What would you do?

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Ok. A little over 60, been lucky to have more than my fair share in my life, mainly free. Around 50 ish started having ED issues. Tried everything except implants which would send a message to my partner that I'm using what she doesn't get anymore and that would prove difficult to explain. Have continued mongering since COVID but now I'm thinking is it time to hang up the boots and just reminisce. Been to Endocrinologist and drugs are no help. Seems like its brain related. So this is my dilemma. Can't get hard, can't penetrate, find it hard to come unless I am doing it. So I travel OS paying big money, flying business, stay good hotels to pick up girls who I can't fuck. Is that madness?

Yeah I do lots of other stuff to them and with them but as you know to them they expect to be fucked so when I say I can't they sort of go WTF?

Yeah I still have fun. Fun I could not have in my home country where to get similar to Phil or Thai I would have to pay 5 x what I do OS. Also home performance is usually not good. GFE - maybe if you are lucky.

So the choices are continue mongering OS (more expensive) - just go with the flow re sex and just enjoy what happens.

Or.

Stay at home (cheaper) pay the bigger price tags and be resigned to the fact that the glory days are over and sit on the porch and reminisce?

Still very highly sexed and keen but its a bugger if the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

Would appreciate feedback from those of similar vintage and / or predicament.

[Artisttyp]

Ok. A little over 60, been lucky to have more than my fair share in my life, mainly free. Around 50 ish started having ED issues. Tried everything except implants which would send a message to my partner that I'm using what she doesn't get anymore and that would prove difficult to explain. Have continued mongering since COVID but now I'm thinking is it time to hang up the boots and just reminisce. Been to Endocrinologist and drugs are no help. Seems like its brain related. So this is my dilemma. Can't get hard, can't penetrate, find it hard to come unless I am doing it. So I travel OS paying big money, flying business, stay good hotels to pick up girls who I can't fuck. Is that madness?

Yeah I do lots of other stuff to them and with them but as you know to them they expect to be fucked so when I say I can't they sort of go WTF?

Yeah I still have fun. Fun I could not have in my home country where to get similar to Phil or Thai I would have to pay 5 x what I do OS. Also home performance is usually not good. GFE - maybe if you are lucky.

So the choices are continue mongering OS (more expensive) - just go with the flow re sex and just enjoy what happens.

Or.

Stay at home (cheaper) pay the bigger price tags and be resigned to the fact that the glory days are over and sit on the porch and reminisce?

Still very highly sexed and keen but its a bugger if the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

Would appreciate feedback from those of similar vintage and / or predicament.Have you tried using marijuana before sex?

[Goatscrot]

Ok. A little over 60, been lucky to have more than my fair share in my life, mainly free. Around 50 ish started having ED issues. Tried everything except implants which would send a message to my partner that I'm using what she doesn't get anymore and that would prove difficult to explain. Have continued mongering since COVID but now I'm thinking is it time to hang up the boots and just reminisce. Been to Endocrinologist and drugs are no help. Seems like its brain related. So this is my dilemma. Can't get hard, can't penetrate, find it hard to come unless I am doing it. So I travel OS paying big money, flying business, stay good hotels to pick up girls who I can't fuck. Is that madness?

Yeah I do lots of other stuff to them and with them but as you know to them they expect to be fucked so when I say I can't they sort of go WTF?

Yeah I still have fun. Fun I could not have in my home country where to get similar to Phil or Thai I would have to pay 5 x what I do OS. Also home performance is usually not good. GFE - maybe if you are lucky.

So the choices are continue mongering OS (more expensive) - just go with the flow re sex and just enjoy what happens.

Or.

Stay at home (cheaper) pay the bigger price tags and be resigned to the fact that the glory days are over and sit on the porch and reminisce?

Still very highly sexed and keen but its a bugger if the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

Would appreciate feedback from those of similar vintage and / or predicament.How's your fitness levels? Body fat? Are you diabetic? Many things can contribute to ED. Of course of it's the psychological element maybe something that you might be able see a psychologist?

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How's your fitness levels? Body fat? Are you diabetic? Many things can contribute to ED. Of course of it's the psychological element maybe something that you might be able see a psychologist?Very very healthy generally. Seeing a endocrinologist. She gives me meds to increase testosterone but no effect on ED.

Pretty sure its mental. Head shrinks talk a lot. Thought about hypno therapy?

[BobNSuzy]

Very very healthy generally. Seeing a endocrinologist. She gives me meds to increase testosterone but no effect on ED.

Pretty sure its mental. Head shrinks talk a lot. Thought about hypno therapy?Two obvious questions come to mind. When you sleep do you get erections? If you were around a hot woman just relaxing would you get an erection? As far as whether to monger I guess that ultimately depends on whether someone is selling what you want or how hard it is to find it. You could very well be crazy in some way. Who knows?

[LoveItHere69]

I am low 50's. For me 70-80% is mental. I can no longer get 100% rock hard. 85-95%.

First problem is I have had many girls so having another is no big deal for me anymore so more difficult to get excited.

Second, I now know all the tricks and spot potential problems quickly so have an immediate idea I will have problems which causes my excitement to drop.

I remember once I had a business problem in the back of my mind. I took 3 times my get-it-up medication. Nothing happened. It taught me just how important the mind is at an older age. In your 20's you could bang the hell out of a beautiful starfish. Now you are older you just walk away from a beautiful starfish.

I remember as a kid I loved laying at the beach and swimming all day. 30's half a day. 40's just walking the beach and splashing in the water. 50's could not care less. Getting old sucks.

I now understand why so many older guys always post that they no longer need or want a 10 girl. They want a 6-7 that has not been laid in a while and wants "IT". That feeling of wanting you changes everything in your mind your your pecker responds. Amazing how much more excited you get with a girl that does not kiss versus one that does kiss. I have dropped my look standards some but have had better service and have been mostly happier because of it.

