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If multiple questions are asked only one will be answered, typically the last one, but is not a rule. This applies not exclusively to PH but the whole SEA.

The amazing part and the most puzzling one is when the questions are in written form (message, text, etc) how do they chose which one to answer, and which to ignore, when the questions are staring you in the face?

I'm not talking about French fries, but about business related questions, their business, that eventually need to be answered anyway (lodging, airfare, boats, rentals, etc).

Probably this is the reason why the communication via emails is inexistent unless you're dealing with a western co.

The fucked up part is that I'm dealing with a similar situation right in this moment, while I'm writing this, and talking with my GF which is cooking something.

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3045770]Hi, I would like some advice.

In Davao I found on AirBnb a small apartment near People's Park with one bedroom and kitchen at a daily price of 1,930 Pesos (28 Euros). The owner told me that if I want to rent it for a month I have to pay 28,000 Pesos / month (405 euros), excluding electricity, water, and internet, which I would have to pay separately. The daily price would become 935 Pesos / day (14 euros / day).

It's a nice apartment that I like. Do you think the discount the owner gave me is worth taking advantage of?

What would you do?

It seems like a good proposal to me, but. If I think about it carefully, I can't move anymore. For example, if I want to go to Samal for a week, or visit another city for a few days, all this low apartment price disappears.

I would like your advice.

Thank you.[/QUOTE]If you don't have nothing better to do, and lots of time on your hands, just do it, and see what comes out of it. I did the same a year ago I think, and at first it looked dry for about a week, then after "my eyes accommodated to the dark" I started seeing, and things started to happen.

Something new is happening to me.

I found a girl from General Santos who would come to Davao to visit me for a week, but we haven't decided exactly how many days yet. She's a beautiful, sweet and kind girl and I talk to her well. I've been talking to her for about a month and she can't wait to meet me. Today he asked me if I could meet his parents. I asked her why. I asked what is the purpose of my visit to his parents. In fact I was clear with her. I've always told her that I consider her my best friend, but nothing more. She replied that her parents would like to know who her daughter is going with. I would have no problem going to General Santos for a day with her to visit her parents and returning the same day, but it worries me because I don't want ties of any kind. Ahahahahaha.

What would you do?

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3045892] He always found so many excuses. She was often naked next to me with ease. Once I grabbed her and forcefully asked her to have sex. She asked me that she wanted to watch a porn movie first. After that day we did lots and lots of dirty things together but not penetrative sex.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3045889]I kept asking her to caress and touch me, but she couldn't. He just wanted lots of sex, but she was just passive. The next day I asked her again to reach over my body and caress me and she couldn't. So I rushed away from Bantayan to Cebu. I paid for her transportation and never saw her again. End of story. It seems incredible to me that for a hand that wasn't extended, she missed out on a nice holiday. To tell the truth, I lost even more than her. Ahahahaa But it served as a lesson to me.[/QUOTE]Mate, just reading between the lines, you need to just go out there and have a good time.

Pay a freelancer 2-3 k, grab something on Pina that's just after pay and shoot, or spend a heap in a bar.

You mention you're old and good looking.

Well, I'm in my mid 50's but no oil painting.

The biggest feedback I get is I smell nice and look after myself for a foreigner.

(Some of the older guys I see absolutely wasted in the Phils, and appearing really untidy, isn't a great look).

The reality is, we're old and still able to hook up with younger women in The Phils that is unlikely to happen at home.

Take advantage of it, don't over think it and don't fall in love.

Be realistic.

They're hookers.

And we're supplementing their income in the nicest possible way.

Enjoy _ Phil.

[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3046027]Mate, just reading between the lines, you need to just go out there and have a good time.

Pay a freelancer 2-3 k, grab something on Pina that's just after pay and shoot, or spend a heap in a bar.

You mention you're old and good looking.

Well, I'm in my mid 50's but no oil painting.

The biggest feedback I get is I smell nice and look after myself for a foreigner..[/QUOTE]This is great realistic advice. At the end of the day, pretty young Pinays are not dreaming about falling in love with a grandpa, even if he considers himself a silver fox. Often there is a dissonance between the aspirations of the old foreigner and the nubile Pinay. He wants love and passionate sex. She wants money and a ticket to rich foreigner land where she can upgrade. She does not need grandpa to drill her with a Viagra boner. If she wants love, she can visit the nipa hut of her handsome Pinoy trike driver for a vigorous rock hard pounding for twelve rounds.

