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[QUOTE=WestCoast1;3044471]Would not hold your breath on any of that being tackled biz. Older reports from Phils especially are worth what you pay for them (including my own). Everything changes.[/QUOTE]Cebu malls in the foreigner bubbles are a great place to meet girls who we first contact elsewhere: online, at work, FB etc. However, they never were full of hot pretties waiting to find a 70 yo monger. Any girls hanging around were typically well past their prime. Now it's worse as regular girls walking around have tried of being hit on when they are just there to window shop or buy a dress. Many girls now actively avoid Ayala etc for this very reason.

Enjoy. G.

'Nuther tourism item in my feed.

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[QUOTE=Goferring;3044476]Cebu malls in the foreigner bubbles are a great place to meet girls who we first contact elsewhere: online, at work, FB etc. However, they never were full of hot pretties waiting to find a 70 yo monger. Any girls hanging around were typically well past their prime. Now it's worse as regular girls walking around have tried of being hit on when they are just there to window shop or buy a dress. Many girls now actively avoid Ayala etc for this very reason.

Enjoy. G.[/QUOTE]A few months ago I spent three days in Cebu before jetting off to Bali. My nights were occupied with an "old friend", but I had plenty of spare time during the day while she was at work.

The hotel was within walking distance of the Ayala Mall, so I spent a couple of hours each afternoon strolling on all the levels. 10-15 years ago, I had great luck with freelancers there as they were numerous, of decent quality, and not outrageously priced.

On my recent visits, I was hoping to chat a bit with some like in the old days. I deliberately walked slowly and attempted to establish eye contact with potential targets. I also had refreshments at Bo's Coffee and Krispy Kreme and ate meals in conspicuous places along the corridors to make it easier for mall lizards to find me.

Over the course of two days and eight total hours there, I had nibbles from a grand total of three femmes.

One was an estimated 20 year old gal who returned my gaze and shyly smiled as we passed while she walking with a girlfriend. A great opportunity in the making, but my mind and body weren't ready to commit to anything, a decision I'd come to regret later.

The second was a 35-plus year old who stopped me while walking and eventually started interrogating me about my life like I was a job applicant. As it was becoming clear she had an agenda that wasn't readily sexually-related, I could only take two minutes of the irrelevant drivel before moving on.

The third was a sexily-dressed 60-year-old hag with whom I talked to for a minute but held zero interest for me. I will admit she was probably a looker back in the 1980's and 1990's, but time since had not been good to her. We never got around to negotiating a deal, as without a bra, her tits would probably be hanging lower than her belly button.

I spotted her the next day chatting with a dark skinned foreigner near the mall exit to the second floor terraces. Perhaps she could satisfy his fetish for grandmothers?

Anyway, I was taken aback by the lack of overt opportunities. I know my visits were small samples, but compared to the good old days, it sure appears Ayala mongering is bleak.

I hope some of you can share some recent mall success stories either here or over in the Cebu forum, as I'd like to make a return trip next year.

[QUOTE=KeenEyeJoe1;3044500]

I hope some of you can share some recent mall success stories either here or over in the Cebu forum, as I'd like to make a return trip next year.[/QUOTE]Not recent but the biggest mistake I've made mall hunting is aiming too high in the quality of the mall. Lots of pretties in Ayala, Greenbelt, Abreeza etc but none of them want to suck my dick for $20 and a Chicken Joy.

Much better to head to your local Gaisano or even humbler, where the girls are far more approachable and adventurous. Language skills or local knowledge help a lot. I've had far more success in these malls over the years.

I mentioned that the better malls are good meeting points, after making first contact elsewhere, because they typically are easy to find and get to, have restaurants etc that the girls already know and may even have some western food options. Ayala Cebu for example is also a Jeepney terminal. However, as you found, they ain't pick up joints.

Hope that helps. G.

Last year I was in Cebu city for a week, always alone. I went to the most beautiful place in Cebu, next to a restaurant and a shopping mall. If I remember well the name is "Towers." I contacted many girls online who were kind and seemed willing to meet me, but then each one had an excuse: college, studies, work, family, etc. Etc. Only transsexuals contacted me. Only they really wanted to meet me. So I ran away from Cebu after seven days of nothing and would never return to Cebu again.

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3044527]Last year I was in Cebu city for a week, always alone. I went to the most beautiful place in Cebu, next to a restaurant and a shopping mall. If I remember well the name is "Towers." I contacted many girls online who were kind and seemed willing to meet me, but then each one had an excuse: college, studies, work, family, etc. Etc. Only transsexuals contacted me. Only they really wanted to meet me. So I ran away from Cebu after seven days of nothing and would never return to Cebu again.[/QUOTE]Hi JL,

Well, some places work for some and not for others.

Sometimes you have to look at your approach and tactics. What are you saying to these girls? How's your appearance and attitude? What's your offer etc. ?

