General Santo City disaster

[TexasPistol]

Several months ago I decided to spend two weeks in General Santos City. I would rent a small house here through airbnb and locate in advance a pretty girl who would stay with me for two weeks 24/7. I would give her 3000 pesos a day plus order fast food using the panda app. I chose GenSan because it seemed like a sizable city with a decent supply of women while being rarely visited by white men, making me more interesting than I would be in Cebu City for example.

Incidentally, I am 64 years old, 6'1, 225 pounds, gray hair and look well for my age. Many people cannot believe that I am over 50 or 55.

Everything was perfectly organized. I got the airbnb. I went online a few weeks before the trip on Filipino Cupid and quite a few girls seemed to be very interested in being my temporary girlfriend.

I arrived here on August 20 and no one actually wanted to stay with me. Three girls met me briefly and we had sex. Everyone else suddenly had various problems. Their mother would not allow it. They have a boyfriend who won't allow it. Their baby was sick.

Everyone begged for money. For example, send me 1500 pesos for taxi fare and I will come. However almost no one actually came or if they came they soon left.

I am still here in GenSan but I am leaving tomorrow. I have been really shocked. After hearing for so many years how desperate filipinas are "foreigner boyfriends" and how poor their are and how common premarital sex is here, I should have had a line of barely legal teens going around the street.

My impression is this. Filipinas in a smaller city or town might be interested in sex work however when the opportunity actually arises she will be stopped either by her mother, cousins or boyfriend or because she is afraid of what people will say. So I came here for two weeks basically for nothing.

[Expat American]

Several months ago I decided to spend two weeks in General Santos City. I would rent a small house here through airbnb and locate in advance a pretty girl who would stay with me for two weeks 24/7. I would give her 3000 pesos a day plus order fast food using the panda app. I chose GenSan because it seemed like a sizable city with a decent supply of women while being rarely visited by white men, making me more interesting than I would be in Cebu City for example.

Incidentally, I am 64 years old, 6'1, 225 pounds, gray hair and look well for my age. Many people cannot believe that I am over 50 or 55.

Everything was perfectly organized. I got the airbnb. I went online a few weeks before the trip on Filipino Cupid and quite a few girls seemed to be very interested in being my temporary girlfriend.

I arrived here on August 20 and no one actually wanted to stay with me. Three girls met me briefly and we had sex. Everyone else suddenly had various problems. Their mother would not allow it. They have a boyfriend who won't allow it. Their baby was sick.

Everyone begged for money. For example, send me 1500 pesos for taxi fare and I will come. However almost no one actually came or if they came they soon left.

I am still here in GenSan but I am leaving tomorrow. I have been really shocked. After hearing for so many years how desperate filipinas are "foreigner boyfriends" and how poor their are and how common premarital sex is here, I should have had a line of barely legal teens going around the street.

My impression is this. Filipinas in a smaller city or town might be interested in sex work however when the opportunity actually arises she will be stopped either by her mother, cousins or boyfriend or because she is afraid of what people will say. So I came here for two weeks basically for nothing.So you wanted the girl to just stay holed up in your airbnb for days on end and you would give her 3000 P per day and fast food? If you wanted a pretend girlfriend for a while you should have offered to take them away from Gen San to like Boracay or something. No local girl is going to hang out with an old white man sex tourist in a small town. Yes, they may want a foreign BF but that would involve you living there full time. They know you are just a sex tourist and long after you leave they have a reputation to consider. You may get some ST fucks (like you say you did) but for that you would have had a better time in Cebu or even AC. You had two weeks, you could have tried a few places in the Philippines rather than committing to one small provincial town.

Anyway, live and learn. Better luck next time.

[Kazeu]

Well. You got some things right. General Santos City is somewhere not many foreigners go. So you probably were more of a novelty than Cebu City. I think you might have done better in a larger city though. Here's my reasoning. In smaller cities like general santos, many girls live with their families for well after they turn 18. As opposed to larger cities, you have a lot of girls coming in from the provences looking to earn money and they live on their own. This type of girl doesn't have as many duties as would someone living with their family.