Plain and simple, she is only willing to meet the old foreigner for monetary and migratory benefits. It does not matter whether he looks like Brad Pitt or scrambled eggs. As for the girl wanting him to meet the parents, there is no mystery here. They want their cut of the action up front. He will be expected to buy some gifts, it could be anything from a case of Red Horse and a bottle of Tanduay to roasted pig party for the village. They will need to celebrate their daughter finally hitting the jackpot.

[QUOTE=JonesLover;3045979]Something new is happening to me.

I found a girl from General Santos who would come to Davao to visit me for a week, but we haven't decided exactly how many days yet. She's a beautiful, sweet and kind girl and I talk to her well. I've been talking to her for about a month and she can't wait to meet me. Today he asked me if I could meet his parents. I asked her why. I asked what is the purpose of my visit to his parents. In fact I was clear with her. I've always told her that I consider her my best friend, but nothing more. She replied that her parents would like to know who her daughter is going with. I would have no problem going to General Santos for a day with her to visit her parents and returning the same day, but it worries me because I don't want ties of any kind. Ahahahahaha.

What would you do?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3046027]Mate, just reading between the lines, you need to just go out there and have a good time.

[/QUOTE]Yet again, Phil is right on the money.

The best way to arrest a slide in performance is to grab any nearby girl and get back in the game. If that means temporarily dropping standards that's fine. Girls are expert at smelling fear and desperation so the important thing is to get a shot away, rebuild your confidence and continue on. I don't know how long your holiday is but if you keep procrastinating time will be up and you will be heading home empty handed.

If you're in Davao now, there are many girls there but if you are set on the Gensan girl, I'd go there to meet her. I've never been a fan of freighting girls around the country. Especially for a first meet. Too many risks.

Good luck. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;3046082]I don't know how long your holiday is but if you keep procrastinating time will be up and you will be heading home empty handed.
If you're in Davao now, there are many girls there but if you are set on the Gensan girl, I'd go there to meet her. I've never been a fan of freighting girls around the country. Especially for a first meet. Too many risks.[/QUOTE]I will reach Davao at the end of February. I have 2 months to have fun and above all to rest. As you advised me, I'm negotiating an apartment for 1 month next to People's Park, but I'm afraid of getting bored. A month in one area is perhaps too much. I don't know!! Then staying 2 months in Davao is a lot of days. I was also thinking about going to General Santos, but I read that it's not that great. Then, being a fairly small city, girls will be more difficult to get into bed.

So either I'll stay in Davao for 2 months, maybe changing the apartment to another area, or I'll go to another city, but where?

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046053]At the end of the day, pretty young Pinays are not dreaming about falling in love with a grandpa, even if he considers himself a silver fox. [/QUOTE]Are you suggesting that 19 yo students may not find my magnetic personality and rugged good looks attractive? The fact that I need to fly half way around the world to pay farmers daughters to fuck me should give you an idea of my looks, personality and game. I'm a legend in my own mind so it's no surprise that the girls fall in love with me.

The ubiquitous 'age gap relationship' is very much accepted in the Philippines and is perfectly natural amongst foreigners and pinays. We can overlook that it's very rare amongst pinoy and pinays but that's probably an aberration. Young pinays seek similar aged pinoys to knock them up and abandon them. It's typically then that they suddenly find old white guys attractive. I'm sure they, the pinays, are seeking security and maturity rather than a meal ticket and support for their bastard child. Maybe there is a reason that age gaps are far more acceptable to illiterate peasant single moms than educated, intelligent and wealthy girls.

Me? I don't try to over analyse anything and just prefer to pay as I go. It's better not to ask the girls too many questions. Then I'm not disappointed by the answers.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;3046089]Are you suggesting that 19 yo students may not find my magnetic personality and rugged good looks attractive? The fact that I need to fly half way around the world to pay farmers daughters to fuck me should give you an idea of my looks, personality and game. I'm a legend in my own mind so it's no surprise that the girls fall in love with me.

The ubiquitous 'age gap relationship' is very much accepted in the Philippines and is perfectly natural amongst foreigners and pinays. We can overlook that it's very rare amongst pinoy and pinays but that's probably an aberration. Young pinays seek similar aged pinoys to knock them up and abandon them. It's typically then that they suddenly find old white guys attractive. I'm sure they, the pinays, are seeking security and maturity rather than a meal ticket and support for their bastard child. Maybe there is a reason that age gaps are far more acceptable to illiterate peasant single moms than educated, intelligent and wealthy girls..[/QUOTE]Yes. The old foreigner with young Filipina relationship is tolerated in the Philippines. It is understood that the foreigner old enough to be her grandpa is just a walking ATM, and she will have one or more young Pinoy lovers fucking her on the side. This is the part that they will not tell you. There are plenty of old men on the Tulfo Show who found this out after buying houses, land, and businesses in their Pinay sweetheart's name.

