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Midwestern
10-03-20, 02:18
Let's use this thread to discuss and share Tinder experiences, tips, advice, etc.

BrizLad
10-05-20, 13:01
Whenever I use tinder here in my home town I get disappointed. So many overweight women my own age. I always migrate back to paying some $$ which improves my quality.

I used Tinder in Philippines and ad good success.

Luminous
10-06-20, 14:58
My experience was pretty similar for US. Most of the women look / sound pretty bad. I did find a few profiles that seemed like pros. But responses are hard to get.

One time I set looking for Male / Female and my like box was upto 100 in minutes. Realized my mistake really fast as I knew there's no way 100 women would like me in 25 minutes.


Whenever I use tinder here in my home town I get disappointed. So many overweight women my own age. I always migrate back to paying some $$ which improves my quality.

I used Tinder in Philippines and ad good success.

Luminous
10-06-20, 15:11
I tried Tinder for Medellin. Most of the younger chicks you find there are pro's. In about 4 days, I don't think I hit a single non-pro. The situation may change as you get in the older demographic. Curious if anyone else has a perspective.

BootyBandit84
10-06-20, 20:33
I tried Tinder for Medellin. Most of the younger chicks you find there are pro's. In about 4 days, I don't think I hit a single non-pro. The situation may change as you get in the older demographic. Curious if anyone else has a perspective.Maybe its because they can tell I'm not physically in Colombia but I have not had many matches in Medellin. Also I have noticed that the vast majority of the profiles are just advertisement for their Instagram accounts. Is this a new thing? I don't remember this being such a hassle when I was in Bogota 3 years ago and used Tinder when I was there. Are you currently in Medellin?

Luminous
10-14-20, 17:15
I agree with everything you are saying, Tinder matches have been hard for Medellin. I am not physically there either. I have not tried connecting through instagram. Seems such a hassle.


Maybe its because they can tell I'm not physically in Colombia but I have not had many matches in Medellin. Also I have noticed that the vast majority of the profiles are just advertisement for their Instagram accounts. Is this a new thing? I don't remember this being such a hassle when I was in Bogota 3 years ago and used Tinder when I was there. Are you currently in Medellin?

JeffThorsen777
12-21-20, 11:58
I like dating sites. But most of all I love to visit the chat. These sites can help you save time. I only have time to make a schedule of dates, a lot of acquaintances.

JeffThorsen777
01-27-21, 15:46
I like dating sites. But most of all I love to visit the chat. These sites can help you save time. I only have time to make a schedule of dates, a lot of acquaintances.The main desire and goal. I once went to the site and forgot what boredom and melancholy are. Thanks to webcams, you can find a girl for every taste. Yes, and even chat live. What could be better? This is how I met my current girlfriend.

TonyMontanaaO7
02-08-21, 14:01
I matched with this girl on Tinder, thought we were connecting really well but she was quite far from me. So we made plans to play a game together (she said her favorite then I bought it to play it with her), then she flaked on me- she was online, I asked if she was up to play and joined a game then messaged her hey, no reply. Nothing- this alone was weird because throughout our convo that week she was mentioning when we'd play, saying to just tell her when I wanted to and we would do it, making a show of downloading the game to her new laptop just so we could play, then the time comes and she's ghost. Then she replied a day later saying sorry she had been really busy with work, didn't really explain why she just randomly didn't play but I assumed she fell asleep so no big deal. Then it's just weird, we talked all week prior to that night and were connecting really well I thought, but after that night it's like we hit a wall. She messages me much more slowly or leaves me on read all the time for hours before replying (about a day). But she hasn't unmatched with me, and she also follows me on insta and views my story whenever I post something to it, and she seems enthusiastic whenever she does eventually reply. I was really liking her from what limited interaction we had, but I don't get what happened. Should I give up on it? Maybe I was actually the one talking a lot and she was just being polite last week? It doesn't seem like it because she was giving me lengthy replies and everything.

ManicGuy
02-12-21, 23:18
But she hasn't unmatched with me, and she also follows me on insta and views my story whenever I post something to it, and she seems enthusiastic whenever she does eventually reply. I was really liking her from what limited interaction we had, but I don't get what happened. Should I give up on it? Maybe I was actually the one talking a lot and she was just being polite last week? It doesn't seem like it because she was giving me lengthy replies and everything.Arrrrrrrr. I am so frustrated and angry from this behavior from girls on tinder.

At first I thought the problem was about me because most of the girls just disappear or not interested out of the blue.

Then I found out that this is the case with the most.

Maybe because of high male to female ratio on it in my middle east region which makes girls distracted by many guys at the same time or not 100% committed to online dating experience.

I mean most of the time they want to chat or get to know how attractive she is.

UweHertzog459
02-13-21, 19:40
The scam never spends any expensive money here either, just feel like you're making a big mistake I learned my lesson by finding another site. But don't be fooled by this.

ManicGuy
02-14-21, 21:09
The scam never spends any expensive money here either, just feel like you're making a big mistake I learned my lesson by finding another site. But don't be fooled by this.Could you tell me the name of the site for alternatives.

LazyAss69
02-20-21, 01:44
Could you tell me the name of the site for alternatives.There are a lots of dating sites like Tender here are some of them.

Feeld.

MATCH.

Facebook Dating.

Badoo.

Guardian Soulmates.

