Exoticspirit
08-17-25, 16:51
Like many of you, I've mongered in southeast Asia (Pattaya, Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Ho Chi Minh City, Phnom Penh, Jakarta, Angeles City, Manila, Singapore) plus Medellin, San Jose (Costa Rica), Tijuana, Panama, Ste Maarten, Berlin, Frankfurt and Dusseldorf. * My most recent Asia trip was a month long one this year but because I was with a buddy on his first Asia trip for the 3 weeks of my trip that involved mongering, we covered multiple cities staying only 2-3 nights on average at each location. * We never repeated with any girls as we wanted to sample as many venues and girls as much as possible. * After a month of being at home back in Canada, many questions start to come up as I ponder how I could make a future trip better.
At my age I can only do one girl per day so I had 14 different and as you can imagine, some were good while some were pretty crappy (my various trip reports already posted). * I'm thinking that in order to get an overall better experience, I should focus on quality over quantity next time. * In this case it means repeating with the girls whom I had really good first sessions with whether it's repeating for a 2nd session while I'm still in town, doing long time instead of just short time or even wifing her up for the rest of my stay. * Of course in order to do this and get at least one candidate worthy of repeating, I would have to stay in a location more than 2-3 nights since we just didn't have enough time in most locations to really develop any relationships. * Since for the last trip we wanted to see as much as we could, we really hopped around different cities maybe too much. * So if this is all pointing to staying at each location longer maybe for 5-7 nights instead of 2-3, this will mean visiting fewer locations per trip. * So the question becomes -- where should we go next time?
On top of that, I found after visiting Pattaya twice, Bangkok three times, these mega mongering destinations although very easy to get girls, are sometimes too much for me. * I found them often too loud, too crowded and too much in your face for my liking, not to mention the stinky pollution and traffic. * Angeles City itself is a dump with not much to do besides bar hopping. * I did like Chiang Mai as a refreshing break from the craziness of the bigger cities and there was enough mongering opportunities there for me.
Now on another scale, if it's my intention to get better overall experience by further developing relationships (mongering ones that is) while I try to stay longer in each location, the language issue comes up. * Personally for a one off session, I can get by with Google Translate and hand signals with a non-English speaking girls just fine. * But for a prolonged period with such a girl whether repeating with her or wifing her up, this might become a challenge. * So this suggests that Philippines would be the best place based on just language since they all speak English then maybe Thailand second place with Vietnam, Cambodia and Indonesia being the hardest due to the lack of English among the vast majority of their working girls. * This is a real shame since many of us have concluded that Vietnamese girls look the hottest while even though Filipinos have the best personalities and English skills, Philippines has the worst food, infrastructure and interesting tourism opportunities. * There's no perfect place!
Now for Latin America, it's well regarded that Colombia and Brazil are the two hot countries for mongering down there and yes I would strongly suggest that international mongers do include that region in addition to southeast Asia just for the variety of girls overall plus culture. * For Colombian girls, I think it's best to just go to Colombia for them rather than the other Latin American countries I mentioned. * The source country will always have the best of their girls as well as the best prices for them. * As for safety issues, I've been to Medellin twice and had no problems at all since I never ventured into sketchy areas at night. * As for the possibility of girls drugging your drinks, that's not an issue for me either because I don't need to have any drinks during a session and at any bar, my drinks are always in front of me -- problem solved!.
I haven't been to Brazil yet but definitely plan to go there next year. * Although I've been with a few Brazilian girls in Toronto and Montreal, these were probably not representative of the majority of girls in Rio or Sao Paulo. * I'm sure that some of you have heard that Brazilian girls (those who are actually in Brazil) are next level in terms of their skills and attitudes in sex. **.
As for Germany, their FKKs are worth visiting just to see how operations for mongering can be developed into such a high level. * They are not cheap but if my travels take me to that part of the world for tourist reasons and I happen to stop by Germany, I'll take the opportunity to visit a FKK. * I would not regard Europe as a prime mongering region compared to Asia and Latin America but Germany is the best they got and worth quick visits if you happen to be there.
Japan will be an interesting place. * Although I haven't spend much time there, I do plan to in the future mainly for the tourism things. * Yes they have lots of mongering but mostly for local Japanese, not foreigners. * There are foreigner friendly venues but the costs are quite high. Either the same of even higher than rates in Toronto and Montreal. * So on a future trip to Japan, I'm not sure just how much I will monger there, certainly not every night as costs will become insane, at least for me. * I will not regard Japan as a mongering destination, certainly not like Latin America or southeast Asia. * There are reasons why many Japanese and Koreans for that matter come to southeast Asia, not the other way around.
For my future, I will visit Bangkok again but for short stays since I'll likely have to connect there to places like Udon Thani and Chiang Rai (and Mai) which are more laid back towns but seem to still have enough mongering opportunities for me. * While in Bangkok, I'll tolerate the traffic to get some nuru in which I discovered in my last trip and just loved it. * I heard that nuru was actually developed in Japan so I might end up doing at least one session in Tokyo just for experiencing the origin place of nuru despite the high cost.
For Vietnam, I might visit Hanoi just for the tourism but so far in my research, mongering opportunities are even more difficult and hidden compared to other places in Vietnam. * Like many of you already said in posts, Vietnam is a great place to visit for tourism but not an ideal mongering country.
Overall, I'm thinking that if I can stay at most future places, possibly quieter towns like Udon Thani that still have enough mongering options for me, this will enable me to have better overall quality time with girls who are not duds. * My friend claims that he gets amazing experiences mongering in Toronto but that's because he has a list of repeats of indies who charge premium rates. * I would think that if we take the time to develop connections and relationships with girls in Asia and Latin America, we would get just as good experiences or even better in the case of Brazilians at more reasonable rates than in Toronto. * Plus foreign spots are way more interesting to spend time in compared to Toronto!
