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Mr OReilly
04-06-14, 07:48
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?

Member #4351
04-06-14, 08:12
Where are you, where is she?

TomJackin
04-06-14, 08:24
Where are you, where is she?Are you fucking my girl?

Rule of thumb: She is not your girl; just your turn.

Don't ever lose track of that thought.

Wolvenvacht
04-06-14, 08:46
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?There is no reason why it cannot work. There are examples enough in South-East Asia. BUT! You will have to take her out of her "working" environment. Too many men fall into the "sponsoring trap" where they will monthly send her money to keep her out of her bar and be available for when he returns. That will never work. The girl will cash the money and keep working. You cannot expect her to be faithful to you if you are never around. How would you do yourself?

However, don't expect it to be any easier or more successful than a "normal" marriage (if ever such thing existed). But that never seems to have stopped countless people to marry anyhow.

Goatscrot
04-06-14, 09:56
Are you fucking my girl?

Rule of thumb: She is not your girl; just your turn.

Don't ever lose track of that thought.Quick shower and she is as good as new!

Ganesha
04-06-14, 12:28
You will receive as many opinions as answers. There is no rule!

The very positive aspect: You are aware of the two opinions inside you, so you will not get lost. Just work on this relationship like you would do with any other and see how it will develop.

Not a fairytale: A friend of mine worked as part time escort specializing in older men. She married one of her clients and the marriage worked out very well. He got cancer soon and she took care of him with all devotion and efforts, so he was able to die in peace at home and not in a hospital. But he was an asshole. She signed a contract of marriage without knowing his language good enough. I got to read it after his death. Most of his wealth went to his wealthy children who did no visit him once during his illness.

Who is the Angel and who is the Devil? Read all the opinions and learn from them. But do it you own way! Wish you Good Luck and Happiness!

Mr OReilly
04-06-14, 16:42
I feel like I am going fucking crazy here to even be thinking it as an option. I am too young in my mid thirties and she fucks for money. I have known her a long time, like 2 years now, and I do like her. I should of stuck to the 3 fucks and move on rule! I am sure this happens to every monger at some point, as much as we just lay them and leave them, there are some cool chicks out there.

In any case, the advice is what I was thinking, it likely won't work. She is from Colombia and I live in the Caribbean now although I will probably move back to Canada for job opportunities in the future. I doubt I could ever afford to live in Colombia either, and if I did in live in Colombia I'd want to bang all the girls.

Some times you got to take a risk to make a play though, I ain't rich so fuck it she can take half my shit LOL wouldn't get much!

Jon32
04-06-14, 18:57
I feel like I am going fucking crazy here to even be thinking it as an option. I am too young in my mid thirties and she fucks for money. I have known her a long time, like 2 years now, and I do like her. I should of stuck to the 3 fucks and move on rule! I am sure this happens to every monger at some point, as much as we just lay them and leave them, there are some cool chicks out there.

In any case, the advice is what I was thinking, it likely won't work. She is from Colombia and I live in the Caribbean now although I will probably move back to Canada for job opportunities in the future. I doubt I could ever afford to live in Colombia either, and if I did in live in Colombia I'd want to bang all the girls.

Some times you got to take a risk to make a play though, I ain't rich so fuck it she can take half my shit LOL wouldn't get much!I 'dated' a working girl for about 2 years. You're not going to marry them and life is short. Just have fun with her and do relationship stuff with her, who the hell cares. (I was also banging other girls while I was 'dating' her tho).

G Schyman
04-07-14, 12:54
There are many examples of Couples mmeting where the woman was a bargirl / Hooker / service provider and the man a John. If you are honest to eachother it could work out. Just don't marry until after knowing the woman for some years.

I have many friends that married both Thai and Phillipine bargirls and their marriages has turned out fine. I know there are many examples of the opposite but if you are of similar age etc. There is no reason to why it shouldn't work out. She fucks for Money and you pay to fuck. What is the difference?

Sailor Jim
05-17-14, 00:05
There is no reason to why it shouldn't work out. She fucks for Money and you pay to fuck. What is the difference?The difference is one might have a problem with the other one's.

Some johns don't like the idea of being serious with a hooker or ex hooker and some hookers feel the same way about johns. Mostly this is because they both think their role as hooker / john is / was temporary, necessary, not the real me, something of a private phase I don't want anyone to know about... And that knowledge of the past surfaces disguised as problems.

If you are an old fat fart marrying your 22 year old Thai bargirl then you probably don't care at this point in your life about her past. And as long as you are supplying the money and security she'll suppress her discontent with having to settle for you're being a john = if she has an issue. She might not.

But the younger guys (20's,30's,40's) with some game and half their shit together might think that by being with a hooker that they are settling and can get the same quality babe who has not been pounded by thousands of dicks a year.

Britisher
11-26-14, 01:50
Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?Yes, I have dated a hooker in Buenos Aires. Actually she was not a hardened hooker and we had instant physical attraction when we met.

However, it never worked out. But problems were more such as usual relationship problems rather than her being a hooker and me being a john.

If I were to fall in for a hooker again, I would not hesitate to go for a relationship especially if along with looks, she has a nice heart and we both have good chemistry between us.

Star2019
06-21-19, 15:06
It's a temporary feeling under the influence of the moment. It remains for a short term. It's not a real feeling. Reality of life is different. Basically such feelings become prominent under the urge of sex. But when the mind cools down, is in reality and under no influence then acceptance for her gets dimmed.

Best way is keep relationship as long as both are comfortable. Better not become emotional in such issues.


Has any fell for one of these girls and had it turn out okay? I am on a slippery slope of sanity here, a part of me wants this chick for good but then a part of me realizes the truth that it likely won't work. I made the mistake of seeing the same girl for 2 weeks, got her number, and we talk all the time so I have grown a fondness to her and her to me. In any case, has any one experienced anything positive out of this?

OldSchool318
07-07-19, 21:28
One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?

BobBlack
07-08-19, 11:32
One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?Does she still go to the place you met her. Does she always answer your messages or calls within ten minutes or must you wait ages. Does she contact you or is it always you contacting her. Is she really being open about her movements or actions when you're not there. Try and contact her under another name and see how she reacts to suggestions.

Star2019
08-03-19, 10:21
Try this. Use a different sim, I mean different phone number. Call her. See her response if she picks up immediately or delays picking up or responds afetr 3 - 4 attempted call. Talk to her as an unknown person and see how she responds. Tell her you got reference from your friend giving her your earlier phone number and name as a reference you received and see her response. The way she responds will let you know what's in her minds and what she really is.


One of the problems is that natural feeling she would work and still be a hoe when you aren't there.

If you can get past it and they are great girls. Then why not?

I am posting here because I fall in love with everyone of them I boink! And often they like me too!

What are some tell tale signs the girl secretly still works?