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Mr OReilly
04-06-14, 07:48
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?

Member #4351
04-06-14, 08:12
Where are you, where is she?

TomJackin
04-06-14, 08:24
Where are you, where is she?Are you fucking my girl?

Rule of thumb: She is not your girl; just your turn.

Don't ever lose track of that thought.

Wolvenvacht
04-06-14, 08:46
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?There is no reason why it cannot work. There are examples enough in South-East Asia. BUT! You will have to take her out of her "working" environment. Too many men fall into the "sponsoring trap" where they will monthly send her money to keep her out of her bar and be available for when he returns. That will never work. The girl will cash the money and keep working. You cannot expect her to be faithful to you if you are never around. How would you do yourself?

However, don't expect it to be any easier or more successful than a "normal" marriage (if ever such thing existed). But that never seems to have stopped countless people to marry anyhow.

Goatscrot
04-06-14, 09:56
Are you fucking my girl?

Rule of thumb: She is not your girl; just your turn.

Don't ever lose track of that thought.Quick shower and she is as good as new!

Ganesha
04-06-14, 12:28
You will receive as many opinions as answers. There is no rule!

The very positive aspect: You are aware of the two opinions inside you, so you will not get lost. Just work on this relationship like you would do with any other and see how it will develop.

Not a fairytale: A friend of mine worked as part time escort specializing in older men. She married one of her clients and the marriage worked out very well. He got cancer soon and she took care of him with all devotion and efforts, so he was able to die in peace at home and not in a hospital. But he was an asshole. She signed a contract of marriage without knowing his language good enough. I got to read it after his death. Most of his wealth went to his wealthy children who did no visit him once during his illness.

Who is the Angel and who is the Devil? Read all the opinions and learn from them. But do it you own way! Wish you Good Luck and Happiness!

Mr OReilly
04-06-14, 16:42
I feel like I am going fucking crazy here to even be thinking it as an option. I am too young in my mid thirties and she fucks for money. I have known her a long time, like 2 years now, and I do like her. I should of stuck to the 3 fucks and move on rule! I am sure this happens to every monger at some point, as much as we just lay them and leave them, there are some cool chicks out there.

In any case, the advice is what I was thinking, it likely won't work. She is from Colombia and I live in the Caribbean now although I will probably move back to Canada for job opportunities in the future. I doubt I could ever afford to live in Colombia either, and if I did in live in Colombia I'd want to bang all the girls.

Some times you got to take a risk to make a play though, I ain't rich so fuck it she can take half my shit LOL wouldn't get much!

Jon32
04-06-14, 18:57
I feel like I am going fucking crazy here to even be thinking it as an option. I am too young in my mid thirties and she fucks for money. I have known her a long time, like 2 years now, and I do like her. I should of stuck to the 3 fucks and move on rule! I am sure this happens to every monger at some point, as much as we just lay them and leave them, there are some cool chicks out there.

In any case, the advice is what I was thinking, it likely won't work. She is from Colombia and I live in the Caribbean now although I will probably move back to Canada for job opportunities in the future. I doubt I could ever afford to live in Colombia either, and if I did in live in Colombia I'd want to bang all the girls.

Some times you got to take a risk to make a play though, I ain't rich so fuck it she can take half my shit LOL wouldn't get much!I 'dated' a working girl for about 2 years. You're not going to marry them and life is short. Just have fun with her and do relationship stuff with her, who the hell cares. (I was also banging other girls while I was 'dating' her tho).

G Schyman
04-07-14, 12:54
There are many examples of Couples mmeting where the woman was a bargirl / Hooker / service provider and the man a John. If you are honest to eachother it could work out. Just don't marry until after knowing the woman for some years.

I have many friends that married both Thai and Phillipine bargirls and their marriages has turned out fine. I know there are many examples of the opposite but if you are of similar age etc. There is no reason to why it shouldn't work out. She fucks for Money and you pay to fuck. What is the difference?

Sailor Jim
05-17-14, 00:05
There is no reason to why it shouldn't work out. She fucks for Money and you pay to fuck. What is the difference?The difference is one might have a problem with the other one's.

Some johns don't like the idea of being serious with a hooker or ex hooker and some hookers feel the same way about johns. Mostly this is because they both think their role as hooker / john is / was temporary, necessary, not the real me, something of a private phase I don't want anyone to know about... And that knowledge of the past surfaces disguised as problems.

If you are an old fat fart marrying your 22 year old Thai bargirl then you probably don't care at this point in your life about her past. And as long as you are supplying the money and security she'll suppress her discontent with having to settle for you're being a john = if she has an issue. She might not.

But the younger guys (20's,30's,40's) with some game and half their shit together might think that by being with a hooker that they are settling and can get the same quality babe who has not been pounded by thousands of dicks a year.

Britisher
11-26-14, 01:50
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?Yes, I have dated a hooker in Buenos Aires. Actually she was not a hardened hooker and we had instant physical attraction when we met.

