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Hi everyone,
I'm so angry "Spidey Theory" about Filipinas. Even their country poor many bargirls, so what? Spidey character was a [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue] guy because he found that money is the most important. Yes I agree money was important but not the most! Actually this guy always say he pay 9k for her girlfriend no problem something like that but 50k too much. But I beleved even 9k or 5k he didn't help her girlfriend. In his mind all girls just a hooker. May be her daughter or her mother was do that job so his mind like that!
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Good Enough,
No offense Good E I have nothing against white guys but you guys are like poster boys for mongers just as young Afro Americans are for rappers, basketball players, etc etc. Most Asians (who live in Asia) I noticed assumed because you are black you are born with the talent to rap and play sports what a weird world. Hmmm about that jealousy stuff man its crazy how possessive they are. All I can tell you guys out there be careful when you get involved with one of those ladies the sex is great but the headache and watching over your back is not.
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Iron Duke,
I agree with Mookman.
You now have been label a "sucker". She is always going to be in need, there will always be some crisis or another.
I get those types all the time. You need to learn not to give anyone money over the Internet and if you do consider it lost and don't worry about.
As for this girl, if you really want to bang her that badly. Just let her know you are coming, just before you go send her a message saying you are due in town and that you are looking to see her.
She will be glad to see you, remember you are label "sucker". Just take her to a short time room or your hotel. Although I wouldn't do that unless it was toward the end of my stay there.
However, this only based on the fact that you truly want to be bothered with her. There are so many girls you can meet wandering around the malls and in the shops. Do you really want to be bothered.
I still say this. NEVEN EVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE.
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Iron Duke asked:
So, my question is, if I send her a small amount of cash will this be regarded as a normal way for friends to help each other out? Or should I heed the warnings that she’s really just a (very attractive and gorgeous) gold digger and have nothing more to do with her?
Duke, she's scamming you and probable others.
Doofer
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Oh this "jealousy" thing. I gotta add, that after spending the better part of my life dating "american" chics and never can remember any being "jealous" (or even concerned) that I might stray (heck, let's be honest - most felt that "I" should be grateful that they lowered their expectations to stay wit' me, even they weren't "all that" that they thought themselves to be) It was a HOOT when I started to date Filipina and found them jealous.
Sure, on some level it's annoying, but on another, it's nice to know that they even care enuff to be jealous.
One thing though, it's really, really cut throat. I was with one "hot chic" Filipina, and while I was with her, in the bars, in the mall, in the restaurants, no other Filipina gave me the eye. They started down, defeated, humble, submitting to the evolutionary luck of the draw.
But, when I was with an "average" girl, the shop girls were virtually pushing her aside to impress me that I could do "better" - it was really - sociologically - fascinating, and a bit sad, as the girl I was with was real sweet, never said a word, but was hurt that she felt she wasn't good enuff. Sigh.
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Danny,
First of all read what Masterblaster said:
The need for money in the Philippines is unquenchable. Borrowing or asking money is already an artform there. Imagine being poor and not having enough all the time; you could only think of how you can break out of a pitiful situation. Asking money from strangers is not a tradition but poverty forces people to do so. Don't buy every bit of her story and don't mind the teasers. Everyone there knows a SOB story and a tease work wonders in loosening somebody else's pockets.
Second, I didn't give her any money, and next she was not my girlfriend. She was someone I met only twice in my life, and to tell you this. I am not giving someone 9K pesos, which at the time, was almost 200 USD. Would you, or anyone here? You also, mention that you would help your wife, or wife to be. That is a different story, and ballgame, dude!
Btw, your so full of it. You don't even know what you are reading. Read it again, Bozo! I know there are good people in all the third world countries. I respect them if they are making an impact in their lives, or progressing. Also, I teach, and help others in financing, and motivation, this alone make up for Charity. You don't need to use money, use education. so you don't know what the hell you are talking about! If you want to attack, Bring it on! I don't need to deal with your childless attitude.
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Excuse me, "Childish attitude" lol.
Sorry got carried away.
