Thai Friendly

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;2999541]I find myself paying more attention to the price than the girl. If I have a girl that is willing to charge me less for the same sexual social services then I go with her. During low season the market here in Pattaya off of [U]Thai Friendly[/U] is 1500 THB short time. 1000 is under market (my favorite price point) 2000 THB is over market.[/QUOTE]My experiences! Your experiences may vary (YEMV).

Yeah here TF seems to be like herding cats, at least for the ones that match. Then there's a text thread, blah blah blah. 🙄. I don't really want to put any energy into this thing, and I sure as hell am done chasing women. If I make an invite and they don't at least put a shred of energy in too, I'm really not interested. Cold messaging one from latest 10 minutes as recommended by Sub Commander did yield excellent fruit. May try that again. But these girls that are ooh you I like you, Hi, blah blah, then get all wishy washy. Nope.

Just landed and notice so many are giving me QR code for Whatsapp now instead of Line. Also notice I couldn't add anyone through line when I was waiting for my flight in the states. Thought was a location thing but when I landed a few people I tried to add still didn't work by name. QR code seems to work. Sorry if this was already mentioned but just putting it out there if it wasnt. I'll add some reports as I met up with these folks.

[QUOTE=Lcale1982;3001905]Just landed and notice so many are giving me QR code for Whatsapp now instead of Line. Also notice I couldn't add anyone through line when I was waiting for my flight in the states. Thought was a location thing but when I landed a few people I tried to add still didn't work by name. QR code seems to work. Sorry if this was already mentioned but just putting it out there if it wasnt. I'll add some reports as I met up with these folks.[/QUOTE]That first became a problem in about August or September, 2024. That might only be a problem for people with certain registered phone numbers. Your options are to send the girl your QR code via ThaiFriendly or for her to send to you.

I don't recommend WhatsApp because that easily links to your registered phone number.

Friday afternoon and I am looking for some action, but like Mick Jagger said [I]I cant get no satisfaction[/I]!

Made contact. Moved to WhatsApp. Deal made. She needs twenty (20) minutes for a shower and says she will be on her way. Twenty seven (27) minutes later she lets me know she is ready. Send me the route to my room and it is a twenty five (25) minute travel time arrival. Asks if I will wait. I see her messages ten (10) minutes after she sends them and I tell her I am in my room waiting for her. She tells me she will come.

Ten (10) minutes later she asks me if I will come downstairs and pick her up.

[QUOTE]Can you come down and pick me up when I arrive. Please let me know. I dont dare to go out. Im not sure if youre just kidding me.[/QUOTE]I tell her no. Tell her again to just come to my room. She reads my messages. I ask her if she is going to come or not. She reads my messages. But does not respond. Does not answer my video call, does not answer my voice call. It is now 78 minutes since the initial agreement so I'm writing this one off.

[B]Only my second failure on [u]Thai Friendly[/u] since I have been posted up here![/B]

I respect the experiences of all others. But they may or may not align with mine. Personally, I think the older Thai Girls fuck better. Period. [B]Full Stop[/B].

1000* 30+ is what I pay based on the age listed on [U]Thai Friendly[/U]. I will give another 100 - 200 for transportation.

*All amounts in THB.

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[QUOTE=SubCmdr;3002871]I respect the experiences of all others. But they may or may not align with mine. Personally, I think the older Thai Girls fuck better. Period. [B]Full Stop[/B].[/QUOTE]Agree 100% - seems that the older ladies know how to please a man better than the really young girls.

Big difference is in price. Quality is the same. Price is 30 - 50% higher. With no increase in attractiveness after factoring in age of the prostitute.

Noticing lately that even familiar spaces now have unfamiliar walls. The lights flicker a little longer before turning green. Messages stall, posts wait in line—sometimes forever. I guess even those who sweep the floor don't always have keys to the broom closet anymore.

With that said, I figured I'the leave behind a consolidated map for the wanderers still walking this particular road. Whether you're here for fun, love, or something in between, this should help make the most of your journey through the Thai digital landscape.

THAI FRIENDLY – STRATEGY GUIDE (2025).

What it is: A dating app in Thailand used for casual relationships, mongering, and long-term dating depending on location.

1. Bangkok (Mixed Zone – 70% Relationship / 30% Freelancers).

Thai Friendly in Bangkok is a mixed bag. Approximately 70% of the girls on the platform are genuinely looking for boyfriends. These are everyday Thai women—not freelancers—who are open to chatting and potentially forming relationships. They won't meet you immediately. They expect to chat with you for a while before considering a meetup. In many cases, they'll invite a friend to the first meeting, and you'll likely be expected to pay for both of them. Don't expect anything physical on the first night. These girls are cautious, and rightly so, especially if they are seeking something real.

