Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=X Man]Are you trying to be funny or what?

Did Daddy Warbucks go to the high school prom. Did he meet papa and ask if he could butt fuck his date in the back seat? I don't think so.

x ( who does not butt fuck with anyone, so have no idea where *****bucks is coming from)[/QUOTE]


I don’t know what Philippines some of you guys go to. But the one I live in most of the women are unsophisticated by western standards. Most of the country is in dire poverty so when a local woman meets a foreigner the lady and her family most of the time is wishing this guy be the one that rescues them from poverty.

In the states a prom date is nothing like this. The “Prom” I am surprised you can remember back that far Grandpa. You do tend to keep the company of young unintelligent girls though so it adds up :) Also in the west women tend to be economically stable and have a first world education so you telling them what the "deal" is more understood.

Also there is no “face” or respect issues so when the foreigner fucks her sides ways then rides off into the sunset she don’t have to hear “I told you so from her family members.” I heard from many of pinay stories about the philandering foreigner and how families have been fucked up by it.

Daddy “*****” bucks? I like it! Oh how I wish my substantial paycheck came from “*****s” instead of Bush's wars…..Might be more job security with the pending administration change :)

No harm in any posts. I get the point. I mean I have a girlfriend in QC. I have no right dating her. Let's just leave it at that.

She wants me to meet her dad/mom. I'm like. If I were your dad. I'd get together with 10 guys and beat me up (okay get it.- I think dad should be smacking me instead of.). Offering me a soda when I know he makes 5000 pesos a month. Offering me a shot of whisky. Calling me sir.

Change topic: I mean I have been stunned at the times when I have slept with an aunt and her niece, best friends, cousins, 3 coworkers from the day shift at 7-11 (thank heaven for 7-11).

By American standards I'm surprised noone has taken me out and told me off. It is like a strange dream.

As far as I know, I'm not a grandpa. And that is the problem with your posts, you are making some assumptions about me and my motives which are not true and I find that offensive.

I met one ladies family only because she needed to go home to pick up a swimsuit for our trip to the beach. Nice people. A neighbor climbed a tree so that I could have fresh coconut. And then off to the beach we went. It was a good experience, there were no negative feelings, no deceit, nothing abnormal.

I'll assume you've had some negative experience with meeting family, so go ahead and give us the details.

X

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]
I am surprised you can remember back that far Grandpa. You do tend to keep the company of young unintelligent girls though so it adds up :) )[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blink157]hi,
told you guys..why you wana married when living here?


Give me a good reason..just one :D

Blink[/QUOTE]


What’s good Blink my man we living the good life eh? I am currently away on business but when I get home (8 weeks) bar girls grab your umbrella because it’s going to be raining fucking pesos.

Anyway I recently asked your question but more in depth in the Dubai thread when “members” was worried about another member getting busted by his wife I just asked why the hell they marry in the first place. I got one sarcastic response. One straight but short response from Master Monger Piper 1 and that was it. It seems guys can’t or won’t answer the question well life is good.

[QUOTE=Daddy Warbucks 1]What’s good Blink my man we living the good life eh? I am currently on away on business but when I get home (8 weeks) bar girls grab your fucking umbrella because it’s going to be raining fucking pesos.

Anyway I recently asked your question but more in depth in the Dubai thread when “members” was worried about another member getting busted by his wife I just asked why the hell they marry in the first place. I got one sarcastic response. One straight but short response from Master Monger Piper 1 and that was it. It seems guys can’t or won’t answer the question well life is good.[/QUOTE]

" I still havent found what Im looking for.." maybe that explains all...and until Im gona found that special gurl...I keep on f..in around...

8am now and if I look behind me whats in my bed....oh guys...ehehehe...

Life is gud

Blink

[QUOTE=X Man]Of course I'm also honest and up front with the ladies. Now for those who play "snake in the grass" and use the "love" word and make false promises, or pop cherries --- well they probably should avoid meeting the family.X[/QUOTE]
I was in Manila last weekend and this happened to me. Two months ago I met a cute waitress in the "Cafe", 22 yrs old and no kids, and over 5 or 6 visits she asked me why I don't take anyone out. She didn't realize that I do sometimes take someone out, but I always have them meet me at another place (7-11) to ensure no crooked cops are waiting for a shake down. So, she wanted to meet me outside the "Cafe". Finally, last Sunday I had time and I met her in Robinson's. We were having coffee and I asked her if she wanted to eat first, or go to the hotel. She acted like "What" and I said okay what do you want to do. She told me that if we go to the hotel, we are dating and it is only me and her. I laughed and told her that I don’t live in Manila and I travel there sometimes and I am not looking for a gf, but if she wanted to go to the hotel and have a couple hours of fun, and we would be friends, then I was her man. It took her 5 minutes to think and then she replied okay. Down side to this, after the Sogo she had to go to work and I met her in the “Café” and just my luck I met two really sweet diamonds and I couldn’t pry her off me to get them out:(

So I haven't written in a while and have been away from the board. Had to go back to the USA to visit my father who had a heart attack. He is fine, but made me realize how short life is and can end at any moment.