Cebu has always worked for me. Actually, almost every place in The Phils has worked for me one way or another, maybe except for Moalboal.

It appears you've been searching around the world judging by your previous posts.

Sure, Uganda is a probably a bit different to Asia, but for me, Cebu has been very accommodating.

_ Phil.

[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3044583]Hi JL,
It appears you've been searching around the world judging by your previous posts.
Sure, Uganda is a probably a bit different to Asia, but for me, Cebu has been very accommodating.[/QUOTE]I went to many African countries and every African country is a lot better than Cebu. .

In Cebu I rented an apartment in the best area of Cebu where in the evening there were many girls and more. I've seen hundreds but none of them looked you in the eye. So I'm not the type to pick up girls on the street. In the mall I talked to some shop assistants, but I didn't like them. I must admit that I am picky with beauty. Hahahaha So my only job was online. I have spent many hours online, but always without success. I assure you that elsewhere it would have been different, but Cebu is not for me.

I think there are too many semi-pros and perhaps they understood that I wasn't suitable for them. Heheheeh.

I will be going to the Philippines in the last days of February and I will be in the Davao area and surrounding areas until the end of March. Then I thought of going to Iloilo and staying there for a few days so I could get to know the people of Iolio and Bacolod. From Bacolod to Iloilo it is just an hour by ferry. Then I would have liked to go to Boracay, but I noticed that in April the prices have more than doubled compared to March, so I'm thinking of changing my mind. However, I would not have gone to Boracay to do social or beach activities, but only to visit places with beautiful sea and use a drone to watch Boracay from above.

Can anyone tell me if it's better to go to some other island with interesting resorts and the right price? For example, on the island of Panay or its surroundings, are there some interesting resorts and coasts with beautiful views from above?

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3044527]Last year I was in Cebu city for a week, always alone. I went to the most beautiful place in Cebu, next to a restaurant and a shopping mall. If I remember well the name is "Towers." I contacted many girls online who were kind and seemed willing to meet me, but then each one had an excuse: college, studies, work, family, etc. Etc. Only transsexuals contacted me. Only they really wanted to meet me. So I ran away from Cebu after seven days of nothing and would never return to Cebu again.[/QUOTE]Hey JonesLover, it appears you have a fixation with finding holiday girlfriends from the internet who, either sight unseen or within one day of meeting in person, will agree to stay in your dwelling for a couple of weeks as your live-in companion with the methods of compensation being gifts, unique travel experiences, and perhaps a small amount of daily money.

I'm not trying to find fault with your goal, as 15-20 years ago I also had great success finding holiday girlfriends in the Philippines via the dating websites as well.

But it appears you've recently spent a lot of time and money on your quests without receiving suitable companionship in return, as evidenced by your previous post-pandemic trip write-ups. I am sympathetic and feel your pain.

November 2022: You visited Cagayan de Oro for a week and had no luck finding what you wanted. Then you flew to Tacloban City and had a long dry spell until apparently finding a couple of a prospects.

Unknown month 2024: You spent 7 days in Cebu City with zero successes, then gave up and moved on to another place.

December 2025: You inquire about prospects of success in Zamboanga City, which is the farthest-flung large population outpost in the country and is the last city most experienced mongerers would recommend finding a short-time live-in partner.

Please don't take offense with what I write here, as I sincerely want you to enjoy your overseas hunting trips. But your methods indicate you're a dinosaur, stuck in modes of thinking and operating that have not adjusted to the realities of a worldwide changed female dynamic.

In a way, I suffer from the same fossilization of thinking. I miss the old Manila. The LA Cafe and Amazonia Bar from 20 years ago, full of thin gorgeous women for low compensation rates. Sidewalks full of sexy-dressed streetwalkers. Harrison Plaza, Ermita's Robinson Mall, the ESDA bar complex and plenty of Ermita district low-rent rendezvous bars that were fertile grounds for in-person first meetings. Mall workers who loved bantering with us and were up for meeting for dinner after their shifts ended. Freebees from oodles of semi-desperate Pinays searching online at dating websites, MIRC chat rooms, ICQ, and Yahoo Messenger for someone to rescue them from their miserable lives. Same thing in Cebu City and Davao City. Like shooting ducks in a zoo pond.

I've had to lower my expectations and change my game in the 3 years since the end of the Philippines' pandemic restrictions. I don't like it, but I suffer through. However, I'm fortunate to live in an area with a relatively low expat population, which has its advantages.

Sizing up paramours in person is much superior to doing so online, but the good old days are gone forever. The number of brick-and-mortar naughty establishments worldwide are shrinking fast. I don't like having to choose an online girl from behind either door #1, #2, or #3. Sometimes you have a grand time and other times you get zonked. But it is what it is.

If you're looking for a sure thing, perhaps it's worth checking out this holiday girlfriend website for visitors to Thailand. Its original language is German but is easily translatable to English.