Second. Not many people want to work 24/7 for 3 weeks. They need breaks. Want to go home. See family and friends. Would they go out with you? Gensan is a small city. Its highly likely that if you were to go out together, word would definitely get around. Being a white novelty works against you in this case. Most girls do not want to be seen with older white men. They will sleep with you sure.

But they don't want to have to explain it to friends and family. No offense to you. But "foreigner boyfriends" usually does not mean 50 and up. Barely legal teens do not drool over you. They will however drool over your money. So I am a bit surprised that you didn't get anyone at all to stay over for a single night. Maybe 3 k is not enough incentive. Keep in mind that there are girly bars there where girls can make that for a single f)(So if they are decent looking, then that's an option.

If you ever get around to trying this again, I think the easiest way to do accomplish what you wanted would be to look for a bargirl, if you had gone to a bar and found some chemistry with one of them, you might have been able to come to an aggreement. Bargirls generally speaking do not work at bars in their hometown. They will go to other towns to avoid having friends and family find out what they are doing.

Sorry to hear you had such a crappy trip. Thanks for the report.



Several months ago I decided to spend two weeks in General Santos City. I would rent a small house here through airbnb and locate in advance a pretty girl who would stay with me for two weeks 24/7. I would give her 3000 pesos a day plus order fast food using the panda app. I chose GenSan because it seemed like a sizable city with a decent supply of women while being rarely visited by white men, making me more interesting than I would be in Cebu City for example.

Incidentally, I am 64 years old, 6'1, 225 pounds, gray hair and look well for my age. Many people cannot believe that I am over 50 or 55.

Everything was perfectly organized. I got the airbnb. I went online a few weeks before the trip on Filipino Cupid and quite a few girls seemed to be very interested in being my temporary girlfriend.

I arrived here on August 20 and no one actually wanted to stay with me. Three girls met me briefly and we had sex. Everyone else suddenly had various problems. Their mother would not allow it. They have a boyfriend who won't allow it. Their baby was sick.

Everyone begged for money. For example, send me 1500 pesos for taxi fare and I will come. However almost no one actually came or if they came they soon left.

I am still here in GenSan but I am leaving tomorrow. I have been really shocked. After hearing for so many years how desperate filipinas are "foreigner boyfriends" and how poor their are and how common premarital sex is here, I should have had a line of barely legal teens going around the street.

My impression is this. Filipinas in a smaller city or town might be interested in sex work however when the opportunity actually arises she will be stopped either by her mother, cousins or boyfriend or because she is afraid of what people will say. So I came here for two weeks basically for nothing.

[Keen Eye Joe 1]

Sorry you had a bummer trip. Kazeu pretty much nailed it with his thoughts, and I can't add too much. But I think you would have had a decent chance of success if you'd have timed your trip during school summer vacation.

Classes for the Philippine 2024-25 public school year (including universities) began July 29 and will end May 15. Private school class schedules pretty much mirror these dates.

During July, most college girls begin worrying about finding money for tuition fees and supplies. Same thing for 20-something-year-old single mothers needing to buy uniforms, shoes, and supporting items for their pre-teen kids.

Desperation begins to set in by the middle of July, and the ranks of fairly attractive young streetwalkers in Butuan City swelled for a couple of weeks. Now the ranks are back to skanks.

Guys, if you want a stay-in Philippine holiday girl, make sure to come during Philippine holiday season.


Several months ago I decided to spend two weeks in General Santos City. I would rent a small house here through airbnb and locate in advance a pretty girl who would stay with me for two weeks 24/7. I would give her 3000 pesos a day plus order fast food using the panda app. I chose GenSan because it seemed like a sizable city with a decent supply of women while being rarely visited by white men, making me more interesting than I would be in Cebu City for example.

