Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

Tell her you moved to Korea. That will send some electricity up her as.

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]I'm in the same boat as you are YM! Married to, but separated (wishing it was legally) from, a Korean. I've been trying to get her to do a separation agreement since I moved out in 2005, so I can avoid all the expenses of a full blown fight in court. The problem is the crazy b*tch won't make up her mind about things, and put it on paper. She keeps e-mailing to say she wants to do it the quick and easy way, but refuses to go to the FREE legal service on the military base!

I don't have a lot to loose. We are joint owners of a house in Texas. But that is really the only thing of value that we have. I just don't want to be ordered to be paying her half (or more) of my paycheck. However, I am getting more and more irritated with the idea that she won't cooperate on the separation agreement/uncontested divorce idea. I'm ready to contact the lawyers and just file and accept what happens.

Anyone know a good lawyer in Texas (or a good hit man in Korea)?

Happy Mongering!
HW[/QUOTE]

1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics

2) ...on belly - goodenough.

3) ask if she is using brth control.

4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?Not good for the mother, not good for the environment.

5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.

X


[QUOTE=Pimpster]Ok off topic here, but some of you guys go barebacks whether it be with gf or bargirls. I'm sure at some point one of these girls gets knocked up. If she wants to keep the babies, can she go after you for child support in PI or pursue you for child support in the U.S. courts?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Pimpster]Ok off topic here, but some of you guys go barebacks whether it be with gf or bargirls. I'm sure at some point one of these girls gets knocked up. If she wants to keep the babies, can she go after you for child support in PI or pursue you for child support in the U.S. courts?[/QUOTE]

I have only had 1 girl insist that I use a condom, she was 20 and did not want to get Prego. All the others, we never tallked about it.
Afterwards, I did not have one try to claim prego or that she was missing her period and was scared.

Chatting with a gal I know rom Manila.. 20 and just got knocked up.

The guy who did the knocking even wrote an official declaration at Australian Embassy that he had sex with her and would be the father of her child if there was a child ( he doesnt know how many others shes been with at same time but thats something esle)

Anyways now the guy has done a runner and girl will soon go to Aussie Embassy to ask for their help in locating him. Wil be interesting to see what they do and how they accept her story.

[QUOTE=X Man]1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics

2) ...on belly - goodenough.

3) ask if she is using brth control.

4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?Not good for the mother, not good for the environment.

5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.

X[/QUOTE]
Good advice X but I like to deposit in her mouth as lots of proteins. On the face is good also for the pictures and the health benefits to her skin :)

I have had one tell she was pregnant so I went with point 5 - once I said lets get DNA she admitted she was lying

Back in September I wrote to this forum [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=788618&postcount=1648[/url] and was grateful for all the member input.

Since that time, I have continued with this relationship.

My GF is awesome and totally supportive of our relationship. We have progressed quite far in the month.

There was a single 'irregularity' that caused me tremendous grief. However we dealt with it in a good way together, I am sure it will never happen again. She considers it a test of our 'love', if it was, I passed very well (even if I was hurt) and she failed (miserably). We have moved on from this time. Although she tried to 'protect' me from the truth, it came out and she had to end her relationship in front of me (on the speakerphone) which she did and gladly it ended.

In fact we have moved on very quickly and very far from our meager beginnings.

To rid her of her past, we destroyed the 'social' networking site she was a member of. We also ended all of her Yahoo accounts reversibly as both of us have part of the password. Should our relationship ever end, she can have my part of the password to continue with her old life. I am certain she will not want to go back. Also her old phone numbers were cancelled and all numbers were deleted from her phone. The SIM cards wre destroyed too.

We cannot erase the past, but we can live with it. (The way I see it is that a monger is really now better than a BG, except we pay for what we want and get to choose the BG, where as they have to take what they can get...) I really don't care about the past, I want to enjoy our future together.

After a week in Thailand together, we are now living in an newly rented apartment in Shenzhen China. I continue to work at my old job. I am divorcing my Chinese wife in Hong Kong. We are looking forward to a nice future together.

I support her family, however we will pare down their expenses to the absolute minimum. Nobody will go without, and all of her nieces in school will be able to continue.

I can see a wonderful change in her attitude and life. She is alot more positive now, more passionate, totally supportive of me of us, our relationship is great. We have been through some really hard times, together and in both of our pasts, but we are hopeful of our future together. Even if we have to live a sinmple life together, we can always be happy. What more can you want? maybe I am lucky, but I think that 'right' PI girls can be really great. A large majority of the PI BGs I met, I would not consider for a LT relationship but some were very nice.

We will come to PI in November. Looking forward to the trip.

Sure it is still early days, we are barely more than 3 months together but I am very positive in this relationship.

My girl is awesome, we have a great time together. I never had a GF before in my life that was a supportive as she is. Interestingly she is alot more domesticated than I could ever imagine. She is very organized and knows how to take care a home, my and actually all people in general. The more I learn about her, the more I like.