Btw, Danny
My girlfriend is a Filipina, who is a school teacher. Got it!
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Filipinos, whether man or women, are the biggest spongers and moochers on the face of the earth. And sly about it too....
Don't give me this "they are so poor they have to be like that" crap. So are most Chinese and they don't degrade themselves like this (I quess its the superior culture and upbringing). Does that explain why filipinos and mestizas with some Chinese blood are always quick to point this out?. The men especially I find are lazy and rely on the wife to go overseas as a nurse or domestic and send him money every month to buy San Miguel and pansit di ba.
I lived in Mexico for years where it is poor and catholic also and never found the same behavoir. The filipinos are without pride (unlike Mexicans) and get tiresome and predictable very quickly.
My advice to all brothers looking at a serious relationship/marriage with a filipina is don't bother. They will break your heart and slowly bleed you dry. You will always play second fiddle to her family-her committment to HER family will always be paramount and more important then you and your family. Someone told me once that the best Asian women to date/marry are the Japanese because the women there already have lots of their own money and are rich so they don't need to "gold dig" like filipinos. Sound advice from an old Asia pro.
Remember to practice the 4 R'S for Filipinas;
Find her
Feed her
Fuck her
Fling her
Cheers
Trisomie
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Spidey,
You don't need me as an ally. I'm sure you can defend yourself using your own arguments.
Below are the statements you made recently.
"I find that Filipinas are in a fantasy world. They live like they are in a fairy tale. They can falling in love, and fall out of love very fast."
"Another thing, they are good at is making babies. Hey, I am not generalizing. When half of their population is under 25 year olds, that tell you something. The P.I. is 80-100 Million people there. If you can't find a wife, or girlfriend there, something is wrong. ugly, or not, poor, or not, just have citizen to abroad is all it takes."
"My views (and with other friends) is that most Filipinos, are like children, who is always asking for money, like give me, give me. They are always dependent on someone."
"I know there are good people in all the third world countries. I respect them if they are making an impact in their lives, or progressing."
I could NOT figure what direction you are headed. Please show sensitivity when you dispense advice especially if the topic is NOT about a *****.
MasterBlaster
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Trisomie,
I feel sorry that your sorry ass kept on attracting the worse of the bunch that you could only generalize that everybody in the country is like that. You must be a real genius to figure that out. Don't worry. The world revolves around you and your omnipotent ass will always be on a pedestal with all praises coming from yourself. When you're long dead and rotten and the Filipinos are still thriving maybe they will make a monument in your honor. Cheers!
MasterBlaster
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Trisomie,
Filipinos males are lazy and don't want to work. Well, to tell you the truth. Nobody wants to work in general, even in the states. If it wasn't for being in debt (like mortgage pymt), not too many people won't go, or want to work. Of course, you have to feed your face, and there are things that one wants will keep us on the ball. People have to live.
Some of the Filipinos take it to an extreme, but don't forget that there are less jobs opportunties in the Philippines for the males there, and for the females, they have to compete for the job. There is also, a age limit there, if you are not a professional, or highly educated.
These are my views, and opinions, and to make people on this board aware of what is happening here.
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"I find that Filipinas are in a fantasy world. They live like they are in a fairy tale. They can falling in love, and fall out of love very fast."
>>Fairy tale in getting Marry, and living happily ever after. There are players in the Philippines too.
"Another thing, they are good at is making babies. Hey, I am not generalizing. When half of their population is under 25 year olds, that tell you something. The P.I. is 80-100 Million people there. If you can't find a wife, or girlfriend there, something is wrong. ugly, or not, poor, or not, just have citizenship to abroad is all it takes."
>>C'mon, it is just economics. Some of them don't really like us. They think we are rich (to them we are, and in their country, we are). They need to change their life, and be given a chance in life. They will do what they have to do. Believe me, Women are smarting than men. Always, one guy told me this in AC, I know they don't like us, But who cares! This guy is having the time of his life there. He can do anything he wants, and he is married.
"My views (and with other friends) is that most Filipinos, are like children, who is always asking for money, like give me, give me. They are always dependent on someone."