[Artisttyp]

I am low 50's. For me 70-80% is mental. I can no longer get 100% rock hard. 85-95%.

First problem is I have had many girls so having another is no big deal for me anymore so more difficult to get excited.

Second, I now know all the tricks and spot potential problems quickly so have an immediate idea I will have problems which causes my excitement to drop.

I remember once I had a business problem in the back of my mind. I took 3 times my get-it-up medication. Nothing happened. It taught me just how important the mind is at an older age. In your 20's you could bang the hell out of a beautiful starfish. Now you are older you just walk away from a beautiful starfish.

I remember as a kid I loved laying at the beach and swimming all day. 30's half a day. 40's just walking the beach and splashing in the water. 50's could not care less. Getting old sucks.

I now understand why so many older guys always post that they no longer need or want a 10 girl. They want a 6-7 that has not been laid in a while and wants "IT". That feeling of wanting you changes everything in your mind your your pecker responds. Amazing how much more excited you get with a girl that does not kiss versus one that does kiss. I have dropped my look standards some but have had better service and have been mostly happier because of it.Love this post. So true.

You should see the Chinese MILFS I sleep with.

Gutter Mongers Unite!

[LoveItHere69]

Very very healthy generally. Seeing a endocrinologist. She gives me meds to increase testosterone but no effect on ED.

Pretty sure its mental. Head shrinks talk a lot. Thought about hypno therapy?My ex-buddy had the same problem and also so an endocrinologist. Over a year plus and no results. Waste of time and money. No idea what end results or cure was because we do not speak now. Drugs can not help. If you are drunk, angry, sad, or worried your mind will not focus on sex but for a few seconds. It keeps going back to the other state of mind.

If I read the news before sleep it takes me forever to fall asleep because my mind is reliving articles and crap I read that are stupid or pissed me off or whatever. My mind is bouncing around. But if I watch a movie I fall asleep faster. Prime the pump (your mind). Watch porn before your date.

Best 2 quick fix options:

1) Get a girl that wants you or simply really wants sex. Normally a little less pretty, more weight, and a bit older.

OR.

2) Get a girl that is hot as hell but is a * that you care nothing about and want to simply hurt her with your dick frame of mind.

Even after many girls I get gun shy at times. I am in a room with a super hot 21 year old who is a model and I am thinking to myself how unworthy I am. How lucky I am. I never thought in my younger years I could be with such a girl after turning 30. It mind fucks me at times.

Stop wasting time and money. You need a porn type experience for 30-60 minutes. Your mind needs to set on blowing your load. Not giving a shit about pleasing anyone. No pleasure for either of you. Just cumming and walking out the door.

If you visit Indonesia or Philippines I can find the "cure" girl for you. Hahaha!

[LoveItHere69]

Forgot about this trick. Sometimes when I can not get hard I go to my fix-it position. Stand at the edge of the bed. She will be on her back at the end of the bed with half of her ass hanging off. Standing has the best blood flow. Use a little lube. Air conditioning dries lube out quickly so I add a little water at times. Rub your slong / stick / meat / love toy up and down her slit for 5 minutes just admiring her pussy, tits, and her body. Still soft is normal. Then push IT in with your fingers. Once in the thing magically seems to sense what it's job is and has always gotten hard for me. But really needs to be with no condom. The brain senses the wetness, the heat, and the pressure and IT seems to magically arise to the occasion. It is a subconscious mind thing. Your thingy goes into automatic mode, just like when you feel burning or something sharp you flinch.

Another idea is to do a threesome but 2 guys 1 girl. Do the end of the bed thing so you get a good view. Your buddy goes first. Watching him disappear inside of her might trip something subconsciously and you will get hard wanting your turn at her.

If you are like me you wake up instantly but you take forever to fall asleep because your mind is bouncing around. Take a shot or two of hard liquor 15-30 minutes before you fall asleep. Not recommended every night though. You need to take the edge off before your date. That 1-2 shots of hard liquor takes the edge off. Stops 10-15% of what is bouncing around in your head to disappear. Places you more in the "Here and Now".

Visit me here in Jakarta. I will fix you in less than 2 weeks or in the end we will simply cut your package off and have it stuffed. They do the same thing with beavers. Haha!

[FFlintstone69]

Or get some quality Viagra and practice getting and staying hard / and popping with your favorite porn then go out and find what gets you hard in the mongering scene.

And get to work.

[LoveItHere69]

Caverject Or get some quality Viagra and practice getting and staying hard / and popping with your favorite porn then go out and find what gets you hard in the mongering scene.
Did you even read his posts? He already said:

Tried everything except implants.

Been to Endocrinologist and drugs are no help. Seems like its brain related.

Seeing a endocrinologist. She gives me meds to increase testosterone but no effect on ED. Pretty sure its mental. Head shrinks talk a lot. Thought about hypno therapy?

But he and his doctor never thought of Viagra? I am sure in his research and the doctor's training that caverject was thought of. Notice he mentioned mental in 2 different posts. My solutions were based on mental scenarios and not drugs because he has "tried everything". He is even on testosterone. You are at step 1 and he is already at step 3+.

[BobNSuzy]

Or get some quality Viagra and practice getting and staying hard / and popping with your favorite porn then go out and find what gets you hard in the mongering scene.

And get to work.Porn makes many people impotent. Maybe he and a lot of people need to do a dopamine detox. I am not saying the science is correct on that but obviously a lot of people need something like that.

[LoveItHere69]

Would appreciate feedback from those of similar vintage and / or predicament.Love you types of guys. Want replies and answers but never return with replies and answers. SO what the hell happened?