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[quote=peeman;1422675]i've been on a few dating websites like cb (dia is not avialable for my country) and in two months haven't met somebody willing to hook up with me for a few days.[/quote]dia is available in pi, so sign up when you arrive. see who is online and set up a date for that evening or the next day. i've done this before and it does work. many girls have the attention span of a gnat and will forget about the date you setup several weeks before anyway. if you let them know that you are actually there in pi and free to meet right away then it can really get their attention. however, definitely give them a time window of no more than an hour or so. do not get trapped into waiting all day for them to show up. just say you are free for coffee / lunch / dinner / whatever at such and such time and if they don't show move on to the next girl.
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[QUOTE=Irony Monger;1422909]. However, definitely give them a time window of no more than an hour or so. Do not get trapped into waiting all day for them to show up. Just say you are free for coffee / lunch / dinner / whatever at such and such time and if they don't show move on to the next girl.[/QUOTE]Just to re-iterate I M's comment reproduced above.
You must be VERY VERY (note the CAPS) explicit regarding time. Tell them you will wait no longer than 30 minutes from the designated time. If they are not there by that time make it clear that you will NO LONGER be waiting. Say this at least twice (3 times will be better).
Many girls wait until you text that you are already there waiting before they leave home, because apparently many asshole guys set up meetings and don't show and the girl is left with transport costs to meet that, in many cases, she can ill afford. Those girls who have experienced this behavior become hardened and distrustful no matter how much you reassure them.
I have been banging on about this "time" factor for years and as I live here I guess I can afford to be more tolerant to waste an hour or 2 here or there, but if you are visiting and time is golden, then the Filipino time factor will drive you crazy. You really must spell it out in big BOLD terms about being on time, give or take 15 to 30 mins because of unexpected traffic delays.
The concept of being "early" and roaming around a mall or sitting quietly and waiting until the designated time seems to be lost on a majority of filipinos.
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Well put RK.
And then if you take the "if you can't beat them, join them" attitude. In other words planning on being 30min late. You can be sure the gal will be right on time.
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1422994]Just to re-iterate I M's comment reproduced above.
You must be VERY VERY (note the CAPS) explicit regarding time.
SNIP.
The concept of being "early" and roaming around a mall or sitting quietly and waiting until the designated time seems to be lost on a majority of filipinos.[/QUOTE]
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heh ok. i usually give a 20 minute interval for any appointment. i'll just setup any appointmant at ayala mall and scout for fls in the meantime.
is it possible to take any of the bar girls i meet in the evening for a few days? and safe?
-peeman
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[quote=peeman;1423028]is it possible to take any of the bar girls i meet in the evening for a few days? and safe?[/quote]depends on how you want to do it. do you want to meet them during the day before work? certainly, just ask and tip decently. do you want them all to yourself for several days? most likely you will need to pay their barfine for all the days in advance. safe? depends on the girl, but always keep your valuables locked up in any case, even with someone you "trust".
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[quote=irony monger;1423194]depends on how you want to do it. do you want to meet them during the day before work? certainly, just ask and tip decently. do you want them all to yourself for several days? most likely you will need to pay their barfine for all the days in advance. safe? depends on the girl, but always keep your valuables locked up in any case, even with someone you "trust".[/quote]is it possible to take a bar gal within 3000php per day? what if i pay in advance and she runs away back within a day. i mean is it known to happen or do they follow the ethics of the trade?
-peeman
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[quote=peeman;1423259]is it possible to take a bar gal within 3000php per day? what if i pay in advance and she runs away back within a day. i mean is it known to happen or do they follow the ethics of the trade?[/quote]in ac you can definitely a girl for less than that. i took a girl out of a perimeter bar in ac for a three day trip and she stayed with me the whole time. between the barfine and tip it was less than 3k/day, but if you also count all my expenses for two people during those days it was more (good food, a bit of shopping for her, etc.). if you are talking about burgos st. girls it will almost certainly be more expensive.
in any case, if you pay the bar fine and you make it clear to the mamasan or bar manager that you expect her to stay with you for those days and she doesn't, then you can go back to the bar and complain and most likely get at least a partial refund. i have never needed to do that, but like i said i only took a girl away for multiple days in advance once before and it worked out just fine, other than the fact that i got a bit tired of her after day 2 lol!