Incidentally, I am 64 years old, 6'1, 225 pounds, gray hair and look well for my age. Many people cannot believe that I am over 50 or 55.

Everything was perfectly organized. I got the airbnb. I went online a few weeks before the trip on Filipino Cupid and quite a few girls seemed to be very interested in being my temporary girlfriend.

I arrived here on August 20 and no one actually wanted to stay with me. Three girls met me briefly and we had sex. Everyone else suddenly had various problems. Their mother would not allow it. They have a boyfriend who won't allow it. Their baby was sick.

Everyone begged for money. For example, send me 1500 pesos for taxi fare and I will come. However almost no one actually came or if they came they soon left.

I am still here in GenSan but I am leaving tomorrow. I have been really shocked. After hearing for so many years how desperate filipinas are "foreigner boyfriends" and how poor their are and how common premarital sex is here, I should have had a line of barely legal teens going around the street.

My impression is this. Filipinas in a smaller city or town might be interested in sex work however when the opportunity actually arises she will be stopped either by her mother, cousins or boyfriend or because she is afraid of what people will say. So I came here for two weeks basically for nothing.

[TexasPistol]

A couple of days after arriving here in GenSan I met a very beautiful 19 year old who was willing to spend all day with me 3000 pesos plus Jolibees. BBFS however oddly no BJ at all. She had to leave at night due to her parents' rules. She spent two afternoons with me. The problem was that she was not at all passionate; very mechanical. So I stopped calling her. That was my biggest "success" here.

The surprise for me was that prior to arriving I had about half a dozen possible girlfriends lined up who all sounded fine on Filipino Cupid. Upon arriving here they either ghosted me or came for a few hours and that was it. My impression is that they basically hoped that I would give them money without meeting me however to actually meet a stranger and have sex for money, they wouldn't go through with that.

And by the way I chatted with single mothers and women up to 28. I was fine with video chatting before meeting in person. However nothing worked out well in practice.

[Fredsalsera]

I think the 225 pounds was to much for the little young Filipinas. Better look for a tubby older one.

[LoveItHere69]

Find girls on whatever website your prefer. Most are BS pictures so you need to find reality.

Once you find ones you are interested in you need to get their Facebook page. Tell her you will not comment on her posts or try to friend her on FB. That way nobodoy knows you exist. Secrecy is everything. Their Facebook pictures will be real. The FB pictures will show you if she dresses sexy or simple when she goes out with friends and where she goes out with her friends. That will help determine her family economic level too. Search her friends list and see if she has any other foreigner guy friends. See if any foreigners have posted comments on her pictures and how she replied to them.

You do not crap where you eat which is exactly what you are asking her to do. You want her to have a 2 week "fling" in her home town which is unrealistic. You always take the girl to another location where she can be wild otherwise she will be scared everywhere she goes looking for people that know her and sees her with you.

Doing this 1-3 weeks before school starts can be helpful.

[Aml3740]

Several months ago I decided to spend two weeks in General Santos City. I would rent a small house here through airbnb and locate in advance a pretty girl who would stay with me for two weeks 24/7. I would give her 3000 pesos a day plus order fast food using the panda app. I chose GenSan because it seemed like a sizable city with a decent supply of women while being rarely visited by white men, making me more interesting than I would be in Cebu City for example.

Incidentally, I am 64 years old, 6'1, 225 pounds, gray hair and look well for my age. Many people cannot believe that I am over 50 or 55.

Everything was perfectly organized. I got the airbnb. I went online a few weeks before the trip on Filipino Cupid and quite a few girls seemed to be very interested in being my temporary girlfriend.

I arrived here on August 20 and no one actually wanted to stay with me. Three girls met me briefly and we had sex. Everyone else suddenly had various problems. Their mother would not allow it. They have a boyfriend who won't allow it. Their baby was sick.

