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[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2738455]1 k / month definitely isn't enough to replace their earnings at the club. The chica I knew said she pulled in between 3-5 k per week but she still decided to leave the club when I was giving her maybe 3 k / month because she hated working there. But that didn't last be / see I'm not rich and can't sustain that financial donation of 3 k / month indefinitely. Your chica seems nasty in that she would do those things to you. The chica I knew "seemed" like an actual good person but I think I just promised more than I could and was willing to deliver. Hence I cut the strings and she went back to doing what she was always doing: getting tits jizzed on and ass pounded by 20 men per night to make her money. Kinda sad but nothing I can do about it without bankrupting myself to "save the hooker."[/QUOTE]$3,000 a month free and clear after taxes is a pretty damn good income in Mexico, even Tijuana. That's top tier Western Union Papi territory.
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Confucius said.
It's better to be in love and in lust with a pretty girl for half hour.
Than be in hand to hand combat with an old, ugly, spiteful woman your whole life.
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[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2738455]1 k / month definitely isn't enough to replace their earnings at the club. The chica I knew said she pulled in between 3-5 k per week but she still decided to leave the club when I was giving her maybe 3 k / month because she hated working there. But that didn't last be / see I'm not rich and can't sustain that financial donation of 3 k / month indefinitely. Your chica seems nasty in that she would do those things to you. The chica I knew "seemed" like an actual good person but I think I just promised more than I could and was willing to deliver. Hence I cut the strings and she went back to doing what she was always doing: getting tits jizzed on and ass pounded by 20 men per night to make her money. Kinda sad but nothing I can do about it without bankrupting myself to "save the hooker."[/QUOTE]You may have known a girl. And she may have told you she was earning $5 K a week. But if she did she is an inveterate liar. I realize there are fichas, and tips, and what not. If you exclude those the girl would have to make around 8 trips upstairs every night of a 6-night week. So, 1 per hour. This hour includes meeting the guy, a drink, going upstairs, going downstairs, going to the ladies room to fix makeup and do whatever, and then back on the floor. Eight times per night. Every night. Can it happen? Sure, anything is possible. Does it happen consistently? No.
I know, very well, several girls who live on a fraction of what you were giving this $5 K / week chica. Giving one of these girls $3 K / month shows a profound misunderstanding or perhaps ignorance of the cost of living in Mexico.
Oh, and zero girls have 20 guys per night.
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Confucious
[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2738717]It's better to be in love and in lust with a pretty girl for half hour.
Than be in hand to hand combat with an old, ugly, spiteful woman your whole life.[/QUOTE]LOL so true El Captain! Confucius also say don't believe what puta say, she mostly full of caca.
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Mexico's stars
Hot HK girls are known to pull in $500 a night on weekend, so they make about $3000-5000 a month when they work.
Putas are the stars in Mexico's society. Lots of average girls look up to them, aspire to earn as much money and live the same glammy high life, just like average boys aspire to be trafficos to make a lot of money. Putas have high expectations for guys who are attracted to them, gradually sink their hooks in and will slice them out of those poor guys. Those relationships usually end in horrible ways, may be very risky for gringos. Putas with high expectations and high maintenance costs should be avoided.
A wingman had a series of weekend dates with a few hottest bar girls. Finally he decided to move in with a hot girl in Tijuana. I have not heard of any problems so I am guessing they are still happy together. A few young guys took some sweetest-looking young girls out of bars and married them, had children and formed a happy, loving community of young families in Tijuana. So it can work depending on circumstances. Just remember all relationships will eventually develop frictions and problems. It's up to you how well you manage them.
OTOH I know quite a few good relationships between mongers and normal Mexican girls. An old guy lives with a sweet, young girl, a shy, pretty spinner when I met her. He spends a few nights a week with her, takes her out to restaurants and clubs, pays for the apartment, gives her food and spending money, average less than $1,000 a month. They seem happy together. She took a friend clubbing one night, a very beautiful blonde with a pretty smile and sweet personality. I have been trying to set up an arrangement with her.