Too many old men come to the Philippines looking to live out Disney's 'Beauty and the Beast' story. They forget some key points about the story. Belle did not willingly agree to stay with the Beast. She was forced to swap places with her father who the Beast had thrown into his dungeon. After all, Belle had her pick of the best men in her village, and she was being wooed by the handsome buff Gaston. The last thing on her mind was fucking a drooling stinky but incredibly rich Beast.

Belle only somewhat softens her revulsion to the Beast after he suffers serious wounds while rescuing her from a pack of rabid wolves. Later on, Gaston shows up at the Beast's lair with a mob and fatally stabs him. As the Beast draws his last breath, the last petal on the enchanted rose falls and Belle relents declaring her love for him. This breaks the curse and he returns to his human form as a prince. Happy ever after follows.

Now, if you are an old foreigner who is actually a handsome young rich Pinoy who was cursed by an enchantress, and you need a passionate root from a beautiful young Pinay to return to your true form, feel free to ignore the warnings. LOL! Still, remember that the Pinay, like Belle, will only fuck you to save her family.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046107]Yes. The old foreigner with young Filipina relationship is tolerated in the Philippines. It is understood that the foreigner old enough to be her grandpa is just a walking ATM, and she will have one or more young Pinoy lovers fucking her on the side. This is the part that they will not tell you. There are plenty of old men on the Tulfo Show who found this out after buying houses, land, and businesses in their Pinay sweetheart's name.

Too many old men come to the Philippines looking to live out Disney's 'Beauty and the Beast' story. They forget some key points about the story. Belle did not willingly agree to stay with the Beast. She was forced to swap places with her father who the Beast had thrown into his dungeon. After all, Belle had her pick of the best men in her village, and she was being wooed by the handsome buff Gaston. The last thing on her mind was fucking a drooling stinky but incredibly rich Beast.

Belle only somewhat softens her revulsion to the Beast after he suffers serious wounds while rescuing her from a pack of rabid wolves. Later on, Gaston shows up at the Beast's lair with a mob and fatally stabs him. As the Beast draws his last breath, the last petal on the enchanted rose falls and Belle relents declaring her love for him. This breaks the curse and he returns to his human form as a prince. Happy ever after follows.

Now, if you are an old foreigner who is actually a handsome young rich Pinoy who was cursed by an enchantress, and you need a passionate root from a beautiful young Pinay to return to your true form, feel free to ignore the warnings. LOL! Still, remember that the Pinay, like Belle, will only fuck you to save her family.[/QUOTE]Works for me! (and for thousands of others too).

What would be the alternative? Sit in the garage, with the door open, watch the empty street with a beer in hand, waiting to die? It may take a long time, 10-20 years.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046107]It is understood that the foreigner old enough to be her grandpa is just a walking ATM, and she will have one or more young Pinoy lovers fucking her on the side. This is the part that they will not tell you. There are plenty of old men on the Tulfo Show who found this out after buying houses, land, and businesses in their Pinay sweetheart's name.[/QUOTE]Good post. Of note, I come across a new case of this insanity roughly 1-3 x per year in the province. Usually meeting some new fella in a mall, just saying Hi to some foreigner there. Or the foreigner is passing me sitting at Starbucks and stops to say Hi. Over a coffee he spills the beans on the exact same sob story where he purchased land in her name, then they constructed a home there. Often times he's cashed in his life savings (or his 401 k) for this purpose, leaving him peso-less, save his social security and / or retirement benefit.

Did this happen here in this city? "No, we lived in Xxxxxx city" (a few hours away). "I can't stand living there near her or her thieving family, so I am looking for a fresh start here or anywhere else". Ahh. And you didn't see this coming, the relationship unraveling? "Nah I thought it was fine. Few weeks after we moved into the new place she started to change. It all went to f*ck-all. She left one day and came back with her mother and brother and they wanted me out". I see. After, when they were wanting you out, who appeared to want you gone the most? "Her mother and brother". Did you consider that they might have orchestrated the whole thing? "Ya of course they did. After I got a hotel I started checking the internet and youtube and saw its common". And you only figure out this thing AFTER? "Ya. Didn't see it coming man".

