Now that is how you write a trip report
[QUOTE=Jinks;2687904]This will probably be an boring report, but here it goes. I Arrived in Santo Doming this past Tuesday and left Monday (yesterday) back to the USA Now I didn't realize it was both rainy season and holiday week (Good Friday). Though it rain it didn't rain alot, but it did rain. I did my counter intelligence moves with chicas from Dominican Cupid, Tinder and Chicaivas.
I had a great time, it wasn't two to three women a day, but I didn't just go for the women, I genuine like Santo Domingo. I really need to get one fine ass girl I can just visit when I'm there with maybe one or two encounters that would be great. Got to start looking for that.[/QUOTE]Your report was anything but boring. It paints an accurate picture of the action to be had in Santo Domingo if you are willing to put in the work. I liked your comment that [I]"but I didn't just go for the women, I genuine like Santo Domingo." [/I] That is the same way I feel about Sosua.
Real man in the arena stuff there Mr. Jinks. Thank you for the excellent report.
What's love got to do got do with it?
"It's physical. Only logical. You must try to ignore that it means more than that. Oh-oh, what's love got to do, got to do with it?" - Tina Turner.
"Don't get upset girl, that's how it goes. I don't love you hoes, I'm out the door." - Author: Snoop Dogg.
[QUOTE=NeilGeorge;2690845]The one who loves the least has all the control.[/QUOTE]
Real Man in the Arena advice from MaddTraveler
[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2691560]I agree w you 100% but also agree w Grownman. Both points are legit and I always say why chose between romantic dates and sport fcking pros in casas? No need since fist you should experience both.[/QUOTE]Dead on point! Why should any of us limit ourselves?
[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2691560]Or what I actually do is I roleplay the romance. Do I need to spell it. Hell call it acting LOL. We've all played women, talk smooth games, and to me it's the same except now you're in semi-pro category and you shouldn't treat those girls romantically and truly falling in love like you do in the states. Their love isn't real. It could be if you're young or match their age range, you live there, and you know for sure they won't murder you to keep the house and car you just bought to run off with her real boyfriend. I'm not exaggerating, it happens to both men and women gringos even in a gullible and generally safe place like DR. Old 60+ gringo settled w a 20 yr GF, falls in love, she got access to all his money or has gotten enough, then her and BF kills gringo. Google those stories.[/QUOTE]You are batting a 1000% here. "Role-play the romance". Yes, I do the same thing. If you want GFE then you need to give BFE. Mongers forget that you are dealing with another human being. The aspects of chemistry and emotional connection apply in all situations. It is natural to feel things. But that does not mean that you have to endanger yourself in any way because of those feelings. That is how I play it with the chicas that I enjoy. Keep them at arms length. Do not let them into your business. Do not allow them to stake a claim using the laws they have available to them. That is why I have an attorney (actually more than one) and I seek council whenever I see a red flag.
I disagree with you in one area. I believe the risks of loosing your money in a romantic relationship is greater in the United States of America than in the Dominican Republic. I've been through the courts of the United States of America and they do not treat men well. System is a bit different here in the Dominican Republic. But only if you know the laws and have a solid advocate in your corner.
[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2691560]So while I applaud those who bravely take those girls seriously, I also pity them. Have fun and if you want to go the romantic route, whether serious or roleplaying / fantasizing (cause that shit feels good tbh). Then just keep one eye open, that's all. I use all dating apps, and find most success with SA. That's where I meet the most classic chicas, law / medical students and ain't no pussy feels better than banging all the future young Dr / Lawyers LOL. I choose that approach mainly bc they know it's an arrangement, meaning they don't waste my time and make me wait 2-3 citas, and I also know they're not in casas screwing mult dudes daily and they prefer to go exclusive when they can. I spoil the fuck out of them, romance them, and I get everything I want. Not just full GFE I'm talking real Wife experience). If you know you know!![/QUOTE]That is what I am talking about. You work it to your advantage. I personally do not see any reason to put yourself in a legal situation with a girl any place in the world where the state where they live can get involved in your affairs. Keep your eyes open. Your head on a swivel and pay attention to the red flags when you see them. By dealing with chicas who have something to loose you afford yourself a higher degree of safety than if you are involving yourself with barrio chicas that have nothing to lose.