I would love to have you guys, especially those of you who have been to Asia and Latin America, chime in on your suggestions or comments on how to best do future mongering trips.
At my age I can only do one girl per day so I had 14 different and as you can imagine, some were good while some were pretty crappy (my various trip reports already posted). * I'm thinking that in order to get an overall better experience, I should focus on quality over quantity next time. * In this case it means repeating with the girls whom I had really good first sessions with whether it's repeating for a 2nd session while I'm still in town, doing long time instead of just short time or even wifing her up for the rest of my stay. * Of course in order to do this and get at least one candidate worthy of repeating, I would have to stay in a location more than 2-3 nights since we just didn't have enough time in most locations to really develop any relationships. * Since for the last trip we wanted to see as much as we could, we really hopped around different cities maybe too much. * So if this is all pointing to staying at each location longer maybe for 5-7 nights instead of 2-3, this will mean visiting fewer locations per trip. * So the question becomes -- where should we go next time?
On top of that, I found after visiting Pattaya twice, Bangkok three times, these mega mongering destinations although very easy to get girls, are sometimes too much for me. * I found them often too loud, too crowded and too much in your face for my liking, not to mention the stinky pollution and traffic. * Angeles City itself is a dump with not much to do besides bar hopping. * I did like Chiang Mai as a refreshing break from the craziness of the bigger cities and there was enough mongering opportunities there for me.
Now on another scale, if it's my intention to get better overall experience by further developing relationships (mongering ones that is) while I try to stay longer in each location, the language issue comes up. * Personally for a one off session, I can get by with Google Translate and hand signals with a non-English speaking girls just fine. * But for a prolonged period with such a girl whether repeating with her or wifing her up, this might become a challenge. * So this suggests that Philippines would be the best place based on just language since they all speak English then maybe Thailand second place with Vietnam, Cambodia and Indonesia being the hardest due to the lack of English among the vast majority of their working girls. * This is a real shame since many of us have concluded that Vietnamese girls look the hottest while even though Filipinos have the best personalities and English skills, Philippines has the worst food, infrastructure and interesting tourism opportunities. * There's no perfect place!
Now for Latin America, it's well regarded that Colombia and Brazil are the two hot countries for mongering down there and yes I would strongly suggest that international mongers do include that region in addition to southeast Asia just for the variety of girls overall plus culture. * For Colombian girls, I think it's best to just go to Colombia for them rather than the other Latin American countries I mentioned. * The source country will always have the best of their girls as well as the best prices for them. * As for safety issues, I've been to Medellin twice and had no problems at all since I never ventured into sketchy areas at night. * As for the possibility of girls drugging your drinks, that's not an issue for me either because I don't need to have any drinks during a session and at any bar, my drinks are always in front of me -- problem solved!.
I haven't been to Brazil yet but definitely plan to go there next year. * Although I've been with a few Brazilian girls in Toronto and Montreal, these were probably not representative of the majority of girls in Rio or Sao Paulo. * I'm sure that some of you have heard that Brazilian girls (those who are actually in Brazil) are next level in terms of their skills and attitudes in sex. **.
As for Germany, their FKKs are worth visiting just to see how operations for mongering can be developed into such a high level. * They are not cheap but if my travels take me to that part of the world for tourist reasons and I happen to stop by Germany, I'll take the opportunity to visit a FKK. * I would not regard Europe as a prime mongering region compared to Asia and Latin America but Germany is the best they got and worth quick visits if you happen to be there.
Japan will be an interesting place. * Although I haven't spend much time there, I do plan to in the future mainly for the tourism things. * Yes they have lots of mongering but mostly for local Japanese, not foreigners. * There are foreigner friendly venues but the costs are quite high. Either the same of even higher than rates in Toronto and Montreal. * So on a future trip to Japan, I'm not sure just how much I will monger there, certainly not every night as costs will become insane, at least for me. * I will not regard Japan as a mongering destination, certainly not like Latin America or southeast Asia. * There are reasons why many Japanese and Koreans for that matter come to southeast Asia, not the other way around.
For my future, I will visit Bangkok again but for short stays since I'll likely have to connect there to places like Udon Thani and Chiang Rai (and Mai) which are more laid back towns but seem to still have enough mongering opportunities for me. * While in Bangkok, I'll tolerate the traffic to get some nuru in which I discovered in my last trip and just loved it. * I heard that nuru was actually developed in Japan so I might end up doing at least one session in Tokyo just for experiencing the origin place of nuru despite the high cost.
For Vietnam, I might visit Hanoi just for the tourism but so far in my research, mongering opportunities are even more difficult and hidden compared to other places in Vietnam. * Like many of you already said in posts, Vietnam is a great place to visit for tourism but not an ideal mongering country.
Overall, I'm thinking that if I can stay at most future places, possibly quieter towns like Udon Thani that still have enough mongering options for me, this will enable me to have better overall quality time with girls who are not duds. * My friend claims that he gets amazing experiences mongering in Toronto but that's because he has a list of repeats of indies who charge premium rates. * I would think that if we take the time to develop connections and relationships with girls in Asia and Latin America, we would get just as good experiences or even better in the case of Brazilians at more reasonable rates than in Toronto. * Plus foreign spots are way more interesting to spend time in compared to Toronto!
I would love to have you guys, especially those of you who have been to Asia and Latin America, chime in on your suggestions or comments on how to best do future mongering trips.