimpster,
I personally love to be the first for a cherry girl. Not that I have had that experience so many times, but I have had it. The fun is in teaching them how to perform the acts that you love, and then watching them come up with ideas of things to try as well. A lot of times, I have learned a thing or two from the things she wants to try. Some things don't work good, but it's damned fun to try!
HW
Pimpster,
I personally love to be the first for a cherry girl. Not that I have had that experience so many times, but I have had it. The fun is in teaching them how to perform the acts that you love, and then watching them come up with ideas of things to try as well. A lot of times, I have learned a thing or two from the things she wants to try. Some things don't work good, but it's damned fun to try!
HW
Harry,
Do you promise them to be their bf and all that ? Is it just pop it and leave? It just seems a bit cruel to me to pop it and burst their bubble of saving it for their prince. I'm not juding you here, I'm just really envious because there are a few girls i ve met in the past and on dia that are pure virgins and I wold lvoe to pop, but I want all the drama and sh*t afterward. i would love to hear your stories of how you handle from start to end of that relationship and how you let the girls down etc...
Hairy Wonder
10-12-08, 12:03
Harry,
Do you promise them to be their bf and all that ? Is it just pop it and leave? It just seems a bit cruel to me to pop it and burst their bubble of saving it for their prince. I'm not juding you here, I'm just really envious because there are a few girls i ve met in the past and on dia that are pure virgins and I wold lvoe to pop, but I want all the drama and sh*t afterward. i would love to hear your stories of how you handle from start to end of that relationship and how you let the girls down etc...
Unfortunately Pimpster, I have never had one that did not involve an extreme amount of drama. I hate it when they find my phone number, e-mail, or other means of communication, and then won't leave me alone. Every Filipina I've been with, even the bar girls, feeds me the line that she is in love with me and that there is no other guy that could make her feel the way I do. Honestly, I don't have a real good come back line for that. I just tell them that I am not interested in a long term relationship with anyone, and that I will be seeing (and obviously fucking) other girls. If they are OK with that, and still want to keep in touch (over the phone and physically), then I go with that. My biggest problem is trying to keep myself from developing any feelings for these girls. But I have to remind myself that even if they don't start out playing the money game, there are plenty of influences around telling them to get as much out of me while fucking others when I'm not around. I have had a couple of long term relationships with Filipinas. Each of them started out real nice, with the girl promising to love me and take care of all my needs for the rest of my life. I guess I wasn't far enough out of the marriage mindset when I entered into those relationships. But now that I have experienced the Philippines for myself, and read the advice of board members here, I think I could be very happy as a single man in the Philippines. Now all I need is to find work that will allow me to live there and have enough money to pay the bills and monger as much as I want.
HW
Mind you, I don't have as much experience with this as some of the other members here. I just thought I would thow out my opinion on the topic.
I know for many its a crown jewel to get to pop some girls cherry, a lot of mongers from Asia, pay huge sums of money in order to do that. I don't know if any pro girl really has a real cherry. I would assume that cherry girls aren't really good in bed because of lack of experience. I have always shy away from cherry girls in the past, because most are naive and are expecting true love with bf. Recently, I've met several DIA girls that are cherry girls while we don't talk about sleeping together etc.. there is an assumption there. Just wondering who the rest of you more experience members feel about this subject? I personally have always felt that cherry girls should be left to those who have deep emotional affection for them or pretend to and are willing to invest time after the fact so she doesn't feel that she is only being used for sex.
When I was in Makati a couple of years ago, I was offered a very pretty 18 year old virgin for 50,000 pesos. I didn't actually see her, only her photos. I passed, not my style or my budget, but I heard a couple of weeks later that some rich American staying at the Makati Shangri-La took her virginity and now the girl was being offered for 5,000 pesos for LT. Still not my budget. I heard that the Koreans and the Japanese go for these virgins too. So yes, that action is out there. I would think that if one could afford it, it would be a good way to get a virgin without the drama. But alas! most of us are on budgets so those who like virgins will have to take the drama that comes with them.
