The reasons for our skepticism
[QUOTE=DavidJung;1891350]Some guys blame me to pay less than what I promised to pay before meeting. I agree with them the sum of money for staying overnight. Not short time. So had to pay less that what I had promised. If they stayed with me overnight, I would pay full amount money. I have no idea why some guys blame me about this issue. So all of you guys pay even a girl not keeping their promise?
I don't think you wouldn't. All of my story is true and not a fairy tail. Maybe I'm not that old as you guys. I'm only 32 year old and athletic figure, wearing neatly. Most of girl I meet couldn't figured out my age correctly. Presumed my age around 25 or 26. Also I always paid what I promised in the first position if they keep the promise.
I'm really happy to read all your doubtful comments. Which mean my experience in Kiev was exceptional and most of you guys didn't experienced that much.
I always tried my best on each girl I meet and never treated them as a prostitute. Maybe you guys just laugh at me and regard me as a bullshit lier. But I really don't care about what you guys said. I just wanted to share all my experience with you guys. Because I was been very helped for many other destinations.
You are right, if your age is over 40, 50 and ugly fat monster, you should spend more to make them happy. But I'm not the case.
I can share more detailed information if you guys need it. Thanks.[/QUOTE]The reasons why I and others are skeptical about parts of your reports is because of the quantity of the girls you say you met and the extent of the services you say they provided.
Your report does not really identify the source of your girls beyond Mamba. Having used Mamba for many years I am astounded that you say that you were able to amass over a 100 contacts before arriving in Kiev. The time involved in establishing such contacts would be considerable. Your success in doing so would have nothing to do with your looks or age as all girls would assume that your profile was false until they met you. Whilst it might be possible to attract such interest by simply offering large sums of money your post does not suggest you did that indeed you seem to have eschewed the more obvious working girls and to have actually paid at the very lowest end of the scale.
In the case of the services you say were provided, I have always found Kiev girls to be particularly conscious of and careful about STDs and unwanted pregnancies. They are more careful than working girls in London and this extends to girls from Mamba, clubs and brothels. Given the state of their health service and the complete absence of any proper system of social security you can understand why they are so worried. For them HIV is a death sentence, while a child spells poverty and loneliness as they struggle to get by as a single mum.
Young fit Ukrainian guys have so much choice they are not likely to marry a girl who already has somebody else's kid.
The idea that they would therefore risk so much for so little money seems extraordinary and is not explained by your alleged youth or good looks. Few Ukrainian girls would allow themselves to be swept off their feet by even a 20 year old male model who speaks Russian let alone a foreigner in his 30's who is careful with his money and yet you say so many of them were.
I have been visiting Kiev for more than 5 years and have acquired at least one LTR and been offered others and I can assure you that one of the principal and acknowledged differences between Ukrainian women and their western counterparts is that they are more level headed even cynical when it comes to men. Time and again women in Kiev have told me that they don't care about age or looks. What they want is a man who will provide for them, treat them nicely and hopefully show them some respect and even affection. The idea therefore that so many of them would risk all for a few thousand hyrvnia strikes me and I suspect many other members as unbelievable.
I am sorry to have to take issue in this way and would normally say that we are all entitled to our own fantasies, indeed in one sense this site is all about fantasies. However your posts give a completely misleading approach that could damage the chances of other mongers.
Yes you can get lucky sometimes but if you do then my advice to those who read this is (1) be generous (not ridiculously so) and never show you care about as little as 2000 hryvnia (even if you do) because if you do they'll think you're cheap or worse still poor (2) be respectful and don't start trying to practice unsafe sex on a first meeting (take your pleasures to the extent and in the form agreed)(3) be interesting by taking them to places they've never been to before and showing them a little luxury (you really don't have to spend much) (4) be more than a one night stand by offering them the possibility of further meetings, foreign travel or even an LTR and sponsorship (you may not actually do it but talking about it at least makes it led of a "wham, bang thank you mam" experience for them).
Finally I'd just like to say that if you really did have unprotected vaginal and anal sex with that many women in Kiev then (if you'll forgive the English sense of humor) you really are one a tool!
Don't agree with you, Tomek123
[QUOTE=Tomek123;1891136]And then a lot of guys ask here in the forum-why the Ukrainian chickens have become so accessible and so bad to foreigners? I was here in 2008 and fucked 9-10 and now even 5-6 does not want to have kontakt. What's hell happened?
You spoil the reputation of all-important for as. Is like you there is a stereotype of an foreigner, dirty, deceitful low level man, who considers every dollar.
Your action is a shame even to Ukrainian bandit. Ukrainian even a thief or a bandit will feel ashamed of such an action. In the East of greed against women it is the most shameful for a man. Greed man in Russia..[/QUOTE]Local guys have much worse reputation than foreigners, at least ones from Western countries. You guys want to know why the girls are so cynical? Because they are the products of the environment! Just look at the local guys! Just look at their fathers!! Oops sorry, I forgot. They don't have fathers! A generation of young girls without fathers! Of course the girls are cynical because they don't want to end up like their mothers! Local guys lie and cheat and do all sorts of nasty things. They make us Western guys look like Boy Scouts I kid you not!
So of course the girls are so cynical and don't believe anything guys say.
It's the local guys fucking things up for us, not the other way around. We're the good guys and the world's police, LOL. Just kidding!