Everyone begged for money. For example, send me 1500 pesos for taxi fare and I will come. However almost no one actually came or if they came they soon left.

I am still here in GenSan but I am leaving tomorrow. I have been really shocked. After hearing for so many years how desperate filipinas are "foreigner boyfriends" and how poor their are and how common premarital sex is here, I should have had a line of barely legal teens going around the street.

My impression is this. Filipinas in a smaller city or town might be interested in sex work however when the opportunity actually arises she will be stopped either by her mother, cousins or boyfriend or because she is afraid of what people will say. So I came here for two weeks basically for nothing.I've been in Gensan a couple of times, staying at the beach resorts about a half hour or so south of there. It was different, in that I was going there to meet my partner that I had been in a relationship with for several months already. There are a lot of people in Gensan, but a lot of people farther away from there in places like Polomolok, Koronadal, Surallah, Tboli, and Lake Sebu. My suggestion is to expand your search area and seek girls that are near Gensan (within 1. 5-2 hours travel time) but not in Gensan itself. I stayed a few days at the beach resort with my partner, then went back to her place up in the mountains for a couple of weeks. While there, she ooh ted out several girls who were on dating sites who traveled regularly to Gensan to meet foreigners visiting on vacation. I will also caution you that, out of the five she pointed out to me, three were underage, and some run scams. So be careful.

If you want more info or have questions, feel free to PM me. I don't want to spill all of the beans here hahaha.

[Mua Tur]

The peoples have run of the mill idea that phil girls are usable according to the purchaser's desire, would get a little stumble after arriving southern Mindanao. The peoples ethnicity of the cities like Gensen, Sultan Kudrat or Kotabota more closer to Indonesia or Malaysia. So culturally they are more conservative as Muslims even they bear different belief. These small city peoples have very very limited income source, open for money but wrapped in conservative way. Overnight staying or week-long staying may find difficult like as happening other big cities in Philippine. They value family and fear to expose to their surroundings. Bringing on bed may find easy but takeout for week by a foreigner possible only if there some kind of legitimacy.

[Aml3740]

The peoples have run of the mill idea that phil girls are usable according to the purchaser's desire, would get a little stumble after arriving southern Mindanao. The peoples ethnicity of the cities like Gensen, Sultan Kudrat or Kotabota more closer to Indonesia or Malaysia. So culturally they are more conservative as Muslims even they bear different belief. These small city peoples have very very limited income source, open for money but wrapped in conservative way. Overnight staying or week-long staying may find difficult like as happening other big cities in Philippine. They value family and fear to expose to their surroundings. Bringing on bed may find easy but takeout for week by a foreigner possible only if there some kind of legitimacy.The South Cotabato area isn't really Muslim Mindanao. There are a few Muslims, but not like farther north. It is conservative, though. There are many indigenous Filipinos here, especially Tboli and Blaan tribes. If Filipinos are close-knit with their families, these people are even more so.

As it relates to mongering, I think the adage someone said "you don't crap where you eat" applies here. Bring in girls from a little farther away and they may be more apt to come. It is entirely normal for people to go away to the city to work for a week or two to work and then go back home. You could be their job 😂128514;128514;.

[Kazeu]

The peoples have run of the mill idea that phil girls are usable according to the purchaser's desire, would get a little stumble after arriving southern Mindanao. The peoples ethnicity of the cities like Gensen, Sultan Kudrat or Kotabota more closer to Indonesia or Malaysia. So culturally they are more conservative as Muslims even they bear different belief. These small city peoples have very very limited income source, open for money but wrapped in conservative way. Overnight staying or week-long staying may find difficult like as happening other big cities in Philippine. They value family and fear to expose to their surroundings. Bringing on bed may find easy but takeout for week by a foreigner possible only if there some kind of legitimacy.I honestly did not see much cultural difference between General Santos city and Davao City. Gensan might be slightly more conservative, but at least the bars don't close at 1 am like davao.