Not preaching. Just wanted to share my exp.
Well newbie here.
Just short experience.
First of understand this I am not trying to preach just trying to warn or educate people.
So I was reading the net not this forum and found about stories about mongering and stuff and thought why not try it. I since new in Mumbai didn't have much contact. So went to Aksa beach. Now there hookers move around in rickshaw.
Now I don't know what happened to me, but I stopped one rick and talked to the girl. As I was scared shit less. I don't think I even properly looked at her. She kept pressuring me to go to room. Now in the room I was scared shitless. Like a dear caught in front of headlight. She kept asking for more money for this and that. She allowed me to fondle her and gave me a handjob. Suddenly I came to my sense and said I don't want to do this and asked that we leave. She said okay. Actually she was not a bad person. She was actually nice. I had no sexual contact with her.
Now then I came back home. I couldn't see my family in the eye. Then at night I started feeling pain in my penis. I was scared. So started surfing the net. And came to know about diff STD / STI. Like.
Bacterial Vaginosis.
Chlamydia.
Genital Herpes.
Gonorrhea.
Hepatitis be.
Hepatitis see.
Human Papilloma virus [B][U] ( 30 to 40 strains)[/U][/B].
Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV).
Pubic Lice (Crabs).
Scabies.
Syphilis.
Trichomoniasis.
Yeast infections.
I started imagining things. Imagining pains. Imagining rash on my body etc. I went completely crazy. About fear of STI infection.
Now lots of you would think but I used a condom and you are only thinking about HIV, but dudes think about herpes / HPV / Syphilis and many other STI these STI are very easy to spread (skin to skin contact is enough) and quite infectious.
Lots of so called FR here are just nonsense bragging like I did it for 30 minutes and things like that. I think there are lots of pimps who are selling there wares. Lots of people talk about unprotected blowjob man you don't even know the risk you are taking.
If you take any pills for long erection then in my eyes you are just plain moron.
Most of the women shown are poor girl / women from slum of ex bar dancer / ex street prostitute.
Remember the fun of sex is for 5-7 minutes but the STI is for life and if you contract HIV then godspeed.
Do get yourself familiar about PEP medicine in case.
I am typing this message only because I want to help some newbie who reads this site.
I got lots of real help to clam my nerves by lots of people, the best help I got was in Municipality hospital, can you believe that. One lady doc calmed me down talked to me like brother.
I am just trying to spread the word.
Use your brain.
Condoms are not foolproof. Even if condom didn't break you do have chance of STD / STI infection.
Think about one thing the women you are seeing has seen maybe 10 person before you on that particular day. She was jizzed on her boob / mouth. She had so many penises in her mouth.
Don't even get me started about ass rimming.
Be aware. Be afraid. Be sensible.
Use you are head. STD / STI is for life while fun is for just 5 minutes.
Most of the so called FR are just bragging and imaginative stories. Pathetic stories of losers.
Even if I get hated, that's okay. I got help when I needed. So I am doing this, I got really good help.