TonyMontanaaO7
02-22-21, 14:45
I'm a wanderlust, I've always had opportunities to travel so, whenever I did, I'd buy Tinder gold a couple of days before my arrival so I could have some "work" done before getting there. It was April of 2019 and a friend of mine, let's call him Polo, told me if I wanted to go to London for a month, just to chill and party. Of course I said yes, a couple of weeks later we were there and I was already setting up dates but hadn't go on any. On our third or. Fourth day in London (we were staying in a hotel at King's cross) a beautiful 23 years old (I was 29 at the time) matched me and out of the blue told me if I wanted to go to the museum with her. And so I went there and met "Karina", half Palestinian / half Caucasian, we spent the day looking at art and laughing, it was a great day. As the night started to change our mood, we decided to go out to a party she had but we had to go to my hotel first so I could change and leave some things there. So we went, I left my stuff, she met Polo and we left for the party. Halfway through, she tells me that we should go to her place and invite Polo because her housemate, Mari, is there and we should all meet her.

So me and Karina go to her apartment and Mari received us very friendly. They were both interested in politics and socialism, and we south Americans thrive on talking about those subjects so we started chatting and having some wine. I would call Polo every five minutes: Dude you have to come, they're both hot and horny. Hurry. It didn't matter because they didn't understand a word of Spanish, let alone slang words. Hours passed and Polo never came (because he was tired. He regrets that decision to this day), so Mari left us all alone in the living room. Karina told me she had some poetry she wanted to show me, her notebook was in her room, and so we went there.

As I enter she tells me in a kind of shy way "I'm really trying here", so we started to kiss, you know, the usual. After some minutes she tells me she has to go to go to the bathroom, nothing weird there. She came back, took her top off, took mine off, and. There she was: Mari was staring at us from the door (Karina had left the door open). She walks towards Karina and they started to kiss as I watched. I had no words. I'm not going to lie, Karina was fine but Mari was out of my league. I couldn't believe it.

Karina grabs me from my hair and pulls me towards their faces, we were all kissing with each other. It was happening and I could believe it, my cock was as hard and big as it gets. We took off our clothes, I'd go down on one and the other would go down on me. I'd penetrate one and the other one would masturbate or leave her pussy to be eaten by any of the others. I honestly couldn't believe what was happening, was nervous and exited. We kept going for a long time after I was done, there's always so much you can do. Eventually we stopped and took a shower, Karina with me. I spent the night there and we fucked once again in the morning, after that we had breakfast with Mari and laugh nervously. I went back to the hotel, told Polo what happened and we laughed for hours. After that Karina and I spent most of the nights together, we all went to parties and spent beautiful moments in London.

We kept in touch for a bit but eventually we stopped talking.

Tomasb
02-22-21, 19:30
Congrats! That's a story for the ages. Wow! Tinder is said to have the lowest hit and connect rate of all the dating services but perhaps that is just the US. I kind of do the same thing when I travel and pay for a monthly service with Tinder. Of course, if I am in Thailand, where I like to go, you generally get a lot of P4 P or LB's. I almost hooked up with an American black girl from NYC who was teaching in Vietnam and on vacation in a Bangkok. She was literally hooking on the side in Bangkok but we never could quite make the connection.


I'm a wanderlust, I've always had opportunities to travel so, whenever I did, I'd buy Tinder gold a couple of days before my arrival so I could have some "work" done before getting there. It was April of 2019 and a friend of mine, let's call him Polo, told me if I wanted to go to London for a month, just to chill and party. Of course I said yes, a couple of weeks later we were there and I was already setting up dates but hadn't go on any. On our third or. Fourth day in London (we were staying in a hotel at King's cross) a beautiful 23 years old (I was 29 at the time) matched me and out of the blue told me if I wanted to go to the museum with her. And so I went there and met "Karina", half Palestinian / half Caucasian, we spent the day looking at art and laughing, it was a great day. As the night started to change our mood, we decided to go out to a party she had but we had to go to my hotel first so I could change and leave some things there. So we went, I left my stuff, she met Polo and we left for the party. Halfway through, she tells me that we should go to her place and invite Polo because her housemate, Mari, is there and we should all meet her.

So me and Karina go to her apartment and Mari received us very friendly. They were both interested in politics and socialism, and we south Americans thrive on talking about those subjects so we started chatting and having some wine. I would call Polo every five minutes: Dude you have to come, they're both hot and horny. Hurry. It didn't matter because they didn't understand a word of Spanish, let alone slang words. Hours passed and Polo never came (because he was tired. He regrets that decision to this day), so Mari left us all alone in the living room. Karina told me she had some poetry she wanted to show me, her notebook was in her room, and so we went there.

As I enter she tells me in a kind of shy way "I'm really trying here", so we started to kiss, you know, the usual. After some minutes she tells me she has to go to go to the bathroom, nothing weird there. She came back, took her top off, took mine off, and. There she was: Mari was staring at us from the door (Karina had left the door open). She walks towards Karina and they started to kiss as I watched. I had no words. I'm not going to lie, Karina was fine but Mari was out of my league. I couldn't believe it.

Karina grabs me from my hair and pulls me towards their faces, we were all kissing with each other. It was happening and I could believe it, my cock was as hard and big as it gets. We took off our clothes, I'd go down on one and the other would go down on me. I'd penetrate one and the other one would masturbate or leave her pussy to be eaten by any of the others. I honestly couldn't believe what was happening, was nervous and exited. We kept going for a long time after I was done, there's always so much you can do. Eventually we stopped and took a shower, Karina with me. I spent the night there and we fucked once again in the morning, after that we had breakfast with Mari and laugh nervously. I went back to the hotel, told Polo what happened and we laughed for hours. After that Karina and I spent most of the nights together, we all went to parties and spent beautiful moments in London.

We kept in touch for a bit but eventually we stopped talking.