FreebieFan
10-14-08, 02:40
A few years back, when I lived in Manila I had a chat friend, who I then met, then took to movies, and finally to a motel. I hadnt realised, as she was 22 that she was a virgin. Anyways in the motel found out that she was, after we started kissing etc. She then said she wanted to learn more. Had lots of fun teaching how to give BJ, being first person to eat her etc.
I knew she had some crush on me. She was 22 and I was more than double her age. But I treated her well and gave her attention. Thats the key to success in Phils. Anyways, on another trip she told me that it was time for us to "do it". And I said no. This totally confused her. I just wanted her to be sure she wanted to give it up to horny guy like me who was dating quite a few others at the time.
Anyways next trip to the motel she asked if I would "take it", and this time I duly obliged. We still chat. (shes living in Scotland in a loveless marraige with some guy) and she is still overwhelemed that I actually refused her when she offered me, but states she loved me so much for doing that.
As for me, I just thought it made sense, as I wanted it to be a clear eyed call, not a spur of moment call when she was hot and dripping.
Unless I read you wrong, I think you're agreeing with me.
No matter. I'm not black, so I can only go by what my black friends tell me, and what Filipinas say (and do).
Wonder if your findings are location specific to Dubai, Daddy? My anecdotal evidence taken from years spent living in Hong Kong contradicts your observations. There is an large Filipina ex-pat community working there as Maids and Nannies, who are, if anything, easier to date than if in the Philippines. Guess because they are lonely for guys, and there are comparatively few Filipino's working there. Central on a Sunday, was atwitter with thousands of Pinays on their day off, and it was a rare event for me to go there and not leave with a Filipina on my arm. Had a mate who played a mean guitar and all we had to do was sit in Chater or Cenotaph Gardens, strum a few tunes, and we were surrounded by young Pinays, like magic or the fucking pied piper, or something. If that failed, it was to the Neptune Disco, in Wanchai, which is a bit like the LA Cafe but with more amateurs and a sure fire pick-up joint. Ahhh ...happy days :).
Pipe, GH you guys are WHITE guys. In Asia it is an embarrassment for a local to be seen with a black man it’s that simple. I have been hanging around Asia for the last 5 years. An older white gentleman will always beat out a black guy no matter if he has the intelligence of Barack, the looks of Will Smith and the pockets of Warbucks :D
I get flirted with by poorest, poor girls in the country or the not so pretty ones hell that even happened in the Japan but when you go after the pretty or the wealthy you see the discrimination rear its head.
I remember in EDSA walking into a bar I might as well had been invisible. The looks on their faces of disdain was incredible. It was closing time and most of walked right past not even interested in a bar fine for the night.
Then I get PMs All time from brothers who love Asian women but are frustrated by the bullshit. I tell them just keep your head up due to the sheer number of girls you will always find something'
The general consensus as one rapper said they will dress like us listen to our music but they don’t want be or see us….
Hairy Wonder
10-19-08, 05:09
Pipe, GH you guys are WHITE guys. In Asia it is an embarrassment for a local to be seen with a black man it’s that simple. I have been hanging around Asia for the last 5 years. An older white gentleman will always beat out a black guy no matter if he has the intelligence of Barack, the looks of Will Smith and the pockets of Warbucks :D
DW,
I have been living in and out of Korea over the past 21 years. I saw the same thing here when I first came here. Us "white guys" were the only ones normally seen with a pretty little Korean hanging on them. Most of the black guys I knew at that time didn't care. The general opinion I heard, was that the Asian women did not have the proper dimensions like a black woman had. Because of this, those guys only wanted the ones that obviously had breast implants (that wasn't many due to the cost.
These days, however, the young Korean women are so into the hip hop scene, that a white guy (young or old) has a hard time getting their interest. There are a lot of Filipinas here, working the bars and other jobs the Koreans feel are "low level." These girls don't seem to care about the skin color, or where a guy came from. The big concern is will he buy them lots of "lady drinks" at US $10+ or not, and will he pay a bar fine that is at least US $250. (That doesn't include the tip the expect.)