For good LTRs guys should look outside puta bars for girls with morals and dignity, who will not use and manipulate guys, rent out their pussies to live their high lives. Civie clubs in Tijuana have lots of hot young girls, partying with their friends, unattached and available. Or go on line. Just accept the fact that we all need money to live and most women are more focused on money than relationships. You have to manage women's expectations to keep relationships healthy and happy.
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I am not sure what people expect from sex workers.
1 there is a legit argument to be made about there not even being the kind of girl in this world people expect.
2. Guys and girls have different perceptions. Guys needs to stop thinking girls see things the way they do.
3. No matter who much money you give these girls they going to blow it. It is easy money. They will spend it.
The crazy thing is I been doing this long enough for more then a few sex workers to get older and mature then come back to me swearing all kinds of they will be better. I dgaf. They lied too much at this point. I am sticking it to the younger hotter bigger freak. She gets my money and if she a loca she gets a generous tip
Yes there are a couple locas who can get me back on their ride with their magic pussy but I know that ride will throw me off sooner or later.
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Great advice. Know your boundaries. Know what you need.
I straight tell these 304's what I want. Some deliver. I ask for honesty and that is too much for a lot of these 304's.
When they cross your rules toss them back and find a new one. Too many girls out there to let one disrespect you.
[QUOTE=KBToys;2738326]The moment she decided to disrespect you and crossed your boundaries, you should have made the decision to walk. Unless you had an agreement that she still worked in the bar. It is about survival for them and the idea of an emergency fund is a vague concept. Sadly most rely on day to day money to function and probably spent it before they earned it. I don't know the situation, but she probably thought if you can't provide for her, then she'll go back to what she knows best to make fast money. Women aren't worth getting into a fight over, especially the ones that blatantly disrespect you.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2739130]Just remember all relationships will eventually develop frictions and problems.[/QUOTE]I bet I'm not the only one who finds it so refreshing to hear Tom Brady is having relationship problems. Hehehehe.
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[QUOTE=BaxterSlade;2739275]I bet I'm not the only one who finds it so refreshing to hear Tom Brady is having relationship problems. Hehehehe.[/QUOTE]He has a sugar momma because she makes more than him. He probably said hed hang up the cleats and then went back to work because what else would you do sitting at home? Even a Brazilian supermodel that makes $50-$100 M a year isn't enough to entertain him for all hours. He is on his purpose and ensures he has something to look forward to and challenge himself. Hopefully he can stay intact at his age being tackled by 250-300 lbs. guys.
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[QUOTE=KBToys;2739364]He has a sugar momma because she makes more than him. [/QUOTE]Hardly. In 2020 he got $45 MM between football and product endorsements. And that doesn't include the $37.5 MM per year that he'll be earning from Fox Sports as a commentator, after he retires. I don't think Gisele is pulling down that kind of money.
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[QUOTE=Phordphan;2738996]You may have known a girl. And she may have told you she was earning $5 K a week. But if she did she is an inveterate liar. I realize there are fichas, and tips, and what not. If you exclude those the girl would have to make around 8 trips upstairs every night of a 6-night week. So, 1 per hour. This hour includes meeting the guy, a drink, going upstairs, going downstairs, going to the ladies room to fix makeup and do whatever, and then back on the floor. Eight times per night. Every night. Can it happen? Sure, anything is possible. Does it happen consistently? No.
I know, very well, several girls who live on a fraction of what you were giving this $5 K / week chica. Giving one of these girls $3 K / month shows a profound misunderstanding or perhaps ignorance of the cost of living in Mexico.
Oh, and zero girls have 20 guys per night.[/QUOTE]How much would you theoretically have to give a busy hk chica each month to offset her club earnings for her to sustain a living in mexico? This chica blew threw anything I gave her sooo quickly it was ridiculous. I suspected I was getting played but wasn't sure.
