Hong Kong Club Reports

For the few of those who have actually chosen to and succeeded in maybe "dating" an HK chica (I recommend you don't for many reasons), how did you go about introducing her to your friends / family. Did you keep your relationship a secret? Did you actually tell your friends you were dating a working girl / prostitute? When I was with one chica, she shared our relationship to her family via texts since I never met them in person, but I was never really sure how to share our relationship with folks on my social circle due to fear of social shaming and unwanted judgements at work / home. How did you guys approach it if you didn't keep your relationship a secret. Just curious.

Forgot to mention in my stay at Cascadas early last month I noticed for the first time that all the drinks in the fridge are tagged (have a sticker that staff put on them). Never saw that before. In the past I might drink a few of the beers but then replace those drinks with a few I buy from Oxxo so I can get my full $30 hotel deposit back. Seems they've started tagging the drinks so you can't replace them with your own store-bought drinks LOL. I guess it's easy enough to get around that by just buying all my drinks from Oxxo and leaving the drinks in the fridge alone but still interesting to me that they've actually taken the time to start tagging all the drinks in the fridge.

[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2682724]For the few of those who have actually chosen to and succeeded in maybe "dating" an HK chica (I recommend you don't for many reasons), how did you go about introducing her to your friends / family. Did you keep your relationship a secret? Did you actually tell your friends you were dating a working girl / prostitute? When I was with one chica, she shared our relationship to her family via texts since I never met them in person, but I was never really sure how to share our relationship with folks on my social circle due to fear of social shaming and unwanted judgements at work / home. How did you guys approach it if you didn't keep your relationship a secret. Just curious.[/QUOTE]Why do any of those people _have_ to know the details?

[QUOTE=SpeedToys;2682209]Do an FMM online = Pay money.

Get husted for an "FMM" at the border = Pay same money.

I fail to understand the actual problem.

"I'm going to mexico" should ring in your head that here and there, you're getting fleeced for a few dollars. Smile and tell the story later.[/QUOTE]Not true, the FMM single entry form you fill out online is free. My friend did it and did not have to pay anything.

[QUOTE=BrotherMouzone;2682815]Forgot to mention in my stay at Cascadas early last month I noticed for the first time that all the drinks in the fridge are tagged (have a sticker that staff put on them). Never saw that before. In the past I might drink a few of the beers but then replace those drinks with a few I buy from Oxxo so I can get my full $30 hotel deposit back. Seems they've started tagging the drinks so you can't replace them with your own store-bought drinks LOL. I guess it's easy enough to get around that by just buying all my drinks from Oxxo and leaving the drinks in the fridge alone but still interesting to me that they've actually taken the time to start tagging all the drinks in the fridge.[/QUOTE]Yes, the orange sticker. They allow you to bring the drinks into the club if it has the orange sticker.

[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2682724]For the few of those who have actually chosen to and succeeded in maybe "dating" an HK chica (I recommend you don't for many reasons), how did you go about introducing her to your friends / family. Did you keep your relationship a secret? Did you actually tell your friends you were dating a working girl / prostitute? When I was with one chica, she shared our relationship to her family via texts since I never met them in person, but I was never really sure how to share our relationship with folks on my social circle due to fear of social shaming and unwanted judgements at work / home. How did you guys approach it if you didn't keep your relationship a secret. Just curious.[/QUOTE]I was open about talking about my relationship to all my friends and family. Some friends I told them the truth, she's a brothel worker. Family I would say she works in a restaurant. What are your many reason for not dating them? I was never ashamed but some family members wouldn't understand.

[QUOTE=Gregyyr;2682674]You would think there would be some Ukrainian pussy there wouldn't you. I heard HK Only hires Mexican girls for the most part. They should make a little exception for a while and allow a few Ukrainian girls in there. I bet it would go over well for the men but the working girls may not be to happy with that competition. But maybe supportive considering their country is shot to hell!.[/QUOTE]Ukrainians don't stay in Mexico. They are in Tijuana no more than 48 hrs. Even the ones living in other countries for years are gona be showing up for some USA papers. Hong Kong would never hire a Ukrainian because, besides the fact they would need Mexican working papers, HK doesn't want to be known as "the sex house that takes advantageous of migrants with little opportunity and poor economic status". I am sure that is why they hire Mexicans otherwise the place would look like a nyc strip club, which is a united nations of woman.

[QUOTE=Dogers69;2682886]Ukrainians don't stay in Mexico. They are in Tijuana no more than 48 hrs. Even the ones living in other countries for years are gona be showing up for some USA papers. Hong Kong would never hire a Ukrainian because, besides the fact they would need Mexican working papers, HK doesn't want to be known as "the sex house that takes advantageous of migrants with little opportunity and poor economic status". I am sure that is why they hire Mexicans otherwise the place would look like a nyc strip club, which is a united nations of woman.[/QUOTE]Well said the. Only thing I have to add is that the wait in Tijuana may get to be a little longer as more and more arrive. The news says they have over 1200 now waiting in the city. The US has started using El Chaparral to process them to clear them from the other side. Also I'd would not consider them in poor economic status. They have flown here and most have family in the US to stay with. As compared to a country like Haiti that people travel for months to get here. What's going to be interesting is to see what a s storm the border turns into when Title 42 officially ends May 23. With that news already out to the public you know it's just going to motivate more to make the trip while the weather is nice to be here by that time.

