Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1440457]There was a dude in May who was hanging with some fellas at Rumbas. At some point he gets the attention of a chica and her friends. They come over, have drinks and conversation. Maybe a half hour later, the dude realizes he's not interested in taking one of the girls he was talking to up to his room. So the girl goes off and makes a big scene. She claims he owes her for her time. The dude was caught off guard because they were all having a good time, so he thought. Him and his boys fed these chicas drinks the whole time they were there with them. The chica felt, her time was wasted because she could have got with somebody else. I'm told she got others she knew involved, and so the dude ended up paying her pesos just to make her go away.

Now mind you, he didn't even ask her to go anywhere with him. He may have hinted about taking her, but he must have changed his mind. He never moved from Rumbas. Not saying this will happen, but it could be a problem if a dude bumps into the wrong chica and asks her to leave one spot to go to another spot. It seems many of these chicas don't buy into the free drinks as partial payment. Or that they need to be interviewed to allow a guy time to decide. Once a guy takes a chica, she may very well believe you are her customer at that moment. Of course a dude could walk away with most chicas. No harm no foul. But I'm sure there are some chicas in that environment that could take it to a level that might have a monger wondering if he's going to be arrested for not paying a chica he never had sex with. This is probably more for newbies (or guys who arent familiar with this scheme) , than for guys (like yourself) that have been coming for years. The dude in question, it was his 1st time to Sosua.[/QUOTE]Now I'm not saying all the chica's are like what happened to this guy and his friends-because they are NOT-but you must always be on your guard-The one thing I notice guys do is.GIVE UP TOO MUCH PERSONAL INFORMATION-I know when talking to the chica's you think its just idle conversation but really alot of times she's pumpin' you for info-Are you new? How long areb you here for? Where are you staying? Most guys tell the girls those answers and even more. So you just told the hardcore chica's a wealth of information just by answering her honestly-I usually say Por Que? If I don't know them. Rumba is a great place but a haven for the sharks to feed on FRESH NEW BAIT-The guys you spoke of gave way too much info.

I doubt very much cops would even listen to a chica telling them she wants to get paid for her time. They know that's really pushin' it.

[QUOTE=Zedman99; 1440517]Now I'm not saying all the chica's are like what happened to this guy and his friends-because they are NOT-but you must always be on your guard-The one thing I notice guys do is. GIVE UP TOO MUCH PERSONAL INFORMATION-I know when talking to the chica's you think its just idle conversation but really alot of times she's pumpin' you for info-Are you new? How long areb you here for? Where are you staying? Most guys tell the girls those answers and even more. So you just told the hardcore chica's a wealth of information just by answering her honestly-I usually say Por Que? If I don't know them. Rumba is a great place but a haven for the sharks to feed on FRESH NEW BAIT-The guys you spoke of gave way too much info.

I doubt very much cops would even listen to a chica telling them she wants to get paid for her time. They know that's really pushin' it.[/QUOTE]This is absolutely true, for example by revealing that you arrived today or yesterday, you give the chica an indication of where you stand in terms of how much money you have left for your trip. You can just say "quieres saber mucho", which means "you want to know a lot!" and that will probably shut them up.

[QUOTE=The Mind Bender; 1440349]THINGS I LEARNED ON MY RECENT TRIP TO SOSUA.

* Puerto Plata airport sucks balls now.

Long lines with little or no organization. I prefer the old days when I could just breeze through it to the taxi stand in under 5 mins.

* Get a room in the new wing preferably on the upper floor.

I hate to see the chicas huff it up stairs but I love to watch 'them try.

* The girls are ALWAYS watching you.

From the moment you arrive to the day you leave they're studying you and sizing up your character. Try to keep it cool and not drool over yourself.

* The freakiest chica isn't always the best bet.

Had a girl from passions try the "I need to leave to feed my baby" scam on me after I paid for a whole night. I didn't really mind because I was already experiencing a bit of buyer's remorse. Sex was ok but she had a habit of spitting on the floor (turn off alert!)

* Dlatino's sucks.

Unless you get there early to grab a good spot at the bar. I hate having to push through a crowd just to get to the other end. I miss Classicos.

* Don't indulge overly aggressive chicas.

A simple "no thanks" and keep it moving. Sorry sweetie, I personally find desperation to be a turn off so grabbing my hand isn't going to make me anymore attracted to you.

