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Getting old sucks
To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.
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[QUOTE=Lefeu;2464436]Yes, there is a bus. I took it myself several times but I don't remember the bus number. You may find all the info you need if you go to the San Ysidro bus website (or possibly the greater San Diego public transpirtation). Sorry but I don't remember the details.[/QUOTE]That bus is specifically for those coming back via Ped West. I took it once a couple years ago. You can walk also or take cab / uber I believe. Is all how you want to "roll".
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2464454]To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.[/QUOTE]Are you stressed out? Do you have negative thoughts towards someone or a group of people? Are you worried about covid-19? Sometimes mental issues could affect libido. Think pleasant thoughts, watch porn but don't masturbate to get those juices flowing to your scrotum.
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[QUOTE=Turgid;2464544]Are you stressed out? Do you have negative thoughts towards someone or a group of people? Are you worried about covid-19? Sometimes mental issues could affect libido. Think pleasant thoughts, watch porn but don't masturbate to get those juices flowing to your scrotum.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with your questions which illustrate that the key is to relax.
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Observations
All the bars are running girls out of their affiliated hotel, but only one has its act together and it's interestingly enough Bar Tropical. The streets were pretty empty aside from the usual touts and paraditas and the reason is all the mongers were holed up in Hotel Rizo. They basically have an entire floor with 8-10 large rooms set up Korean karaoke room style for guys to room hop. Of course there is no karaoke machine and the furniture is setup differently but same concept. On a Monday night they had as many girls and customers as I'd normally see in Bar Tropical on a Thursday night.
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2464454]To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.[/QUOTE]Hehehehe, when I wore a younger mans clothing, as in when I started in earnest mongering back in about 1997 I would have to jack-off a few hours before a visit to get laid then 2 or 3 hours later was full steam ahead, things just slow down over time.
I can't count how many times back between 1997 through about 2005 on hundreds of trips driving down from LOS Angeles to Tijuana I would stop and jack-off just to be ready for my favorite chicas at the Chicago club later that evening.
Now I need to be sure to manage any stress, eat right, sleep good, not be on any medication, exercise, keep good state of mind, when I do this I enjoy great sex with no issues but only need sex about every other day now. Just another reason why the young 18 to 22 yo here in Medellin Colombia, where I live, love an older guy.
The Tall Man.
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Getting old sucks
Hi TjBrazil,
You are not alone. Most guys after mid 40's have occasional erectile problems.
I am not an MD, but by following erectile dysfunction problems, I understand there are usually underlying physiological causes, obesity, diabetes, plaque, high cholesterol, high blood pressure, cardio-vascular problems ect. Which inhibit the libido and prevent the erection on occasions. Psychological stresses or apprehension often worsen the physiological problems. A few of my healthy and strong wingmen in their mid 30's even have to face this problem every trip to Tijuana, swallowing a whole 100 MG generic Sidelnafyl pill on the way down to make sure they can perform with hot girls in the hotel hehe.
It's a known problem for men to quickly get excited and raise erections with familiar partners; new and desirable sex partners really help. That's the main reasons men are always look for new sex partners. La Zona really helps with the availability of many hot girls with convenient and easy access. Porn really help stimulating both men and women. Playing porn on a large screen TV in your bedroom usually turn both parties red hot for action. Uncooperative wives have been known to to get drippy wet watching porn in bed with a little manual stimulation hehe.
Your own porn with your favorite sex partners showing lots of sexy expressions can trigger memory recalls of excitements and sensual pleasures, and can be a great aphrodisiac. A few hot HK girls have offered me unrestrictive sex with videos for modest sums. It may be worthwhile to record your own memorable sexual experiences for future use. Just make sure the wife don't see you as the main porn star hehe.
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Getting Old (er).
[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2464454]To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.[/QUOTE]"I'm not as good as I once was. But, I'm as good once as I ever was." LOL.
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2464454]To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.[/QUOTE]Get used to it. Live a healthy life including sleep, exercise, weight control, hydration, and healthy food. Have your doctor check everything out including testosterone. Even with all those measures it is unlikely to return you to the 20 year old version of you. At age 55 I was at 2 or 3 per day while on vacation. 10 years later it's a struggle to do multiples per day.
