Madras (Chennai)

[QUOTE=Pethidine;2225579]Before the deed.

First of all understand what happened with zumba then come to conclusion. I know the girl even before the meet but doesn't know who she was. Been follow her since facebook ID doesn't accept request I know each and everything about the zumba including her ex name which I've clearly explained to her before the meeting she is impressed with that excited to meet me for whole day for free of cost and I also said am interested in her which now realizing it was mistake. I've prepared the gift which cost me around 7 k.

Note: If she didn't like the idea she could have stopped me by here itself.

Day of meeting..[/QUOTE]But it looks like you got too attached and ended up losing a lot of money to a WG. Rookie mistake.

She played you like a fiddle. Almost all WG's game is to make the client feel she is attached to him so he keeps coming back and paying for more. And she did exactly that.

I won't blame her, she milked the cash cow for all it was worth. It's what I would have done if I was in that situation somehow.

Hope you learnt your lesson, which is 'Never get attached to a WG no matter how good of a GFE she provides.

Thanks for the details. A different angle of looking at this transaction between a 'service' consumer and a provider.

A question to All considering the various scenarios our mongers have been through. No sides intended here.

Scenario 1:

Guy (is new to the city) and girl (based out of the city) agree to have sex in exchange of money for 2 shots / 25 K and enter the room. Guy trusts the girl and hands over a portion / all the money to her, the girl keeps the money in her purse and they strip all naked. Before the deed can start, the girl suddenly gets unwell has a seizure and faints on the bed all naked.

The guy being new to town has no clue what to do next.

A) Does he leave the money in her purse and call any doctor and struggle to explain the situation.

B) Take the money as there was no service provided and reach out to the girls contacts on her phone and explain to them on what happened seeking help.

C) Take all of his money and run away leaving her behind in that state.

D) Should he forgo his money as it is now in her purse and pay for her medical expenses out of his pocket while dealing with her angry acquaintances which may also include getting beaten black and blue.

What would be your response if you were in such a situation?

Scenario 2:

Guy (based out of the city) and girl (is new to the city) agree to have sex in exchange of money for 2 shots / 25 K and enter the room. Guy trusts the girl and hands over a portion / all the money to her, the girl keeps the money in her purse and they strip all naked. Before the deed can start, the guy suddenly gets unwell has a seizure and faints on the bed all naked.

The girl being new to town has no clue what to do next.

A) does she leave with the money in her purse and call any doctor and struggle to explain the situation.

B) take the money as it was agreed and there was no service provided and as a courtesy reach out to the guy's contacts on his phone and explain to them on what happened seeking help.

C) take all of her money and run away leaving him behind in that state.

D) Should she forgo her money and pay for his expenses out of her pocket / with that money while dealing with his angry acquaintances which would include getting beaten black and blue.

What would be your response if you were in such a situation?

Would we side with the person who did not fulfill their verbal commitments there by breaking a relationship / would we side with one who took their rightful hard earned money and thought through the deal smartly?

The action taken in such cases is highly subjective and is instantaneous without an after thought of the circumstances. It gets quite interesting if there are multiple parties involved who helped facilitate the transaction and have an interest in the transaction being a success. It could be the room provider, it could be a friend who referred the girl and gets his reputation damaged / SP who facilitated the interaction and gets a cut. It boils down to how we view this in its entirety either as a monetary transaction / as a way to engage in building a relationship and honoring a verbal commitment.

In such cases, a win-win scenario / negotiation would have borne fruit. In my experience, situations where a certain deal would not have fallen through because of various reasons can be handled tacitly with a verbal apology of not honoring the deal and an agreeable token amount to meet the expenses (both visible and hidden) incurred including protection money.

I am just at loss of words for the pain felt by Rajoo, the Junior Lawyer and LbJeff in this entire complex situation and its awful aftermath. Hope the wounds heel, people forgive but not forget the lessons learned.

Got this bird from a SP I contacted through Loc. SP claims she is a Mallu and quite new in business. Quoting 10 k per shot with place. Deed will be at SP's place only. Has any brother here tasted this bird? I am trying to negotiate and bring price to 8 k. Is she worth it?

After I read this post I felt so bad. Here we fight a lot rather than sharing experiences. I have few friends here who helped me with contacts initially now I started building on my own.

"Have you ever taken a glance at the Indian forums? Jeezus, what a chaotic zoo. Everyone constantly begging for contacts. No reports afterwards.

Actually, almost no reports period. When the Indians come to China, all they do is post a request for contacts without RTFF, despite the fact that many Chinese forums are active, recent, full of useful info even for noobs. True for HK thread as well. And these guys relentless bargain with the girls for less money and more return. Many Chinese girls steer clear of Indians for this reason, and ironically the Indians think it is racism when it is mostly justified."

Thank you.

Wolverine.

Hi all,

Could anyone please share SP love contacts by PM. Would be a great help.

Thanks.

Started exploring few MPs in Chennai after a very long time.

Bat spa on ECR. Very easy to locate and what a huge bungalow. They must be paying in lakhs for the rent itself. Only NE and Thai was available. Chose NE. She was totally professional, didn't give any hint for extras when asked. She was more talking about her financial issues and how less she was earning there.