[URL]https://thaisinglereisen.com/[/URL]

To the ISG moderators, I'm not advocating the services of this website, but rather include it here to illustrate another option might be suitable for guys like JonesLover.

Good luck to you and please keep us apprised of your quests. Plenty of guys here will benefit from both your successes and failures.

[QUOTE=KeenEyeJoe1;3044644]

I've had to lower my expectations and change my game in the 3 years since the end of the Philippines' pandemic restrictions. I don't like it, but I suffer through. However, I'm fortunate to live in an area with a relatively low expat population, which has its advantages..[/QUOTE]Wth respect, I beg to differ. Lots of guys are commenting on the decline of the Philippines and the difficulty of locking down prime pussy. They should read my last trip report around Mindanao. While I did find the online games frustrating and, yes, worse than previous trips, I specifically commented that the despite the extra effort required, the quality of the girls that did meet had actually risen and was well worth the extra effort. Naturally everyone's taste differ but I also posted numerous photos so guys can make their own judgement.

Like you, I wish JL the best but I do think he's being overly fussy and making things far more difficult than they need to be.

Enjoy. G.

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The flight to Gensan was packed but uneventful...[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3044618]I will be going to the Philippines in the last days of February and I will be in the Davao area and surrounding areas until the end of March. Then I thought of going to Iloilo and staying there for a few days so I could get to know the people of Iolio and Bacolod. From Bacolod to Iloilo it is just an hour by ferry. Then I would have liked to go to Boracay, but I noticed that in April the prices have more than doubled compared to March, so I'm thinking of changing my mind. However, I would not have gone to Boracay to do social or beach activities, but only to visit places with beautiful sea and use a drone to watch Boracay from above.

Can anyone tell me if it's better to go to some other island with interesting resorts and the right price? For example, on the island of Panay or its surroundings, are there some interesting resorts and coasts with beautiful views from above?[/QUOTE]Nothing spectacular to see in Boracay beside the sunsets, in regards to the birdseye view, for drone enthusiasts, also nothing. Go to El Nido and Coron for the views.

Girls wise: I know what you're looking for: a girlfriend without pay, that's beautiful, smart and sticks by you. Very rare but not impossible to find. The thing is you need to be ready to spend months looking, not a few days, than give up. The proximity of other mongerers is irrelevant (most of mine where in AC, not bar affiliated). All the GFs I had in the PH took at least 1 week in the happiest case to convince them to go out with me, some a lot longer, some never happened, the 3 year one that I'm with now took over 2 months of daily courting to get her. I did all this as a side project, I did monger every day discreetly, and far away from them, even having orgies, just appeared as innocent for the time being. If you're Brad Pitt then is a different story, I don't know about yourself, but I'm not, so I always had to work for it, but if you make it as an extra activity as I did you can even pursue 2-3 leads at once.

Money wise: as we discussed here on numerous times, the social safety net in PH involves all members of the family, and they are all expected to contribute, and also they have their own bills to pay. So if you yank her out of her place you're expected to replace her income to cover her role in the grand family scheme, and of course she's supposed to have a much better life by your side, after all she'll be the GF of a filthy rich foreigner, if she's FB-ing then she also needs to show off to her friends that she's better off now.

There are a lot of variables, and you'll need to provide. Everybody since the beginning of time paid for pussy, one way or another, even if you're married you'll do it in some form, that's the way it works, unless you were with the Wermacht 14th Panzer Division entering Paris from East.

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3044618]I will be going to the Philippines in the last days of February and I will be in the Davao area and surrounding areas until the end of March. Then I thought of going to Iloilo and staying there for a few days so I could get to know the people of Iolio and Bacolod. From Bacolod to Iloilo it is just an hour by ferry. Then I would have liked to go to Boracay, but I noticed that in April the prices have more than doubled compared to March, so I'm thinking of changing my mind. However, I would not have gone to Boracay to do social or beach activities, but only to visit places with beautiful sea and use a drone to watch Boracay from above.

Can anyone tell me if it's better to go to some other island with interesting resorts and the right price? For example, on the island of Panay or its surroundings, are there some interesting resorts and coasts with beautiful views from above?[/QUOTE]You might consider Alona Beach in Bohol, well, technically Panglao Island.

[QUOTE=Goferring;3044661]Like you, I wish JL the best but I do think he's being overly fussy and making things far more difficult than they need to be. Enjoy. G.[/QUOTE]Agreed G. And I think we're getting off track here.

Many have offered loads of advice including replies to DM's.

Not being nasty, but It's just getting to the point that JL might have to go on Tripadvisor, as opposed to ISG, if we've now shifted the conversation away from pussy and onto scenery and drones.

_ Phil.

Manigong Bagong Taon! And Plenty of Pussy in the New Year!

[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3044929]Not being nasty, but It's just getting to the point that JL might have to go on Tripadvisor, as opposed to ISG, if we've now shifted the conversation away from pussy and onto scenery and drones.[/QUOTE]Happy New year ehehehe.