Seeking, Tinder and Other Online Apps in Jakarta

[Scarer]

Creating this thread so that we can exclusively discuss the online game in Jakarta.

[Lumens]

Most of the ladies that I have found on x and telegram require a deposit (aka DP). In the country I am from deposits are almost universally a scam and only total idiots will send money. With very few exceptions all the ladies I have found through x and telegram require a deposit. I have found a few COD's but something about them gave off junkie vibes and I especially do not want to mess around with that scene in Indonesia. Because IRD is low for USD I decided to try sending a deposit to see what would happen. The DP price range for the type of ladies that I am interested in is about 500 juta which is not a huge loss in the event I get scammed. The first few times I tried it the ladies wanted the money via a bank transfer. Unfortunately this seems impossible as I am not Indo I can not get a Indo bank account and Indo e-wallets require a Indo ID. You also need to an Indo ID to back transfer money with GoPay. However I did discover that I can transfer money using DANA which showing up to Indomaret and paying cash to the ladies DANA account which they need to text. This is takes time and sometime the lady will get impatient. The two ladies I was successful with so far were not young smoke show Instagram models, but rather, MILF / cougar types who have been posting a while. I figured this profile would be less likely to be bogus. My first serious try was a success. Not only did she look exactly like her pictures but she screwed me into the next dimension for 2 straight hours. My second although hot, like her pictures, basically got in and out in under 20 minutes and pulled the old "that sure did take a long time" BS. There have been a few times where I was in mid dialogue with ladies on WA and something seemed off and I found a reason to cancel the meeting. On a least 2 of those occasion there pimp called me to politely threaten me. I never give out the room number and only ever tell them to meet in the lobby. So any time the pimp calls I just tell them F off. So I have been a repeat customer with the first one. And as much as the second lady was a disappointment she was way better than any of the many girls I have seen at classic. If anyone has any wisdom for how to go about using X / telegram more effectively please share your incites.

[Akka76]

Creating this thread so that we can exclusively discuss the online game in Jakarta.Anyone have any info on the typical fee seeking girls ask for in Jakarta? I'm in town next week and I don't like the classic type of place and would rather have a freelancer come visit me for a night.

[Scarer]

Anyone have any info on the typical fee seeking girls ask for in Jakarta? I'm in town next week and I don't like the classic type of place and would rather have a freelancer come visit me for a night.For the first two girls I spoke with, I negotiated to 50% of what they initially asked (3 M). They were OK with 1. 5 M. Then I got an idea about the demand. From that point, I quoted them 1 to 1. 2 M, and they were happy with 1. 2 M for short meets which goes upto 4 to 5 hours. I added few extra money for taxi and I also ordered them food on gojek which made them very happy. Out of the 4 meets I had during my 4-day visit, 3 were very good and kind. It seems Indonesian women don't typically watch the clock and genuinely enjoy sex.

There were a few women with what we usually call as Golden Pussy Syndrome (GPS) who were keen on rinsing money. They insisted on 3 M no matter what and refused to negotiate. I guess they are typically spoiled by rich folks. I'the advise everyone to keep the price in check. These women quoting high are mostly drama queens. In my opinion, they take the money but won't let you enjoy fully. They'll let you have sex just once, then rest, expecting princess treatment as Seeking is advertised as do nothing and earn money kind of lifestyle via Tiktok influencers. I'the avoid these types and go for the GFE (Girlfriend Experience) or homely girls who are quite submissive.

Be aware of red flags though. There was one woman I chatted with who said she had been raped by a guy in Singapore. She claimed she reported it to the Singapore police, and the guy was caught within 20 hours. I felt this was typical feminist behavior or possibly some kind of scam to extort money from the guy. If he didn't give in, she might have sought revenge on him. That's just my impression. These cases are rare. Maybe 1 in 1,000 - but it's always better to be cautious.

To be honest, I prefer this style of mongering over places like Emporium or Classic which seem very transactional for me.

[Scarer]

Not in Jakarta right now, but I tried installing Tantan. I used a FakeGPS app on Android to mock my location to Jakarta and started swiping there. I've been getting lots of matches. The app keeps trying to push me to pay for premium by showing that 32 people have swiped right on me, but I'm holding off until I actually visit Jakarta in February or April 2025.

Based on reviews, there seem to be a lot of bot accounts, but I haven't encountered any. I've matched with 8 girls, and all of them have been chatting well so far. Since it's an Asian dating app, one Thai girl also matched with me here in the UK. However, I usually stay quiet in my home location. Let's see how it goes!