Next to their branch near merchant place.

Thai, Burmese and NE were free that time. Chose Burmese. She too spoke like hearing for first time about extras and finally agreed for HJ.

Both of them very average, but had a excellent massage.

Then the one at foldpakkam. First I went there directly asking for a massage referred by a friend, the receptionist said there is no massage. Then I checked locanto and called the ones in that area. My very first call went to that place and she directed me to the same location. She was surprised to see me again. They have packages from 1.5 to 8.5 k. But very very average looking. Depends on your taste and situation. Chose a basic B2B.

Overall a very average experience at all these places except for good massage at ECR place.

[QUOTE=Casnova007;2226936]Got this bird from a SP I contacted through Loc. SP claims she is a Mallu and quite new in business. Quoting 10 k per shot with place. Deed will be at SP's place only. Has any brother here tasted this bird? I am trying to negotiate and bring price to 8 k. Is she worth it?[/QUOTE]10 k per shot is expensive. Is it worth it? Only you can decide. Given that quick visits are $60 or 50 Euros etc. Even in other places, this is just way too expensive.

[QUOTE=VeerXXX;2226726]But it looks like you got too attached and ended up losing a lot of money to a WG. Rookie mistake.

She played you like a fiddle. Almost all WG's game is to make the client feel she is attached to him so he keeps coming back and paying for more. And she did exactly that.

I won't blame her, she milked the cash cow for all it was worth. It's what I would have done if I was in that situation somehow.

Hope you learnt your lesson, which is 'Never get attached to a WG no matter how good of a GFE she provides.[/QUOTE]While your advice of never getting attached to a WG is very good, I understood Pethidine's relationship with Zumba girl was going to be a Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby relationships. That way she limits the number of people she sees and the SD gets his time when he wants. Guess that didn't work out perhaps because she became a SB to someone else who was going to pay a lot more.

Vanakkam Chennai,

I am visiting Chennai next week. Staying until Wednesday. Can you please help brother out. I will be staying in a 4 star hotel, need someone who can come in with out attention. I will return the favor, when your in Bangalore.

Thanks.

Sam.

Money is an important factor and is discussed all over in the mongering world. The working girls spread their legs on seeing your money and obviously not on your looks. For instance, in Western Europe, prices are fixed in their red-light districts. Before starting the deed, you can directly negotiate with the girls about the total time you can spend with her and what she does and what she doesn't perform during the act. Most girls will charge you an extra ten euros for a blowjob without condom or some may even charge a small amount for switching positions. All these are negotiable and the western guys are very good at negotiations. Even in Bangkok and pattaya, I have seen people of all nationalities negotiating hard, so don't blame it only on Indians. The situation here is totally different, if you can have a working girl for 3 k at the SP's place, what is the point in meeting her outside for a wicked price of 10-15 K?

Cheers,

Chris.

[QUOTE=XMen69;2226942]After I read this post I felt so bad. Here we fight a lot rather than sharing experiences. I have few friends here who helped me with contacts initially now I started building on my own.

"Have you ever taken a glance at the Indian forums? Jeezus, what a chaotic zoo. Everyone constantly begging for contacts. No reports afterwards.

Actually, almost no reports period. When the Indians come to China, all they do is post a request for contacts without RTFF, despite the fact that many Chinese forums are active, recent, full of useful info even for noobs. True for HK thread as well. And these guys relentless bargain with the girls for less money and more return. Many Chinese girls steer clear of Indians for this reason, and ironically the Indians think it is racism when it is mostly justified."

Thank you.

Wolverine.[/QUOTE]

Hello brothers,

Have been talking to a lady who says she's the wife of an army guy and is in Adyar. The DP looks nice and she's quoting 6 K for a night. Has anyone had luck with her? She had mentioned a 2 K advance initially, hasn't been repeating. If she insists on advance, I know it's a scam. However, checking.

I would like to ask Rajoooo and their group why it's them whenever they share any so called Inde contact it comes back to haunt them. If it's an Inde why you guys play a middlemen role here. I don't know I want to ask the Chennai forum members especially who hail and praise the Rajoo and their group. When is the last time you got an Inde contact and the person who shared a contact told you this is the budget and place which is not negotiable. Even though I have mongered in Europe when I started here I reached out to Rajoo and Coolsp for inde contacts. Rajoo didn't respond I am thanking god for it now but Coolsp responded and shared a picture. To be frank she was not looking good and to my liking so I asked him another contact. I did not get any response from him after that. I tried reaching out by sending 2 follow up mail but no reply so I stopped reaching out. I really pity on LbJeff for this incident sorry mate you went through this and people in this forum even seniors are like, this is bad, things like this shouldn't happen. I hope they are matured enough to understand there is always two sides of the story. I know you should have backed out when you did not like her but I don't know why Rajoo was acting like a SP in this case.

I have seen this happening time after time in Chennai forum were Rajoo and their group will share FR's about a lady and other members of their group will start hailing for the catch. After that they will start selling the contact with other members for enormous amount. And at the end they will end the chapter of the contact like this or saying she is out of this league. Guys pleas wake up you know it better what amount who have to pay for a girl. For example if you take HR girl she was praised but if you search the FR in the forum there is FR's which says she is not good for the amount.

