Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=Yellow Fever #2]Pimpster,

I *may* be a sucker but at least I am a happy sucker. Honestly I don't know what things cost in PI so that is why I asked the question in the first place. I am satisfied and comfortable with the answer and very happy with my present result.

I believe the water bill may be high because she has to have the water trucked in daily to the house. Apparently the house is not hooked to the municipal water supply. Also remember there are lots of people in the house and it seems at least from my GF that they like to take long showers.

In any case I cannot fault my gf, she bought the land herself (Paranaque) and had the house built for herself and her family. In fact the house is not even completely finished as I just learned yesterday. She funded the complete enterprise by herself too and did it to help her family. I can only appreciate the efforts she did to get where they are now.

Perhaps in November I will have a clearer picture of where the funds are going. Certainly it would not be good for her (and us) if she was abusing my generosity - so I think now (at least) it is unlikely to happen.

She is very aware of my situation here in China and she could not be any more supportive of me than she is. I am very lucky to have her in my life.

HW,

I am sure my gf is aware of my mongering activities, just as I am aware of her previous BG self-employment. We are just very open and honest with each other. If we both give up the 'nightlife' (as we have promised), what do we really lose ? I think we can only gain.

I am completely happy with the life we share together, the sex is the best I ever had (and I have sampled hundreds of BGs around the world) and the relationship we have is wonderful. Both of us made sacrifices to be together, I hope we can only make our relationship stronger and that we can survive the test of time.

The way I see it: we cannot change the past, we can only take care of the present time and plan (or hope) for the future. I also think that there is not really much difference between being a monger and being a BG. The biggest difference is in the 'power' of the relationship, as the monger holds all the cards. I have seen a tremendous change in her attitude since we became 'equal' partners.

YF[/QUOTE]


If you are happy than, thats all the matter, but be always be prepared to pay for the choices you make. That way if sh*t hits the fan, your not going to be all [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off and everything. With regards to water truck etc.. I can assure you its not going to cost that much. I've personally paid for the type of water bill for one of my part time gf who was sick and couldn't work at the time when I was in PI. Keep in mind that a waitress working in a bar only makes 136 php a day and we are not talking about 8 hour shifts here. With the expenses you mention how in the hell were they getting by given the fact that the average filipino makes less than 100 dollars a month.

As I mention the supportive aspect or equal or whatever yo uwant to phrase often last only as long as the money does with bar girls, but to each his own good luck to yo umy friend.

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I would venture to guess that many of us living in the states don't even pay 45 dollars a month for water bill.[/QUOTE]I live in Nevada, with a 18,000 gallon swimming pool.

During this past summer, my water bill was $35.00 a month.

[QUOTE=Pimpster] With regards to water truck etc.. I can assure you its not going to cost that much. I've personally paid for the type of water bill for one of my part time gf who was sick and couldn't work at the time when I was in PI. [/QUOTE]

200 pesos to fill up a 50 gallon overhead tank. With a few living in a house, washing clothes, showers etc, this would last about 2 days. So you are talking of approx 3000 pesos (?65 dollars) a month. I know this because, where I live, we occasionally lose our mains supply, so have to get it trucked in. G

[QUOTE=Gamahucher]200 pesos to fill up a 50 gallon overhead tank. With a few living in a house, washing clothes, showers etc, this would last about 2 days. So you are talking of approx 3000 pesos (?65 dollars) a month. I know this because, where I live, we occasionally lose our mains supply, so have to get it trucked in. G[/QUOTE]

I'm not exactly sure where you are living but I paid for an entire month supply of water for 5 people in the house cost me 1000 php. I personally paid the bill, my whole thing is ok if you want to be generous and pay for it thats your call, but have the wits to ask for the bill. Its always amazes me how grown men can not ask for a bill, something that we do everyday in the u.s. but the moment we go overseas that common sense goes out the door. If you read his link, I think various people indicated it the amounts were excessive