She is not perfect, noone is, when we took our new apartment together, she became mad at me when I asked my Chinese wife (separated-->divorce) for help with a contract. Really!! I could not believe it but she wants me to take care of things myself, even if I have no chance of understanding a Chinese contract! maybe part jealousy, part stubborness. I will try to do things without help. What other problems does she have? Really none as far I can tell. She is a nice woman, very open to learning and new experiences. Even yesterday I learned that she has NEVER been on a bicycle. Something I will enjoy teaching her to do. I am very happy.

If you can find the right girl, even a BG with great talent, take a chance. You may find great happiness.

Yellow Fever

[QUOTE=Pimpster]So, let me get this straight guy living in PI married someone in PI and letting her make the calls? Why is he even living in PI than he might as well be living here[/QUOTE]Sometimes when you are in the U.S. military, you go where you are told. Not sure how long they were married, but she spoke with no noticeable accent and Clark was not their first assignment. They may have been married stateside and then assigned to the P.I. Evidently she was good enough to put up with the B.S.

Slim

Good luck.

Give us updates see how this plays out for you.

[quote=x man]
1)deposit your specimen on her face - take pics

2) ...on belly - goodenough.

3) ask if she is using brth control.

4) eco-friendly - don't produce more carbon gobbling little kids. ?not good for the mother, not good for the environment.

5) science can prove patertnity, now, and forever into the future, so you never know.

x[/quote]


you forgot about the vasectomy option! :d


[quote=x man]tell her you moved to korea. that will send some electricity up her as.[/quote]

thanks for the suggestion x! but she moved with me to korea over 4 years ago and we both still live here. i moved to another city, within driving distance to work, but it's not enough. what we used to call the korean grapevine (and i beleive there is a pinay version as well) is still very active. i can't fart without someone telling her how loud and smelly it was!


[quote=yellow fever #2]if you can find the right girl, even a bg with great talent, take a chance. you may find great happiness.[/quote]

tried it a few times. always seems to end up that they find some info on my previous mongering activities, and decide that i can't be trusted anymore. then it just turns into constant nagging until i can get rid of her. not trying to discourage anyone. just passing on my limited experience.

actually, i'm debating about what to do with the current gf. she knows about all of my past activities, because i thought she was one of those girls that would allow me to continue the hobby when we first met. after all, she told me it was ok with her if i wanted to "play with other girls." now she tells me that she was a virgin when she said that, and she didn't mean that it was alright for me to fuck around. she gets pissed at me often, just thinking about all the girls i've been with before her. i'm thinking i would be best to cut my losses and go back to more active mongering.

hw

[QUOTE=Yellow Fever #2]Back in September I wrote to this forum [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=788618&postcount=1648[/url] and was grateful for all the member input.

Since that time, I have continued with this relationship.

My GF is awesome and totally supportive of our relationship. We have progressed quite far in the month.

There was a single 'irregularity' that caused me tremendous grief. However we dealt with it in a good way together, I am sure it will never happen again. She considers it a test of our 'love', if it was, I passed very well (even if I was hurt) and she failed (miserably). We have moved on from this time. Although she tried to 'protect' me from the truth, it came out and she had to end her relationship in front of me (on the speakerphone) which she did and gladly it ended.

In fact we have moved on very quickly and very far from our meager beginnings.

To rid her of her past, we destroyed the 'social' networking site she was a member of. We also ended all of her Yahoo accounts reversibly as both of us have part of the password. Should our relationship ever end, she can have my part of the password to continue with her old life. I am certain she will not want to go back. Also her old phone numbers were cancelled and all numbers were deleted from her phone. The SIM cards wre destroyed too.

We cannot erase the past, but we can live with it. (The way I see it is that a monger is really now better than a BG, except we pay for what we want and get to choose the BG, where as they have to take what they can get...) I really don't care about the past, I want to enjoy our future together.

After a week in Thailand together, we are now living in an newly rented apartment in Shenzhen China. I continue to work at my old job. I am divorcing my Chinese wife in Hong Kong. We are looking forward to a nice future together.

I support her family, however we will pare down their expenses to the absolute minimum. Nobody will go without, and all of her nieces in school will be able to continue.

I can see a wonderful change in her attitude and life. She is alot more positive now, more passionate, totally supportive of me of us, our relationship is great. We have been through some really hard times, together and in both of our pasts, but we are hopeful of our future together. Even if we have to live a sinmple life together, we can always be happy. What more can you want? maybe I am lucky, but I think that 'right' PI girls can be really great. A large majority of the PI BGs I met, I would not consider for a LT relationship but some were very nice.

We will come to PI in November. Looking forward to the trip.

Sure it is still early days, we are barely more than 3 months together but I am very positive in this relationship.

My girl is awesome, we have a great time together. I never had a GF before in my life that was a supportive as she is. Interestingly she is alot more domesticated than I could ever imagine. She is very organized and knows how to take care a home, my and actually all people in general. The more I learn about her, the more I like.