I am not sure why your group when they post FR you guys don't share picture of a gal with face covered. And if you are not ready to share the contact then please don't post FR here. We don't want to hear any good stories here.

Thanks.

Hi guys,

Finally using the level of intelligence I have and cracking both the wall and my head for three days I was able to figure out what the Bat Spa meant and not to forget the partial thanking I have to convey to the Bat matches going on which actually enlightened me. I went to this Bat spa around the CP area. Only 2 were available and I picked the only dusky one and she was NE. Then the usual stuff dispos, wait and then she comes in, the massage went on for 30 min and was OK then I flip and hinted her of the extras she gave me the menu and I opted for the top of the list 2 k B2B. She started with no oil and I instead and said it is not slipper as it should be but she was not interested. Then I said forget the B2B and just release me and I saw her mood changing and I immediately told her that I would pay as agreed. Then it's the same thing till the end.

Total damage was 4.5 K.

[QUOTE=GiveMeMore87;2227375]I would like to ask Rajoooo and their group why it's them whenever they share any so called Inde contact it comes back to haunt them. If it's an Inde why you guys play a middlemen role here. I don't know I want to ask the Chennai forum members especially who hail and praise the Rajoo and their group. When is the last time you got an Inde contact and the person who shared a contact told you this is the budget and place which is not negotiable. Even though I have mongered in Europe when I started here I reached out to Rajoo and Coolsp for inde contacts. Rajoo didn't respond I am thanking god for it now but Coolsp responded and shared a picture. To be frank she was not looking good and to my liking so I asked him another contact. I did not get any response from him after that. I tried reaching out by sending 2 follow up mail but no reply so I stopped reaching out. I really pity on LbJeff for this incident sorry mate you went through this and people in this forum even seniors are like, this is bad, things like this shouldn't happen. I hope they are matured enough to understand there is always two sides of the story. I know you should have backed out when you did not like her but I don't know why Rajoo was acting like a SP in this case..[/QUOTE]Mr. Givememore,

Thanks for your writing. If you feel we are hiking the price with the indes and we enjoying in the background that's not mine / our problem. That's your thought and I am not here to justify it. I know what I am and the group know who they are and people who are not a part of our group and to whom we have helped know who we are. Also sir, there is no mandate that if we write FR we need to share the contact to each and everyone. It's our own wish & right to share to whom we want. If somebody comes to us and we refer a girl, we say the price what we gave to her. Its up-to you to accept the same and go ahead. If you do not like, you have all the privilege in this world to say thank you and not proceed. We have never held anybody by their collar and told you must meet this girl. And lastly if you are not interested to hear our so called stories, you are always welcome to ignore our report with all due respect.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=GiveMeMore87;2227375]I would like to ask Rajoooo and their group why it's them whenever they share any so called Inde contact it comes back to haunt them. If it's an Inde why you guys play a middlemen role here. I don't know I want to ask the Chennai forum members especially who hail and praise the Rajoo and their group. When is the last time you got an Inde contact and the person who shared a contact told you this is the budget and place which is not negotiable. Even though I have mongered in Europe when I started here I reached out to Rajoo and Coolsp for inde contacts. Rajoo didn't respond I am thanking god for it now but Coolsp responded and shared a picture. To be frank she was not looking good and to my liking so I asked him another contact. I did not get any response from him after that. I tried reaching out by sending 2 follow up mail but no reply so I stopped reaching out. I really pity on LbJeff for this incident sorry mate you went through this and people in this forum even seniors are like, this is bad, things like this shouldn't happen. I hope they are matured enough to understand there is always two sides of the story. I know you should have backed out when you did not like her but I don't know why Rajoo was acting like a SP in this case..[/QUOTE]Hello folks,

1. I haven't come across any rule in this forum that declares seniors to reach out and help all newbies. Maybe someone can point it to me the same if I had missed it somewhere.

2. Accept the fact that FRs make our life more interesting and spicy, else this forum will be boring as hell. This is not a telephone directory where you share contacts and leave.

3. So much effort goes to unearth a gem and make the girl trust you. Small suggestion: Try referring a newbie you trust and when he misbehaves, you will understand the pain of losing that contact, then you won't talk like this.

4. The look and experience is totally subjective and depends on the individual. Please stop generalizing or pointing out any girl in particular. They are also fellow human beings who have a heart and first learn to respect that. Also people once build trust with a person they generally share the pic of girl. This has happened with me too! So just be patient and prove your worthiness.

5. No one is forcing anyone to pay or try anyone. There is Locanto or so many other forums where you can first burn your money and later come to ISG and act matured!

This forum has given me so many nice friends & experiences and a lot more to come!

Let's all together make this Chennai chapter more vibrant and cultivate brotherhood. My humble request is to each one of you to stop this blame game, act matured, monger and enjoy the sweet pleasures of life.

All the best! Have a fantabulous safe Mongering Season!!

Yours,

Ram.