[QUOTE=Robbaf]I don't know a good lawyer in Texas, but I do know that if you go to Guam and stay for 7 days, you can file a no contest divorce. In 6 months, if she don't respond, you get the divorce.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the input Rabbaf! I have heard of the Guam no-contest divorces, and tried to find as much information as I can on the Internet. However, the basic understanding I got from what I found, is that the no-contest divorce means that both the husband and the wife have agreed to settle things before asking the judge to sign the divorce decree. If you, or any fellow members, have different information about it, please provide it to me! A PM might be best for this, as we are getting a little off of the PI board topic here. :) If it can work the way you suggest, I might take my next vacation in Guam! I have to check out that board for mongering possibilities! :D

Happy Mongering!
HW

YF

My post was not meant to discourage you from marrying the girl. If that is what you want to do, and you feel it will make you happy, by all means do it. Don't let my, or anyone else's, opinion get in your way. I wish you and your new bride to be all the happiness in the world!

HW

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I'm not exactly sure where you are living but I paid for an entire month supply of water for 5 people in the house cost me 1000 php. I personally paid the bill, my whole thing is ok if you want to be generous and pay for it thats your call, but have the wits to ask for the bill. Its always amazes me how grown men can not ask for a bill, something that we do everyday in the u.s. but the moment we go overseas that common sense goes out the door. If you read his link, I think various people indicated it the amounts were excessive[/QUOTE]

Paranaque - 200p per delivery is the going rate for a truck to come to your house and fill your overhead tank, the only option many have. Perhaps your 1000p per month was for a piped water supply. My bill for this averages 400p a month but the supply is intermittent. G

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I'm preparing for my trip this january, last time i was in PI been a little over ayears ago. i was wondering if any of you guys have been staked when you got back to the u.s. With girls tracking you down etc...[/QUOTE]

I got a PO. box a block away from my home, best $50 I ever spent. Especailly now days, just for fun I put my address in the Google Street View.
The GSV is a stalkers paradise, it shows a very clear shot of my front house and my car in the driveway.

I found out the hard way, even if you use a calling card from a blocked home phone or work phone in the USA, they see your number on their cell phone caller id. It is a PI law that you can not block you phone number.

[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Paranaque - 200p per delivery is the going rate for a truck to come to your house and fill your overhead tank, the only option many have. Perhaps your 1000p per month was for a piped water supply. My bill for this averages 400p a month but the supply is intermittent. G[/QUOTE]

Actually mate, it was by truck so essentially its 1/3 of what your truck bill is. Maybe its the quality of the water maybe the company, or maybe the location wasn't as hard to get to as your own.

[QUOTE=Bob Bowie]I got a PO. box a block away from my home, best $50 I ever spent. Especailly now days, just for fun I put my address in the Google Street View.
The GSV is a stalkers paradise, it shows a very clear shot of my front house and my car in the driveway.

I found out the hard way, even if you use a calling card from a blocked home phone or work phone in the USA, they see your number on their cell phone caller id. It is a PI law that you can not block you phone number.[/QUOTE]


Wow, thats what I was afraid of a bunch of girls calling you up your home even if you use a calling card! Or worst yet they find out where you work via internet some employers will have your name on their company website as my hospital does. I never give the name of the hospital that I work at, but I'm sure that some resourceful could track me down if they know what city I live in. One would assume that you don't work like 200 miles from the place you work at. I had a girl admit she googled me that I met on DIA and it freaked me out.

I know for many its a crown jewel to get to pop some girls cherry, a lot of mongers from Asia, pay huge sums of money in order to do that. I don't know if any pro girl really has a real cherry. I would assume that cherry girls aren't really good in bed because of lack of experience. I have always shy away from cherry girls in the past, because most are naive and are expecting true love with bf. Recently, I've met several DIA girls that are cherry girls while we don't talk about sleeping together etc.. there is an assumption there. Just wondering who the rest of you more experience members feel about this subject? I personally have always felt that cherry girls should be left to those who have deep emotional affection for them or pretend to and are willing to invest time after the fact so she doesn't feel that she is only being used for sex.