The remaining 30% of users in Bangkok are freelancers. But unlike in Pattaya, these freelancers tend to be harder to access quickly. Many have full-time jobs or side gigs—some work in massage shops or bars and only freelance part-time. Others already have sponsors or boyfriends and freelance when convenient. Even when they're available, arranging a meetup often involves a lot of back-and-forth, delays, excuses, and logistical issues like long-distance travel within Bangkok or dealing with traffic. Overall, using Thai Friendly to find freelancers in Bangkok is more challenging and time-consuming.

Also, Bangkok has a large number of girls on the app who are not freelancers at all. You must be very careful when soliciting a girl for pay-for-play in Bangkok or any non-tourist area. If you assume she's a freelancer and make a direct offer without confirming, you could land yourself in legal trouble. Always verify first.

2. Pattaya (Freelancer Zone – 90% Freelancers / 10% Relationship Seekers).

Thai Friendly in Pattaya is dominated by freelancers. Around 90% of the girls are offering pay-for-play encounters, while only about 10% are looking for a boyfriend. Even those claiming to want a boyfriend often flip their narrative quickly—one day they're seeking love, the next they're seeking a sponsor, a sugar daddy, or a customer. Some might even say they're looking for a psychiatrist. You get the idea.

The app works best in Pattaya when used directly. Simply ask, "Are you looking for a customer?" If she says yes, agree on the price and time and meet as soon as possible—ideally within 30 minutes. If a girl is online, she's usually ready to meet immediately. This direct approach saves time and avoids drama. Trying to schedule for a future date often leads to disappointment. Common excuses include long-term clients offering more money, sudden family obligations, or health issues.

Finally, be aware that some bar girls and massage girls use Thai Friendly not to freelance directly but to get you to visit their workplace. This is fine as long as they are upfront about it. In fact, this has worked out for me in the past—I've met some great girls that way and had a fantastic time at the bar. But if you're only looking for freelancers or a girlfriend and aren't interested in visiting a bar or shop, then this might be a waste of your time. Just move on politely and look for the next one.

3. Other Tourist Areas (e. G. , Phuket, Chiang Mai, Hua Hin, etc.).

In places like Phuket, Chiang Mai, Hua Hin, and similar destinations, the app offers mixed results. Phuket has a noticeable freelancer presence, although less intense than Pattaya. Chiang Mai leans more toward boyfriend seekers, with occasional freelancers scattered in. The key is to probe early—ask clear questions and set expectations fast. Otherwise, you'll waste time and effort on dead ends or misrepresented profiles.

4. Non-Tourist Provinces (e. G. , Isaan, North, Northeast, Central Towns).

In smaller cities and non-tourist provinces—such as towns in Isaan or the North—you'll mostly encounter women seeking boyfriends. These are not industry girls. They want to chat first, build trust, and see if you're serious. This is ideal if you live in Thailand or are planning a long-term stay. These women won't rush into meeting and certainly won't engage in pay-for-play behavior. This category is entirely separate from the mongering scene. It's about connection and commitment over time.

5. Tips on Timing and Use.

Do not use Thai Friendly before arriving in Thailand if your intent is pay-for-play. Most pre-arranged meetups collapse before arrival. The girls either forget about you, assume you're not serious, or get a better offer before you land. If you're already in Thailand, Thai Friendly can be effective—but it is a real-time tool. Use it when you're ready to meet now—not days later. That said, if you're looking for a boyfriend seeker in a non-tourist area, chatting before your trip may work out fine. Those girls are not in it for the money and are more open to building rapport before meeting.

6. When You Do Get a Freelancer Off of Thai Friendly.

Do not send deposits under any circumstance. If a girl asks for money up front, it's almost always a scam or she simply won't show. Some girls will ask for taxi or transportation fees—this can be acceptable, but make sure the fee is clearly agreed upon beforehand. Otherwise, if you're watching your spending, you may be caught off guard.

Tipping is always appreciated and often leads to better service next time. For example, if the first time she insisted on using a condom but you gave a generous tip, the next session might be more relaxed and even turn into a GFE.

Security is also something you should take seriously. Always keep your valuables locked away when inviting someone over, especially if the stay is long-time instead of short-time. If you're in a hotel, don't be shy—ask the receptionist to copy her ID. If you're in a condo, the security staff should do the same. If anything goes missing or there's an issue, having her ID on file will help you.

Some members prefer to meet in a short-time hotel instead of inviting girls to their own place. One member I know does this 90% of the time. I also do this sometimes, but for different reasons—usually because I live far from the city and don't want to bring them home. I'll rent a short-time room or book a nearby hotel just for the night while I'm having fun. Back when I lived in Pattaya, I would only bring girls to my condo if I had met them at least once before and felt comfortable.

7. Free vs Premium Membership.

Thai Friendly can be used for free. You're able to send and receive messages, but there's a 10-minute delay between each message. You also cannot message "popular" profiles. However, "popular" status changes frequently. A girl may appear as popular now, but 30 minutes later she might not, allowing you to message her. There's also the "member name search" trick—if you search for her profile by name and find it, you might still be able to message her once every 10 minutes.

