Ghana

In my neck of the woods it is perfectly acceptable to go to a nice bar or restaurant wearing a clean T-shirt and a pair of jeans or cargo shorts.

Should I want to pick up non-pro or semi-pro girls in Ghana, are there any fashion no-no's I should avoid?

S

[QUOTE=Satyr9]In my neck of the woods it is perfectly acceptable to go to a nice bar or restaurant wearing a clean T-shirt and a pair of jeans or cargo shorts.
Should I want to pick up non-pro or semi-pro girls in Ghana, are there any fashion no-no's I should avoid?
S[/QUOTE]
T-Shirt and jeans or other trousers are ok. It is not the case to wear other cloths because of the high temperature.
What people care a lot, is the state of maintenance of your wardrobe: dress only very clean cloth and in perfect conditions. Hippies and freaks are still unknown in Africa.
Same for your shohes.
To comb, shave and use a deo is a must!
Good luck.

[QUOTE=Enigma84]I cant seem to get laid here by any non-pros in TEMA. I have many phone numbers from many hotties but each time i invite these hotties out for lunch its either they are too busy or they will come and it becomes hard to see them again.

Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]

Are you serious ? I have to ask what you did when you got their numbers. Once you see them for the first time, do you give them "a little something" like 5 GHC for their transportation home ?

Obviously there a reason in there somewhere as very rarely does this happen to me. PM me and we'll go hunting together.

GC

reading posts from local mongers like GC or Hezekiels in response to visiting mongers who voice difficulty in scoring.

It's like: "Dude...you wandered around midtown Manhattan all afternoon and STILL couldn't find the Empire State Building? Did you bother looking up?!"

Or: "Dude, we told you not to go out with live spiders in your hair and crusty mucous hanging from your nostrils when you go hunting for girls...That just turns them off!"

As if the prospect of NOT scoring is so inconceiveable as to warrant the assumption of some obvious and flagrant violation of one of the few unwritten rules of interpersonal relations which pertain in places like Ghana.

I expect GC, after going over Enigma's technique, to share with us the valuable but too oft forgotten pearl of conquest which Enigma overlooked:

"Never blow your nose in the hair of the girl you plan on bedding that night."

And we the assembled masses as one will solemnly nod and intone: "Ohhhhhh...right...right...forgot about that no-no," as we pencil it in in our mongering field books and reflect, "Ghana CAN be a tricky place to score..."

S

[QUOTE=Satyr9]reading posts from local mongers like GC or Hezekiels in response to visiting mongers who voice difficulty in scoring.

It's like: "Dude...you wandered around midtown Manhattan all afternoon and STILL couldn't find the Empire State Building? Did you bother looking up?!"

Or: "Dude, we told you not to go out with live spiders in your hair and crusty mucous hanging from your nostrils when you go hunting for girls...That just turns them off!"

As if the prospect of NOT scoring is so inconceiveable as to warrant the assumption of some obvious and flagrant violation of one of the few unwritten rules of interpersonal relations which pertain in places like Ghana.

I expect GC, after going over Enigma's technique, to share with us the valuable but too oft forgotten pearl of conquest which Enigma overlooked:

"Never blow your nose in the hair of the girl you plan on bedding that night."

And we the assembled masses as one will solemnly nod and intone: "Ohhhhhh...right...right...forgot about that no-no," as we pencil it in in our mongering field books and reflect, "Ghana CAN be a tricky place to score..."

S[/QUOTE]


Okay, I sided with you at the Kenya forum. I was there in 05 and had a blast.
Your post was on point there. WTF is the point of this post?

Your kinda new.It's about pussy..not being the next fucking Hemingway!!
I subscribe here to get AWAY from having to think. About anything!
Leave your prose and thesis with your English teacher. A simple formula is place,price and quality of service..

Maybe sometimes African girls no fall in foreigner's lap just because him foreign. Ugh.

Maybe something we do turn them off sometimes. Ugh.

Maybe some of them have standards too. Ugh.

Maybe good if seasoned mongers know cultural no-nos. Tell us. We not do them. Ugh.

Maybe Enigma just smell bad. Ugh.

It's not just about price, place and quality, Naked Gunz. It's about style and flair and hunting and subtlety, too, sometimes.

Hope your bad mood clears up.

