Seeking, Tinder.

Hello dude,

Some chicks in mexico fly to other mexican cities, but she might get cold feet in the end, how much are you paying her per day? That could change her mind.

If the chick is from sinaloa or monterrey, those chicks are not scared easily.

If you arrive to cdmx and you still need a sugarbaby, the seeking scene over there is average, there are many fake profiles, in other cities there are more real profiles than cdmx.

I've had many sugarbabies for the weekend in cdmx, guadalajara, cancun, monterrey, sinaloa etc and I've learned a lot about each city seeking scene.

Cheers!

[QUOTE=KevinRichards;2997932]So I connected online really well with a chica on Seeking who is totally my type but she was initially only going to come to CDMX after I would be there. So, I bought her a plane ticket so she can be there when I'll be in town (next weekend) and offered to let her stay in my Airbnb for the weekend. I was so caught up in the excitement (she looks like something from my dreams and has a really ideal attitude too) I never asked myself: how dangerous is this? What are the chances she'll steal from me or have some boyfriend (a lot of these SBs have local boyfriends who are often really sketchy) or other male friend assault me for money? She was initially kind of hesitant and didn't agree until some time after I proposed getting her a plane ticket (that's a good sign? She also let me see her Insta and Linkedin and we did a video call and she seems like a totally normal woman with a normal life just looking for fun. She is currently in a northern state, but one with relatively low crime and cartel activity. I know all her real vital info (had to know it to get her plane ticket, BTW, she lied about her age what a surprise LOL) and she seems very nervous about this. I'm a very successful guy with a lot to lose, should I just send her a "cancellation fee" and ghost her? Never had any kind of working chica stay with me in a hotel room, so please tell me how risky and stupid this is and if I should just bail.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MexicanCuban;2998273]Hello dude,

Some chicks in mexico fly to other mexican cities, but she might get cold feet in the end, how much are you paying her per day? That could change her mind.

If the chick is from sinaloa or monterrey, those chicks are not scared easily.

If you arrive to cdmx and you still need a sugarbaby, the seeking scene over there is average, there are many fake profiles, in other cities there are more real profiles than cdmx.

I've had many sugarbabies for the weekend in cdmx, guadalajara, cancun, monterrey, sinaloa etc and I've learned a lot about each city seeking scene.

Cheers![/QUOTE]Amongst the ones you listed, which city would you say is the best for seeking?

Thanks Sol12 and MexicanCuban, I see that I don't have much to fear and will just chill and relax. Hopefully she won't ghost me last minute, as MexicanCuban suggested is a possibility, though I think the rather generous amount I'm giving her will make that less likely. I've been going the Seeking route on my regular business trips to CDMX for more than a year and am pretty well seasoned, enough to see that these women are all so identical and practically interchangeable, they mostly vary in terms of age and archetype, really. This one just has a real unique look, looks much better than avg. And is exactly my type, which is why I am willing to do this.

To contribute to the thread: I would highly advise against entering a "vanilla" relationship with any of these women. The first gal I met through this website (SUPER pretty young India) in 2023 hit me up a few months ago out of the blue wanting to be in a serious relationship and wanting to marry me and start a family. We kinda had already been that way, as when we "dated" last year I had hardly ever given her all that much, she never brought up money, we never had an arrangement, and I just gave her some cash / gifts here and there for months; she felt way more "real" than any other chica I met on there. Well, I took her up on her offer a few months ago and we were doing the "real dating" thing for months, we were going to get married, I even had an expensive honeymoon booked, lots of arrangements made and then, just a few weeks ago. She ghosted me, completely, on every platform. I did some snooping and found she got back with her abusive ex-BF (she might have been fooling around with him this whole time). You'd think maybe it was to scam me out of money, but I barely gave her anything this time around and she let me hit it bare and was really desperate to get married and pregnant. Thankfully, I got most of my money back and frankly, it's all for the best, as she was pressuring me more to hurry up and marry her, buy a house etc. And I found out her life is a total mess along with lots of unsavory things about her. As I've learned over about 1. 5 years, so many of these ladies have local boyfriends (even when their social media says they're "single") who are usually total losers in addition to having several other daddies. You're probably not that special no matter what she tells you. Miracles happen and there are always exceptions, but I've gotten to know several of these ladies very, very well and I would highly advise you to just use them as escorts you get to take out to dinner. Avoid any complications or commitments. In fact, one of the drawbacks to Seeking, I feel, is that the line between P4 P and real love gets blurred a lot more than with other types of sex work and it is easier to fool yourself into thinking a chica really likes you.

Also, lastly, there is a petite spinner in her 40's currently living in Puebla (but readily travels to CDMX) whose Seeking handle is "Chica" or "Chick" or something like that (she goes by Jessica), who I would really recommend. Really sweet MILF who looks really cute and doesn't look too old as long as she has makeup on. Good performer and would give it to me bare and do overnights with me, though YMMV. Treat her nice and for a few thousand MXN she'll be good to you, maybe for a whole night. Very recommendable.

