A big scare but eventually an eye opener!
Well. I always had inhibitions to open up my inde and some treasured SP contacts to newbies and unknowns, but somehow with some amount of vetting I still continued to help them in spite of some bad experiences of losing couple of indes earlier. But the last two incidents that happened today and last week, literally sent shock waves and fear chills down my spine and have made me to take some stubborn yet needful decisions. I don't want to name the monger who did it as its no use for me, but really a big time awakening and an alarm bell to safeguard my own dignity and mainly safety. To start with there was one treasured inde, known to some of the senior mongers here started ignoring me for the last 3-4 months or so for reasons unknown till last weekend. She is still my walking wet dreams and badly wanted to meet her for one last time but I was being ignored. Then accidentally met a person who is a not so regular ISGn, but while explaining about some memorable experiences of ours, it was a strange co-incidence that he too knew her and in fact a very close friend of her with whom he's still in touch. When explained the current situation, he vouched to speak to her and let me know the reason of her avoiding me. When he finally came back to me I was shell-shocked to hear the reason behind she ignoring me and some of my group buddies too completely. In simple words, by some means her contact has been spoiled in spite of me being very careful in deciding who to share and it has eventually led to some morons reaching out to her with my name as reference. She was a bit surprised when the volume started to mount and eventually made her to think that I am a high-time pimp trying to earn referring her. More than she ignoring me, the thought about me in her mind has literally shook me up. But the good thing was that she really did have very high regards on me from start but this incident literally buried all. Anyways the reason is now known and it's very clear that there are still people in dark, knowingly or unknowingly trying to spoil a contact and at the same time, damage the image of the person referring her.
By the time, I was trying to come out of this shock, another big rock hit me hard today in the form of another treasured inde, which is known to only a few called me up in the afternoon and asked me if I had written any report about her in some sex website. The moment I heard this, my heart skipped a bit, I started to get palpitations. After consoling her for few minutes, she told me that the ISG person who I referred to her yesterday, had told that he had met me via a sex website, not seen me in person. Also when he asked about a thing which I had mentioned in my FR, she asked how he knew about this. For which the gentleman had told that it was written by me in the sex website. Although the FR didn't contain any name, location place or anything regarding the identify or locality of the girl, she was still in shock and was a bit upset about why I wrote these kind of things. I was literally caught pants down, without much in my defense and had to console her like anything. The 2 hrs in the afternoon was like hell. Then got the report deleted in ISG and assured her that from that moment on wards, there will be nobody approaching her with my name as reference and vouched to get her number and pics deleted from my mobile and also from others to whom I had referred her so far. Then got on to the act of getting them deleted, called her back and confirmed the same to her. After which she mellowed down and has now decided to move on with her life and told she is infact not angry with me, but kind of upset that a person like me, whom she had high regards would write in a website. With plenty of apologies, this matter was somehow resolved, but had all the ingredients in it to have got into a much more worse situation. Even though the monger who did this apologized for his action, this has literally kindled my thoughts to come to some conclusion and take some decisions for my own safety and personal dignity.
Now to the conclusion. Why are people exposing ISG to indes / SP's even WG's?. Though this is a public forum, we are doing something discreet and hide the identify of one's self as well as the girls so that nobody's personal life is disturbed or put in jeopardy. A person with a simple common sense wouldn't be doing such thing. But acts like this can literally ruin an inde's life, my personal life or any other monger like me. So all said is enough. This is not the second or third time, I am losing a precious & hard found inde contact, but these two incidents had all the ingredients to to have turned into a big catastrophe and jeopardized my personal life. I don't need to jeopardize my life for the happiness of any co-mongers. So these incidents have pushed my mind now to stop sharing anything (indes or SP info) to any newbies or unknowns in this forum. Have a few trusted ISG people, who I know personally with whom I feel I will be contended to give & take anything in future. I hope some common sense prevails among the people joining newly into this forum to read this experience and not do something like this in future.