However, it never worked out. But problems were more such as usual relationship problems rather than her being a hooker and me being a john.

If I were to fall in for a hooker again, I would not hesitate to go for a relationship especially if along with looks, she has a nice heart and we both have good chemistry between us.

Star2019
06-21-19, 15:06
It's a temporary feeling under the influence of the moment. It remains for a short term. It's not a real feeling. Reality of life is different. Basically such feelings become prominent under the urge of sex. But when the mind cools down, is in reality and under no influence then acceptance for her gets dimmed.

Best way is keep relationship as long as both are comfortable. Better not become emotional in such issues.


Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?

OldSchool318
07-07-19, 21:28
One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?

BobBlack
07-08-19, 11:32
One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?Does she still go to the place you met her. Does she always answer your messages or calls within ten minutes or must you wait ages. Does she contact you or is it always you contacting her. Is she really being open about her movements or actions when you're not there. Try and contact her under another name and see how she reacts to suggestions.

Star2019
08-03-19, 10:21
Try this. Use a different sim, I mean different phone number. Call her. See her response if she picks up immediately or delays picking up or responds afetr 3 - 4 attempted call. Talk to her as an unknown person and see how she responds. Tell her you got reference from your friend giving her your earlier phone number and name as a reference you received and see her response. The way she responds will let you know what's in her minds and what she really is.


One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?

Gamer76
05-07-20, 10:46
Try this. Use a different sim, I mean different phone number. Call her. See her response if she picks up immediately or delays picking up or responds afetr 3 - 4 attempted call. Talk to her as an unknown person and see how she responds. Tell her you got reference from your friend giving her your earlier phone number and name as a reference you received and see her response. The way she responds will let you know what's in her minds and what she really is.What if she identifed the voice LOL?

Gamer76
05-07-20, 10:47
What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?Maybe she uses make up just like a WG does and also her pussy becoming loose with each passing day.

Sammon
05-07-20, 15:53
Maybe she uses make up just like a WG does and also her pussy becoming loose with each passing day.Only age and child bearing will loosen pussy. Sex alone will not according to experts. Certain STD also loosen pussy. Also genetics play a role. As mongers we have all seen young girls with no children. Some have real tight and some loose. Usually fatter the girls looser the pussy. Maybe because just like breasts which sag with more fat. I am no expert so no quoting. Just mongering experience only.

EddieLima
05-07-20, 18:29
One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?Women who have dudes on rotation are smart. But they take many stupid chances! They are good with lies, but not much on their surroundings. When you're talking with her on the phone, do you hear another call trying to get thru? Does she ignore it? Play as if you don't notice. She if she will "call you back in a min"she has to answer that call! Also, when speaking, do you hear another phone in the background? They usually mute it but you can still hear the vibe (that's the money phone--never far way) --act dumb. Do the kids have new clothes / sneakers? Without asking you for bread? Sometimes the kids ask who is that--is that Carlos? Is that Raphie? Again surroundings. Her friends will always give her away-sluts hang with sluts! Facetime her-is her hair done on a Tuesday and again on Friday? Call her late Fri and Sat-money time! Taking it to the next level? Write down when she has her period--start and end date-- Cause next month, that's the week she will be very affectionate, real GFE, but will be asking you to send a little something since she can't work!! That one just cost you a beer, bro! Start and end date is another nugget-for another time.

Beavis
05-08-20, 03:52
One girl in Puerto Plata had 4 American boyfriends sending her money. She was a master at lies. She even had 2 in town once at the same time and managed to come up with a sick relative story so she could only stay every other night and pulled that off. One of her USA boyfriends called once while she was doing a gang bang with 4 guys. Her friend answered the phone and gave the "she went with her mother to the doctor" line. She did that for a long time, juggled 4 different boyfriends while she continued to work.

Midwestern
05-08-20, 04:47
Falling for a pro is fine, as long as you don't marry them. The best is when they marry someone else, or have a BF. Then, you get all the good stuff while their husbands or BFs have to put up with the bad stuff, like their nagging and having to put food on the table.

Macron
05-29-20, 14:14
Falling for a pro is fine, as long as you don't marry them. The best is when they marry someone else, or have a BF. Then, you get all the good stuff while their husbands or BFs have to put up with the bad stuff, like their nagging and having to put food on the table.But falling also leads to an emotional attachment which may or may not be easy for certain individuals to let go off in an instant or a jiffy. It's like not everyone is emotionally so strong to let go in short time. And when it really takes a toll on your mind, there is a feeling of sadness and depression.

Jon32
05-29-20, 14:26
I've had 2 pros as long term girlfriends, was fucking great.

Fall in love or marry a pro? No, never would. Pros are to used to money / objects as being their reward.

If they're not getting it from you, they are damn sure getting it from someone else.