Heading to Cebu in two days and will be there for nine days. Just being back in Hawaii and Mainland made me realize a few things. First of all, most American chicks are fat and bitchy. Took some nice ones home from some bars on the mainland (not pros or p4p, just civilian), but they could not even fuck that well. And one had a big pussy! Had to pretend she was pinay just to finish. Now back in Hawaii and fucking my old gf. Ask me what I am doing now? Writing on the board because she has a headache.

So, the pinay are tight little fuck machines, with good bodies who love to please. Yea, we put up with some bullshit, but overall, they treat us good. Nothing wrong with that IMHO.

The internet dating thing is such a scam. I think the FH girls are either prostitues, bar girls, or boys pretending to be girls. Was supposed to meet some "nice" girls this trip, but eventually all turned out to be p4p girls. Figured it out over time. So, the trip is like this: fly into Manila and meet a former Ms. Philippines (15 years and 15 lbs ago). Met her before and we should fuck this time. Then to Cebu for some internet FH p4p types. Then down to CDO for the one college girl. I am sure I will nail many and will take a camera down there this time.

I would go down to Waikiki and do some mongering tonite while my girl is asleep, but I fucked her three times yesterday and once this morning and I am tired. Maybe I will just watch TV.

Looking forward to the PI

Carmex

[QUOTE=Robbaf] Down side to this, after the Sogo she had to go to work and I met her in the “Café” and just my luck I met two really sweet diamonds and I couldn’t pry her off me to get them out:([/QUOTE]

You lucky HANSUM MAN

I've been a member of this board since before the 'split'. And now frequent both boards. I just finished reading the posts on USASexGuide. And I came here to lurk in your little world. I must say, I really hate you guys

While you guys are picking up 20 somethings, we are scampering around for a good AMP providers that's 40+ that won't charge us over $50 for a HJ. Whereas when I was in the Phils, $50 would get me an overnight with a princess.

I long for the time when I can go back and spend some quality time there.

FH.com is a hit and miss. Here's my take on it:

95% are going to ask you for money for their sick [insert relative] or to take their 'exam' at school.
4% are really looking for someone, but they're ugly.
1% are looking for someone AND pretty.

Any other site you guys can recommend?

Enjoy yourselves... I envy you... until I get a couple of business up and running in the Phils ;)

Dave

[QUOTE=TSMDave]I've been a member of this board since before the 'split'. And now frequent both boards. I just finished reading the posts on USASexGuide. And I came here to lurk in your little world. I must say, I really hate you guys

While you guys are picking up 20 somethings, we are scampering around for a good AMP providers that's 40+ that won't charge us over $50 for a HJ. Whereas when I was in the Phils, $50 would get me an overnight with a princess.

I long for the time when I can go back and spend some quality time there.

FH.com is a hit and miss. Here's my take on it:

95% are going to ask you for money for their sick [insert relative] or to take their 'exam' at school.
4% are really looking for someone, but they're ugly.
1% are looking for someone AND pretty.

Any other site you guys can recommend?

Enjoy yourselves... I envy you... until I get a couple of business up and running in the Phils ;)

Dave[/QUOTE]

Dave

Am not based there but ,much closera dn have plenty nice 20 something here in UAE :) But I do return there and get some of same.....;)

Try DIA (Date in Asia) and Cherry Blossoms - there is plenty written on these on the board, but you will find that many will ask the same questions.

Have fun and continue staying in the USA so it leaves more lovely 20 somethings for me and other guys :)

Sorry if this is the wrong forum for this post...

A few months ago I met a Filipina in Shanghai. We have an awesome relationship together. I am very impressed with her.

I have asked her to retire from the 'entertainment' industry and never be a WG again. We have had a very difficult heart to heart talk about this, it was really an ultimatum - if you ever go to Shanghai - I will never see/speak/think about you again. It had to be black and white - no gray.

I think in general PI girls would rather not work at home and I believe her when she tells me that she would not consider to 'work' at home.