I've tried some over the counter supplements and they do just a little for me. ED meds and testosterone therapy can be effective. Nothing is perfect.
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2464454]To the guys that are in their 50's and 60's and 70's if you aren't dead. What the f is happening to my libido. I can stay hard during a blowjob but can't nut as fast as before. Sometimes after the first nut I can't do a second even if it's a 30 minute or more BJ. I can't do more than 1 or 2 girls in a 24 hour period. 10 years ago I was still pretty potent at 40. Now I feel like I'm ready for the graveyard. If these girls weren't young I don't even know how I would get it up for a 50 year old wife.[/QUOTE]I am also 50. ONE and done for me. That's why I choose my pfp locations very carefully these days. I need things to do besides pfp to keep me occupied. Granted on a good day I can still manage 2 if the service is spot on and my buzz is working on target. Doesn't happen often though.
Some guys don't care about finishing. They just like to pump for a long time. That does nothing for me. It is all about the orgasm. If my orgasm sensation drops then I would rather re-charge and wait however long it takes. In old age you learn QUALITY over quantity.
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Bus. Again?
First of all, thank you very much to you guys that responded. Very kind of you.
Sorry to be a pain but I think I wasn't clear when asking my question.
Supposedly, this bus runs on the Tijuana side & one of the things it does is drop you near the CBP station, allowing riders to completely pass up the long pedestrian lines. You get off the bus &, I assume, walk directly towards passport control?
I've heard talk of it as recently as within the last several days, so it must be running at Ped East, as we all know Ped West is closed. (Unless they meant Otay, but I don't think so).
I've heard people say stuff like "skipping a 2 hour line was totally worth the $7" or "totally worth the $20" or whatever the cost may be.
Sound familiar, anyone? If so, I'm looking for answers to the questions listed below.
Thanks again, folks. Hope you can all forgive me being a royal pain in the culo. Maybe it will help some of the other poor souls, who like me, don't have SENTRI.
Gracias.
JH.
[QUOTE=JH1001;2464403]Howdy gents,
I've heard some talk about a bus at Ped East when crossing back to San Ysidro. It seems you pay some amount of money to board & it takes you past the long pedestrian line & directly to the CBP building.
Can someone give me some info on this, please?
Specifically:
Where *exactly* does one catch the bus?
How much does it cost (pay in $ or Pesos)?
Hours of operation?
Is it really legal or is someone running some kind of shady deal to make an extra buck?
As always, thank you all very much for the wealth of knowledge you so kindly provide.
JH.[/QUOTE]
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A utube woman living in mexico went on a rant complaining about men her age. 40. They only bang her once than need a break or are finished. She said she mostly bangs guys in their 20's now. I use viagra. Otherwise I could only have sex in small windows. With viagra if I'm not drinking, its about 99% effective. Drinking and viagra maybe 90%. Definitely recomend the viagra. If it's a regular tinder girl, and she does her job too, I can go a few times in 2 hours.
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I know exactly the bus you are talking about. I've used it once, a few years ago. If memory serves me, it is 6 or 7 dollars. Was it worth it? Not in my opinion. I can't confirm it still works like this but my experience: you pay your fee then wait for the next bus. I remember waiting about 15 minutes. Then you get on the bus and they do drive you about half a mile and it does drop you off at the front of the line. When I did it, basically it formed its own line. At the time, there was still a general lane, ready lane and then this 3rd bus line. When it was time to let people in, CBP would alternate between the three lines.
Did it save me time? Not much, if any. But the man (gringo) that told me about it swears by it. I never did take it again. You pick it up near a parking lot. I don't know the name of the road. But if you walk into Tijuana from PedEast, walk to Farmacia Milenio, and keep walking about a quarter mile past that, it's there on the left. The buses used to be branded as Ticketron, if I remember correctly.
[QUOTE=JH1001;2464658]First of all, thank you very much to you guys that responded. Very kind of you.
Sorry to be a pain but I think I wasn't clear when asking my question.