* Younger (but still legal) is better.

I tend to aim for the "bunnies" Young chicas who are just there for a good time and aren't completely jaded out yet. Firmer bodies and I find they're more willing to please.

*A little charm (also cologne) goes a long way.

I you can make your chicas laugh (really laugh) then your night just got 10x better.[/QUOTE]D'Latino's is the hot spot-In my opinion its great.sure it get's crowded-so what at least is outside and plenty of exits and entrances.Gosh babes all over grabbin' at you when its packed-ande I mean grabbin' in the right spots I think its great.

Classico's.I was never a big fan-cover charge (not now) to spend money? That was bullshit-music blasting so you couldn't even talk-Same rap music every nite-I'm glad its history-

Willie did it up right at D"LATINO's.You can always walk over to Merangue's or Central Bar if the crowd's too much for you.

-Everybody is ALWAYS watching you in SOSUA-

-Love the younger legal ones.with you on that-not hardcore yet-

-Aggressive-turn-offs absolutely-

[QUOTE=Frannie; 1440513]Steve, here's the problem. I know a very nice, attractive Haitian girl of 18. Maybe she is a virgin, maybe not, I have not asked her. She comes from a nice family and has a sister married to a Dutchman. She goes to church and does not drink alcohol or coffee. She goes on Facebook and would like a boyfriend, I am sure, and has some guy in Argentina who has promised to give her an iPad (but when?). I think she would be delighted to take on your requirement to cook and clean for a modest salary plus taxi or moto fares, but as for the sex, that would depend on whether you could seduce her and whether she wanted to be seduced.

However, since you talk about swapping horses at half time, and being immune to Western Union, I couldn't really recommend you to her as a friend of mine, as maybe she would get hurt or upset if you took her up and then dumped her.

This is why it is so difficult to find the right girl to be both girlfriend and day-rate employee. You want a girl who will treat you like a boyfriend, but you don't want the reverse to apply.

I think you could be perfectly happy renting your beachfront apartment, perhaps in Cabarete, and entertaining girls hired for short term or overnight sex. If one of these turns into something that lasts longer and includes blow jobs at dawn, then so much the better, but I think you would still run into problems if you try to put her on a fixed-term contract, say 7 days, or if you entertain her and then try to dump her when tired of her.[/QUOTE]All good points Frannie.

So how does one go about this?

I arrive at Sosua, walk to their central street closer to the evening, and start looking for the hookers I like? Try them out, until I get to the one I like, and then ask her initially to spend the night, and then a day etc?

[QUOTE=DeepMmpactt;1440290]I guess when we say "Que paso" that literary means " what happen? (you more advanced Spanish speakers maybe chime in) so I hear this a lot, anyways, I told her I'm just trying to raise her legs,[/QUOTE]¿Qué pasó?" is a common slang phrase that means "what's going on?" or "how are you?" and is used as a greeting. However in non slang usage, as shown in the example above, it can just mean "what happened?" Note that the accent is on the final "o", so it is "que paSO".

In this situation one might want to say ¿Qué te pasó? (what happened to you?).

If the accent is not on the final "o", the phrase means something different as "el PAso" also is a noun meaning "step".

The word "pasa" also means "dried" or "raisin" and you might want to use it when ordering "helado de ron pasa" which means rum 'and' raisin ice cream. Or if you are constipated you might want "ciruelas pasas" which are prunes.

[QUOTE=Zedman99; 1440521]D'Latino's is the hot spot-In my opinion its great. Sure it get's crowded-so what at least is outside and plenty of exits and entrances. Gosh babes all over grabbin' at you when its packed-ande I mean grabbin' in the right spots I think its great.

Classico's. I was never a big fan-cover charge (not now) to spend money? That was bullshit-music blasting so you couldn't even talk-Same rap music every nite-I'm glad its history-

Willie did it up right at D"LATINO's. You can always walk over to Merangue's or Central Bar if the crowd's too much for you.

-Everybody is ALWAYS watching you in SOSUA-

-Love the younger legal ones. With you on that-not hardcore yet-

-Aggressive-turn-offs absolutely-[/QUOTE]Eh I just don't like the layout but it's nice if you can find a nice spot at the bar with friends. I care more about who I'm taking out than who's grabbing me.