In return I will take care of ALL your expenses and give her a chance to make a better future for herself and potentially for the two of us, if we are lucky together.

She is working to take care of her son and 3 nieces. To give them an education so that they will never have to work this way. I respect her for doing this and I love her. She has a home in Manila, where basically the whole family lives, perhaps 14 people in 90m2.

She has listed her expenses as:
Water ~2500pesos/month (every day 170pesos)
Mineral? every 3 days 60 total 600pesos a month (is this gas)
School fees/allowance: 3000pesos per week (all 4 students?)
Electricity: 2000pesos/month
Landline Telephone/DSL Internet: 2000pesos/month
Food (whole house) between 6000 and 8000 per month

My question to the forum is are these reasonable expenses? I will have no problem to cover her costs, she is wonderful but I want to be sure that these are reasonable. They SEEM reasonable and fair to me.

Do you think that it is possible for her to really retire from this work? Or is the adage "you can take the girl from the bar but you cannot take the bar out of the girl" necessarily true? If we are together, we plan to stay in the PI so the same adage (substitute PI for Bar) is not applicable at this time.

Thanks for you help. You can write me a PM or reply to the forum.

YF2 - Think you have already placed this post on the 'Living in the Philippines' thread and have a few replies.

You say that you are ready to pay for the expenses below. They seem reasonable to me. However, don't be naive to think it will be the only expenses.

You can't being to imagine how many other things that will "come up". Cousin's tuition, business loan for a "can't miss opportunity" for an uncle, father's emergency hospital bills, etc. Remember, Filipinos have families all over. Or simply, they may just think you're rich to ask you money for a new cell phone.

I've been here for two years now. Every day, even from people I just met, will ask me for money. (Especially in high school and college, I grew up really poor) and I still had a hard time asking people for money. Maybe it's my pride, but to this day, I still think it's one of the hardest things to do. I get text messages from people I don't even know asking if they can borrow money for a medical emergency. Sometimes, I feel like a walking ATM machine.

Maybe I'm wrong. I guess it depends on if you really love her and want to give it a try. It seems like you are just about ready to make the decision to support her.

Good luck

[QUOTE=Proudpinoy]You say that you are ready to pay for the expenses below. They seem reasonable to me. However, don't be naive to think it will be the only expenses.

You can't being to imagine how many other things that will "come up". Cousin's tuition, business loan for a "can't miss opportunity" for an uncle, father's emergency hospital bills, etc. Remember, Filipinos have families all over. Or simply, they may just think you're rich to ask you money for a new cell phone.

I've been here for two years now. Every day, even from people I just met, will ask me for money. (Especially in high school and college, I grew up really poor) and I still had a hard time asking people for money. Maybe it's my pride, but to this day, I still think it's one of the hardest things to do. I get text messages from people I don't even know asking if they can borrow money for a medical emergency. Sometimes, I feel like a walking ATM machine.

Maybe I'm wrong. I guess it depends on if you really love her and want to give it a try. It seems like you are just about ready to make the decision to support her.

Good luck[/QUOTE]


Damn bruh your post hit home with me. I have experienced that everywhere I have been around Filipinos the same what you describe but hell also have seen the same from my family back in the states that’s why I don’t call home much :) I had not been to the states in two years before I took the plunge back in April for those same reasons. The Filipinos I come in contact with well it’s easy to say no them but now the biological family that’s hard. They seem to not understand yeah I do have money but not for them. As for the asking for money…I think it’s a shameful act especially if you are asking for bullshit reasons, cell phone/jewelry you smell what I am cooking?

It seems to me that these cute little Filipinas are raised and trained to use their looks and charm to get as much money as they can from us unsuspecting foreigners. I live and work in Korea, where many Filipinos come to work in the factories or bars. Some of the areas around the US military bases seem more Filipino than Korean these days. So I have had quite a few encounters with them. I have even traveled to the Phils to meet a few that I have met through the chat sites. Without exception, the idea of me giving them some money for various "needs" has come up. Just like YF2, I bought into the idea of "supporting" one that I thought I was in love with at the time. However, what started out as needing no more than $500/month, quickly turned into $1000/month is not enough. I'll admit, I was pretty damn stupid to continue at that point. But I blame it on my smaller head. Anyhow, I eventually did come to my senses and decided to cut her off before I had to hawk everything I owned and take up a park bench as my residence. I'm not saying that all Filipinas want us foreigners only for our money. But it sure seems that the large majority are experts at sucking everything out of our wallets and bank accounts.

IMHO
HW