Is it the trend or it is the norm?
Being a Brazil veteran, I am afraid the negotiation things now are the norm in Medellin.
Today, the girl at Abydos refuses the BBBJ at all cost, non negotiable, what amazes me is the DATY cost is 100 k. What the fuck.
Move on to Blue Room, the BBBJ is 100 k, DATY is only 50 k.
Only thing Comlobians have are boobs, big boobs, and I am a tit man. Brazilians are generally small to medium chest. Both Brazilians and Colombians are big round bubble asses.
I may have to take my mony to Rio.
[QUOTE=Ricker;1604266]Nothing has really changed amigo.
Some guys go with the flow, get lucky, get the chemestry going, and usually enjoy the ensuing goodies (BBJ, etc).
Other dudes just get the goodies in other ways, (I. E. Paying / Negotiating).
Both ways work, just one is a sure bet if that's what ya want.
I never have been a negotiator type. I like the fantasy of the real GFE without the negotiation.
If the little extras don't just don't come naturally, no big deal for me, I'm just off to the next affair.
Obviously nothing wrong with a negotiated tip for extra services, just not my thing.
So like I said, nothing has changed in that regard.
Have fun on your return![/QUOTE]
These girls come from the opposite side of the global community.
[QUOTE=Almotu;1604867]How did you come up with these freelancers in the first place? Ex-Mansion girls, their friends off Facebook, I know the drill and if BBBJ (I am guessing this is the GFE that is referenced here) is a must then I guess you have your system down. Sticking with regulars or favoritas of course guarantees good performance & resultsas well.
But I am guessing you are paying your freelancers at least 100-150 K plus taxis, another 20-40 K. How about the waiting? Most working girls are not punctual. And if you have to send one away, how quickly realistically can you get another to commit to a time and arrive in yet another taxi? At least another 2 hours of waiting, juggling calls, facebook & whatsapp?
If you are patient, show up earlier in the day, there are gems to be found in Centro and I don't mean just cabbing directly to New Life. There are a dozen other bargain casas with plenty of fresh girls for 30 K-65 K short time. On another board, there are field reports of some of these gems. With photos no less. From my standpoint, BBBJ is not a dealbreaker and I love the thrill of discovering the next Geraldine. If one casa doesn't have someone I like, the next casa is 2-10 mins walk away (in Centro). Of course, more & more bullshit is creeping into the scene like paying 2 K for the presentation if you don't session. All in all, a few casa runs per week should be part of the typical MDE mongering experience.[/QUOTE]These girls DREAM. They have heard that they can get +250 k and blaha prices for nothing, just if they are a little cute and nice ass.
These girls Facebook-prepagos and Cupid-girls that initiate a contact are webcamgirls; "ayudame con mi pagina web, solo $5". But they not accept a simple NO, but keep on their blaha-babble. Very disturbing. Both "freelancer" and "webcam" girls. I just HATE them.
The girls that are independent or actually independent dreamers have never had a nickel in their life that wasn't hard earned. Suddenly she hear about the 250 k, convince herself in a second that this is the standard rate, and that extranjeros pay this ridicoulus prices. When told that the Paisasdivinas price is 100 k-130 k, and these girls are professionals, they simply ignore the basic market facts and continue PESTERING another John. Very frustrating for both parties, but especially for the buyer, since they continue to pestering as much as they can, until one delete / block their contact.
For me personally it has been like this for 5 years. The professionals charge 50% or less of what the barriogirls think they can get.
One must understand that these girls come from the opposite side of the global community: You are rich and can travel and you know languages, you are aware of cultural differences, and hence, which is very easy fault to commit, assume that they are "aware" of the basic circumstances in the world. They DREAM while entering the prepago market in Medellin. They know nothing. That's why they are so aggressive. They have no idea and can not have since they are brought up on gaseosa. This might sound rasistic, but it is a fact. 50% of the population is estrato 1-2. They lag behind mentally 3-5 years mentally from a normal person from an advanced country, due to poor nutrition and will never have an IQ over 90 as an adult. Just take the US as an example, where circumstance are better, but the socialeconomical differences remains; here it even worse; these girls logic is very limitated. They do not understand agreements or anything that is serious, not in the way you understand it. They live day by day life. They are often totally undependable and it's a risk not worth taking inviting such a creature to your home or hotel.
It has been like this since Alonso de Ojeda 500 years ago. Conquistadores are considered superior. These girls are aggressive since they KNOW they are from a distinct inferior social class, from the other side of the global community. You are rich even though you are middleclass. Your monthly salary might be 5-20 times higher. A deal is never a deal with a person that lives under completly different circumstances. It is easy to forget, it is easy to treat people like they are you equal, but in the case of "independiente chica" one must simply abandon this humanistic behavoiur and be realistic.