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thanks. which bar in cebu has the best looking gals? i have only one evening and a few hours to pick up one and a one or two glass beer drinker. so i cannot really go bar hopping or stay late.
-peeman
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[quote=peeman; 1423765]thanks. which bar in cebu has the best looking gals? i have only one evening and a few hours to pick up one and a one or two glass beer drinker. so i cannot really go bar hopping or stay late.
-peeman[/quote]arena bar has the best looking girls. but the barfines are quite expensive ranging from 7, 000 to 10, 000. definetly not for mongers like dante that are on a tight budget. next best probably mermaids where the barfine is about 4000 pesos.
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[quote=boofa69;1423942]arena bar has the best looking girls. but the barfines are quite expensive ranging from 7, 000 to 10, 000. definetly not for mongers like dante that are on a tight budget. next best probably mermaids where the barfine is about 4000 pesos.[/quote]sigh! too expensive for me. i am more comfortable around 2500php + another 700 to 800 peso for food and drinks.
how far is this from ayala mall btw? walkable? i stay at quest. are there bars where i can pick up an fl for a few days instead? i am hoping an fl would come at this price?
-peeman
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[quote=peeman; 1424186]sigh! too expensive for me. i am more comfortable around 2500php + another 700 to 800 peso for food and drinks.
how far is this from ayala mall btw? walkable? i stay at quest. are there bars where i can pick up an fl for a few days instead? i am hoping an fl would come at this price?
-peeman[/quote]yes, ayala mall is walkalble from quest. freelancers at ayala mall can be had for 1500 pesos that is the market price. even less if they come from the province. there is a disco bar called jl formely known as juliana's where you can pick up freelancers. this is located at mango square. very popular among foreigners.
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peeman, if you need a gal for the beach i think you should be supplementing your barfine and fl plans with some online gals. with the exception of an ac dancer that i took to subic for a few nights, most of my short accompanied excursions were with gals i met online.
as for the delicate issue of giving her some, umm, donation, the surreptitious handbag deposit and the "travel / taxi expenses" have been mentioned before. another tactic i use is hand her some cash for holding. if she asks why, i tell her that if my wallet was stolen / lost we would still have money. hope you have a good trip. x.
boofa, mermaid is 4000 now? i haven't been there in years. have you been in any of the other lapu2 bars?
[quote=peeman; 1424186]sigh! too expensive for me. i am more comfortable around 2500php + another 700 to 800 peso for food and drinks.
how far is this from ayala mall btw? walkable? i stay at quest. are there bars where i can pick up an fl for a few days instead? i am hoping an fl would come at this price?
-peeman[/quote]
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X man one other bar I've been too in lapu lapu is Happy Dreams. Barfine 3500 pesos. There's a few good lookers here. Whats good about this bar is you get to see some girls dance nude later in the evening. Also its located next to your favourite bar Tarzan boy as we all know you have visited on a few occasions.
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[quote=peeman; 1423765]thanks. which bar in cebu has the best looking gals? i have only one evening and a few hours to pick up one and a one or two glass beer drinker. so i cannot really go bar hopping or stay late.
-peeman[/quote]why not ask this in the cebu section? and i agree with xman. far too many questions and you are like dante2 a cheap charlie as you want things on the cheap. i know arena girls and even though i don't know you i can summise they won't touch you with a barge pole as you ask cheap questions. they are used to jap / koreans spoiling them with their small todgers and fast come times lol
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[QUOTE=Boofa69;1424215]Yes, Ayala mall is walkalble from Quest. Freelancers at Ayala mall can be had for 1500 pesos that is the market price. Even less if they come from the province. There is a disco bar called JL formely known as Juliana's where you can pick up freelancers. This is located at Mango Square. Very popular among foreigners.[/QUOTE]JL? I think you mean J. Ave which was formally called Julianas.