Classicos was great when you got there before the crowd and the admission kept a lot of the riff raff chicas away. Winner circle bar across the street provided a good vantage point to check out all the ladies lining up.

As for the chicas like I've said I prefer "bunnies", the opposite would be "hunters" the pros with excessive makeup, squeezed into catsuits looking around for fresh prey.

Thanks for reassuring us, Steve. Frannie and I will cease worrying on your behalf and start worrying on behalf of the girls you pick up, instead.

[QUOTE=Steve Urso;1440286]I went on a soccer oriented trip recently.[/QUOTE]So you are obviously not all bad.

[QUOTE=Steve Urso;1440286]. for some reason I hate the word "chica".[/QUOTE]Then stick to haitianas. Make nicer girlfriends and they aren't "chicas" but "manmzèls".

Let us know how it all works out. A slightly different situation from the usual we get on here.

[QUOTE=Steve Urso; 1440286]What I fantasize about, is having a place, where there would be a private / semi private pool, an "ocean" view and ideally beachfront. (I seen some places on VRBO that are not too expensive that fit this mold).

I would like to wake up in the morning to a nice sea breeze and a BJ from a beautiful girl (for some reason I hate the word chica.). Yes, I am a romantic.[/QUOTE]On balance I'd recommend booking a few days to a week at Blackbeards. Costambar is a sleepy little kinda rundown expat beach enclave very near the sizable city of Puerto Plata. It has a very nice beach that's quiet during the week. You can see the ocean a hundred meters or so from the front gate of Blackbeards and it's a block or so stroll to the beach. It has a nice pool and large Jacuzzi and there is no problem playing with girls there. Costambar has a sort of overgrown country ambiance with chickens living under bushes and roosters crowing. There are little restaurants that will be very happy for your business and shops to buy basics. It's a good newbie mongering environment to wake up in the morning to a good BJ and go out to walk around and explore. Once you settled you can talk to other mongers in person and take day trips to Sosua, PP, Field of Dreams, Caberete and using Blackbeards as your base decide if you like another setting better. You can take taxis at first and learn other options.

Blackbeards is the one easy choice that gives an approximation of what you seek without much of a learning curve but allows you to go out and find out about other options in person. Like anywhere you are better off talking to a girl and trying her ST before toda la noche. Choosing one who is acceptable for TLN will take care of that wake-up BJ before a dip in the pool and a stroll to the beach. Rates are standard and crooked or crazy girls are generally filtered out so you can get into the experience without being too wary. If you like one enough to keep her for a couple days she will likely give you a GFE without being too jealous if you then decide to switch.

If you want to experience actually dating a nonpro young local girl you could take Frannie's haitianna amiga out to lunch but that's a different thing from a GFE. At least in my experience if you choose pro girls for GF like qualities and treat them accordingly they will be happy to cook, clean, take you to visit their family etc. Within limits if you handle it well they will not make too much of a scene if you "switch". Girls without experience who may even be virgins (not as weird as you might think from Haitian good church going families) are not in the same category. Girls like Frannie's may have been raised very strictly until just recently. Strictly as in if they are seen talking to the wrong boy on the street they have to go fetch the whip and get fessee (a spanking).

[QUOTE=The Mind Bender; 1440542]Eh I just don't like the layout but it's nice if you can find a nice spot at the bar with friends. I care more about who I'm taking out than who's grabbing me.

Classicos was great when you got there before the crowd and the admission kept a lot of the riff raff chicas away. Winner circle bar across the street provided a good vantage point to check out all the ladies lining up.

As for the chicas like I've said I prefer "bunnies", the opposite would be "hunters" the pros with excessive makeup, squeezed into catsuits looking around for fresh prey.[/QUOTE]I miss Classicos, at least it had a air conditioner. It gets to crowded and hot in DLatino especially when there is a large crowd.

Well Classicos signed its own death warrant when they started charging the chicas 200 pesos to enter, If you own a night club, you want to pack in as many girls as you possibly can.

It does not make good business sense to charge a cover for the females.

If you want the extra 200 pesos get it from the gringo's. A gringo won't mind paying a extra 200 pesos, especially when the club is packed with chica's.

Good bye to Classicos it was fun, perfect example on how being greedy kills.