[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2682724]For the few of those who have actually chosen to and succeeded in maybe "dating" an HK chica (I recommend you don't for many reasons), how did you go about introducing her to your friends / family. Did you keep your relationship a secret? Did you actually tell your friends you were dating a working girl / prostitute? When I was with one chica, she shared our relationship to her family via texts since I never met them in person, but I was never really sure how to share our relationship with folks on my social circle due to fear of social shaming and unwanted judgements at work / home. How did you guys approach it if you didn't keep your relationship a secret. Just curious.[/QUOTE]With the girl I dated in the past, I met all of her family members in person many times. They all welcomed me with open arms, treated me with respect, and never took advantage of me. The relationship was Facebook official, in that she posted photos of us on her real Facebook, said she was in a relationship, etc.

As for my family, my siblings knew she was a former brothel worker, but my parents thought she was a normal girl. They all wanted to meet her, but none were willing to travel to Mexico and I didn't want to do anything legal to bring her to the USA To meet them. After a few years together (sometimes retired, sometimes back to work), it ended, but zero regrets. Great life experience seeing how these girls' lives really are outside of HK and in their hometowns far from Tijuana.

[QUOTE=Sol12;2683001]Well said the. Only thing I have to add is that the wait in Tijuana may get to be a little longer as more and more arrive. The news says they have over 1200 now waiting in the city. The US has started using El Chaparral to process them to clear them from the other side. Also I'd would not consider them in poor economic status. They have flown here and most have family in the US to stay with. As compared to a country like Haiti that people travel for months to get here. What's going to be interesting is to see what a s storm the border turns into when Title 42 officially ends May 23. With that news already out to the public you know it's just going to motivate more to make the trip while the weather is nice to be here by that time.[/QUOTE]Good point. Also they don't want to do anything to screw up their chance in getting into the USA. I can see it now. OK. Your approved to come in, oh wait. Your missing one of your family as they are in Zona Norte. LOL.

Also. Everything they hear about Tijuana scares them like. Don't go to that part of town for sure. Even if your a horney 21 year old kid. !! And I am sure money is a concern they have so blowing it on hookers and beer. Maybe not a great choice at their stage of the game.

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[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2682724]For the few of those who have actually chosen to and succeeded in maybe "dating" an HK chica (I recommend you don't for many reasons), how did you go about introducing her to your friends / family. Did you keep your relationship a secret? Did you actually tell your friends you were dating a working girl / prostitute? When I was with one chica, she shared our relationship to her family via texts since I never met them in person, but I was never really sure how to share our relationship with folks on my social circle due to fear of social shaming and unwanted judgements at work / home. How did you guys approach it if you didn't keep your relationship a secret. Just curious.[/QUOTE]How would they know she is a "working girl"? Does she have a tattoo on her face with how much she charges customers and time frame? Also why would they judge her and not you the customer? Seems odd a monger would frequent such establishments, but embarrassed about being shamed and judged by others. At the end of the day, you live your life on your terms and hope you make the most of it. The worst is being on your death bed with regrets. The real issue would be her reasons for working and if they could walk away from making "easy money".

OK, it's been a fat minute since I've been in Hong Kong. I just rarely go there when I'm in Tijuana. I saw him tonight and I retract what I said about other posters letting him live rent free in their minds. He is every bit annoying as fuck like others have said. I even agree with Captain on the low life.

Thinking of going over the border tomorrow, Sat. 04/09/22 - is it smooth crossing these days? I haven't been in months.

Thanks!

Mexico's INM will want to see your passport. There are no travel restrictions now so you should be able to walk over without problems, but they are still bullying gringos into paying $20-30, depending on how scared they look.

3 of us walked over last Sunday about 2 PM. I showed my passport and the guy just glanced at it, not looking or reading. My 2 wingmen also showed theirs. We were waved on quickly, but 2 INM guys took a gringo into the room, likely to squeeze money out of him as he looked scared and shaken.

Here's the head of INM in Tijuana. Print it out and hand it to the INM guys if they start giving you problems:

Manuel Alfonso Marín Salazar.

Titular de la Oficina de representación.

Calle Diamante s / and, Fracc. La Esmeralda,

Delegación San Antonio de LOS Buenos, see. P. 22640 Tijuana, Baja California.

[QUOTE=Dylan;2683652]Thinking of going over the border tomorrow, Sat. 04/09/22 - is it smooth crossing these days? I haven't been in months.

Thanks![/QUOTE]It's. Just crossing the border dude.