[QUOTE=Skogis;1602689]I agree totaly in your post. I have talked to some of my phil / thai regulars about this and what they all have in common is that they actually want a dominant male. An alfa male is what they look for. Relax folks I don't say I am the alfa dog but I am firm and strict in decission making. After trying and failing going with my Norwegian tactics or the lack of it (everything over here is 50/50 or more likely 60/40 advantage girls) I have learned to take charge over a girl (charge as in beeing effective but nice). If you try let a pinay / thai make a decission or two I end up in a places I rather don't want to be aka some shitty food joint with foods I can not handle or at a KTV simular joint where singing is the main idea. I am here to fuck and not to breath in the culture. So now I just take the lead, I use my "captain" armlet so there is no doubt who is in charge. And since I often have to be effective these girls are far from that. I often run a thight sched when in SEA.
As an experiment while running hungry I told one of my datingsite setups she could choose a place to eat somewhere in the area of GL4/ GL5. I told her there was no pricelimitation whatsoever but please don't choose a place where a tux is needed (this was early eve). I saw her mind was spinning and I thought "wow now she will take me to a nice place". She was looking real proud as we walked into McD almost like she invented powder. Well atleast I prefer McD over this Jolly tragedie.[/QUOTE]I like to BF my girls for 1-3 days sometimes. I call this runner insurance. I am not always in the mood to go immediately after I BF a girl do to the fact I might have already popped one off a hr ago in a ST session. At 50 It takes me a while to load back up. Anyways, If you let the girls make decisions on how you will spend your time together you will be going to karaoke and eating at jollybee. That is 2 things I hate doing karaoke and jollybee. The number one rule in this world is: The one with the money gets to make the rules. In a monger / bargirl relationship YOU are on the money side so your rules. Don; t give up that power or you will be sorry (Enjoy jollybee).