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Sunday night report
Drove into Tijuana again and got to the club a little past 9 pm and there was way more guys than girls, probably at 3:1. A lot of girls still aren't back from their summer breaks. Spotted the girl I got from last week but she was busy. None of my other girls were around so headed to adelitas and Chicago. Didn't find anything worthwhile so headed back to HK. They opened the back part of the club past the little Miami area. Still too many dudes. My girl finally freed up but said she had to dance at the main stage and then we could session after that. Went around and tipped girls while she danced. When she was done she came right over and we headed upstairs for another amazing session. It was non stop fucking for 30 straight minutes. Like I said last week this girl is a sex machine. She then confessed to me that she actually has a live in boyfriend and that's why she doesn't give her number out. Apparently he flipped out on her last night because she didn't come home on time. Went back downstairs and chatted for a little while longer. Checked border wait app and said it was 30 minute wait in regular and ready lanes alike so decided to head back to the border ASAP. A little past midnight at this point. Since regular lane seemed empty took that route instead and only ended up in the line for 15 minutes.
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I mean this as a serious question, not a rhetorical one.
What would make you want to buy out an HK girl? You know how many fish are in the Mexican sea, and how far down the rabbit hole a girl is if she finds herself working the poles at HK?
[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2739430]How much would you theoretically have to give a busy hk chica each month to offset her club earnings for her to sustain a living in mexico? This chica blew threw anything I gave her sooo quickly it was ridiculous. I suspected I was getting played but wasn't sure.[/QUOTE]
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Ricky, Ricky, Ricky, I don't know how old your but you seem young by your actions. The fact that you ordered a hooker to leave this guy is appalling. How you could get mad at him for sitting with a hooker in a hooker club is amazing. You do realize they are prostitutes! The first time I went to Colombia I stayed at the mansion. I went to the pool area where a hooker was laying out. I was talking to her for about 15 minutes. This other guy checks in and then comes to the pool. Within 5 minutes they left together and went to his room. I didn't punch the guy. Later we laughed about it. You snooze you lose. You can talk bro code or whatever but the bottom line is they are hookers. Don't give them money to stay out the club. Don't pay their rent. Don't support their kids. Don't not be captain save a ho. All women are hos. Even the ones that aren't hoes. Ask tiger woods and Paul McCartney if their exs were hoes or not. They sure were paid like one. Bottom line is women have nothing to offer when they age out or get fat. I've seen it too many times. Hoes that were a 9 and two years later are a 7 and then a 5 two years after that. Never get attached to these girls like that. If that guy at HK was a drug cartel member, you could have been killed that night. Don't forget where you are. An American in Tijuana is like a black guy in Mississippi. Never get to comfy.
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I have gotten to know two mexican girls over the summer who work in the clubs. Yes they not the same as USA sex workers but they do have a lot of similarities.
Lets assume the loca you talking about is different.
What makes you think if you have her X+10% with X being her normal income that she does not raise her new level of expenses and tells you she needs to go back to work to make money for some important expense she has? This behavior of adding to our expenses to our new income level is pretty much most of human kind BTW.
What makes you think she is going to be ok not making her own money and having to rely on someone else? I mean some people ok with this but some are not once they get a taste of independent money.
I will give the Mexican girls I get to know this unlike many USA sex workers they do actually seem to have the ability to care for someone. They seem loyal. Unfortunately they also seem to be making the same bad decisions I see so many girls from no money broken homes make who get into their to begin with.
I should have gotten a psy degree and offered services to mongers and sex workers. They both need good counseling besides to stop doing the things they want to do.
[QUOTE=ABAJoeSmith123;2739430]How much would you theoretically have to give a busy hk chica each month to offset her club earnings for her to sustain a living in mexico? This chica blew threw anything I gave her sooo quickly it was ridiculous. I suspected I was getting played but wasn't sure.[/QUOTE]