>>Maybe b/c they have been colonized by so many countries, Spainish, American, Japanese, American, that they become dependent on others.
"I know there are good people in all the third world countries. I respect them if they are making an impact in their lives, or progressing."
>>Look at some of the older bg, they are broked, and still working the trade. They are suppose to make more than the average Filipinos. I am sure when they were younger, they made okay money. What happened to it? There are many that are on drugs, gambling, or giving to their husband, or bf, and going to the family, (which is a right thing to do).
If they took the money, and improved their lives. That would ease the pressure on them at a older age.
Go to Makati, and you will see many successful Filipinos there. Some are many just as much as some of the people abroad. Like I said, some figured it out, While others haven't.
Again, this is my opinions, and views, and this is for the people, who wants to understand the people a little better. You don't have to accept this, just view it, and tell me what you think. Hey, if I can criticize others, why can't they criticize me, lol.
Sorry for being so blunt ( my nature), and sorry if I offend some. For being sensitivity, it is tough in a third world country. If you are too sensitive, they will eat you alive!
Take it easy, and enjoy your visit, whereven that may be.
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Spidey, Mookman, Master Blaster, Robert and Doofer
Thanks guys for the constructive comments. Much appreciated.
Forewarned is forearmed!
Iron Duke
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hmm, i guess some people never saw an illegal alien running across hwy. 10 by san diego. not to mention have seen that sign with that woman dragging her family or the billion of dollars spent on the u.s. border patrol. how about those people back home in the states that are life long welfare recipients and section 8 abusers. not lazy, huh while mc donald's is hiring at $6.75 - 7.50 per hour depending on the state.
what i'm trying to get at is that jobs are few and far between in the philippines. there are so few jobs that they come in droves when word is out that a position is open in a company. it takes someone with a college course to apply at mc donalds or kfc in this country. and even if they got the job, it isn't a guarantee that it is a permanent one either. not to mention that the minimum wage is p280/day. oh, excuse me. it will be p300/day in july.
add age discrimination and you cut most unemployed filipinoes chance in half. many pinoys and pinays know that once they are over 30, they are considered too old for the work force. with so many colleges and universities turning out graduates every year, the demand for work gets higher. ever notice that every department store, fastfood or retail has a young lady behind the counter.
lastly, the reason why a man is left behind is because the woman has an easier time getting a visa to work overseas. most of the male ofws are either seamen or construction workers. while most female ofws are either domestic helpers, factory workers or nurses. which the demand is high in the middle east and china. these women put themselves at great risk working overseas. if you read the local papers. it is quite common to learn that some pinays die at the hands of their employer or employer's wife. the lucky ones are raped and beaten. all that risk to earn that mighty dollar or euro.
they are not lazy. they are extremist. many go to great extremes to survive daily. so deep are many in debt that it takes the whole family to pay out the loans. not to mention the famous 5/6 loans given by the indians or ofws with money to spare. 5/6 is borrow p5,000 and pay back p6,000 in about 30 - 60 days. some chose to pay this either daily or weekly.
so, if you think filipinoes love to party everyday. they do. but only if they can afford it for that day. maybe two. that's why they know how to have a good time with you when your paying. heck, i'll show you a good time in vegas or atlantic city if you pay my way. you know what i mean?
sorry for the long post, guys. especially when theirs no girl or sex involved or mentioned.
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Spidey,
Judging from the way you write, I believe you are NOT born or raised in the United States and you haven't even mastered or understood the culture and language of your new adopted country. However, you view this as an opportunity to step on others which is actually a manifestation of your own inadequacies. How could you have a good understanding of the way of life of a third country when you are already having a difficulty in one? I am from the Philippines and I resent everything you said about how we live our lives as a race. I live in the US and way of life here is different, however, when things aren't so tuned to my beliefs I still open my eyes and see how the locals derive contentment from it. When you know how to respect other people, maybe you will have gained respect for yourself. For now, you belong to the hookers and a clueless school teacher that has no idea what kind of person you are.
MasterBlaster