[Scarer]

Not in Jakarta right now, but I tried installing Tantan. I used a FakeGPS app on Android to mock my location to Jakarta and started swiping there. I've been getting lots of matches. The app keeps trying to push me to pay for premium by showing that 32 people have swiped right on me, but I'm holding off until I actually visit Jakarta in February or April 2025.

Based on reviews, there seem to be a lot of bot accounts, but I haven't encountered any. I've matched with 8 girls, and all of them have been chatting well so far. Since it's an Asian dating app, one Thai girl also matched with me here in the UK. However, I usually stay quiet in my home location. Let's see how it goes!Just wanted to add. I am not a Sexy 6 pack tall guy who attracts all girls on Dating apps. I have never got any success with Tinder in India / UK. Tinder gave me 3-4 matches in Thailand as it is more of WG location. However, comparing with that, TanTan in Jakarta so far has given more matches even with out subscription. Guess the Indonesian girls are more liberal towards handsomeness or probably they appreciate foreigners in general or like men who can speak / teach English.

Anyways I have to verify how these matches convert when I actually visit there in person. So it is just basic information that I have got so far.

[Werqweq]

Just wanted to add. I am not a Sexy 6 pack tall guy who attracts all girls on Dating apps. I have never got any success with Tinder in India / UK. Tinder gave me 3-4 matches in Thailand as it is more of WG location. However, comparing with that, TanTan in Jakarta so far has given more matches even with out subscription. Guess the Indonesian girls are more liberal towards handsomeness or probably they appreciate foreigners in general or like men who can speak / teach English.

Anyways I have to verify how these matches convert when I actually visit there in person. So it is just basic information that I have got so far.After a regular girl I met of some other dating app in Jakarta last week mentioned she met most guys via tantan, I too registered on tantan some days ago, though I had never heard of it before.

I'm now in Bangkok and I've not met anyone in person yet, but the girls I see on it are more to my liking than what I see on tinder, and more of them are also matching me. Even compared with me paying for tinder platinum (which I think is the only level worth paying for). I'm thinking it might be due to not so many foreigners on tantan (yet).

I paid for a month of tantan too, as I'm only here for some weeks and the amount of "free matches" you can do per day is too low for me to be waiting on that.

[Scarer]

After a regular girl I met of some other dating app in Jakarta last week mentioned she met most guys via tantan, I too registered on tantan some days ago, though I had never heard of it before.

I'm now in Bangkok and I've not met anyone in person yet, but the girls I see on it are more to my liking than what I see on tinder, and more of them are also matching me. Even compared with me paying for tinder platinum (which I think is the only level worth paying for). I'm thinking it might be due to not so many foreigners on tantan (yet).

I paid for a month of tantan too, as I'm only here for some weeks and the amount of "free matches" you can do per day is too low for me to be waiting on that.

The Thai girl I matched with in the UK on TanTan (refer to my first post) turned out to be a crypto investment scammer. So, be cautious of scams and bot accounts. I’m still not sure how reliable TanTan truly is.

To be honest, TanTan markets itself as an Asian dating app, which might be why girls outside Asia don’t seem to register on it. Which is good as we can meet locals easily. I’ve noticed the same thing. The number of swipes we get on a free account is quite low, and with the likes piling up (I have 31 pending), it feels like premium is the only option to make the most of the app. For now, I’ll resist the temptation and plan to pay for premium when I visit Southeast Asia again.

[HolaaaaHiiii]

Just wanted to add. I am not a Sexy 6 pack tall guy who attracts all girls on Dating apps. I have never got any success with Tinder in India / UK. Tinder gave me 3-4 matches in Thailand as it is more of WG location. However, comparing with that, TanTan in Jakarta so far has given more matches even with out subscription. Guess the Indonesian girls are more liberal towards handsomeness or probably they appreciate foreigners in general or like men who can speak / teach English.

Anyways I have to verify how these matches convert when I actually visit there in person. So it is just basic information that I have got so far.Hey man, any update on Tantan? Were you able to go on dates and hook up with few girls?

[PartyAnimal]

Just wondering what is the mode of operation in Jakarta for these online apps?

- Do you pretend to date (hence shopping or atleast eating out), or it is more meet in room and fuck?

- How common is incalls (you go meet the lady at her place)? Assuming most people say these are college / young professionals looking for extra income, this option is not on table?

- Any leads on safest way to book a place for the deed? I share a hotel room with colleague, so that is not possible. And I'the find booking a 5 star everytime very expensive, especially because I will need to go back to my office provided hotel at night to avoid suspicion.

[Werqweq]

Just wondering what is the mode of operation in Jakarta for these online apps?