It is really an eye opener
[QUOTE=RajooDudez;2188670]Well. I always had inhibitions to open up my inde and some treasured SP contacts to newbies and unknowns, but somehow with some amount of vetting I still continued to help them in spite of some bad experiences of losing couple of indes earlier. But the last two incidents that happened today and last week, literally sent shock waves and fear chills down my spine and have made me to take some stubborn yet needful decisions. I don't want to name the monger who did it as its no use for me, but really a big time awakening and an alarm bell to safeguard my own dignity and mainly safety. To start with there was one treasured inde, known to some of the senior mongers here started ignoring me for the last 3-4 months or so for reasons unknown till last weekend. She is still my walking wet dreams and badly wanted to meet her for one last time but I was being ignored. Then accidentally met a person who is a not so regular ISGn, but while explaining about some memorable experiences of ours, it was a strange co-incidence that he too knew her and in fact a very close friend of her with whom he's still in touch. When explained the current situation, he vouched to speak to her and let me know the reason of her avoiding me. When he finally came back to me I was shell-shocked to hear the reason behind she ignoring me and some of my group buddies too completely.[/QUOTE]After reading your post I can understand what you have gone through. It is sad to see that you are not going to help any new mongers from now but your personal life is more important than trying to satisfy someone whom you have not met. I have heard people praising you for your helpful nature but my bad luck haven't approached you before and I don't think you will ever help me after this incident. Take it easy and live peacefully bro. Sometimes shit happens!
Common sense is not so common.
Rajoo Bhai,
I am from Bangalore forum but I follow Chennai thread regularly. I have seen many FRs where you helped newbies.
It is quite unfortunate to read what has happened to you. For helping people, WG thinking about you as a Pimp is really concerning.
I don't know why people foolishly quote ISG or website while contacting a WG.
Not only they are screwing up contact, but also they are violating and breaching the trust.
Hope people use common sense here after and don't breach the trust.
[QUOTE=RajooDudez;2188670]Well. I always had inhibitions to open up my inde and some treasured SP contacts to newbies and unknowns, but somehow with some amount of vetting I still continued to help them in spite of some bad experiences of losing couple of indes earlier. But the last two incidents that happened today and last week, literally sent shock waves and fear chills down my spine and have made me to take some stubborn yet needful decisions. I don't want to name the monger who did it as its no use for me, but really a big time awakening and an alarm bell to safeguard my own dignity and mainly safety. To start with there was one treasured inde, known to some of the senior mongers here started ignoring me for the last 3-4 months or so for reasons unknown till last weekend. She is still my walking wet dreams and badly wanted to meet her for one last time but I was being ignored. Then accidentally met a person who is a not so regular ISGn, but while explaining about some memorable experiences of ours, it was a strange co-incidence that he too knew her and in fact a very close friend of her with whom he's still in touch. When explained the current situation, he vouched to speak to her and let me know the reason of her avoiding me. When he finally came back to me I was shell-shocked to hear the reason behind she ignoring me and some of my group buddies too completely. In simple words, by some means her contact has been spoiled in spite of me being very careful in deciding who to share and it has eventually led to some morons reaching out to her with my name as reference. She was a bit surprised when the volume started to mount and eventually made her to think that I am a high-time pimp trying to earn referring her. More than she ignoring me, the thought about me in her mind has literally shook me up..[/QUOTE]
History repeats! Sad. Very sad.
[QUOTE=RajooDudez;2188670]Well. I always had inhibitions to open up my inde and some treasured Shom I feel I will be contended to give & take anything in future. I hope some common sense prevails among the people joining newly into this forum to read this experience and not do something like this in future.[/QUOTE]Very sad indeed. Well every benevolent heart on ISG has a similar story to tell am sure. Mine is almost half a decade old with Tamina from Evonnea stable. Really sorry to hear about your experience bro. Hang in there. Your friends are with you. Cheers!