S

Thanks to Roman Guy, GC, Hezekiels and Gos 44 to make this thread lively and informative with their reports !

I should normally go to Ghana in 2 weeks. However I am still puzzled since my style of African women is more of the Senegalese or Ivory coast type (slender / slim) and less the plain type who I only see on Roman Guy's pics ....

Can stunners/models be had (P4P) in Ghana ? Where are the best places to pick them up ? I saw some interesting girls in the pics on the Aphrodisiac night club website. Has anyone checked this night club in Osu ? What are the rates ?

Also, does anyone know if La Palm hotel is girl friendly ? Is it in Osu ? If not which decent hotel would you recommend close to the action but also allowing me to enjoy my daytime (swimming pool / facilities ..). I'm not on a budget since the company will pay (100 - 120 $ per day would be OK).

Then, I will have 5 days off and I'd like to leave Accra and go to the sea. Where is the best place ? Cape coast ? Takoradi ? Where can I arrange a car to drive me there from Accra ? Are these resorts good places to monger with non-pro /semi-pros / students ?

Finally while in Accra i would be happy to offer a couple of beers to a wingman and hunt together ...

Best,

Kosta

[QUOTE=Satyr9]reading posts from local mongers like GC or Hezekiels in response to visiting mongers who voice difficulty in scoring.

It's like: "Dude...you wandered around midtown Manhattan all afternoon and STILL couldn't find the Empire State Building? Did you bother looking up?!"

Or: "Dude, we told you not to go out with live spiders in your hair and crusty mucous hanging from your nostrils when you go hunting for girls...That just turns them off!"

As if the prospect of NOT scoring is so inconceiveable as to warrant the assumption of some obvious and flagrant violation of one of the few unwritten rules of interpersonal relations which pertain in places like Ghana.

I expect GC, after going over Enigma's technique, to share with us the valuable but too oft forgotten pearl of conquest which Enigma overlooked:

"Never blow your nose in the hair of the girl you plan on bedding that night."

And we the assembled masses as one will solemnly nod and intone: "Ohhhhhh...right...right...forgot about that no-no," as we pencil it in in our mongering field books and reflect, "Ghana CAN be a tricky place to score..."

S[/QUOTE]

Hahahaha... you're too funny. There's really no magic involved in picking up girls in Ghana. Just remember that TANSTAAFL - There Ain't No Such Thin As A Free Lunch. Whether the girl is a pro or not, you ALWAYS have to give something.

My process is simple and I'll use my experience a couple of weeks ago as an example. Went to Vanity club (a nice blues/jazz/local club in Osu/Nyaniba Estates), played pool with this girl, and exchanged numbers. Next day, she calls and I tell her I'll call her back to save her units (phone credits). Told her to come to my house and I'll pay for her to take a taxi (4GHC). She came, we went out, had a nice time, came home and did the deed and as she was leaving, I gave her more taxi money.

I think the idea is to let them feel the potential of being someone who can take care of her in some style - not using trotro's, nice food, a good time, etc...

Girls and people in general here live in poverty. Even if they work, they probably only earn about $100 a month and that doesn't go very far so any little money like $10 or $20 helps them a great deal and they appreciate it and show their appreciation by showing you a good time.

GC.

[QUOTE=Kostaboda]Thanks to Roman Guy, GC, Hezekiels and Gos 44 to make this thread lively and informative with their reports !

Can stunners/models be had (P4P) in Ghana ? Where are the best places to pick them up ? I saw some interesting girls in the pics on the Aphrodisiac night club website. Has anyone checked this night club in Osu ? What are the rates ?[/QUOTE]

Aphrodisiac is not in Osu but in Airport Residential Area right beside the National Service Secretariat. Aphro is not really a place for Oburonis - it's THE hang out for all the cocaine dealers and other not-so-savoury characters. Because they flash lots of their illegally acquired money, yes a lot of models hang out there as well hoping to get some of that money. Personally I've never been there and don't intend to go but reports from Oburoni friends who have been all say it's not their kind of place.

As for stunners, what do you think of the attached 22 year old ex-virgin student from Legon U ?