In the days of the Internet, with stories like this scam being told regularly, and vloggers like Reekay and others recounting their own similar experiences for a decade or more, one can ask: How does this keep happening? [B]How much does love (or lust) blind a man? Here is how much: Enough to walk his retirement savings right out of his lap[/B]. I'd like to say that its amazing that it continues. But as it continues, it appears to be a niche market in the Phils economy.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;3046107]Still, remember that the Pinay, like Belle, will only fuck you to save her family.[/QUOTE]Hahahaha.

The good news? A lot of pinay's families need saving. Regularly. Weekly. There's a new emergency coming, just around the corner.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;3046127]Good post. Of note, I come across a new case of this insanity roughly 1-3 x per year in the province. Usually meeting some new fella in a mall, just saying Hi to some foreigner there. Or the foreigner is passing me sitting at Starbucks and stops to say Hi. Over a coffee he spills the beans on the exact same sob story where he purchased land in her name, then they constructed a home there. Often times he's cashed in his life savings (or his 401 k) for this purpose, leaving him peso-less, save his social security and / or retirement benefit.

Did this happen here in this city? "No, we lived in Xxxxxx city" (a few hours away). "I can't stand living there near her or her thieving family, so I am looking for a fresh start here or anywhere else". Ahh. And you didn't see this coming, the relationship unraveling? "Nah I thought it was fine. Few weeks after we moved into the new place she started to change. It all went to f*ck-all. She left one day and came back with her mother and brother and they wanted me out". I see. After, when they were wanting you out, who appeared to want you gone the most? "Her mother and brother". Did you consider that they might have orchestrated the whole thing? "Ya of course they did. After I got a hotel I started checking the internet and youtube and saw its common". And you only figure out this thing AFTER? "Ya. Didn't see it coming man".

In the days of the Internet, with stories like this scam being told regularly, and vloggers like Reekay and others recounting their own similar experiences for a decade or more, one can ask: How does this keep happening? [B]How much does love (or lust) blind a man? Here is how much: Enough to walk his retirement savings right out of his lap[/B]. I'd like to say that its amazing that it continues. But as it continues, it appears to be a niche market in the Phils economy.

Hahahaha.

The good news? A lot of pinay's families need saving. Regularly. Weekly. There's a new emergency coming, just around the corner.[/QUOTE]And this is why you have to be the conductor playing the orchestra from the shadows.

[QUOTE=Goferring;3046082]The best way to arrest a slide in performance is to grab any nearby girl and get back in the game. If that means temporarily dropping standards that's fine. Girls are expert at smelling fear and desperation so the important thing is to get a shot away, rebuild your confidence and continue on. Good luck. G.[/QUOTE]Good call G.

Find a good one, keep her in your contacts and utilize her performance at the right price on future visits.

My contact list varies between all visits; however, I always have something guaranteed and lined up whenever I arrive multiple times a year.

And on each visit, I find someone new to add to my rotating list of freelancers that are great in the sack.

_ Phil.

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;3046127]Over a coffee he spills the beans on the exact same sob story where he purchased land in her name, then they constructed a home there. Often times he's cashed in his life savings (or his 401 k) for this purpose, leaving him peso-less, save his social security and / or retirement benefit..[/QUOTE]You left out that he likely sold his home to fund the move. Yes, he sold a dollar denominated, appreciating asset that he can return to. He's also forgone any rental income while he's away. However, he's exchanged it for a depreciating / zero value asset, denominated in a currency subject to wild fluctuations. Said new house was likely built on family land with dubious Title, if any. Good luck getting any resale value even if the family does allow it.

Let's not forget the biggest cost of getting it wrong: Western inflation. Most guys would be down several million dollars if they liquidated all their assets ten years ago and had to buy them back today. Just my house has probably gone up 50% in that time. It would take a lot of idle cash to fill that gap.

And people wonder why I have no compassion for idiots.

Be safe out there. G.

[QUOTE=PhilJoy;3046203]Good call G.

Find a good one, keep her in your contacts and utilize her performance at the right price on future visits.

My contact list varies between all visits; however, I always have something guaranteed and lined up whenever I arrive multiple times a year.

And on each visit, I find someone new to add to my rotating list of freelancers that are great in the sack.

_ Phil.[/QUOTE]Thanks. My original post was more directed to newbies who may be struggling upon arrival but your right, it works for everyone.

To add to your comments, contacts are useful and can bookend trips. I've got girls who can get the phlegm off of my chest immediately upon arrival and others who, while not stunners, can get blood from a stone when my tank is running dry at the end of my trip. Everyone has a different skillset. 😳.

Enjoy. G.