Has anyone ever met sofiarr before on seeking?

After a bit of lurking decided to share a few of my own reports from my visit in January. My Spanish is subpar, so I am sure you can do better with more time and better Spanish skills.

(1) Mar K.

I'd stay away from this one. She was one of the first girls I met and she's initially pleasant. However, I'd let my guard down by the second date and she ended up bolting with my wallet. Also has semi-pro vibes and is always online. Attaching pics from her profile.

(2) Cosmic.

A graduate student, speaks very good English and can hold a conversation. Pics are accurate. We had good chemistry, and I would recommend.

(3) Ana43.

Fun girl. Takes a bit to open up but once she does, it is an authentic experience if that's what you are looking for.

I met with two more and one was fantastic. Her name was Fernanda, 25 years old, very open, stayed overnight. I can't find her now, but I'll check again later and follow up.

[QUOTE=Uncountable;2998423]Amongst the ones you listed, which city would you say is the best for seeking?[/QUOTE]I would say guadalajara is the best city for seeking, I've fucked dozens of sugar babies over there, mexico city seeking scene is full of fake profiles, but there are some good finds if you can get past the fake scamming profiles. Also cancun / playa del carmen is a good seeking arrangement scene.

I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.

[QUOTE=KenjiYoshioka;3004160]I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.[/QUOTE]Tinder worked well for me leading up to my visit several months ago. I met two very nice girls both mid-20's who were down to earth and a lot of fun. We enjoyed drinks and food and each showed me around. I had sex with one and got close with the other. If I lived in CDMX, I'd actually see each whenever I had the time. Both were looking for something long term and that's not me so we drifted apart, albeit I will get a message from time to time on when I'll be back in CDMX.

[QUOTE=KenjiYoshioka;3004160]I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I have the complete opposite experience. I have been killing in CDMX for a couple of years now. I have a very low scammer rate, compared to MTY, honestly I have given up on MTY, it was great, but that ship has sailed.

As far as GDL, I like the city, but there is no comparison to SA in CDMX. CDMX is way better, not even close. GDL has some cool strip clubs, but for girls stick with CDMX.

[QUOTE=KenjiYoshioka;3004160]I can't vouch for Guadalajara, but I can concur with MC about CDMX. Scammers abound. Bitches be flaky. I was fooled into thinking this was a happy hunting ground. Now that I'm here, I've been ghosted and bullshitted by over half a dozen "girls" if they are girls indeed. Some girls are changing their tune and trying to change the terms of our meetings now that I'm here. What a cesspool.

I've got another half dozen to try, but I'm not going to hold my breath.[/QUOTE]I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.

[QUOTE=Sol12;3004455]I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.[/QUOTE]The poster you replied to said, "Scammers abound". That's not much of a revelation. Going on a platform where sex is being sold (hence, it's called seeking arrangement) and being surprised there are unscrupulous people on it preying on desperate, delusional or gullible men is like going to the beach and encountering sand.

[QUOTE=Sol12;3004455]I haven't contacted anyone on Seeking but do look at it from time to time and I wonder if the problem you are having is trying foreign girls like those from Colombia or Venezuela? You might have better luck specifically only looking for Mexican girls.[/QUOTE]Colombia and Venz. Girls are instant blocks for me. Just a waste of time and they are usually way more expensive. I am not attracted to Colombian girls at all, I avoid all of them.

Stick with the Mexican girls they are the best.

Has any one had any luck with other sites than Seeking? Things like sugardaddymeet?

Last time I went to CDMX Seeking was full of hotties and I see that is no longer the case. Very few pretty girls and a lot of scams.

As for sugardating, mexican girls use the seeking website almost all of them.

Sites like whatsyourprice or sugardaddymeet or others don't have many members really.

There are some that use tinder and write in their bio like SD or SB, meaning theyre looking for that.

Guadalajara is a better seeking place than cdmx, less fake profiles and prettier chicks (guadalajara is a very student / university city, so that's a good place to get college chicks). I was there last week and got to meet 3 SBs. Can't wait to go back.

When I go to mexico city, I usually switch my sugar dating mode to escorts mode, because cdmx is the best escort place in mexico.

Cheers.

[QUOTE=GuiGui123;3006199]Has any one had any luck with other sites than Seeking? Things like sugardaddymeet?

Last time I went to CDMX Seeking was full of hotties and I see that is no longer the case. Very few pretty girls and a lot of scams.[/QUOTE]

Hey friends,

Going on my first solo trip to CDMX and could use some advice. Been reading through the forums and it seems seeking has been good for most members so I got a subscription. Would love to get some tips on how to.

Approach the seeking scene and if anyone is willing to share profiles that would be greatly appreciated as well. I have reached out to the godfather JC as well and he has provided some helpful advice.

Feel free to dm me.

Thanks.