Sometimes Crow Can Be Tasty
Damn, so it looks like I have to eat crow after talking much shit about no such thing as Unicorns. Had a MILF that I have been talking to via whatsapp and facebook for about a month come and visit me (she had already agreed to come to visit me at my apartment once I was in town).
She came over and we chatted for a bit. She has her own job, her own scrilla (fuck, I have an iPad mini and she pulled out the full-sized iPad version on my ass), etc. The entire time she repeated to me that in no certain terms was she a prepago (I had went ahead and asked her how much money she wanted because I did not want any problems or misunderstandings).
Anyway, we did the deed and all she asked for was money for a taxi (I gave her 20 k). This was an absolute first for me in Colombia, but in no way the norm. I still find P4 P to be optimal for short visits.
Still will keep my guard up and be on the lookout for the "tengo una problema" messages (request for money). But other than that, I guess I'm a believer, LOL.
Another Pro Tip Worth Repeating
If there are any chicas that you are unsure of in terms of how much money they will want, then it is always best to ask before inviting them over so that you don't waste time on chicas who think they have "chocha de oro" (pussy of gold).
There is one chica on my fb friends list who I have been watching for a while. Very sexy, long dark hair, big natural ass, and flat stomach. It seems like every other week she is at a resort, or in another country, or, if back in Medellin, out partying. I even saw that she was in Miami once.
We had always messaged back and forth before about meeting, but it never happened (she was still out of country or something). Saw on her fb profile earlier in the week that she says she just found out she is pregnant (doesn't surprise me), so that's probably why her ass has slowed down a bit from all of the partying.
I contacted her and asked if we could meet and she said "sure". Now, normally my method is to wait until they arrive here at my place and then talk about money after getting to know one another for a bit. But with this one, I didn't sense that would be a good idea because I guessed she would probably quote me something ridiculous (and I guessed right).
I asked her how much she wanted and she replied 500 k! That's $200 USD. I didn't even bother to counter the offer; just told her "no thanks. " For those of you who are experienced (professional) negotiators, or have had negotiation training, you know that it would be very hard to get someone to come down to what you would consider "reasonable" after taking a position like that.
[b]tl/dr:[/b] If a chica you have your eye on is popular (and a has sponsors flying her in a out of country) save yourself time and taxi money and find out how much she wants for her time upfront before inviting her over. I've never paid a chica anywhere close to 500 K here in Medellin, and wasn't about to start.