[QUOTE=Pimpster]Actually mate, it was by truck so essentially its 1/3 of what your truck bill is. Maybe its the quality of the water maybe the company, or maybe the location wasn't as hard to get to as your own.[/QUOTE]

Wow man, this sounds an incredible deal! Can I have the name of the water trucking company? - I must use them myself. Now let me get this right. They will truck in an entire months supply for 1T pesos? How many deliveries will they make or is this unlimited? Can't be just 1 as it would take a fucking big truck and where would you put all that water? So if you use the standard 50 gallons every two days, that is 15 deliveries working out at (wait ...not very good at sums) 66 pesos per delivery. That is an incredible deal. This must be a hyper efficient company to cover water, fuel, labor costs etc etc at about a dollar and a half a pop and still make a profit. Are you sure its not just the local fire tender doing a bit of moonlighting on the side?

[QUOTE=Gamahucher]Wow man, this sounds an incredible deal! Can I have the name of the water trucking company? - I must use them myself. Now let me get this right. They will truck in an entire months supply for 1T pesos? How many deliveries will they make or is this unlimited? Can't be just 1 as it would take a fucking big truck and where would you put all that water? So if you use the standard 50 gallons every two days, that is 15 deliveries working out at (wait ...not very good at sums) 66 pesos per delivery. That is an incredible deal. This must be a hyper efficient company to cover water, fuel, labor costs etc etc at about a dollar and a half a pop and still make a profit. Are you sure its not just the local fire tender doing a bit of moonlighting on the side?[/QUOTE]

Unsure about the amount of deliveries mate, my temp lady provided me with the bill. I'm going to PI this january and will give you the info when i get it from my part time lady. We are not talking about like sparklet water truck with bottle wter right? The water truck is huge and pumps water into all the houses in the area. It seems to be 1/3 of what you are paying. I assume that your water habits are more western usage than typical asian. Keep in mind I'm not exactly how much water people use. I don't keep track of those matters. Anyways will pm you with info in late january, hope it helps yo umate. If you paying that much for water, you may want to drill. I'm sure you may be able to get ground water if you live in the sticks tropics

[QUOTE=Pimpster]I know for many its a crown jewel to get to pop some girls cherry, a lot of mongers from Asia, pay huge sums of money in order to do that. I don't know if any pro girl really has a real cherry. I would assume that cherry girls aren't really good in bed because of lack of experience. I have always shy away from cherry girls in the past, because most are naive and are expecting true love with bf. Recently, I've met several DIA girls that are cherry girls while we don't talk about sleeping together etc.. there is an assumption there. Just wondering who the rest of you more experience members feel about this subject? I personally have always felt that cherry girls should be left to those who have deep emotional affection for them or pretend to and are willing to invest time after the fact so she doesn't feel that she is only being used for sex.[/QUOTE]

Pimpster,

I personally love to be the first for a cherry girl. Not that I have had that experience so many times, but I have had it. The fun is in teaching them how to perform the acts that you love, and then watching them come up with ideas of things to try as well. A lot of times, I have learned a thing or two from the things she wants to try. Some things don't work good, but it's damned fun to try!

HW

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]Pimpster,

I personally love to be the first for a cherry girl. Not that I have had that experience so many times, but I have had it. The fun is in teaching them how to perform the acts that you love, and then watching them come up with ideas of things to try as well. A lot of times, I have learned a thing or two from the things she wants to try. Some things don't work good, but it's damned fun to try!

HW[/QUOTE]


Harry,

Do you promise them to be their bf and all that ? Is it just pop it and leave? It just seems a bit cruel to me to pop it and burst their bubble of saving it for their prince. I'm not juding you here, I'm just really envious because there are a few girls i ve met in the past and on dia that are pure virgins and I wold lvoe to pop, but I want all the drama and sh*t afterward. i would love to hear your stories of how you handle from start to end of that relationship and how you let the girls down etc...