[QUOTE=United1;2680197]Thanks for the great reports Cucumber. I will be in Jakarta in a few weeks and seek the good times. I think I will try my luck on Seeking (SA) as I am a bit of a timid monger and not sure how comfortable I will feel at some of these massage establishments.
But I will make sure to detail my experiences. I am interested to hear how Singers will treat you, as OT, Geylang and Brix are closed from what I heard.[/QUOTE]I would not go to Jakarta in the month of Ramadan. Ramadan is slower than the rest of the year, and now everything is slower due to covid. The combination of Ramadan and covid regulations does not bode well for mongering IMHO.
If you are really timid, why go with an online dating service like Seeking? I would think it takes a more braveness and self-confidence to meet up with a girl you met there, as it is just the two of you and the onus is on you and her. If you go to one of the big establishments in Jakarta (Travel, Classic, Malioboro), it is just like going to a relaxed bar. Except that you don't have to chat up anybody whatsoever, the mamasans will take care of that (thoroughly). Hell, they'll match you up with a girl even if you are asleep. To me it seems like the perfect solution for a timid guy. Go to Classic at 4 pm and it won't be too loud, there won't be many guys and there will be a lot of girls available. The mamas will bring them to you one or two at a time. You have a look, maybe ask a few questions and then choose.
Here in Singapore I have a civilian girlfriend and she is rather possessive, so no mongering for me here in any case. The upside is that I save some money which I can spend when I am back in a cheaper mongering location. And unlike the Jakarta girls who hardly speak a word of English, I can have a proper conversation with her. After a week of trying to communicate through Google translate, it is kind of nice to be with someone I can both have sex with and talk with in a meaningful way.