Just as things have changed in Korea, I think they will also change in the rest of Asia, eventually. The only problem, is that along with this change in attitude, came the anti-prostituion laws and enforcement. Korea used to be a great mongering location. It's far from that now.
HW
DW,
I have been living in and out of Korea over the past 21 years. I saw the same thing here when I first came here. Us "white guys" were the only ones normally seen with a pretty little Korean hanging on them. Most of the black guys I knew at that time didn't care. The general opinion I heard, was that the Asian women did not have the proper dimensions like a black woman had. Because of this, those guys only wanted the ones that obviously had breast implants (that wasn't many due to the cost.
These days, however, the young Korean women are so into the hip hop scene, that a white guy (young or old) has a hard time getting their interest. There are a lot of Filipinas here, working the bars and other jobs the Koreans feel are "low level." These girls don't seem to care about the skin color, or where a guy came from. The big concern is will he buy them lots of "lady drinks" at US $10+ or not, and will he pay a bar fine that is at least US $250. (That doesn't include the tip the expect.)
Just as things have changed in Korea, I think they will also change in the rest of Asia, eventually. The only problem, is that along with this change in attitude, came the anti-prostituion laws and enforcement. Korea used to be a great mongering location. It's far from that now.
HW
I lived in Korea for one year. TDC Camp Casey...
Dw,
I was out in the ville last night (sat). My two black brothers basically forced me out due to the shit that happened in BKK. Man, the korean chicks were all over these guys. I guess we ran into a birthday party or something because everyone was wearing hats. Now understand, these dudes are not wearing the "I'm a wanna be thug" uniform. Anyway, on the dance floor, they always got attention. One dude took home a russian, and the other a juicy. I myself, just went home. Still recovering from BKK.
Taking it Easy?
Carmex
Dw,
I was out in the ville last night (sat). My two black brothers basically forced me out due to the shit that happened in BKK. Man, the korean chicks were all over these guys. I guess we ran into a birthday party or something because everyone was wearing hats. Now understand, these dudes are not wearing the "I'm a wanna be thug" uniform. Anyway, on the dance floor, they always got attention. One dude took home a russian, and the other a juicy. I myself, just went home. Still recovering from BKK.
Taking it Easy?
Carmex
Mongers Dress Code:
Most of time I am wearing $200 Armani T-Shirts and $300 jeans like when you met me. I don't know any thugs who dress this way that's expensive thugging :D Second thing is sometime I wear collard Lacoste like business casual last I had that on in Bangkok some European girls laughed a while.
Are you confusing hip hop clothes with thug clothes and how does a thug dress?
The Girls That Like Brothas:
The poor, the ugly the bar type....I was in Burgos last night girls were all over me too. They will jump on anyone with money Pogo stick. These are not the type that I am discussing.
I guess I am confused as we have different definitions of the term. The "I wanna be a thug" line came from my two buddies. Both my guys were dressed nice, button down shirts and nice pants, custom made shoes, etc. I however, and still stuck in Hawaii mode so I only have shorts and t-shirts LOL. The Korean chicks still love the brothers though, but not the ones dressed in Hip Hop style. Which is weird because they dress like that, and only love hip hop music. Oh so complicated for a simple guy like me. Still had a nice double up with a pair of sisters last night though, so I could be getting back on track. Ended up pulling my groin though, Ouch!
Still taking it easy,
Carmex
Mongers Dress Code:
Most of time I am wearing $200 Armani T-Shirts and $300 jeans like when you met me. I don't know any thugs who dress this way that's expensive thugging :D Second thing is sometime I wear collard Lacoste like business casual last I had that on in Bangkok some European girls laughed a while.
Are you confusing hip hop clothes with thug clothes and how does a thug dress?
The Girls That Like Brothas:
The poor, the ugly the bar type....I was in Burgos last night girls were all over me too. They will jump on anyone with money Pogo stick. These are not the type that I am discussing.
Well mate, depends if you start to show some bling on your wrist and around your neck. If you wear your clothes overly baggy, it becomes a thug thing if if you wear lacoste.
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