- Do you pretend to date (hence shopping or atleast eating out), or it is more meet in room and fuck?

- How common is incalls (you go meet the lady at her place)? Assuming most people say these are college / young professionals looking for extra income, this option is not on table?

- Any leads on safest way to book a place for the deed? I share a hotel room with colleague, so that is not possible. And I'the find booking a 5 star everytime very expensive, especially because I will need to go back to my office provided hotel at night to avoid suspicion.You should be more explicit about what kind of girls you're looking for.

I use tinder for meeting normal, non-p4p girls, though there are p4p girls there too, while seeking are just hookers suffering from a touch of GPS it sounds like to me, though some here may disagree.

Your logistics sounds too complicated to have much hope of banging normal girls during a short stay in Jakarta to me. Best bet would be to meet at some mall or coffee shop near their place I guess, and then cross your fingers they a) live alone, b) are not too shy to bring some random dude to their place, especially a dirty foreigner such as yourself, and c) want to hook up with you so much they will bring you to their place.
Attraction has to be quite a bit more strong for this than for simply walking back to your room for <whatever reason> from a coffee shop outside the hotel.

Unlike Thailand I don't have the impression short-time hotels are very common in Jakarta, or that normal girls would be very interested in going there or know where to find them, but I may be wrong. For me tinder and similar are worth the time as I like banging normal girls and hang out with them, but with your logistics I think I'd just pop over to Classic instead. I'd probably get frustrated meeting a pretty girl over coffee, then thinking I could bang her if I could just bring her to my room, but instead having to just tell her goodbye because I cheaped out and didn't offer the company to pay extra to put me in a separate room.

As for seeking and other p4p girls, you're paying to bang them, so there's no reason to beat about the Bush, apart from the risk of getting banned by tinder or seeking. Move conversation to whatsapp and ask them if they have a room you can either meet at, or for the seeking women suffering from gps, a room you can go too after you've bought them dinner if they insist on that, or if they can suggest a hotel if they don't have that.

[United1]

Gents,

I see there is new forum for discuss Seeking in Jakarta.

Here is my opinion. I have been using the Seeking for the past 3 years. You will find a large variety. From models / actresses to the village girl who comes up to Jakarta on the weekend. I like this site because most people I have meet are not pros sleeping around with many guys. At least the ones I found. Mostly young professionals who looking for pockets money. I tried using tinder to find P2 P, but just took too long. And I don't like going to KTV type establishments. I am a timid monger.

I have noticed the $$$ have gone up in the past years. A few reasons. There was a sugar daddy article in the press a few years ago that overstated how well these girls get paid. Some idiot was flying his seeking girl on private jets all over the world and free credit card. Two. More girls are flying to Singapore and Dubai where they get TON more money. Three, guys from Singapore come ot Jakarta on weekends to fuck girls. So prices are going up.

As you talk to girls, prices will very. I have had girls ask for $1 K USD. Others will come over for free, just looking for a fuck. I typically will pay 2. 5 M-3 M for 2-3 hours of fun, no overnights. You might think that is a lto of money, but for the safety, quailty and discreetness. It fits my lifestyle. Mostly I have had great sexual experinces. Indos are freaky and aim to please. A few duds along the way, but mostly passionate lovers.

Sadly, the truly beautiful people are all in Bali. And they will charge a lot more.

Good luck.

Good luck.

[Chilli1]

Most of my matches are p4 p.

Maybe 20 percentage are normal girls.

But half of those have jobs schedule time issue or they want to meet far from central area.

For those who short on time if you like match and ok p4 p.

Get on wa video call to screen them.

Here are issues.

S.

Investment girls want to meet you but won't tell you about it until you ask her job.

Few after meet in restaurant eat start their sales pitch join gold trading investment open account.

Few others want you to pay for car to meet you.

Few others want you to pay upfront.

Full details upto you sort thing.

More than half don't have jobs and are looking for extra money or partner both.

Bumble matches had job and meet weekend few dates.

If you stay longer better go to local events.

Tip ask their job if finance make sure she is not selling you open account dorta thing, one of them was worst.

Said not sales girl for date and half way through date show her phone about trading profit open account with her company.

Another wanted to save job information company phone for her company crm.

[Sydpat]

Badoo work for me.

Indonesian women if you are looking for above age 30+ then they are more reliable then under 30+.

They are happy to be with you and help you if need arise. They need funds to supplement or pay off thier personal debts which is taken from loan sharks.

Best is to do Video call and satisfy that other person is genuine and same as profile.

You do find many who are keen to join thier investment scheme they have opened, for that you counter offer to her your price if she is worth then she will open up her legs instead of account for personal gain.