As Frank Sinatra said, I pay them to leave not for the sex!

Macron
05-29-20, 14:28
Only age and child bearing will loosen pussy. Sex alone will not according to experts. Certain STD also loosen pussy. Also genetics play a role. As mongers we have all seen young girls with no children. Some have real tight and some loose. Usually fatter the girls looser the pussy. Maybe because just like breasts which sag with more fat. I am no expert so no quoting. Just mongering experience only.I would just like to add that loose or tight pussy is specific to individual who feel that, means the same pussy which is loose for some may feel like tight for some others. It's because the muscle are so flexible that it adjusts to every width, but yes after childbirth it becomes loose, but still some women maintain tightness even in their early 40's too.

The Cane
05-29-20, 14:52
I've had 2 pros as long term girlfriends, was fucking great.

Fall in love or marry a pro? No, never would. Pros are to used to money / objects as being their reward.

If they're not getting it from you, they are damn sure getting it from someone else.

As Frank Sinatra said, I pay them to leave not for the sex!I thought it was Charlie Sheen who said that, but maybe he got it from Sinatra. Anyway, no matter who said it, its true LOL!

Projector
07-21-20, 06:33
Only age and child bearing will loosen pussy. Sex alone will not according to experts. Certain STD also loosen pussy. Also genetics play a role. As mongers we have all seen young girls with no children. Some have real tight and some loose. Usually fatter the girls looser the pussy. Maybe because just like breasts which sag with more fat. I am no expert so no quoting. Just mongering experience only.Can you explain how genetics also plays a part in this?

WiseMonger
07-21-20, 06:46
Only age and child bearing will loosen pussy. Sex alone will not according to experts. Certain STD also loosen pussy. Also genetics play a role. As mongers we have all seen young girls with no children. Some have real tight and some loose. Usually fatter the girls looser the pussy. Maybe because just like breasts which sag with more fat. I am no expert so no quoting. Just mongering experience only.I agree that age and child bearing will loose pussy but yeah also having sex too looses pussy. My personal with my GF having sex for years during my graduation and post graduation. I personally experienced a lot of difference in her vaginal tightness.

FastFuck
07-21-20, 10:39
Can you explain how genetics also plays a part in this?Even I wondering about this thing. We have all heard how genes determine how we look, our facial features, skin colour, eye colour etc. But how can genetics play a role in tightness or looseness of pussy. I am hearing it first time, that too here.

Zeos1
07-22-20, 04:37
Even I wondering about this thing. We have all heard how genes determine how we look, our facial features, skin colour, eye colour etc. But how can genetics play a role in tightness or looseness of pussy. I am hearing it first time, that too here.Genetics plays a role in every muscle, every tissue, every organ. In our whole body. Why would it not play a role? But what that role is who knows. And who cares. And maybe that was the point of the question. Even if we knew that there was a certain gene combination that made for extra tight pussies how would that help us?

PilotPaul
07-22-20, 06:30
I agree that age and child bearing will loose pussy but yeah also having sex too looses pussy. My personal with my GF having sex for years during my graduation and post graduation. I personally experienced a lot of difference in her vaginal tightness.Are you are thinking you are solely responsible for her looseness? A pussy is going to expand to fit the largest cock. So if it was 'loose' on you then unfortunately for you there was probably also a larger cock doing some of the work. It's good to share the load I guess.

ManonsanBoy
07-22-20, 19:45
I once fell for a hooker from Angeles. I even visited the home village and was treated like royalty. But I came to my senses and left before tentacles were wrapped. About 5 years later, out of curosity, I hired a phillipine investigator to look for her. Bonus for identification. She was in her village but with 2 more kids in addition to the one she had. She also looked 20 years older. Don't fall in love with a bar girl. I see couples in Australia like that and they always look miserable. On the other hand, I know couples who met through more usual circumstances and most of these work out OK.

FastFuck
07-23-20, 14:37
Genetics plays a role in every muscle, every tissue, every organ. In our whole body. Why would it not play a role? But what that role is who knows. And who cares. And maybe that was the point of the question. Even if we knew that there was a certain gene combination that made for extra tight pussies how would that help us?I am not telling that you have to do research for finding that gene combination. What I was wondering was how it plays a role. Because a pussy or vagina muscle is flexible and it can adjust the size of baby as well as a cock. In that sense flexibility depends on genes, I don't have knowledge for that.

FastFuck
07-24-20, 17:03
I once fell for a hooker from Angeles. I even visited the home village and was treated like royalty. But I came to my senses and left before tentacles were wrapped. About 5 years later, out of curosity, I hired a phillipine investigator to look for her. Bonus for identification. She was in her village but with 2 more kids in addition to the one she had. She also looked 20 years older. Don't fall in love with a bar girl. I see couples in Australia like that and they always look miserable. On the other hand, I know couples who met through more usual circumstances and most of these work out OK.And how old was she is reality?