[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1421688]I read it a few times. I came to the conclusion that the dude wrote that piece not because he was concerned about guys over paying or he cared that certain guys were being thought of as monkeys or niggers etc. He wrote that piece mainly because he was protecting his own interest, for the mere fact that he lives there now.
When he was just a tourist on vacation, his outlook was different. How he paid for his vacation was different. How he viewed expats spending on chicas was different. As an expat now, he has had to make some adjustments in how he spends his money, much like others before him. Living there, paying 2000 to 3000 pesos is a big deal. I get that. Whereas for the vacationing tourist who is likely still working, and making a decent income, paying 2000 to 3000 pesos instead of 1000 or 1500 pesos is only a difference of $25 to 40 respectively. Those minor differences don't make a guy any more or less of a sucker, or more or less respected. Chicas are going to think whatever they choose to think about you. You are buying pussy, so I don't expect them to have the highest respect for me anyway. It's just business, it aint personal.
This kinda reminds me of a friend of mine that lives in North Carolina. I live in the NY NJ area, but when I visit my friend that lives in NC, he and other guys make a big deal if I leave a $5 tip. They always make snide remarks about me spoiling the servers who expect less. To me, a few bucks more is not going to break me. Nor is that going to make me be seen as a sucker. If the service was good, I'm happy to give a decent tip. In Sosua it's no different. While I do take heed to advice regarding seriously overpaying (like $100 US) , I don't buy the notion that I have to adopt the sentiments of expats who have inherited the mindset that every $500 pesos over paid makes one a sucker. If a chica thinks I'm a monkey or a nigger, she is going to think that way whether I get the pussy for 500 pesos or $100 US. That was a slick touch on the writers part to throw out that bait in there about how those Sosua chicas supposedly think about guys on vacation. Anyone emotional would get upset and grab that bait and run with it. I suppose that dude is seen as less of a monkey or a nigger, because he pays less? I took notice to him mentioning that he'll give a girl more if he likes them, especially if it is their 1st time?
Well isn't that exactly what the tourist on vacation does? He offers more based on the service and / or rapport established with the chica. I wonder does he do that for the chicas that think he is a monkey or a nigger? How would he know the difference?
The concept of overpaying is well understood. But one must consider the circumstances of the one paying. Overpaying to an expat may not be overpaying to a vacationing tourist. Each should respect where the other is coming from, and not try to impose on the others view of things. If and when I become an expat living in another country, I'm going to remember how I felt and saw things when my circumstances was different. I'm not going to turn into one of those expats I hear and see from time to time complaining about those NEW Yawkers coming to Sosua fucking up these chicas heads.
In fact I'll go even further. I'm pretty sure many of them expats are thinking and calling guys monkeys and niggers too. So it's not just the chicas who are name calling and stereotyping. It just may be the dude who's mad at me for no reason other than because I am on vacation doing it my way, as opposed to me living up to his lower standards and spending habits for my vacation.[/QUOTE]I'm sure there are some that think of us as monkeys and niggers, but really what do I think of the opinion of a chica? As long as she services me well and shows respect around me, I can give a fuck less how she really feels. To make a large generalization for all is small minded IMHO. For reference, my chica from last night was a repeat for a second night. The level of connection we had was even more fantastic than the sex. After messing around in the am, we finally got showered and put of the bed around 10am. My chica didn't leave until after noon. I kept throwing out hints to leave so I could eat.
She just wanted to continue to be around me and talk, joke, flirt. We even managed to have a discussion on the "scene" and the behavior of both mongers and putas. The affection and enjoyment she displayed was genuine. She already had her pesos. Thinking logically, she would have bounced quickly if she was so put off by my race. I'm no sucker either and this is far not my first time at the rodeo.
I'm very suspicious at people's motivations when the talk about the dislikes for Blacks. It's either expats trying to keep you away from THEIR paradise of its the European decent that are hating on you. I get mad love from my chicas because I give it and demand it. IMHO, the whole fucking world hates black skin, but I still continue to live a great life. If you feed into that bs it can become your reality. Be a fucking man and do you regardless of the perceived because there is no empirical data to back up that bs.
Just all seem ridiculous to me. So I am to believe that this young hot thang would rather be with a old fat dated dude just because he is white than much younger, smooth, good looking, good smelling, entertaining black dude. GTFOHWTBS!
I've never felt slighted down here. Not be arrogant or a jerk about it, but I understand that I am a self proclaimed chic magnet ANYWHERE in the world and it may be more difficult than others. My main point is that we need to dismiss the propaganda and let our experiences teach us. We all pay for pussy one way or another in life. Their are no freebies in life PERIOD. I'm pretty sure if I lived here I would have "free" pussy, but what exactly does that mean?
