All around the world the same song
[QUOTE=ChicoBonito;3033774]Thank you for the great tips and anecdotes, Trip!
How and when do you broach the subject of payment? What do you say so that both of you are clear on what you expect from each other? I have a lot of experience with talking and flirting with women, with relationships, with running pickup. But what I don't really know is how to politely ask a woman if she's a hoe or interested in being a hoe.
Is there anything you say beforehand when you first meet them or when you are setting up a date to imply that you are expecting sex and willing to pay for it? Do you just literally never talk about it and simply assume she's game for that, and then just give her whatever amount of money you decide is appropriate when you say goodbye after sex or a night over? Seems to me that learning the smooth way to do this all would be just as applicable to chicas met online as ones met when out and about.
Regarding streetwalkers at the parks, etc, after having read years worth of posts on here (and Sosua thread) of many guys complaining how bad the street scene keeps getting, I don't have high expectations for that. I love casas in Colombia, but sounds like in the DR they're different and overpriced. So I think most of my time will be spent on dating site chicas, and maybe I will try to be extra friendly and forward with "normal" women out and about and see what I can pull. But it would still be nice to meet and chat with some other guys who are experienced in this country, so thank you again for the recommendations on the cool hangout spots. And thanks for the safety tip about drug-dealer groupies at clubs![/QUOTE]It works the same way it does at home. You go on the dating sites and you could handle it two ways. 1. straight up tell her you'll her this (around 3 k pesos) to fuck actually you should say this on whats app in a facetime call not on the app itself. If the girl is wearing a bikini in her picture she's a working girl for sure 9 times out of ten a girl will ask you upfront for money. Or #2. you could not say anything and invite her to your hotel or Airbnb for drinks and give her 2 or 3 K plus taxi after however you run the risk of the girl causing a scene and or messing it up for the next gringo that she deals with.
If you go to the clubs like Mixxer understand if you get the number of a non drug dealers girlfriend it will cost you at least 100 USD same thing with the casino girls.
What I did was get respect by giving respect. You take a girl out on a date (a lot of times I did a day trip to Boca Chica) and I gave her 300 pesos an hour for non sexual time and 1500 for sex. I didn't tell her this this was the math that I put in my head if the date lasted longer than 5 hours of non sexual time I'd round it up to 8 hours if it went longer than 8 hours of non sexual time I'd pay for each hour over 8 hours. If she overnights I pay 1500 and 700 pesos for each additional nut but I don't pay more than 1900 pesos no matter how long I fuck. If she hangs around after breakfast and I\m willing to spend more time with her the clock starts again.
But for a first timers I would definitely grab a seat beside the WiseMen and gather intel about any chica that tickles your fancy. Usually the guys are there around 10 to 11 am then they adjourn to the Cigar Bar around 4 or 5 pm.
That's really all there is to it.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.
Stupid is what stupid does
[QUOTE=TheCane;3034060]Actually, a smart hoor knows that even she has a rep to protect. After all, there are "good" hoors and "bad" hoors. And a smart hoor knows that being the former helps keep the money flowing in. The problem is that there are a lot of dumb hoors addicted to only short term thinking. And it's the dumb ones who don't care that their reputations precede them.[/QUOTE]Yes but like the old commerical in the DMV said And educated comsumer is our best customer.
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNJddycHvYo[/URL]
Smart hoors depend on clueless foreign mongers every expat knows that a Dominican usually pays about 500 pesos to fuck. Try that in a sex tourism town as an expat and report back /.
Hope this Helps.
Trip.
The adventure in Santo Domingo begins.
Thank you guys for all the useful advice, info, and answers to my recent questions. I'm sure they'll come in handy as I am now enjoying my first time in the Dominican Republic (even though all the rain has kept me from doing much sight-seeing so far.) I already had my first Tinder date last night, a chica from Bonao who came to SD to see me. We had a fun night of dinner and karaoke, then back to my place and had great sex. Lots of chemistry and passion, a sweet and fun woman. She slept over and took an early bus this morning back to her town in time for work.
I'm liking the city, although I haven't seen much of it yet, I feel safer here than I have in the big cities in Colombia and Brazil. Had a delicious lunch at a great spot near the Zona Colonial called Villar Hermanos. I'm staying near the Agora Mall, so I went to go check it out, even took a quick stroll through the food court to see if there was any talent to my liking there.
I'm planning more dates and prepago sessions throughout the week from the long list of Dominican chicas I've added to my Whatsapp from Tinder. I'll write reports here for any meetups I think are noteworthy. Hopefully not as delayed as the reports I posted last week in the Medellin thread.
Stay safe and have fun!