The premium version allows you to message anyone without restrictions, regardless of popularity status, and removes the 10-minute delay. Interestingly, when comparing the website and the mobile app, premium members seem to see more results in search than free members. This isn't listed as a formal benefit on Thai Friendly's website, but personal testing suggests it's true. So if you're serious about maximizing results, the paid version may be worth it.

Thai Friendly is one of the best tools available in Thailand—whether you're looking for love, company, or just convenience. But like anything else, success depends on knowing where you are, who you're dealing with, and what the real game is. Hopefully, this helps guide those still looking to get the most out of it.

Stay sharp. Stay fast. And most importantly, know when to log off.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2986734]These women are really in their late 40's, 50's etc, but are posting photos of 10 years ago or more. And quite often these pictures are even photoshopped too..[/QUOTE]This is completely inaccurate and has not been my experience at all. Been using [U]Thai Friendly[/U] for more than a minute.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2986734]And contrary to what you think, a lot of them are doing this. The reason is obvious: they look old, are ugly, or fat, or any combination of those.
Even girls in their late 20's or early 30's are already doing this, which is the reason that I usually ask girls who are over 25 if they still look the same as in their pictures.[/QUOTE][U][b]PhotoShop Challenge[/b][/U]

Prove your statement by posting just one picture of a [U]Thai Friendly[/U] girl and then a picture of her when she arrived at your room.

[B]Everyone is entitled to their own options, but not their own facts![/B]

[QUOTE=Mogwai;3005273]In his case it would be better to speak of an international prick.[/QUOTE]Who are you referring to exactly?

It's another Friday night and I am looking for some action.

[U]but like Mick Jagger said[/U]: [I]I cant get no satisfaction[/I]!

[B]Or can I?[/B]

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;3006426]As I am writing this I am waiting for one of my favorites [U]Thai Friendly[/U] regulars to come over. Short Time 1000. I give her three hundred for her taxi because now she lives a distance away from me. She will come through the door. Strip naked get on her knees and start sucking my dick until I am rock hard. Then I will fuck doggy and missionary until I am satisfied. She will clean up and leave. No bar fine, no lady drinks. She might during some water. Then she will leave. Until the next time.

[B]My objective is to nut![/B][/QUOTE][U]Fuck the Price Police[/U]

My lovely girl showed up. She had asked me to wait for her because she had to make an emergency trip to Cockbang and was on her way back. She came right to my place. Usually she takes her shower before she leaves home but didn't want to keep me waiting. So, hug, friendly kiss and she heads into the shower. Back out and she is in her towel. As we have been seeing each other multiple times she is getting more playful and less direct to the genital games. I like that. I actually prefer to have the majority of my sex with girls that I know instead of a bunch of randoms. But then again I am posted up in dis * and I have no wheels up clock ticking.

I'm not going to repeat what I already wrote. Because it went down exactly as I described it would. Just better because it was IRL Her pussy felt so good. And although I might not be pleasing her like a boyfriend, her smiles, moans groans and grabbing the sheets and pillows on the bed indicated to me there is something very physical going on between us. She made me cum so hard I probably made enough noise to let my neighbors know I was was putting in work. She ALWAYS brings her A-Game. That is why I keep inviting her back.

You can fuck, get your dick sucked and write about it. Or you can be like the [I]Price and Appearance police[/I] by standing on the sidelines and tossing keyboard bombs and attacking the posts of others actually doing the fucking. The funniest thing is that they don't realize what they say does not matter.

[QUOTE=SubCmdr;3005616]Can we at least agree that is does not matter what you think of what any other [B]International Trick[/B] pays his prostitutes for social / sexual services as long as he meets his objectives?[/QUOTE][B]My objective is to nut![/B]

Slim pickings this weekend because of the long weekend. I will continue to maintain that TF in Bangkok can often be time consuming if you are looking immediate action. Pattaya is so damn easy. Within 30 minutes you can have them inbox your condo or hotel naked.

[QUOTE=EverythingThai;3006685]I will continue to maintain that TF in Bangkok can often be time consuming if you are looking immediate action. [/QUOTE]This is usually true, unfortunately, but two weeks ago I was lucky. A cute 22yo student sent me a 'like', and I replied immediately. She agreed to 3000B plus 400B for the taxi. She came over to my hotel and looked exactly like her (unfiltered, for a change!) pictures. Slim little spinner, no kids. She did not want to kiss or give a BJ, but other than that she was very accomodating. Enjoyed DATY very much. Very tight pussy. Not a word about condoms.

A diamond in the rough. TF can be so rewarding sometimes.

I appreciate the TF tips. Have people found that it is more efficient and has more girls than Tinder?