[QUOTE=Kostaboda]Also, does anyone know if La Palm hotel is girl friendly ? Is it in Osu ? If not which decent hotel would you recommend close to the action but also allowing me to enjoy my daytime (swimming pool / facilities ..). I'm not on a budget since the company will pay (100 - 120 $ per day would be OK).[/QUOTE]

ALL hotels in Ghana are girl friendly !

[QUOTE=Kostaboda]Then, I will have 5 days off and I'd like to leave Accra and go to the sea. Where is the best place ? Cape coast ? Takoradi ? Where can I arrange a car to drive me there from Accra ? Are these resorts good places to monger with non-pro /semi-pros / students ?[/QUOTE]

Takoradi for the students ! and Busua beach for the beach and sun so go to Takoradi, pick up a student and take her to Busua for a couple of days. Busua is about 36km west of Takoradi.

[QUOTE=Kostaboda]Finally while in Accra i would be happy to offer a couple of beers to a wingman and hunt together ...[/QUOTE]

Sure PM me.

GC

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]Hahahaha... you're too funny. There's really no magic involved in picking up girls in Ghana. Just remember that TANSTAAFL - There Ain't No Such Thin As A Free Lunch. Whether the girl is a pro or not, you ALWAYS have to give something.

[/QUOTE]


Gentlemen:

there is really no magic behind! And again, virtually all girls in Ghana are available (well, I admit, maybe just 95% of them, but that's still a very good ratio, isn't it? :) ) For all the newbies who face some difficulties a little advice: simply be friendly, say hello and invite the lady you like for one drink in a nearby restaurant! The rest is then just a formality - you bet your life! Hey, folks, if an old jerk like I do succeed then, you will score as well for sure! :)

And yes, GC, there are no free lunches! Not even in Ghana!

Cheers!


Hesekiels

[QUOTE=Hesekiels]
And yes, GC, there are no free lunches! Not even in Ghana!
[/QUOTE]

Especially in Ghana !!!

GC

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]Especially in Ghana !!!

GC[/QUOTE]

GC:

definitely not wrong, GC! :) And the longer you stay with one girl her demand will certainly rise sky high! So, gentlemen, be a little careful! Of course just my humble experience!

GC and Roman Guy, would you second this statement?

Cheers!



Hesekiels

[QUOTE=Hesekiels]GC:

definitely not wrong, GC! :) And the longer you stay with one girl her demand will certainly rise sky high! So, gentlemen, be a little careful! Of course just my humble experience!

GC and Roman Guy, would you second this statement?

Cheers!

Hesekiels[/QUOTE]

First it's "oh please buy me some units", then comes "I need new shoes", and then "my phone is spoiled", and eventually it gets to "I'd like to have a car" !

GC

[QUOTE=Hesekiels]GC:
definitely not wrong, GC! :) And the longer you stay with one girl her demand will certainly rise sky high! So, gentlemen, be a little careful! Of course just my humble experience!
GC and Roman Guy, would you second this statement?
Cheers!
Hesekiels[/QUOTE]

Of course!
Expecially your valutation about the percentage of "easy" girls: not 100% but 95% ... actually I would say 96,73%, ahahah!!!

No lunch is for free: thank you, compare your salary with their - if they receive - , your house with their - if a bungalow or hut can be assumed as house -, compare also the price of their fuel with ours - it is not so cheap! I remember last time I have payed a beer in a bar smtg like 0,96 Euro, let's say 1.00 Euro. Same place would cost in my country 3.50 Euro, but the standard is not 3 more times higher.

It is very polite to give them a "taxi money" - actually it is a must - but it is more than polite to be that amount reasonable: [B]NEVER overpay[/B]!

I always try to compare what a girl would demand in my country in a similar situation and convert it in the Ghanaian situation, I dont mean a simple money conversion but a [U]purchasing power[/U] conversion.
Hallo?

[QUOTE=Global Citizen]First it's "oh please buy me some units", then comes "I need new shoes", and then "my phone is spoiled", and eventually it gets to "I'd like to have a car" !
GC[/QUOTE]
Hi Dude,
dont report such sentences, you are breaking my heart!
How many memories!
But ... let's be honest!
How many house wives in Europe or US are not continuosly requesting the husband for new shohes, cars, wash machine, vacuum machine, new phone and why not ... "[I]I would have called to communicate you my delay but had no money in my phone!Please whenever you can, just fill it, darling![/I]".