Supposedly, this bus runs on the Tijuana side & one of the things it does is drop you near the CBP station, allowing riders to completely pass up the long pedestrian lines. You get off the bus &, I assume, walk directly towards passport control?
I've heard talk of it as recently as within the last several days, so it must be running at Ped East, as we all know Ped West is closed. (Unless they meant Otay, but I don't think so).
I've heard people say stuff like "skipping a 2 hour line was totally worth the $7" or "totally worth the $20" or whatever the cost may be..[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=JH1001;2464658]Sorry to be a pain but I think I wasn't clear when asking my question.
Thanks again, folks. Hope you can all forgive me being a royal pain in the culo. Maybe it will help some of the other poor souls, who like me, don't have SENTRI.
[/QUOTE]Your question was clear. When there are long lines at Ped East, there is sometimes, not always, a person that walks around near the end of the long line, offering a bus / van ride to the front of the line. It can be 5, 6, 7 bucks.
Sometimes, it is a great deal for some, while others end up sitting in the damn bus / van for a long time, and in the heat, it sucks (so I heard).
Disclaimer, I never used the service because I've always had Sentri. But I do know several others that used the service and they have mixed reviews.
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1st night
My 1st night had its ups and downs. Paid 300 pesos for a taxi from the airport to Cascadas and got roped into tipping the driver 50 more. Got the VIP card at HK and got roped into tipping the concierge another 5 $. Finally got my money exchanged, SIM card bought and everything ready around 7 ish. Went out walking and got pulled in by a girl standing on a street corner. I'the call her a 6/10,25 $ including 5 $ for the hotel. She demanded money upfront which I should've taken as a bad sign right away but it was my first of the trip so I paid her. Once her clothes were off, I noticed she had much smaller boobs than her bra indicated. No BJ, a little hand action and I start fucking her doggy. Never even took her mask off. She's was pretty dead fish and smelled pretty bad from behind so I asked her to switch positions. She told me it would cost another 300 pesos so I just cut my losses and leave without finishing. 2/10 session. It doesn't take me long to find another cute skinny girl named Yvonne. Funnily enough, she brings me back to the same hotel. Still 5 for the room and 20 for her. Unfortunately, her boobs were also deceptively small. Luckily she was very accommodating with what I wanted but she wasn't very into the sex and wouldn't allow kissing. A few positions later, I finish in the bag, tip her an extra 5 and am on my way. 5/10 session.
I stop for a quick couple tacos and decide to try and get one more in before calling it a night since I had work early this morning. Found a pretty cute blonde girl in a school girl skirt. She told me her name but I didn't quite understand her and was too embarrassed to ask a third time. This time, I invite her up to my room in cascadas. She asked me how long I wanted and I said short time is good. We get to my room and she asks how many minutes I want and idk what to say so I say 20-30 ish. She asks for 50 $ and at this point, I'm pot committed so I say okay. This girl was a lot better in bed. Passionate, kisses all over, multiple positions and moaning the whole time. After 3-4 positions, I end up popping in CG using the sex chair cascada seems to have in their rooms. She gave me her number so might repeat again tonight.
A couple interesting things I learned. A random Mexican guy pulled me aside as I was walking and asked if I wanted to go to HK club. I told him my hotel was cascadas and he said oh you just came from there? It sounds like HK is secretly open and you just need someone to take you to the secret entrance?
Also, I found a blonde street girl who was a little older that I was interested in. I agreed to the standard price but she refused to go up to my hotel room and was adamant we went to hers so I bailed. Not sure if it is a lack of communication from my poor Spanish but I found it interesting she wouldn't come.
Also, I find it weird that none of the girls here shower or ask you to shower before sex. It made me feel pretty grimy the first couple sessions, especially with the girl who smelled like shit but I guess that's something I'll get use to.
Also, I noticed that there doesn't seem to be many girls with fake tits. Maybe it's just that I haven't been to a bar / club yet but most of the street girls seem to be either insanely skinny or very overweight.
I'm pumped for night 2 but sadly have work early in the morning again tomorrow. But if anyone else is in the area, PM me and we can meet up at some point.
NAK.