Wake up from the dream, read this!!!
i am a thinker and that’s what i get paid for (well! partially though). so had been thinking of mongering and how it affects our instincts and feelings and wants. someone once told me that "the whole life cycle revolves around sex and sex only". keep the point of your life while you are sexually active in the centre and you will see how other instances in life just fall in place. well for some (and for many in india) that point may coincide with marriage. nothing can replicate the feeling of a good sex and the adrenalin rush and blood gushing.
so while we at this forum are happy talking about experiences and helping each other enjoy the pleasures, i thought of writing some points on the flip side of mongering. am not a saint to advise but if i can share contacts, why not some knowledge!!
below are the major drawbacks of public mongering that i was able to think. i have been through some and some i have seen my friends go through.
nothings important than life- yes, all the glitter, fun, happiness and money won't exist if you are not alive. and the highest and the most dangerous conscious risk (conscious because we take the decision to have sex and how careful we are) is, unfortunately, sex itself. some say that the usa invented this virus called hiv to prevent people from involving in gay activities! well, somewhere something must have gone really bad in their labs as this virus started getting attracted towards healthy cell receptors in the bodies of even people who practice straight sex. usa or not, i least bother. what i know is once this virus enters your system, you are dead (sooner than later). pity there is no way to find out if the girl with whom you are going to copulate for the next 1 hour has this super villain already in her body fluids or not. don’t forget about the sidekicks like hbv (hepatitis b virus), hsv (herpes simplex virus) and hpv (human papilloma virus), all of which can be life threatening. some warning signs of stds are:
• discharge from the penis
• pain or a burning sensation when [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112][CodeWord112][/url]
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• rashes, lumps, itching, blisters or sores in the genital area.
• sore testicles.
take simple precautions like cleaning your genitals before and after sex, avoiding high risk activities (anal sex, lip locking, bbbj, oral sex etc.). always (and always, no exceptions) keep your eyes and mind open. look how clean the room has been kept, and how clean the girl herself is. look for any rashes on the bodies and please stop the act if you find that the girl is bleeding from any site. most important of all, use the damn condom (double is good). and last, but not the least, get regular medical check ups. if you are brave enough to infiltrate the pimps locality all alone and take risks, have guts to face the doctor and speaking the truth. it will only help you.
addiction- you read right, it is indeed addiction. it does not only apply to smoking and drinking (the most common addictions in our country) but sex too. anyone who is having sex with different girls once a week for more than 3 months is unfortunately addicted to sex. mind you, it is as harmful as smoking and drinking. so don’t take pride if you do not smoke but monger. you are in the same category. the most famous and recent example was tiger woods and the whole world (and probably the space aliens) saw how it ruined a man of immense power and fame and brought down crashing on dust. so, keep a check on your activities and look for any signals of addiction and start working on them as soon as you find any.
money, money, money- how many of you would spend rs. 3000- rs. 10000 for anything which is not an object, lasts only for 1 hour, which is not permanent, does not give happiness to anyone and does not improve your life in any way? did i hear none??? well, we all do or want to do that in the form of mongering. in my initial days of mongering, i used to sleep with every girl with a provider (later i realized that the providers found me to be the best customer because they can be assured of my payment) and it was not very long that i was broke financially. and it took me quite a while to stand back on my feet. all the financial planning, resolutions like mongering once a month, cutting your expenditures in other areas to facilitate mongering will fall flat even before you realize. so, think wisely. money is irreplaceable. and spend wisely. just before you say “ok” to the provider on the phone, think about the pretty gift that you wanted to buy for your loved one, the dinner in one of the posh restaurants that you always wanted or the technologically advanced mobile phone that you wanted to buy for yourself but postponed it since it was expensive. you can do all of the above and many more with that 5k that will be ejaculated soon in a dump hole.
i am watching you- i think allsaints would be the best person to write on this but i do know that prostitution is illegal in india and any abetment is illegal too. result can be imprisonment, money and of course, public disgrace. how much ever the pimp may say he is safe and is paying the le sufficiently, he is not completely safe.
pumped by the pimp- always keep a professional relation with the pimp. don’t be pally. he is just after your money. ask him to provide you a girl for free and see his reaction. i never encourage any provider to call me in case there is a new girl on the block, except one and i am in the process of getting rid of him too. if the pimp got caught and forced by the les to enlist his customers, you would be receiving a call soon. the other side of the pic would be the pimp harassing you for money. never disclose your location, real profession, name, identity or how rich you are and blah, blah, blah. less talks and more action will keep you safe. and keep changing your providers after some period.
emotional bind- we all are humans and have a mind and a heart. men especially are slaves to love and affection. we tend to get attracted to opposite sex and it is not wrong if someone gets attracted to a sex worker. all is fine. but believe me you won’t want to drag that on for long otherwise your life will be hell. be very courteous to the girl (basic manners) and pay her well if she really made you happy. don’t get into her private affairs but talk about that one hour you are going to be with her. always remember, you are one of the 40-50 she is going to see in the current quota and after that she prepares for the next provider. i once saw an iphone 3gs with a girl and i was blown on how well-to-do she was. found out later that a good looking customer had gifted it to her. i thought that they must be sharing a special relationship but on the contrary the girl was so bugged and wanted to throw away the phone in the trash. what a waste of money!!!! these girls do not go by your looks or charms or money. they have seen all of that in their careers. and my dear friends, you all deserve a lot better partners in life.
completely off note, raavan (yes the mythological character in hinduism) was such a highly scholar and intellectual person that even ram sat on his feet (some guru/shishya procedure) and sought for wisdom, while the earlier was on his deathbed after the famous war. raavan told, “we all run behind something which is not good for us but avoid those which are good for us. that’s why i was so aggressive to capture sita but never thought of meeting you. had i met you earlier, things would have been different.”
anyway, as always my advise would be to ‘play safe’.
oh, is that my t-nag provider calling me….hmmm…shall i, shan’t i, shall i, shan’t i….. maybe just his once :)
play safe
mystic