She is not perfect, noone is, when we took our new apartment together, she became mad at me when I asked my Chinese wife (separated-->divorce) for help with a contract. Really!! I could not believe it but she wants me to take care of things myself, even if I have no chance of understanding a Chinese contract! maybe part jealousy, part stubborness. I will try to do things without help. What other problems does she have? Really none as far I can tell. She is a nice woman, very open to learning and new experiences. Even yesterday I learned that she has NEVER been on a bicycle. Something I will enjoy teaching her to do. I am very happy.

If you can find the right girl, even a BG with great talent, take a chance. You may find great happiness.

Yellow Fever[/QUOTE]

Yellow Fever, this is the same girl that was milking you for water bill of 2500 a month, which is really really over the top as far as water bill is concerened in PI. I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill. I personally think that bargirlls can be good gf, and they can have nice attitudes as long as they know that you are not a sucker, that you take care of them well. They are like cats, the moment you stop taking care of them extremely well they will go somewhere else. You want to find a dog like girl for a gf. Dogs will starve with you, cats will find a new place soon as food runs out.

[QUOTE=FreebieFan]Chatting with a gal I know rom Manila.. 20 and just got knocked up.

The guy who did the knocking even wrote an official declaration at Australian Embassy that he had sex with her and would be the father of her child if there was a child ( he doesnt know how many others shes been with at same time but thats something esle)

Anyways now the guy has done a runner and girl will soon go to Aussie Embassy to ask for their help in locating him. Wil be interesting to see what they do and how they accept her story.[/QUOTE]

i don't know why the guy would write anything down in the first place. If I was the guy I head out of town. I guess I was really curious about if the girl did end up pregnant, because that withdrawl come on tummy isn't always a sure thing sometimes there are swimmers in the pre cum especially if you have sex on a regular basis. I wanted to know if the u.s. could force you to pay child support and all that crap " I highly doubt this, but not sure" I don't think the filipino government even has child support given the number of single mothers out there just getting by.

I'm preparing for my trip this january, last time i was in PI been a little over ayears ago. i was wondering if any of you guys have been staked when you got back to the u.s. With girls tracking you down etc...

I think the guy wrote the report (and I saw a copy of it, properly attested) was so that if there was a kid, the kid could get an Ausssie passport.

I guess he then got cold feet and did a runner. So now said Filipina is 22 pregnant and not sure whether to chase him or let him run.

Damn glad everything I got was cut long time ago so no danger of this happening to me.

[QUOTE=Pimpster]Yellow Fever, this is the same girl that was milking you for water bill of 2500 a month, which is really really over the top as far as water bill is concerened in PI. I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill. I personally think that bargirlls can be good gf, and they can have nice attitudes as long as they know that you are not a sucker, that you take care of them well. They are like cats, the moment you stop taking care of them extremely well they will go somewhere else. You want to find a dog like girl for a gf. Dogs will starve with you, cats will find a new place soon as food runs out.[/QUOTE]

Pimpster,

I *may* be a sucker but at least I am a happy sucker. Honestly I don't know what things cost in PI so that is why I asked the question in the first place. I am satisfied and comfortable with the answer and very happy with my present result.

I believe the water bill may be high because she has to have the water trucked in daily to the house. Apparently the house is not hooked to the municipal water supply. Also remember there are lots of people in the house and it seems at least from my GF that they like to take long showers.

In any case I cannot fault my gf, she bought the land herself (Paranaque) and had the house built for herself and her family. In fact the house is not even completely finished as I just learned yesterday. She funded the complete enterprise by herself too and did it to help her family. I can only appreciate the efforts she did to get where they are now.

Perhaps in November I will have a clearer picture of where the funds are going. Certainly it would not be good for her (and us) if she was abusing my generosity - so I think now (at least) it is unlikely to happen.

She is very aware of my situation here in China and she could not be any more supportive of me than she is. I am very lucky to have her in my life.

HW,

I am sure my gf is aware of my mongering activities, just as I am aware of her previous BG self-employment. We are just very open and honest with each other. If we both give up the 'nightlife' (as we have promised), what do we really lose ? I think we can only gain.

I am completely happy with the life we share together, the sex is the best I ever had (and I have sampled hundreds of BGs around the world) and the relationship we have is wonderful. Both of us made sacrifices to be together, I hope we can only make our relationship stronger and that we can survive the test of time.

The way I see it: we cannot change the past, we can only take care of the present time and plan (or hope) for the future. I also think that there is not really much difference between being a monger and being a BG. The biggest difference is in the 'power' of the relationship, as the monger holds all the cards. I have seen a tremendous change in her attitude since we became 'equal' partners.

YF

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]Anyone know a good lawyer in Texas (or a good hit man in Korea)?Happy Mongering!HW[/QUOTE]
I don't know a good lawyer in Texas, but I do know that if you go to Guam and stay for 7 days, you can file a no contest divorce. In 6 months, if she don't respond, you get the divorce.