Its funny how we can look at things differently. The last thing I want to do is go to a soccer game to bring me out of a depression. I do, however, regret not taking in a match when I was in london. Heard the atmosphere makes a nfl playoff game look like a tennis match.

Blackbeards would be good, but not for a month. The hatian chica could be a problem, because I think I remember him saying hes not fluent in spanish.

[QUOTE=Mr Gogo; 1440494]I wrote in May about the same thing happening just as WRX2005 wrote below. My Dominican friend does security at Rumbas and said" The girls are tired of all these tire kickers wasting their time". I was with some newbies at Rumbas in May and witnessed this. The newbie got his bottom price after negotiating for 30 minutes and they both agreed, then changed his mind and invited another girl over and ignored the first girl as he negotiated with the second. The first girl went ballistic and we negotiated a settlement. I'm going to take flack for saying this, but I side with the girls on this one.

Rumba is a place to buy fast pussy, it's the environment the sports fuckers have created. These girls don't have thr GFE attitude anymore. Just look at this board, basically me and Tomjackin are the last GFE holdouts. Everyone else is "Stick and move". So if you are in Rumbas don't mislead the girls. If you invite a girl over and don't want pussy, explain that to her. I sit in Rumba by myself and watch guys go crazy over every girl that passes through. Even girls that I know, give me a cheek kiss and move on. They know I will signal them over if I want them.

Why do the sport fuckers want to waste time chit chatting? You are only going to fuck her for 59 minutes so what do you care about how many kids she has? Rumba and Dlatins have the hardcore chicas, it's best to just watch before you leap.[/QUOTE]I can definitely see a difference between negotiating a deal, and just hanging out and drinking. How long the transaction tkaes can also be an issue. Did you call her over, or did she approach you?

Some girls are happy with 1 trick a night, and some want to find it, fuckmit, and find another.

There are a decent amount of guys that go to these types of places to just hang out, drink, dance, grope, and go home happy, leqving the girl with a few free drinks, and no income. Guys do it at strip clubs. I see guys go to brothel bars (tijuana, st martin, curacao) and do it. Especially the locals whocan go all the time, and may be afraid of being seen banging a chica.

[QUOTE=Steve Urso; 1440532]All good points Frannie.

So how does one go about this?

I arrive at Sosua, walk to their central street closer to the evening, and start looking for the hookers I like? Try them out, until I get to the one I like, and then ask her initially to spend the night, and then a day etc?[/QUOTE]Yes, that might work. Or perhaps you look for chicas on DomicanCupid. Com as they may be more girlfriend oriented.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1440457]There was a dude in May who was hanging with some fellas at Rumbas. At some point he gets the attention of a chica and her friends. They come over, have drinks and conversation. Maybe a half hour later, the dude realizes he's not interested in taking one of the girls he was talking to up to his room. So the girl goes off and makes a big scene. She claims he owes her for her time. The dude was caught off guard because they were all having a good time, so he thought. Him and his boys fed these chicas drinks the whole time they were there with them. The chica felt, her time was wasted because she could have got with somebody else. I'm told she got others she knew involved, and so the dude ended up paying her pesos just to make her go away.[/QUOTE]Never had a problem.

I tell the girls that D Latin is too crowded and ask if wanted to have a drink and chat across the street at El Toro. I sent some of them packing and some came up to my room; no issues whatsoever.

It's a buyer's market, and I'm the buyer.

[QUOTE=Tomjackin; 1440413]Agree! Especially with the uneven floors, I must have tripped 5-6 times the last two visits. But here is my tip: Find a girl you like, then take her across the street to El Toro for the drink and interview. If you like her, take her, if not, send her packing back to D-Latins.

The girls will make their rounds through El Toro anyway, so not a bad spot to check out all the action![/QUOTE]Thanks for the suggestion!

I'm going to have to try El Toro next time. I'd like to find a good vantage point without all the thumping music and crowds.

What's a good time to head there?

My brother just came back from the Bahamas. He said that customs held him for a hour coming back. They saw that he had been going to DR and said they have been having problems from there. They asked why he stays there so long (2 weeks at a time) , but stayed so short in the Bahamas. He asked what kind of problems, but the lady wouldn't say. He showed her his military ID and the lady said that she didn't have anything against military, but she still wanted to check.