Fifty, what would we do without you?
Fifty, there you go again. Claiming to have everyone's best interest in mind when actually you are part of the problem.
SEA Joe, thanks for the picture. You've made some good points, but it's probably best to let this one go and let karma take care of the rest.
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[QUOTE=Fifty Fifty]Nice to see some real good value added posting from you and well up to your normal standard too.
WTF use is any of this to the Forum?
I would ask you to refrain from the abuse, unless of course you do actually think I am pretty. Then it could be time to worry.
Until then I would rate your post as contrary to Forum Guidelines i.e.
No Flaming: Please do not post any messages that harrass, insult, belittle, threaten or flame another member.
Jackson - Please Remove accordingly.
Cheers, F/Fifty[/QUOTE]
The 4 Phases Of A Relationship
Just like dog behaviour I think there are 4 phases to a sex relationship. We have:
1. The sniffing phase
2. The play phase
3. The fuck phase
4. The fuck off phase!
And depending upon the relationship it may be a few minutes to complete all phases to a life-time. Let me develop my theory, with particular emphasis on internet dating.
The sniffing phase, like a couple of dogs circling and appraising each other’s nether regions, involves a simple assessment of could this one be for me? On dating sites it may simply mean responding to some promising profiles, sending emails and expressing interest. It often involves answering or asking a few basic relationship questions about age, marital status, family, location and “why me” questions. It’s the phase you go through that determines whether you are onto a potential winner or not.
The play phase, phase 2, is the one that is the thrill of the hunt, the chase. Is she interested and available? When, where and how far might she go? On the internet I am doing this not so much on the dating site but by moving to Yahoo with cam. Most Filipinas have a Yahoo address and can soon access a cam in the internet café. A live interactive discussion I find the best. And sex-wise I keep it fairly neutral but prepared throw in the double meaning or respond to a sexy comment from the girl. I am definitely not into “show me your tits” but I have frequently asked “what is it that tee shirt of yours says” and she is often willing to get up and do a twirl. At the same time I’m prepared at that point to do a screen capture and save her picture by cutting and pasting to my file notes. As I proceed on chat over the weeks, sometimes months, I am building up my file notes in a word document: pen name, profile number (if applicable), actual name, age, location, job, email address, phone number. I’m also cutting and pasting relevant chat information about interests, birthday, name of any offspring, and in particular, the proclivity to any sex encounter! Generally within a chat or three I know whether they are starters for an encounter or not, but it takes a little further time to build the confidence. I am pretty honest with my approach in that I say I am at the early stage of finding a new relationship and (if asked) that I am contacting and dating others, and that I am willing to visit but I will be moving on. My chat sessions are, if I can work it, a lot of fun and “hehehehehes”. I enjoy phase 2; it is the thrill of the chase.
The fuck phase, phase 3, is the ultimate goal of one’s dick. But there are a couple of anatomical parts that can get in the way, or affect the dick performance. Those body parts are the head and the heart. Of course in a P4P relationship the objective is to quickly pass through phases 1 and 2 to reach phase 3, with the head and heart having little to do with it (except for the contribution from the wallet). But in a married relationship the fuck phase can be a lifetime of varying, often reducing vigour.
Phase 4, the fuck off phase, can be quick and painless for the P4P “hit em and leave ‘em” pursuants. And it can be a lifetime of pleasure, or anguish, in a committed marriage or partnership. I am in between the both. I like to fuck off, but with the prospect I would be welcomed on my return, and often I am.
I am airing my thoughts on this important topic here, but I am still learning and refining my approach. This is my third visit to the Philippines and by far the most successful. I have posted my day by day Davao experiences, mostly achieved through prior internet chat, on the Davao thread. (see April to June postings) For this 66 year old, the Filipina, is a beauty to treasure and behold.